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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • Hi guys! For episode 4 I’m telling my dating story of how I met my husband as a single mother.
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Комментарии • 341

  • @brittanyxavier
    @brittanyxavier  3 года назад +128

    If you liked this video, make sure to check out the first episode in the series - ruclips.net/video/yWt1T7fEVRM/видео.html

  • @allibrooks4094
    @allibrooks4094 3 года назад +417

    oh my goodness jayden’s little giggle during ur proposal 🥺

  • @helloalexandraa
    @helloalexandraa 3 года назад +1293

    What are the odds that the one guy that stood out to you at the bar was already mutual friends with the person you came with AND almost didn’t even go out that night 🥲

    • @sincerelysof
      @sincerelysof 3 года назад +65

      Plus he also scanned the room and felt attracted to her!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 года назад +216

      that’s why we always say it was meant to be 🙏🏼

    • @helloalexandraa
      @helloalexandraa 3 года назад +16

      @@brittanyxavier thank you for sharing so much of your family’s story 😭

    • @dominikamihokova784
      @dominikamihokova784 3 года назад

      It was meant to be for sure!!!!

    • @shannonmccarthy3461
      @shannonmccarthy3461 3 года назад +3

      Literally they both didn't really wanna go imagine if either of them went... Literally meant to be

  • @victoriawinhumphries7161
    @victoriawinhumphries7161 3 года назад +100

    Brittany you are so strong and Iike listening to your story. It gives me some hope in life. Thank you for helping me without you knowing it.

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 года назад +8

      Aw I love that! Thank you for following along! 🥰

  • @juanna8822
    @juanna8822 3 года назад +35

    I'm crying with how BEAUTIFUL your love story is

  • @Whymee24
    @Whymee24 3 года назад +12

    I'm not an emotional person and totally didn't plan on watching even the 1st video...... but now I'm 4 episodes in, crying tears of joy for you, and am absolutely subscribing :') :') :'). Thank you for sharing

  • @MT-zm1yb
    @MT-zm1yb 3 года назад +12

    You are such a good mom and parent, your daughter is going to grow up to be an amazing human being.

  • @lin_zp
    @lin_zp 3 года назад +6

    the video of him proposing.... omg i sobbed. how special wow

  • @juanitap9087
    @juanitap9087 3 года назад +9

    crying when he gave the ring to Jadyn, sooooo cuteeeeee

  • @GoodBadBeautifulLife
    @GoodBadBeautifulLife 3 года назад +7

    RUclips recommended this series to me a week or two ago and I've been following along with every episode. After watching this video especially I can't believe you were so worried you wouldn't be maternal while you were pregnant. Your maturity at such a young age was incredible and it's so obvious from hearing you both speak that Jadyn was priority number 1 from the start. Awesome family and now I can't wait for next week's announcement!

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist 3 года назад +18

    So cute how he proposed to Jayden to be the flower girl 💕

  • @jadhurshanashangar
    @jadhurshanashangar 3 года назад +16

    Thank you for sharing your story 💖. Your an incredible strong woman and love your such great role model to your daughter.

  • @not_cat661
    @not_cat661 3 года назад +1

    Jayden must be so excited and sooo sooo sooo happy am like in tears rn I can't watch anything but you guys your guys content is everything ❤️😭

  • @isabellitss
    @isabellitss 3 года назад +4

    What a beautiful story with hardships and a happy to be continue. I didn’t cry with the beginning of the story but man him proposing to both was my undoing haha

  • @monksdaughter
    @monksdaughter 3 года назад +8

    I LITERALLY CRIED! SOOO CUTE!

  • @cheried9390
    @cheried9390 3 года назад +1

    I just found your channel, watched your story of your unplanned pregnancy to this one. Very touching story. I’m so happy for you. That this is a happy story. 🥰

  • @lexiv4210
    @lexiv4210 3 года назад +8

    was anxious all day lol I love this series

  • @johnpettigrew9732
    @johnpettigrew9732 Год назад +1

    magic,magic ,magic story B X & J& A WOW!! from WOYWOY AUST😊

  • @georgia5719
    @georgia5719 3 года назад +143

    I’m getting a feeling you might be pregnant again?? 🥺❣️

  • @lamariereyes6696
    @lamariereyes6696 3 года назад

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing! I’m a single mom and haven’t dated for years! I guess because of being fearful about bringing someone new into our lives. Fearful about everything that comes with it as well...but it is so refreshing to hear stories like this and how well it all worked out. Truly gives me hope ❤️ God Bless

  • @ashleymaxinne2122
    @ashleymaxinne2122 3 года назад

    I know I’m very late but I started watching your videos last week (the Dior baby shower). But after watching the Part 1,2 and 3 videos and this video, you guys became one of my favourite people on RUclips, I love what you guys put out, your content and your videos. Whenever I would watch one of your guys’ videos and I’m not sure if it’s just me but I feel like I’m also part of the family. I’m so thankful that I watched the baby shower video. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-bc1ot2es8w
    @user-bc1ot2es8w 3 года назад

    The proposal was the purest thing I've ever seen!

