Here because you're actually a MOTHER doing this soft life thing :) As a fellow Mom, I feel that you'll bring a level of realness to this because things completely changed for me since having children.
When I clicked the video I didn’t know she was a mom & honestly when I heard BREASTMILK I was like yeah ok I’m really in. I’m doing a study of soft life! Thank you
Soft mom squad! Babies place such a huge demand on your time and energy. I’ve had to work with my therapist to learn how to still find ways to relax when life can’t be picture perfect
I’ve been doing this “Soft Life” for years & did not know it was called “soft life” 🤣 I left the rat race years ago after I birthed my 1st son & been doing great.
Yeah. It's called work life balance and common sense, but marketed and labelled as soft life. These new generations like to put a name to something that already exists, so they can feel like they created it and achieved something. Which they have not.
I don’t have kids or a husband and I honestly love living my life this way . I see so many women stressing over men and relationships and I’m like um nooo thank you .
2 things I would add to these tips of having a soft life is: Limit or stay away from people and relationships that are contrary to you. Relationships (friendships and romantic), I believe lead to more stress than your job, your bills, your children, ect. I noticed how my life has been steadily improving once I let go of people and relationships that weren't serving me and heading in the same direction as I am. 2. Take some time to move in silence. Don't tell everyone what you have or you've got going on, unless you're really trying to help someone. I'm not saying don't or never share yourself with others. I'm simply saying be more discreet and discerning about who that is and what you share. This includes your significant other, your parents, and even your best friend. Sometimes it's just better to let your achievement(s) speak for themselves.
Girl you better preach. Boundaries is another. What is the appropriate level of involvement/ energy for me in this situation/relationship? That way you avoid getting pulled in to others’ dysfunction and being used up and 2. Protect your energy.
I personally find retreating from “conventional structures” has reduced my stress greatly. I quit my 9-5, organized religion, relocated to a cheaper area & started homeschooling my children. I stopped using traditional medical care & have a naturopath & acupuncture practitioner instead. Before 2020 I was a slave to so many American institutions, I sought sovereignty & my life is so simple & stress free now.
I left social media 3yrs ago after having my 1st child. Im no longer in a rat race to keep up or be seen. I only use RUclips and so I’ve never heard of soft life until this popped up in my YT feed. Hence, I just learned a term that describes my life however, I’m all for subtle improvements instead of anxiously following trends, etc and so I intend to add a few things into my lifestyle here and there.
Its crazy because im 20 years old and would stress about the things that i don’t have and My life’s position but i have to remember that things take time and i need to be patient with my milestones, social media sometimes causes people to try to live above their means and not work on the things/be happy with the things they have but im learning on celebrating my small wins because i know it would turn into big, meaningful wins ! Thank you for this video ❤️
I’m actually going through this RIGHT NOW. I feel so stagnant, too. Thank you for writing this comment and sharing your story. Makes me feel less alone. I’ll be 21 tomorrow and I pray I can turn things around.
Thank you for sharing. I never heard of "soft life" but I have chosen to detox my life a year ago from toxic jobs, people, and friends. No more people-pleasing! Me, myself and my kids 1st has made me stress-free and living my best life and following my dreams with amazing results :)
I don’t know who you are or where you came from but I have never clicked so fast on a random video that came up in my feed, when I saw your title. I’m ready for a softer life. Thank you 💌
Beautiful video! You're right, struggling is not an achievement. It's important to break this cycle now, so we show the other women around us friends, mothers, daughters, aunts, etc... that life can be beautiful, easy, and soft. Beautiful video!
So true, I am fighting to stop negative thoughts. I just realize the cloud on negativity that I am in. Anxiety and stress win me over constantly the fight is real. Thanks for your video sometimes we just have to listen to a friendly word
Omg I’m an only child too, girl we are on the same wavelength . Thanks so much for sharing , I love your ‘’No’’ comments. I’m sure your mum is so proud of you and now you’re a mum- hope you’re proud of yourself too xxx
This video popped up at the right time in my life because I’ve been really bogged down the last year and I’m just starting to say again, get your nails done, but some new tops, do everything, but do something’s you enjoy too- because it’s not going to change so I might as well move forward
thank you so much for this video! i definitely needed to hear this. im constantly stressed about my current position in life, but i need to remind myself to not waste my 20's with continuously worrying.
