Hello mga ka-moving forward! From a few weeks in this ep, it has already been a few months. Ang masasabi ko lang is: kapit lang kayo. The only way out is THROUGH! Trust and love yourself enough to know that you will grow and be happy again. 🌱 Try redirecting all the energy and effort you gave into the relationship back to YOURSELF. Swear, 10/10 best feeling in the world. ❤️
I can get Maui's case. And I quote: "some people aren’t flooded with emotions after a major loss-instead, they feel nothing." And it's fine. Di naman tayo pare-pareho and di dapat dinidismiss ang mga tao na ganun ang feeling saying that they lack emotional investment or they never loved that person.
Im same with Maui. When i/we decide to break up. Thats it for me. Its not emotionless on my part. But rather, i have fixated and standfirm in my/our decision to break-up. I think that what makes us all human and unique. Some may agree, some may not. Whats important is rising from the situation.
Yea kind of true. May mga tao lang talaga na sobrang childish sa ganitong bagay. Like, isang araw lang pagkatapos nyo mag break tas nakahanap ka na ng bago biglang sasabihin sayo na parang walang pinagsamahan. Like wtf?
Bottom line: Feel what you feel. Slowly... Process the feelings and do something about it whenever you are ready. In time you'll got it! Cheering for you!
Punyeta! Tawang-tawa ako dun sa part na may talong na lumilipad. Nagtataka ako kung ano meron sa talong tas biglang sinabi "na-choke ako" HAHAHAHAHAHAH
My ex and I broke up a month before quarantine. I didn't actually grieve after the breakup, in fact I was already talking with someone new after a month. I just told myself "Okay, nag decide na siya, let's move forward and focus on school na lang." At that time I was still going to school, so the whole month before quarantine started, I was doing fine. I thought I unconsciously moved on, but I actually ran away from it. I kept on denying and telling myself "Hindi okay ka na, nakamove-on ka na. Di mo na nga siya naiisip diba?" It was then that I realized that making myself busy was just an excuse to ran away from my feelings and bottling it up made it worse. Now that we're almost a year in quarantine, nothing to do, alone in our rooms with our thoughts, it eventually exploded. I didn't know what to do, I just sat there in the middle of my room crying, and telling myself "Kasalanan mo to kaya nag break kayo, you didn't give him a chance back then, and pinagsisisihan mo yon ngayon. Ngayong may bago na siya, tsaka mo lang narealize na you still had feelings for him even after months of breaking up." Making myself busy was an excuse to not think about the break up, but I just ran away from it and it was not moving on. Now I have to go back to phase 1 of moving on, which is grieve. As much as possible don't run away from your feelings, confront it. Because if you do, everything will be easier after, I promise.
Ganda ng mga sinabi nyo! ❤️ As a person na almost a year na since my last break up and naka move on na, this would be my advice: If you are a person na kailangan umiyak, umiyak ka. If gusto mo pa maghabol, maghabol ka. If you feel communicating sa mga taong involved & related sa inyo, go communicate with them. Tapos darating din yung time na ikaw na yung masasaktan sa ginagawa mo and if that time comes, that's your turning point already to stop all of it. Magkukusa kang tumigil kasi alam mong masyado ka ng nasasaktan at tama na kasi oras mo na yon para sa intindihin naman yung sarili mo alone. That's what I did. I had that turning point and now I'm me again doing better ❤️ Sa lahat ng nagmo move on dyan, sana wag kayo matagalan. Makaka alwas ka rin dyan 💪
Always trust the process. Never madaliin ang pag-move on. Kung naiiyak ka pa, iiyak mo lang. 'di naman kasi talaga madali lalo na kung more than a year din kayong nagsama. Pero also remember na after grieving you have to pick up yourself and be optimistic na everything will be all right. Kasi this time, you're not starting from scratch.
