Yes I went through the phase of blocking and unblocking..when ever you feel ready to permanently block you will! And that's ok! I was honest with her when I saw her last I told her I was damaged from us and she said that's an excuse and I said I have to protect myself. She was more covert/vulnerable/insecure and maybe she was not self aware. Forgive them internally. When you no longer feel any anger resentment guilt shame is when you will heal
@@StevieBars I understand every word. You can't be with someone broken. If they don't want or value you it's time to move on. I dragged my heart around for someone who up and left and went back to a toxic drama queen. He is welcome to her! . I know I'm worth more than wasting my life on someone who doesn't want me..nor respect me.
Blocking him was the hardest thing I've ever done. I loved him so much, and he hurt me more than anyone in my life...I'm finally at peace now... I'm safe.
I had a friend of 40 years and she recently displayed NPD. I went through one cycle of rage and discard. I dropped off all her stuff at her security and hard blocked her ass. Respect yourself enough to not accept any form of abuse.
I just blocked the narcissist in my life and this video helped empower me to do so, thank you so much for this. Blocking means protecting yourself from their negative energy and is an act of self-love/care. I am proud of myself and of everyone else who is taking back control of their lives and beginning the healing journey.
“Evil is not something superhuman, it's something less than human. Your criminal is someone who wants to be important, but who never will be important, because he'll always be less than a man” ― Agatha Christie, The Pale Horse
Blocking and deleting is huge progress too! It’s you, the empath, the survivor who is the winner. You DO have a new path and we should walk it with a smile and our heads held high. Blocking is empowering and essential 💙🙏💙
Block them and NEVER undo it. Don't invite the craziness back in. They're toxic & will never change. You are taking your own power back & moving forward. They're in your past & do not deserve to be a part of your brighter, more promising future. 🙏 ❤ ✝️
It took me 5 months post discard to block. I had a story going in my head that the blocking would flare the Narc up and I would have to protect myself , again. Blocking was so liberating!! Blocking ALL the flying monkeys is just as important. Thanks Andrew, for your dedication to helping so many people free themselves.....✨️🌟✨️🌿
I had the same story in my head... it’s like backing away slowly backwards one step at a time from a rattlesnake. But we know the further out we get ..the safer and better... Blocking today was instantly liberating.😊
I recently went "no contact" with someone. I didn't know them long enough to say they are bonified narcissist but they had some qualities....they would send me long text messages about themselves and wanted me to do things for them but they never asked about me or how I was doing. I started to see red flags and I realized I needed to block them. I felt so much peace after. I refuse to be used.
It use to bother me so much to think that if I went no contact he would find someone else to be with. But then I reminded myself even if I stay in the relationship, he is still going to be with someone else. He didn’t know how to be faithful, honest, or committed to one person. I have now maintained no contact for almost a month. It’s been tough but so freeing at the same time. Thanks for the encouraging videos Andrew.
Be aware of a narcissist that tries to apologize to you only to take them back/forgive them, but then turn around and blame you for it. It's never genuine with them! 💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
I had 3 stalkers on Facebook and a covert narc sister in law who would always post pictures and crap. I finally got tired of all of them and deleted Facebook for good. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made. My healing started that day and I've never looked back. Thank you Andrew ❤
That's really strong of You to take that step taken away social media. I will not taken away my social media cause I have kids there both in Facebook and at Instagram and a lot of friends and relatives too as I don't can meet/travel too but I have of course blocked the narc and flying monkeys etc and also at mail and mobile phone. I blocked the narc at once when I left him for 1 year 9 month ago.
I made the mistake of unblocking after 30 days because I thought I would never hear from him again. I did hear from him, entertained it, and then didn't hear from him. I blocked him again after 4 days of not hearing from him. Tired of these games, being used and abused. If they are so bored of you when they're with you why the heck do they want to come back anyway? Trying to maintain no contact. It is the only way. Thank you for being such an impact, Andrew.
Oh man. I'm getting ready to get out of a toxic situation. So I've been observing more, since I'm learning from this channel, well I've noticed that he's constantly watching me. I had no idea how deep this is. I thought I would have no problem walking out. But now I'm realizing he's watching me and listening to me. It's creepy.
Yes, they watch every move. They will freak out if there's an oil stain in the driveway and accuse you of having someone over. Just an example. I never was treated like that before, ever.
@@cobwebafternoon3737 My ex refused to pick up his own dog's poop. we went on a walk one day and his dog did his business. after 100s of times of being the only one to get the doggie bag and deal with it, I stopped myself and looked at him. he looked at me and said: I'm not picking it up. then: you did this on purpose. like I'm the one controlling the dogs bowels. they really will find anything and everything to go nuts about
Hey 🖐🏾 Good evening and blessings 💯 Block and don't look back so the new life desired can truly began. Andrew thanks for the truth and now we just need to walk in it. This video is a reminder of what we need to do BLOCK, if we are strong enough. Your words are very empowering ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽
Spot on Andrew! No truer words have ever been spoken. This is the best advice you could give anyone coming out of a narcissistic relationship. Thanks Andrew! Have a great evening and God bless🌻
I'm still in the narrsistic relationship & I started blocking until the day I go to visit. It has been essential for my mental health as the texts are filled with manipulation, abuse, profanity, blame. Typical narrsisist Blocking is a great tool for much needed peace, calmness, stability, even if its limited. I wanted to also say I love the new picture of you Andrew. Relaxed, natural, cool - have a lovely evening & thank you for helping, namaste 🌻🦋🌙
Hi Andrew. I blocked the narc over a year ago. The other night I went out to meet a friend and it was very nice because I was in a good and safe environment. Yesterday, the CovNarc came to visit. It triggered all my anger (rage) and sadness. I am down again. Seeing the narc face brought me so much pain again. Please make a video on hoovering and how to handle it. 😢
Mathie… oh no, how awful for you. I totally understand how you must be feeling right now, but it will pass. If it is possible for you to relocate somewhere else, then do it as soon as possible. Sending love and prayers. 🙏🏽❤️
@@foodogslove2588 hi. I wish I could but I have no other place to go. Finding people like you is like being thrown a lifeline. That is why I am on this channel. The antidepressant pills help me calm my nerves but I still dream of being able to go about my day without them. One day …. Thank you so much for your response.
@@mathie2037 I’m so glad you’re here and I’m happy to talk whenever you like. All of us here have experienced so much pain and by being here and sharing our experiences, it allows us to move forward in the healing process. I hope your situation improves and feel free to reach out to me at any time. Sending love and prayers. 🙏🏽❤️🦋
Yesterday was 1 year of no contact for me!! I have relapsed on social media several times by peeking at his page(s) and it ate me ALIVE every single time. I am currently 48 days free from looking at any of his social media or any of his affiliates' pages. I will NEVER unblock and go there AGAIN because the mental anguish and obsession it caused me was pathetic and out of control. I learned my limits after months and months of blocking and unblocking, and every time I unblocked, it made me feel worse. ps..Andrew, YOUR videos on blocking and unblocking saved me. I always go back and listen to them when I'm beginning to have thoughts. thank you so much and God bless you.