I shouldn’t be thinking about it but I’m only human, I love your messages Lorri. I feel like so many people misinterpret soft living, curating luxury some way day to day etc. It’s really backwards that many of us should be made to feel ashamed for simply finding a way to enjoy life. Life can be so challenging and the very least we can do is indulge our senses and enjoy the miracle of living. Someone recently referred to me as ‘middle class’ as a slant. I am actually working class and had a childhood many people might pretend to have had for brownie points from silly people. I work very hard and my taste is very girlish and opulent. Here’s to not conforming to these stereotypes that do no favours to anyone. I found your videos today and am hitting that subscribe button, thanks again Lorri!
Hello my darling…thank you for sharing, this really resonated with me because we really are all trying to find ways to love an enjoyable and fruitful life🙌🏽
I was definitely meant to see this video I’ve been stressing about the future and I’ve been questioning my journey as a nomad but this helps me remember why I chose to commit to traveling full time - to live a beautiful life and to have new experiences ❤️
@@Lorriluxxe yes, I have already started, I'm watching more of your videos to help level up and start presenting myself better. Thank you for your content. 💗💗
My friends are getting their life together and I feel so behind that I’ve completely lost motivation to do anything, I’m just embarrassed even though everyone is in on a different journey, I’m sad that I’m behind again like always. I even left therapy & have decided to watch your videos for motivation & inspiration. Thank you
Hey hun, you’re right where you need to be, there’s no such thing as behind. Lesson you need to learn or maybe it’s not time…yet I’m glad you’re consuming uplifting content during this time. Don’t count yourself out, you might need to keep to yourself to help with the comparison and focus on yourself. You got this hun x
This reminder was needed. I've been embracing the soft life since becoming a mum. As you said, life is getting hard.. we don't need to look like it 😆 New subbie here 💕
Things that help me to live a soft life: * Slow Mornings 🌞 * Monthly massages 💆♀️ * Saving money 💰 * Doing yoga 🧘🏿♀️ * Reading my Bible and journaling 📖 * Facials
Thank you! The inner work is better than the outer. It is mindset and then aopearance. I also thank God for Sheraseven and Chloe_ for waking us gorgeous black women up to putting ourselves first. Have a good day, my fellow likeminded woman. #SoftLifeOnly
I really like the music, I'm such a people pleaser. My family ask me to do so much. And my sisters are lazy so it's all dumped on me. And I feel stressed. Even today I'm doing work for my company and my sisters are out in the sunshine. Say No, No, No 🤣 Wash the dishes - No Lock the door - No keep.... NO!! 🤣😆😆😆🤣
I work 40-50 hours a week and I was able to get my own place and don’t get me wrong I’m thankful but it is so much labor and I get sad because I don’t have much time outside to spend time with my cat and just live a life outside of work :(
I think I should watch this video each day of my life, to stop being the person that adds not needed hurdles to my life , thank u for the wisedom shared, and actually right now I look exactly like my problems lol.
I guess I’ve always lived a soft life 😂 people always stress about the smallest things and I could never related to that. If I need to get something done. I just take a deep breath and get it over with. If I don’t get the job or whatever, I don’t stress over it. I just simply continue doing what I do and improve things. People say I’m careless but I’m no, I care, I just won’t dwell on it. How I just am naturally.
@@Lorriluxxe maybe but maybe not. i’m an INFP(mediator type) and i’m the same way. i just believe that everything happens for a reason, within God’s timing & will be rectified by him. it’s like why be upset about an obstacle he has allowed, that he already said he’d help you fix? this mindset has always brought me a sense a peace; peace that is only obtainable through a connection with the creator.
OKay... I’m loving the words and inspirational words in the first two mins. I’m subscribing 💖. I had my first and last baby three yrs ago, and I was already coming to a place where I’m over people issues, their behavior and how I see myself and how they fit in my life, or I should CONTINUE to have these people in my space. I have many aspirations I want to complete in life, and some people I know don’t have goals , they don’t have that, but are jealous of how you move and do things.
