Ways to Respond to TOXIC Behavior | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu
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- Опубликовано: 2 сен 2021
- Family relationships are so important. Within the same family both healthy and unhealthy relationships can exist. The relationships you have with different family members shape you and impact your view of the world. Sadly there seems to be those few people in every family that always get a pass on their bad behaviors. They do something unacceptable or say something outrageous and everyone is like, ‘it’s okay, you know how she is.’ How much poor behavior is excusable and tolerable when they continue to hurt feelings and cross the line? If you’re like Lisa, you may be the person that feels compelled to step in and call out the bad behavior, but does that resolve anything? If you’re like Tom, it may be easier for you to not engage and be more dismissive of their disruptive behavior. Either way, Tom and Lisa break down the advantages and disadvantages to both responses and share strategies for how to respond (or not respond) when it feels like a losing battle.
Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.
SHOW NOTES:
Stepping In | Lisa on when stepping in makes situation worse and can be just as bad [0:52]
Accept People | How to see that inappropriate behavior can come from insecurity also [4:21]
Boundaries | Be clear on where you draw the line there is no moral insecurity to fight over [5:32]
Feeling Attacked | Why feeling attacked doesn’t mean you need to convince anyone [7:02]
Being Right | The problem trying to prove you are right and knowing a losing strategy [12:30]
QUOTES:
“Inserting myself into a situation where it's you and someone else, especially if it's a family member. Now I'm just becoming more of a problem than I am the resolution.” Lisa Bilyeu [3:17]
“When somebody is able to get under your skin, it's because you're insecure. And when they're trying to get under your skin. It's because they're insecure.” Tom Bilyeu [6:02]
How do you not let your insecurities get in the way of your relationship?
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reclaim the Scapegoat or remain lost!
When someone’s getting under your skin - it’s because you’re insecure. When someone’s trying to get under your skin - it’s because their insecure. Love this.
6 ways to deal with toxic people/getting bullied/teased
1. Ignore it
2. Own it
3. Laugh at yourself
4. Comebacks
5. Not tolerate it
6. Leave
“When somebody’s able to get under your skin is because you're insecure and when they're trying to get under your skin it's because they're insecure.”
- Tom Bilyeu
Just love that quote, it's so true!
Wow! Lisa looks wonderful, in a healthy, strong, glow-y way. If she's doing something different, health wise, it shows! Can't wait to see Tom in a cape. Lol.
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*Most great accomplishments were achieved by the people, who at first had no idea what they were doing.*
Keep going my friend. I am cheering for you. 🙂
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Wow Lisa and Tom - You Both expressed that so insightfully. What an Inspirational Couple you guys are. 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽😃🌈🌟💖✨
Lisa, that hair colour was a fantastic choice, suits your skin tone beautifully!
Totally agree
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I did 🖐🏼💪🏽
Brilliant topic
So inspiring 🙏🏻💖🌹
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Interesting valid points but not sure they understood the original question
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I call it a narrcasist OK thar just can't leev u alone why can't people just leev each other in peace to liv isn't it anoph u hav a loving partner to love you and stick by you thru thick and thin without picking on you poking you getting under your skin be layed back chill out let the other one hav thear space don't incroch on it every one needs a bit space in every releshnship to thriv in order to function so eny budy who won't let the other liv I peace in a releshnship is a narrcasist and the peaceful one won't win