Video summary How to deal with toxic people Informative points: - Giving negative comments to someone and then everybody jokes around it, is bullying. - Family issues, sub-content culture of joint family leads to toxicity. - Arabs have a rule once they married, the married couple has to have a home. But in our culture a boy is not settled who cant afford home thus he has to stay with his father along with his wife. Then it becomes challenging to deal with everyone. - It has become about winning the argument these days. - Even Islamic feminist ask for 50/50, this is so empirical. Its hard for a female to do 50/50. A man is a bread winner. And a woman takes care of family. This should b the priority. - 2 questions to ask: - You are toxic yourself - How u respond to people who are toxic towards you. - Solutions to deal with toxicity 1. Make yourself govern by Islamic laws, don’t use brain to justify reason. 2. Consciously identify problem in you that maybe I am myself toxic 3. Have empathy for everyone 4. Lets say if you figure out a family member of yours has anger issue then you deal with that person politely 5. ALLAH loves forbearance, the moment the mind is shutt off then you respond back aggressively, thus take time off and think and then respond back. It doesn’t mean u learnt about forbearance today and tomorrow u will have forbearance. It takes a cycle and repetition to gain this. Answer bad with good. And u will b rewarded doing this. - Same way u learn sabar by practicing it, u wont learn it in one day. Rewards of good ikhlaq: - ALLAH will call out the person who will leave anger at the time he could take out anger, and ALLAH will ask him to select which HOOR UL AIN u want. Prophet SAW said who will leave argument even if he is on HAQQ, then he will get plot in jannah. - Ego: let go of ego with humbleness. A humble person is first one to say sorry. And first one to forgive. He does it for ALLAH. You will get great reward. - If you acquire humility for ALLAH then ALLAH will increase your respect. - give room of mistake to everyone. - joint family system is not proposed system of Islam. - Husband is Qawwam, he is caretaker of the family. A true man controls anger. - To save relationship be heedless, dont give yourself thought why he did this to me or that to me. Give what u want more. - forgive - let go hatred and clean heart - give respect and love - May ALLAH make ME and all of us implement this in our life.
You are absolutely correct. My mother faced a really difficult susral and now when my brother was getting married she was determined to separate my brother n sister in law. My brother rented a separate apartment and now both my mother and sister in law share such a beautiful bond of respect and friendship because of the boundaries my mother created from the beginning.
Ni sir really drama 99% true sas ka role sach btaty hn drama mn SB nazar ara hota ha pr real life mn Kisi ko nazar b ni atta jaldi kisi ko life hi barbad kr dyti ha sas n sosral
Mary khayal ma asal ma toxic insaan wo hota ha jo apny ap ko dunia ma sb sy zada perfect samjtay howy apny qareebi sb e logo ko hr wakat low feel kraaty hain hr choti sy choti bt pah bizat krty ha or logo ko bhht zada useless feel krwaty ha koi bi bt ho us ma agr 99% positivity ho gi to wo bnda un ma sy 1% jo negativity ho gi sirf wo dakhay ga or bht e zada bhahs krnay wala insan hota ha.
رَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ “Our Lord, give us in this world good and in the Hereafter good and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.” [Quran; 2:201]
ITS HIGHLY REQUESTED TO START NEW PLAYLIST ,❤ WHERE YOU WILL DISCUSS ABOUT THE LIFE STORIES, MIRACLES AND LESSONS OF EACH PROPHET'S❤ IN PARTICULARLY DEDICATED 1 LECTURE . TRUST ME, PEOPLE WILL LOVE IT❤❤❤
Ay ALLAH.... TU 2 jahanu ka baadshah hai.... Tere hi banday Hain, TU aisy logoun main shamil rakh jisn sy TU razi hai, or aisy logoun ki suhbat sy bacha Jo gumrahi k rasty pr Hain.... Beshak k Tere ilawa koi hidayat ka Rasta nhi dikha Sakta...
Sir, please also cover these topics in upcoming podcasts. - Students balancing of deen and duniya studies, way of lifestyle - How to speak eloquently ( like Tuaha sir :D) (with clean heart, confidently irrespective other person dislike u) - How to inculcate Confidence -in any field -towards anyone. -How to be more zaheen (with each passind day) That reflect in decision, speech. - Instant Decision making n dealings. JazakAllah khairan P.S. why not start personality development course/podcast- one concept per session. Importantly tips to inculcate.