This is just hard to relate to because it is not everyone’s reality I understand that it’s not about living a life of luxury but the pictures that are accompanied by dissecting a soft life just scream luxury lifestyle.
Understand completely regarding the pictures, they are there purely for inspiration (not my current reality too) however I hope you can separate the pictures with the message 🤎
It's a wank. Let me summarise it for you. Work life balance. Get off social media. Spend time by yourself. Don't hang around with toxic people. It's just common sense and it's nothing new. It's just Millennial wank for something that previous generations have been doing for years.
Just found your channel this is the first video I am watching! I feel like it was meant to be, in the video there is a candle in one of the pictures that has my name ❤️ on it. Thank you for the advice!
The soft life can only be achieved by balancing income-time-self care. First, you need financial cushion which is either attained by you with few hours of work or is outsourced to/by family/husband/some passive income. What this gives you is time and that time is used to prioritize Self care. Self care is mental and physical tips like minimizing negative people, eating well, exercising, and includes nurturing your home/relationships/children and this time and self care is only possible if you do not have to slave away for finances. Working women can indulge in a soft life in a partial manner but never move into it full time because she has to burn many hours to manage basic living. Women who have husbands/fathers/families/unique manners of earning income are the only ones who can adopt "soft life" as a full lifestyle. Others can adopt parts of it in certain moments when they have a chance and the soft life doesn't work unless you can actually make it your lifestyle. Other wise, its like...indulging in a spa day every so often, but remaining burnt out and unhappy 80% of the year.
Stoicism says we only have two things that we control. Our actions and our judgments. It’s all about peace instead of being happy. But internal changes can really impact your life. I’ve been having a tough year. But I’m trying to get better and have inner peace.
I Died when you said your mom said that the first word that came out of your mouth was "No!" 😂😂Saying no makes for an easy , soft life. You have a great personality and these tips are gold. Thanks, Lorraine!
Great video! I can definitely see you growing on RUclips. If I may, I would only suggest that you lower the background music. It was a little too loud/distracting while I was trying to hear you share your wisdom!
It was way past time for black women to embrace a soft life. Struggle/hardship has been glorified and perpetuated too much in our community for too long. Say bye to hard life, and welcome to soft life.
Here because you're actually a MOTHER doing this soft life thing :) As a fellow Mom, I feel that you'll bring a level of realness to this because things completely changed for me since having children.
Hey mama! As mothers we NEED a soft life because our lives are not our own to an extent….I’m glad you can relate 🤎
Amen
When I clicked the video I didn’t know she was a mom & honestly when I heard BREASTMILK I was like yeah ok I’m really in. I’m doing a study of soft life! Thank you
Soft mom squad! Babies place such a huge demand on your time and energy. I’ve had to work with my therapist to learn how to still find ways to relax when life can’t be picture perfect
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I’ve been doing this “Soft Life” for years & did not know it was called “soft life” 🤣
I left the rat race years ago after I birthed my 1st son & been doing great.
We love to hear it! 👏🏽
Yeah. It's called work life balance and common sense, but marketed and labelled as soft life.
These new generations like to put a name to something that already exists, so they can feel like they created it and achieved something. Which they have not.
That's awesome. I like working but balance is important. Work from home is the blessing
I don’t have kids or a husband and I honestly love living my life this way . I see so many women stressing over men and relationships and I’m like um nooo thank you .
That’s right…Love the life that makes YOU happy, thank you for watching my darling 🤎
Same girl , same💕😄
Me too free as bird
Same
2 things I would add to these tips of having a soft life is:
Limit or stay away from people and relationships that are contrary to you. Relationships (friendships and romantic), I believe lead to more stress than your job, your bills, your children, ect.
I noticed how my life has been steadily improving once I let go of people and relationships that weren't serving me and heading in the same direction as I am.
2. Take some time to move in silence.
Don't tell everyone what you have or you've got going on, unless you're really trying to help someone. I'm not saying don't or never share yourself with others. I'm simply saying be more discreet and discerning about who that is and what you share. This includes your significant other, your parents, and even your best friend.
