I unfortunately put up with it for 10 years and I finally got a new job. I've never felt better. I actually think I might survive without having to take depression and anxiety meds.
Mine is the same way. She is a two faced snatch. She plays both sides of the fence. She hates my guts because I'm the only one who calls her out on her shitty behavior. She can't fire me because our GM knows I'm valuable. I know she's trying to run my out because she does petty shit to try and get under my skin but it doesn't work and that makes her even more angry. I'm a leader. I treat my coworkers with respect. I always tell them they are valuable and I always thank them for their help at the end of our shift. That's something she never does. My coworkers have more respect for than they do for her.
All these traits fit my boss. It's been 2 months now in my new work and i noticed abnormalities on her from the first week but i tried to ignore because i was too fresh but now, with each day, I'm discovering more and more of her nasty games and disrespect to me and my ideas all the time infront of my colleagues. Later i discovered that more than 10 employees quit because of ber behavior and taking advantage of her authority in the company so, i decided to ditch her and save my mental health. No work or salary deserves being put down and insulted
@@musicandpoetry_8 yeah, i know it sucks. I hope you end up with a better company and with a boss who will appreciate your hard work. Keep searching and never give up
Because people who abuse power are petty, and non-petty people have better, more meaningful things to do than seek out management positions. Also, being a manager is a skill that takes confidence to do well, and many people who get into management positions over time externalize their insecurity into abusive behavior towards employees. And yeah, you do get the occasional psychopath... but most of the time abusive bosses are just pitiful people who have lost faith in themselves and have given up.
They are usually promoted to that position based on tenure and not their ability to manage. They become toxic because they have no idea what they are doing so the only way to cover up their mess is to turn into a control freak.
Number 2 is a definitely hit the nail on the head. My manager is a micro manager, and she can be negative sometimes. I was trying to do the paperwork correctly today and explained something, but she wouldn't listen to what I was trying to explain. So I got up and walked off upset. I'm tired of the stress and her stubbornness and her way or no way, and she is never wrong. So I'm looking into another place to go.
It really sucks… just when I started feeling confident at work, my boss started doing toxic things. I used to love working from the office. Now I just hide at home. Trying to remain low key and not get too much attention on myself
My boss is so awful that I left my phone on the table in the lunch room while I went to the bathroom. I had clocked out and was on my break. My boss asked me "How come your phone was going off when you were in the bathroom?" I was floored! She knew I was on break. It's no business of hers! If I had money I would have told her "Oh, just some new places contacting me about a new job." But, I need to keep this one until I can get the hell out of there!
Clock it!!! I have this b.... witch , she is abusive to the point she is monitoring staff on her camera from her home . I clocked in when l entered the staff room and she said, no first take your staff out. No wayyyy, now l gave in notice and my big mouth will make sure everyone knows about that place
My ex boss would micro manage me to the point where he would want to know what im doing every hour. Ive been doing this for 10 years, im a professional not some kid that just got out of college. I resigned after a month.
@@BillClinton228 I'm facing the same problem as an architect and interior designer with a honor academic certificate and 4 years experience. She belittles every idea i propose and ignores all my hard work and criticizes every little thing I do infront of others and lashes out at me and doesn't let me decide anything. So I'm leaving the job tomorrow because mentally sick people shouldn't be your leader
Had to comment because this describes my old boss to a tea. He once asked if I'm insecure, which I've since learned is classic projection. Also spot on with checking all the work and not even allowing a tiny mistake that I wasn't even aware of. When you understand these things it can let healing happen and get to a healthy place in life.
I can relate ..My boss suffered a serious health issue and his son took over the business.. I had worked for the company longer than the son and knew more about the business than he did...he took my job away and wouldn't let me have verbal or telephone contact with customers....I watched the business go from successful to barely surviving ..I attempted to tell the owners wife what was happening to no avail.. when he began blaming me for mistakes he'd made and authorized..I quit..I had 30 years with the company.. the owners claimed not to know what was happening...I liked the job and customers but could not stomach the son..since I quit the son has run the business into the ground. he's run off most all the customers and lost a huge account I got for him...he hasn't been able to keep any employee they hired to replace me..I should have quit sooner..but I don't regret quitting..
Was it a 2nd generation company? I mean.. has the boss taken over from his father before? Or has the son never knew anything else than a rich life? Because that would make a lot of sence.
Sounds like the old adage "shirt sleeves to shirt sleeves in three generations". The founder has some drive and a good business idea and teaches his son the ropes. The son then becomes a father himself and that son is a wastrel, used to getting things the easy way. The grandson then drives the business into the ground. I've seen it happen.
Yup! My boss does not allow us to use the term "I don't know." Yet she goes behind our back and does things without telling us all the time! Then parents ask me about things and I have to pretend I know what I am talking about when I have absolutely no clue what information she sent them - It happens all the time!
Oh, this happened to me, and it's used against me for doing it wrong. I noticed that she's done this on 2 occasions, but doesn't remember it. I never called her out on it because she's in charge
same. never shares the full picture from the start and gate keeps what their vision is for things so it makes us have to guess what their expectation is bc they leave out key parts of their thinking
Thats a trait of an abusive insecure boss, giving employers positive feedback is the job of a good boss, a boss not doing this but pointing out your failures is someone you need to get away from, anxiety and insomnia are the first signs of workplace PTSD, workplace ptsd can take decades to recover from and thats if you even get to that point, get out of there, your health is more important
@Matt_Wilson01 I left that job 8 months ago. That boss sucks he is very unappreciative I did see him at the store yesterday and he just stared at me and that was it. It gave me anxiety when I saw him.
I work at walmart, and have for 2.5 years. My manager yelled at me to "Shut up, grab a pallet, and get out of the back room." I started having a panic attack and I told her I needed to leave. She told me that I will be getting an attendence point even though she knows I have a history of panic attacks (we have had the same run ins before. With the yelling and rudeness) She then told the overnight coach to remove me from the building and he balled his fists up and blocked me off from trying to talk to her. He demanded I leave and stared me down with the intention of physically harming me. This all happened within the span of a couple of minutes.
Am so so sorry my friend ... one time my hand was hurting from typing and i asked my boss if I could rest it for a few minutes and she asked if there is anything I could be doing with my other hand. While others get to stand around at work idling. Completely narcissistic unempathateic and uncaring then they say you are the problem when clearly it's them... but you can't win going up against them. There is noone to defend you and it's sad
My boss puts me down but in a subtle way. She'll say " no one has ever made this mistake before" implying that im the only idiot in the office. She gives me so much work ( admin and clinical) even though im only suppose to do admin aka paperwork/ insurance filings ect. Then will point out if i miss one SMALL thing even though she has overloaded my workload. I didnt get to say goodbye to my grandpa, because my boss made we work the next day so i couldnt drive down to where he lives (12 hr drive)when he was about to die. I had to go to the hospital ( as i had a cut in my eye) and she kept me at work for 2 hours, then i had to work a full shift the next day. She has gotten worse now where she will email me and the owner of the company and his wife , if i miss one SMALL thing. Meanwhile im showing up to work, barely take sick days, and training new employees... Its horrible, i hope to get out of this soon, its been 7 years of abuse from her.