i feel kuya Jan, my 1st relationship ended nung april, i had to force myself to move-forward even though labag siya sa kalooban ko, i was looking for some distractions, nakahanap pero balik pa rin ng balik sa grieving stage, a quarantine break-up doesn't have a proper adjective word to describe how painful it is. Pang 6th na buwan na simula nung break-up namin pero I am still asking myself if mahal ko pa ba siya or hindi na. After watching this episode, i realized na hindi pala sagot yung paghahanap ko ng distractions nor iwasan because pains are meant to be felt, endure it until it hurts no more.
welcome to the club ms jan! 😘 anywaaaaay, hope this helps. I just got out of a toxic relationship. Ang masasabi ko lang is that, never ever ever lose YOU in the process of loving someone else because that'll be the greatest disservice that you can do to yourself. After every breakup naman, there's hope, life, and light again. Just keep moving forward. It may seem difficult pero it's only in the beginning. Embrace the pain and learn to accept how things have transpired. It's not an easy task especially if you really loved the person pero what matters now is you being able to stand the storm. I hope that you find the love that you deserve. Kapit lang. Laban lagi! 💚💚💚
Gawd. I’ve been moving on for almost 2 years and I still think I’m floating. There definitely are good days where I don’t think of him and other days I wallow in every memories and possibilities with him. I made a mistake in making him my world. Not that I didn’t leave anything for myself, I sort of made him my source of happiness and when he was out, that happiness just disappeared. Last year, I coped and found ways to distract myself but it costed me a lot. Traveling is my go to for distractions, be that out of the country, the beach or just the malls. Goodness, that was costly. At least though, the pain waned little by little. Now in quarantine, I’m stuck in a room where we used to live together and it’s just sad being cooped. Everyday is a struggle for me mentally. Those memories in my subconscious just keep popping out. It’s so hard. I try to keep myself busy and whenever I think of him I just slap myself back to reality, that it’s over. I wish I could move on fully soon.
@@pearlmaemil7367 Wow, more than two years. Gosh, how long do you think this will last? I plan on moving to a different city just to start over, start fresh. I hope this will boost my will to move on. Laban lang.
Di ako alam. Everytime i move forward, may makita lang ako or maalala, i always go two steps backward. Nakakapagod na din. Nawawala, bumabalik, eto nanaman ang peg hahahaha. I promised myself na ayoko na. Pero everytime nakikita ko sya, nababali nanaman promise ko. Saklap pa na same circle of friends lang kami 😂 pero kaya natin to, mapapagod din tayo and bka bukas pag gising natin, okay na ulit lahat. If you think it'll help you move on, then go for it. ❤️
Okay. Everyone is different with how they react or cope with a break up. Some are "indifferent" But may have that lingering feeling they might not be aware of or don't want to acknowledge. It's completely normal and valid. You may also be the one that has a hard time and resort to drinking etc. And though bad, it's still valid. How we move on varies from one person to the next. The important thing is we learn to love ourselves and care for ourselves afterwards
Maui and my ex have the same mindset. I wish I could be like them so that I don’t have to go through the pain of being left for another person. We broke up a month ago and I had no choice but to accept his decision. What I did was I focused on studying to distract myself and went back to the province to be with the people that I care about. I’m still moving forward as of now. A tip for you guys is to trust the process and know that it is not the end of the world. There are a lot of good things out there. ❤️
Honestly, i came into the same situation as Jan. A quarantine break-up. But watching this again today, confirms that I have moved on. Quarantine really forced us to deal with things alone. It help cause I was able to realize many things about that relationship and how it should’ve ended even before the pandemic. Thank you Ms Jan for the inspiration. I aspire to be Ms Jan!
When it's done, it's done. I mean no matter what the reason is, at the end of the day all you need is acceptance. There might be times, that relationships may have a second blow but most of the time, it's a bye bye situation. Haist i love this ep.
Kaka break lang namin mula sa very toxic relationship 3 days ago, and I really appreciate you guys! Einj, Adea, Jan, and Maui! I am so glad I follow y'all. Thank you so much!
