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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @leodass
    @leodass 4 месяца назад +926

    Come to Singapore.
    Here, Chinese marrying Indian or Indian marrying Chinese is very common.
    Best of Providence.

    • @Truthiseverything13
      @Truthiseverything13 4 месяца назад +48

      Singapore is heaven

    • @mayar901
      @mayar901 4 месяца назад +30

      Thats true.. Indians and Chinese intermarry.. no problem there..

    • @qiteindashenggreatsage3621
      @qiteindashenggreatsage3621 4 месяца назад +45

      I'm from simgapore too, I'm chinese and punjabi mix, and my wife is tamil. Hahahha singapore the best

    • @Covid_Liberation_Army
      @Covid_Liberation_Army 4 месяца назад +13

      ​@@qiteindashenggreatsage3621 don't introduce yourself and your wife as punjabi and tamil . Say you both are Indians .

    • @ganeshr4371
      @ganeshr4371 4 месяца назад

      ​@@qiteindashenggreatsage3621wow awesome

  • @Practuse
    @Practuse 4 месяца назад +236

    True line :- Education never equals to someone's Wisdom💯

    •  3 месяца назад

      Umm. Indians are the most educated in the globe.

    • @Practuse
      @Practuse 3 месяца назад

      😅

  • @rc2rahulchatterjee826
    @rc2rahulchatterjee826 5 месяцев назад +1614

    Yogita, tell your rich family members that the RICHEST MAN IN ASIA is an INDIAN ✨, and Indians love Yogita. ❤

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +486

      @@rc2rahulchatterjee826 actually they don’t know this,and they just care they are richer than Ravi 🤣🤣

    • @rc2rahulchatterjee826
      @rc2rahulchatterjee826 5 месяцев назад +41

      @@Yogitavlogs 😂😂

    • @dawachoda2593
      @dawachoda2593 5 месяцев назад +78

      Watching from Bhutan,god bless your family and give regards to Ravi brother.

    • @RoamRite
      @RoamRite 5 месяцев назад +76

      @@YogitavlogsI’m shocked Chinese people still thinking India is poor …….india is rich believe me there is so many billionaire in Indian
      Indian only spending big money on weddings

    • @RoamRite
      @RoamRite 5 месяцев назад +26

      @@Yogitavlogssame like in china also so many people poor they don’t have food no house but never say about them anything …if u want keep it marriage longer u have to accept reality n go on forget about your parents don’t listen unnecessary talks

  • @ajey301
    @ajey301 4 месяца назад +102

    You are a daughter of Mother India now......Hold your head High with pride and honour ......may you and your dear ones stay blessed by the Almighty Bhagwan Mahadev and Mata Bhawani

    • @ayushchaturvedi7098
      @ayushchaturvedi7098 3 месяца назад +6

      lol

    • @user-mq9em3sv2u
      @user-mq9em3sv2u 3 месяца назад +2

      no you are not its just what you say to hide from your real faces

    • @Shashankbaranwal
      @Shashankbaranwal 3 месяца назад +5

      Bs kr bhai😅

    • @basicbase749
      @basicbase749 Месяц назад +1

      Bas bas😂 india ki ladkiyon ko toh izzat di nai kabhi. Aye badey😂😂😂

  • @striker44
    @striker44 4 месяца назад +18

    You are a high thinking, spiritual, very soulful, graceful lady. World needs more of your kind to fill it with goodness. People forget their past quickly - both India and China have gone through very troubled times. Learing to be humble is important for both countries, which are the most populace and oldest civilizations on this earth,

  • @Bhavishiavani
    @Bhavishiavani 5 месяцев назад +430

    Understand 100 % with great clarity because I am an Indian that worked in a Chinese environment for 10 years in China.
    Even my family cannot understand how difficult that was.
    I was the only Indian & all the others were Chinese, my Boss was European.
    I have seen that when Chinese girls marry foreigners, they express themselves a lot more.
    What is your Chinese name ?
    And what is your hometown?

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +116

      @@Bhavishiavani xiajinghan ,Henan Province

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 5 месяцев назад +52

      @@Yogitavlogs
      - Very nice.
      - Extremely friendly & down to earth people from Henan.
      - If Shanghainese wife , maybe problem for an Indian man ! 😀

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 4 месяца назад +22

      @Anonymous1512-_-
      - Many young Chinese people now know English.
      - Many cannot speak that well because they don't get a chance to practice speaking...but reading & writing basics are just fine.
      - That's because they are all taught English in schools now.

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  4 месяца назад +27

      @Anonymous1512-_- School 😂

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 4 месяца назад +5

      @@Yogitavlogs 🤣

  • @ankitbhattji
    @ankitbhattji 5 месяцев назад +429

    I am from India.Trust me you are a very kind, good and pure hearted girl.

    • @RajaToDos
      @RajaToDos 4 месяца назад +4

      bhabhiji ki koi chhoti sister hoto bataiyega XD XD XD

    • @MahendraNaik-wo1el
      @MahendraNaik-wo1el 4 месяца назад +1

      How about dalit rich man your views please bhatji

    • @unsaali4201
      @unsaali4201 4 месяца назад +1

      @@RajaToDos maybe men like u are reason why her parents were against her marrying an indian man

    • @ViratKohli-wy2sk
      @ViratKohli-wy2sk 2 месяца назад

      ​@Mygrandmacalledsmehandsome😢😢😢

  • @Eshanyadav23
    @Eshanyadav23 5 месяцев назад +68

    She is too innocent girl..hope god bless her forever and give her power to fight the world!!

  • @manishbanerjee9374
    @manishbanerjee9374 3 месяца назад +10

    Yogita, don't be upset and don't bother about peopls version too much.
    Please don't be ashamed also. You have taken right decision on your life and your life partner indeed.
    So, welcome to India and wish you will feel nice to embrace Indian culture.
    With 💖 from 🇮🇳

  • @SUN-it6rf
    @SUN-it6rf 2 месяца назад +9

    My niece is married to a Chinese boy. She is a physician and he is a computer engineer. Our families love them and their baby. ❤❤❤

    • @weingkham4033
      @weingkham4033 2 месяца назад

      @@SUN-it6rf the baby is black or brown

  • @umakantbhalerao8185
    @umakantbhalerao8185 4 месяца назад +181

    India and China are old civilization and both countries are good relationship between ancient times ! ❤
    We are your family now !