  • @urisseegatdula196
    @urisseegatdula196 3 года назад +1

    WAIT NO. I- I WASNT READY FOR THAT PROPOSAL VIDEO. NOT ME CRYING WHILE EATING SOME CHIPS. FUCK. IGH IM SO HAPPY. WHEN HE TURNED TO JADYN. UGH 😭😭😭 MY HEART ❤

  • @jessicaking5615
    @jessicaking5615 Год назад

    What an amazing story and an amazing family you are. I'm new to your channel and am loving these videos. Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @bernierizcollazo4716
    @bernierizcollazo4716 3 года назад +2

    What a beautiful end to this story. God bless you guys!♥️🌹😘

  • @mandylee_mahlase
    @mandylee_mahlase 3 года назад

    Just discovered this channel 😭, I’ve been watching all your videos. I love love you and I’m extremely happy for you. Beautiful love story.

  • @NOregretsjustfun
    @NOregretsjustfun 3 года назад

    Such a cute story!!! love the series

  • @arezshwan9873
    @arezshwan9873 3 года назад +2

    I LOVE YOU GUYS🥺💕💕

  • @josefinademialma
    @josefinademialma 3 года назад

    Omg why am I giggling behind the screen like this is my love story 😭🤍 such a sweet video

  • @luckyahmed200
    @luckyahmed200 3 года назад +1

    I really liked the fact that you said a step kid/parent is just what they are. I feel like when you bring in the ‘step’ it’s like you don’t fully acknowledge that they are yours (which yes I understand helps with societal constructs but feels like a diminishing title when the relationship is otherwise)

  • @KiwiZezu
    @KiwiZezu 3 года назад

    Damn!i dont believe i didn't skip any aww both of u so cute and ur daughter wish u always happy and stay healthy 😘

  • @corpselizzy
    @corpselizzy 8 месяцев назад

    my husband was the first guy i dated my family met i've been in alot of relationships (19 to be precise only did anything remotely seggsual with only 5 of those 19 hubby included) my parents love him my dad jokes i married a guy who looks similar to him which was a shock cause he thought my older sister would do that

  • @TheLubys
    @TheLubys 3 года назад

    I’m a new subscriber!!! I’ve been bingeing all your videos!! Love your channel💕

  • @kimberlymdefrancisis3721
    @kimberlymdefrancisis3721 3 года назад +1

    I love you guys! You’re adorable together

  • @Peinaj
    @Peinaj 3 года назад

    This story is beautiful. 😭

  • @theboy.inblack
    @theboy.inblack 3 года назад

    That proposal was so sweet

  • @Not_The_Momma
    @Not_The_Momma 3 года назад

    I'm not crying!!!!

  • @jamielevine9692
    @jamielevine9692 3 года назад

    Jayden was SO cute 🥰 I love that video

  • @anaraquelnovoajouney
    @anaraquelnovoajouney 3 года назад

    What a sweet story 🤧

  • @styledbyhan3875
    @styledbyhan3875 3 года назад

    i can't stop crying 😭

  • @adrianaroscala5444
    @adrianaroscala5444 3 года назад

    I’m so excited

  • @paulinag3545
    @paulinag3545 3 года назад

    I really wanted to see a pic of the before and now

  • @anna.m8
    @anna.m8 3 года назад +1

    Didn't know Dua Lipa had a kid lol

  • @LayneFable
    @LayneFable 3 года назад +503

    THAT PROPOSAL

  • @chelseaheninger998
    @chelseaheninger998 3 года назад +1135

    Oh my gosh I’m CRYING over Jaden being so excited when she said “you’re gonna marry mommy!? Hehehe” GAHHH I LOVE YOU GUYS😭🤍 and when she puts her hand over her eyes. I cannot deal.

    • @helloalexandraa
      @helloalexandraa 3 года назад +55

      And jadyn was holding a little mermaid purse when “prince Eric” proposed to her mom 😭

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 года назад +88

      I knowww 😭 she was so excited 🥰💞

    • @chelseaheninger998
      @chelseaheninger998 3 года назад +20

      I didn’t even notice she was holding a little mermaid purse!😍 How freaking adorable.

