Being Ugly and Having No Friends at 46
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A lot of smart people lack a good friendship is because they always see things on the logical side and not express things emotionally. It’s harder to express empathy and share a bond with another person.
You sound like you know an awful a lot about thus
Also having a lot of anxiety can also prevent you from opening up in social situations. Even when people try to be friends with you, your anxiety can get in the way of getting too close to them. Hence having lots of acquaintances, but not a lot of close/best friends
@@MAYBEE90 My sister is the same way she has not made friends since middle school and shes in high school!
@@thetruthisright6750 Nah im dumb asf lmaoo
one thing ive learned about dealing with people is that it almost a science you can learn how to make yourself more or less attractive
He seems like a stand up guy, glad he's working on himself
He seems like a turd
And what not
@@isaiahskates6587 per se
But he’s sitting down
@@NotAngel. 😐
You guys should make more 30 minute videos talking about somewhat deep topics like these😌
Really enjoy your content🙏🏾
agree
So true
i do too enjoy
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They should do a podcast
I legit used to be JUST like this guy, social interaction used to be insanely hard for me. I made talking to people so much more complex than it actually was and I'm glad I was able to change my mindset when it came to that.
Not like this right
but how
LOL the irony
Good for u my g
What helped you change your mindset
I like that he was smart enough to realize that people's opinion (to an extent) do matter sometimes. You can't just move through life thinking "I don't give a f about what anyone thinks of me". Yes there are trolls out there but actually listening to what ppl say about you can give you a valuable insight into how you are viewed in society. Love to see that he's making progress.
You have to know who to listen to that's the thing.
@@tiffanykim2773 Very true. If someone's just being an a-hole then that's different. But if it's generally constructive criticism or someone's genuinely being honest with your best intentions in mind then I think that person is worth listening too
This is a life lesson: dont take people for granted
I find most people boring though
@@unnderneath maybe thats due to deeper issues within.
@@unnderneath Then find ppl that excite you
@@nathanw9770 Simple💯
@@nathanw9770 i mean thats like trying to find a needle within a hay field
This guy actually has incredible bravery just for making that video and being so self aware. I have incredible respect for him for making that video. To anyone reading this who may feel the same way as him, i would say try meditation and regular exercise. Meditation can help you conquer your own mind/calm yourself down so you dont overanalyze, and not let negativity drag you down, whereas exercise will give you hormone boosts that make you feel better both physically & mentally, it boosts confidence and physical attractiveness, all of which have a profoundly positive effect on your life. Start with improving yourself and stop focusing so much on others, people will naturally gravitate towards you if you do so. Love the serious content mixed with humor boys keep it up!
His depression may come from loneliness but his anxiety is coming from his over thinking & trying to be perfect & have perfect interactions. Just breathe. Relax. Slow down. Have fun. That's it. Enjoy life. Don't analyze life.
Sorry bout your parents. Hope you're doing ok.
It ain't as easy as you say bro😪💔
Don’t OVERanalyze life**
He can't help it. It's how he's wired. He didn't choose to be so over analytical. He's probably had to learn that over the years, perhaps with overbearing parents and/or teachers, and there is also a very real possibility that he could be on the autism spectrum.
@@saskialolita 🙌 yes
I am actually happy ya'll reacted to this. I remember watching videos like these a while ago in my early teens it is something interesting. Something we wish we will never really relate to or experience.
This is pretty selfish. Man is struggling and all you can think about is how lucky you are. Damn
@@dipset4016 I did not mention how “lucky” I was. What I basically said was, we wish we will never experience this. Most people don’t wish this on themselves. However, I have been in his situation before. Not in my mid 40s but as a teen. Stating that a lot of us wish not to be in this situation is acknowledging how unfortunate it is. No one bragging about it.
