亞洲家長是學業失敗主因?!名校老師專業分析最常見問題…被讚聰明的學生,經常反被聰明誤!Teacher Secrets to Academic Success!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @thereynoldsfamily
    @thereynoldsfamily  9 месяцев назад +201

    大家好,我係Gladys 嘅媽咪。聽到兩個孫仔喜歡返學,努力學習已經開心,知道佢哋有好成績就多一分喜悅。
    我相信除咗小朋友嘅努力之外,家長嘅教育方式都好重要。Laurence 家族都有教育背景,所以我都唔敢班門弄斧談教育☺️
    我只是想分享一下自己的經驗,我記得我細個嘅時候問過長輩一條進位加數,長輩重複講咗好多次我都係唔明。整個過程雖然不長,但說話真係唔好受。結果係我再沒有向長輩求教。所以當我為人母的時候,我都提醒自己說話要小心,以免消滅孩子的志氣。
    讀中學嘅時候,同學有study group。我記得同學會問我你唔明邊度,你唔明啲乜嘢?同學嘅方法其實係我嘅啟蒙,當開口問同學之前,自己會先諗吓邊度唔明,唔明些什麼。日後,當我教小朋友嘅時候,我都會問佢哋唔明些什麼,又或者嘗試了解佢哋什麼地方遇到困難。
    孩子個個都不一樣,在不同的階段嘅表現同遇到嘅困難都會未必相同,但有一樣不變的是,他們都大得好快。希望大家好好享受教養孩子的過程🥰

    • @kaiau3510
      @kaiau3510 9 месяцев назад +1

      Glady小姐和你老公👍💪

  • @gabriella..kW..
    @gabriella..kW.. 8 месяцев назад +6

    My heart melted when Noah was telling his Dad “you always are by my side doing something for me “ very happy for you have two wonderful boys and a lovely family.

  • @Dingyy111
    @Dingyy111 6 месяцев назад +2

    從兩兄弟之間的相親相愛、孩子和媽媽的說話當中,可看出爸爸媽媽將孩子們教得很好❤️👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Gurryguroro
    @Gurryguroro 9 месяцев назад +33

    Noah真係好幸福喔!我由細到大都只係自己一個温書㗎咋,所以有時越讀越迷惘。以前,真係會唔識温書,揀科温同死背。依家,就會好似自己做小老師同自己上多次堂咁(role play?),好有用!!!❤😊

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +3

      你巳找到竅門,恭喜你👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +3

      好多人都未必掌握到呢個竅門,如果你見到有需要嘅人,可以推介你個好方法,又或者推介佢哋睇吓呢條片😊

  • @Yooouokeke
    @Yooouokeke 9 месяцев назад +10

    I can feel the love when you are listening your husband sharing ❤. The eyes contact is full of love❤

  • @bellel268
    @bellel268 9 месяцев назад +24

    I love your parenting styles and tips! When I was young, my parents had long working hours and never read books with me. Despite attending a prestigious aided school, they weren't actively involved in my education, leaving me to rely more on my domestic helper for academic support. While they granted me considerable freedom to explore independently, I couldn't help but wish for more guidance and involvement, especially in early childhood education, to provide clearer direction for my future aspirations. I felt like I lacked a sense of purpose in my life. It wasn't until I entered university in the UK that I developed a genuine interest in reading.
    As a first-generation university student, I've realised the significant impact parents' educational backgrounds can have on their children's development. Kudos to you for being fantastic parents! While I may not have parents like you, I aspire to become a parent like you ❤