  • @lilianaagredano6498
    @lilianaagredano6498 3 года назад +544

    Did anyone else completely loose it when they showed memory engagement clip with little Jaden and Anthony proposing to both of them? I went from fine to bawling in literally half a second.

  • @ThulisileKolweni
    @ThulisileKolweni 3 года назад +937

    You can tell Anthony loves it’s here and loves being a father. He is gold . Such a beautiful story and moments ❤️♥️😍😘💕😘.

  • @quinngonzalez7372
    @quinngonzalez7372 3 года назад +268

    "omg don't call him over i just ate garlic fries" is the most relatable thing ever

    • @Ellie-pm9he
      @Ellie-pm9he 3 года назад +8

      ... nO- gArliC trUfFle friEs. IT'S IMPORTANT-

  • @raquelcrochet_designs
    @raquelcrochet_designs 3 года назад +516

    He does look like prince Eric lol

  • @vivianag_
    @vivianag_ 3 года назад +122

    “Can I call you Dad?”🥺😭 so cuteeee
    You are so strong and an inspiring woman!🤍🤍

  • @gabyromero8939
    @gabyromero8939 3 года назад +438

    i hope the big announcement is that she’s preggo!!!

    • @isabelmalagon8879
      @isabelmalagon8879 3 года назад +3

      Samee

    • @menzi7282
      @menzi7282 3 года назад +3

      awww same that would be great 😊🥺😌

    • @niamhwatson
      @niamhwatson 3 года назад +20

      I'm sure it's a collab or some business announcement.

    • @esmehdz2359
      @esmehdz2359 3 года назад +1

      Omg I’m was so thinking the same 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @Victoria-ci2ud
      @Victoria-ci2ud 3 года назад +6

      That would be awesome but its not likely

  • @sydneywettengel8599
    @sydneywettengel8599 3 года назад +192

    When did Jadyn change her last name to Xavier? Did Anthony adopt her?
    Loved this series! ❤️ Such a good example of a strong family unit! Can’t wait for next weeks announcement!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 года назад +124

      when she was in 4th grade 🥰 She had my maiden name as her last name before.

  • @d26s10
    @d26s10 3 года назад +152

    What a beautiful family unit, you guys are wonderful for sharing such a mature and responsible approach to love and raising kids.

  • @ejmakesus6
    @ejmakesus6 3 года назад +102

    The child support I can relate too as well. Sad how some ‘dads’ don’t step up to their responsibilities 😑

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  3 года назад +41

      literally. huge character issue

    • @ejmakesus6
      @ejmakesus6 3 года назад +10

      @@brittanyxavier you said it so well 🙌🏻⭐️

  • @juanna8822
    @juanna8822 3 года назад +92

    I met my boyfriend similarly the same way, I wasn't supposed to go out that night to a restaurant because it was a Monday and I had work the next morning. When I first walked in I went with one of my friends, who I mentioned to "I think that guy is so cute!". She then took my drink and told me we are sitting at the table beside them, and I had no other choice! We hit it off right away and coming up 2 years now!

  • @kathiacruz9896
    @kathiacruz9896 3 года назад +99

    OMG JAYDEN’S GIGGLE WHEN HE PROPOSED!!!!!!!!!! I’m crying 😭

  • @justace7869
    @justace7869 3 года назад +181

    As a child of this situation, I want to thank you for sharing your journey to motherhood. My parents (aka my Brittany & Anthony) are my world and hearing your story gives me even more appreciation for their journey to creating the family I am grateful to have today. Sending your family tremendous love on the next chapter 💕

  • @mariapaularodriguez886
    @mariapaularodriguez886 3 года назад +56

    Absolutely love how you guys included her and he included her in the proposal. Being a daughter of a single mom I always have grown up knowing how important I was in the dynamic and feeling included is so HUGE for kids ! It was so sweet to see. Love this love so much for you guys ♥️♥️

  • @gematrujillo8002
    @gematrujillo8002 3 года назад +73

    I just binged your story and omg I’m crying. I love your family sooo much!!!

  • @Peanutwhiskers77
    @Peanutwhiskers77 3 года назад +24

    My parents separated when I was very young, my dad took full responsibility of me while my mom didn’t really want to be a part of my life. My dad gave her the freedom to visit me whenever and never bad mouthed her even though she did very hurtful things to the both of us. It was very important to him that I came into my own conclusion when I got older, I’m very grateful my dad did everything he could for me and tried to make my life as normal as possible being a single dad. Growing up in a conservative country didn’t make it easy to have a child be born out of wedlock, let alone being a single parent. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏽 Good parents are truly a blessing and I thank God for making him my dad.