@@dipset4016 i feel like realizing how lucky you are is part of acknowledging and really listening to what this guy has to say. If you actually took the time and let his words sink in and you weren’t in his position you’d think damn im lucky asf and I really feel for this man
He’s not ugly he’s just too analytical. He’s trying to hard, his personality doesn’t suck either he just needs to get in with his own tribe…my best friend is like him…other than me most other people always found him weird…but he’s the best, loyal friend I’ve ever had
Right I was like he was a decent looking guy, no one is really ugly, someone will always find you attractive🤷🏾♀️
@@Lalaoppise frfr
Yea he's a normal looking for his age tbh
Yeah tbh most middle aged men who comes into Starbucks look like him.,,
Too analytical? Bro people say that about me
Guess that's my future too then
Damn this vid made me realize how thankful I am for having friends and not having to worry about all of this. No one is perfect and working on yourself is good but this dude was really over complicating everything. Good that he’s feeling better and working on himself. It’s sad to see other people sad.
He wasn't overcomplicating it, he was basically describing his perspective of something we have done inherently
@@yonisbadar2129 he knows his “flaws” but he’s too much trying to fix it like force it instead of just being natural about it he’s trying to make it perfect.
@@yonisbadar2129 nah he’s definitely thinking way too hard and consequently making social interactions way too much of a strain. Seems like hes getting better tho so props to him
@@afkmarz8303 tbh i think the guy is in the wrong environment… he is not hanging out with ppl like him. I know there is a lot of ppl like him who thinks the same way and act the same way
Man I actually felt this guy (pause) I’m 20 but you might have acquaintances, people you know but you don’t really have people you can rely on and have long conversations with and hangout with. It’s gets really hard trying to make friends when your older since your social side isn’t working as good, anxiety, depression and even bipolar plays huge sides into it. But for us people like us, we tend to focus on other things like spending time with family, working on yourself, and enjoying life. but all jokes aside this man sounds mad intelligent, had no idea there was a major for data science, even the way he speaks sounds hella educated and formal, and he’s really excelling in life
Bro i really respect the way you guys talked about some of the issues the dude on the video was adressing. You didnt discuss it with pity like a lot of people would nowadays, you actually tried to put yourselves on his shoes and were giving him constructive critisism and Feedback. Respeck.
A lot of people who are isolated like him just shut down completely, I have mad respect for him for actually bettering himself. He's inspirational
Be kind to everyone you come across you never know what others go through on a day to day basis… sending prayers his way, I hope he continues to grow and work on himself. ❤️
Also, love ya boys keep doing what you’re doing we all appreciate you! 🙏🏼🤞🏼
This is one of my favorite Loveliveserve videos on the Strawberry Park channel because we can all relate to wanting to find our true selves and feeling lost and unmotivated at times, but this guy shows us how to stay committed to improving himself without feeling hopeless.
My mother is one of his only two friends and we love him dearly. He receives so much hate by on the internet and I’m so glad y’all are being nice. Love your content keep it up!
@Dee XX yeah sounds like a lie tbh but I do feel bad for this guy
Lies
cap
@x and everyone else, Ya'll can't just say that this comment is a lie just by reading it. If it's a lie, then thats one thing itself but this person really may know the homie from the video. How do you know that this commenter is lying?
show him this video
i went through his most recent videos and it seems he’s really progressed and gained a lot more confidence. and he also said he was in a really dark place(depressed, suicidal, etc.)at the time of this video, which is seen when he looks off of the camera.
whats his name i wanna see some
@@juiceboxx1645 just search up the title and his video pops up
@@scar1004 damn I didn't even think of that lmao
@@juiceboxx1645 lmao no worries
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I have a friend like this who is on the spectrum (Asperger's) very gregarious guy, can talk non-stop about just about any topic, full of energy even without drinking coffee, but doesn't know how to read the room. he also says im sorry a lot, even for things that don't require apology. I think this guy is similar, he probably has no problem making conversation with people but has a tendency to alienate them with the robotic way that he comes across in conversation.
