Not a soul can escape reaping what they sowed. Narcs are no different no matter how much they pretend to be untouchable and i got PLENTY proof on this. Rest assured God judges them too!
Adam & Eve used fig leaves to cover their shame. Narcissists normally use materialism to cover theirs-then tell you to look at how God blessed them. God blessed them by fulfilling the outside (materialism) but not the inside (character, morals, integrity, etc.,)? Yeah..ok👌🏾
@@MJ-qb5ph They mirror themselves onto good people, tell others that you are the bad ones, another way to to escape and carry on taking, to become human from the animal kingdom we become more humane, did no one tell them, yes but they take selfishness to the next level, they definitely need mental health help to fit into this new world 🌍 of empathy and compassion towards each other 🙏🏻❤️
I make mistakes though and I truly mean my apologies, it’s strange cuz I usually hear nothing again.. which is why I do. If I can admit and say what happened but they won’t take any accountability. They need my forgiveness I won’t keep helping them cuz enabling lack of accountability is not something you do for a soul you love. It’s hard.. but to forgive is grace. And when people won’t forgive, it’s gonna bother them, probably not the other person. Hard feelings never do us any good
They do feel the shame. That's why they fight so hard to hide it, suppress it, and deflect anything that highlights it. They are deeply sad individuals.
Oh yes they do. Never forget Jospeh’s brothers. They said, “These things are happening to us bc of what we did to Joseph.” They may not apologize nor let you know, but their evil deeds always come back.
As we live on earth, they are willing to get away with as much as they can. Only death is where their time end. The judgement of humans is flawed, the judgement of what should exist into the after life is what may be of questions.
@@Jason-cz3bvin my humble opinion, if u constantly engage with them , that’s when they try to break boundaries or assume u can constantly forgive them of their misdeeds. They end up taking u for granted for just being that person who is easy to deal with , they don’t register things normally they see people as prey
The Word of God says as much as is within you, live peaceably, on with another. But if not, separate yourselves. Strive for peace, but there’s times to separate ourselves.
Yup forgive but not forget since with their actions they have shown of what they are capable of and what to expect of them…..in a way thank them for showing you their true nature and why they should not be trusted 🤷🏻♂️
In my personal experience, people don't apologise, unless this comment says something about the people I engage or engaged with. Confronting them about wrongdoing can lead to gaslighting. Others just stop speaking for a long time, then suddenly start speaking to you as if nothing has happened, destroying or damaging trust and respect.
I had three different guys apologize to me. What I thought to myself? They were wrong for what they said or did to me. Was uncalled and unprovoked. At least they had some Conscious. I didn't respond back ..I kept quiet.. These were personal apologies not over the phone. I will never forget or forgive what one of this guys did to me. He apologized twice. The last time he did it in front of other people. He said he was wrong for what he did to me. And that even though I do not talk to him or I refuse to acknowledge him. He felt to apologize once again. Karma is a Bitch. And I'm glad he is behind bars. Someone told me So many people had done bad things ...but I know Their Day will Come.... I know what I mean.
I’m a pathology scientist and I work in a busy hospital. I don’t believe these people face shame. It truly believe if a person behaved this way most of their life, it’s normal to them that they don’t even reflect on what they did to you. It’s also because it’s not physiologically possible their brains don’t operate like that. In order for someone to feel same they have to have a functioning pre frontal cortex which they don’t have. They operate in their reptilian and limbic parts of the brain which is primitive also keeps them stuck in an always have to win mindset. Leaving no time to reflect, it’s always “me first” to them. They neurologically can’t function any other way it’s not physiologically possible They don’t suffer unless they’re alone and have no one to project on I guess, but truly people forget what they do to people less than an hour after they do it. They go on with life as if nothing happened. It is us that suffer the pain of what they did.
I agree. Most people don't understand that not all of us have the same brain structure with the amygdala, hippocampus and hormone secretions all alike. Consciousness does not automatically endow a person with a conscience. Indeed, serial abusers do what they do without a thought of the victims they leave behind to figure it all out. They will never face the wrongs they do to others. Can't, in many cases. We all need to know the signs and steer well clear of those people.
There was a woman at my former employment that was a “spy” for management, and she’d follow me into the bathroom, follow me out at job sites when doing field work, and would watch my desk in the morning to see what time I was coming in in the morning. I remember a few times coming up to a group of women that she was in ; while everyone else in the group was friendly, Ms. Tattletale couldn’t look me in the eye. She frowned and looked away. This was a horribly toxic workplace that I’d love to write a book about one day.
Betrayal has happened to me by a family member over inheritance. I confronted her with evidence and she started getting upset being aggressive to me. We haven't spoke to each other for over 6 years because I know the truth and she knows that so it's all on her to be accountable for her wrong doing. The door is open for forgiveness if only she learns her lesson and be accountable. This video has been great help to me thank you.
Shame for wrongdoings is only felt by people with a conscience. People without will, through the use of mental gymnastics, justify what they did to you.
@@shanicrystal8671 We Are souls, living a human experience. There (many) are people who are living their life out of fears instead of love and that comes with manipulation. But we Are souls.
My own mother destroyed my relationship with my siblings and son, not to mention grand babies. She has been forgiven. I am a child of the most high God ❤
Praise Jesus Christ who is the only way to true peace and forgiveness that will deliver anyone from the pains of this world. Pick up the Bible and read it ALONE by yourself and God will send His Holy Spirit to reveal to you His love and mercy!
1 Realization of wrong Doing 2 Fear of Judgment 3 Lost of respect 4 Exposure of True motives 5 Regret and Remorse 6 Shattered self-image 7 Miissed opportunities
Pray for them, prayer changed Moses the man who wrote the first four books, in the Bible, who was a cold blooded murderer, and let us not forget Paul, whom wrote the majority of the new testament, He was a serial killer, and our Father who lives in heaven, forgave them,read Romans 3:23
Often people ate led by cruel others to do damage to you. Gangs psrticipate in this. I have been apologized to by people who caused terrible consequences to me because they go caught up in group think. One person damage is another thing.
Don’t think that Christians don’t do stupid things and know exactly what they are doing? The worst I’ve been wronged and lied to was by an ordained ministers . One was just a paper minister who was my husband so he could officiate and marry people but the other was in a very well respected and affluent church when he was much younger and we were in a relationship for a few years and he literally crushed me with his lies and deceit. I know because I saw pictures of him marring a couple that was in a Newspaper clipping he had saved. People are going to do what they want to do despite what they know is right or wrong. There are plenty of wolves in sheep’s clothing.
@@IamJodHeVauHenope that’s not how it works, our forgiveness is based on the work of Jesus Christ on the cross period. “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of Christ!” Not what we do but by who believe in if you are a true Christian.