Assalamualaikum guys you guys are the best in this Area for our youth . Easi Ramadan may ap ki ak Vedio Mari Nazar say guzri jis may ap ki broadcast may Abdul Malik Abdul Malik Fareed thy jab sy wo Vedio dakhi tab say ab tak many tuha sir ki aur poray youth club ki sari Vedios dek Lai Hain apni zandagiii may bhot change aaya hai
Tahua ibne Jameel , u r the only person who changed me for forever , ur every video so much attractional and benifical for me Alhamdulillah meny apsy BHT kuch seekha har video ever best Hoty , or ap logon jesy cool molana ki hi kami the mashallah , Allah pak apki team or takat Dy I am Hira shaikh
Buht hi helpful tha bhae aaj ka topic. I saw your video first time and love the way you are all conveying your msg with the help of ahaadees. Islam is a beautiful religion and as a Muslim by following the ahaadees of our beloved prophet Muhammad sallaho alaihi waalahi wassalam, we can handle alot of typical situation and can keep our mind in peace.
I don’t think Islamic Feminism is how Tuaha bhai explained it. I used to think I was a feminist, until I saw the beauty of Islam. I started to understand why Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave each male and female a lot of rights and responsibilities in their own roles. Islamic Feminism to me is exactly how Allah سبحانه وتعالى wants a woman to be (empowered and in her feminine nature)
“A man is upon the method of his close friend, so let each of you look into whom he takes as a close friend.” - Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) (Sunan-ut-Tirmizi, vol. 4, pp. 167, Hadees 2385)
Those men are absolutely correct about our culture about joint families and one who is going to make decisions is mother in law ( this is absolutely toxic)😢
أَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَحْدَةً لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ Ashadu an lā ilaha illā-llāh wahdahu lā sarika lahu, wa ashadu anna muhammadan 'abduhu wa rasūluhu I bear witness that (there is) no god except Allah; One is He, no partner hath He, and I bear witness that Muhammad [PBUH] is His Servant and Messenger
I really love these guys for Allah.. Mashallah ... May Allah grant us jannah ! You all do efforts to spread awareness in muslim youth .. And Ali .E 😂😂 Mashallah . May Allah save you all from evil eyes .. Ameen.... And give you the best rewards for all this ..
Masha Allah. For all times. Just one hum sabko sabke sath Mohabbat se pesh Ane se dushman v dost ban jata hai. But be careful for all people's for time being 🇮🇳🇮🇳💜💚
our culture has alot of toxic norms in this regard some of them i would like to list here: 1.parents taking their given privilege for granted extremely, 2.joint family system 3.parents giving their energy of youth to their children beyond limit and then at later old age completely being dependent on them which makes life tough and burden cannot be handled , because a person who wants to please Allah by serving old parents is unable to do so 4.parents being highly biased towards their children, favoring one on other forever has worse outcomes in later age of a person (just as in your podcast you mentioned that those who are neglected by their parents are deprived f love and thus get caught outside predators more often) 5. mixed gathering and then if you dont meet na mehrams you will face backlash and would be labelled as extreme ( they pinch you so much that it makes you feel as if you are doing something wrong ) 6.compettition among cousins in everything 7. family is really toxic in most cases in Pakistan believe it or not its the core problem of so many issues 8. social conformity above religious practices 9.concept of deen dunya sath le kr chalo" in which dunya includes almost all the haram stuff and deen means not even fullfillment of farz properly . 10.being extra sweet with outsiders and opposite to close ones (parents , siblings , neighbours , relatives etc ). There are alot of them but unable to mention them here . may Allah help our society and Pakistan with the best understanding of Islam . Ameen .
I'm 100% agree with you guys but sometime when daughters are not happy than Mother-In-law doesn't want Daughter in Law to be happy. They continuously bullying daughter in law and at the end of the day Mother-In-Law becomes happy by ending the son's relation.
Nobody's born toxic. It's his life experiences that make him that way. But the toxicity increases when that person, conscious of his toxicity, refuses to accept and fix it.