Narc, I just came across your videos last night as they showed up in my “recommended” videos. I’ve watched a lot of them so far and AMAZINGLY, you have me PEGGED! I learned from your “7 signs that you’re an Empath” video that I AM an Empath! Hit EVERY checkmark! Also, I just ended a 7 month long “acquaintanceship” I guess you could say, with a guy who is… at the very LEAST a narcissist, if not a straight up SOCIOPATH. It was 7 months of abusive (long distance/ internet) HELL! Long story there. Anyway, with each video I watch, I’m actually amazed at how you seem to be describing ME and my SPECIFIC situation! The story gets more complicated, but I won’t go into that here. I just want to thank you for putting these INVALUABLE videos out there for people like me who have searched HIGH and LOW for answers to things and has never been able to find any! Keep up the GREAT work! Hope you and yours are doing well! Namaste!
Thank you so much! Your advice here is SPOT ON! Game changing! 😁👍👍 I will take ALL the advice I can get cuz, obviously, what I’ve been doing hasn’t been working! Everything you’ve said in these videos makes perfect sense, and it’s explained WHY certain things are important… why certain actions are the wrong ones to take! I will DEFINITELY keep watching! Thank you for responding!
@@foodogslove2588 thank you SO MUCH! The timing of my coming across Andrew’s channel here was nothing short of AMAZING! I know it may sound cheesy or whatever, but I felt like it was an answer to my prayer for help getting out of the TOXIC situation I was in. A FIRM answer… one that left NO DOUBT that it WAS, in fact, the answer to my prayers, so I needed to LISTEN and HEED the advice within. And I can already FEEL the difference it has made, physically speaking. I don’t feel depressed like I did, say, a week ago. I was in a deep dark place where I would cry for seemingly no reason, had NO energy, didn’t want to be around ANYONE, and was just angry at EVERYONE. I’m not feeling that way now, as I FINALLY have some answers! I’m DEEPLY grateful to @NARCDAILY for putting these videos out there. Andrew, you may not even be AWARE of how much you are helping people, but I ASSURE you, you ARE! FAR more than you can IMAGINE! Namaste! 🙏☺️❤️
@@jennifernewton4637 Thank you so much for your lovely response. I completely understand what you’ve been through, are going through, as I have and still am experiencing this too. I’ve only been here six weeks myself, having quite by accident, discovered Andrew’s channel myself. It has been a complete revelation to me and judging by the comments, to everyone else also. You will naturally, unconsciously move forward everyday and gradually become empowered. Thank you for sharing your experience because it helps you and all of us here gain more understanding. Stay strong. Namaste. 🙏🏽❤️😊
Everything you say is absolutely correct. Blocking the narcissist was the best thing that I could have done. I had no problem whatsoever blocking him. We had to choose where he wanted to eat. If we ate at a restaurant the narc was always looking at other women serving us. This was so disrespectful. I seen many red flags 🚩and the intuition inside of me always knew that something was definitely wrong. I wasn’t in love anymore, years passed and I actually wanted out of the toxic relationship but I was cornered in many ways, and I can’t say on your channel everything on this toxic relationship that I was in for many years. NEVER AGAIN! I’m glad that I’m no longer with the narcissist.
So right and the longer it stays in place, the stronger you feel and not controlled by them. So block FOREVER and say NEVER! Loving this video, brings a celebration feeling and empowerment Andrew.
As soon as I found out he was who he was --Blocked and $1000 to divorce, Done deal. He was a fake and mean in so many ways. He's a crafty guy I want no part of his evilness!!! I got my own phone after I left. Then after the divorce went through I paid $30 for another number just to be safe. My sister kept the number and of course she has not received any messages. Just the simplest things to cause angst he did! He deserves nothing from me again. God help him.
It was a mutual friend (the same mutual friend I had to remove myself from) that told me to block the narcissist. My friend said," You need to do this now or his rages will not stop. He is going to go for the jugular." So I blocked the narcs and anyone I thought they might manipulate or use to try and stalk my account or my life in some way. And look the narcissist will/can stalk you. I have two confirmed instances of it. But the point is, they still have to use another account to do it. I also made a point to just ghost my own account. I know one way or the other word gets back to them about things... its so weird... and then I get the oddball phone call that's conveniently timed and placed with certain events. Andrew is right that when these situationships end, it is in some horrible manner. When you reflect on all the dozens of ways it could have gone; the better, more professional, or mature ways it could have ended...the narcissist always chooses the worst scenario. One of the things you may have to accept is that they may always be something of an issue in your life. They may always be altering and changing their smear campaign. Remember, these are often angry children in adult bodies... but they got the attention span of children as well. All these Narcissists are different, some people have to be more careful than others and sometimes you just got to focus on YOU... start enjoying your life without the narcissist playing a theme in anything. We all wish it could have gone differently... but the narcissist... they will always paint you the bad guy even if they were the one doing drugs, raging, being impulsive, manipulative, lying... while you pretty much lost everything. You have a right to be upset, you have a right to be angry, block them. They lost the rights to you.
Andrew-Great clarification today! I had to laugh 🤣😂so hard as to why our phones 📱 have a 🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱4 Narc. You made my day-Laughter is good medicine to heal the wounded ❤️🩹hearts & brokenness
I did this today. After a 26 yr marriage, 3 beautiful and successful kids raised, I blocked him today. My situation is unique, as they all are, but he is well aware of his narcissism. He's known for many years that he has no empathy for anyone. But he is a big believer in following the rules and law and he believes in honor. The narcissist took me from a happy, intelligent and successful career to a small person with my only thought being how to win his approval. He is well aware, and anyone will tell you, if he does carry any empathy it would be for me. We've had many discussions about this, and I truly believe that it was my love that carried us both. A little over a year ago his mother moved into a memory facility for dementia. Her narcissism was more overtly visible as her mental facilities diminished. He is so much like her and he was devastated at some of the things he learned about his mother during that time. For the last 6 months I knew I had to move on. And I have. He has never been violent and I really don't expect him to be. I was able to tell him exactly why I was doing it in a message and asked him to not contact me again. He responded that he would respect my decision and said goodbye to me in one last love bomb. The divorce is final next week and he has moved to another city with his job. Honestly? I'm starved for touch, seriously. He was a wonderful provider and kept me very comfortable in that respect over the years, but there was never any emotion shown by him, only me trying to gain his approval. I won't go back, and the kids have pushed him away. I know he is devasted as well. But I'm good, the love bomb was somewhat of a gut punch, but I tell myself they are only words and I am truly the only one crying. I will get through and move onto many beautiful years, I'm sure. I know how I have to get through this, by going through it. Thanks for your wonderful loving words and insight, Andrew.