Narcissists just couldn't care less. They enjoy causing drama and hurt. And when they've done it, they don't look back. I've suffered at the the hands of too many of these individuals. I'm extremely selective of friends now.
Sadly, the ones that have wronged me continue to do so. On a roll! 3+ solid years. Lacking any awareness of themselves, let alone their victim. Even if they were to stop, I do not believe that they are even competent enough to have such realizations of self. So shallow that they don't see anything wrong with what they've done. No remorse required if they don't assign and recognize any wrongdoing. It would be nice if this were to happen. If what they've done to me could evoke any real human feelings.
its really sad we live in a world full of broken and narc people not many people realise this but as a society they have also conditioned us into accepting that self love is more important than being considerate, respectful and kind to others and their feelings. This is why the behaviour of self love teaches the person to have entitlement and a choice to be lacking awareness of what they do to others and this is extremely harmful.
the 'self-imposed exile' is the exact description of why people go no contact, but this video frames it as the exiled being the perpetrator instead of the victim.
16:40 this reminds me how my relationship with my former friends came to an end 2 years ago. There was a bet I wanted to take but they didn't believe in me. So the outcome of that drew the end of our friendship.
In Arabic culture, forgiveness is only granted when the wrong doer has asked you for it. You don't just offer it to someone who never asked. The onus is on them, not you. You can let go of your anger or work through the trauma, but you are under no obligation to forgive them.
I thank you for the knowledge you past, but honestly ,narcissits persons are those who have no remorse for their actions, don't care but only themselves
It’s why they run and hang with those who do nothing to grow and improve themselves. Who’s their victim now? Some never wake up and shame and accuse everyone else, it’s nice for them to be exposed but they seem to slander others and hide their own wrongs
If we’re honest, we’ve all been in the place of the shamed one. Well, this is if we’re empathetic, minimaly awaken and capable of love. Forgive yourself and do better.
No sir ! I’ve heard gossip about someone , and I didn’t only stopped it debut I went to the person and elegantly told them to support his statements him and the rest only tried to make me join them vs this x person. The gossiping always starts “they say this about him/her “ it’s never I’ve seen him I always a third person who you ca t confront and ask them about the situation
That's not the point of this video. This is about understanding what is going on inside people who, basically, have been publicly exposed for intentionally hurting you when you did nothing wrong. Let's all widen our perspective and learn more.
This was a serious eye opener for what I been going through for six years!!!!! All that you said is true..... someone did a lot of bad things to me that destroyed my life .......every chance i get to address this with them they run a hide......they can't run no more!!!!!
Hi Veronica, forgiveness is for you, to help you move on and to have your vibration raised by Jesus. If they know they have wronged you and have not apologised then most likely it would be best to distance yourself from them if there is no accountability on their end. I have done this and it genuinely helps with my spiritual development and I also keep them out of my life, firmly out.
Forgiveness is healing they say in Eastern churches. Those who don't want to be free from guilt don't want true forgiveness and one doesn't have to pretend to give it.
Those people definitely realise their scattered self image and crisis of their own identity. My role is to stand as a reminder of the importance of living with integrity of being true to oneself in the world.
WOW... Very interesting. So that's how a habitual abusers turns the tables on an innocent victim and habitual abusers will never feel this shame, but if they can get their victim to feel this shame and manipulate them into feeling they are the guilty one, thats some powerful S***. And I hope they understand that when I no longer have interest in continuing down this sick path with them. I don't wish ill of them and I do forgive their actions... But damn I see the full TRUTH of what they tried to do.
It wouldn’t bring you peace. I’m in therapy because of my family made me angry because my father beat me and my mother. Both my mother and father talked shit about eachother so I couldn’t understand who to trust. They will never apologize for what they did to me. What it caused me to become… I’m now going through therapy to heal and move on…
Just in tym when my family members have been that evil in return for the love and care I have offered in years. Thank u Lord for this clip, I feel much stronger
As an empath i sensed my exboss and my backstabbing coworker felt this way after she shared our private chats to him and he screwed me over due to a personal chage. I hope they're both happy with what they did, thank God i sensed it.
Yes, I survived Childhood Abuse and Something else, years later, and I only wanted to know if my Mom loved me! I forgave 1st, every single time, and after she passed, I found out what she and my Oldest Sibling did to my Younger Brother and myself. A few years later, U learned my Younger Sibling was a part of some other Shady things my Mom allowed to happen. I never got Mad, it just sucks, the Amount of Pain and Heartbreak she caused.
It Resonates 💯% despite the fact that he knew he was wrong, he still chose to continue his arrogant behavior... He derives pleasure by imposing fear and control on others.... Tbh they have no single shame.. but I know I'm on the brink of change so I don't let his actions affect me. ❤😊
Honestly, I think the shame people feel after mistreating others is a sign that karma really does its job. It’s ironic how they realize the impact of their actions only when it's too late to fix things. Maybe instead of avoiding us, they should channel that guilt into becoming better people-but hey, sometimes the most valuable lessons come from facing the consequences of your own behavior.
@TheStoicGoddess-i3l you can't reason with an unreasonable mind. I agree with all the points you make. The narc I am married to would just give a 2 second blank stare then start yelling swearing and calling me names. Logic is wasted on them. Sad small people often dangerous too
I think they do feel regret, pain or other emotions as narcissists. It seems that people who are high in narcissism often redirect their negative emotions, or insert them onto others in a different circumstances. Like small, petty revenges for calling them out when justified or asking questions that make them uncomfortable. Like standing up at the end of a card game and declaring slightly early that you are tired. Instead of acknowledging the upcoming conclusion, the momentum of the jubilant nature becomes the justification for difference between saying tired at 2 turns before conclusion and 3 turns before conclusion. Not internalizing their negative emotion through "empathy" in these moments sounds difficult... Diffi-cult. Maybe, there is a missed oppertunity to defy instead of deify a temporary 'cult'.
Narcissists have shame, they don't show it and they do their best to make sure you don't notice it. only if you're very psychologically perceptive, you'll notice it in the body language, facial expressions, dialog responses, length of interaction, ability to initiate, etc.
Amongst all the confusion, I greatly felt there was a lot of things that didn’t make sense in my relationship….. Honestly with authenticity was my code…. This video put the words together beautifully…. And assures me to stay authentic and true to myself ….. In the end … I was dealing with a narcissist.
This video is truly a masterpiece. The art and the dialogue are seamlessly connected and deeply moving. I recommend this to be seen by every human on the planet. Bless you.