11:20 pay Jo BAAT hui Hai.. is full ❤. Pakistani media K krnay ka kaam: sari local problems lay K unka behtareen hal bataen dramas main. Ghar ka hr fard kaisay hr Maslay may input day sakta Hai. I witnessed this in local media of Australia & Singapore. Aisay dramas on-air krtay hain which give guidance to all people in society for tackling problems & making high standard society. The actor who played the role of mother & later mother in law, in one such drama, said K is character Ko jab us nay APNI Jawani may play Kia tha, 1980s may, to she learnt how to behave best in real life as a mom, daughter to elderly parents, in-laws & as a neighbour & auntie to kids in community. & now again she was casted as an elder in 2016..said now she's learning to be a better grandma, mother in law & local elder.
Agr koyi mujhe taunt mary ya mera mazak udhaye mai ye koshish karti hu k mai ausse positive lu mai sochti hu may be auska mtlb ye nhi tha may be maine galat samjha aur sb sai badi baat mai sochti hu k chalo agr ye ausne intentionally kiya bhi toh aus ne galat kiya he agr mai bhi aus k bary mai kch bugaz rakhu toh mai bhi bura karu ge mera Rab hum sb ko hadayat de sabr karne ki toufek de ameen Suma ameen ❤❤❤❤
Yes I did the same maneeza all my life until I turn 40 and realized people were toxic and they started leaving me one by one I mean relatives they were jealous of my parents and treated me with toxicity because they couldn’t respond to my parents then even though I tried best to do good for all these people their ugly toxic nature couldn’t stay hidden for long after 49 years of life it came out open and they started blaming for things where I couldn’t defend myself because I live in another country all o did was helped them financially and good will . Allah related me with more and more blessing which made those people get more and more jealous and toxic and ultimately leave me now I have no cousins uncles aunts to see . I live alone in a far away country just me and my Allah and don’t think I never tried I did tried many times to reconnect but they hurt me so much that I just stay quiet now . Allah showed their true faces
Yes bro we are created by same God in Arabic we call God Allah....but it's important to recognise God who God is, what is the purpose of life and instructions.....🙌
Tauha bhai ne buhut achi baat ki k agar ap as a male ap koi decision nahi laynay k qabil hain ya your are a mamas boy despite being in a relationship then you should not get married at all...man should be responsible and accountable about his views and thoughts about his family life..
But some husbands are so toxic they wife doesn’t need saas, susar or any other relationship. That kind of person makes his wife and kids life hell with their attitude. Loving your 11th hour podcasts 👍
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ Sir I have a request ke ap ek session aese rake k Jis mai ap Hume dua karne ka tariqa numaz, wazu or baqi Jo humari ebadat ke sahi tariqe hai wo humari youth ko samjai ke Jo Jo ghaltiya hum apne ebadat me karte hai wo hum tik karsake kiu ke aj kal bachai mostly apne ebadat es liye nahi kar pate kiu ke on ko sahi tariqe pata nahi hote..... جَزاكَ اللهُ خَـيْراً
Aoa all. Achi BAAT achay andaaz may achi lagti Hai. I guess dramas fill that "artistic" void in a hectic busy mum day. Dramay aik entertaining way of teaching Hai in Singapore & Australia. Dramas say wo sabko aik sovh pay lay aatay Hain. I never liked dramas. But now after changing kids multiple nappies, cleaning 🧹 dirty floors that kids make dirty, by default, while eating or playing, I'm loving some bed time & a drama that can give me some beautiful scenes to see, family ethic reminders, hamari zaban may baatin (hamaray logon ki guftugu mujhay bohot yaad aati Hai, in Baahir K mulkon may. Jxk for these beautiful talks. mA,BA), dramas with great home deco (aap sab aisay dramas bana dain..u guys rock each episode,mA!) Jahan khuda or ambia(as) Ki di hui values Ko use Kia jaey or unka successful result K Saath "happily ever after" end ho..like I tried APNI zindagi may..or phir Allah(swt) K saray promises ko 💯 true paya. I wanna see that in a drama. Jaisay meray saray Maslay hal huay sunan follow krnay say.
I liked how you guys approached the topic, however I do think the concept of boundaries should also be added into the mix because while we are going to choose to hold up to good akhlaq and let it go - at the same time we don't want to enable toxic people to cause harm/abuse. So we are nice to people at the same time we also don't give the other cheek. One of the maqasid-e-shariah is to protect us.
Thats true, being in a toxic environment its important to set boundaries to protect yourself. Otherwise if you are not strong enough, you will be affected.