I JUST NOW used my special narcissist blocking feature on my Iphone! Love it😂😂😂 THANK YOU ANDREW for letting me know about it!!😂😂😂 You are SO SMART👍🏼👍🏼🙌🙌 It truly feels like a weight off my shoulders. We have 3 adult children. I thought I needed his home phone number for emergencies. Nope! It is the last boundary! Do it! 💪🏼🇨🇷🇺🇸💙☀️❤️
Thank you so much for all your great information and content! Much appreciated and blessings to you to keep on being a blessing to many! I liked and shared
The restaurant thing is such a small detail but very true and extremely impactful in the moment. My narc and I were stopping for something to eat and she asked me what I wanted. "do you want something you don't have back home?" I didn't particularly care but she was being pushy about it so I just chose one of her suggestions. And she was like "okay... I don't really like it but we'll stop there. I'll just grab something from somewhere else" and then felt the tension rise when she had to wait in a long line at the drive through for me even though I told her we didn't have to stop there. Just another way she tried to make me feel like I had to try to be on her good side. And not in the usual "oh it's a woman thing" kind of way. More like "I can't wait for him to leave so I can spend time with someone else."
When I start seeing someone I start training myself not to go on their social media immediately. This is based off of past narcissistic relationships I’ve been in. So once I’m done I’m done whatever you’re doing in your life is beyond me
Omg I was hoovered after the assault and now I'm getting those "Hey", "Hi" messages...one of his versions of this is sending me memes and songs on RUclips. Stay on the path always. We love you Andrew from dirty Jersey! Namaste 🙏🏻💪🏻🥰😊
Thank you for doing this. I would have let her back in if it wasn’t your content and the education from others. She had blocked me a couple of platforms, I blocked her on the rest. She unblocked me, then I blocked those accounts. I wasn’t completely ready, but I remembered the pain. They are so insidious. Now I am putting myself first, second and third.
I did it once I found out he had a new supply. The best thing I ever did. No looking back and no knowing about his life with the new supply. Not my business. Don't want to know anything about him.
They texted me on my birthday and that night this demons drain all of my energy in the dream I saw this two particular persons trying to get something from me like an answer for something that I do in real life. they energy came to me in sleep time when I can't protect myself and took all my super energy and that made me feel bad that I couldn't protect my energy so I started smoking weed all week after that happened and I don't like to smoke weed it just helping me to not think about all this betrayal. It's hard to feel that they did it again. God is helping us from this attacks. All prayers to the most high god is the greatest god is within us and he is love. Thank you so much speaking truth 🌻
I blocked, unblocked, blocked, unblocked. But I finally blocked, stayed blocked and have be NO CONTACT for 90 days tomorrow. Fortunately, he is violently opposed to social media, so no worries about him showing up there.
I'm 3 weeks post letting him discard me without me "fixing" it and have done everything but block on FB. We belong to a number of livestream groups of mutual interest, and it's been nice that while initially seeming to vie for attention from our mutual friends, he has largely been absent from the streams I watch and participate in this and last week. I'm holding my own space, being myself, and not thinking or talking with anyone about him and it's going really well. He seems to be avoiding me which is awesome. I'm going to listen to this again and again because you're right. I know that any contact with him will only set me back, and the faster I leave him in the rearview, the better for me. Thank you so so so very much for your daily videos which have gotten me through this so well. I haven't recovered my health or life yet, but my mind and spirit are at surprising peace and I have you to thank for it. You always know exactly how to speak to us about every detail of the NARC experience and your unique way has swept the misery from my life. I shall be eternally grateful Andrew. Namaste and Pranam.
This is so relevant for the senior dating group, 60++++ 😟😲. It’s a horror & a shame. You think you’re safe among your own. Nope. They ain’t having a senior moment.
I did it this morning he's all blocked out I've already thought about unblocking him I'm pathetically weak but I got this it'll be okay I like your videos because they remind me of the truth I tried to sugarcoat everything and try to think oh he could change or it could be different it's not the case it's not true I have to face reality I have to move on I was happy before I met him and I'll be happy after this is all over
Every time we thought he would message every single girl he ever knew asking for support, and now I know that he was also leaving and cheating on me every time. It’s crazy the length they go for any sort of supply, any sort of attention. And then they accuse you of talking to people for attention and validation all the while you’re being healthy and speaking to someone close to you, well they’re cheating and being desperate. It’s unreal. I hope one of these days I’ll be strong enough to block him for good because right now I’m like still looking for that reassurance and I’m still wishing he would message me and I don’t know why
New subscriber to this channel! You are speaking facts Andrew! I was involved in a narcissistic relationship three years ago. I went back and forth with the narc-breakup, Hoover, then makeup many times. Block and unblock. The last time we were together, my intuition ( aka the Holy Spirit) led me to look in his phone. He had been texting a female with her picture on the text. I asked him about it. He went into a narcissistic rage. I told him to leave. He hit me in my face on the way out the door. First time EVER being hit by a man. He smeared my name in the community for looking in his phone, BUT, did not tell that he HIT me for it! I EXPOSED him and told what really happened. I created a narcissistic injury. He was very embarrassed and angry. He had the people in this community fooled, like he was such a great person. However, I am well known in this town and a Christian woman. I just made a mistake for settling below my level. After that, I blocked him FOR GOOD! No contact. No hoovers since. I thank God for bringing me out of that toxic relationship. I experienced verbal, emotional, and finally physical abuse in that relationship. I went through nasty text messages down rating me, the voicemails cursing me, all kept me upset! It started affecting my health! I experienced peace when I blocked him for good and went no contact!!!
It took me some time to block because I feared for my safety. The narc is my life was a raging alcoholic, but he knew I cared as I viewed him as a close friend. I’m glad I was able to open my eyes and thanks to my husband and friends I was able to let go. I’m still dealing with the Trauma bond but thank you for posting videos like this. It truly helps!
Going on 10 months of blocking/deleting the narc! It’s been the path I chose and am so grateful for this time of educating myself and healing. Andrew I have followed you the entire journey and so appreciate your content and support. So many things now make sense and to finally have the closure I so desperately needed for several years. I truly feel alive again and have never looked back. Happy and healthy is my motto. To everyone who is teetering on the fence about moving forward I can only say that it’s worth every second of life on the other side! Thank you 🙏🏻
I so want to block but have a young daughter with that evil witch. I am 99.9999% no contact though so that it will have to suffice. Blocking her would make her angry and I know for a fact she would direct that anger at my daughter. Glad I found your channel bro. It really helps on those bad days. Keep up the good work from a UK trucker 👍
You are soooo right Andrés!!! Just because he stay log on my tablet i notice that every time i go and check i was getting upset, but at the same time i have become very discussed by what i have seeing. Actually i came to the point that i really don't even want to see him ever, not even mad but discussed discomposed brain he have.. NAMASTE.. good night
What does the text say?? “hi” 😂😂😂 no thank you on that! You really do know how to speak in simple terms and I am grateful for the why behind the why. Thank you!
@@myphd-myprisonhistorydiplo691 Hola! Awe. My day was blessed I’ve been practicing awareness like Andrew says... it’s been interesting in s good way.How was your day!