Cried buckets. Couldn't eat, couldn't focus for a month. But experiencing break up during quarantine helped me appreciate and take care of myself more. Nagawa ko yung mga bagay na gusto kong simulan before. It's okay to grieve, but at some point, kahit gaano pa katagal, dapat matapos din yung pag-grieve at tulungan ang sarili na maka-move forward. Kaya mo 'yan!
Very relate (na naman) with Adeaaaa~ ALAK ANG SAGOT SA SAKIT! Lol. But, as Miss Jan had said, let us acknowledge our pain and trust the process of moving on. Most importantly, mas isipin pa rin ang mga sarili nating kapakanan.
Thank you so much for this topic, because I actually watched a Rec•Create video after my most recent break-up, and nab-binge watch talaga ko kayo from time to time haha. So in a way, you guys are part of my moving forward process, and towards sa new life ko. Lagi ako babalik-balik to watch your videos. Thank you so much, once more:)
Moving on and getting over Are not the same, it seems to me 'Cause you've been gone, I'm growing older But I still can't seem to get you off my mind And I do believe I feel you all the time
I know no one asked pero one of the hardest part siguro ng moving on is yung kapag dumating na yung time na ready ka na na ilet go yung good/happy feeling & memories na you had with them. Alam mo yun, ready ka na. Sure ka na. Alam mong hindi ka na aatras. Alam mong bibitaw ka na. Yung tanggap mo nang dumaan lang kayo sa buhay ng isa't isa to make each other feel something good for a while.
sa nag momove on ngaun regardless of what you have been through e.i acads, love life or any burden in your heart and mind i am praying for yall a peace of mind. And to the people around you i advice that please dont invalidate someones struggle cuz we have different pace in copping up! peace!! laban lang.
Had the same experience with Jan 🥺 and all I can say is SOBRANG HIRAP. Imagine nakakulong ka lang and walang magawa because of the quarantine, you can’t even hug your friends ☹️
Reminisce the good. Try and find the lessons. Embrace the hurt. Rekindle happy relationships (friendships, family, etc.) Walk forward. Rinse and repeat.
Thank you sa episode nato. As a dood na kakahiwalay lang last September from my first relationship (which lasted for a year and 7 months), this helped me a lot. I was confused and questioning myself kasi para akong si Einj at Maui na wala na agad nararamdam (like after we broke up, parang inilabas ko lang for a day yung mga rants ko and ok na). People would always tell me na I need time to grieve and ilabas ko daw lahat ng emotions ko pero parang wala naman talaga e. Akala ko there's something wrong with me pero may mga ganung tao pala talaga. Thank you, next!
I recently broke up with my “ex now” and just like Jan Angelo, why this time? The time of pandemic, nagtatanong ako if naghiwalay ba kami cuz we don’t love each other na or just because of the stress with this pandemic na hindi na kami naka pag-isip ng tama, mahirap kasi wala ka talagang magawa para maibsan yun sakit kundi isang buhos ng luha nalang. Ang sakin nalang acceptance and PRAY! Ma he-heal at magiging happy rin naman very soon. 🙏💙 love yourself and stay safe.
Ngayon ko lang to pinanood kase i was going thru somethin din the day this was published but thankful ako na we had the right closure and she told me that i just need to mature and make amends to my mistakes that i did in the past for her to accept me ulit. She had a point that's why i wanna suggest a topic that would tackle about "how should someone mature/ grow to be a better lover or person". And Jan please bring back your nike cortez lmao love lots rec•create! I've learned so many things from you guys that's why i will never get tired on watching your videos as well as sharing your channel to my other friends that might need your vids. That's all guys. Thankyooouuuuu!
I broke up with my ex last June 2020 before Independence Day. It was my first serious relationship. I broke up with that person through chat because it’s quarantine and there’s a lockdown so we cannot go out and see each other. I talked to that person and yes it was painful on both sides because we really love each other. The problem was on me. I really need to focus on myself because my problems piled up and I don’t know where to start. It was the hardest point in my life. I don’t know what to do. And I think I cannot grow on my own when I’m being committed with someone. So, I told my ex that I need to focus on myself, solve my problems first and for me to do that was to be single again. It was a painful decision but a relief. After that breakup, I accepted it (like Kuys Maui) and kept myself busy. I went on biking, hiking, swimming, and did other activities (I brought back my plantito hands lol). I also managed to solve my problems and found myself growing and it made me feel better. It made me love and value myself more. Maybe grieving was not my coping mechanism in moving on. Right person, wrong timing lang talaga.