I have no reason to forget anything .. She is forgiven ...I will never for get what she did and the lies she has spun... I am embarrassed for her and all of her braindead talking monkeys .. I have taken baths deeper than these people .. they should he ashamed .. stay away from me all of you . Your judgement is not mine it's God's ...
this message resonate with what's going on in my life.but I ignore them all and choose on God's strength to lift me through it.thank you Lord Jesus and wisdom dream
I forgave. I am proud. It isn't easy, but it's necessary, especially if you want to grow. If you want to be a bigger person than the person who wronged you. If you want freedom from what wrongs have been done. You have to forgive. Fair/unfair earned/unearned, forgive and forget. Heal and grow. Mature and learn. You will thank yourself.
If you do or say something wrong to somone through ignorance or wanting to protect a persons image but then it bothers you afterwards shows that you have a conscience which is a good thing but if you not bothered at all about your wrongdoing then thats something you will have to work on to set you on the right path forgiving yourself and others always the key to inner peace ❤❤❤
Something like this happend with my co-worker. While not a big thing in a grand scheme of things, I felt I was wronged. I still do my job with my co-worker, but the genuine feeling of connection has been severed. There is nothing left to say, aside from a simple apology for being inconsiderate.
I don’t often reply to comments, but I have also gotten along with a co-worker as we worked in the same department. Regarding people skills, I have never been great with people for different reasons. The best thing I can hope for in life is that my people skills will improve, conversations will become more interesting and longer, and maybe I will go to events. However, at this time, I am not socializing. I have a colleague whom I admire, but I have noticed her demeanor: envy when seeing other female colleagues being better treated by Mr. Alpha Kennedy (the Manager). Her comments about her female colleague trying to be Mr. Kennedy's friend reveal she has feelings for him. It's gut-wrenching because I might have feelings for her. But for many reasons, she's already spoken for, and I need to respect that and move on. To see women fight for an alpha male's attention is harrowing; there's a sadness that comes with it, seeing this colleague downgrade her worth for the poorer currency of external validation. She has really helped me and has been generous. The problem is she got caught up in this war with the other female colleague, not realizing she has not been authentic in how she treated me because as soon as Mr. Kennedy becomes available, she forgot about me. It leaves these past gestures inconsistent. Mr. Kennedy had made an offensive gesture to insult her origin, but I think I've already mentioned why she never did anything about it or report this . If my people skills and reading the situation were better back then, i would have set boundaries to prevent any complications. But I didn’t, because of my challenging life circumstances at home , which have caught me up. Everyone has problems. I think there is too much break-up culture in music videos (conflicting and hostile), and all RUclips stoic philosophies and how "High Value Men" walk away, and yet there are not enough natural relationship-resolving videos. There are exceptions when it comes to certain difficult personality types, like sociopaths and narcissistic behavior. It would be beneficial to get a test so people with these traits can learn to rewire and heal their demeanors. Going back to the colleague, she deserves to have free counseling to help her learn to value herself and improve communication so her life would improve. We all could do with therapy sessions since I also am battling demons, but at times she has volatile emotions, and I have yet to see if there is much worse in her. I don't want her and me to split up, but there's no chance I will be around to see her get on with her dream friend, Mr. Kennedy. I know that any hope of a special friendship would dissolve, but I remember how she was when I first met her years ago. What she is today shows that life can shred the integrity of the best people. I hope she can get her integrity back.
I once had somehow wronged a co-worker, verbally, I am autistic, so that is possible. The coworker who I thought of as a friend, just ignored me. Another co-worker confirmed there was "a problem". When I tried to confront the coworker concerned to ask if there was a problem, she walked away.
@@kr1221E That must be difficult. I'm not picking sides between those who feel wronged and limit social interaction and those who inadvertently wrong someone. I don’t have a specific solution. It’s awful when you consider someone more than just a worker. People want their space, and without that, they might escape by cutting off completely to breathe. I have always been a person of solitude, and my routine at work used to be almost restrictive. My colleague would change things up and might decide she didn’t need me. I had to learn to give space and pretend that my colleague was me, which seems mad, but at the same time, I didn’t want to come across as isolating. You might get that right. I know that there are videos about knowing your worth without external validation because it helps everyone. I know that being in tune with what you want is crucial, but at work, people just want to do their job with interactions that only go a couple of levels-banter or life events, but not more than that. This is because any deeper level risks confidentiality. A workplace can be treacherous when it comes to information. If someone sees two people get along, such as male and female workers, it can stir up gossip. You have to leave your colleague to themselves and I can’t assume. You say colleague, so you obviously must not know them well enough. At no fault of yours or theirs, you both might lack certain traits, and a simple misunderstanding can cause a rift. There are people who come and go, and there is a friendship vibe when it's between men and women, but they always disintegrate as it's a fast-sand built foundation, and we know how sand collapses. For example, in the first month I worked with my colleague, I came in, and she was angry and dismissive. I literally just let her be and did my own thing. I remember that my rota was on an evening shift away from her morning shift, and she thought I was leaving the department after just one month. I had nothing to do with the rota; it went on default. Then I realized why she was angry. You just have to learn. Maybe keep a diary or journal on how you felt, what day it was, the time, and sometimes who was in management. People have bad days, and if they’re in a relationship, which is very difficult for anyone, they have good and bad daysl, and you have to respect that with discretion. Please not take this infomation as the main answer, there are plenty of people with what you going through will have different advice Don’t over-invest in this being a friendship. That takes years. Even then, there’s no guarantee. Just be your best self and keep improving.
Rising above is the only way through it and by doing that you get to work on yourself and come back even stronger and resilient. Then there is no need for revenge or harsh words. Just leave them behind.
1. Realizations of wrong doing. 2. Fear of judgment. 3. Loss of respect. 4. Exposure of true motives. 5. Regret and remorse. 6. Shattered self image. 7. Missed opportunities.
In my twenties I was describing the bastardry of someone I worked with a wise older bloke. What he told me really stuck with me. He said "Do you know the difference between 'a bastard' and an 'utter bastard'? He said "a bastard uses you cruelly and then betrays you for his own benefit - and when you see him in the street he'll put his head down and ignore you. An UTTER bastard uses you cruelly and then betrays you for his own benefit - and when you see him in the street - he'll walk up to you and ask you "how's you mum?". Since then I have realized that most folks who are bastards are sadly, UTTER bastards.