  • @myamazingthailand9742
    @myamazingthailand9742 5 месяцев назад +147

    You are a brave woman who’s mentally very tough….
    Love to you & Ravi from Thailand 🇹🇭

  • @dasdip2001
    @dasdip2001 4 месяца назад +20

    As an Indian, Your parents had real concerns, not all of it was morally correct but still, they were not 100% incorrect.
    Well saying that, You got a good husband , that's good.
    May both of the families someday come together, and find peace.

  • @thereisnochannel8666
    @thereisnochannel8666 15 дней назад +3

    Hey congratulations. I married a beautiful Chinese smart girl some 27 years ago. We both are enjoying and at the same time proud of our respective cultures

  • @crisg5807
    @crisg5807 4 месяца назад +10

    Yogita you did the right thing by following your heart and the true love you found in your Indian husband…..you don’t need anybody’s approval for your happiness, you live your life for yourself and not for other people.
    I’m happy to see your happiness that you shared in your vlog.
    Thank you for sharing your vlog, it took a lot of courage for you.
    By the way my wife is Chinese and I’m a Sikh, we have been married for over 20 years….however having born and brought up in Singapore’s multicultural and multiethnic diversity it was much easier for our parents and relatives to embrace our interracial marriage.
    And I picked up speaking Mandarin from my wife, though we primarily communicate in English.
    God bless you and your family Yogita.

  • @freeman4758
    @freeman4758 5 месяцев назад +183

    Both side forgive each other's dowry😅😅😅😅

    • @vyomaexplorer3630
      @vyomaexplorer3630 4 месяца назад +6

      😂❤

    • @gshrdy5415
      @gshrdy5415 4 месяца назад

      white women come with a dowry and a job.

    • @ΝίκηΧανδρή
      @ΝίκηΧανδρή 4 месяца назад +4

      Modern people have education and resources to set up a home quickly without a dowry. In the olden times, people lacked education, good paying jobs to collect the resources to set up a home, so this responsibility was put upon the parents of the bride and groom, to give the young couple a strong head start, so when the baby comes along, mother can afford to stay with the child instead of running around trying to find money , or food

    • @subashbist-p8o
      @subashbist-p8o 3 месяца назад

      What you mean by dowry can you explain were in India and why you support that

    • @lelias6223
      @lelias6223 3 месяца назад

      Love it😂😂😂😅😅😅

  • @nads7464
    @nads7464 5 месяцев назад +28

    Theres so many languages but Yogita ji chose to speak the language of truth.
    And your English is good.

  • @UjjwalChand-sc4tu
    @UjjwalChand-sc4tu 5 месяцев назад +172

    She is honest, practical and broad minded. It's a fact that Chinese girls want rich husbands, way more richer than a girl's own overall worth... For such unrealistic aspirations of Chinese girls and their parents, many Chinese girls don't find a partner and many live as spinsters past their marriageable age.
    She should have thrown some light on this problem in Chinese society.

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 4 месяца назад +4

      Why do you think the rich Indian looking for their rich Indian husband doesnt this also happening in India...why are the poor cannot be rich due to your class system isnt it

    • @SodiumSyndicate
      @SodiumSyndicate 4 месяца назад

      @@areebachewa8318 Arranged marriage ensures that female stupidity & expecting impossible men is put to rest as her parents arrange her marriage with a practical candidate.

    • @rashmikiran4602
      @rashmikiran4602 4 месяца назад +14

      ​@@areebachewa8318I am sorry to say this , but in India, we do have such things but not as aggressive as there is in China. There indeed are caste related discrimination but it's only in few towns which are not really developed. Also, there are many more problems with Chinese society than in an Indian society. And if I start putting out pointers you won't be able to defend yourself. Let's start with Olympics, suppression on human rights, ethnocide of Tibetan religion , oh, I don't wanna remind the cause of the event happened in 2019-2022. Do u want more?

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 4 месяца назад

      @@rashmikiran4602
      Really where the Indian are good in lies and raping their women where most of them are silence by their corrupted politicians and elites where money buy their actions out .. Is your western media give you info about Tibet and western China where you need to do research about the history of China .. Btw the Chinese do not prosecuted these two ethic where the chinese have supported them financially,medical and education then their majority geez learn the facts rather from the fake info from the media … If India is that great how come millions of their people still in poverty and how will India be able to elevate their poverty from their people instead of blaming the chinese why not try to work something positive toward your country to improve the standard of their living

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 4 месяца назад +2

      @@rashmikiran4602
      Btw your comments are humorous while all your infos from the fake news while no one force the Olympic participants and they do it on their own will …. Also do you really think India have their own human rights where their suppression of their most populated Muslim in India as per from the Media

  • @premsood2846
    @premsood2846 3 месяца назад +3

    Yogita most important thing is that Raiv likes you and LOVE you. Nothing else matter in life. Yes we yearn for acceptance from relative but instead of accepting you as is they will make every effort to pull you down. I am an Indian and my son and daughter they married non Indians. I realized how blessed I am to have son in law and daughter in law I got. Enjoy life

  • @JabyKoye
    @JabyKoye 3 месяца назад +7

    After hearing your story my prespective about chinese people changed also...i think everyone should respect every person not matter country is bad or good ..its matter only how that person is❤❤

  • @akcj875
    @akcj875 5 месяцев назад +250

    She did fine by marrying Ravi...there are so many unmarried girls in China in 30s and 40s
    Secondly, internet promotes lies about India being bad and unsafe...
    Most ppl should travel and learn

    • @ChusatoliiChizho
      @ChusatoliiChizho 4 месяца назад

      India highest rape case
      India is not a safe country

    • @shambooshivamahadeva1909
      @shambooshivamahadeva1909 4 месяца назад

      Well india is not safe ,
      Not promoted by any foreigners ,but it is a reality accepted by Indian women.
      Not for tourist, women , female child , hunger index, education etc it goes on bro