Write everything !!! when she give task write it ! when you finish task write it and how you did it ! write everything, everything !!! trust me it will pay ;) these ppl can't lie if you are good you are good, write everything don't say it ! and if one day they bring the big boss, show all the writings ;) trust me I won like that and also work on yourself, evolve while they are stuck, you will go above them one day its why they are afraid !
I get no support, no help, have no one to ask and my boss continuously sets me up and throws me alone onto files that people with similar qualifications would not have to handle alone. And then when he catches a mistake, he starts verbally abusing me with vulgarities and saying i'm dumb, i shouldn't think i'm smart, etc. Psychopathic rant.
It’s disgusting, I’m a member of management and the manager over me is so toxic find myself crying in my office all the time and it’s sad because we work in the mental health field
Ignoring doctors advice on me having a week off because they are “short staffed” despite having surgery on my hand the previous day and possibly being at risk of reopening my wounds or getting it infected because I work supporting people with autism who often challenge and attack. I took my sick leave anyway because I value my health over my job.
My boss doesn’t understand that everyone makes mistakes or forgets, she’ll be up set if there is one single finger print on the window, also she threatens to “Write me up” every I forget certain things and if I manage to do those things she’ll say I didn’t do something else and add it to the list, but I’m not tripping im about to put my 2 weeks notice in anyways, I don’t tolerate toxicity fr💯
Ticked all the boxes! Everyone in the team is treated so rudely! I’m new to the team and Day 2 I already saw how badly he treats people. He did it to me after my first week, then 2nd week, 3rd week, it only gets worse. So now dropped my paper. I’m not the kind who will stay in a toxic environment and accept that kind of behavior.
After 2 years of working for this company and training others, always being the yes person with a 3% raise iv finally dared to say no to training a new supervisor who was hired over me i said: "I am confident that at this time, my primary focus should be on increasing my call count and maximizing my bonuses to ensure a substantial increase in my income. “Once mastered I'll be ready to assist others not only in providing excellent knowledge but also training in maximizing productivity. I’m feeling a bit burnt out at this time, so I need some time to regroup myself and improve.
Mine out right tells lies about me to higher ups and is very hypocritical. Tells me that I’m doing something he doesn’t like but doesn’t say anything to my other coworker who’s doing the same thing
Number 7 is part of the reason why I left my previous job cuz my boss would always tell the staff that "whatever goes WRONG, I'm going to fix it" and it was costing me my health.
Surprisingly the current boss I unfortunately have to put up with has all of these toxic traits... In our part of the world a job that pays good money is not easy to replace... therefore I constantly feel trapped and stressed out due to this unwelcome reality
I have a weird trait to add. An insecure boss can resent relationships among subordinates. They feel threatened. They think you are talking about them. They are jealous and feel left out. Instead of being happy that people are bonding in trust and goodwill, they resent the connections. While they don’t like overt fighting or undermining among subordinates they like it better if you have polite vacuous relationships but not bond, because then you don’t run to the boss to rat out or gossip about your coworkers. Divide and conquer. Keep people in silos. It’s a way of controlling everyone. I had one boss scold a colleague because she told a co worker to tell the boss that her mother passed. The boss chewed her out while she was grieving for not telling the boss herself.
you should add if they have high turnover rate, had previous jobs where the business have close or not working anymore, think they always right, that the employees are replaceable, care more about money than safetly of the workers.
I knew that a had a bad management, but hearing this just makes me so much more aware of how inapt these people are to deal with other people! And the suffering that I was put through all this process! It is unecessary, they will never change, they will never trust you! Maybe because you see them how they really are!just move to a healthier work place, with healthier people!
I have a toxic male boss where he says inappropriate thing, sometimes sexual in nature. He’s hot and cold and fishes for compliments. Some ppl tell me to leave but I deserve to be there and went through a lot to get the job. I feel eventually, he’ll get himself fired.
How do you deal with subtile bullying. Like an agitated tone of voice , over talking or interrupting me constantly and one time he called me kid but I'm almost 40 years old i dont mind it if it's like term of endearment in a joking way but it was like he meant it condescending type of way like i feel if we have an interaction at work its like he's aggravated to deal with it . but he seems nice to everyone else. 😑😔😒😥now on smoke break he seems normal for the most part but i think he's mistaken my kindness for weakness I'll have to confront him.
The boss at my last job started a fight with me that I took to HR. At the end of my shift when he tried making excuses with me for acting like a piece of $h1t, I threw it in his face that HIS bosses recognize the value of my work and appreciate me, he retorted that since he’s my direct boss his opinion is the only one that matters. I left shortly after and sent him a pfuuk you email.
I'm a teacher and the only male teacher in the building and I am constantly dealing with basically all of this from my principal and it legit seems like I am the only one dealing with it. I am looking for a new job already and it's only week 5 of the school year. Even if it's not a teaching job, as long as I can handle the work and it pays just as much if not more than a teaching salary, I'm jetting. I truly don't think I can do this until May with how she acts towards me.
My mission - should I choose to accept it, is to maintain integrity, self worth and dignity in the face of prejudice, emotional illiteracy ignorance and down right meanness. I can secure the target and not to have a good day but a GREAT day! I will survive, hey HEY! (While the sun shines brother!)
My boss called me out for asking for a one day extension on a big project. She made a big deal about how that would throw off her work schedule because she planned to review it over the weekend. So I got it done. Now she is a week overdue and not keeping on the agreed upon project timeline. That affects the entire process. Now I am anxious again. I took one day off and she kept talking about me “being on vacation”. wtf? Meanwhile, she still hasn’t delivered her end. Then she sent me an email immediately after I got back from my one day out of office stating that I still haven’t finished an online training module….thats not due for another two weeks!!
Now I understand why a certain manager is often rude. This person makes rash decisions and is quite defensive whenever someone asks about it. Deep down, they know they have no idea what they’re doing.
Yeah but on the flipside of that when you have someone that’s been doing it since 1994 probably time to retire my store manager is a condescending rude person She is not only condescending but she is very mean
So basically every boss I ever had was insecure in one way or another. But what about my current boss who starts and immediately has to change every microscopic detail until every thing is going wrong, people are quitting and customers are complaining 🤷♀️do have a video for that?
My boss humiliates me every time I have a question in front of everybody, he makes sure to exclude from the team I guess he just doesn’t like my appearance or ethnicity, I just will make sure that I won’t ask any questions to him and when presenting a project I’ll have headphones on so if he starts shitting on me I can just focus on the music
3:27 this is me right now. My supervisors and boss feel too annoyed or important to address future plans of an event that could affect the whole work environment. They took none of my questions seriously and dismissed them with “we’ll let you know” and then change constantly the game plan or leave out small but important details. It’s so frustrating cause these bosses feel like they can own your schedule but not theirs.