Hey bro maybe the repetitive apology is a sign of it yea you’re right
Not having confidence, and having depression and anxiety is kind of a vicious cycle of not having confidence, being anxious about it, and then depressed, and then it just repeats
And you just get stuck inside your own head
He said he had friends up to his mid 30’s. He never realized that people are getting married and having children, getting into their careers, etc? His friends have no friends either because they have to spend time with family. Maybe the ugly part is insecurity and that he can’t find a wife/make a family of his own.
This something a lot of people don’t realize. You gotta put more effort in those free moments you can to stay in contact while working on your own life.
Yikes is this for real? I mean my parents didnt really have friends aside from their cousins and work buddies but damn thats crazy, honestly if I have a husband i dont think id have time for friends anyways
This comment is so underrated, like this is a perspective people need to understand.
@@Apaxetic yeah its true
Very true. He should start slow with a dating app or a counselor to help find a partner he can start a family with
at the end of the day when he said “you have to be in a range of normality to be accepted in,” it’s either that, or you accept yourself. so change yourself to be loved more, or stay yourself and love yourself more.
it’s wild cause as someone who codes and has an understanding of it (my major is information technology), he’s thinking too much in code language for the real world. like in code, simply accidentally putting a capitalized letter can make the whole thing code malfunction, but in real life it isn’t like that. like he’s thinking way too much into code language and thinking the world is the equivalent of 0 and 1, basically 0 means off and 1 means on in code, like all code/computers/etc basically run on that basic setting but real life isn’t like that, like irl you can have 0.3 or 1.6 or 2 or 10, etc i think once this guy can figure out how to separate the two it’ll help alot, because even him making a video shows he’s miles ahead of a lot of people with self awareness but like rob said at the same time he’s miles behind in self awareness, cause even him saying “if else statements” with code it’s finite, but in the real world it’s endless, it’s definitely weird but i’m also definitely rooting for bro cause ultimately he recognized he was causing his own problems and took the initiative to also solve them
When the guy said, "it's kind of like an if-else statement" that's when I realized just how calculated he makes it all seem. He is literally applying the scientific method to his life...
bro is coding in real life like humans are computers ☠️ beep boop bap
Bro that was a pretty simple idea and correct imo, not everything is “mathy stuff vs social and art stuff” or whatever
It would have been funny if he used a ternary operator as an example 😂
@@alexanderh9569 yea i think it made pretty good sense tbh, his current personality is mid and doesnt make him many friends so he needs to change, is how i percieved that fr
Yo someone get this man on the channel. Like Rhino said, the fact that he has the self awareness to make a video like this is impressive. Y’all got to invite him to make a video and finally give this man some friends lol. That would be fire content🔥
It’s not about the content, it’s about helping the dude out, but otherwise, that’s a good idea.
He said he isn’t humerous. So his comedy probably wouldn’t make the video heat…
@@coopdawg13 Comedy ain’t the only thing that makes content fire. The simple fact that LLS features him on the channel would be “content”.
@@jorbemesis1157 I totally agree with you but for me I can’t speak for everyone, I would like a funny video rather then a concerning talk about how a dude has no friends. That’s my opinion 👍🏼
Naaah... He has some undisclosed disorder. That's kind of exploitive.
That man definitely not physically ugly
Thats what im saying im from the Philippines and girls here would easily find this guy attractive
@@SFCityKids most Filipino women find foreigners with money attractive, and I know this cause my mom told me and she’s Filipino and my dad is an American with cash
@@cndvdxyhjblbilg LMFAO ! IM SORRY THAT GOT ME LAUGHING BUT YOURE RIGHT
The guy is at most a 3/10, lol this thread is coping hard.