@@Star-ze8dh busy and fun!!! Are you on Instagram? I’d love to connect with you!! I feel like we would have some fun laughs and healthy conversations!!
It’s a feeling of self worth. I feel for myself when I own my power, truth, and love on myself it’s easier to stand up for myself such a blocking.. I have blocked soooo many people. 😂🙏🏼In my power
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I subscribed yesterday and now I’m gonna have to go back and watch all your videos.. they are very educational, they speak truth, they make sense of difficult topics… May God bless you abundantly for putting truth out there! 🙌🏼💯🙏🏼💛
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video! July 16th I found out he was cheating on me with his ex for 2 months. I found out through her that he had literally just dropped her off from a date. And came to my house to spend the night. I saw her goodnight text. I threw him out. That was it the trust broken. I knew he had many narc qualities but still in denial and I loved him, I enjoyed caring for him. I hadn’t had the courage to block him yet. I guess a part of me wanted for him to come back and say I made a terrible mistake. I made up in my head how I would tell how he’s hurt me for the last time and I never want to see him again. Etc. So after watching this video. I blocked him…everywhere. Thank you for your words, they gave me the courage to do this!!
Oh boy, the famous block Yeah that was really hard! After being discarded after a year relationship (he blocked me everywhere half a hour after sending me a text he loved me) I didn’t block him back, I was waiting for a message with an explanation Till the day I realized that a message would not solve a damn thing I blocked him back everywhere and never looked back The healing process took me over a year it was really hard but he still is on block everywhere and I could care less why he did what he did All I need to know.. I know ;) He is def not the person I want in my sons life.. and not in mine either Great videos!..
So need this tonight..finally have said enough is enough as you say...3rd video now...very well said best I've heard yet..like the tines rolled in and made me say.. Naw your choice for 7 yrs is my fault. Time to staighten this out. It's like I was twisted on right..and saying ya like what the heck this is not stopping them dead in their tracks..your choices r not my fault..its kinda comical once it finally sets in..Thank you so much so Needed to hear this!!!!..bravo first to make real sense. Smile* 🌷
What really makes me irritated is *instagram will not allow an individual to block someone once you are blocked by them.* My ex blocked me, but, I can't block her because the account comes up as "unavailable" in the search. I've even messaged support and no replies months ago I tried to do this. Blocked on everything else besides IG and guess what...that's the main ap both of us use. *sigh*
At first I used to feel that way wondering how could he move on so fast what does she have that I don't have and I clearly knew and everyone clearly knew that I was much more prettier and classier than her so I used to wonder what was happening to me.
Brother you need to get a syndicated talk show so you can reach the hundreds of millions that don't know nothing about you on RUclips... You're the greatest!!💯💯🙏
Yes! I just deleted and blocked a lot of people that did nothing for me but caused me stress and were negative and toxic and gossiped about me! This was perfect timing and confirmation I did the right thing!
If you don’t feel you can block him today just listen to this vid again. I made a decision to block one day last week. It’s been 8plus years and I DID it!!!! He called today from his work but I left to vm. Wow 😯
I had a hoover attempt 5 days ago, he txted late fri night out of the blue after a month of no contact. Said he misses me and he holds his hand up that it was his fault things didn't work out! Then proceeded to say i split with him over something so trivial accused me of black mail stating he would never threaten to leave me over this! Quick turn around in txt. I told him i will never come back, he made me unhappy and would never be able to give me the love i deserve. The last words i said to him were f**k you! I'm now blocked. He is also now blocked. He won't get a chance to manipulate me ever again. I have a holiday with friends coming up at the end of the month he knows about too. Happy no narc holiday for me 🙏💪 xx thankyou Andrew. Wish now i had blocked him straight away. A month of healing to be set back in rumination over the last few days grrrrr annoyed a bit with oneself lol xx
My narcissist had a professional photographer take pictures of her and enhance them by computer. She then plastered them on social media. I have her blocked and on ignore. I told her if she needs to contact me about my son's, she must email me.
Blocking and deleting is so hard to do...but once you've cut the cord you'll feel amazing. Say no more to their BS. Great video Andrew. 🇦🇺🙂
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i agree!
Please remember when you block a narcissist there are other good people that need you in their lives.
Yes I went through the phase of blocking and unblocking..when ever you feel ready to permanently block you will! And that's ok! I was honest with her when I saw her last I told her I was damaged from us and she said that's an excuse and I said I have to protect myself. She was more covert/vulnerable/insecure and maybe she was not self aware. Forgive them internally. When you no longer feel any anger resentment guilt shame is when you will heal
@@StevieBars I understand every word. You can't be with someone broken. If they don't want or value you it's time to move on. I dragged my heart around for someone who up and left and went back to a toxic drama queen. He is welcome to her! . I know I'm worth more than wasting my life on someone who doesn't want me..nor respect me.
Blocking him was the hardest thing I've ever done. I loved him so much, and he hurt me more than anyone in my life...I'm finally at peace now... I'm safe.
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You did the best thing..there’s hope in front of you 🙌🙏🏽
@@Star-ze8dh Hallelujah...🙏
Same here. Please stay strong. You are not alone. We will get through this fire and shine!
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@@katyams Yes we will...TY..🙏🙂
I had a friend of 40 years and she recently displayed NPD. I went through one cycle of rage and discard. I dropped off all her stuff at her security and hard blocked her ass. Respect yourself enough to not accept any form of abuse.
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Well said, I agree.
They're like something from the Twilight Zone - They're EVIL!!
WOW! THAT'S A LONG FRIENDSHIP TO HAVE AND THEN HAVE THE NPD SYMPTOMS SHOW UP. GOOD FOR YOU.
She checks 9/9 traits for Grandiose NPD. They can just use her for research she is so textbook.
Block those demons!!!!!😊
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Blocking gives you peace and calm, no longer can the narcissist get to you, anxiety goes.
I just blocked the narcissist in my life and this video helped empower me to do so, thank you so much for this. Blocking means protecting yourself from their negative energy and is an act of self-love/care. I am proud of myself and of everyone else who is taking back control of their lives and beginning the healing journey.
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“Evil is not something superhuman, it's something less than human. Your criminal is someone who wants to be important, but who never will be important, because he'll always be less than a man”
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I just blocked someone today and I feel good I don't need toxic people in my life I need a positive people
It really is liberating.
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Good for you. 😊
I totally agree. We have to block the narcisists.
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June 30th will be 3 years no contact for me! And I plan to keep it that way! I’m remembering who I am!
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Yes.
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Great. PHIL! I'm out 10.9 years and it feels good. We're ALL GONNA MAKE IT..❤👍
Blocking and deleting is huge progress too! It’s you, the empath, the survivor who is the winner. You DO have a new path and we should walk it with a smile and our heads held high. Blocking is empowering and essential 💙🙏💙
Absolutely! 😊
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Do it, don't hesitate, it will give you the best feeling! No more listening to the noisy narc. Blessings to all. Thank you Andrew!