    • @dolmashadoe6878
      @dolmashadoe6878 4 месяца назад +8

      I accept your comment 👍👍👍👍

    • @_Happy_Bear_
      @_Happy_Bear_ 4 месяца назад

      But still india is not safe in some areas even in cities

    • @anupamraj3922
      @anupamraj3922 4 месяца назад +8

      Actually lol I recently watched a few videos on Chinese marriage life...and damn it was a huge mess, either men don't want marriage or women and there is a prediction that in 2060 (30b years from now on) Chinese population will be reduced to half and ccp is very worried about it, all in all, their standards are too high....i mean it is the same everywhere tbh... Om Shanti

  • @mayankchaturvedi5670
    @mayankchaturvedi5670 5 месяцев назад +10

    You are very thoughtful, mature and wise woman. My deep respect to you

  • @itzsam3414
    @itzsam3414 5 месяцев назад +26

    Media & politics are dividing people, I love your honesty to speak the truth... it's not country or place which binds people... it's all about The mutual love,respect & cooperation between Two or more Human-Beings... That makes a Happy Family...other than that Everything is just A Blink of Eye... Life.
    Keep Going Forward.

    • @Babooshka-cp7nm
      @Babooshka-cp7nm 4 месяца назад

      Everyone gets along except for Muslim people.

  • @samir1333
    @samir1333 4 месяца назад +29

    Relatives are same everywhere. They count on person's downfall so that they can assert dominance over one's life.

  • @amod
    @amod 4 месяца назад +2

    I live in California. I’m Indian and my wife is Chinese. Our cultures are very similar emotionally, although we speak different languages and eat different food. It can totally work.

  • @derhasatbrahma2793
    @derhasatbrahma2793 5 месяцев назад +49

    As a Indian, Feeling sad for India! we loose to protect our self respect against china! We should be better one day !

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 4 месяца назад +15

      Get rid of your corruption and your class system and learn from former president of Singapore he did mention why India is so poor ...

    • @shivam-vm1bf
      @shivam-vm1bf 4 месяца назад

      ​@@areebachewa8318Lee's points are quite valid but their solutions are more important and lee didn't mentioned them anywhere bcuz noone in this world can actually run a country like India with so much diversity and on top of that with democracy where there are tons of problems. China and Singapore 's success stories are linked directly or indirectly. Maybe bcuz china's founding father was hugely inspired by lee's vision. India lacked , not bcuz he didn't desired to progress but bcuz of internal stability and due to federal structure. India's federal structure has always been like that from 15th century when Mughals from central Asia invaded Indus civilization and now , they are also called as part of India's history but in reality , they are nothing more than invaders. Indians believe that equal rights are for equal people not for all people and that's where we are lacking. Caste system is not to be blamed since most foreigners don't know that but lower caste people ( according to old caste system that has been abolished in India ) has more advantages in indian modern society than anyone else. It's just that they don't want to work for their future

    • @pulithevar8135
      @pulithevar8135 4 месяца назад

      @@areebachewa8318 Brain rot

    • @harpindersingh-ik6sh
      @harpindersingh-ik6sh 3 месяца назад +11

      @@areebachewa8318 a single person can't do anything to change a whole country.

    • @TheNTDote
      @TheNTDote 3 месяца назад +1

      @@areebachewa8318 We all wish to change that, but if only we have had the power to do so. If it's so easy, why don't you help us?

  • @Aryboba
    @Aryboba 5 месяцев назад +169

    It happens but u choose what u believe...

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +99

      @@Aryboba Many people always use other people's words to judge the good or bad of a thing.I don't like it. I like to see and hear for myself. I trust my judgment

    • @thebuttertree2867
      @thebuttertree2867 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@Yogitavlogs you are a strong woman. I respect that.

    • @Charliegagrai4958
      @Charliegagrai4958 4 месяца назад

      @@Yogitavlogs you are so sweet 💖💖💖

    • @mylord3003
      @mylord3003 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Yogitavlogsyour judgement was right. As of now are you both happy with each other? With more time, as Aman grows, things will fall in place

    • @Sushil00k
      @Sushil00k Месяц назад +1

      ​@@Yogitavlogs wow that's a great thought, I think you will teach me something really good today. 🤝🤝🤝

  • @shayanraj7840
    @shayanraj7840 4 месяца назад +44

    3:43 I think the exchange of Money , car or Gold should not happen from both side. Marraige should be like marraige.
    In India , many people have already talked against or abondoned Dowry or modern day 'Gift' system but still it is prevalent in majority area.

  • @highmountainwolf
    @highmountainwolf 4 месяца назад +5

    Very very honest personal story. Bravo for that

  • @r.chellaram4396
    @r.chellaram4396 3 месяца назад

    "Yogita: "EDUCATION DOESN'T EQUAL WISDOM" Beautiful . Yogits I admire your determination and rational . You are a strong woman I and many others support you and encourage you so you do not get discorage. Looking forward to hear more and learn from your experience

  • @ashwinidesigns
    @ashwinidesigns 5 месяцев назад +15

    Your English is fine.. We understand everything you said and your feelings.. Ignore your relatives.. You've got such a handsome beautiful son Aman.. And your love ..And support from all of us .. They must be jealous.. .. And your opinions are honest and you are a good person.. Keep going .. lots of love

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  2 дня назад +1

      thank your so much,my heart be touched by your words ❤

  • @vpw65
    @vpw65 5 месяцев назад +28

    Its changing but usually its the same attitude when you marry a foreigner in India. Same parochial attitude.

  • @avinashgore6258
    @avinashgore6258 4 месяца назад +9

    It is not easy, but we can make it work. Mutual respect, enthusiastic communication, ability to compromise is the foundation of a great relationship. Blessings and best wishes from an Indian American with multicultural exposure. 🙏

  • @ThunderLightStrikes
    @ThunderLightStrikes 3 месяца назад +1

    Such a brave, wise and beautiful girl. Ravi is lucky. Wish you a happy life ahead.