Sometimes it's just better to let your achievement(s) speak for themselves.
Girl you better preach. Boundaries is another. What is the appropriate level of involvement/ energy for me in this situation/relationship? That way you avoid getting pulled in to others’ dysfunction and being used up and 2. Protect your energy.
You are speaking my language!!!!! Thank you for sharing 🤎
@@Lorriluxxe, you're welcome.
Honestly. What you've just listed is plain old fashioned common sense. Welcome to the world sweety.
@@damon79, good sense isn't common.
I personally find retreating from “conventional structures” has reduced my stress greatly. I quit my 9-5, organized religion, relocated to a cheaper area & started homeschooling my children. I stopped using traditional medical care & have a naturopath & acupuncture practitioner instead. Before 2020 I was a slave to so many American institutions, I sought sovereignty & my life is so simple & stress free now.
THIS! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I left social media 3yrs ago after having my 1st child. Im no longer in a rat race to keep up or be seen. I only use RUclips and so I’ve never heard of soft life until this popped up in my YT feed. Hence, I just learned a term that describes my life however, I’m all for subtle improvements instead of anxiously following trends, etc and so I intend to add a few things into my lifestyle here and there.
Yes to the subtle improvements that aren’t led by society 🙌🏽
I have never activated social media accounts no time. I enjoy YT and self help. We will get there.
Another thing that help me is a hire a housekeeper omg that helps a lot… it’s okay to pay a little extra for convenience
Oh my goodness I did this when I was about to give birth n now I’m looking into getting a monthly cleaner sis because I can’t come and stress myself
I had a housekeeper when I had small kids for years. I need to look into this again for my Golden years.
Its crazy because im 20 years old and would stress about the things that i don’t have and My life’s position but i have to remember that things take time and i need to be patient with my milestones, social media sometimes causes people to try to live above their means and not work on the things/be happy with the things they have but im learning on celebrating my small wins because i know it would turn into big, meaningful wins ! Thank you for this video ❤️
Yes to the new mindset my darling! Big wins are coming 🙏🏽
I’m actually going through this RIGHT NOW. I feel so stagnant, too. Thank you for writing this comment and sharing your story. Makes me feel less alone. I’ll be 21 tomorrow and I pray I can turn things around.
@@nyaihperry2665 Im glad that my comment made you feel heard, i hope you have a wonderful birthday 💕
It's simple. Get off the rubbish social media. It's not real. You know this right?
I'm living the soft life and I wouldn't trade it for anything
Once you go soft there’s no going back! Thank you for watching my darling 🤎
Thank you for sharing. I never heard of "soft life" but I have chosen to detox my life a year ago from toxic jobs, people, and friends. No more people-pleasing! Me, myself and my kids 1st has made me stress-free and living my best life and following my dreams with amazing results :)
As it should be! I’m happy you’re living your best life 👏🏽
There's no honour in suffering ❤❤ New subbie, happy that I found you💃💃 Love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦
You said it Tumi, I’m so happy you found me too sis, see you the next videos 🤎
That makes the 2 of us🤗❤🇿🇦
Hello Please repeat that for them in the front💕💕💕
Thank you for saying this🥂
I don’t know who you are or where you came from but I have never clicked so fast on a random video that came up in my feed, when I saw your title. I’m ready for a softer life. Thank you 💌
Hahaha it was meant to be! I’m glad the video found you 🤎
Beautiful video! You're right, struggling is not an achievement. It's important to break this cycle now, so we show the other women around us friends, mothers, daughters, aunts, etc... that life can be beautiful, easy, and soft. Beautiful video!
Absolutely! I want to show my daughter that she can have life of ease as an adult! Thank you for watching my darling 🤎
Your mom have so much wisdom!! Love if you do video on her tips and thought about how to be a strong woman in life and relationships☺️
She truly was ❤️🙌🏽 I’ll add this on my list
Celebrate the small wins.
THIS! 🙌🏽
So true, I am fighting to stop negative thoughts.