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Block them and NEVER undo it. Don't invite the craziness back in. They're toxic & will never change. You are taking your own power back & moving forward. They're in your past & do not deserve to be a part of your brighter, more promising future. 🙏 ❤ ✝️
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It took me 5 months post discard to block. I had a story going in my head that the blocking would flare the Narc up and I would have to protect myself , again. Blocking was so liberating!! Blocking ALL the flying monkeys is just as important. Thanks Andrew, for your dedication to helping so many people free themselves.....✨️🌟✨️🌿
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I finally did after 6 years. Good for you.
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I had the same story in my head... it’s like backing away slowly backwards one step at a time from a rattlesnake. But we know the further out we get ..the safer and better... Blocking today was instantly liberating.😊
@@Idiopathogen HI Peter. I did it after 5 years. Now I feel NORMAL and HAPPY again. Good luck to you!
I recently went "no contact" with someone. I didn't know them long enough to say they are bonified narcissist but they had some qualities....they would send me long text messages about themselves and wanted me to do things for them but they never asked about me or how I was doing. I started to see red flags and I realized I needed to block them. I felt so much peace after. I refuse to be used.
It use to bother me so much to think that if I went no contact he would find someone else to be with. But then I reminded myself even if I stay in the relationship, he is still going to be with someone else. He didn’t know how to be faithful, honest, or committed to one person. I have now maintained no contact for almost a month. It’s been tough but so freeing at the same time. Thanks for the encouraging videos Andrew.
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Be aware of a narcissist that tries to apologize to you only to take them back/forgive them, but then turn around and blame you for it. It's never genuine with them! 💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
That happened to me a few times. But I no longer allowing this abuse
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You are always straight to the point but your words are said in a loving and caring way❤️thank you
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I agree completely. Firm but gentle. 😊
Andrew is so Educated & love that there’s no beating around the bush. Straight to the point & with heart enough to care.
I had 3 stalkers on Facebook and a covert narc sister in law who would always post pictures and crap. I finally got tired of all of them and deleted Facebook for good. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made. My healing started that day and I've never looked back. Thank you Andrew ❤
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I also deleted all social media besides RUclips never felt better
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That's really strong of You to take that step taken away social media. I will not taken away my social media cause I have kids there both in Facebook and at Instagram and a lot of friends and relatives too as I don't can meet/travel too but I have of course blocked the narc and flying monkeys etc and also at mail and mobile phone. I blocked the narc at once when I left him for 1 year 9 month ago.
I did the same deleted all social media because I found out he was adding my friends and then when I blocked him he made a fake account ..
I made the mistake of unblocking after 30 days because I thought I would never hear from him again. I did hear from him, entertained it, and then didn't hear from him. I blocked him again after 4 days of not hearing from him. Tired of these games, being used and abused. If they are so bored of you when they're with you why the heck do they want to come back anyway? Trying to maintain no contact. It is the only way. Thank you for being such an impact, Andrew.
Once you’ve really had enough… you BLOCK. If you don’t you are flirting with disaster and maybe you need to learn more lessons. #healingpath
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Got it done. Thanks, brother.
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I'm getting stronger each day. One step at a time...I am getting there!
Thank God girl please don't give up please you going to feel so much better.
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Yay! Keep it up!
You can do this Penny! Don't look back, just go! 🏃♀️
You’ve got this! 😊
Oh man. I'm getting ready to get out of a toxic situation. So I've been observing more, since I'm learning from this channel, well I've noticed that he's constantly watching me. I had no idea how deep this is. I thought I would have no problem walking out. But now I'm realizing he's watching me and listening to me. It's creepy.
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It is creepy💯🙏my ex narc told me had people watching me, if I left the house, I lived like that until, I got out, and I stayed out ! Never, again
Yes, they watch every move. They will freak out if there's an oil stain in the driveway and accuse you of having someone over. Just an example. I never was treated like that before, ever.
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@@cobwebafternoon3737 My ex refused to pick up his own dog's poop. we went on a walk one day and his dog did his business. after 100s of times of being the only one to get the doggie bag and deal with it, I stopped myself and looked at him.
he looked at me and said: I'm not picking it up. then: you did this on purpose.
like I'm the one controlling the dogs bowels.
they really will find anything and everything to go nuts about
You helped me to block Andrew. It helped me to break my trauma bond, which was so painful. Thank you Andrew. I’m on the path.
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Fantastic… keep going! 😊
Hey 🖐🏾 Good evening and blessings 💯 Block and don't look back so the new life desired can truly began. Andrew thanks for the truth and now we just need to walk in it. This video is a reminder of what we need to do BLOCK, if we are strong enough. Your words are very empowering ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽
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Spot on Andrew! No truer words have ever been spoken. This is the best advice you could give anyone coming out of a narcissistic relationship. Thanks Andrew! Have a great evening and God bless🌻
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I'm still in the narrsistic relationship & I started blocking until the day I go to visit. It has been essential for my mental health as the texts are filled with manipulation, abuse, profanity, blame. Typical narrsisist Blocking is a great tool for much needed peace, calmness, stability, even if its limited. I wanted to also say I love the new picture of you Andrew. Relaxed, natural, cool - have a lovely evening & thank you for helping, namaste 🌻🦋🌙
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That was smart of you👌🏼
Hi Andrew. I blocked the narc over a year ago.
The other night I went out to meet a friend and it was very nice because I was in a good and safe environment.
Yesterday, the CovNarc came to visit. It triggered all my anger (rage) and sadness. I am down again. Seeing the narc face brought me so much pain again.
Please make a video on hoovering and how to handle it.
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Mathie… oh no, how awful for you.
I totally understand how you must be feeling right now, but it will pass.
If it is possible for you to relocate somewhere else, then do it as soon as possible. Sending love and prayers. 🙏🏽❤️
Sending healing energy and strength 🙌🙏💯
@@foodogslove2588 hi. I wish I could but I have no other place to go.
Finding people like you is like being thrown a lifeline. That is why I am on this channel.
The antidepressant pills help me calm my nerves but I still dream of being able to go about my day without them. One day ….
Thank you so much for your response.
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you Andrew. Still much to much to watch from your channel and similar ones. Bless you.
@@mathie2037 I’m so glad you’re here and I’m happy to talk whenever you like.
All of us here have experienced so much pain and by being here and sharing our experiences, it allows us to move forward in the healing process.
I hope your situation improves and feel free to reach out to me at any time.
Sending love and prayers. 🙏🏽❤️🦋
👏 💯 Block and don’t look back!
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I'm in a great mood tonight because I spent time out with new friends!! Thanks for all of your encouragement Andrew! 💯👏❤🌸
That’s great news. So happy for you! 😊
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Thank you, Andrew😊Blocked and no contact, boundaries up! Namaste, love you too! Appreciate you💯❤🙏
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We're beautiful empaths Sigma Nation!
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🎉 so good blocking him dont want any contact with him whats so ever 🎉😊
Loved the blocking on the phone, made especially for narcs...made me laugh.. brilliant video Andrew, well done 👏....