  • @ΝίκηΧανδρή
    @ΝίκηΧανδρή 4 месяца назад +3

    This is mind-blowing, with so many beautiful Chinese ladies single, unable to find a Chinese fellow of their calibre and education, they should be overjoyed that you found a handsome fellow whom you can live with and have a family. He's made many sacrifices as an Indian for you.

  • @madhusudhanavedantam726
    @madhusudhanavedantam726 5 месяцев назад +27

    Hi, I thought you are a serious person. But this video proved me utterly wrong. You are such nice girl and Ravi is so lucky to find true love. Aman is sooooo cute. God bless your family and make your wishes come true.

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  2 дня назад +1

      I understand you,i am looking very serious when i am not smiling,and i am also lucky to be with Ravi ❤

  • @AtulSharma-tx2zk
    @AtulSharma-tx2zk 5 месяцев назад +18

    Very honest confessions. Hats off to you 🎉....your's English is better than many English people's...

  • @amankathait1066
    @amankathait1066 5 месяцев назад +6

    Your are good person and morally High value woman, Ravi got a good person.

  • @tararamthapa4071
    @tararamthapa4071 Месяц назад

    Being an old Indian old baba. Give you lot of respect and good wishes for your future always god will keep you happy

  • @Lorem35
    @Lorem35 5 месяцев назад +19

    You took a very bold step mam...
    Going against your family for love.
    And I understand the mindset of common chinese people , and they are correct in one way or other..India is very far behind of China when it comes to development , safety , cleanliness and we too aspire growth like china.
    But corruption and less bold steps by government due to bad politics hamper India's growth.
    But with time slowly we will rise...🤕
    India is a vast country there are good people also and bad people also.
    But most Indians are humble in nature and Ravi bhai is one of them..😊
    Hope u always be happy in your life and may u and Ravi bhai prosper so much that your family will feel proud of u...🎉
    Love from ur brother from..🇮🇳

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 4 месяца назад +1

      You have a fair comment and if Ravi is a very good person he will find a way to unite her with her family since he is rich instead of him taking away from her family where he will find a way to compromise for her .... Living 1/2 year in China and living 1/2 year in India

  • @soumyasekharsar1591
    @soumyasekharsar1591 5 месяцев назад +36

    To be honest with you,if any Indian girl do the same like that ,the situation will be the same ,for men of any country it's not hard as girl to marriage international..

    • @oxy2986
      @oxy2986 4 месяца назад +7

      No I don't think so you can see many indian girls married to korean men and foreigners.
      The thing is family in india don't go this hard .
      Even in my family , if someone marries foreign girl we don't bothered that much . Even if she's chinese or korean . How have seen a lots of indians and listen about it marry out of religion, caste and foreign people.
      I never heard someone family ashamed of marrying black or to religion.
      People are afraid surely but not ashamed in india .

    • @SeekerSeeker
      @SeekerSeeker 4 месяца назад

      Come on how many member of your family marry a dalit SC boy?​@@oxy2986

    • @jamesanthony8234
      @jamesanthony8234 4 месяца назад

      are you blind? there are more indian girls in international relationships than indian boys.
      Indian girls love playing the victim card with no evidence 🤦‍♂️

    • @raghavnamasivayam8706
      @raghavnamasivayam8706 4 месяца назад +6

      ​@@oxy2986well we don't marry outside generally and those korean men those guys were against the marruage but then were okay

    • @raghavnamasivayam8706
      @raghavnamasivayam8706 4 месяца назад

      ​@@oxy2986we indian women don't marry black or foreigners

  • @prashantshinde4850
    @prashantshinde4850 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks for sharing! You both are good souls. Your families are good and concerned about you. Time heals. Good luck!

  • @pramodnelluri8382
    @pramodnelluri8382 4 месяца назад +1

    Yogita, your story is amazing. The way you narrated is cute. You are independent and brave. Wherever you live, you will be happy. God bless you!

  • @ankurnath7350
    @ankurnath7350 4 месяца назад +1

    You are going to live with a person the next 50-60 years ... In 21st century ofcourse you should be the one to decide ... All the best 🔥 and make sure Aman grow up to be a good, responsible person 🤗

  • @sujeetbiswas536
    @sujeetbiswas536 5 месяцев назад +28

    I believe india will rise it again. Golden era will come......
    India n china will rise

    • @bixby797
      @bixby797 4 месяца назад +5

      it'll never happen man

    • @StoryForKids111
      @StoryForKids111 4 месяца назад +9

      ​@@bixby797India already is a strong nation. Even uncle Sam thinks twice before muttering anything. CCP tasted the power in galwan. N India is the only country in the world which can visit and keep trade n defence deals with both west and the Russia.

    • @Waggingtailshavemyheart
      @Waggingtailshavemyheart 3 месяца назад

      China already Risen, India needs to come way up cannot happen untill corruption, reservation, bad politics, caste system these things are dealt with

    • @gnrdnbv4426
      @gnrdnbv4426 3 месяца назад

      Communist Chinese mentality difficult to change

  • @rahuldarknotz4382
    @rahuldarknotz4382 5 месяцев назад +56

    Ravi is a good person and you also No bad habit atall

  • @ssd_931
    @ssd_931 3 месяца назад +8

    Miss Yogita @ 1:35 in India every women doesn’t feed to cow & doesn’t take care of sheep . This is your misinterpretation about Indian village. In china every woman’s not a millionaire, like that in India every woman doesn’t doing same .

    • @itchyballs3129
      @itchyballs3129 2 месяца назад

      This shows she has no idea about village life and she doesn't know what to do in a village .

  • @AnilBahuman
    @AnilBahuman 2 месяца назад

    You have so much courage, and you faced so many obstacles just to follow your heart. I wish you all the best.
    Your story was truly inspiring! Your English was easy enough to understand for me and your sincerity shined through.

  • @madhunathan7591
    @madhunathan7591 2 месяца назад

    You are a good daughter who respects, appreciates and understands your parents. They raised a good daughter.