Sach m bhi hmary yaha drama dykh bolty ha dykha fala drama m saas bahu ky sath kr rhi the asy hota ha haqeekat m 😅😅😅😅 Sir ap ki videos sy kfi info milti ha❤
Asalam o aliakum, mashallah brothers, keep it up.....agar serious talk ho itni lambi then it starts to bore us😂.....but your bond bro......😅 it's genuine.....it keep us to be connected with you..... jazakallah for everything....but please light sa humor agar lecture aur podcast mn ho to mery jesy bando ko connect karny mn asani rahy gi😊
Video summary How to deal with toxic people
Informative points:
- Giving negative comments to someone and then everybody jokes around it, is bullying.
- Family issues, sub-content culture of joint family leads to toxicity.
- Arabs have a rule once they married, the married couple has to have a home. But in our culture a boy is not settled who cant afford home thus he has to stay with his father along with his wife. Then it becomes challenging to deal with everyone.
- It has become about winning the argument these days.
- Even Islamic feminist ask for 50/50, this is so empirical. Its hard for a female to do 50/50.
A man is a bread winner. And a woman takes care of family. This should b the priority.
- 2 questions to ask:
- You are toxic yourself
- How u respond to people who are toxic towards you.
- Solutions to deal with toxicity
1. Make yourself govern by Islamic laws, don’t use brain to justify reason.
2. Consciously identify problem in you that maybe I am myself toxic
3. Have empathy for everyone
4. Lets say if you figure out a family member of yours has anger issue then you deal with that person politely
5. ALLAH loves forbearance, the moment the mind is shutt off then you respond back aggressively, thus take time off and think and then respond back.
It doesn’t mean u learnt about forbearance today and tomorrow u will have forbearance. It takes a cycle and repetition to gain this. Answer bad with good. And u will b rewarded doing this.
- Same way u learn sabar by practicing it, u wont learn it in one day.
Rewards of good ikhlaq:
- ALLAH will call out the person who will leave anger at the time he could take out anger, and ALLAH will ask him to select which HOOR UL AIN u want.
Prophet SAW said who will leave argument even if he is on HAQQ, then he will get plot in jannah.
- Ego: let go of ego with humbleness. A humble person is first one to say sorry. And first one to forgive. He does it for ALLAH. You will get great reward.
- If you acquire humility for ALLAH then ALLAH will increase your respect.
- give room of mistake to everyone.
- joint family system is not proposed system of Islam.
- Husband is Qawwam, he is caretaker of the family. A true man controls anger.
- To save relationship be heedless, dont give yourself thought why he did this to me or that to me.
Give what u want more.
- forgive
- let go hatred and clean heart
- give respect and love
- May ALLAH make ME and all of us implement this in our life.
Wow great sum up
May Allah give you unlimited reward for this summary. Ameen!
aameen
Allah humma A'meen 💫
Briliiliantly explained❤
You are absolutely correct. My mother faced a really difficult susral and now when my brother was getting married she was determined to separate my brother n sister in law. My brother rented a separate apartment and now both my mother and sister in law share such a beautiful bond of respect and friendship because of the boundaries my mother created from the beginning.
Excellent ma sha ALLAAH . Same happened to me from my in laws and I’ll also separate my son from day one .
Best decision made by your amma❤
Ni sir really drama 99% true sas ka role sach btaty hn drama mn SB nazar ara hota ha pr real life mn Kisi ko nazar b ni atta jaldi kisi ko life hi barbad kr dyti ha sas n sosral
MashaaAllah v nice good decision made by your mother .
privacy and respect should be maintained for life time good relationships .
Ali E is THE best with his one liners 😅 and the bond of Tuaha & Ali E 🤩 Ma Sha Allah what a group jazakAllah Khair 🌹
Mary khayal ma asal ma toxic insaan wo hota ha jo apny ap ko dunia ma sb sy zada perfect samjtay howy apny qareebi sb e logo ko hr wakat low feel kraaty hain hr choti sy choti bt pah bizat krty ha or logo ko bhht zada useless feel krwaty ha koi bi bt ho us ma agr 99% positivity ho gi to wo bnda un ma sy 1% jo negativity ho gi sirf wo dakhay ga or bht e zada bhahs krnay wala insan hota ha.
رَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ
“Our Lord, give us in this world good and in the Hereafter good and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.” [Quran; 2:201]
Aameen
May Allah reward you
Ameen SumAmeen Ya Rab ul Aalameen ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aameen
Such a serious issue but you guys have dealed with fun. 🤣
May Allah retain your friendship in Jannah. 🤝🤲
Aameen
ITS HIGHLY REQUESTED TO START NEW PLAYLIST ,❤ WHERE YOU WILL DISCUSS ABOUT THE LIFE STORIES, MIRACLES AND LESSONS OF EACH PROPHET'S❤ IN PARTICULARLY DEDICATED 1 LECTURE . TRUST ME, PEOPLE WILL LOVE IT❤❤❤
Yes plz
Yes
Abu saad has started a series on his RUclips channel but it’s about the life of sahaba do check it out
Yes please
Absolutely correct this is highly needed
This is so true that in today's world if you r savage you will be praised no matter what words slangs u r using may Allah ﷻ guide us Ameen
Ay ALLAH.... TU 2 jahanu ka baadshah hai.... Tere hi banday Hain, TU aisy logoun main shamil rakh jisn sy TU razi hai, or aisy logoun ki suhbat sy bacha Jo gumrahi k rasty pr Hain.... Beshak k Tere ilawa koi hidayat ka Rasta nhi dikha Sakta...
Love how these conversations never turn awkward. Allahumma barik
Sir, please also cover these topics in upcoming podcasts.
- Students balancing of deen and duniya studies, way of lifestyle
- How to speak eloquently ( like Tuaha sir :D) (with clean heart, confidently irrespective other person dislike u)
- How to inculcate Confidence -in any field -towards anyone.
-How to be more zaheen (with each passind day)
That reflect in decision, speech.
- Instant Decision making n dealings.
JazakAllah khairan
P.S. why not start personality development course/podcast- one concept per session.
Importantly tips to inculcate.
Assalamualaikum, you should check Muhammad Ali's playlist "personality grooming class". he has covered so many topics which are helpful
I learnt a lot from your video with mufti Tariq Masood , many questions were there in my mind and I got answers.........jazakallah
Ap ki batein bilkul thek hain magr kuch log qayamat tk nahi sudharty ap chahy kuch b kr lo😔🤨😔
I really enjoyed this. I am struggling with controlling my anger and tongue. It is becoming more and more bitter.
Assalamualaikum guys you guys are the best in this Area for our youth .
Easi Ramadan may ap ki ak Vedio Mari Nazar say guzri jis may ap ki broadcast may Abdul Malik Abdul Malik Fareed thy jab sy wo Vedio dakhi tab say ab tak many tuha sir ki aur poray youth club ki sari Vedios dek Lai Hain apni zandagiii may bhot change aaya hai
اسْتَغْفِرُالله الَّذِىْ لآَ اِلَهَ اِلاَّ هُوَ الْحَىُّ الْقَيُّوْمُ وَاَ تُوْبُ اِلَيْهِ
May Allah guide us.. if someone is toxic to you remember have SABR, they are just showing you their inner state...
Assalamu alaikum
I will also start a youth club in India inspired by you and create an Islamic youth club in India too, in sha Allah.
Allah apki madad krai ga insha'Allah.....Also watch engineer ali mirza he best guide you
All the best may Allah help you for way of Allah
walikum assalam
i also want to start this in India...
India mein nahi chalegi bhai india ke musalmaano ko hinduo se zyada mohabbat hai islam se kam,
@@Karachiking45 in sha Allah bhai niyat saaf honi chahiye aur tawaqul allah par bas sab kuch ho sakta hai
Tahua ibne Jameel , u r the only person who changed me for forever , ur every video so much attractional and benifical for me Alhamdulillah meny apsy BHT kuch seekha har video ever best Hoty , or ap logon jesy cool molana ki hi kami the mashallah , Allah pak apki team or takat Dy I am Hira shaikh
This has been a great series . I listen to it everyday while preparing iftar..May Allah reward everyone involved in this ❤
Buht hi helpful tha bhae aaj ka topic. I saw your video first time and love the way you are all conveying your msg with the help of ahaadees. Islam is a beautiful religion and as a Muslim by following the ahaadees of our beloved prophet Muhammad sallaho alaihi waalahi wassalam, we can handle alot of typical situation and can keep our mind in peace.
Such best way to share their opinions about this topic❤
I don’t think Islamic Feminism is how Tuaha bhai explained it. I used to think I was a feminist, until I saw the beauty of Islam. I started to understand why Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave each male and female a lot of rights and responsibilities in their own roles. Islamic Feminism to me is exactly how Allah سبحانه وتعالى wants a woman to be (empowered and in her feminine nature)
Phir to wo feminism nhi hua na wo to islam ki khubsurat teaching hogyi feminism to ek toxic concept hai jahan sirf main main aur main hai.