I just realize the cloud on negativity that I am in. Anxiety and stress win me over constantly the fight is real.
Thanks for your video
sometimes we just have to listen to a friendly word
I understand completely sis…it’s a battle that we have to fight every single day, not easy but we must continue fighting to prevail. We got this 🤎
Omg I’m an only child too, girl we are on the same wavelength . Thanks so much for sharing , I love your ‘’No’’ comments. I’m sure your mum is so proud of you and now you’re a mum- hope you’re proud of yourself too xxx
Another only child, you get it sis! I pray she looks down on us both with pride 🙏🏽
This video popped up at the right time in my life because I’ve been really bogged down the last year and I’m just starting to say again, get your nails done, but some new tops, do everything, but do something’s you enjoy too- because it’s not going to change so I might as well move forward
Yes live your life my darling! 🤎
thank you so much for this video! i definitely needed to hear this. im constantly stressed about my current position in life, but i need to remind myself to not waste my 20's with continuously worrying.
Absolutely hun…20’s are for self discovery, try live in the moment 🤎
I shouldn’t be thinking about it but I’m only human, I love your messages Lorri. I feel like so many people misinterpret soft living, curating luxury some way day to day etc. It’s really backwards that many of us should be made to feel ashamed for simply finding a way to enjoy life. Life can be so challenging and the very least we can do is indulge our senses and enjoy the miracle of living. Someone recently referred to me as ‘middle class’ as a slant. I am actually working class and had a childhood many people might pretend to have had for brownie points from silly people. I work very hard and my taste is very girlish and opulent. Here’s to not conforming to these stereotypes that do no favours to anyone. I found your videos today and am hitting that subscribe button, thanks again Lorri!
Hello my darling…thank you for sharing, this really resonated with me because we really are all trying to find ways to love an enjoyable and fruitful life🙌🏽
I love that some people don't take no when you tell them no.
Appreciate this video & how you explained it. I definitely treat myself. Taking care of my body, my temple is impo!
Our bodies are our temples for sure…self care is self love!
Sis you are out here raising vibrations, this was amazing❤️❤️❤️
Yes on the vibrations! Thank you for watching 🤎
I was definitely meant to see this video I’ve been stressing about the future and I’ve been questioning my journey as a nomad but this helps me remember why I chose to commit to traveling full time - to live a beautiful life and to have new experiences ❤️
That sounds so fulfilling 🙏🏽
That’s were I’d love to be traveling. I need to manifest this and other level up goals. Time is swiftly moving on.
i needed this, fed up with the heavy brow and negative thoughts
Let’s put in the work for peace and ease in ourselves 🙏🏽
@@Lorriluxxe yes, I have already started, I'm watching more of your videos to help level up and start presenting myself better. Thank you for your content. 💗💗
My friends are getting their life together and I feel so behind that I’ve completely lost motivation to do anything, I’m just embarrassed even though everyone is in on a different journey, I’m sad that I’m behind again like always. I even left therapy & have decided to watch your videos for motivation & inspiration. Thank you
Hey hun, you’re right where you need to be, there’s no such thing as behind. Lesson you need to learn or maybe it’s not time…yet
I’m glad you’re consuming uplifting content during this time. Don’t count yourself out, you might need to keep to yourself to help with the comparison and focus on yourself. You got this hun x
@@Lorriluxxe thank you🤍
This reminder was needed. I've been embracing the soft life since becoming a mum. As you said, life is getting hard.. we don't need to look like it 😆
New subbie here 💕
Hey mama! Only another mother would understand the value in a softer life and appreciating the little things in life 🙏🏽
Simple and effective tips. I’m working on dressing up more when I’m home for sure.
Yes it can seem pointless but it does wonders for your mental state…Glad you found it valuable my darling 🤎
@@Lorriluxxe EXACTLY!! We certainly feel better when we look better.
