As Zachary I missed you and your face! Very good outlook and philosophy of life. I admire that as someone who gets anxiety attacks over really irrational things. As for friends- I think it's different for every relationship. I had one best friend my whole childhood and halfway through my teens. We live next door to each other and havent really spoken in a year. No arguements I think we just moved on but it's ok because I have new friends I feel so close to and connected.
Friendships... well they're an oddity. I value my friends immensely and I believe I do have certain close friends but there aren't any of them that I could confide in absolutely and about anything. I tend to inadvertently supply information across groups of people so that I get the weight off my chest and feel less alone but it doesn't necessarily mean that anyone person has done anything beneficial and in return I try to be an absolute friend; who does their best to help everyone as required.
My mam and I are slowly working towards that sort of relationship, not that she knows it, but because I'm only really approaching being my own person (I'm 18) we obviously aren't there yet. Being a dependent sort of forces your parents to see you as their child more than if I were living independently or paying my own way; despite this I do think we're headed that way and I look forward to it because I've always tried to appreciate the people behind mam and dad and wanted the same from them.
As for meaningful friendships. Those are really hard to find. I have a few friends who are good friends, meaningful friends, but one of them lives upstate, so I never get to see him, the other one I do get to see, though. It's cool. Good to have like-minded friends. And stuff like that.
also me and my mm have that relationship because she was a single parent and we just are more like two friends with the same interests same likes and and age difference. Shes my friend who also happens to be my mum maybe it's weird but I think it's awesome
I have a decent relationship with my mom, my sister and my mom and I will go to the movies and stuff, and watch Project Runway and Chopped, and stuff like that together, and play board games, and we used to play video games together. It's pretty good. With my dad, our likes and interests are very very different and conflicting, and he's very opinionated and stuff, in short, it's hard to find common ground with him to just hang out, but our relationship isn't bad or anything.
Awh I missed your videos! Looking forward to seeing more :D
Congrats on relationshipy stuff and parenty stuff :D But spilt cheese is definitely something to cry about :o
As Zachary I missed you and your face! Very good outlook and philosophy of life. I admire that as someone who gets anxiety attacks over really irrational things. As for friends- I think it's different for every relationship. I had one best friend my whole childhood and halfway through my teens. We live next door to each other and havent really spoken in a year. No arguements I think we just moved on but it's ok because I have new friends I feel so close to and connected.
Friendships... well they're an oddity. I value my friends immensely and I believe I do have certain close friends but there aren't any of them that I could confide in absolutely and about anything. I tend to inadvertently supply information across groups of people so that I get the weight off my chest and feel less alone but it doesn't necessarily mean that anyone person has done anything beneficial and in return I try to be an absolute friend; who does their best to help everyone as required.
Hey! Really happy that your moving-in and parental-visiting and general things are going well. :D (Spilled cheese aside, obviously.)
My mam and I are slowly working towards that sort of relationship, not that she knows it, but because I'm only really approaching being my own person (I'm 18) we obviously aren't there yet. Being a dependent sort of forces your parents to see you as their child more than if I were living independently or paying my own way; despite this I do think we're headed that way and I look forward to it because I've always tried to appreciate the people behind mam and dad and wanted the same from them.
As for meaningful friendships. Those are really hard to find. I have a few friends who are good friends, meaningful friends, but one of them lives upstate, so I never get to see him, the other one I do get to see, though. It's cool. Good to have like-minded friends. And stuff like that.
also me and my mm have that relationship because she was a single parent and we just are more like two friends with the same interests same likes and and age difference. Shes my friend who also happens to be my mum maybe it's weird but I think it's awesome
Great to have you back though. That was meant to be a positive thing, not a negative one!
I have a decent relationship with my mom, my sister and my mom and I will go to the movies and stuff, and watch Project Runway and Chopped, and stuff like that together, and play board games, and we used to play video games together. It's pretty good. With my dad, our likes and interests are very very different and conflicting, and he's very opinionated and stuff, in short, it's hard to find common ground with him to just hang out, but our relationship isn't bad or anything.
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Ahh I've missed your videos. =3