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Waiting for the 'Can we just appreciate how much effort the 4 of them put in for our entertainment?'
wow, good timing
LMAOOO
Ik you’re quoting someone but can we still appreciate they say “4” and not just 3 including Alex even though he been in like a couple episodes lol
@@Weensho well i mean he is in the intro
@@Weensho + he edits the vids so
I love how y’all aren’t just rude the whole time, you understand where he’s coming from. It’s funny but not heartless
Look no cap, I wanna be this guy's friend. Yeah, he way older than me but honestly, I don't even care. Partly cos I feel bad for him but also cos he sounds like he's got a lot to offer as a friend and he sounds like he's acknowledging certain things about him and he's working on himself to be better and that deserves mad respect. For real, protect this guy at all costs, he deserves to succeed in his endeavours to bettering himself
I swear man... me too. He seems like a decent dude. Maybe he just talks non-stop and doesn't listen
This is sad asl bruh, maybe because I can relate but I just hope he finds someone who appreciates him
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I like him! He is aware of his pitfalls and wants to improve it! Nowadays ppl just like to be shitty and justify it by acting like a victim and hating others instead of looking at themselves.
I truly hope he gets friends, a lover and overall never feel alone again
This man's not just sitting and complaining..
He puts in the work
The consistency is unreal ! The hardest working RUclipsrs out there fr fr 💯🙌🏽
Fr though
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I love the update at the end!! Glad he is putting in the work to make everything better 😊😊
Bro I kinda feel the same. Im only 14 tho. I used to have friends that I was content with, but later down the line I got more anxiety and my confidence went down. I mean for most things like in math ,when you find a problem you fix it. The problem is that you can't just make self confidence, it just doesn't work. Then when you can't fix that problem with your own force, you try to find different ways to fix it. Look on the internet, try to think mathematical, copy people language/body movement, and evenly by doing all this you overthink. When you realize that, you kinda feel hopeless ,like you can't fix a problem and there will always be dent that society will frown upon. I mean thats for me. If you have the motivation for people to like you, that yeah just keep working at it. Or you can do the quitter's move where you just say screw it, I'm contempt. Even in that case you become that guy who doesn't care about anything.
try going to the gym it helps build confidence
I'm just like this guy. He has to stop overthinking and get out of his head. He thinks everything has to be perfect because what he's trying isn't working. I still don't have friends but I haven't put any effort into it either. (Ive been isolating myself trying to self rehab and I am so ugly rn, inside and out) I also have anxiety and depression and I also blamed that on it. Which I think is valid to an extent, but you can't let the self pity take over you. I didn't grow up with a stable routine, I didn't know what was normal or what was expected of society but now that I'm about to be 18, I'm understanding how important that stability is and I'll need one when I get a job if I want to fit in time to exercise, eat, clean, etc. and still enjoy video games and whatever else. One thing I realized myself is that I lack a personality as well. I zone tf out when talking with people, it feels like I'm being pulled to the back of my mind and I can't hear what the other person is saying and it makes me have the most vague "yes/no" responses. Thanks for the tips! I'm going to try being more positive towards myself, putting myself out there and just get shit done instead of overthinking. I'm glad to see he started working on himself too, that's so motivating for me
Gym is waiting your arrival
Same
You know it’s a good vid when Rhino can’t sit in his chair for 2 seconds
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He seems like a nice guy whose genuinely trying I hope he finds what he’s looking for
i love watching these videos after getting home from school, thank you for the content and keep it up
Basically, what I've noticed in my own self-development throughout life is that you need to take in information and focus on one specific thing until it becomes second nature and can do it without thinking about it. This does involve putting yourself out there and sometimes making a fool of yourself, but eventually you'll get it down. For instance let's say you want to learn how to smile in a more inviting way. You might first start with looking at images of attractive people and see how they smile and then try and replicate their smile and different variations. Then you go out and try these variations on people on the street until you notice one variation gives positive feedback from most people you come across. Finally you practice that smile until you can do it without thinking about it. Now you can move on to the next thing, be it communication, fashion, fitness, and so forth. It's very difficult to teach, but there's a magical place where you take in the right amount of information and then put that information in to practice. Just like anything you have to practice, alter the plan, and tinker until you find the sweet spot
The thing is, people at that age are having their own families and they don't have time to hang out with friends
Not true
Not true at all tf
There’s some truth to that statement. But I’ve seen people in their middle age get friends you just have to surround yourself with people who are like minded and enjoy the same interests.
