When goggins said remember you are the purpose in the full interview that hit hit deep for me! We have some many distractions in our lives we choose to spread ourselves thin towards others and others needs but we use our health and time to do so while neglecting our own needs or neglecting the grind to better our vessels and mentalities. This is needed in this day and age where society and media has failed us men in these times
It's soul crushing. I was 8 and literally dealt with the same thing. I kicked in a basement window at 8 to stop my little brothers dad from beating my mom. My brothers don't know, and I don't have the heart to tell them. I was scared she was gonna get beaten to death. I've never felt that kind of fear in my life.
Barstd!!! You where Amazing & so Fking Young! Should never have put that on You, but you bloody rose to the challenge May Love & Peace be with You All Your Daz🕊️ 🌍❤️
You are a good man, you will find solace in telling the people you love this story. I promise you, it will only bring you and your brother closer and free you from the burden of secrecy. I hope you and your family achieve all your dreams.
In my experience fathers wants to bring his darkness and sadness to his family so now everyone is sad and he is not only resentment person anymore Like you have black room now start painting whole room black Like Liberal left and so called LGBT activist are confused with their identity so now everyone must be confused with their identity to make them feel good Sorry for English
My mom got polio in her arms and my father would trip her because he knew that she couldn’t stop her fall and then beat her….I then tried to protect her..he was soo evil and would threaten to kill us and we would have to run in the middle of the night.. he was soo bad and I’m 52 now and trying really HARD to be balanced………..
David your mother lived to tell the tale.So many women don’t.Her story is important.And so is yours.Niether you or your mother should be embarrassed or ashamed of your past.You have an opportunity to save lives.Maybe that’s the greater story.A 40 year old woman shot to death in the parking lot of her job.Christmas eve.In my small community.To many of these stories.Keep talking.Don’t ever stop.
To all of the ppl saying an abused woman should just leave or know when to leave…please read the stats on how many women actually die because they chose to leave. Leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous time for women.
I’ve seen it so many times in the news and even known of a couple women around me who left and their partner came after them and killed them. I’ve heard a couple women even admit if they left they fear they’d be killed. I honestly understand why they stay even though my heart goes out to them.
My mom left and I am thankful she did. My first memory is my dad beating my mom when I was 3yo. I told her recently she should be proud of herself for leaving and that she was very strong because many women don't leave. She had to fight back tears when I told her. We will never know the true number. Its not like my mother reported anything to be a part of any stats.
The saddest thing about dv is that it can become generational. When we grow up in chaos , it can be hard to get out of a chaotic relationship cos its normal to us. It takes a lot of strength and self love to get out and stay out of these relationships. My mum stayed. I couldn't. These relationships do fuck you up.
Remember growing up back on small city in the northern part if mexico it was raining real hard and some one knocked at my moms home it was late at night when i open the door my Aunt was there with my two cousins probably 9 and 10 they were soaking wet and my aunt got like blood running trough her face she walk all the way from ger house on the skirts of the city a least 5 miles or more from my moms house later we check my cousin he was complaining of paint on his side when i take his shirt off it was a black mark on him later find out he go broken ribs the piace of shit of my uncle my mom's brother beat the hell out of that family until today 40 years later can't forget that night .
Domestic violence is some shit that will always stay with you. My most solid memory is my father full mounting my mother in the car and just ground pounding her face... I need a fucking drink now...
It's f*king hard to see that and can't do nothing about it. I've never experienced that before but remember u can turn this huge energy inside u to become better than ur father and a better dad.
@@emh8861 I had a neighbour like that. My mother called the police on him. The next day the woman came back from the hospital and stood in the doorway as she kissed my mum’s hand and cried as she thanked her for saving her life! I was only about 7 or 8 at the time and I still remember the neighbour doing that - I have no recollection of ever seeing/hearing her get beat or anything as I think my mother must have distracted us kids from that nightmare scenario.
I knew this guy who’s father was like David’s . He was a short man who got angry very easily and took it out on his wife and kids. My friend got the worst of it. And not even for a second did he ever blame his mother. She couldn’t leave him because she loved her kids to much. And she couldn’t take them because her father would take her kids away. She couldn’t do anything. But my friend didn’t care he said his mom was the best mom ever and did everything to make him happy. He didn’t blame her because there’s nothing to blame. I miss him man.
@@user-po2qr1jl8t Some men don’t start out that way. I have a relative who’s husband only started beating her after she got pregnant. They were married a year before she got pregnant.
When goggins said remember you are the purpose in the full interview that hit hit deep for me! We have some many distractions in our lives we choose to spread ourselves thin towards others and others needs but we use our health and time to do so while neglecting our own needs or neglecting the grind to better our vessels and mentalities. This is needed in this day and age where society and media has failed us men in these times
Goggins is the definition of grit and overcoming hardship. I’m glad I came across him.
It's soul crushing. I was 8 and literally dealt with the same thing. I kicked in a basement window at 8 to stop my little brothers dad from beating my mom. My brothers don't know, and I don't have the heart to tell them. I was scared she was gonna get beaten to death. I've never felt that kind of fear in my life.
I'm really sorry that happened to you friend.
Barstd!!!
You where Amazing & so Fking Young!
