All the abuse in the world doesn't take away from the fact that he shouldn't be characterized as relying on a relationship to 'Fix Him'. It may not be abusive, but it's pretty fucking toxic on both ends.
Abusers can feel guilt. Which, ironically, can lead to more abuse. They might see their guilt as sign of victimhood. Or, if their abusive behaviour is linked to them having low self esteem, guilt and shame can exacerbate this by causing them to further devalue themselves. Guilt can perpetuate an abusive cycle by leading to a 'honeymoon period' after an abusive incident.
I love this part in the books so much. U really feel their love, their pain. Their raw emotions. U can tell they missed one another. But becasue of who they are and their stubborn nature they just don't acknowledge it to one another. 🙄. This scene sums it up beautifully. Even how they portrayed the emotions when he visits her in Seattle for the 1st time. In the book she literally runs to him. It was the cutest. They had the most passionate relationship. I hope with the next movie they stay true to the books though. I don't want to experience another GOT ending.
1:38 how I feel ever since got back together with my gf hearing her sad story for the first time I start dreaming about her best friend brother 😔🥺💔 when I woke up I start being not myself anymore it’s stressful being a over protective girlfriend it’s freaking dark knowing she’s okay or not n few nights again I wanna tell her but I’m scared I’m bring back her memory 😢💔
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I like the scene because there was a lot of communication he was open with her but his losing her and I like that I like that
People see his raw emotion and still say he’s abusive, sorry but abusers don’t feel guilty. He isn’t abusive, he’s damaged.
yup
Yes
Exacly, people need to realise he's the way he ia because of his past
All the abuse in the world doesn't take away from the fact that he shouldn't be characterized as relying on a relationship to 'Fix Him'.
It may not be abusive, but it's pretty fucking toxic on both ends.
Abusers can feel guilt. Which, ironically, can lead to more abuse. They might see their guilt as sign of victimhood. Or, if their abusive behaviour is linked to them having low self esteem, guilt and shame can exacerbate this by causing them to further devalue themselves. Guilt can perpetuate an abusive cycle by leading to a 'honeymoon period' after an abusive incident.
I love this part in the books so much. U really feel their love, their pain. Their raw emotions. U can tell they missed one another. But becasue of who they are and their stubborn nature they just don't acknowledge it to one another. 🙄. This scene sums it up beautifully. Even how they portrayed the emotions when he visits her in Seattle for the 1st time. In the book she literally runs to him. It was the cutest. They had the most passionate relationship. I hope with the next movie they stay true to the books though. I don't want to experience another GOT ending.
Just wish that this type of love really exists in reality and not just a movie.
I'm an example, it exists
Basically just be troubled in a relationship
The fact that this was a fanfic about Harry styles is so hilarious to me but good books and films overall
1:38 how I feel ever since got back together with my gf hearing her sad story for the first time I start dreaming about her best friend brother 😔🥺💔 when I woke up I start being not myself anymore it’s stressful being a over protective girlfriend it’s freaking dark knowing she’s okay or not n few nights again I wanna tell her but I’m scared I’m bring back her memory 😢💔
😢😢😢
Damnnnn