I’m seriously impressed by this guy. Hopefully he finds a good crew! You should do a collab with him
full respect to someone who actually wants to change for the better
This really hits home for me. I am a freshman right now, and I have put myself out there I know how to read situations as well and the results have always been bad, detrimental, and really moral-crushing to me. Which further increases my loneliness and lack of self-esteem and confidence causing me to feel depressed.
He is probably on the autism spectrum. Just high functioning so most of us seems normal. If you relate so closely with this guy, maybe you should look more into high functioning autism? Not saying it's likely you have it, but checking couldn't hurt
The gym is waiting for you bro
i wish all the best to him and i hope he succeeded in his goals of improving himself for the better, thanks guys for covering this vid❤️🔥🔥
You just made my day twice better
Uploads on both channels
Keep up the energy
He needs the gym in his life! The gym is great place to make friends, and get self Confidence
He says he does alot of physical activity so idk.
Did you watch the vid cause he obviously goes.
@@hazzardgr712 yes the whole thing actually. I said he needs to join a gym, and as far as I know he never said a word about going to a gym, and weight lifting. I could be wrong though, but you’ll have to prove it
@@trevorjones6162 the end of the video , they show a new video of him in the gym doing work .
“Some people really do not have any friends”
Literally me
I have aspergers and odd I know sometimes we can come off as weird but I have lots of friends this guy I feel bad for this is very depressing I wish him well
How do you come off weird what do you do
@@thetruthisright6750 were not that great socialy and sometimes just don't want to talk
It’s always a nice feeling when that Strawberry Park notification pops up !
As a dude who has had no female friends or no girlfriend when it comes to overthinking people like me and him who are “ugly” overthink a lot because we don’t wanna say the wrong thing give people wrong idea or wanna seem “creepy” it sadly is a snowball it just keeps going and going and going
¨He seems like the most unaware, self-aware guy¨ - Rob 2022
He’s overthinking it
He NEEDS to hear this. Principles are more important than techniques.
I feel sorry for this guy, I’m glad that he at least has some sense of self awareness, and doesn’t just blame other people. He does seem like he could be on the spectrum, kinda reminds me of the Sam from the show atypical
I actually feel like him I have no friends all of my “friends” they just stopped liking me and responding and made it hard just to go to toilet in the school and I would like to know what I done and I’m really tired of being alone for almost a year and everything is hard I come home and just play games and watch RUclips and twitch till I go to bed then just repeat I would like life just to be very easier and people would like being with him love you LLS❤
same for me, I had close friends and one day they just faded away. I had a best friend for 15 years who I considered my sister and she just stopped talking to me. I wish I knew what people didn't like about me so maybe I could work on it but Luckily I found my husband. so don't give up You can find someone who will stay with you through everything
I recommend checking out hobbies that seem interesting to you, any sport, art, music, etc. And try some of them, if you enjoy them keep doing it and you could find some people in those communities that you relate to and enjoy talking to, so you can find more friends and spend less time watching RUclips and twitch.
@@AmusedOrange thanks a lot i have tried and is still looking but I saw that you could go to carpeting and that’s what I want to be when I get 2 years older so I think maybe I should try that
9:07 lemme tell you, it's exhausting as hell faking social skills that I never developed. I guess people can tell to some degree since I struggle to make friends
This episode made me realize that I would love a podcast from you guys.
I think people like him have a 1 dimensional view of friends. He probably thinks what he has to have stereotypical relationships with people when in reality, you don't have to be funny or charismatic to make friends. There plenty people he would bond with while working on projects, doing activities he's interested in. But because he hasn't explored other sides of himself in his interactions with people, he hasn't seen how confident/charismatic he could be in his own way.
Good one! I kind of suffer from this issue myself...