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Yesterday was 1 year of no contact for me!! I have relapsed on social media several times by peeking at his page(s) and it ate me ALIVE every single time. I am currently 48 days free from looking at any of his social media or any of his affiliates' pages. I will NEVER unblock and go there AGAIN because the mental anguish and obsession it caused me was pathetic and out of control. I learned my limits after months and months of blocking and unblocking, and every time I unblocked, it made me feel worse.
ps..Andrew, YOUR videos on blocking and unblocking saved me. I always go back and listen to them when I'm beginning to have thoughts. thank you so much and God bless you.
You are amazing and blessed.. continue on the path 🙏💯💪💪🙌❤️
Narc, I just came across your videos last night as they showed up in my “recommended” videos. I’ve watched a lot of them so far and AMAZINGLY, you have me PEGGED! I learned from your “7 signs that you’re an Empath” video that I AM an Empath! Hit EVERY checkmark! Also, I just ended a 7 month long “acquaintanceship” I guess you could say, with a guy who is… at the very LEAST a narcissist, if not a straight up SOCIOPATH. It was 7 months of abusive (long distance/ internet) HELL! Long story there. Anyway, with each video I watch, I’m actually amazed at how you seem to be describing ME and my SPECIFIC situation! The story gets more complicated, but I won’t go into that here. I just want to thank you for putting these INVALUABLE videos out there for people like me who have searched HIGH and LOW for answers to things and has never been able to find any! Keep up the GREAT work! Hope you and yours are doing well! Namaste!
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Thank you so much! Your advice here is SPOT ON! Game changing! 😁👍👍 I will take ALL the advice I can get cuz, obviously, what I’ve been doing hasn’t been working! Everything you’ve said in these videos makes perfect sense, and it’s explained WHY certain things are important… why certain actions are the wrong ones to take! I will DEFINITELY keep watching! Thank you for responding!
I’m so happy for you and glad you’re here and moving forward. 🙏🏽❤️😊
@@foodogslove2588 thank you SO MUCH! The timing of my coming across Andrew’s channel here was nothing short of AMAZING! I know it may sound cheesy or whatever, but I felt like it was an answer to my prayer for help getting out of the TOXIC situation I was in. A FIRM answer… one that left NO DOUBT that it WAS, in fact, the answer to my prayers, so I needed to LISTEN and HEED the advice within. And I can already FEEL the difference it has made, physically speaking. I don’t feel depressed like I did, say, a week ago. I was in a deep dark place where I would cry for seemingly no reason, had NO energy, didn’t want to be around ANYONE, and was just angry at EVERYONE. I’m not feeling that way now, as I FINALLY have some answers! I’m DEEPLY grateful to @NARCDAILY for putting these videos out there. Andrew, you may not even be AWARE of how much you are helping people, but I ASSURE you, you ARE! FAR more than you can IMAGINE! Namaste! 🙏☺️❤️
@@jennifernewton4637 Thank you so much for your lovely response. I completely understand what you’ve been through, are going through, as I have and still am experiencing this too.
I’ve only been here six weeks myself, having quite by accident, discovered Andrew’s channel myself.
It has been a complete revelation to me and judging by the comments, to everyone else also.
You will naturally, unconsciously move forward everyday and gradually become empowered.
Thank you for sharing your experience because it helps you and all of us here gain more understanding.
Stay strong. Namaste. 🙏🏽❤️😊
I just blocked everywhere. Thank you.
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1000000000%blocked that fool fore life.💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👊🏽my energy is light🙏🏽❤️
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Everything you say is absolutely correct. Blocking the narcissist was the best thing that I could have done. I had no problem whatsoever blocking him. We had to choose where he wanted to eat. If we ate at a restaurant the narc was always looking at other women serving us. This was so disrespectful. I seen many red flags 🚩and the intuition inside of me always knew that something was definitely wrong. I wasn’t in love anymore, years passed and I actually wanted out of the toxic relationship but I was cornered in many ways, and I can’t say on your channel everything on this toxic relationship that I was in for many years. NEVER AGAIN! I’m glad that I’m no longer with the narcissist.
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So right and the longer it stays in place, the stronger you feel and not controlled by them. So block FOREVER and say NEVER! Loving this video, brings a celebration feeling and empowerment Andrew.
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It's very hard to do but it's the only way to get your life back. I'm still in the healing process.
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As soon as I found out he was who he was --Blocked and $1000 to divorce, Done deal. He was a fake and mean in so many ways. He's a crafty guy I want no part of his evilness!!! I got my own phone after I left. Then after the divorce went through I paid $30 for another number just to be safe. My sister kept the number and of course she has not received any messages. Just the simplest things to cause angst he did! He deserves nothing from me again. God help him.
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It was a mutual friend (the same mutual friend I had to remove myself from) that told me to block the narcissist. My friend said," You need to do this now or his rages will not stop. He is going to go for the jugular." So I blocked the narcs and anyone I thought they might manipulate or use to try and stalk my account or my life in some way.
And look the narcissist will/can stalk you. I have two confirmed instances of it. But the point is, they still have to use another account to do it. I also made a point to just ghost my own account. I know one way or the other word gets back to them about things... its so weird... and then I get the oddball phone call that's conveniently timed and placed with certain events.
Andrew is right that when these situationships end, it is in some horrible manner. When you reflect on all the dozens of ways it could have gone; the better, more professional, or mature ways it could have ended...the narcissist always chooses the worst scenario.
One of the things you may have to accept is that they may always be something of an issue in your life. They may always be altering and changing their smear campaign. Remember, these are often angry children in adult bodies... but they got the attention span of children as well. All these Narcissists are different, some people have to be more careful than others and sometimes you just got to focus on YOU... start enjoying your life without the narcissist playing a theme in anything.
We all wish it could have gone differently... but the narcissist... they will always paint you the bad guy even if they were the one doing drugs, raging, being impulsive, manipulative, lying... while you pretty much lost everything. You have a right to be upset, you have a right to be angry, block them. They lost the rights to you.
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Andrew-Great clarification today! I had to laugh 🤣😂so hard as to why our phones 📱 have a 🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱4 Narc. You made my day-Laughter is good medicine to heal the wounded ❤️🩹hearts & brokenness
Absolutely the best advice 🚧
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I did this today. After a 26 yr marriage, 3 beautiful and successful kids raised, I blocked him today. My situation is unique, as they all are, but he is well aware of his narcissism. He's known for many years that he has no empathy for anyone. But he is a big believer in following the rules and law and he believes in honor. The narcissist took me from a happy, intelligent and successful career to a small person with my only thought being how to win his approval. He is well aware, and anyone will tell you, if he does carry any empathy it would be for me. We've had many discussions about this, and I truly believe that it was my love that carried us both. A little over a year ago his mother moved into a memory facility for dementia. Her narcissism was more overtly visible as her mental facilities diminished. He is so much like her and he was devastated at some of the things he learned about his mother during that time. For the last 6 months I knew I had to move on. And I have. He has never been violent and I really don't expect him to be. I was able to tell him exactly why I was doing it in a message and asked him to not contact me again. He responded that he would respect my decision and said goodbye to me in one last love bomb. The divorce is final next week and he has moved to another city with his job. Honestly? I'm starved for touch, seriously. He was a wonderful provider and kept me very comfortable in that respect over the years, but there was never any emotion shown by him, only me trying to gain his approval. I won't go back, and the kids have pushed him away. I know he is devasted as well. But I'm good, the love bomb was somewhat of a gut punch, but I tell myself they are only words and I am truly the only one crying. I will get through and move onto many beautiful years, I'm sure. I know how I have to get through this, by going through it. Thanks for your wonderful loving words and insight, Andrew.