I can’t believe this entire video describes my current job, there are three bosses the head boss and the two assistant managers and every time I try to do my job I can’t do it properly because they send me to do other peoples work and it feels like having a surveillance camera on me every single minute of the day. It feels like every time I do something right it feels like it’s wrong
Most bosses are bad incapable of see anything good in their subordinates work always diminishing your accomplishments to let you down. Only what they did are considered at high standards
10. Rude or Mean 9. Consistently ignore boundaries 8. Boss needs to check all of your work (micromanage) 7. Never allowed to make a mistake 6. You constantly feel left out 5. Your boss talks negatively about other employees in front of you 4. Ask you to do things that make you uncomfortable 3. Never acknowledges my growth or accomplishments 2. Never take responsibility for their mistakes or actions & they’ll rarely apologize 1. You’re not allowed to do your job efficiently or at all. They may micromanage until the point you can’t finish the job.
This might not help an employee, but this is for insecure or dominant bosses...Every time you're speaking down to an employee...You are also speaking directly to yourself. That message goes right back into your own nervous system. Also, this only keeps both you and them insecure, as this energy is multiplied between you. This is science. Funny how there were certain principles designed to keep us both on the right track, huh? What's good for you is good for them. I guess figuring out how to be a good manager wasn't so hard after all. Pretend you're talking to yourself...Because you are:) Hope that was helpful.❤😊
This is how I feel my boss is extremely toxic…. Never says your doing a good job always micromanaging me and when I ask her a question she gives vague answers. Always pointing out what I’m doing wrong rather than saying good job
My boss fits almost every single one of these points perfectly. He's always putting himself on a pedestal, saying we'll never be as good as him, that we're idiots, braindead losers, or worse. He also spreads rumors trying to pit us against one another, who knows why. He complains when we don't ask him questions but when he do, he lashes out saying we can't do anything without him and that we're to dumb. He's even gone physical more than a few times. He's slapped me on the back of the head more than a few times before I even do anything, and even though I've complained and stopped him from doing so, he just doesn't care, he keeps saying that he needs to have everyone under control. We don't even have contracts, one of my coworkers has gotten hurt more than once and my boss just says we're too stupid to do anything right. We have no course of protection, he intimidates us, badmouths us in front of customers, he even complains when he use our lunchtime to actually have lunch, saying we're wasting his prescious time by being lazy. It's an absolute nightmare. The only reason everyone in my office, myself included, hasn't just ditched him is because here in my hometown it's incredibly difficult to find an actual job and he knows it. People constantly apply there cause they don't really have a choice, even some of them already know that they're in for. He's even a pain outside of work, most of the people who know him openly say he's an absolute asshole.
Recent hire screwed up hard! He lowered my responsibilities after a worker’s comp claim and FMLA surgery. He dictates and is infuriated when I respond “I’ll do my best!”, he responds “Just say yes!”. The best power over them is to remain quiet. Silence is control.
Our manager wants perfection but won’t hire enough help for our department. It’s basically his way and that’s it. He take credit for our hardworking. He play favorites and let them get away with stuff and he is extremely fake and put on airs. I don’t say much to bc I see through the type of person he is
two ppl are training who do things differently- boss & manager. Boss gets mad and explains "mistakes" (alt method) over and over. I was so annoyed I cried today. Friday :(
Both my resto bosses put up with severe toxic exposure to cigarette smoke-they treat it as a mere joke or nuisance. I have quit after 2 yrs and wish I never ever started the fucken job! I also filed a complaint with work safe.
Ah, making mistakes. My section leader has an unnerving habit whenever a mistake is made to, "Please explain why..." a mistake was made or something wasn't done. I don't know if she doesn't realize or just doesn't care how draining it is to hear questions stated that way.
At least your not getting yelled at. My boss will start yelling, “who did this, who did THIS!” like we’re a bunch of school children. Then he proceeds to smear that person for their mistake by broadcasting it to every single employee on the department. It’s awful.
My boss gaslights me and disrespects me regularly. I am the only person in the office who cares about organization and professionalism. My boss told me over the phone one time that I needed to coordinate a trash pickup on a jobsite. He came into the office 20mins later and said, "what's your plan for trash pickup?" I told him, "As discussed on the phone with you, I am sending a crew to pick up trash." He got angry and said "I never talked to you about this! We didn't discuss this over the phone" and wanted to continue arguing with me about it. I have a job interview at a rival company on Thursday :)
I had a similar experience in my previous job. My senior coworkers would humiliate me on a regular basis, telling me that I was a weirdo who would never get another promotion in his life. They would also threaten to take serious action everytime I made a mistake.
Sadly toxic bosses tend to only leave when forced to, and usually even then only after higher ups start suspecting something is up (high turnover, consistent issues, etc)
I've lost count of how many people have quit under my boss, or former boss, because a middle man has been hired to do the managing, between me and her. I was her first hire 1 1/2 years ago, and every single other person she's hired since has quit. There were at least seven. And now she's messed up my pay, vicariously through the new manager. I am not amused.
A few traits i have seen...lie and spread rumours to those around you so as ro taint your reputation, having conversations with your colleagues telling them to stop talking to you, focusing on irrelevant things and treating you differently (eg if they picking on you for coming in early but they let everyone elese come in ealry), having a history of getting rid of people they don't like....
We have people transferred to different stores. I had to take a longer commute because the worker in this particular store was so big they needed a store with an elevator. And I was making about $16/hr plus time and a half on Sundays but commuting 40 minutes both ways working six days a week….what a sacrifice
#7 is literally my boss. When accidentally burned food or drop because the packaging wasn't correctly sealed from the box, he gets mad and blames whoever he sees
My supervisor just removed my incentives for helping my co worker with his driving (I'm a bellman/driver and my co worker is a regular bellman) using the company car while going to our job destination. But it's ok for him to use the company car to go to a wedding which is not related to work with the other employees in the hotel. 🙃
I had the worst work place due to my boss. He was a dentist. He was a horrible person with a horrible family who enabled him, there are no words to describe and I become mentally exhausted trying to. He killed his wife early due to there very sick marriage. He is Gary (James Garrett) Bunton in Kansas city.
I took a maintenance job at a hotel.Did not realize it until i started but the place wasnt kept up over the years and had 30 year old equipment etc.My manager was afraid to tell the owners and put the work on my shoulders to save money.She went as far as not wanting to hire commercial electricians,tech etc and said it was my responsibility.After 6 years of stress thinking i would do something wrong to injure or kill myself,another employee or a guest i walked out one day and never looked back.
I just left my job and my boss did all of these except 3 of them. She also only worked 20 hours a week and it was impossible to communicate fluidly with her.
If my supervisor keeps over stepping 😊 He will be waiting in the unemployment line. He thinks it's appropriate to call me honey, buddy or Juls? Then dude stares at me all night..Makes my skin crawl..He's only been with the company a couple months and he knows nothing!!! If I went to HR about his behavior he'd be gone..I have turned stoic , gray rock..Not interested. He pats me like a dog. I can't stand him.