  • @gonda3435
    @gonda3435 3 года назад +55

    True viewers know she told this story already

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 3 года назад +23

    Anthony is honestly worth more than the most precious gem. That proposal and wedding 😭❤️ your daughter is so blessed.

  • @nicoleroden9647
    @nicoleroden9647 3 года назад +20

    My parents never spoke negatively about my biological father and I am so appreciative of that. I have always been my "step"-father's daughter.

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary 3 года назад +71

    This series was incredible and truly inspiring for you to share with us, thank you for your bravery 🤎🥺🥰

  • @TediRae
    @TediRae 3 года назад +24

    This whole story hits home more than I can express. I became pregnant my senior year of high school. I met my now husband when my son was a month old. He was in college and we took it slow. 13 years later, my son is 13 and our daughter is 9. We have a beautiful life we built together. My sons dad use to see him but stopped like 4-5 years ago... It is heartbreaking to see your child go through that. But he has always had my husband since he was a month old. truly a blessing a man can love a child so strongly, and biology is the only factor. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @thesimofalltrades3703
    @thesimofalltrades3703 3 года назад +24

    ANTHONY HAS ENTERED THE CHAT!!

  • @summerdow7149
    @summerdow7149 3 года назад +27

    I would love to see a video if Jaden is ok with it, maybe a video of how Jaden felt when she was little and how she is now with having her dads in her life:)

  • @BrendaMang
    @BrendaMang 3 года назад +19

    the proposal with Jaden included had me so teary and happy 💛

  • @femmefartale4466
    @femmefartale4466 3 года назад +13

    'I realized I can NOT live without them' AWWW my heart melted, you guys are so cute ♥

  • @marybarrett6123
    @marybarrett6123 3 года назад +4

    My sons birth-dad dropped out of his life pretty much after we separated & divorced. When he was 7yo I married my 2nd husband & had a similar "name" situation. We my so that he could either call by his 1st name or dad. His response was, " I finally get to have a dad?!"
    When he turned 13yo we offered him the choice of adoption. He didn't choose that because he always hoped his bio-dad would come back & want to be in his life. When he turned 19 we asked him what he wanted for his birthday. He said he wanted his dad to adopt him...so he did. They are so much alike that no one would ever guess that they aren't blood related.

  • @nondumisoshange5117
    @nondumisoshange5117 3 года назад +14

    Bless anthony and your whole family :)

  • @SuperNancyFancyPants
    @SuperNancyFancyPants 3 года назад +14

    This entire story is too cute! Jaden is adorable. I literally could not with the engagement clips. *Insert cry face here* ❤️

  • @klepece
    @klepece 3 года назад +8

    OMG!!! Will you be a flower girl ❤❤❤❤
    I'm crying my eyes out! I'm 6 months pregnant and single, the dad decided to ghost me completely... thank you for this beautiful story! And thank you for being so honest in previous videos about the strugle ❤ I'm so proud of you being so young and getting through this. I'm 38 and I feel broken right now, don't know how to deal with all of it! Everyone around me is expecting me to feel confident and happy... but I'm freaking out! Your story made me feel normal... I've been feeling so guilty for not being able to be happy...
    You seem like a very nice family. I wish you all the best 💞

  • @Amy-ol7jk
    @Amy-ol7jk Год назад +2

    hey! I am in a similar situation. Were you ever afraid of Jayden being controlled and mistreated by her father? How have you managed this risk whilst she's so far away when she visits him.

  • @zeynepcakir7946
    @zeynepcakir7946 3 года назад +45

    This was an amazing series. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @elliep.6897
    @elliep.6897 Год назад +2

    I want to meet my own Anthony too. Unfortunately, the Anthony that I met only broke my heart to pieces😢😢 (yes, Anthony was his name)

  • @libbysmith5729
    @libbysmith5729 3 года назад +15

    this story!! it had melted my heart you guys are such an amazing couple. and like you are both so understanding about things and just seem so so welcoming and warm-hearted - such a good family sending so much love and good vibes for your future :)))

  • @goodtalker
    @goodtalker 3 года назад +8

    Somewhere in this world a young woman and young man will watch this. Their spirits will be lifted, and they will know, that things are going to be fine, by realizing the great, great example you two have set. God Bless.