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Absolutely true. They are the devil’s tools.
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I JUST NOW used my special narcissist blocking feature on my Iphone! Love it😂😂😂
THANK YOU ANDREW for letting me know about it!!😂😂😂
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It truly feels like a weight off my shoulders.
We have 3 adult children. I thought I needed his home phone number for emergencies. Nope!
It is the last boundary!
Do it!
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Thank you so much for all your great information and content! Much appreciated and blessings to you to keep on being a blessing to many! I liked and shared
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The restaurant thing is such a small detail but very true and extremely impactful in the moment.
My narc and I were stopping for something to eat and she asked me what I wanted. "do you want something you don't have back home?" I didn't particularly care but she was being pushy about it so I just chose one of her suggestions. And she was like "okay... I don't really like it but we'll stop there. I'll just grab something from somewhere else" and then felt the tension rise when she had to wait in a long line at the drive through for me even though I told her we didn't have to stop there.
Just another way she tried to make me feel like I had to try to be on her good side. And not in the usual "oh it's a woman thing" kind of way. More like "I can't wait for him to leave so I can spend time with someone else."
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When I start seeing someone I start training myself not to go on their social media immediately. This is based off of past narcissistic relationships I’ve been in. So once I’m done I’m done whatever you’re doing in your life is beyond me
Your videos always pop up relating to my situation at that exact moment. Love it and your spirit is very warm and calming!
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Omg I was hoovered after the assault and now I'm getting those "Hey", "Hi" messages...one of his versions of this is sending me memes and songs on RUclips. Stay on the path always. We love you Andrew from dirty Jersey! Namaste 🙏🏻💪🏻🥰😊
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I blocked her on everything yesterday and she emailed me and I blocked her again. NO CONTACT 4EVA!
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Thank you for doing this. I would have let her back in if it wasn’t your content and the education from others. She had blocked me a couple of platforms, I blocked her on the rest. She unblocked me, then I blocked those accounts. I wasn’t completely ready, but I remembered the pain. They are so insidious.
Now I am putting myself first, second and third.
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I did it once I found out he had a new supply. The best thing I ever did. No looking back and no knowing about his life with the new supply. Not my business. Don't want to know anything about him.
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They texted me on my birthday and that night this demons drain all of my energy in the dream I saw this two particular persons trying to get something from me like an answer for something that I do in real life. they energy came to me in sleep time when I can't protect myself and took all my super energy and that made me feel bad that I couldn't protect my energy so I started smoking weed all week after that happened and I don't like to smoke weed it just helping me to not think about all this betrayal. It's hard to feel that they did it again. God is helping us from this attacks. All prayers to the most high god is the greatest god is within us and he is love. Thank you so much speaking truth 🌻
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I blocked, unblocked, blocked, unblocked. But I finally blocked, stayed blocked and have be NO CONTACT for 90 days tomorrow. Fortunately, he is violently opposed to social media, so no worries about him showing up there.
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YESS i exposed him And blocked him💪🏼byee birdd🐦🐦🤡🥊
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I'm 3 weeks post letting him discard me without me "fixing" it and have done everything but block on FB. We belong to a number of livestream groups of mutual interest, and it's been nice that while initially seeming to vie for attention from our mutual friends, he has largely been absent from the streams I watch and participate in this and last week. I'm holding my own space, being myself, and not thinking or talking with anyone about him and it's going really well. He seems to be avoiding me which is awesome. I'm going to listen to this again and again because you're right. I know that any contact with him will only set me back, and the faster I leave him in the rearview, the better for me. Thank you so so so very much for your daily videos which have gotten me through this so well. I haven't recovered my health or life yet, but my mind and spirit are at surprising peace and I have you to thank for it. You always know exactly how to speak to us about every detail of the NARC experience and your unique way has swept the misery from my life. I shall be eternally grateful Andrew. Namaste and Pranam.
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Honestly, you're best off blocking him. Take our advice, it's the only way. 🌸
This is so relevant for the senior dating group, 60++++ 😟😲. It’s a horror & a shame. You think you’re safe among your own. Nope. They ain’t having a senior moment.
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Thought to get Facebook.....but I don't need the distraction for my path lol😊
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It wasn't difficult for me Andrew it was really simple
They don't respect boundaries, so barricade is best and never look back.
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I did it this morning he's all blocked out I've already thought about unblocking him I'm pathetically weak but I got this it'll be okay I like your videos because they remind me of the truth I tried to sugarcoat everything and try to think oh he could change or it could be different it's not the case it's not true I have to face reality I have to move on I was happy before I met him and I'll be happy after this is all over
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Every time we thought he would message every single girl he ever knew asking for support, and now I know that he was also leaving and cheating on me every time. It’s crazy the length they go for any sort of supply, any sort of attention. And then they accuse you of talking to people for attention and validation all the while you’re being healthy and speaking to someone close to you, well they’re cheating and being desperate. It’s unreal. I hope one of these days I’ll be strong enough to block him for good because right now I’m like still looking for that reassurance and I’m still wishing he would message me and I don’t know why
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Thank you 🙏 such a relief!
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I don't want to see nothing, hear nothing, if it's not something about Karma, then I don't want to hear it.
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New subscriber to this channel! You are speaking facts Andrew! I was involved in a narcissistic relationship three years ago. I went back and forth with the narc-breakup, Hoover, then makeup many times. Block and unblock. The last time we were together, my intuition ( aka the Holy Spirit) led me to look in his phone. He had been texting a female with her picture on the text. I asked him about it. He went into a narcissistic rage. I told him to leave. He hit me in my face on the way out the door. First time EVER being hit by a man. He smeared my name in the community for looking in his phone, BUT, did not tell that he HIT me for it! I EXPOSED him and told what really happened. I created a narcissistic injury. He was very embarrassed and angry. He had the people in this community fooled, like he was such a great person. However, I am well known in this town and a Christian woman. I just made a mistake for settling below my level. After that, I blocked him FOR GOOD! No contact. No hoovers since. I thank God for bringing me out of that toxic relationship. I experienced verbal, emotional, and finally physical abuse in that relationship. I went through nasty text messages down rating me, the voicemails cursing me, all kept me upset! It started affecting my health! I experienced peace when I blocked him for good and went no contact!!!