JazakAllah o khairan qaseera for this podcast 🥺✨
you guys are speaking amazingly ... I'm so thankful that you guys are speaking out. I hope everyone can hear you out
“A man is upon the method of his close friend, so let each of you look into whom he takes as a close friend.”
- Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)
(Sunan-ut-Tirmizi, vol. 4, pp. 167, Hadees 2385)
“It is much safer to be feared than loved”
-Machiavelli
What 😂😂😂
@@saynotolgbtq3075 ya
Those men are absolutely correct about our culture about joint families and one who is going to make decisions is mother in law ( this is absolutely toxic)😢
أَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَحْدَةً لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ
Ashadu an lā ilaha illā-llāh wahdahu lā sarika lahu, wa ashadu anna muhammadan 'abduhu wa rasūluhu
I bear witness that (there is) no god except Allah; One is He, no partner hath He, and I bear witness that Muhammad [PBUH] is His Servant and Messenger
I really love these guys for Allah.. Mashallah ... May Allah grant us jannah !
You all do efforts to spread awareness in muslim youth .. And Ali .E 😂😂 Mashallah . May Allah save you all from evil eyes .. Ameen.... And give you the best rewards for all this ..
Wonderful.... Jazak Allah khair
Jazakallah hu khairan kaseera for this beautiful advice for me i needed this right now may Allah bless you my dears brothers
A much needed podcast! JazakaAllah khair brothers💚🇮🇳
Masha Allah. For all times. Just one hum sabko sabke sath Mohabbat se pesh Ane se dushman v dost ban jata hai. But be careful for all people's for time being 🇮🇳🇮🇳💜💚
You Guys Are Bringing Best Topics Day By Day .....These All Are Our Daily Situations....
Ma Sha Allah..interested..enjoyable conversation with productivity
Aslamualykum..
You are Awesome cooool people..
Shabe Qadar main ye practice bht kamyaab rhti hai..dil ko clean krny wali..
I myself experience it..
our culture has alot of toxic norms in this regard some of them i would like to list here:
1.parents taking their given privilege for granted extremely,
2.joint family system
3.parents giving their energy of youth to their children beyond limit and then at later old age completely being dependent on them which makes life tough and burden cannot be handled , because a person who wants to please Allah by serving old parents is unable to do so
4.parents being highly biased towards their children, favoring one on other forever has worse outcomes in later age of a person (just as in your podcast you mentioned that those who are neglected by their parents are deprived f love and thus get caught outside predators more often)
5. mixed gathering and then if you dont meet na mehrams you will face backlash and would be labelled as extreme ( they pinch you so much that it makes you feel as if you are doing something wrong )
6.compettition among cousins in everything
7. family is really toxic in most cases in Pakistan believe it or not its the core problem of so many issues
8. social conformity above religious practices
9.concept of deen dunya sath le kr chalo" in which dunya includes almost all the haram stuff and deen means not even fullfillment of farz properly .
10.being extra sweet with outsiders and opposite to close ones (parents , siblings , neighbours , relatives etc ).
There are alot of them but unable to mention them here .
may Allah help our society and Pakistan with the best understanding of Islam . Ameen .
YOU JUST DESCRIBED MY MENTAL STRESS 🥲
💯
I'm 100% agree with you guys but sometime when daughters are not happy than Mother-In-law doesn't want Daughter in Law to be happy. They continuously bullying daughter in law and at the end of the day Mother-In-Law becomes happy by ending the son's relation.
Love the way when Abu saad asked
"What about females bro?"🤗
We deserves a company like them:)
Please also dicuss on how to deal with parents who don't understand their children also taunt them
Pls upload more of such podcast content.. These discussions are sooo helpful, enlightening & full of wisdom.. Thankyou for this :)
MashaAllah Aap ko saath dekh ker buhat strong feel kerte hyn Alhhamdulillah
The Best ❤❤❤❤💐💐💐💐🤲🤲🤲🤲
Sometimes we ourselves are the toxic people 😢
I did tauba and trying to be better towards whom i did toxicity. May Allah and those ppl forgive me
love your all podcast
Finally after 9 episodes khuraam bhai bhi chair per beth gae :D
Nobody's born toxic. It's his life experiences that make him that way. But the toxicity increases when that person, conscious of his toxicity, refuses to accept and fix it.