They took me and especially Him Lord Jesus Christ for granted. Yes it hurts sometimes and it still does when being caught with my guard down but it hurts less and less because Jesus Christ is in my heart. Still I keep asking Him for His forgivenes while I sometimes forget that He does it when He sees that you are trying hard to be as good as possible in life with repenting and use His knowledge that He gave for us to use. So I give Him praise every moment and my thanks to Him for being there for me, us. They can see and feel something in and around me what makes them act hostile with a lot of unrest within them..He, Jesus, gave some of us this gift to recognice danger and to forgive in life to the ones who still struggle to free themselfs. A lot of them lack the strenght of Love and knowledge. I was like that...but I opened up for The Love of Christ and I thank Him and His Father God allmighty for being there all the time. I'm proud for carrying just a tiny part of His heavy load and yes it hurts sometimes but man.. does He makes me stronger in this life, thank you❤
You know you’ve healed from their mistreatment when you can let go of the resentment and anger and vengeance and see them through the lens of compassion and forgiveness because you are loved by God and He has forgiven you and He shows you why it’s so important to forgive those that wronged you. It’s for your own benefit.
You are not obliged to forgive those who don't ask for your forgiveness . They just don't care . Time will heal your wounds and reduce pain , but you have a right not to forgive and remember your lesson.
Forget that you've never experienced demonic, soulless people they never care they are literal viruses in their mentality it only hurts you more when you show compassion and forgive them. Move on and never interact with them again.
In my experience, where drugs (meth/ice) are concerned, there is no self reflection until the drug addiction ends. With family members, the damage that can be inflicted to members who genuinely want to help initially can be almost (but not always) impossible to reverse.
Once I outed and went no contact with my narc family I got a brilliant new lease for life I could finally be me Then I went into a new group of narcs but called them out straight away and went no contact I just have to go back sometimes to show them how strong I am and how little I need them Independence is hard fought hard lost They say it's better to be in solitary confinement than with abusers Its so true scary but so character building Never stop loving yourself others life because that is worth fighting for😎
I doubt this person will ever face themselves or me with shame or regret. The truth is that there are people out there that don’t feel much of anything with depth. They don’t love to the point of feeling of vulnerability, they don’t hurt because they’ve always stayed surface level. The only time they feel something is when they don’t feel in control and that’s not a feeling of love. When they refuse to let go of control the only thing they are reaching and stretching for is more power over a person. Don’t count on these types of people for feeling anything because most of the time they will never overcome their cowardice.
So many in life. Your mind remembers every moment of mistrust and abuse. Because they will not get a chance to repeat what we will not soon forget. They don't ask for forgiveness nor do many change their ways. Because in their minds they took advantage of a situation that benefited their needs at that moment not understanding the damage of losing more than they gained for a moment of having the upper hand.
Narcissists have no shame
That’s all the have and want somebody else to bare their burden, NOT😂😂😂
They cause these problems and can ruin your life. It’s seems almost impossible to pick up the pieces and move on
@@jazzy9798 the ticket is Christ🙏
Have you seen an ego death in front of you my friend?
Could not have said it better myself. I don't believe death is the end everything we do every choice we make as individuals matter.
Those who mistreated me have no shame and will never acknowledge their misdeeds.
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Threats right
Grandmaaaaa
All that narcissistic family cult is no longer my family, I am not accepting nor acknowledging them.
Sorry to hear that, you deserve better
Narcissts never do this - their whole life is about deflecting their shame
Not a soul can escape reaping what they sowed. Narcs are no different no matter how much they pretend to be untouchable and i got PLENTY proof on this. Rest assured God judges them too!
Adam & Eve used fig leaves to cover their shame. Narcissists normally use materialism to cover theirs-then tell you to look at how God blessed them. God blessed them by fulfilling the outside (materialism) but not the inside (character, morals, integrity, etc.,)? Yeah..ok👌🏾
@@MJ-qb5ph
They mirror themselves onto good people, tell others that you are the bad ones, another way to to escape and carry on taking, to become human from the animal kingdom we become more humane, did no one tell them, yes but they take selfishness to the next level, they definitely need mental health help to fit into this new world 🌍 of empathy and compassion towards each other 🙏🏻❤️
I make mistakes though and I truly mean my apologies, it’s strange cuz I usually hear nothing again.. which is why I do. If I can admit and say what happened but they won’t take any accountability. They need my forgiveness I won’t keep helping them cuz enabling lack of accountability is not something you do for a soul you love. It’s hard.. but to forgive is grace. And when people won’t forgive, it’s gonna bother them, probably not the other person. Hard feelings never do us any good
They do feel the shame. That's why they fight so hard to hide it, suppress it, and deflect anything that highlights it. They are deeply sad individuals.
Narcissists have no conscience.
Of course they do, its just different than yours. Experience is the teacher, not some other flawed human.
Oh yes they do. Never forget Jospeh’s brothers. They said, “These things are happening to us bc of what we did to Joseph.” They may not apologize nor let you know, but their evil deeds always come back.
@@shedparkerthey’re never sorry for their evil deeds though 😈💯
As we live on earth, they are willing to get away with as much as they can. Only death is where their time end.
The judgement of humans is flawed, the judgement of what should exist into the after life is what may be of questions.
These people do not care or feel shame of any sort. These kinda people are truly toxic and soulless
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Well said, demon possession
I forgive but keep my distance. Ignore them
U can even pray for them sometimes.😂😌
Keeping your distance and ignoring them is NOT genuine forgiveness.
It's phony forgiveness.
@@Jason-cz3bvin my humble opinion, if u constantly engage with them , that’s when they try to break boundaries or assume u can constantly forgive them of their misdeeds. They end up taking u for granted for just being that person who is easy to deal with , they don’t register things normally they see people as prey
The Word of God says as much as is within you, live peaceably, on with another. But if not, separate yourselves. Strive for peace, but there’s times to separate ourselves.
Yup forgive but not forget since with their actions they have shown of what they are capable of and what to expect of them…..in a way thank them for showing you their true nature and why they should not be trusted 🤷🏻♂️
Forgive them,move on with your life and never accept them or invite them back in your life.
God remember’s our sins no more.
I can do that 😘.
@@Denisa-c5u agree with you 1000%
In my personal experience, people don't apologise, unless this comment says something about the people I engage or engaged with. Confronting them about wrongdoing can lead to gaslighting. Others just stop speaking for a long time, then suddenly start speaking to you as if nothing has happened, destroying or damaging trust and respect.
I had three different guys apologize to me.
What I thought to myself?
They were wrong for what they said or did to me.
Was uncalled and unprovoked.
At least they had some Conscious.
I didn't respond back ..I kept quiet.. These were personal apologies not over the phone.
I will never forget or forgive what one of this guys did to me. He apologized twice. The last time he did it in front of other people. He said he was wrong for what he did to me. And that even though I do not talk to him or I refuse to acknowledge him.
He felt to apologize once again.
Karma is a Bitch.
And I'm glad he is behind bars.
Someone told me
So many people had done bad things ...but I know
Their Day will Come.... I know what I mean.
Not one attacker or bully has ever apologised. They always feel justified.
Agree. Can relate to that.