Things that help me to live a soft life:
* Slow Mornings 🌞
* Monthly massages 💆♀️
* Saving money 💰
* Doing yoga 🧘🏿♀️
* Reading my Bible and journaling 📖
* Facials
Love and can relate all of these! 🙌🏽
Thank you! The inner work is better than the outer. It is mindset and then aopearance. I also thank God for Sheraseven and Chloe_ for waking us gorgeous black women up to putting ourselves first. Have a good day, my fellow likeminded woman. #SoftLifeOnly
Yes my darling! If your inside is ugly, it really don’t matter about your exterior...I’m glad you found me 🤎
Love the fact that you said we do not have to work sooooo hard to succeed. Thank you so much for another great video and you look beautiful 😻💖
Hard work is a scam 😫 Glsd you’re loving the content Thank you my darling ✨
I really like the music, I'm such a people pleaser. My family ask me to do so much. And my sisters are lazy so it's all dumped on me. And I feel stressed. Even today I'm doing work for my company and my sisters are out in the sunshine.
Say No, No, No 🤣
Wash the dishes - No
Lock the door - No
keep.... NO!!
🤣😆😆😆🤣
That’s right sis NO! You should be in the sun too, set and maintain your boundaries 🤎
I work 40-50 hours a week and I was able to get my own place and don’t get me wrong I’m thankful but it is so much labor and I get sad because I don’t have much time outside to spend time with my cat and just live a life outside of work :(
The rat race we are all trying to get out of to actually HAVE a life 🙏🏽
I think I should watch this video each day of my life, to stop being the person that adds not needed hurdles to my life , thank u for the wisedom shared, and actually right now I look exactly like my problems lol.
I just spat out my coffee laughing so hard at the last sentence 🤣 but yes sis use this as a reminder/reference 🙌🏽
I guess I’ve always lived a soft life 😂 people always stress about the smallest things and I could never related to that. If I need to get something done. I just take a deep breath and get it over with. If I don’t get the job or whatever, I don’t stress over it. I just simply continue doing what I do and improve things. People say I’m careless but I’m no, I care, I just won’t dwell on it. How I just am naturally.
Sounds like your personality type is logistician, very practical and action based 👏🏽
@@Lorriluxxe maybe but maybe not. i’m an INFP(mediator type) and i’m the same way. i just believe that everything happens for a reason, within God’s timing & will be rectified by him. it’s like why be upset about an obstacle he has allowed, that he already said he’d help you fix? this mindset has always brought me a sense a peace; peace that is only obtainable through a connection with the creator.
@@jalaaaah that’s so beautiful, especially about the obstacle He has already fixed 🙌🏽
OKay... I’m loving the words and inspirational words in the first two mins. I’m subscribing 💖. I had my first and last baby three yrs ago, and I was already coming to a place where I’m over people issues, their behavior and how I see myself and how they fit in my life, or I should CONTINUE to have these people in my space. I have many aspirations I want to complete in life, and some people I know don’t have goals , they don’t have that, but are jealous of how you move and do things.
Definitely important to reflect on people around us
Really nice tips ; life is too short we might as well enjoy every moment 💕
That’s it sis, we only get one life!
No rehearsals. Enjoy.
your vids are my comfort vids! thank you for your amaze advice
Awwww Brianna…I’m so glad you’re finding comfort here✨
Yes! Love this and love the idea of wearing that frilly train chiffon robe at home! 😍 Thanks for sharing.
I bought one for my maternity shoot n sometimes just wear it round the house just cos lol thanks for watching my w🤎
@@Lorriluxxe amazing!
That robe is everything. I need it tonight with a glass of wine. On my wishlist.
I like to try affirmations, and visual goals such as a mood board.
I’m a visualisation kind of babe too…it’s the Piscean in me 🤣
So over the struggle definitely needed to see this video
I’m happy it came et the right time for you 🤎
This is so positive…Thank you…needed to hear this ❤️🙂
We staying positive no matter the situation sis…glad it was a word you needed 🤎
Thank you - I needed this reminder ❤
You’re more than welcome my darling 🤎
Wounderful content. Thanks for bringing this up. Very important to pursuit selfcare, self love…taking care of one self!!super !!!