  • @PrinceRaj-xt8il
    @PrinceRaj-xt8il 5 месяцев назад +31

    You are really brave mam ❤
    Bt i think indian marriages last longer than any other countrys'(if you marry any Indian boy/girl).
    You did like it's said : Be yourself, rest of the world will adjust 💪💪

    • @comradeleppi2000
      @comradeleppi2000 4 месяца назад +1

      Chinese marriage are similar

    • @anempath24
      @anempath24 3 месяца назад

      @@comradeleppi2000 but there is no alimony in china.

    • @mSolace847
      @mSolace847 2 месяца назад

      ​@@anempath24 also bride's family don't need to give dowry in china

    • @anempath24
      @anempath24 2 месяца назад

      @@mSolace847 but in india or any democracy alimony & maintainance is compulsion. doesnt matter dowry was takem or not. and there is no Dowry in USA or Europe. still they have to give alimony.
      if u compare dowry with alimony then ban alimony in india as dowry is banned.
      the diff is u can avoid giving dowry. u van deny it. but aliomy is state sponsered extortion. there is no escape.

  • @Arvind-Singh1
    @Arvind-Singh1 5 месяцев назад +11

    Wish you all the BEST in your life 😀

  • @fashionwithmakeup
    @fashionwithmakeup 5 месяцев назад +53

    You dont need to learn English you speak good english, you Learn Hindi we all will get impressed god promise 😂

  • @rajpandit6630
    @rajpandit6630 3 месяца назад

    Brilliant stuff. Good luck. I can assure you that Indian men respect women.

  • @mkplays3361
    @mkplays3361 3 месяца назад

    Positivity and endurance just radiating from this woman, I pray all the peace and happiness to her family.

  • @amarjeetsingh6569
    @amarjeetsingh6569 5 месяцев назад +7

    We love you for being as a brave girl

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +6

      hahahhah Ravi said i am his fighting wife now

    • @amarjeetsingh6569
      @amarjeetsingh6569 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Yogitavlogs I know Chinese wifes are too much loyal towards there family.

    • @amarjeetsingh6569
      @amarjeetsingh6569 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Yogitavlogs because I have over 150 female friends in almost all your provinces

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@amarjeetsingh6569
      - :) 😀. Please check the divorce rate especially in the cities.
      - Culturally Chinese men don't think they need to be loyal to their wives.
      - So what do you imagine will be the result ?

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 5 месяцев назад

      @@Yogitavlogs
      - I can imagine... cultural divide is a lot.
      - Both need to be really patient.
      - One good way is to create good loving memories for each other every day.
      - Please please both MUST do this.
      - Marriage is a long journey.
      - At critical times, good memories will pull it through.
      - Asian men especially from traditional rural backgrounds can be egoistic.
      - They need to be aware & be very very sensitive to their partners needs & inner voice.
      - Because, reacting from their subconcious mind, without awareness, they will mess up, unknowingly.
      - Really Really hard for them to absorb that they are not the Boss of the family ... very hard ... only sustained love can cross that bridge ... & stresses of life can put pressure on that...

  • @Elysian_520
    @Elysian_520 5 месяцев назад +54

    The correct sentence will be: "My family is ashamed of me."
    Don't worry about mistakes, your english is still quite Understandable.
    I believe you'll definitely improve.

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +9

      @@Elysian_520 now i learned

    • @Elysian_520
      @Elysian_520 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Yogitavlogs 您可以使用 HelloTalk 学习英语, 我用它来学习中文。

    • @Truthiseverything13
      @Truthiseverything13 4 месяца назад

      Teri maa England se hai ya tera baap?

    • @tenzinnamgyal9902
      @tenzinnamgyal9902 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@YogitavlogsChinese go back from tibet

    • @JHenry906
      @JHenry906 4 месяца назад +3

      ​@@tenzinnamgyal9902 cry elsewhere, you got kicked out of Tibet, live there where you are. 😂

  • @superboy7398
    @superboy7398 4 месяца назад +13

    I am in vietnam and same situation here, Vietnamese people look down at Indians and marriage with Indian isn't considered respectful in upper class society. Lower class people do not have much problems though and they are very friendly. But Middle class and Upper class people behave exactly same as Chinese

    • @ANL111
      @ANL111 3 месяца назад

      Never heard anything so stupid like the comment I just read. Vietnamese looking down on Indians.😂😂😂

    • @KFaizan4857
      @KFaizan4857 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@ANL111 india is even poorer than Vietnam.

    • @gnrdnbv4426
      @gnrdnbv4426 3 месяца назад

      That’s because the upper classes are mainly ethnic Chinese

    • @gnrdnbv4426
      @gnrdnbv4426 3 месяца назад

      @@KFaizan4857Pakistan are beggars

    • @ilmakhanafridi9396
      @ilmakhanafridi9396 3 месяца назад

      ​@@KFaizan4857most of the Muslim nations are poorer than India

  • @sanketkale290
    @sanketkale290 3 месяца назад

    God Bless You !!! You have done good thing to marring to Indian Guy. You are always safe in Indian Culture.

  • @ThunderLightStrikes
    @ThunderLightStrikes 3 месяца назад

    Your English is good, We can understand and your articulation is excellent. Keep it up.

  • @vanlalkpvlogs4244
    @vanlalkpvlogs4244 5 месяцев назад +24

    We need good friendship 🇮🇳 India and 🇨🇳 china

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +8

      Yes,i hope so

    • @Elysian_520
      @Elysian_520 5 месяцев назад

      @@vanlalkpvlogs4244 TO BE HONEST, THE CHINESE ARE FRIENDLY PEOPLE, BUT THE FRIENDSHIP ISN'T IN FAVOR OF CHINA.
      THE REASONS ARE VARIOUS, LIKE THE DALAI LAMA IN INDIA, OUR BORDER DISPUTES, ARUNACHAL, AND TWO WARS IN THE PAST.
      NEITHER INDIA CAN TRUST CHINA, NOR CAN CHINA TRUST INDIA NOW.

    • @Elysian_520
      @Elysian_520 5 месяцев назад

      @@vanlalkpvlogs4244 TO BE HONEST, THE CHINESE ARE FRIENDLY PEOPLE, BUT THE FRIENDSHIP ISN'T IN FAVOR OF CHINA.
      THE REASONS ARE VARIOUS, LIKE THE DALAI LAMA IN INDIA, OUR BORDER DISPUTES, ARUNACHAL, AND TWO WARS IN THE PAST.
      NEITHER INDIA CAN TRUST CHINA, NOR CAN CHINA TRUST INDIA NOW.