I’m a pathology scientist and I work in a busy hospital. I don’t believe these people face shame. It truly believe if a person behaved this way most of their life, it’s normal to them that they don’t even reflect on what they did to you. It’s also because it’s not physiologically possible
their brains don’t operate like that. In order for someone to feel same they have to have a functioning pre frontal cortex which they don’t have. They operate in their reptilian and limbic parts of the brain which is primitive also keeps them stuck in an always have to win mindset. Leaving no time to reflect, it’s always “me first” to them. They neurologically can’t function any other way it’s not physiologically possible
They don’t suffer unless they’re alone and have no one to project on I guess, but truly people forget what they do to people less than an hour after they do it. They go on with life as if nothing happened. It is us that suffer the pain of what they did.
I agree. Most people don't understand that not all of us have the same brain structure with the amygdala, hippocampus and hormone secretions all alike. Consciousness does not automatically endow a person with a conscience. Indeed, serial abusers do what they do without a thought of the victims they leave behind to figure it all out. They will never face the wrongs they do to others. Can't, in many cases. We all need to know the signs and steer well clear of those people.
It works like the judicial system it’s basically traps and stealing it’s just as simple as that PIRATES
There was a woman at my former employment that was a “spy” for management, and she’d follow me into the bathroom, follow me out at job sites when doing field work, and would watch my desk in the morning to see what time I was coming in in the morning. I remember a few times coming up to a group of women that she was in ; while everyone else in the group was friendly, Ms. Tattletale couldn’t look me in the eye. She frowned and looked away. This was a horribly toxic workplace that I’d love to write a book about one day.
That's so similar to my experience with a workplace bully. Seems that she was very jealous of you and your talents.
Forgiveness is a gift You give yourself!
Totally agree x
Betrayal has happened to me by a family member over inheritance. I confronted her with evidence and she started getting upset being aggressive to me. We haven't spoke to each other for over 6 years because I know the truth and she knows that so it's all on her to be accountable for her wrong doing. The door is open for forgiveness if only she learns her lesson and be accountable. This video has been great help to me thank you.
Shame for wrongdoings is only felt by people with a conscience. People without will, through the use of mental gymnastics, justify what they did to you.
None of this holds for people without consciousness. No remorse , no recognition of wounds they made to.others. THEY KILL MORALLY, SMIRK AND MOVE ON !
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Yup
But they cry and beg when it’s time to get punished 🤷♂️💯
I'm glad this is reflected on the video at 8:37
there is no answer greater than silence and no punishment greater than forgiveness
@@superbased9842 that was a great, answer. I will remember that. X
@@superbased9842 to to be SO BETTER in silence, been around those soulless doers all my life.. Accountability is definitely 💯 needed tooooooooo
B.S
We must forgive in our heart
A quiet narcissist has a guilty conscience, because silence speaks volumes about secrets untold.
You got some who is comfortable in their filth
The narcissist does not feel embarrassed . The narcissist does not feel shame .
Actually, they heavily struggle with internalized and unprocessed shame.
@@BAsed_AFro Yes but I think it can be pushed away very deeply, so it becomes an subconscious feeling
They don’t feel shame remorse empathy none of that human compassion emotion they don’t have souls and everything they do is for themselves only
@@shanicrystal8671 We Are souls, living a human experience. There (many) are people who are living their life out of fears instead of love and that comes with manipulation. But we Are souls.
@@patriciapeeters7 I hear you
I acknowledge their shame, as I work on my own forgiveness of allowing those people in my life.
My own mother destroyed my relationship with my siblings and son, not to mention grand babies.
She has been forgiven. I am a child of the most high God ❤
This rang a bell,it hurts so much.Thx for sharing
Praise Jesus Christ who is the only way to true peace and forgiveness that will deliver anyone from the pains of this world. Pick up the Bible and read it ALONE by yourself and God will send His Holy Spirit to reveal to you His love and mercy!
My narcissist mother did too. It's called Triangulation.
1 Realization of wrong
Doing
2 Fear of Judgment
3 Lost of respect
4 Exposure of True
motives
5 Regret and Remorse
6 Shattered self-image
7 Miissed opportunities
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This video has been eye-opening
However this may not happen until I rise up in some significant way then impact their possible regret or maybe not
Thanks
Pray for them, prayer changed Moses the man who wrote the first four books, in the Bible, who was a cold blooded murderer, and let us not forget Paul, whom wrote the majority of the new testament, He was a serial killer, and our Father who lives in heaven, forgave them,read Romans 3:23
You're assuming that they have a conscience about it and I've seen very little evidence of that!
True
Yes, I was thinking the same, they are never wrong in their own thinking & far too superior to have those kinds of regrets.
@@oliveonthebuses1
They're always right even when they're wrong they're still right !
@@amandam4148 💯%👍
Often people ate led by cruel others to do damage to you. Gangs psrticipate in this. I have been apologized to by people who caused terrible consequences to me because they go caught up in group think. One person damage is another thing.
Jesus christ is the biggest family that I have in my life right now. Amen 👏
You must forgive so that you may be forgiven for any mistakes in your life.
@@IamJodHeVauHeforgive yourself for putting up with them, for they don’t ask forgiveness. You’re not accountable for their behavior.
And the best and only one you need
Don’t think that Christians don’t do stupid things and know exactly what they are doing? The worst I’ve been wronged and lied to was by an ordained ministers . One was just a paper minister who was my husband so he could officiate and marry people but the other was in a very well respected and affluent church when he was much younger and we were in a relationship for a few years and he literally crushed me with his lies and deceit. I know because I saw pictures of him marring a couple that was in a Newspaper clipping he had saved. People are going to do what they want to do despite what they know is right or wrong. There are plenty of wolves in sheep’s clothing.
@@IamJodHeVauHenope that’s not how it works, our forgiveness is based on the work of Jesus Christ on the cross period. “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of Christ!” Not what we do but by who believe in if you are a true Christian.
Narcissists just couldn't care less. They enjoy causing drama and hurt. And when they've done it, they don't look back. I've suffered at the the hands of too many of these individuals. I'm extremely selective of friends now.
Sadly, the ones that have wronged me continue to do so.
On a roll! 3+ solid years. Lacking any awareness of themselves, let alone their victim.
Even if they were to stop, I do not believe that they are even competent enough to have such realizations of self. So shallow that they don't see anything wrong with what they've done. No remorse required if they don't assign and recognize any wrongdoing.
It would be nice if this were to happen. If what they've done to me could evoke any real human feelings.