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +1

      Great

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +2

      Certainly, you will be a good parent 👍🏼

    • @gabriella..kW..
      @gabriella..kW.. 8 месяцев назад

      I can relate to your experience and Thank you for sharing it with us. 🙏

  • @lcyk-20
    @lcyk-20 9 месяцев назад +15

    我由有heart變咗無heart😢
    Reason: academic pressure
    細細個真係好鍾意讀書,但係喺香港讀書真係會讀到din咗,個competition 太大,當個個都好努力讀書嘅時候,你就自然會跟,coupling with homework (Easter 兩個禮拜30份功課📚), 成班人include me 每一日瞓得三至六個鐘,六個鐘都算多咗,精神唔好出嚟啲result又唔好,心情都自然唔好,跟住不斷循環,試問點鐘意讀書?
    成日叫我哋唔好俾咁大壓力自己,其實係唔俾咁大壓力自己根本清唔晒啲嘢,一單未完一單又起,沒完沒了🥲仲要不斷喺度打擊我哋,更加唔想讀書

    • @Dora-su9gz
      @Dora-su9gz 9 месяцев назад

      Understand your situation and feeling

  • @CarrieLau-fc3rt
    @CarrieLau-fc3rt 9 месяцев назад +12

    語言技巧的確好重要 正確既教導會影響小朋友成長 真係長知識

  • @chm5141
    @chm5141 9 месяцев назад +9

    多謝你地🥺 你地既育兒經真係好實在好有啟發性! 我都叫埋比老公睇🤣🤣
    我發覺你地每次分享都帶到新衝擊比我
    可能我又係亞洲典型媽媽
    你地既片同時對比到亞洲媽媽同西方爸爸教育既唔同之處❤
    希望你地會有多啲育兒經分享比我地
    或者可以講下你地對小朋友讀書係咪一定要入名校諗法~

  • @irvinlaw1423
    @irvinlaw1423 9 месяцев назад +9

    I love love this video!!! I don’t have kids but as I grow up and work in an Australian local company I realise all these techniques mentioned in the videos are quite important in an westernised company if you want to be successful in a management role as that’s how you coach your team to work in a unified team

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +1

      Good parenting

    • @gabriella..kW..
      @gabriella..kW.. 8 месяцев назад

      This certainly applicable towards in both in academic and professional environment.

  • @kaiau3510
    @kaiau3510 9 месяцев назад +1

    👍👍🙎‍♂️👦very smart小朋友.父母很有爱。👨‍👩‍👦‍👦❤

  • @seanlo3898
    @seanlo3898 9 месяцев назад +4

    成日直落坐喺度溫書做功課,如果可以中間break一break, 做些運動輕鬆吓,然後繼續溫書,可能事半功倍。

  • @Lululucky1112
    @Lululucky1112 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for reminding me「初衷」🥹

  • @Jiu39f
    @Jiu39f 9 месяцев назад +1

    兩個仔都好乖巧

  • @lovetomo
    @lovetomo 9 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for your sharing and I made one mistake that often saying my kids are smart. I agree with you that we should praise how hard working they are instead praise their ability. Otherwise, they won't work harder and will lay back when they face the difficulty. Thanks for the tips. Really useful❤❤

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +2

      作為香港人,我都好明白我哋嘅常用語。其實都唔可以話係你嘅錯,只係可能有啲更好嘅方式去表達。如果你發覺身邊有其他嘅家長可以一齊進步,不妨推介佢哋睇吓呢條片😊

    • @lovetomo
      @lovetomo 9 месяцев назад

      Definitly will recommend it to friends. Thank you @@dorothykwok1240

    • @lovetomo
      @lovetomo 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@dorothykwok1240 I definitely will. Thank you for your kind words

  • @Dora-su9gz
    @Dora-su9gz 9 месяцев назад +4

    Well done, Noah, a young poet.

  • @crystalcrystal9551
    @crystalcrystal9551 9 месяцев назад +5

    妈咪越来越漂亮,孩子们也越来越聪明可爱🎉

  • @Fifi-ws9nu
    @Fifi-ws9nu 9 месяцев назад +4

    I’ve grown up from a grassroots family and my parents don’t know how to teach me. I love to read and learn English, but no one to correct my pronunciation. As you know, my English teachers are not native speakers, I meant 30 years ago in Hong Kong, they can’t help me. Fortunately, with the advancement of technology, I’m keep practising my English pronunciation with an AI APP, I practise now day-by-day, it’s so amazing. It boils down to one simple thing: Motivation.

