You had to go through a lot of pain and had to sacrifice so much just because of the people who are closest to you let you down. I don't think you have to forgive them, you don't need to forgive them. Forgiveness is not always a solution or a means to an end for every situation, and in this case it isn't. You only need to keep those around you who share your values and support you at every step. I'm very happy that you now have a fulfilling life with your husband and son. Racism and sexism is still extremely prevalent in most countries in this world, and you're an extremely brave person who is pioneering a new way of life where different people can fall in love without discriminating based on skin-colour. Thank you playing a part in bringing this world one step closer together. Hope to see more of you guys!
She can forgive them because they dont know any better. They dont have Jesus tondo better. Now turn that around on you...sonshe can. What she need to do is to stay away from them and pray for them
Thank you for sharing your true life story. Your Last message is very thoughtful... ". . . Keep distance from bad guys even if they are family members."
Why are they doing that ? I am shocked to hear that ! That kind of situation should not have happened to anyone in this world . Everyone deserves to choose their own way of life . Everyone deserves love and respect in life . Do whatever possible to protect the dignity of you,your husband and son.
Conservative mindset and relatives' pressure. In chinese society, Indians are considered backward, religious, unhygienic, Misogyny and patriarchal society. Also, ChiNa's community goverment ideology influenced people don't want a foreigner marry a chinese girl. Already china has less women than me. In simple, Indians aren't ideal for Chinese people, they consider them superior. Sorry, for being too honest, my chinese friend told me this very clearly with honesty.
You are extremely strong woman, I will like to hear your views & insights of various topics... anything about Chinese cultures & cuisines...we Indians still don't know most of the things about our neighbouring country.
Forgive but don’t forget so that you don’t have to be go through the same experience again & again. No one can hurt you again and again. In fact you have already forgiven them , that is why you haven’t taken any revenge, still you want to welcome them if they come to your house , So you are on right path : Forgive but don’t forget.
You are really a strong women Yogita, finding a women like Yogita who is very strong and family oriented isn’t very rare these days, Pseudo-feminism has corrupted the minds os women now a days.I hope I find a girl who is respecting, I will really love her. Be String and grow together as a family together.❤❤❤❤❤
The issue being all the Cultural Revolution brought about by Chairman Mao and others has not been able to eliminate social divisions, sadly. Had your husband been a big company executive like the other Indians who are married to Chinese ladies, things would have been different for you two. I would suggest moving on with your lives and focus on your son. Its your family's loss, and hopefully they will realize before its too late.
Very painful story...u sacrifice a lot..feel bad for u...I am sure God will compensate ur sacrifices in some other way...I am no 1 to pass judgement wether u should forgive them or forget them..u r intellect lady u have better awareness how to handle this situation 1 thing I want to say it is dreadful story..
Old generations are same like here in India too. They r good people may be old fashioned. they don't like losing their tradition. Mainly an outsider Marrying their grand daughter 😢
This comment is ignorant and annoying. Saying girls are 'treated as goddesses' ignores the real issues of sexism and humiliations she faced.Instead of making empty statements, focus on the actual problem. Also like these kind of things don't happen in india
I cannot even think how hard it would had been for you , as a person who loves my family a lot and if treated like you when I need them the most my heart would shatter in pieces but bhabhiji I still hope your heart heals better and your connections with your family go back as they used to be , they realise their mistake and it's for Aman as well and apart this we all love you bhabhi ji you are doing great wish you the happiest ❤❤
it's good that you share it.... Mostly people judge wit the tribe... religion .... N for the parents atleast they should listen n understand for a minute.. But is all about when you got a good caring husband....n lovly child . Don't worry God is great God is always there...
You are brave and did not fall to the racial indifference of your family,keep that love going in your heart and one day your family will be the ones asking your forgiveness.
I pray and wish good for you and Your Family. Ravi is a very good human being. Such people are rare in India, rare in the world infact. I pray Aman comes out to be a well known person globally when he grows up.
Older generation have that really toxic conservative mindset in Asian family. But it's good to see some people are changing and have more open mindset nowadays.
I came accross your channel today and immediately i subscribed your channel .So sad hearing your story.....It is so common in our place too which i can relate you alot.but I'm from India.India has also different types of culture, tradition, values, believe, religion and life style.