Random
Luv from Kashmir May Allah bless you brothers
11:20 pay Jo BAAT hui Hai.. is full ❤.
Pakistani media K krnay ka kaam:
sari local problems lay K unka behtareen hal bataen dramas main.
Ghar ka hr fard kaisay hr Maslay may input day sakta Hai.
I witnessed this in local media of Australia & Singapore. Aisay dramas on-air krtay hain which give guidance to all people in society for tackling problems & making high standard society. The actor who played the role of mother & later mother in law, in one such drama, said K is character Ko jab us nay APNI Jawani may play Kia tha, 1980s may, to she learnt how to behave best in real life as a mom, daughter to elderly parents, in-laws & as a neighbour & auntie to kids in community. & now again she was casted as an elder in 2016..said now she's learning to be a better grandma, mother in law & local elder.
Ye Mere deyan main Aya tha So u came up with this ❤ JazakaAlah khaer❤ Brothers
Today abu saad ne bht achi baaten ki hen...
Agr koyi mujhe taunt mary ya mera mazak udhaye mai ye koshish karti hu k mai ausse positive lu mai sochti hu may be auska mtlb ye nhi tha may be maine galat samjha aur sb sai badi baat mai sochti hu k chalo agr ye ausne intentionally kiya bhi toh aus ne galat kiya he agr mai bhi aus k bary mai kch bugaz rakhu toh mai bhi bura karu ge mera Rab hum sb ko hadayat de sabr karne ki toufek de ameen Suma ameen ❤❤❤❤
Yes I did the same maneeza all my life until I turn 40 and realized people were toxic and they started leaving me one by one I mean relatives they were jealous of my parents and treated me with toxicity because they couldn’t respond to my parents then even though I tried best to do good for all these people their ugly toxic nature couldn’t stay hidden for long after 49 years of life it came out open and they started blaming for things where I couldn’t defend myself because I live in another country all o did was helped them financially and good will . Allah related me with more and more blessing which made those people get more and more jealous and toxic and ultimately leave me now I have no cousins uncles aunts to see . I live alone in a far away country just me and my Allah and don’t think I never tried I did tried many times to reconnect but they hurt me so much that I just stay quiet now . Allah showed their true faces
JAZAK Allah hu khaira ❤
Sir I am a Hindu ( but I consider myself as a human being) and I love your video and the creator is the one, the true one
May Allah make it easy for you and guide you.
Yes bro we are created by same God in Arabic we call God Allah....but it's important to recognise God who God is, what is the purpose of life and instructions.....🙌
Your videos always cleans hearnd fives soothing
MashaAllah .Allah hamy amal ki tofiq Ata kary.ameen.nice topic
We need this kind of program so much to learn
Tauha bhai ne buhut achi baat ki k agar ap as a male ap koi decision nahi laynay k qabil hain ya your are a mamas boy despite being in a relationship then you should not get married at all...man should be responsible and accountable about his views and thoughts about his family life..
But some husbands are so toxic they wife doesn’t need saas, susar or any other relationship. That kind of person makes his wife and kids life hell with their attitude. Loving your 11th hour podcasts 👍
May blless all of you brother
May Allah give you strength and hidyat and sabr and many more
Plxx make podcast on who to give sadqa...😢it make me so difficult to realize who needs more of it..😮
@@RightWayToJannah ASTAGFAR use kind words
@@RightWayToJannah And who are you to judge? May Allah have mercy on you You are in very critical situation
@@RightWayToJannah This topic is especially for the people Like you 🙌 TOXIC
Prefer Poor relatives
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Masha’Allah nothing like a Sunnah beard 👌
Tuaha bahi❤ ..I am 14 years old and I am watching your videos since I was 10 yrs old❤ ...You are my ideol ..plz give me heart❤💜
Mashallah ♥️
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Jazakallah this helped me alot❤
You all always bring a pure smile on my face even i am crying at that time
From IOK love you brothers for the sake of Allah (swt)
I like to share my experience with youth club. Please consider and discuss that matter that i faced with Pakistan outside the country
May allah guide us straight path ❤
Thank you for getting mic close up helps alot with audio.
That argument and lying wala part. I am gonna follow this hadith from now on, In Sha Allah 😂😂❤
Ma sha ALLAH they are legends❤❤❤❤❤
Much needed topic....Alhamdulillah
صَبْرِ جَمِیل
Patience for the sake of ALLAH(Swt).