I'm actually filing a lawsuit for sexually assault and degrading women working without a break and a boss that emotionally abuses knowing u have mental or physically illness. I have so many witnesses and text messages. Do not work for these kind of people. Yes ur boss is ur boss but they have no right to create a toxic environment. He would grab ur keys as a manager and would leave u without pay to take a week off. I was able to catch up but it was absolutely horrific I actually reported to my lawyer long before I actually had a real strong case with witnesses . But was in need to pay my bills. My last straw was when he didn't let me take a break said to take 5 minutes then told me your never goin to be anything or move up the list when on I said I'm goin to the dressing room so I can switch up my position it was then when he came.after me. I went home cried. I gave him the keys to the store working there since 2017. There are.better jobs out there !! It affected my mental health. Don't be a victim of abuse esp at work
My boss never tells me good job even though I hit my numbers. He constantly compares me to other people. He put me on a new job and I hit my numbers. Before the end of the shift he came over. Instead of commenting on how fast I was going he instead decided to "coach me" because I assembled 6 parts out of 1120 that failed a leak test. Get real! He then said my speed was good but nowhere as fast as Joe Shmo. Another time I hit my numbers on a 2 person machine. I made sure he knew it. Instead of good job he said he was going to make me switch spots the next time. And I hate to say it but I think he treats me differently because Im white. The majority of people I work with are southeast asian including him. Anyone else he praises them in front of everyone. I just want him to leave me alone.
A friend of mine has a boss like this - I'm going to share this with them (the friend, not the boss... though he could probably do with some truth soup).
I'm a South African coming from my homeland on an H2A visa,come to help American farmers/ranchers to farm there land,. I have never been called a retart or idiot in my life untill the USA. Working, helping, farming for them is a struggle everyday. I've never seen so many narcissistic people on farmsteads than in the US. And yes we benefit from the dollar, but sometimes it's difficult to wanna stay, even for the money, being called names and being treated like shit while we come here to give our best, missing our wife's and kids. Sometimes I wonder if it is worth it.
There are also over confident bosses and bosses who dont care as they plan to get fired and collect unemployment. I love my job and dont plan on leaving. He can do ehat he wants eith his life. No stress for me
My boss tells me to get a certain number of buckets for different materials, and he counts them out one by one to make sure I got the right amount. Like bro, I can count. And I can do it faster than you, too.
It gives you a heads up if you should distance yourself, not befriend him or her, or come up with a plan to leave (find a job that will hire you and then, leave).
My boss is so toxic that the employees do the bare minimum and even break rules like taking breaks or leaving early. Some even break materials on purpose. I could report it, but I hate that boss so much that I'm just waiting for my contract to end and gtfo
A lot of those things you can sue about don’t quite your job just keep notes on everything that happen and call osha they would help you I know people who got payed 40k $ from a lawsuit on discrimination and sexual harassment also when your boss is belittling you by any disability or safety concerns. And this go for any boss or leader anyone who has control on firing you or hiring you you can file a complaint at Osha and sue
my tier 2 op manager tells me that the person that i trained and manage does it better than me while im managing him to do the job. like im the king of manipulation and there is no way he thinks this mind game is going to work. he doesnt know that i trained him he micro manages me while he works hard and praises for the person i trained. kind of weird the person that i trained literally pimped him. i lul ing so hard fine fine mirco manage me while i manage the one u praise to do the job that u want me to do. very strange three way cycle of 3 controlling eachother.
Do I have a right to report my potentially toxic boss for this? She was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up to go solo. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. That was very insensitive and harsh, and I think that if she said that to a person with a learning disability, they would be hurt and deem her a bigot. I should've told her that, to make a point to her about tact. Can I report her for verbal abuse?
I had left one job toxic boss she show favoritism. God bless me with a better job. She be their friend and next she not. She think cause she work there for years people got her back. Karma came to her in personal and professional life.
"The project coordinator whom I have been working with has a full sexual addiction. He even gives priority to beautiful females for recruitment. He never gives chances to males, especially good-looking ones. He upgrades females who share a bed with him. What surprises me is, why do they give him their body? Is that a matter of business? So, I resigned from work."
My boss checks all this boxes a true evil women but the God above who sees all will do justice for all of us who get humiliated. I get we all meet to work to survive but no job is worth your peace and happiness .They don’t value anything and I learned after this awful experience that money isn’t everything and that we should never allow anyone to disrespect us !
If you get negative vibes around them and their presence makes you feel uncomfortable, start looking for another job.
this was me yesterday
I am fed up with my reporting manager he mocks me he always pin point my mistakes and say anything he wants anytime.
I unfortunately put up with it for 10 years and I finally got a new job. I've never felt better. I actually think I might survive without having to take depression and anxiety meds.
@@AmanKumar-qg2onI’m going through the same thing and I hate it
Yeah this was me the other day I’m gonna start looking for a new job this week and I’m gonna put in my two weeks after that
Thanks God I left that man's company never felt free in a long time.
My boss. She a controlling psycho, a total narc. The fakeness oozes out of her. She’s vile.
I feel that 💯
Its the same for me and I had to quit my job. Now I cant get a new job because they want my boss as a reference
Ha! Do we work at the same place? lol
Mine is the same way. She is a two faced snatch. She plays both sides of the fence. She hates my guts because I'm the only one who calls her out on her shitty behavior. She can't fire me because our GM knows I'm valuable. I know she's trying to run my out because she does petty shit to try and get under my skin but it doesn't work and that makes her even more angry. I'm a leader. I treat my coworkers with respect. I always tell them they are valuable and I always thank them for their help at the end of our shift. That's something she never does. My coworkers have more respect for than they do for her.
Same here 😢 it’s unbearable
All these traits fit my boss. It's been 2 months now in my new work and i noticed abnormalities on her from the first week but i tried to ignore because i was too fresh but now, with each day, I'm discovering more and more of her nasty games and disrespect to me and my ideas all the time infront of my colleagues. Later i discovered that more than 10 employees quit because of ber behavior and taking advantage of her authority in the company so, i decided to ditch her and save my mental health. No work or salary deserves being put down and insulted
I don’t have a choice, I’m a slave to the fucking money I have to make
@@musicandpoetry_8 yeah, i know it sucks. I hope you end up with a better company and with a boss who will appreciate your hard work. Keep searching and never give up
Out of the 5 new hired I am the only one who get treated indifferently I am finding another job. This 10 signs completely fit her description.
It’s weird how n why these psychopaths are made bosses
Because people who abuse power are petty, and non-petty people have better, more meaningful things to do than seek out management positions. Also, being a manager is a skill that takes confidence to do well, and many people who get into management positions over time externalize their insecurity into abusive behavior towards employees. And yeah, you do get the occasional psychopath... but most of the time abusive bosses are just pitiful people who have lost faith in themselves and have given up.
The path to becoming an executive is easy for evil people to walk.
It's politics and connections. They most likely were under-skilled in the first place yet still hired!