Should never have put that on You, but you bloody rose to the challenge
May Love & Peace be with You All Your Daz🕊️
🌍❤️
Dad pulled a knife on my Mother in one of the fights. Thought that night ending up with dead mother and father in jail. Mess.
Do you know what episode this is?
You are a good man, you will find solace in telling the people you love this story. I promise you, it will only bring you and your brother closer and free you from the burden of secrecy. I hope you and your family achieve all your dreams.
So sad and common. I’ll never understand physical abuse. How anyone can hurt the mother of your child and your children….🥺
In my experience fathers wants to bring his darkness and sadness to his family so now everyone is sad and he is not only resentment person anymore
Like you have black room now start painting whole room black
Like Liberal left and so called LGBT activist are confused with their identity so now everyone must be confused with their identity to make them feel good
Sorry for English
My mom got polio in her arms and my father would trip her because he knew that she couldn’t stop her fall and then beat her….I then tried to protect her..he was soo evil and would threaten to kill us and we would have to run in the middle of the night.. he was soo bad and I’m 52 now and trying really HARD to be balanced………..
All the way with you keep going 🙌🏻✨
David your mother lived to tell the tale.So many women don’t.Her story is important.And so is yours.Niether you or your mother should be embarrassed or ashamed of your past.You have an opportunity to save lives.Maybe that’s the greater story.A 40 year old woman shot to death in the parking lot of her job.Christmas eve.In my small community.To many of these stories.Keep talking.Don’t ever stop.
To all of the ppl saying an abused woman should just leave or know when to leave…please read the stats on how many women actually die because they chose to leave. Leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous time for women.
I’ve seen it so many times in the news and even known of a couple women around me who left and their partner came after them and killed them. I’ve heard a couple women even admit if they left they fear they’d be killed. I honestly understand why they stay even though my heart goes out to them.
My mom left and I am thankful she did. My first memory is my dad beating my mom when I was 3yo. I told her recently she should be proud of herself for leaving and that she was very strong because many women don't leave. She had to fight back tears when I told her. We will never know the true number. Its not like my mother reported anything to be a part of any stats.
The way he says some things hit so deep.
The saddest thing about dv is that it can become generational. When we grow up in chaos , it can be hard to get out of a chaotic relationship cos its normal to us. It takes a lot of strength and self love to get out and stay out of these relationships. My mum stayed. I couldn't. These relationships do fuck you up.
Absolutely true.
Toasting to u David, for going from a survivor to thriver. Hugs, beautiful soul. Hugs.
Goggins could be a serious model. Like someone t paint his portrait. He is aesthetically beautiful work of art. Like a nubian prince.
Thank you on behalf of all those women xxx
prayers please
Remember growing up back on small city in the northern part if mexico it was raining real hard and some one knocked at my moms home it was late at night when i open the door my Aunt was there with my two cousins probably 9 and 10 they were soaking wet and my aunt got like blood running trough her face she walk all the way from ger house on the skirts of the city a least 5 miles or more from my moms house later we check my cousin he was complaining of paint on his side when i take his shirt off it was a black mark on him later find out he go broken ribs the piace of shit of my uncle my mom's brother beat the hell out of that family until today 40 years later can't forget that night .
Horrific.
So much trouble in the world🥺
Domestic violence is some shit that will always stay with you. My most solid memory is my father full mounting my mother in the car and just ground pounding her face...
I need a fucking drink now...
virtual hug for you my bro
It's f*king hard to see that and can't do nothing about it. I've never experienced that before but remember u can turn this huge energy inside u to become better than ur father and a better dad.
Yup
I seen that as an adult. My neighbor would beat his wife. I would have nightmares. Can’t imagine how that would affect a child.
@@emh8861 I had a neighbour like that. My mother called the police on him. The next day the woman came back from the hospital and stood in the doorway as she kissed my mum’s hand and cried as she thanked her for saving her life! I was only about 7 or 8 at the time and I still remember the neighbour doing that - I have no recollection of ever seeing/hearing her get beat or anything as I think my mother must have distracted us kids from that nightmare scenario.
We need to talk about all types of abuse, it’s been normalised almost in society ppl need knowledge of red flags 🚩
Where is this full podcast please tell me
Spotify
@@graphstyle and where is the full video
@@shreyansh4497 Spotify shows the video as you listen
@@tijanbianca5077 Roger that
Where can you hear his mother talking about this?
It's on the audio book. The audio book has these mini "podcasts" in between chapters. There is one of these where David interviews her.
Podcast 8, it's really a hard listen.
Hid interview with his mom happen after evolution no.4 of the audiobook.
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How come kids never blame mom for staying?
People usually say they stay for the sake of the children.
So basically they put that shit on the kids.
I knew this guy who’s father was like David’s . He was a short man who got angry very easily and took it out on his wife and kids. My friend got the worst of it. And not even for a second did he ever blame his mother. She couldn’t leave him because she loved her kids to much. And she couldn’t take them because her father would take her kids away. She couldn’t do anything. But my friend didn’t care he said his mom was the best mom ever and did everything to make him happy. He didn’t blame her because there’s nothing to blame. I miss him man.
Easy to have that perspective as a man
Or blame mom for making kids with a violent alcoholic. All good men in the world and women choose horrible men. Very clever.
@@user-po2qr1jl8t Some men don’t start out that way. I have a relative who’s husband only started beating her after she got pregnant. They were married a year before she got pregnant.