One Of Best Squad! 🖤
Thank you for teaching us with fun. May Allah bless you all.
Wese ab alhamdulilah toxicity bahoot Kam hogayi families Mai jaise jaise knowledge islam ki aam horahi he
Ab logon k mind drivert ziyada hain social media ki taraf. Offline na sahi online zarooor toxicity dekhatey hain
Best squad i have ever seen...
Very nice topic... jazak اللہ خیر
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
Sir I have a request ke ap ek session aese rake k Jis mai ap Hume dua karne ka tariqa numaz, wazu or baqi Jo humari ebadat ke sahi tariqe hai wo humari youth ko samjai ke Jo Jo ghaltiya hum apne ebadat me karte hai wo hum tik karsake kiu ke aj kal bachai mostly apne ebadat es liye nahi kar pate kiu ke on ko sahi tariqe pata nahi hote.....
جَزاكَ اللهُ خَـيْراً
I love Ali. too much and also the whole community ❤
Aoa all. Achi BAAT achay andaaz may achi lagti Hai.
I guess dramas fill that "artistic" void in a hectic busy mum day.
Dramay aik entertaining way of teaching Hai in Singapore & Australia. Dramas say wo sabko aik sovh pay lay aatay Hain. I never liked dramas. But now after changing kids multiple nappies, cleaning 🧹 dirty floors that kids make dirty, by default, while eating or playing, I'm loving some bed time & a drama that can give me some beautiful scenes to see, family ethic reminders, hamari zaban may baatin (hamaray logon ki guftugu mujhay bohot yaad aati Hai, in Baahir K mulkon may. Jxk for these beautiful talks. mA,BA), dramas with great home deco (aap sab aisay dramas bana dain..u guys rock each episode,mA!) Jahan khuda or ambia(as) Ki di hui values Ko use Kia jaey or unka successful result K Saath "happily ever after" end ho..like I tried APNI zindagi may..or phir Allah(swt) K saray promises ko 💯 true paya. I wanna see that in a drama.
Jaisay meray saray Maslay hal huay sunan follow krnay say.
The bond of Tuaha & Ali E MASHALLAH
Amazing MASHALLAH ❤ very good speech😂
جزاكم الله خيراً في الدنيا و الآخره
Ali bhai in full mood, always taunting Abu Saad bhai coz of his gym craze 😂
I liked how you guys approached the topic, however I do think the concept of boundaries should also be added into the mix because while we are going to choose to hold up to good akhlaq and let it go - at the same time we don't want to enable toxic people to cause harm/abuse. So we are nice to people at the same time we also don't give the other cheek. One of the maqasid-e-shariah is to protect us.
Thats true, being in a toxic environment its important to set boundaries to protect yourself. Otherwise if you are not strong enough, you will be affected.
Jazakallah brothers
Love this topic! ❤❤❤
Topic suggestion:
Ramadhan preparation vs exam preparation
JazakAllah o khair
JazakAllah I was feeling so low.
Sending heartfelt prayers for peace, strength, and healing to Palestine.❤️❤️❤️ #PrayForPalestine 🇰🇼🇰🇼🇰🇼
Sach m bhi hmary yaha drama dykh bolty ha dykha fala drama m saas bahu ky sath kr rhi the asy hota ha haqeekat m 😅😅😅😅
Sir ap ki videos sy kfi info milti ha❤
Asalam o aliakum, mashallah brothers, keep it up.....agar serious talk ho itni lambi then it starts to bore us😂.....but your bond bro......😅 it's genuine.....it keep us to be connected with you..... jazakallah for everything....but please light sa humor agar lecture aur podcast mn ho to mery jesy bando ko connect karny mn asani rahy gi😊
اللّٰہ انہیں سلامت رکھیں ❤❤
Aoa kindly make video on toxic behavior of parents with their children especially father with daughter
جزاك الله خير الجزاء
Inspiring video 🙌 as always
SubhanAllah ❤ ❤ ❤ Alhamdulillah AllahuAkbar ❤ MashaAllah Lailahaillallah Mohammadurrasulallah ❤ 💖 💙 ♥ 💕 💗 ❤ 💖 💙 ♥ 💕
@4:50 yhi meri situation,wo best freind hai long time to chora ni jata but hurt hota hai😢