I know these traits. I am married to one. They will never change. They will never be there for you. RUN
its really sad we live in a world full of broken and narc people not many people realise this but as a society they have also conditioned us into accepting that self love is more important than being considerate, respectful and kind to others and their feelings. This is why the behaviour of self love teaches the person to have entitlement and a choice to be lacking awareness of what they do to others and this is extremely harmful.
the 'self-imposed exile' is the exact description of why people go no contact, but this video frames it as the exiled being the perpetrator instead of the victim.
I’m embarrassed for them
They chose EVIL... their Blood be on their own heads... GLORY be to the Lamb of God!!! AMEN!!!
@@misfitking_0143they chose evil, yep!
Any negative lifestyle that comes back on us when we are older can be a destroyer of lives. I don't want her to die, I want her to forget about me
Lamenting for the lost, Amen!
16:40 this reminds me how my relationship with my former friends came to an end 2 years ago. There was a bet I wanted to take but they didn't believe in me. So the outcome of that drew the end of our friendship.
In Arabic culture, forgiveness is only granted when the wrong doer has asked you for it. You don't just offer it to someone who never asked. The onus is on them, not you. You can let go of your anger or work through the trauma, but you are under no obligation to forgive them.
Thank you so much that advice I needed to hear ❤❤❤
I thank you for the knowledge you past, but honestly ,narcissits persons are those who have no remorse for their actions, don't care but only themselves
It’s why they run and hang with those who do nothing to grow and improve themselves.
Who’s their victim now?
Some never wake up and shame and accuse everyone else, it’s nice for them to be exposed but they seem to slander others and hide their own wrongs
If we’re honest, we’ve all been in the place of the shamed one. Well, this is if we’re empathetic, minimaly awaken and capable of love. Forgive yourself and do better.
No sir ! I’ve heard gossip about someone , and I didn’t only stopped it debut I went to the person and elegantly told them to support his statements him and the rest only tried to make me join them vs this x person. The gossiping always starts “they say this about him/her “ it’s never I’ve seen him I always a third person who you ca t confront and ask them about the situation
I have never poisoned, drugged, raped, stolen from "friends or family"
HELL. NO.
That's not the point of this video. This is about understanding what is going on inside people who, basically, have been publicly exposed for intentionally hurting you when you did nothing wrong. Let's all widen our perspective and learn more.
@@maryseguin9468 Are you a part of a society whose government does so 'in the name of democracy' around the globe?
Let shame and fear over power them in our presence
This was a serious eye opener for what I been going through for six years!!!!! All that you said is true..... someone did a lot of bad things to me that destroyed my life .......every chance i get to address this with them they run a hide......they can't run no more!!!!!
The problem I have is how can you forgive somebody if they haven't said their genuinly sorry.
Hi Veronica, forgiveness is for you, to help you move on and to have your vibration raised by Jesus. If they know they have wronged you and have not apologised then most likely it would be best to distance yourself from them if there is no accountability on their end. I have done this and it genuinely helps with my spiritual development and I also keep them out of my life, firmly out.
@@LovingLightxJesus Christ NEVER FORGAVE farices. Total forgiveness is New Age concept
Forgiveness is a lie.
Forgiveness is healing they say in Eastern churches. Those who don't want to be free from guilt don't want true forgiveness and one doesn't have to pretend to give it.
Those people definitely realise their scattered self image and crisis of their own identity. My role is to stand as a reminder of the importance of living with integrity of being true to oneself in the world.
WOW... Very interesting. So that's how a habitual abusers turns the tables on an innocent victim and habitual abusers will never feel this shame, but if they can get their victim to feel this shame and manipulate them into feeling they are the guilty one, thats some powerful S***. And I hope they understand that when I no longer have interest in continuing down this sick path with them. I don't wish ill of them and I do forgive their actions... But damn I see the full TRUTH of what they tried to do.
Yes, I put my faith and trust in Jesus' mighty name. I pray, Amen 🙏
I wish they could feel some shame. Because it would lead to repentance. And it would make them more upright
Be held accountable and when one lives by the Golden Rule to the max! One wonders if it’s about ‘ to be’ REVERSE👁️ ⏮️ 🔄 ⏮️
Actually they feel shame. All the evil deeds they do is to cover their core shame.
They do, it's just hidden in their gaslighting, projection, and etc.....
It wouldn’t bring you peace. I’m in therapy because of my family made me angry because my father beat me and my mother. Both my mother and father talked shit about eachother so I couldn’t understand who to trust. They will never apologize for what they did to me. What it caused me to become… I’m now going through therapy to heal and move on…
@@Noname-bq4qc 💥This is how villains are made ladies and gentlemen
Amen perfect timing for this video thank you so much. Narcissist can't never face me bc they are cowards I left it God's hands to fight my bsttle.🙏
Silence is golden and great. It makes your enemies shake in their boots. C
Just in tym when my family members have been that evil in return for the love and care I have offered in years.
Thank u Lord for this clip, I feel much stronger
Thank you. I have forgiven them,but their pain leaves deep scars.
As an empath i sensed my exboss and my backstabbing coworker felt this way after she shared our private chats to him and he screwed me over due to a personal chage. I hope they're both happy with what they did, thank God i sensed it.
This message was right on time
Yes, I survived Childhood Abuse and Something else, years later, and I only wanted to know if my Mom loved me! I forgave 1st, every single time, and after she passed, I found out what she and my Oldest Sibling did to my Younger Brother and myself. A few years later, U learned my Younger Sibling was a part of some other Shady things my Mom allowed to happen. I never got Mad, it just sucks, the Amount of Pain and Heartbreak she caused.
The fact they miss you is enough. You don't have to seek revenge. Grow without them. They will hurt
We can 4give & love them from afar. We do not have 2 have a relationship.
It Resonates 💯% despite the fact that he knew he was wrong, he still chose to continue his arrogant behavior... He derives pleasure by imposing fear and control on others.... Tbh they have no single shame.. but I know I'm on the brink of change so I don't let his actions affect me. ❤😊
I'm a empath and narcissists seem to find me, not this time lol 😂
I absolutely attract them and I’m a deep empath!
I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT👏🏽👏🏽😂😂
Why u think that is? I have the same issue
@@tawny4613 light attracts darkness think of a moth going towards the bright
Light 🤣
@shanicrystal8671 I'm tired of it!!! These people just drain me. This has to stop
Honestly, I think the shame people feel after mistreating others is a sign that karma really does its job. It’s ironic how they realize the impact of their actions only when it's too late to fix things. Maybe instead of avoiding us, they should channel that guilt into becoming better people-but hey, sometimes the most valuable lessons come from facing the consequences of your own behavior.
@TheStoicGoddess-i3l you can't reason with an unreasonable mind. I agree with all the points you make. The narc I am married to would just give a 2 second blank stare then start yelling swearing and calling me names. Logic is wasted on them. Sad small people often dangerous too
Do they really feel pain or shame if they lack empathy, or are narcissists?