Have a wonderful day. First of all I wish Aman, you and Ravi bhai a very happy "Merry Christmas". Hope you and your family are fine. After hearing all you have to say, I will tell you one thing, you have proved that you are brave and you have power. I understand your heart condition very well. You will never break. Because you're a girl and girl's means power. Keep your smile on your face all the time. Looking forward to see your next video. Always stay safe, healthy and happy. Please take good care of yourself and your family. 🎆🎁🌲
Yogita bhabhiji try to forget those who not appreciate your presence in their life n be happy with you beautiful little family n your huge 20k youtube family. We love you and your beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you have to talk to them . Forgiveness is an internal detox for your mind, body n soul . Forgive them for your well being but don't talk to them. Keep your boundaries strong 💪. Show people if they don't respect you they cannot be a part of your life .
Be independent girl! These type of things are also common in India. Now, I get to know that no matter wherever you go, everywhere there are people present with such stinky mindset. I know you can protect yourself and your family as well. Your husband and your child will always be there to protect you. Bravo! 👏🏻
Hello Yogita, Chanced upon your vlog accidentally. Keep your head up, stay strong, and remember that even when things feel tough, life is still worth living. Keep moving forward, you've got this. WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH THE TOUGH GETS GOING "Hang in there, you are stronger than you think." "Don't let these family moments and incidents define you, keep pushing forward." "You've got the resilience to overcome this, so......keep going." "Believe in yourself, you can get through anything." "This is just a bump in the road, keep walking forward .....on your path you have chosen." This too will pass someday. Sending you positive vibes, wishing you happiness, prosperity, good health and so stay strong and keep fighting. Take Care.
yogita why dont u ever come in ravi bhai vlog? he is always alone or with aman we will happy to see both of u with chilling funny loving with aman all types of vlog whenever i saw ravi bhai vlogs its feel something missing nd its u and aman 🙂
I can literally see the pain and suffering that you have been going through during recording this video in your eyes yogita di stay strong, shree krishna will bless u 🙏 ravi is a really nice man . Give them some time. Even if they don't like ravi you and aman visit your home let aman spent sometime with your family things will change and if it still goes southside then its sad.
I watch your all chinese village video. Chinese village and Indian village are many similarities. Your village school village street village house and village people are very similar Indian village. Parents never forget child.you are not only a girl you are become a strong woman. Strong woman makes good happy and healthy family.protect your family and living happy life. Ignore bad peoples.kuch log mafi ke layak nahi hote.
Mam, I have the same problem with you , where my parents do not accept me and my husband especially . I can't understand why, so I don't visit my family often. It's very hard
You have understood the golden rule that your own parents and relatives can destroy your married life, you will be happy and protect your family every time. You’ve understood that your husbands respect is your respect and vice versa. One more thing, it also applies to dear friends.
What does the world mean? It is your child, you both should stay together, what does it matter to your family, you Tenu has your whole life ahead of you
Dear Yogita...in India, we try to follow Sanatan Dharma....it is our duty as Father,Son,Mother or Daughter need to be fulfilled irrespective of what others do to us....take some time, give some space and do not let Anger to overshadow your thoughts....be kind to your parents and you shall reap the rewards for your Good Deeds in future...enjoy the moments of Life to fullest because Life is very short....May Lord Ram bless you...🎉
You are such a beautiful girl and even gorgeously being taken decisions your own life. We born and even to be gone sooner or later. So till at the ended you have right to choose your happiness…none of one don’t allow to control your right because they have not that kind of right… Be happy and spend your happiness with your incredible family…we love u and love your consideration…..
Your Chinese society going to developing/ grows in general view as good and generous attitude towards intercounty marriage or other community marriage or like these! So don't feel and grow unhappiness towards parents, hence you and your little family gets nothing of any kinds of harmful matters arise!
谢谢你for sharing this video, stay strong and be even more successful & rich so that everyone are forced to respect you, whether they like it or not they will have to respect you.
"Pakistan urgently needs to control its population growth as it directly impacts the country's future. With a rapidly increasing number of people, the availability of resources, jobs, and opportunities continues to shrink. This uncontrolled growth is not just about numbers; it translates into bringing more humans into a world of limited prospects and widespread misery. A growing population without proper planning only amplifies poverty, unemployment, and societal issues. It's high time for Pakistan to focus on sustainable development and population control measures to secure a better future for the coming generations."