  • @sophiag.s2978
    @sophiag.s2978 3 года назад +10

    hearing your story made me very emotional aswell. My mommy died when i was 9 (im 14 now), and i was living with my grandparents for about a month. Then all of a sudden i thought i was just visiting my dad for the weekend but I ended up staying with him forever. I still visit my grandparents tho. Also ive lived with my single mom and grandparents since i was born. My mom and dad had never gotten married, and she didnt have a job which is why she stayed with my grandparents. My grandparents would take care if me while she went to school aswell. Very similar situations. Except my step mom is horrible to me :(

    • @MaryPraveena
      @MaryPraveena 3 года назад

      I’m so sorry... I hope and pray your stepmom has a change of heart. My stepfather was horrible to me until I was able to cut ties when I graduated (he is mentally unstable and doesn’t want my mom having anything to do with her family or kids). When things are hard, remember that you are so loved and you will do bigger and better things.

  • @biancamahon5603
    @biancamahon5603 3 года назад +5

    I just saw the birth of your second daughter! I totally enjoy an love you guys so much! Great content! All the best! 🥰

  • @kesinekaur8049
    @kesinekaur8049 3 года назад +8

    I’m glad you guys are so happy together. I think England needs to adapt these child support laws, because these men ain’t paying S**T, and still got good jobs and good credit.

  • @kaylynr8335
    @kaylynr8335 3 года назад +11

    On the verge of tears this entire video. Your story is so beautiful and personally so relatable you guys are so down to earth and I really have loved watching this whole series. Many many blessings to you Anthony and Jayden ♥️

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw 3 года назад +6

    This is so lovely!!! He’s a great guy, & you can only find these few rare men’s like that on this planet! 💕✨ Gods gift! So happy for you & your little family!

  • @MZ-nm8eb
    @MZ-nm8eb 3 года назад +8

    Your videos got randomly recommended to me and I ended up subscribing ☺️ You guys are too cute and your girls are so lucky to have you as parents 🥰

  • @AriMari26
    @AriMari26 3 года назад +6

    Soo cute!! I understand because im Anthony in my relationship, i have a “heart” boy! And i love him with all my heart

  • @luizabarros5247
    @luizabarros5247 3 года назад +6

    This is so cute. I'm so glad you found each other! :)

  • @alessiagalindo9666
    @alessiagalindo9666 Год назад +1

    *the video when Anthony proposed to both Brittany and Jadyn*
    Me: Oh no I’m not crying your crying

  • @kingdomtruth7773
    @kingdomtruth7773 Год назад +1

    Lastly, it’s wonderful how the Lord worked things out for you. By His Providence the Lord lead you to find to find a loving man, who had a somewhat similar experience being the child of a young mother like you were.
    Also, he not only seems to have been a good fit for you and you both ended up getting married, but also, he seems to be a good father figure to your daughter, his step-daughter. So, by God’s grace He turned all that pain to be a blessing.❤
    Reklamation Ministries 😊

  • @eleonoraianieri5479
    @eleonoraianieri5479 3 года назад +6

    What a wonderful story! So happy from you guys, you deserve it all❤️

  • @El-zv1zi
    @El-zv1zi 3 года назад +17

    will you have kids with Anthony?

  • @SR-ju4uh
    @SR-ju4uh 3 года назад +5

    You all are such a beautiful family. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest. I enjoyed this series so much! ❤️

  • @mariannedressler6784
    @mariannedressler6784 3 года назад +4

    My goodness!! What a beautiful outcome for what started out as a very dark time in your life! ❤️

  • @Polinaparvanova
    @Polinaparvanova 3 года назад +8

    beautiful story, I'm learning so much from you about knowing my worth and believing in myself

  • @l00c55
    @l00c55 3 года назад +5

    I really hope y'all have a baby, I know y'alls daughter would be the BEST big sis!!

  • @lekc716
    @lekc716 3 года назад +5

    I’m tearing up watching this❤️I love how Anthony not only treats Brittany after everything she went through but how she treats Jayden and respects her and loves her

  • @bluepeachwhispers6845
    @bluepeachwhispers6845 3 года назад +6

    😭 this is so heartwarming 😭🥰 so happy for the three of you 💛

  • @trinakay9072
    @trinakay9072 3 года назад +3

    I love Claremont! I met my husband at the press in Claremont as well ❤️ Now we have a beautiful 9 month old baby boy! Congratulations to you and your husband on your pregnancy!

  • @ohshesayydee
    @ohshesayydee 3 года назад +3

    Her dad is my dad. Its sad and stress on the child in the long run to constantly feel obligated to make those trips when it should be the parent. Check in with her often, I'm 28 and its still the same.

  • @chryssas.556
    @chryssas.556 3 года назад +4

    Brittany you are literally the best mother and the best role model for your daughter. You are incredible. You are exactly the type of woman that I want to be someday.

  • @thesimofalltrades3703
    @thesimofalltrades3703 3 года назад +6

    These videos have had me CRYING!! like every single time.