  • @yashsrivastava4242
    @yashsrivastava4242 5 месяцев назад +6

    Nice vedio ,you are strong women who don't hesitates to take tough decision ,Love from india

  • @nathant382
    @nathant382 2 месяца назад

    Yogita u r really strong ,Independent and bravery. Gandhiji tells take time to think again and again once decided don't go back in your decision .

  • @aayjay2314
    @aayjay2314 Месяц назад

    You are an angel, Yogita Ji. And your husband Ravi is an exceptional gentleman. You both are made for each other.🎉 The world can scratch all it wants, let it go.... Enjoy life with any regrets as you and Ravi Ji have made the best decision - to be together forever.
    And your English is just fine! Keep up the spirit, young lady. My best wishes to Aman 😀

  • @EstudyX
    @EstudyX 5 месяцев назад +4

    Blessings for the future, things will normalise as it grows, India is more row and pure at its core. China too but it’s going more artificial that’s not good in long run

  • @Srikantab338
    @Srikantab338 5 месяцев назад +7

    Please continue regular video upload.

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +9

      I started to do some of my own work after my child started kindergarten, so I don't have enough time to update. This is my problem, I will listen to your opinion 🤔

    • @psr4550
      @psr4550 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Yogitavlogspls take your time and upload whenever you feel like you are free to do so

  • @ProfesorSridamDeAsia
    @ProfesorSridamDeAsia 4 месяца назад +85

    😂 i don't know if I should laugh, but sorry to say that there are millions of Europeans and Americans have Indian husbands,they love Indian men, while you are Chinese so you must feel proud of having a good Indian husband, in fact I saw whenever a Indian youtuber visits China he gets many marriage proposals 😅we don't leave our wives like others do ,so congratulations 🎉👏🏽

    • @browngb6628
      @browngb6628 4 месяца назад +16

      there aren't millions Indo-Europeans couples. just few thousands, less than 10k. Race mixing is very low and unpopular thing in Europe.

    • @moonriser464
      @moonriser464 4 месяца назад +8

      ​@@browngb6628 every street you walk in US there are mixed couples everywhere. It's a very common thing

    • @browngb6628
      @browngb6628 4 месяца назад +7

      @@moonriser464 US and EU are different things. AND Indians do less race mixing.

    • @AmusedArchery-eu9fq
      @AmusedArchery-eu9fq 4 месяца назад +4

      Come on bro Don't be an asshole let them live happily!

    • @adiroxlife
      @adiroxlife 4 месяца назад +3

      U don’t have to be rude . Every person family backgrounds is different

  • @AJ-rm7yy
    @AJ-rm7yy 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your story so eloquently. Your body language and thoughtful word choice made it easy to understand, even without a perfect command of the language.

  • @ranabir5887
    @ranabir5887 2 месяца назад

    Yogita, you are truly a brave woman to go against your parents and family expectations and living your life your way!!!
    REMEMBER FOR SURE : AN EASY AND SMOOTH MARRIAGE IS NOT A SURE PASSPORT FOR GETTING TRUE HAPPINESS. MOREOVER, A HUMAN SOUL IS NEITHER INDIAN OR CHINESE OR AMARICAN. I wish you and Ravi the very best in life's journey ahead. Keep sharing your original n authentic thoughts.

  • @PAMANsungtokOfficial
    @PAMANsungtokOfficial 5 месяцев назад +4

    Stay positive ❤❤

  • @TarunPatra-ef9bu
    @TarunPatra-ef9bu 5 месяцев назад +4

    I love from India (odisha)

  • @Snow_1959
    @Snow_1959 5 месяцев назад +25

    I think no quality difference between Chinese and Indian. Same quality both. 100% matched

  • @gyaniadmi2347
    @gyaniadmi2347 3 месяца назад

    You are a very wonderful woman.
    Education does not equal Wisdom.
    Well said 😊👍

  • @vikassrivastava7882
    @vikassrivastava7882 Месяц назад

    Ni hao Yogita, you are lucky woman to have Ravi bhai as your husband. May your family be blessed

  • @soumyasekharsar1591
    @soumyasekharsar1591 5 месяцев назад +14

    Now I know why Ravi still don't go to his in-laws house 😮

  • @yr_mothrs_husband
    @yr_mothrs_husband 4 месяца назад +3

    If not wrong it's housewife. 2:00

  • @sanjaychauhan1116
    @sanjaychauhan1116 5 месяцев назад +4

    As an indian ,I think u and ravi should live in china bcz it will be hard for u to adopt in india 🇮🇳 and also hard to find job.In india u will find lots of hatred against chinese gov bcz of 1962 india china war and china has captured our land. You will face racism as well in india.China is a developed country and u can live easy life, u can come to india for vacation .

    • @mercedesbenz3751
      @mercedesbenz3751 3 месяца назад

      She will not get the hate for Indo-China war, Indians are not that cheap. There are many chindian couples living in India. Example Jwala Gutta(a badminton player from India) mother is Chinese and they recently posted pictures on social media on Votings in India, she also voted as an Indian citizen. About racism, yes you might have to face it everywhere and come out strong. Indians too face the worst kind of racism in most countries and yet they become successful abroad.

  • @selvalingam1263
    @selvalingam1263 2 месяца назад

    Yes, money can never buy love & happiness but only through patience understanding. Inspite of all the hurdles, you have almost succeeded. Congratulations.
    வணக்கம் - Vanakkam.

  • @Tamilan-dn8ih
    @Tamilan-dn8ih 2 месяца назад

    Yes, there are many differences between these two countries but if individuals can get along, they do not matter much. Best wishes from Tamil Nadu, India.