Although i do have friends but i cut off people quickly and have become distrustful of others
you know its gonna be a good day when lls upload
You should get this guy in a video
A person who thinks a lot has nothing else to think about except thoughts ,, so they live a life of illusion
~ a wise thinker
Nice video guys, video idea: helping this guy become more social and confident. Going out with him and stuff, would be pretty entertaining
Wow its actually so sad how me and this guy are so alike 😔 I actually understand where he's coming from because I'm the exact same I usually just write a diary full of sad shit because I don't really have anyone to open up to
Have u found a friend yet?
@@chantlmcclary6419 no response isn’t good 😢
Wow, everything in this video was perfectly well said. I love the longer videos too ❤️
The layout with the vid on the right and the 3 of u on the left is perfect, do it for all reaction vids
You become what you say you are. Always be kind to yourself and others 🌻
I like yall videos because its not only criticizing about the person but its also to help them and plus u give props for the good in them but you feel empathy for them too. Some just dont know how to make friends and stuff like that and idk how id be because im still 19 i havent been pushed out of my own comfort yet to make new friends yet so i cant blame the guy im just used to talking to females n seeing what typa time they on respectfully
The best thing I can tell him is to put himself in uncomfortable situations and learn from those
If he wants to talk to someone
Focus on getting there and not on what you gonna say and do
Once you get over there, don't overthinking the things you gonna say and just have a normal conversation
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Honestly society these days is very antisocial....I think it's the people not him. Where do you find friends who have good morals and values and are level headed ....nowhere it ends up being the less people you know the better off your are
I know you made your time in a year ago, but I just want to let you know that only 12% of Americans are "anti-social". Everyone else is living a normal life.
Im 31 and I dont have friends. I dont want them. Its exhausting to have friends. I talk to acquantinces (sp?) almost daily, just different people every day. I genuinely enjoy being alone. I am not willing to compromise my morality or integrity to hang out with someone and I have found that I cant get along with most people if I dont. I also just dont like having to entertain people. Nothing wrong with being a loner
He was probably the only child. A sibling who would listen to him would help him(or maybe not).
Yall are literally the only youyube channel i watch every morning even yall old videos…i live yall ❤️❤️
There...... There is hope.
Ego booster fo sho
Edit : OK, he aint really that bad. It's just more sad and unfortunate that anything else. He does seem self aware aswell which is a pretty good trait to have. F for my boy
This is another friendless classic
You guys should definitely invite this guy on the VLOG!
I stumbled upon this guys video a while ago and could relate to what he was saying, I've casually been keeping up with his posts since... seems like a good guy doing his best. Seeing you guys talk about this vid was awesome. You hit the nail on the head. Also had me cracking up haha. Good shit.
18:41 Noah just casually texting one of his friends sitting next to his friends watching a video about a guy with no friends
Plot twist: Guy is so technical and calculated in his approach that he knew posting that kind of video would get results.
He seems like an only child because people that have siblings generally have better social skills
As someone with 2 sisters im close with, I wouldn't count on it
@@justhit6673 I think it depends on the type of environment ur in and the type of family dynamic u have cuz bad environment with a toxic family can breed bad results and a person whos unequiped for social interactions.
@@chantlmcclary6419 that would explain a lot
@@chantlmcclary6419I came from a stable and loving home with two sisters and it has weight but there are exceptions. Sometimes it’s the place you’re at. I remember having no friends at school at my new school but I still had close friends outside of school that I would talk to 4-7 times a week. It turns out it was me. I was annoying in class and socially awkward.it wasn’t until I stopped being annoying and I started putting myself out there that I started making friends
I'm like this guy in the sense that I don't have a lot of friends as a 21 year old, but sometimes it's better to lead a more solitary lifestyle when you find it hard to relate to people. I remembered being miserable in high school even though I had a regular friend group because I couldn't relate to them, they couldn't relate to me, and it was just annoying to deal with. In college, I found it to be very liberating when I get to just be very picky about who I'm friends with while treating those who I can't relate to as a very good acquaintance at most since we'll never be able to discuss certain ideas and things I did without backlash.