Only shame and shame is what they use to attack you
Narcissist don't experience remorse or empathy. They are too self centred.
Or sociopaths
I think they do feel regret, pain or other emotions as narcissists. It seems that people who are high in narcissism often redirect their negative emotions, or insert them onto others in a different circumstances. Like small, petty revenges for calling them out when justified or asking questions that make them uncomfortable. Like standing up at the end of a card game and declaring slightly early that you are tired. Instead of acknowledging the upcoming conclusion, the momentum of the jubilant nature becomes the justification for difference between saying tired at 2 turns before conclusion and 3 turns before conclusion. Not internalizing their negative emotion through "empathy" in these moments sounds difficult... Diffi-cult. Maybe, there is a missed oppertunity to defy instead of deify a temporary 'cult'.
@@ebuddha5 real
Thank you Yeshua, for your love and grace for me and the chosen ones 🦁🙌🐾❤️✝️🙏
Thank you for this message. It was really the right one at the right time.
Same for me ❤
And for me❤@@CarolCortez-p2d
God will definitely destroy the narcissist .
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Oh good. A license to kill for a LOVING god. You got the wrong God.
Who created the narcissist or the conditions for someone to become a narcissist?
@@thekendredspirit5771these people are cowards and they choose to be evil at an early age usually after trauma. They will be punished for eternity 💯
@@lynnfisher3037Jesus believes in punishment 🙏
Narcissists have shame, they don't show it and they do their best to make sure you don't notice it. only if you're very psychologically perceptive, you'll notice it in the body language, facial expressions, dialog responses, length of interaction, ability to initiate, etc.
I have recently been horribly thru this. But,,, do not believe most of these people are capable of shame. They just shift the blame to you.
You can always expect snakes to be snakes amen 👣
Amongst all the confusion, I greatly felt there was a lot of things that didn’t make sense in my relationship….. Honestly with authenticity was my code…. This video put the words together beautifully…. And assures me to stay authentic and true to myself ….. In the end … I was dealing with a narcissist.
The timing of this popping on My feed couldn’t had been more accurate in My life.
I love and appreciate this beautiful video. 📹
This video is truly a masterpiece. The art and the dialogue are seamlessly connected and deeply moving. I recommend this to be seen by every human on the planet. Bless you.
Narcissist have remorse ? No
I have no reason to forget anything .. She is forgiven ...I will never for get what she did and the lies she has spun... I am embarrassed for her and all of her braindead talking monkeys .. I have taken baths deeper than these people .. they should he ashamed .. stay away from me all of you . Your judgement is not mine it's God's ...
Very important guidance ❤
this message resonate with what's going on in my life.but I ignore them all and choose on God's strength to lift me through it.thank you Lord Jesus and wisdom dream
Nobody feels like this anymore.
Thank you! I have been pondering this for a few months now ❤
Do NOT forgive or show mercy to anyone who has not asked for it and corrected their ways.
There is a lot of truth here. Especially when talking about asking for forgiveness
Forgiveness is for the forgiver, not the forgiven. Forgiveness doesn’t mean they get to have their way, it simply means you move on.
I forgave. I am proud. It isn't easy, but it's necessary, especially if you want to grow. If you want to be a bigger person than the person who wronged you. If you want freedom from what wrongs have been done. You have to forgive. Fair/unfair earned/unearned, forgive and forget. Heal and grow. Mature and learn. You will thank yourself.
Totally agree
JESUS Said to Forgive As HE Forgives You. ✝️🪶🥰👍👍👍
If you do or say something wrong to somone through ignorance or wanting to protect a persons image but then it bothers you afterwards shows that you have a conscience which is a good thing but if you not bothered at all about your wrongdoing then thats something you will have to work on to set you on the right path forgiving yourself and others always the key to inner peace ❤❤❤
The Beautiful Beings of Gaia would like to thank Wisdom Dream for your service. We are forever grateful.
Thank You for this clear information now I see what is happening and perhaps it hurts less !!
Something like this happend with my co-worker. While not a big thing in a grand scheme of things, I felt I was wronged. I still do my job with my co-worker, but the genuine feeling of connection has been severed. There is nothing left to say, aside from a simple apology for being inconsiderate.
I don’t often reply to comments, but I have also gotten along with a co-worker as we worked in the same department. Regarding people skills, I have never been great with people for different reasons. The best thing I can hope for in life is that my people skills will improve, conversations will become more interesting and longer, and maybe I will go to events. However, at this time, I am not socializing.
I have a colleague whom I admire, but I have noticed her demeanor: envy when seeing other female colleagues being better treated by Mr. Alpha Kennedy (the Manager). Her comments about her female colleague trying to be Mr. Kennedy's friend reveal she has feelings for him. It's gut-wrenching because I might have feelings for her. But for many reasons, she's already spoken for, and I need to respect that and move on. To see women fight for an alpha male's attention is harrowing; there's a sadness that comes with it, seeing this colleague downgrade her worth for the poorer currency of external validation.
She has really helped me and has been generous. The problem is she got caught up in this war with the other female colleague, not realizing she has not been authentic in how she treated me because as soon as Mr. Kennedy becomes available, she forgot about me. It leaves these past gestures inconsistent. Mr. Kennedy had made an offensive gesture to insult her origin, but I think I've already mentioned why she never did anything about it or report this .
If my people skills and reading the situation were better back then, i would have set boundaries to prevent any complications. But I didn’t, because of my challenging life circumstances at home , which have caught me up. Everyone has problems. I think there is too much break-up culture in music videos (conflicting and hostile), and all RUclips stoic philosophies and how "High Value Men" walk away, and yet there are not enough natural relationship-resolving videos. There are exceptions when it comes to certain difficult personality types, like sociopaths and narcissistic behavior. It would be beneficial to get a test so people with these traits can learn to rewire and heal their demeanors.
Going back to the colleague, she deserves to have free counseling to help her learn to value herself and improve communication so her life would improve. We all could do with therapy sessions since I also am battling demons, but at times she has volatile emotions, and I have yet to see if there is much worse in her. I don't want her and me to split up, but there's no chance I will be around to see her get on with her dream friend, Mr. Kennedy. I know that any hope of a special friendship would dissolve, but I remember how she was when I first met her years ago. What she is today shows that life can shred the integrity of the best people. I hope she can get her integrity back.
I once had somehow wronged a co-worker, verbally, I am autistic, so that is possible. The coworker who I thought of as a friend, just ignored me. Another co-worker confirmed there was "a problem". When I tried to confront the coworker concerned to ask if there was a problem, she walked away.