@@yodaleiheehu3280or promoted
They are usually promoted to that position based on tenure and not their ability to manage. They become toxic because they have no idea what they are doing so the only way to cover up their mess is to turn into a control freak.
Number 2 is a definitely hit the nail on the head. My manager is a micro manager, and she can be negative sometimes. I was trying to do the paperwork correctly today and explained something, but she wouldn't listen to what I was trying to explain. So I got up and walked off upset. I'm tired of the stress and her stubbornness and her way or no way, and she is never wrong. So I'm looking into another place to go.
It really sucks… just when I started feeling confident at work, my boss started doing toxic things. I used to love working from the office. Now I just hide at home. Trying to remain low key and not get too much attention on myself
Number 7 was what sealed the deal for me. Perfection at all times, if not, yelling and smear campaign begins.
My boss is so awful that I left my phone on the table in the lunch room while I went to the bathroom. I had clocked out and was on my break. My boss asked me "How come your phone was going off when you were in the bathroom?" I was floored! She knew I was on break. It's no business of hers! If I had money I would have told her "Oh, just some new places contacting me about a new job." But, I need to keep this one until I can get the hell out of there!
Clock it!!! I have this b.... witch , she is abusive to the point she is monitoring staff on her camera from her home . I clocked in when l entered the staff room and she said, no first take your staff out. No wayyyy, now l gave in notice and my big mouth will make sure everyone knows about that place
What gets me is that a boss doing this is destroying their own business, but blaming the employees for any negative business image or reputation.
That is what my boss is doing. Using his hand to destroy his business and reputation.
Yes
All of this, and I literally mean ALL of them, fit my boss
currently begin micro managed by my insecure supervisor the stress can rise to extremely insane levels
Gotta work on that poker face dont give them the satisfaction of seeing you mad
My ex boss would micro manage me to the point where he would want to know what im doing every hour. Ive been doing this for 10 years, im a professional not some kid that just got out of college. I resigned after a month.
@@BillClinton228 I'm facing the same problem as an architect and interior designer with a honor academic certificate and 4 years experience. She belittles every idea i propose and ignores all my hard work and criticizes every little thing I do infront of others and lashes out at me and doesn't let me decide anything. So I'm leaving the job tomorrow because mentally sick people shouldn't be your leader
My bossis a certified paycopath
There’s no way to win with a controlling supervisor
Had to comment because this describes my old boss to a tea. He once asked if I'm insecure, which I've since learned is classic projection. Also spot on with checking all the work and not even allowing a tiny mistake that I wasn't even aware of. When you understand these things it can let healing happen and get to a healthy place in life.
I can relate ..My boss suffered a serious health issue and his son took over the business.. I had worked for the company longer than the son and knew more about the business than he did...he took my job away and wouldn't let me have verbal or telephone contact with customers....I watched the business go from successful to barely surviving ..I attempted to tell the owners wife what was happening to no avail..
when he began blaming me for mistakes he'd made and authorized..I quit..I had 30 years with the company.. the owners claimed not to know what was happening...I liked the job and customers but could not stomach the son..since I quit the son has run the business into the ground. he's run off most all the customers and lost a huge account I got for him...he hasn't been able to keep any employee they hired to replace me..I should have quit sooner..but I don't regret quitting..
Was it a 2nd generation company? I mean.. has the boss taken over from his father before? Or has the son never knew anything else than a rich life? Because that would make a lot of sence.
This is my boss also.
Sounds like the old adage "shirt sleeves to shirt sleeves in three generations". The founder has some drive and a good business idea and teaches his son the ropes. The son then becomes a father himself and that son is a wastrel, used to getting things the easy way. The grandson then drives the business into the ground. I've seen it happen.
My boss leaves out key information and then blames me for getting things wrong
Yup! My boss does not allow us to use the term "I don't know." Yet she goes behind our back and does things without telling us all the time! Then parents ask me about things and I have to pretend I know what I am talking about when I have absolutely no clue what information she sent them - It happens all the time!
The worst! How can you be upset about the outcome when you didn’t give clear expectations!?
Oh, this happened to me, and it's used against me for doing it wrong. I noticed that she's done this on 2 occasions, but doesn't remember it. I never called her out on it because she's in charge
same. never shares the full picture from the start and gate keeps what their vision is for things so it makes us have to guess what their expectation is bc they leave out key parts of their thinking
Red flag
I work hard and I get told I don't do good enough
I work hard and get good feedback from customers. My boss still criticizes me.
Thats a trait of an abusive insecure boss, giving employers positive feedback is the job of a good boss, a boss not doing this but pointing out your failures is someone you need to get away from, anxiety and insomnia are the first signs of workplace PTSD, workplace ptsd can take decades to recover from and thats if you even get to that point, get out of there, your health is more important
@Matt_Wilson01 I left that job 8 months ago. That boss sucks he is very unappreciative I did see him at the store yesterday and he just stared at me and that was it. It gave me anxiety when I saw him.
@@yodaleiheehu3280 how do you deal with that one?
You dont unfortunately. Unless maybe if you have a union to go to if not start looking for another job.@StrangeSupreme2045
I work at walmart, and have for 2.5 years.
My manager yelled at me to "Shut up, grab a pallet, and get out of the back room." I started having a panic attack and I told her I needed to leave. She told me that I will be getting an attendence point even though she knows I have a history of panic attacks (we have had the same run ins before. With the yelling and rudeness)
She then told the overnight coach to remove me from the building and he balled his fists up and blocked me off from trying to talk to her. He demanded I leave and stared me down with the intention of physically harming me. This all happened within the span of a couple of minutes.
Am so so sorry my friend ... one time my hand was hurting from typing and i asked my boss if I could rest it for a few minutes and she asked if there is anything I could be doing with my other hand. While others get to stand around at work idling. Completely narcissistic unempathateic and uncaring then they say you are the problem when clearly it's them... but you can't win going up against them. There is noone to defend you and it's sad
There are managers that think a mean supervisor is a good boss. They are wrong
Forgot passive-aggressiveness.
That's a big one.
It’s called crazy making. They love chaos
My boss puts me down but in a subtle way.
She'll say " no one has ever made this mistake before" implying that im the only idiot in the office.
She gives me so much work ( admin and clinical) even though im only suppose to do admin aka paperwork/ insurance filings ect. Then will point out if i miss one SMALL thing even though she has overloaded my workload.
I didnt get to say goodbye to my grandpa, because my boss made we work the next day so i couldnt drive down to where he lives (12 hr drive)when he was about to die.
I had to go to the hospital ( as i had a cut in my eye) and she kept me at work for 2 hours, then i had to work a full shift the next day.
She has gotten worse now where she will email me and the owner of the company and his wife , if i miss one SMALL thing. Meanwhile im showing up to work, barely take sick days, and training new employees... Its horrible, i hope to get out of this soon, its been 7 years of abuse from her.
Write everything !!!
when she give task write it !
when you finish task write it and how you did it !
write everything, everything !!!
trust me it will pay ;)
these ppl can't lie if you are good you are good, write everything don't say it !
and if one day they bring the big boss, show all the writings ;) trust me I won like that
and also work on yourself, evolve while they are stuck, you will go above them one day its why they are afraid !