  • @BFRC.Prof.SanjayYadav
    @BFRC.Prof.SanjayYadav 5 месяцев назад +4

    India has place for Fashion entrepreneurship,think about it..Yogita,as you're.Coming to invest in a India City,first take time to explore that city,then shortlist buying property there for your new business development, whether it's fashion or small Chinese Restaurant that will make yourself self-financed and powerful in future family growth.🌲🌹🌳🙏All the best 🙏

    • @sayan9436
      @sayan9436 4 месяца назад

      She can earn through TRADING . By staying at home only

  • @badmashdogesh3939
    @badmashdogesh3939 4 месяца назад +3

    I think there is nothing to be ashame of being married to Indian guy. Many white women are married to indian guys. Plus, India is one of the greatest civilizations beside china.
    I understand that chinese give high preference to money but money is not everything. Money will come and go. Our karma decides our journey.

  • @RajeevKumar-mu9wb
    @RajeevKumar-mu9wb 4 месяца назад +10

    Hi Yogita. Your parents were genuinly concerned because news channel show negative about India and China as well. Indians are the most successful immigrants in whichever country they go. More than half of doctors in USA and UK are from India. Indians from Gujarat dominate the Motel Industry in USA. Computer Engineers and scientists from India form backbone of industries in USA and Europe. That is a fact.
    Anyways we are proud that Ravi bhai chose one of the most beautiful slim tall and good girl from China. Also we are proud that you stood by Ravi all this time. Things will get better with time with your parents. After all they care about you. But Ravi is a gem who will be there for you till his last breath. I can tell that just by looking at his videos. All the best lovely girl....❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @sabarinathan6554
      @sabarinathan6554 2 месяца назад +1

      🥱

    • @shantanusingh7600
      @shantanusingh7600 2 месяца назад

      In USA not India bhai... apni bhen ki shaadi agr Africa me krega toh hum bhi yei sochenge to be honest.

    • @RajeevKumar-mu9wb
      @RajeevKumar-mu9wb 2 месяца назад

      @@shantanusingh7600 Bro India is no 5 economy soon to be no 3. Be proud of it. We need to work hard to beat China and USA one day.............. But we need to support NDA For that

  • @cybersipahifan5272
    @cybersipahifan5272 4 месяца назад +1

    I respect your parents, they gave us Yogita bhabhi, and I assure them India is much stronger and safe than many other asian countries.
    We love you both.

  • @jofferycoutinho4292
    @jofferycoutinho4292 4 месяца назад

    Pure hearted girl .
    Dear girl u are in safe
    hands...salute ......

  • @hardiktrivedi5506
    @hardiktrivedi5506 4 месяца назад +13

    Dowry is illegal in India

    • @bixby797
      @bixby797 4 месяца назад +15

      only in books

    • @animefreak-san489
      @animefreak-san489 4 месяца назад +7

      Yeah, marriage without dowry is a nobility that is done only by descent families. Dowry is still practiced in many parts of India.

    • @princeverma8107
      @princeverma8107 4 месяца назад +1

      What about after divorce money Even husband found his wife cheat in her That doesn't matter husband have to gave money after divorce

    • @mypackmypower1996
      @mypackmypower1996 4 месяца назад +2

      Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal 😂
      Rip to all men in India

    • @tulika_9519
      @tulika_9519 4 месяца назад

      ​@@mypackmypower1996 Indian men are crying when divorce rate is not even 1% in India...lol. imagine if Indian women start asking for divorce like Chinese women..
      Chinese women get dowry Money also... DOUBLE BENEFIT.
      Indian women don't even get social and family security...and bs husbands too. They are not allowed to work also...
      BUT CRYING BECAUSE *WOMEN GET ALIMONY BRUH*...In a country where women are thrown out of her husband's house without divorce also.

  • @AgastyaVed
    @AgastyaVed 5 месяцев назад +5

    We were friendly nation for over 1000s of years but after colonisation our cultural connection was shattered..we can dominate this world even in this age but only if we work together.

    • @bipash_9720
      @bipash_9720 5 месяцев назад

      Lol nobody loves chinese and their country except pakistan..why do we need to go with them????

    • @Êíøw57
      @Êíøw57 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Bhavishiavaniso true , it's been 76 years and still we Indians believe in collectiveness and open society where everyone is good enough. But in Chinese society , it's quite opposite it's like they are in some sort of race that they need to win at all cost. Indian thinking is so much different from them. Indians don't desire to win that much dedicatedly as Chinese. And yeah , they are very cautious about things as well and in modern era , they got India as a poverty stricken and rapist country image in their mind and I can't really deny this thing since India ranked one of the most raped countries though china as well but you know , cleanliness , infrastructure and civic sense. They have better than us

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 4 месяца назад

      @@Êíøw57
      - You are trying to highlight rape in India indirectly.
      - Look through all the comments by Chinese people & you will not find a single negative comment about their own country.
      LEARN SOMETHING
      - is China perfect ?
      - The answers my friend are blowing in the wind :).

    • @Êíøw57
      @Êíøw57 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Bhavishiavani denying and covering aren't the solution .. regardless of my comment , every other foreigner thinks India as a highly unsafe

    • @Bhavishiavani
      @Bhavishiavani 4 месяца назад

      @@Êíøw57
      - Because a foreigner thinks it is unsafe it is ?
      - Have you fact checked ? ;)
      - India is NOT ranked as high as media has led you to believe !
      - We don't need to look to outsiders for validation... for how long shall we do that ?
      - Are you aware that 5 % of European women are raped and that 10 % have been sexually abused ?
      - That Sweden , Norway etc have more rape than India.
      - There are many Chinese women who travel to India on business alone freely (now visa issue) and love India.
      - When you write the way you do, people get wrong ideas about India.
      - So I request, please don't use social media to exaggerate negativities about your own people.
      - If a Chinese person and they never criticize their own sees you write like this, coming from their own culture , they think things are a war zone for women in India.This is not true.
      - So much of India is extremely safe for women in India who live normal lives .
      - All the negativity in our newspapers that is systematically spread across that country constantly.
      - India is bad news in China, to the extent that rarely would a Chinese girl marry an Indian.
      - So I request please be balanced about what you write on social media.
      - Thats all. Rest is up to you.
      - Learn good things from the Chinese : )

  • @eastman40
    @eastman40 4 месяца назад +7

    You were marrying him and you did. Your parents were not marrying him. So on that note, be proud of yourself

  • @rickyapuri5495
    @rickyapuri5495 3 месяца назад

    Interesting to know what you are going through. I have similar experiance like you. I am Indian my wife is from Shanghai we got married and lived in Shanghai for 8 years. I have experianced similar issues like you. But we are doing good now. you need to speak to my wife to find ways to overcome these problems. Me and my wife are blessed with a little girl and I hope we could connect to share experiences and hope to support you. I'd love to hear from you. Take care and all the best.