Guy had me in the first half, but then started talking like he wanted to turn into "normal spongebob"
It’s so embarrassing having them being genuinely shocked someone has no friends….. I don’t have any lol
Right? only Rhino Noah and Rob are my friends lol
y'all niggas need to go outside damn
I remember at 15/16 I used to think “How can someone not have any friends?” Cut to now at 26 and I’m living it lol
@@unnderneath im 15 rn could you give me some advice on keeping friends out of school
@@peepthedrip1158 they just said they don’t have any friends, lmao
you guys gotta get me on this show lmao I'm always laughing like I'm the fourth guy there this is the funniest shit man keep it up
Good way of putting it, Rhino. Developed enough to be attractive or to attract someone.
Sad as fuck that people go through this I'm going through it right now ig.
I'm a pretty quiet guy, but I can get along with most people. Smiling a lot is a big help, as I would think people want to be around someone who at least looks happy. Depending on what group of people I'm with, I'll barely talk. I'll just sit and listen and let the others do the bulk of the work. But you need to be attentive, you can't be off in your own world. Give them the satisfaction of being heard, and then just chime in when you need to. Just keep it relaxed and be joyful. 😎
That's at least an option for the conversational side of things. 😋
Almost 21 and never had a single friend or dated once. Is it because I only wear white t-shirts and black sweat pants all the time? I have multiple pairs and wash my clothes frequently. What is wrong?
Like the guy said in the video, attractiveness is less about how you physically look, and more about the your demeanor, or the way that you carry yourself. As long as you aren’t dirty or smelly, people don’t really care about the clothes that you wear. It’s more about who you really are as a person.
thats crazy i didnt know there were people who didnt have friends in school. for me I could always walk up tk someone with a smile and start a conversation. btw unless its they're dirty it has nothing to do with clothes
@turtlebro0017 brother did you get diagnosed with Asperger’s( I don’t mean anything bad)
@Yujiro945 lol no. My dad was in the military, so we moved a lot. Eventually it took a toll on Mr mentality and it became hard to communicate with people. I was also different and always the new kid. Kind of didn't help either
I dont give out the best advice most of the time but being a valuable to yourself and to your enviroment can also help you.
Anything that helps you become happy and proud of yourself. When you feel naturally good about yourself and at piece about who you are, you naturally go and seek out others to share your joy with. If youre anxious, depressed and full of shame you'll hardly be in a state of mind or feeling where you feel secure enough to express yourself truly to others.
I hope I could help and wish him the best for the future!
Keep up the good work and you guys should do military boot camp reaction vids
I don’t have friends and people seem to enjoy my company when I’m with them but never enough to remember me or to invite me to things, it has made me not have a social battery when it does come to socialising I notice that I’m only ever needed when people want their pictures taken since that’s my profession but never for me. And it’s not got to a point when people see me at events or places and they ask what I’m doing their if they don’t see my camera. It gets hard sometimes but I keep going. Maybe one day I’ll fit with a certain type of people who love me for me. Until then I’m focusing on always bettering myself and my craft
just got my strawberry park shirt and jacket 💪🏽
Instead of "it's broken, I should fix it" I feel as if it should be "It's broken, I should use it differently and innovate."
Because well, im not good at fixing everything there is. Work with whatcha got and improve in a way that motives and inspires you, it's the best feeling to have pride in your ability to turn things around and make things better or more useful to you.
I literally learned grammar by observing chats in games and later, I applied that academically. I didn't just copy and not apply my own logic and understanding, I innovated and used my own brain juices to think things through.
I suck at verbal communication, I'm quite good at writing and words. How I am in writing is so much different from I am in other aspects of life, it's like night and day, I'm more expressive and confident that way.
Anyways, he seems to be successfully trying to improve his circumstances.
I'm so interested in a topic like this, I could go on and on. For now tho, I'll leave it to here.
Black shirt dude is the only person here that seems to somewhat understand... "That's easy for us to say though".
Y’all are just too good !!! I’ve been there since day one !!!