    • @gabriella..kW..
      @gabriella..kW.. 8 месяцев назад

      你已經做得好好,要堅持呀,加油!💪💪🍀🍀

  • @Arkaboo
    @Arkaboo 9 месяцев назад +4

    best principles for life and for everything else, learning, work hard, play hard. With struggle comes appreciation and results in motivations.

  • @Sophiachan8780
    @Sophiachan8780 9 месяцев назад +2

    🙏thank you so much for your useful advice

  • @seanlo3898
    @seanlo3898 9 месяцев назад +4

    One of the determining factors of a child's success in school is the parents' attitude towards it.

  • @katherinengai1925
    @katherinengai1925 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks!! Great tips

  • @Jen2020
    @Jen2020 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for sharing!🙏 The tips are extremely useful for teaching our children. It's true to spend time with the children and work with them, not work for them. You both have spent a lot of time on your children to raise them. Family is very important, but sadly, it's not easy to have such precious time with children for working parents in Hong Kong. :'( It's so important to teach children to love learning, build their confidence, and hold positive values. Praise is powerful in building children's confidence, but we need to praise them wisely. We need to focus on their effort and why it's a good job! I must admit it is not easy to praise others, especially when we praise them, which makes it a good job. Anyway, thanks for your tips! 👍

  • @Hi6056h
    @Hi6056h 9 месяцев назад +2

    好可愛既小朋友❤好有愛既家庭

  • @ycl7688
    @ycl7688 2 месяца назад

    His apron is just too eye catching!😂😂😂

  • @waichunngan7604
    @waichunngan7604 9 месяцев назад

    Hi handsome teacher, thank you for sharing👍👍💪💪🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @cathyli4405
    @cathyli4405 9 месяцев назад +1

    幸福的家庭

  • @shingshunlo5244
    @shingshunlo5244 9 месяцев назад +7

    If a child is allowed to play hard after working hard, together with praise from parents and teachers, he will surely continue to work hard, that’s a perfect positive reinforcement.

  • @simonwong1191
    @simonwong1191 9 месяцев назад +3

    除了parenting, 讓小朋友能在學業上有成就,訓練小朋友專注力是非常動要,小兒由香港傳統名校到英國Top 😅state school, 學生特質都能專心做事、課堂上能專心聆聽。

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +1

      咁就好了,戥你開心,恭喜晒👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @clairefung9081
    @clairefung9081 9 месяцев назад +4

    EVERYONE SETTLE DOWN, THE BEST FAMILY CHANNEL JUST POSTED!!!!!!!

  • @LynnelynneStory
    @LynnelynneStory 9 месяцев назад

    係咪個食譜既問題?整完麵團係咪要擺落冰格雪15-30分鐘先整?

  • @PandaValeriePlays_Roblox
    @PandaValeriePlays_Roblox 9 месяцев назад +1

    No homework in my school ,i am in london

  • @ireneho6789
    @ireneho6789 9 месяцев назад

    It is all about :use your common sense !

  • @liana.llama.
    @liana.llama. 9 месяцев назад +7

    first !

  • @Dora-su9gz
    @Dora-su9gz 9 месяцев назад +1

    Dinosaur and football, Noah"s favouritest.

    • @dorothykwok1240
      @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +1

      Wow, you know Noah’s character.
      Super friends

  • @廖逸曙
    @廖逸曙 9 месяцев назад +1

    Good🎉🎉🎉

  • @kikochu7584
    @kikochu7584 8 месяцев назад

    我覺得絕對係教育制度問題,好似我小朋友學校,經常要學生重測同重默,就好似測驗同默書咁,要測到合格為止,我地已經中等級數既學校,唔係進取既學校,但係眼見中學畢業之後果班學生,上大學又上唔到,連基本既中英文都差,所有父母都會開始會擔心

  • @manman-b1v
    @manman-b1v 9 месяцев назад

    哥哥冇左隻牙仔😂

  • @smraybould
    @smraybould 9 месяцев назад +1

    Behaviours breed behaviour.
    Parents are a reflection of your child's mirror......