  • @Ankit-hs9nb
    @Ankit-hs9nb 3 месяца назад

    Awesome story! love it

  • @abmujvek1
    @abmujvek1 4 месяца назад +10

    Yogita, India's civilizational history predates Chinas by thousands of years. Half of Chinese culture comes from India itself. India was richer than China for most of human history. Tell your parents all these things!

    • @JHenry906
      @JHenry906 4 месяца назад +1

      Source: Too much Kaaw piss has clogged my tiny-sized Pjeeet brain.

    • @weingkham4033
      @weingkham4033 3 месяца назад +1

      Why to talk about past....talk about present....n which culture u are talking about....i think buddhism right....for ur information most chinese are atheist

    • @JHenry906
      @JHenry906 3 месяца назад

      @@abmujvek1 Source: Too much kww piss consumption has clogged my tiny-sized Pjeeet brain. 😆🇮🇳

  • @rgghiye8739
    @rgghiye8739 5 месяцев назад +13

    Chinese people highly intelligent and kind people ,but what your parents told you about our country is correct ,this is facts and reality of this country ,we are not civilized country ,when you live here you will get it and feel what your parents told you is right ,here problems are infinite ,china 70 years ahead in everything in India ,i still think it is better for your family to live in china ,and your son ,for good education and civilized upbringing of him , people leaving India in large numbers for a reason 😢 understand

    • @ankitbhattji
      @ankitbhattji 5 месяцев назад +6

      False comment and fake id

    • @thebuttertree2867
      @thebuttertree2867 5 месяцев назад

      people leaving china are more in numbers and their tries to stop them even then numbers are big.

    • @rgghiye8739
      @rgghiye8739 5 месяцев назад

      @@ankitbhattji do you know reality of our country ,what fake I'd ? What her parents said about our country isn't true ? Or do you live anywhere else , woman not get respected as men ,so many girls killed by man just because they said no or break up , foreigners getting raped , students exam leaks, students died by electricity in coaching institute ,fake IAS officer , train accidents happened one after another,Delhi airport accidents,Bihar road collapse,woman gets killed because she didn't serv husband dinner ,is this called respect , civilized society , Chinese thinking and way of living you can't imagine cause we used to our backward third class society and thinking

    • @CucaTour
      @CucaTour 5 месяцев назад +10

      Are you one of those relatives she talking about?💀😭

    • @areebachewa8318
      @areebachewa8318 4 месяца назад

      Well Indian are good in lying for your sure and he give a true comments that you cannot handle and try to get rid of your class system and corruption

  • @Mrnothingbro
    @Mrnothingbro 5 месяцев назад +4

    ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @RanbirSingh-dh4ux
    @RanbirSingh-dh4ux 3 месяца назад

    you are brave, every marriage is a gamble. U never know how the things are going to fall in place.
    Good Luck wish you all the best.

  • @SusantaHazra-dc9xw
    @SusantaHazra-dc9xw 4 месяца назад +2

    Yogita... I'm feeling very bad for you for this situation. I hope your family will understand the happiness of both of you. Don't take your parents wrong. They care about you. That's why they are feeling bad. But very soon they will understand your feelings, afterall you are their lovely daughter. Good luck 👍

  • @nareshsingh3394
    @nareshsingh3394 4 месяца назад +3

    Tell your parents that for the first time you will experience how to eat food that does not contain 4 legs,2 legs,does not fly,crawl,jump,swim,run .Your food will offer itself to you,not run away from you.

    • @IlmiMulhid
      @IlmiMulhid 4 месяца назад +2

      Lol, Chinese can also have veg food.

    • @weingkham4033
      @weingkham4033 3 месяца назад +2

      Thats a asian food....in that sense we can also say....we dont eat cow poop

  • @UnknownMen-00
    @UnknownMen-00 4 месяца назад +3

    6:52 it's not ur parents fault they know what ccp told them full of negativity

    • @ploplmao2655
      @ploplmao2655 4 месяца назад

      The chinese government never said bad things about India. Stop spreading lies.

    • @UnknownMen-00
      @UnknownMen-00 4 месяца назад

      @@ploplmao2655 ccp always spread negative about india stop manipulating the facts

  • @skkoul7756
    @skkoul7756 2 месяца назад

    You are DIL of India .you are sincere , honest ,. you have won the first battle by marrying Ravi . Rest too will pass peacefully.be sincere in your relationship.one cannot live with one thought for ever .your honesty will pay you in the long run. Take care . n good luck.

  • @Reema-k6n
    @Reema-k6n 3 месяца назад

    Despite the troubles you have faced, I hope you're family life is filled with happiness.

  • @Arun76541
    @Arun76541 5 месяцев назад +7

    Chinese girls are so expensive 😂

    • @Yogitavlogs
      @Yogitavlogs  5 месяцев назад +12

      Yes! It is! That is one of reasons why my grandfather are getting angry with me,He said I wasted money.

    • @thebuttertree2867
      @thebuttertree2867 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Yogitavlogs LOL 😁

    • @Cateater123
      @Cateater123 3 месяца назад

      It's just dilusional lmao thanks I'm not chinese lmao .
      Cause i ain't paying single penny . I'm the man bro women need commitment. The man is the catch .

  • @S_R_90x
    @S_R_90x 4 месяца назад

    Social Media & Traditional Media promotes so many lies, misinformation and misleading information against India . You have a clean and pure heart and your love is genuine and real... That alone is worth everything

  • @MadanPoudel-v4v
    @MadanPoudel-v4v 23 дня назад

    you are so beautiful,independent girl and too loyal for love ..really you are a good inspiration for all true lovers ..