I guess it’s ok to move on fast basta di sya rebound or trying to hurt your ex. As long as it’s bc you’re happy with the new person, gora move on ka lang.😊
This set of people really do compliment each other...my perfect kind of mix! ❤💚💙💜💛❣ Hope you can do at least twice or thrice a week vlog...always on the loop for new unfiltered eps! Kudos Rec•Create team! Keep safe! Also for those people who are moving on with whatever situation, don't forget to forgive yourself too! 😉👌
relate much kay Jan talaga like sobrang hirap kapag quarantine tapos wala na kayo ng tao. Ang hirap gumalaw-galaw dahil limited lang lahat dahil pandemic. One thing na masasabi ko na pinakaimportante sa moving on is acceptance. I understand Maui sometimes if you choose to accept agad hindi ka na mahihirapan eh. Anyways, nasa atin pa rin ang desisyon as long na hindi tayo nakakasagasa ng ibang tao edi G!
I still believe that the best way to move on is to find someone who will comfort and makes you feel loved again. Sound selfish but it’s the reality, you move on with a different person.
"whatever you're feeling, feel it" yes nemen tama yung sinabi ko sa kaibigan kong broken. we can't always be happy naman kase kailangan ren naten malungkot to feel alive
Ako kasi, it takes a few weeks bago ko ma-realize na totoo na pala. Saka pa lang nagsi-sink in na break na pala talaga kami. Ito yung mga times na nami-miss mo na sya at yung mga moments nyo together. Moving on, gustong gusto ko umiyak, kaya nakikinig ako ng mga senti songs kahit hindi naman ako mahilig sa music. Kain ako ng kain. Nood ng mga romantic movies. Tas nagkukulong lang ako sa kwarto. I isolate myself. Then I just talk to few good friends over the phone. I don't go out. 2nd phase ng moving on process ko, anger. Ewan ko, pero effective naman. Once I started hating my ex, I usually start losing interest. Then, that's the time I begin to forget. Matagal ako mag-move on. It takes months, sometimes years. Minsan napapanaginipan ko pa yung hayop! Char. Then, kapag medyo nakakalimot na ako, saka pa lang ako makikipagkita sa mga kaibigan ko to hang out or go somewhere. The farther, the better. Then, I'll open up myself to new people. Ready nang maglandi! Oh, before I forget, I delete all our photos and block my ex from all my social media. Including friends and family.
I feel you Jan. Oo, sobrang hirap mag move on kapag walang distractions at hindi mo nakakasama mga kaibigan mo. Sometimes, a hug from a friend can mend a shattered piece of yourself. Thus, it's really hard to do so in this pandemic. Pero makaka move on din tayo Jan. Kaya natin to.
I didn't skip the Ads para may pambili ng Furnitures haha! Same experience with Einj para akong nabunutan ng tinik. It was a huuuge relief when my ex and I broke up.
I feel like si Maui yung type ng person na hindi ni lolook forward yung kung anong mangyayare sa kanila nung GF nya in the future. Like yung magiimagine ng ikakasal kami ng babaeng to and maraming imaginations pa na happy ending kahit di naman talaga sigurado na mangyayare yun sa future. Thats why after break up nya is hindi nya masyadong dadamdamin talaga yun. Idk if thats true but i think its also a good thing na you dont invest too much to your partner kasi nga hindi niyo hawak yung future but nasasa inyo pa din kung kayo yung gagawa ng tinatawag na "tadhana" niyo 😉
your opinion about "freedom" and "human rights" i have a twt says "people greeds for freedom may lead to chaos" and thanks. for a good and open minded content..