Taking care of yourself is the ultimate form of self love! Thank you for watching 🤎
Ughhhhhhhh I needed this sooooo much oohhhhmyyygodddd
Awwwww I’m so glad this did what it needed to do for you 🤎
You are speaking my language love the energy subscribed.💯
Glad we are operating on the same frequency. Welcome my love, see you in the next video 🤎
This was good... some really good points, thank you!
Awwww so glad you found value in this my darling. Thank you for watching 💕
Great video. Treat yourself is the one thing I had to learn to do. ❤
You and me both!
Commenting before I even watch this! Please let this be helpful on this busy Saturday morning! 🫣looking forward to some helpful advice
Commenting in faith! Hopefully it does what it needs do for you 🤎
@@Lorriluxxe you got yourself a new subscriber!
Great videos
This is just hard to relate to because it is not everyone’s reality I understand that it’s not about living a life of luxury but the pictures that are accompanied by dissecting a soft life just scream luxury lifestyle.
Understand completely regarding the pictures, they are there purely for inspiration (not my current reality too) however I hope you can separate the pictures with the message 🤎
It's a wank.
Let me summarise it for you.
Work life balance. Get off social media. Spend time by yourself. Don't hang around with toxic people.
It's just common sense and it's nothing new. It's just Millennial wank for something that previous generations have been doing for years.
Today I discovered your channel and girl...
I really love you energy.
💕💕💕🙏🌈💕💕💕😍
Hey my darling! So glad you found me! Thank you so much 💕
Just found your channel this is the first video I am watching! I feel like it was meant to be, in the video there is a candle in one of the pictures that has my name ❤️ on it. Thank you for the advice!
Awwww that’s lovely…it really was meant to be! 🤎
i've been scouringthe internet since yesterdaykooking fora black woman with my body type and here you are!
I’m so glad you found me lovely…it’s hard finding people you can relate to, thank you for watching 🤎
The soft life can only be achieved by balancing income-time-self care. First, you need financial cushion which is either attained by you with few hours of work or is outsourced to/by family/husband/some passive income. What this gives you is time and that time is used to prioritize Self care. Self care is mental and physical tips like minimizing negative people, eating well, exercising, and includes nurturing your home/relationships/children and this time and self care is only possible if you do not have to slave away for finances. Working women can indulge in a soft life in a partial manner but never move into it full time because she has to burn many hours to manage basic living.
Women who have husbands/fathers/families/unique manners of earning income are the only ones who can adopt "soft life" as a full lifestyle. Others can adopt parts of it in certain moments when they have a chance and the soft life doesn't work unless you can actually make it your lifestyle. Other wise, its like...indulging in a spa day every so often, but remaining burnt out and unhappy 80% of the year.
Couldn’t have said better if I tried! 🙌🏽 Here’s to Financial Abundance to all my lovelies 🥂
This is amazing. Some things you mentioned I think I’m ok at but a lot of it I had to hear. Thank you for this 💗
I’m glad it validated what you’re already doing my darling 🤎
Stoicism says we only have two things that we control. Our actions and our judgments. It’s all about peace instead of being happy. But internal changes can really impact your life. I’ve been having a tough year. But I’m trying to get better and have inner peace.
Peace is the ultimate goal 🙌🏽
amen to this whole message! xoxo from the US
Hey Mariah! Happy you found the video. Thank you for watching sis 🤎
What a terrific outlook! I’m excited to subscribe and see what gems of soft life wisdom you share. Best wishes from San Diego 🌺
Hey Maureen! I’m super happy to have you around my darling 🤎
Love this Lorri! I’m absolutely loving your new content
Hey Robyn! Happy you’re loving it my darling 🤎
I love 🛀 and nail care, along with hair maintainance, I’m moving towards working toward a positive mindset.
Love all that ESPECIALLY the positive mindset, goes such a long way to having a softer life✨
Excellent advice given in a nice relaxing setting appreciated thank you.
Hey my love! I’m happy you found it valuable 🤎
Does anybody else see how her mannerisms even the way she holds her mouth it reminds me of Lauren London ???