@@kr1221E That must be difficult. I'm not picking sides between those who feel wronged and limit social interaction and those who inadvertently wrong someone. I don’t have a specific solution. It’s awful when you consider someone more than just a worker. People want their space, and without that, they might escape by cutting off completely to breathe. I have always been a person of solitude, and my routine at work used to be almost restrictive. My colleague would change things up and might decide she didn’t need me. I had to learn to give space and pretend that my colleague was me, which seems mad, but at the same time, I didn’t want to come across as isolating.
You might get that right. I know that there are videos about knowing your worth without external validation because it helps everyone. I know that being in tune with what you want is crucial, but at work, people just want to do their job with interactions that only go a couple of levels-banter or life events, but not more than that. This is because any deeper level risks confidentiality. A workplace can be treacherous when it comes to information. If someone sees two people get along, such as male and female workers, it can stir up gossip. You have to leave your colleague to themselves and I can’t assume. You say colleague, so you obviously must not know them well enough. At no fault of yours or theirs, you both might lack certain traits, and a simple misunderstanding can cause a rift. There are people who come and go, and there is a friendship vibe when it's between men and women, but they always disintegrate as it's a fast-sand built foundation, and we know how sand collapses.
For example, in the first month I worked with my colleague, I came in, and she was angry and dismissive. I literally just let her be and did my own thing. I remember that my rota was on an evening shift away from her morning shift, and she thought I was leaving the department after just one month. I had nothing to do with the rota; it went on default. Then I realized why she was angry. You just have to learn. Maybe keep a diary or journal on how you felt, what day it was, the time, and sometimes who was in management. People have bad days, and if they’re in a relationship, which is very difficult for anyone, they have good and bad daysl, and you have to respect that with discretion.
Please not take this infomation as the main answer, there are plenty of people with what you going through will have different advice Don’t over-invest in this being a friendship. That takes years. Even then, there’s no guarantee. Just be your best self and keep improving.
Rising above is the only way through it and by doing that you get to work on yourself and come back even stronger and resilient. Then there is no need for revenge or harsh words. Just leave them behind.
1. Realizations of wrong doing.
2. Fear of judgment.
3. Loss of respect.
4. Exposure of true motives.
5. Regret and remorse.
6. Shattered self image.
7. Missed opportunities.
Well said the truth is the light that cannot be hidden ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️
In my twenties I was describing the bastardry of someone I worked with a wise older bloke. What he told me really stuck with me. He said "Do you know the difference between 'a bastard' and an 'utter bastard'? He said "a bastard uses you cruelly and then betrays you for his own benefit - and when you see him in the street he'll put his head down and ignore you. An UTTER bastard uses you cruelly and then betrays you for his own benefit - and when you see him in the street - he'll walk up to you and ask you "how's you mum?". Since then I have realized that most folks who are bastards are sadly, UTTER bastards.
I needed to watch this thank you 🙏💜✨
Thank you for the archetypal art and clarification. Much needed!
They can reflect and contemplate all they want - on the Tree of Woe.
Excellent video.
They took me and especially Him Lord Jesus Christ for granted. Yes it hurts sometimes and it still does when being caught with my guard down but it hurts less and less because Jesus Christ is in my heart. Still I keep asking Him for His forgivenes while I sometimes forget that He does it when He sees that you are trying hard to be as good as possible in life with repenting and use His knowledge that He gave for us to use. So I give Him praise every moment and my thanks to Him for being there for me, us.
They can see and feel something in and around me what makes them act hostile with a lot of unrest within them..He, Jesus, gave some of us this gift to recognice danger and to forgive in life to the ones who still struggle to free themselfs. A lot of them lack the strenght of Love and knowledge. I was like that...but I opened up for The Love of Christ and I thank Him and His Father God allmighty for being there all the time.
I'm proud for carrying just a tiny part of His heavy load and yes it hurts sometimes but man.. does He makes me stronger in this life, thank you❤
Amen and Amen
Great !! Thanks so much encouraging u😊
You know you’ve healed from their mistreatment when you can let go of the resentment and anger and vengeance and see them through the lens of compassion and forgiveness because you are loved by God and He has forgiven you and He shows you why it’s so important to forgive those that wronged you. It’s for your own benefit.
You are not obliged to forgive those who don't ask for your forgiveness . They just don't care . Time will heal your wounds and reduce pain , but you have a right not to forgive and remember your lesson.
Forget that you've never experienced demonic, soulless people they never care they are literal viruses in their mentality it only hurts you more when you show compassion and forgive them. Move on and never interact with them again.
@toutlemonde5008 Absolutely! I was wronged by a narcissist once, what they did was unforgivable. They will never have my forgiveness.
Shared. Thank you!
Sad yet amazing video. Thank you so much
In my experience, where drugs (meth/ice) are concerned, there is no self reflection until the drug addiction ends.
With family members, the damage that can be inflicted to members who genuinely want to help initially can be almost (but not always) impossible to reverse.
I really needed this, Thank you. :)
Thank you very much. Keep well everyone !
Once I outed and went no contact with my narc family I got a brilliant new lease for life I could finally be me
Then I went into a new group of narcs but called them out straight away and went no contact
I just have to go back sometimes to show them how strong I am and how little I need them
Independence is hard fought hard lost
They say it's better to be in solitary confinement than with abusers
Its so true scary but so character building
Never stop loving yourself others life because that is worth fighting for😎
I doubt this person will ever face themselves or me with shame or regret. The truth is that there are people out there that don’t feel much of anything with depth. They don’t love to the point of feeling of vulnerability, they don’t hurt because they’ve always stayed surface level. The only time they feel something is when they don’t feel in control and that’s not a feeling of love. When they refuse to let go of control the only thing they are reaching and stretching for is more power over a person. Don’t count on these types of people for feeling anything because most of the time they will never overcome their cowardice.
Great video thank you for the insight.
Thank you for the info. God bless.
Wonderful work AND insight. Thank you!
I AM THE DIVINE LIGHT SAYS THE ONE❤😊
Great Video! All 7 items describes what they have done to me. Change for me is coming!
So many in life. Your mind remembers every moment of mistrust and abuse. Because they will not get a chance to repeat what we will not soon forget. They don't ask for forgiveness nor do many change their ways. Because in their minds they took advantage of a situation that benefited their needs at that moment not understanding the damage of losing more than they gained for a moment of having the upper hand.
INTEGRITY.
This resonates w/ me I have lost jobs because of the certain people that I took care of treated me like crap.
I miss you and I’m not mad I’m just disappointed. Waste love like it’s easy to replace. It’s okay. Love is in us all. I’ll keep it.
amazingly explained .. let them correct their ways for their actions ..!! you should not take the burden...!!
Forgive yourself as nobody is perfect and naturally you will forgive them too. ❤