Nakarelate ako kay einj! Na habang kayo pa nagmomove on kana. Like, di na healthy ung relationship. And toxic nalang siya, and may hinihintay mo kung may magbabago pa. Tapos kapag napag usapan nyo na ng ex partner doon papasok ung sinasabi ni maui na kapag tapos na tapos na.
Currently sharing the same experience with Jan. A break up during quarantine is really difficult especially when you're not close with your parents and you have no one to talk to. My mood is always off and I don't even have a will to do my school works. Until one day, I decided to talk to God and told him everything that hurts me. Whenever I feel so sad and lonely, I'll just watch some inspirational videos from Pastor Steven Furtick and other vids to help me get through with this feeling.
Eto ang kailangan ko now, im still moving on with my last jowa almost a year na kaming break pero until now mahal ko pa sya at umaasa pa din ako, ang pinaka masakit ay yung umasa ako sa mga sinasabi nya na okay pa maayos pa pero ang hindi ko alam may bago na pala sya PINAASA NYA LANG AKO. Thankyou for this video.
Most important is prioritize yourself. It's your time to focus and learn more about yourself. ALSO, TAKE YOUR TIME NO RUSH. Appreciate all the things around you even the people who are there for you. (Pero pwede pa rin makinig sa madramang mga kanta. Hahahahaha) ☺️
Hello mga ka-moving forward! From a few weeks in this ep, it has already been a few months. Ang masasabi ko lang is: kapit lang kayo. The only way out is THROUGH! Trust and love yourself enough to know that you will grow and be happy again. 🌱
Try redirecting all the energy and effort you gave into the relationship back to YOURSELF. Swear, 10/10 best feeling in the world. ❤️
Amen
Awww hugs Miss Jan!
sabi nga... LOVING YOURSELF is the greatest love of all... 🍻 for totally moving on, Jan! Stay safe and LOVED! 💕
love u jaaaaaaaaaaaaan hugs ❤️❤️
Hahaha! High five!
I can get Maui's case. And I quote: "some people aren’t flooded with emotions after a major loss-instead, they feel nothing." And it's fine. Di naman tayo pare-pareho and di dapat dinidismiss ang mga tao na ganun ang feeling saying that they lack emotional investment or they never loved that person.
I was the same, kasi nga I really thought it was the right thing to do that time, but then a couple months passed, ang grabe yung paglolong ko for him
Im same with Maui. When i/we decide to break up. Thats it for me. Its not emotionless on my part. But rather, i have fixated and standfirm in my/our decision to break-up. I think that what makes us all human and unique. Some may agree, some may not. Whats important is rising from the situation.
Yea kind of true. May mga tao lang talaga na sobrang childish sa ganitong bagay. Like, isang araw lang pagkatapos nyo mag break tas nakahanap ka na ng bago biglang sasabihin sayo na parang walang pinagsamahan. Like wtf?
Ako lang ba yung nag ppause ng video then kunyare nag sasabe din ako ng insight ko kapag may tanong HAHAHAHAHA
Same here haha
Saaaaame. Partida single ako since birth lmaaao anong pinaglalaban ko 😭🤣
@@ohyikes5743 para prepared ka na daw pag nagbreak kayo ng soon to be jowa mo hahah
@Michael Cueva true
Same heree lol 🤣
Maui be like: "pasensya ka na ha, God bless"
Hahahahahahahahahaha
POTA HAHAHHHAHAHAH
Bottom line:
Feel what you feel. Slowly... Process the feelings and do something about it whenever you are ready. In time you'll got it! Cheering for you!
Alak!
Dooooc aaaalviiinn! ❤️
hi doc
stay safe
omg nakita na naman kita dito Doc!!!!
ALAK IS LIFER! HAHAHAHA KWATRO KANTOS LANG PUSHH NA YAN!
Hello Doc ❤️
Moving on tip: Sige lang ikwento niyo lang ng ikwento hanggang sa maging one-liner story na lang para sa inyo.