  • @heyheyyouxp
    @heyheyyouxp 9 месяцев назад

    在很多傳媒眼中,香港仍是在九十年代。

  • @gloriasy2811
    @gloriasy2811 9 месяцев назад

    5 Apr 24 Fri

  • @ロイドフォージャー-n6n
    @ロイドフォージャー-n6n 9 месяцев назад +2

    3:56 學霸思維跟正常人思維的差別💀哦 忘了 你是亞洲人

  • @iristang4522
    @iristang4522 9 месяцев назад

    🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @peggy962
    @peggy962 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @ko_nn
    @ko_nn 9 месяцев назад

  • @RCrainbow
    @RCrainbow 9 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @uolouwvivw8787
    @uolouwvivw8787 9 месяцев назад

    其實依種理論都存在好多年不過冇亞洲家長肯做之嘛。真正恐怖既係其他同學既家長,都唔洗等到返學,齋係媽媽谷已經睇到香港父母既劣根性。乜叉野都比較,你唔肯佢果套就係差,狂踩你果套育兒模式係廢。到你仔女返學,成續咁岩果個月差咗,老師就叫你退學啦唔好影響學校聲譽。

  • @dorothykwok1240
    @dorothykwok1240 9 месяцев назад +1

    曲奇餅似豆腐😅。
    係唔係因為Noah 唔可以食蛋,所以咁稔🤔

  • @梁妹-g4r
    @梁妹-g4r 9 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤😂😂

  • @edan5265
    @edan5265 8 месяцев назад

    身不由己,根本中國人地方讀書都唔夠時間用,你坐喺佢隔離一步步motivate, show how to do真係夠時間做?由其事要返工仲要唔止一個小朋友,真係好難,但我諗你都明白香港好難吧😅

  • @th12111
    @th12111 9 месяцев назад +1

    Asian school is factory but not teaching kids

  • @heyheyyouxp
    @heyheyyouxp 9 месяцев назад +23

    我覺得你們的想法已很落後,過去10年,我訪問過數百個年輕人,他們都說,父母鼓勵他們喜歡自己的東西,而不是傳媒天天說的香港父母都是虎爸阿媽。

    • @Booooooooooooooooooooooooooom
      @Booooooooooooooooooooooooooom 9 месяцев назад +3

      這叫「落後」嗎

    • @xDeathz666
      @xDeathz666 9 месяцев назад +17

      作為一個中學生,我的確係有唔少同學嘅家長都係會日日叫佢哋仔女補習,甚至放假都要繼續上,根本冇私人時間,而佢哋未必見過個世界咁多野,只會覺得就係咁樣活落去,令到佢哋變得麻木🙁

    • @hoiyanlai1293
      @hoiyanlai1293 9 месяцев назад +3

      坦言,你說的都對。許多父母已經用鼓勵的方法教育小朋友。不過,看見有家長代做功課亦是一個事實。

    • @heyheyyouxp
      @heyheyyouxp 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@xDeathz666 看你讀什麼學校,有些學校功課多,但有些學校好少功課,但要團队做project.以前跟過不同中學去做街道重建項目,去灣仔考察街道發展然後一起討論。

    • @Lululucky1112
      @Lululucky1112 9 месяцев назад +4

      好多人暗啞底做,幼稚園已經補全科😅不過唔想俾人覺得自己係虎爸虎媽人人都唔出聲

  • @dorothy0125g
    @dorothy0125g 9 месяцев назад +5

    Reynold’s Family 🫶🏻🇬🇧Good 😊