Yep keep everything documented and call osha sound like a nice lawsuit to me
I get no support, no help, have no one to ask and my boss continuously sets me up and throws me alone onto files that people with similar qualifications would not have to handle alone. And then when he catches a mistake, he starts verbally abusing me with vulgarities and saying i'm dumb, i shouldn't think i'm smart, etc. Psychopathic rant.
My boss is exactly the same. Later Infound out his wife left him and the top execs all think he is a joke. Just self projecting afterall
It’s disgusting, I’m a member of management and the manager over me is so toxic find myself crying in my office all the time and it’s sad because we work in the mental health field
That sucks because you think they’d have the most empathy 😞
Same here
I'm in the same boat, it's so awful!
Same
I subscribed 🙌🏽....my former boss meets all these criteria ....thank God I left!
Ignoring doctors advice on me having a week off because they are “short staffed” despite having surgery on my hand the previous day and possibly being at risk of reopening my wounds or getting it infected because I work supporting people with autism who often challenge and attack. I took my sick leave anyway because I value my health over my job.
My boss doesn’t understand that everyone makes mistakes or forgets, she’ll be up set if there is one single finger print on the window, also she threatens to “Write me up” every I forget certain things and if I manage to do those things she’ll say I didn’t do something else and add it to the list, but I’m not tripping im about to put my 2 weeks notice in anyways, I don’t tolerate toxicity fr💯
Ticked all the boxes! Everyone in the team is treated so rudely! I’m new to the team and Day 2 I already saw how badly he treats people. He did it to me after my first week, then 2nd week, 3rd week, it only gets worse. So now dropped my paper. I’m not the kind who will stay in a toxic environment and accept that kind of behavior.
All of these resonate for me including boss divulging very personal medical-in-confidence information about another colleague...
After 2 years of working for this company and training others, always being the yes person with a 3% raise iv finally dared to say no to training a new supervisor who was hired over me i said: "I am confident that at this time, my primary focus should be on increasing my call count and maximizing my bonuses to ensure a substantial increase in my income. “Once mastered I'll be ready to assist others not only in providing excellent knowledge but also training in maximizing productivity. I’m feeling a bit burnt out at this time, so I need some time to regroup myself and improve.
Finally quit my job and toxic boss. Job was fine but the boss ruined it. I feel soooo relieved.❤
Mine out right tells lies about me to higher ups and is very hypocritical. Tells me that I’m doing something he doesn’t like but doesn’t say anything to my other coworker who’s doing the same thing
Number 7 is part of the reason why I left my previous job cuz my boss would always tell the staff that "whatever goes WRONG, I'm going to fix it" and it was costing me my health.
No such thing as toxic boss, if there is a problem then you are the problem. We all know bosses are perfect.
I had the same kind of boss- nothing was ever fixed lol we ended up on the news 3 times!
Surprisingly the current boss I unfortunately have to put up with has all of these toxic traits... In our part of the world a job that pays good money is not easy to replace... therefore I constantly feel trapped and stressed out due to this unwelcome reality
Thank you for very interesting upload, it looks like I need to find a new job!
I have a weird trait to add. An insecure boss can resent relationships among subordinates. They feel threatened. They think you are talking about them. They are jealous and feel left out. Instead of being happy that people are bonding in trust and goodwill, they resent the connections. While they don’t like overt fighting or undermining among subordinates they like it better if you have polite vacuous relationships but not bond, because then you don’t run to the boss to rat out or gossip about your coworkers. Divide and conquer. Keep people in silos. It’s a way of controlling everyone. I had one boss scold a colleague because she told a co worker to tell the boss that her mother passed. The boss chewed her out while she was grieving for not telling the boss herself.
you should add if they have high turnover rate, had previous jobs where the business have close or not working anymore, think they always right, that the employees are replaceable, care more about money than safetly of the workers.
I knew that a had a bad management, but hearing this just makes me so much more aware of how inapt these people are to deal with other people! And the suffering that I was put through all this process! It is unecessary, they will never change, they will never trust you! Maybe because you see them how they really are!just move to a healthier work place, with healthier people!
I have a toxic male boss where he says inappropriate thing, sometimes sexual in nature. He’s hot and cold and fishes for compliments. Some ppl tell me to leave but I deserve to be there and went through a lot to get the job. I feel eventually, he’ll get himself fired.
How do you deal with subtile bullying. Like an agitated tone of voice , over talking or interrupting me constantly and one time he called me kid but I'm almost 40 years old i dont mind it if it's like term of endearment in a joking way but it was like he meant it condescending type of way like i feel if we have an interaction at work its like he's aggravated to deal with it . but he seems nice to everyone else. 😑😔😒😥now on smoke break he seems normal for the most part but i think he's mistaken my kindness for weakness I'll have to confront him.
I sent this to my boss. He responded “LMAO that sh*t is funny.” 😳😳😳
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Never call out a narcissist. They'll never admit it, see it as a challenge to their false sense of reality, and their behavior will get worse.
The boss at my last job started a fight with me that I took to HR. At the end of my shift when he tried making excuses with me for acting like a piece of $h1t, I threw it in his face that HIS bosses recognize the value of my work and appreciate me, he retorted that since he’s my direct boss his opinion is the only one that matters. I left shortly after and sent him a pfuuk you email.
I'm a teacher and the only male teacher in the building and I am constantly dealing with basically all of this from my principal and it legit seems like I am the only one dealing with it. I am looking for a new job already and it's only week 5 of the school year. Even if it's not a teaching job, as long as I can handle the work and it pays just as much if not more than a teaching salary, I'm jetting. I truly don't think I can do this until May with how she acts towards me.
Did you find a better place? My bitch boss owns a school too and I am done with her shit.
I’m furious when they banter with co-workers while I get chewed out for doing so on a slow day.
My mission - should I choose to accept it, is to maintain integrity, self worth and dignity in the face of prejudice, emotional illiteracy ignorance and down right meanness. I can secure the target and not to have a good day but a GREAT day! I will survive, hey HEY! (While the sun shines brother!)
I had a boss that gaslight me twice & i never spoke to him since after i noticed the red flags
My boss called me out for asking for a one day extension on a big project. She made a big deal about how that would throw off her work schedule because she planned to review it over the weekend. So I got it done. Now she is a week overdue and not keeping on the agreed upon project timeline. That affects the entire process. Now I am anxious again. I took one day off and she kept talking about me “being on vacation”. wtf? Meanwhile, she still hasn’t delivered her end. Then she sent me an email immediately after I got back from my one day out of office stating that I still haven’t finished an online training module….thats not due for another two weeks!!
Now I understand why a certain manager is often rude. This person makes rash decisions and is quite defensive whenever someone asks about it. Deep down, they know they have no idea what they’re doing.