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if not now, when - yes.
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It took me some time to block because I feared for my safety. The narc is my life was a raging alcoholic, but he knew I cared as I viewed him as a close friend. I’m glad I was able to open my eyes and thanks to my husband and friends I was able to let go. I’m still dealing with the Trauma bond but thank you for posting videos like this. It truly helps!
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Going on 10 months of blocking/deleting the narc! It’s been the path I chose and am so grateful for this time of educating myself and healing. Andrew I have followed you the entire journey and so appreciate your content and support. So many things now make sense and to finally have the closure I so desperately needed for several years. I truly feel alive again and have never looked back. Happy and healthy is my motto. To everyone who is teetering on the fence about moving forward I can only say that it’s worth every second of life on the other side! Thank you 🙏🏻
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Block, block block some more. I seem to do a lot of this. If not now, when? Gotta do it....for my sanity, lol!!!
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I so want to block but have a young daughter with that evil witch. I am 99.9999% no contact though so that it will have to suffice. Blocking her would make her angry and I know for a fact she would direct that anger at my daughter. Glad I found your channel bro. It really helps on those bad days. Keep up the good work from a UK trucker 👍
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Thank you, Andrew. I needed to hear this today. You always help me.
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You are soooo right Andrés!!! Just because he stay log on my tablet i notice that every time i go and check i was getting upset, but at the same time i have become very discussed by what i have seeing. Actually i came to the point that i really don't even want to see him ever, not even mad but discussed discomposed brain he have.. NAMASTE.. good night
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thank you tom cruise!
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I blocked him and I blocked my narc family too. Feels amazing to be free. Hooray! 🎉
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What does the text say?? “hi” 😂😂😂 no thank you on that! You really do know how to speak in simple terms and I am grateful for the why behind the why. Thank you!
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The A in Andrew today stands for awesome!🙌
@@Star-ze8dh hey gorgeous!!! I am Happy to see your comment today ❤️❤️❤️ I hope you had an amazing day today🌞🌞🌞🌞🕊🕊🕊
@@myphd-myprisonhistorydiplo691 Hola! Awe. My day was blessed I’ve been practicing awareness like Andrew says... it’s been interesting in s good way.How was your day!
@@Star-ze8dh busy and fun!!! Are you on Instagram? I’d love to connect with you!! I feel like we would have some fun laughs and healthy conversations!!
It’s a feeling of self worth. I feel for myself when I own my power, truth, and love on myself it’s easier to stand up for myself such a blocking.. I have blocked soooo many people. 😂🙏🏼In my power
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I subscribed yesterday and now I’m gonna have to go back and watch all your videos.. they are very educational, they speak truth, they make sense of difficult topics… May God bless you abundantly for putting truth out there! 🙌🏼💯🙏🏼💛
Thank you. I blocked my narcissist. Waffled for weeks and your vid convinced me that blocking was the only way
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Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video! July 16th I found out he was cheating on me with his ex for 2 months. I found out through her that he had literally just dropped her off from a date. And came to my house to spend the night. I saw her goodnight text. I threw him out.
That was it the trust broken. I knew he had many narc qualities but still in denial and I loved him, I enjoyed caring for him.
I hadn’t had the courage to block him yet. I guess a part of me wanted for him to come back and say I made a terrible mistake. I made up in my head how I would tell how he’s hurt me for the last time and I never want to see him again. Etc.
So after watching this video. I blocked him…everywhere.
Thank you for your words, they gave me the courage to do this!!
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Oh boy, the famous block
Yeah that was really hard!
After being discarded after a year relationship (he blocked me everywhere half a hour after sending me a text he loved me)
I didn’t block him back, I was waiting for a message with an explanation
Till the day I realized that a message would not solve a damn thing
I blocked him back everywhere and never looked back
The healing process took me over a year it was really hard but he still is on block everywhere and I could care less why he did what he did
All I need to know.. I know ;)
He is def not the person I want in my sons life.. and not in mine either
Great videos!..
Sending love to you Andrew. You've done so much for people. Love to see your smile. Love you man.
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So need this tonight..finally have said enough is enough as you say...3rd video now...very well said best I've heard yet..like the tines rolled in and made me say.. Naw your choice for 7 yrs is my fault. Time to staighten this out. It's like I was twisted on right..and saying ya like what the heck this is not stopping them dead in their tracks..your choices r not my fault..its kinda comical once it finally sets in..Thank you so much so Needed to hear this!!!!..bravo first to make real sense. Smile* 🌷
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Another SPOT ON scenario's - .
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What really makes me irritated is *instagram will not allow an individual to block someone once you are blocked by them.* My ex blocked me, but, I can't block her because the account comes up as "unavailable" in the search. I've even messaged support and no replies months ago I tried to do this. Blocked on everything else besides IG and guess what...that's the main ap both of us use. *sigh*
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Just make your page private lol
Blocking I so get it. Blocking is not the same as call avoidance
It truly is about boundaries Thank you Andrew
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Mine blocked me. So offended lol 😊
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At first I used to feel that way wondering how could he move on so fast what does she have that I don't have and I clearly knew and everyone clearly knew that I was much more prettier and classier than her so I used to wonder what was happening to me.
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Best thing I've done! No contact/blocking gave me all the time I needed to heal..💯🙏
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Brother you need to get a syndicated talk show so you can reach the hundreds of millions that don't know nothing about you on RUclips... You're the greatest!!💯💯🙏
Yes! I just deleted and blocked a lot of people that did nothing for me but caused me stress and were negative and toxic and gossiped about me! This was perfect timing and confirmation I did the right thing!
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If you don’t feel you can block him today just listen to this vid again.
I made a decision to block one day last week. It’s been 8plus years and I DID it!!!! He called today from his work but I left to vm. Wow 😯
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Really nice short and informative video
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I had a hoover attempt 5 days ago, he txted late fri night out of the blue after a month of no contact. Said he misses me and he holds his hand up that it was his fault things didn't work out! Then proceeded to say i split with him over something so trivial accused me of black mail stating he would never threaten to leave me over this! Quick turn around in txt. I told him i will never come back, he made me unhappy and would never be able to give me the love i deserve. The last words i said to him were f**k you! I'm now blocked. He is also now blocked. He won't get a chance to manipulate me ever again. I have a holiday with friends coming up at the end of the month he knows about too. Happy no narc holiday for me 🙏💪 xx thankyou Andrew. Wish now i had blocked him straight away. A month of healing to be set back in rumination over the last few days grrrrr annoyed a bit with oneself lol xx
Well done and enjoy your holiday!
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@@foodogslove2588 thank you XOXO
@@anngardner5607 You’re welcome. 😊
Sending healing energy and strength 💯🙌🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you xoxo 🙏💗
My narcissist had a professional photographer take pictures of her and enhance them by computer.
She then plastered them on social media.
I have her blocked and on ignore.
I told her if she needs to contact me about my son's, she must email me.
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Love this!. Everyone knows a narsissist😡😡😡
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