Yess I see it. Even her dimples
@@charmainephasoana6850 thank you
Now this has made my day! 🤎
Please do more advice Videos and chit chats this was so helpful xx
I got you sis….a few advice videos coming from next week, I’m glad you found it useful 🤎
love tip 1
No more glorifying problems 🙌🏽
I Died when you said your mom said that the first word that came out of your mouth was "No!" 😂😂Saying no makes for an easy , soft life. You have a great personality and these tips are gold. Thanks, Lorraine!
Not sure if she was kidding or just making reference how the word NO comes easily to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thank you so much my darling 🤎
You had me a the first line!
Cos the soft life is for you!
Yesss I loved this. Tho I don’t need any encouragement to treat myself 🤪
Yes to a queen who knows the value in treating herself 🤎
Great video! Agreed 🎉
Glad you enjoyed!
Thank you for introducing Soft Life. I love the information and looking forward to implemented.
Welcome to the soft life darling 🤎
Really excited for this video! I am glad to see discourse going on about the term because at first I was confused lol
Sis I’ve seen soft life being used as a verb in all circumstances so we had to break it down. Glad you enjoyed it 🤎
This is exactly what I needed to hear today.
Awwww I’m glad you found it 🤎
Great video! I can definitely see you growing on RUclips. If I may, I would only suggest that you lower the background music. It was a little too loud/distracting while I was trying to hear you share your wisdom!
I appreciate your constructive criticism, will definitely implement in upcoming videos…Thank you for watching 🤎
Thank you SO much for this video!! I really needed this ❤
I’m glad it came to you at the right time 🤎
I needed this sooooo much omg!!!
I’m glad you found it 🤎
Thank you so much! Just what I needed this morning!
Hey my darling! Glad it came at the right time 🤎
LOVED this! Thank you 🙏🏾
You are more thank welcome 🤎
Happy Resurrection Sunday Lorri🙏🏽 I really appreciate this video.
Amen sis! I’m glad it spoke to you 🤎
Thank you beautiful sister
You’re welcome sis 🤎
Thank you for your video, it could not have come at a better time! God bless 💗💗💗
I’m glad you found it at the right time my lovely 🤎
Thanks for making this video!! Really needed watch something like that!💗💗
Ofcourse my darling! I’m happy it did what it needed to do for you 🤎
Love love love this
Then my job here is done!
Yassssssssss to the soft life ❤
Sis you already know, especially us as mothers chile! 🤎
Positive great tips , yes for soft life
I’m glad you thought so lovely….to the soft life 🥂
Thank you for the tips💗Great video💗
I’m happy you found value in it mama! Thank you for watching 🤎
I needed this ! Thanks so much for the advice 💕💕💕
I’m glad you found it useful my darling 🤎
Sis!! So much wisdom in this video...waiting for the video on people-pleasing ❤❤❤
Let me get on that….thank you for watching sis 🤎
Very good!
Awwww glad you liked it🙌🏽
Ready for the soft life 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Let’s live our best soft life sis 🥂
Facts
Thank you
You’re more than welcome Tiffany 🤎
This was beautiful! Thank you so much! Subscribed! 🥰
Welcome my darling! Glad you enjoyed it 🤎
U nailed it my child.. Thumbs up to soft life
It was way past time for black women to embrace a soft life. Struggle/hardship has been glorified and perpetuated too much in our community for too long.
Say bye to hard life, and welcome to soft life.
THISSSSS 🙌🏽 Goodbye hard life, Welcome to soft life 💕
New subscriber…love your content
Welcome sis! So happy to have you here, see you in upcoming videos 🤎
Not me working full time in a super stressful job, thinking I can change it by watching this video
I hope you can make other parts of your life softer 🤎
@@Lorriluxxe yeah I think I need to work on that for sure x
You are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen
Thank you so much 🙏🏽
Love you!
I appreciate you my darling 🤎
Loved this video ❤again will you please do a video about pleasing others .
I got you sis! Thank you for watching 🤎
Lorri love your videos 💚💚💚 Where do you find the photos that you post in your videos? Are you on Pinterest
Awwww thank you so much Cameale! I find them on Pinterest. I’m not on Pinterest atm myself 💕
Girl you said it 😜
We all deserve a soft life 🙌🏽
Amen
Yes hleee🥺🥺