Yeah but on the flipside of that when you have someone that’s been doing it since 1994 probably time to retire my store manager is a condescending rude person She is not only condescending but she is very mean
So basically every boss I ever had was insecure in one way or another. But what about my current boss who starts and immediately has to change every microscopic detail until every thing is going wrong, people are quitting and customers are complaining 🤷♀️do have a video for that?
My boss humiliates me every time I have a question in front of everybody, he makes sure to exclude from the team I guess he just doesn’t like my appearance or ethnicity, I just will make sure that I won’t ask any questions to him and when presenting a project I’ll have headphones on so if he starts shitting on me I can just focus on the music
3:27 this is me right now. My supervisors and boss feel too annoyed or important to address future plans of an event that could affect the whole work environment. They took none of my questions seriously and dismissed them with “we’ll let you know” and then change constantly the game plan or leave out small but important details. It’s so frustrating cause these bosses feel like they can own your schedule but not theirs.
I can’t believe this entire video describes my current job, there are three bosses the head boss and the two assistant managers and every time I try to do my job I can’t do it properly because they send me to do other peoples work and it feels like having a surveillance camera on me every single minute of the day. It feels like every time I do something right it feels like it’s wrong
I feel you, my boss she is jealous with me
Most bosses are bad incapable of see anything good in their subordinates work always diminishing your accomplishments to let you down. Only what they did are considered at high standards
10. Rude or Mean
9. Consistently ignore boundaries
8. Boss needs to check all of your work (micromanage)
7. Never allowed to make a mistake
6. You constantly feel left out
5. Your boss talks negatively about other employees in front of you
4. Ask you to do things that make you uncomfortable
3. Never acknowledges my growth or accomplishments
2. Never take responsibility for their mistakes or actions & they’ll rarely apologize
1. You’re not allowed to do your job efficiently or at all. They may micromanage until the point you can’t finish the job.
This might not help an employee, but this is for insecure or dominant bosses...Every time you're speaking down to an employee...You are also speaking directly to yourself. That message goes right back into your own nervous system. Also, this only keeps both you and them insecure, as this energy is multiplied between you. This is science. Funny how there were certain principles designed to keep us both on the right track, huh? What's good for you is good for them. I guess figuring out how to be a good manager wasn't so hard after all. Pretend you're talking to yourself...Because you are:) Hope that was helpful.❤😊
This is how I feel my boss is extremely toxic…. Never says your doing a good job always micromanaging me and when I ask her a question she gives vague answers. Always pointing out what I’m doing wrong rather than saying good job
What it surprise me is that this kind of toxic bosses are supported by higher management most of the time.
Because they kiss all the right assess
My boss fits almost every single one of these points perfectly. He's always putting himself on a pedestal, saying we'll never be as good as him, that we're idiots, braindead losers, or worse. He also spreads rumors trying to pit us against one another, who knows why. He complains when we don't ask him questions but when he do, he lashes out saying we can't do anything without him and that we're to dumb. He's even gone physical more than a few times. He's slapped me on the back of the head more than a few times before I even do anything, and even though I've complained and stopped him from doing so, he just doesn't care, he keeps saying that he needs to have everyone under control. We don't even have contracts, one of my coworkers has gotten hurt more than once and my boss just says we're too stupid to do anything right. We have no course of protection, he intimidates us, badmouths us in front of customers, he even complains when he use our lunchtime to actually have lunch, saying we're wasting his prescious time by being lazy. It's an absolute nightmare. The only reason everyone in my office, myself included, hasn't just ditched him is because here in my hometown it's incredibly difficult to find an actual job and he knows it. People constantly apply there cause they don't really have a choice, even some of them already know that they're in for. He's even a pain outside of work, most of the people who know him openly say he's an absolute asshole.
Recent hire screwed up hard! He lowered my responsibilities after a worker’s comp claim and FMLA surgery.
He dictates and is infuriated when I respond “I’ll do my best!”, he responds “Just say yes!”.
The best power over them is to remain quiet. Silence is control.
I left because my mental health took a massive dip
Toxic environments are extremely damaging.
Our manager wants perfection but won’t hire enough help for our department. It’s basically his way and that’s it. He take credit for our hardworking. He play favorites and let them get away with stuff and he is extremely fake and put on airs. I don’t say much to bc I see through the type of person he is
my favorite boss was very unprofessional I disagree that unprofessional = toxic
I subscribed! And you’ve just described my boss perfectly.
Same I’m kinda disappointed
two ppl are training who do things differently- boss & manager. Boss gets mad and explains "mistakes" (alt method) over and over. I was so annoyed I cried today. Friday :(
Sounds like every employer I’ve ever had!!!
Yikes!
Both my resto bosses put up with severe toxic exposure to cigarette smoke-they treat it as a mere joke or nuisance. I have quit after 2 yrs and wish I never ever started the fucken job! I also filed a complaint with work safe.
Ah, making mistakes. My section leader has an unnerving habit whenever a mistake is made to, "Please explain why..." a mistake was made or something wasn't done. I don't know if she doesn't realize or just doesn't care how draining it is to hear questions stated that way.
Yeah mine does that, I just say 'sorry' and smile. The POS won't dent my armour.
At least your not getting yelled at. My boss will start yelling, “who did this, who did THIS!” like we’re a bunch of school children. Then he proceeds to smear that person for their mistake by broadcasting it to every single employee on the department. It’s awful.
Honestly it’s sound like they are trying to figure things out but if that boss follows up passive aggressive behavior and bullying then yeah gtfo.
Spot on!
My boss gaslights me and disrespects me regularly. I am the only person in the office who cares about organization and professionalism. My boss told me over the phone one time that I needed to coordinate a trash pickup on a jobsite. He came into the office 20mins later and said, "what's your plan for trash pickup?" I told him, "As discussed on the phone with you, I am sending a crew to pick up trash." He got angry and said "I never talked to you about this! We didn't discuss this over the phone" and wanted to continue arguing with me about it. I have a job interview at a rival company on Thursday :)
This is the worst, there is no path forward from it. Of course still have to do the task, and if you fail or achieve it, it is the same result.
8,7 & 6 combined are my boss. Time to update that resume.
I had a similar experience in my previous job. My senior coworkers would humiliate me on a regular basis, telling me that I was a weirdo who would never get another promotion in his life. They would also threaten to take serious action everytime I made a mistake.
What if i really like the company and its perks but my boss is very toxic??? I am so confused.
Sadly toxic bosses tend to only leave when forced to, and usually even then only after higher ups start suspecting something is up (high turnover, consistent issues, etc)
#5 since day 1. I asked for my old job back bc of this. I couldn’t take the hour long conversations where she did nothing but bash others.
I've lost count of how many people have quit under my boss, or former boss, because a middle man has been hired to do the managing, between me and her. I was her first hire 1 1/2 years ago, and every single other person she's hired since has quit. There were at least seven. And now she's messed up my pay, vicariously through the new manager. I am not amused.
A few traits i have seen...lie and spread rumours to those around you so as ro taint your reputation, having conversations with your colleagues telling them to stop talking to you, focusing on irrelevant things and treating you differently (eg if they picking on you for coming in early but they let everyone elese come in ealry), having a history of getting rid of people they don't like....