And u will be left behind too at the end. Hope this didn't happen. Love is not everything in marriage. There are many more important things to consider beyond love itself
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You had to go through a lot of pain and had to sacrifice so much just because of the people who are closest to you let you down. I don't think you have to forgive them, you don't need to forgive them. Forgiveness is not always a solution or a means to an end for every situation, and in this case it isn't. You only need to keep those around you who share your values and support you at every step. I'm very happy that you now have a fulfilling life with your husband and son. Racism and sexism is still extremely prevalent in most countries in this world, and you're an extremely brave person who is pioneering a new way of life where different people can fall in love without discriminating based on skin-colour. Thank you playing a part in bringing this world one step closer together. Hope to see more of you guys!
She can forgive them because they dont know any better. They dont have Jesus tondo better. Now turn that around on you...sonshe can. What she need to do is to stay away from them and pray for them
No doubt ,you are a good woman and a good wife ,a sensible person as well,keep it up ,my good wishes 👌
Bhai tu itna likh diya , respect ×3000
I feel sorry, at the same time, it's wise not to share everything in media. Since those affairs can be sort it out privately.
Damn ...brave girl! good for you!
The sweetest kiddo I have ever seen in my life, wow, he is really a cute kid. u MADE the right decision
Thank you for sharing your true life story.
Your Last message is very thoughtful...
". . . Keep distance from bad guys even if they are family members."
You no need to forgive them just stay away from toxic people. You have beautiful child and loving husband that's everything.
We all are with you
You brave girl
Your new marriage life your life not your family but your connection not parmament your life life very important 🙏
Why are they doing that ? I am shocked to hear that ! That kind of situation should not have happened to anyone in this world . Everyone deserves to choose their own way of life . Everyone deserves love and respect
in life . Do whatever possible to protect the dignity of you,your husband and son.
Conservative mindset and relatives' pressure.
In chinese society, Indians are considered backward, religious, unhygienic, Misogyny and patriarchal society.
Also, ChiNa's community goverment ideology influenced people don't want a foreigner marry a chinese girl. Already china has less women than me.
In simple, Indians aren't ideal for Chinese people, they consider them superior.
Sorry, for being too honest, my chinese friend told me this very clearly with honesty.
You are extremely strong woman, I will like to hear your views & insights of various topics... anything about Chinese cultures & cuisines...we Indians still don't know most of the things about our neighbouring country.
We understand and respect your decision... It's your life and your struggle.. We will always support you 🙌🙏
你是如此成熟的瑜伽士 你对这些情况有深入的了解 很高兴看到你如何完美地解释和理解你的想法和观点，这真的为你和你的家人感到骄傲，保持坚强，有一天他们会来见你，最后我只希望你们都住在一起， 人类只是以态度为代价失去了人类🙏♥️🇮🇳🇨🇳
Can feel your pain. Wishing you healing, and happy times ahead with your family
Don't worry , you got an amazing family ( your husband and son ) , these hardships makes you strong . Stay Happy and Healthy
Forget but never forgive
Forgive but don’t forget so that you don’t have to be go through the same experience again & again. No one can hurt you again and again.
In fact you have already forgiven them , that is why you haven’t taken any revenge, still you want to welcome them if they come to your house , So you are on right path : Forgive but don’t forget.
You should never forgive and forget them. Make your son excel academically and in life.
You are really a strong women Yogita, finding a women like Yogita who is very strong and family oriented isn’t very rare these days, Pseudo-feminism has corrupted the minds os women now a days.I hope I find a girl who is respecting, I will really love her.
Be String and grow together as a family together.❤❤❤❤❤
The issue being all the Cultural Revolution brought about by Chairman Mao and others has not been able to eliminate social divisions, sadly. Had your husband been a big company executive like the other Indians who are married to Chinese ladies, things would have been different for you two. I would suggest moving on with your lives and focus on your son. Its your family's loss, and hopefully they will realize before its too late.
The man is lucky who has wife like you Yogita ❤❤
God is always their to protect and make way for your family, so be brave and go ahead.
Very brave and firm decision 💪
Very painful story...u sacrifice a lot..feel bad for u...I am sure God will compensate ur sacrifices in some other way...I am no 1 to pass judgement wether u should forgive them or forget them..u r intellect lady u have better awareness how to handle this situation 1 thing I want to say it is dreadful story..
I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I hope you find Love and success in future❤❤❤❤
Old generations are same like here in India too.
They r good people may be old fashioned. they don't like losing their tradition. Mainly an outsider Marrying their grand daughter 😢
Keep courage ♥️🇮🇳🙏
Girls are treated as a goddess in India .
Don't worry we all are with u .