Can you do a video on a toxic subordinate?
Yeah, those get fired. Toxic supervisors, not so much.
@@LordShockwave9 Not in every case. Some just stay or are moved to another department to continue to wreak havoc.
We have people transferred to different stores. I had to take a longer commute because the worker in this particular store was so big they needed a store with an elevator. And I was making about $16/hr plus time and a half on Sundays but commuting 40 minutes both ways working six days a week….what a sacrifice
#7 is literally my boss. When accidentally burned food or drop because the packaging wasn't correctly sealed from the box, he gets mad and blames whoever he sees
My supervisor just removed my incentives for helping my co worker with his driving (I'm a bellman/driver and my co worker is a regular bellman) using the company car while going to our job destination. But it's ok for him to use the company car to go to a wedding which is not related to work with the other employees in the hotel. 🙃
I had the worst work place due to my boss. He was a dentist. He was a horrible person with a horrible family who enabled him, there are no words to describe and I become mentally exhausted trying to. He killed his wife early due to there very sick marriage. He is Gary (James Garrett) Bunton in Kansas city.
I took a maintenance job at a hotel.Did not realize it until i started but the place wasnt kept up over the years and had 30 year old equipment etc.My manager was afraid to tell the owners and put the work on my shoulders to save money.She went as far as not wanting to hire commercial electricians,tech etc and said it was my responsibility.After 6 years of stress thinking i would do something wrong to injure or kill myself,another employee or a guest i walked out one day and never looked back.
I just left my job and my boss did all of these except 3 of them. She also only worked 20 hours a week and it was impossible to communicate fluidly with her.
Reminds me of my previous manager. Glad to be out of that place!
If my supervisor keeps over stepping 😊 He will be waiting in the unemployment line. He thinks it's appropriate to call me honey, buddy or Juls? Then dude stares at me all night..Makes my skin crawl..He's only been with the company a couple months and he knows nothing!!! If I went to HR about his behavior he'd be gone..I have turned stoic , gray rock..Not interested. He pats me like a dog. I can't stand him.
HR won't help you. Sorry.
You have to have evidence. Otherwise HR will do nothing. Your claims mean little unless you have actual evidence to back them up.
I'm actually filing a lawsuit for sexually assault and degrading women working without a break and a boss that emotionally abuses knowing u have mental or physically illness. I have so many witnesses and text messages. Do not work for these kind of people. Yes ur boss is ur boss but they have no right to create a toxic environment. He would grab ur keys as a manager and would leave u without pay to take a week off. I was able to catch up but it was absolutely horrific I actually reported to my lawyer long before I actually had a real strong case with witnesses . But was in need to pay my bills. My last straw was when he didn't let me take a break said to take 5 minutes then told me your never goin to be anything or move up the list when on I said I'm goin to the dressing room so I can switch up my position it was then when he came.after me. I went home cried. I gave him the keys to the store working there since 2017. There are.better jobs out there !! It affected my mental health. Don't be a victim of abuse esp at work
My boss never tells me good job even though I hit my numbers. He constantly compares me to other people. He put me on a new job and I hit my numbers. Before the end of the shift he came over. Instead of commenting on how fast I was going he instead decided to "coach me" because I assembled 6 parts out of 1120 that failed a leak test. Get real! He then said my speed was good but nowhere as fast as Joe Shmo. Another time I hit my numbers on a 2 person machine. I made sure he knew it. Instead of good job he said he was going to make me switch spots the next time. And I hate to say it but I think he treats me differently because Im white. The majority of people I work with are southeast asian including him. Anyone else he praises them in front of everyone. I just want him to leave me alone.
A friend of mine has a boss like this - I'm going to share this with them (the friend, not the boss... though he could probably do with some truth soup).
I'm a South African coming from my homeland on an H2A visa,come to help American farmers/ranchers to farm there land,. I have never been called a retart or idiot in my life untill the USA. Working, helping, farming for them is a struggle everyday. I've never seen so many narcissistic people on farmsteads than in the US. And yes we benefit from the dollar, but sometimes it's difficult to wanna stay, even for the money, being called names and being treated like shit while we come here to give our best, missing our wife's and kids. Sometimes I wonder if it is worth it.
There are also over confident bosses and bosses who dont care as they plan to get fired and collect unemployment. I love my job and dont plan on leaving. He can do ehat he wants eith his life. No stress for me
Nah they will sometimes apologize and give you credit just to mess your head up
Get out or hide. The capable will leave so join them. Those staying are on a hiding to nowhere, getting deeper into the toxicity.
My boss tells me to get a certain number of buckets for different materials, and he counts them out one by one to make sure I got the right amount. Like bro, I can count. And I can do it faster than you, too.
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What’s the point of knowing this, if they’re the boss and no one will listen?
It gives you a heads up if you should distance yourself, not befriend him or her, or come up with a plan to leave (find a job that will hire you and then, leave).
My boss is so toxic that the employees do the bare minimum and even break rules like taking breaks or leaving early. Some even break materials on purpose. I could report it, but I hate that boss so much that I'm just waiting for my contract to end and gtfo
A lot of those things you can sue about don’t quite your job just keep notes on everything that happen and call osha they would help you I know people who got payed 40k $ from a lawsuit on discrimination and sexual harassment also when your boss is belittling you by any disability or safety concerns. And this go for any boss or leader anyone who has control on firing you or hiring you you can file a complaint at Osha and sue
my tier 2 op manager tells me that the person that i trained and manage does it better than me while im managing him to do the job.
like im the king of manipulation and there is no way he thinks this mind game is going to work.
he doesnt know that i trained him
he micro manages me while he works hard and praises for the person i trained.
kind of weird
the person that i trained literally pimped him.
i lul ing so hard
fine fine mirco manage me while i manage the one u praise to do the job that u want me to do.
very strange three way cycle of 3 controlling eachother.
Do I have a right to report my potentially toxic boss for this? She was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up to go solo. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. That was very insensitive and harsh, and I think that if she said that to a person with a learning disability, they would be hurt and deem her a bigot. I should've told her that, to make a point to her about tact. Can I report her for verbal abuse?
By hanging our it also means playing video games with. It creates a bias
I had left one job toxic boss she show favoritism. God bless me with a better job. She be their friend and next she not. She think cause she work there for years people got her back. Karma came to her in personal and professional life.
"The project coordinator whom I have been working with has a full sexual addiction. He even gives priority to beautiful females for recruitment. He never gives chances to males, especially good-looking ones. He upgrades females who share a bed with him. What surprises me is, why do they give him their body? Is that a matter of business? So, I resigned from work."
My boss checks all this boxes a true evil women but the God above who sees all will do justice for all of us who get humiliated. I get we all meet to work to survive but no job is worth your peace and happiness .They don’t value anything and I learned after this awful experience that money isn’t everything and that we should never allow anyone to disrespect us !
I was told to tidy the bookshelf in my classroom. He told me that he would shift his rubbish out of the room, but he never did. M