This comment is ignorant and annoying. Saying girls are 'treated as goddesses' ignores the real issues of sexism and humiliations she faced.Instead of making empty statements, focus on the actual problem. Also like these kind of things don't happen in india
I always hear news about girls getting rapped in India specially in north India
U guys don't even leave female tourist 😂
Hahaha lol... Have some shame abhishek......
Biggest lies told by abhishek sharma 😂😂
Dont worry if people kick you because we still have God in our side❤
I hope and wish that Ravi will take care of you and Aman , you deserve utmost support and love.. great soul ✌🏻✌🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
I cannot even think how hard it would had been for you , as a person who loves my family a lot and if treated like you when I need them the most my heart would shatter in pieces but bhabhiji I still hope your heart heals better and your connections with your family go back as they used to be , they realise their mistake and it's for Aman as well and apart this we all love you bhabhi ji you are doing great wish you the happiest ❤❤
❤❤❤ merry Christmas ⛄⛄⛄ to all your family members too ✨✨✨😊
Sorry to hear this.
it's good that you share it....
Mostly people judge wit the tribe... religion ....
N for the parents atleast they should listen n understand for a minute..
But is all about when you got a good caring husband....n lovly child .
Don't worry God is great God is always there...
You are brave and did not fall to the racial indifference of your family,keep that love going in your heart and one day your family will be the ones asking your forgiveness.
I feel sorry for what is happening with you. Keeping distance is the only key to have a peaceful life
Fighting girl 😊
Time will heal. Keep temporary distance.❤
Yogita.....I wish you always remain happy and cheerful. Hope Aman gets beautifully raised with Chinese and Indian fusion of culture and knowledge 😊🌼
Yogita is an honest and brewed girl don't worry about talking with her husband thank God
Darling you are The way you talk❤
Don't take Stress...Always Listening Shri Bhagwat Geeta...your Mind will be calm...Jai Shri Krishna 🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉
I pray and wish good for you and Your Family. Ravi is a very good human being. Such people are rare in India, rare in the world infact.
I pray Aman comes out to be a well known person globally when he grows up.
Older generation have that really toxic conservative mindset in Asian family. But it's good to see some people are changing and have more open mindset nowadays.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. I love you yogita ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉
Full love and support to you sister 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ohh you are v nice … don’t worry you have another loving family of Ravi 💕💕
I came accross your channel today and immediately i subscribed your channel .So sad hearing your story.....It is so common in our place too which i can relate you alot.but I'm from India.India has also different types of culture, tradition, values, believe, religion and life style.
Be Strong..💪
I believe they are taking social pressure above the relationship and this is the reason they are behaving like this with you.
Don't worry your courageous women
Wish you well.
It is an inhuman act, never forgive them. May God protect your family from these evils.
Brave girl but don't disclose your personal public platform it can back fire you. Stay safe and live happy, forget about what others think about you.
Have a wonderful day. First of all I wish Aman, you and Ravi bhai a very happy "Merry Christmas". Hope you and your family are fine. After hearing all you have to say, I will tell you one thing, you have proved that you are brave and you have power. I understand your heart condition very well. You will never break. Because you're a girl and girl's means power. Keep your smile on your face all the time. Looking forward to see your next video. Always stay safe, healthy and happy. Please take good care of yourself and your family. 🎆🎁🌲
Yogita bhabhiji try to forget those who not appreciate your presence in their life n be happy with you beautiful little family n your huge 20k youtube family. We love you and your beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Some families are poison
Some friends are just better. Live in your own freedom of choice. be who you’re. Get out from that toxic mindset people.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you have to talk to them . Forgiveness is an internal detox for your mind, body n soul . Forgive them for your well being but don't talk to them. Keep your boundaries strong 💪. Show people if they don't respect you they cannot be a part of your life .
Be independent girl!
These type of things are also common in India. Now, I get to know that no matter wherever you go, everywhere there are people present with such stinky mindset.
I know you can protect yourself and your family as well. Your husband and your child will always be there to protect you.
Bravo! 👏🏻
Love from Northeast india ❤
🙏🌟 Merry Christmas.
Your conscience is Ur best friend, just listen to it. Self respect is supreme.
Be strong 💜💐
Hello Yogita,
Chanced upon your vlog accidentally.
Keep your head up, stay strong, and remember that even when things feel tough, life is still worth living. Keep moving forward, you've got this.
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH THE TOUGH GETS GOING
"Hang in there, you are stronger than you think."
"Don't let these family moments and incidents define you, keep pushing forward."
"You've got the resilience to overcome this, so......keep going."
"Believe in yourself, you can get through anything."
"This is just a bump in the road, keep walking forward .....on your path you have chosen." This too will pass someday.
Sending you positive vibes, wishing you happiness, prosperity, good health and so stay strong and keep fighting. Take Care.
yogita why dont u ever come in ravi bhai vlog? he is always alone or with aman we will happy to see both of u with chilling funny loving with aman all types of vlog whenever i saw ravi bhai vlogs its feel something missing nd its u and aman 🙂
Stay strong for your family. Your husband is a very handsome and fit- ignore the haters.
For your sad story I have subscribe your channel. Wish you all the best.
But you should thank god for your in laws family, beautiful kid and loving and caring husband he has given to you ❤❤
Great ❤
Very sad story 😢😢😢
I can literally see the pain and suffering that you have been going through during recording this video in your eyes yogita di stay strong, shree krishna will bless u 🙏 ravi is a really nice man . Give them some time. Even if they don't like ravi you and aman visit your home let aman spent sometime with your family things will change and if it still goes southside then its sad.
I watch your all chinese village video. Chinese village and Indian village are many similarities. Your village school village street village house and village people are very similar Indian village. Parents never forget child.you are not only a girl you are become a strong woman. Strong woman makes good happy and healthy family.protect your family and living happy life. Ignore bad peoples.kuch log mafi ke layak nahi hote.
New viewer from Nagaland Kohima
Wish you and your family well
Mam, I have the same problem with you , where my parents do not accept me and my husband especially . I can't understand why, so I don't visit my family often. It's very hard
You have understood the golden rule that your own parents and relatives can destroy your married life, you will be happy and protect your family every time. You’ve understood that your husbands respect is your respect and vice versa. One more thing, it also applies to dear friends.
Kindly share the first part of the story starting point
What does the world mean? It is your child, you both should stay together, what does it matter to your family, you Tenu has your whole life ahead of you
Stay strong ❤❤
Don't worry, this is your home too !
One day ur family will understand automatically
Yogita we love you ❤️❤️
Your new subscriber from Mao Naga vlog. So sad to hear that. But be strong and keep on doing good work. God will bless you and your family.
Here new subscriber from Nagaland
Dear Yogita...in India, we try to follow Sanatan Dharma....it is our duty as Father,Son,Mother or Daughter need to be fulfilled irrespective of what others do to us....take some time, give some space and do not let Anger to overshadow your thoughts....be kind to your parents and you shall reap the rewards for your Good Deeds in future...enjoy the moments of Life to fullest because Life is very short....May Lord Ram bless you...🎉
God bless you all.🙏
New subscribers ❤❤❤❤
New subscriber from north east india Nagaland.
Stay strong
Nice yogita
You are such a beautiful girl and even gorgeously being taken decisions your own life. We born and even to be gone sooner or later. So till at the ended you have right to choose your happiness…none of one don’t allow to control your right because they have not that kind of right…
Be happy and spend your happiness with your incredible family…we love u and love your consideration…..
Love from india ...🎉🎉❤
God bless you 🙏
You are so brave girl hopefully one day your beautiful family make them regret what they did to you.
Time is the best healer
Ravi Bhai Yogita Bhabi ji ko Geeta Gyaan Arjunuwaach suna dena...sab sawaalo ke jawab mil jayenge❤🎉
Your Chinese society going to developing/ grows in general view as good and generous attitude towards intercounty marriage or other community marriage or like these! So don't feel and grow unhappiness towards parents, hence you and your little family gets nothing of any kinds of harmful matters arise!
谢谢你for sharing this video, stay strong and be even more successful & rich so that everyone are forced to respect you, whether they like it or not they will have to respect you.
Hay sister don't regreat about ur dissicion to marry with an Indian guy whole India stand with you.
"Pakistan urgently needs to control its population growth as it directly impacts the country's future. With a rapidly increasing number of people, the availability of resources, jobs, and opportunities continues to shrink. This uncontrolled growth is not just about numbers; it translates into bringing more humans into a world of limited prospects and widespread misery. A growing population without proper planning only amplifies poverty, unemployment, and societal issues. It's high time for Pakistan to focus on sustainable development and population control measures to secure a better future for the coming generations."
Live the life with LOVE handling the challenges of day to day life. ❤❤❤
And u will be left behind too at the end. Hope this didn't happen. Love is not everything in marriage. There are many more important things to consider beyond love itself
One day Aman will be a rich and famous person in the future ❤