Yeahhh
Anyone who noticed Jan's sad face even if they are all laughing. I can still feel the sadness 😔
Punyeta! Tawang-tawa ako dun sa part na may talong na lumilipad. Nagtataka ako kung ano meron sa talong tas biglang sinabi "na-choke ako" HAHAHAHAHAHAH
My ex and I broke up a month before quarantine. I didn't actually grieve after the breakup, in fact I was already talking with someone new after a month. I just told myself "Okay, nag decide na siya, let's move forward and focus on school na lang." At that time I was still going to school, so the whole month before quarantine started, I was doing fine. I thought I unconsciously moved on, but I actually ran away from it. I kept on denying and telling myself "Hindi okay ka na, nakamove-on ka na. Di mo na nga siya naiisip diba?" It was then that I realized that making myself busy was just an excuse to ran away from my feelings and bottling it up made it worse. Now that we're almost a year in quarantine, nothing to do, alone in our rooms with our thoughts, it eventually exploded. I didn't know what to do, I just sat there in the middle of my room crying, and telling myself "Kasalanan mo to kaya nag break kayo, you didn't give him a chance back then, and pinagsisisihan mo yon ngayon. Ngayong may bago na siya, tsaka mo lang narealize na you still had feelings for him even after months of breaking up."
Making myself busy was an excuse to not think about the break up, but I just ran away from it and it was not moving on. Now I have to go back to phase 1 of moving on, which is grieve.
As much as possible don't run away from your feelings, confront it. Because if you do, everything will be easier after, I promise.
I relate with this so much. You have to acknowledge the pain first talaga eh :((
shaks :(((
walang jowa since birth, but will still be watching this since it's UNFILTERED 😂
Samedt 😂
agree!!!
pare-pareho lang tayo dito mga mamsh
same.
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
Rejection is God’s protection. 🙏🏼
Sana all parang si Maui when moving on. Very convenient, walang energy na masasayang hahaha
Turuan ko kayo
Ganda ng mga sinabi nyo! ❤️
As a person na almost a year na since my last break up and naka move on na, this would be my advice:
If you are a person na kailangan umiyak, umiyak ka. If gusto mo pa maghabol, maghabol ka. If you feel communicating sa mga taong involved & related sa inyo, go communicate with them. Tapos darating din yung time na ikaw na yung masasaktan sa ginagawa mo and if that time comes, that's your turning point already to stop all of it. Magkukusa kang tumigil kasi alam mong masyado ka ng nasasaktan at tama na kasi oras mo na yon para sa intindihin naman yung sarili mo alone.
That's what I did. I had that turning point and now I'm me again doing better ❤️
Sa lahat ng nagmo move on dyan, sana wag kayo matagalan. Makaka alwas ka rin dyan 💪
TRUE:
Always trust the process. Never madaliin ang pag-move on. Kung naiiyak ka pa, iiyak mo lang. 'di naman kasi talaga madali lalo na kung more than a year din kayong nagsama. Pero also remember na after grieving you have to pick up yourself and be optimistic na everything will be all right. Kasi this time, you're not starting from scratch.
Basta gusto ko yung sinabi ni Jan na "sometimes the effort that you give and the effort that they can give sometimes it just does not match"
i feel kuya Jan, my 1st relationship ended nung april, i had to force myself to move-forward even though labag siya sa kalooban ko, i was looking for some distractions, nakahanap pero balik pa rin ng balik sa grieving stage, a quarantine break-up doesn't have a proper adjective word to describe how painful it is. Pang 6th na buwan na simula nung break-up namin pero I am still asking myself if mahal ko pa ba siya or hindi na. After watching this episode, i realized na hindi pala sagot yung paghahanap ko ng distractions nor iwasan because pains are meant to be felt, endure it until it hurts no more.
same! *hugs* 🤗🤗🤗
welcome to the club ms jan! 😘 anywaaaaay, hope this helps.
I just got out of a toxic relationship. Ang masasabi ko lang is that, never ever ever lose YOU in the process of loving someone else because that'll be the greatest disservice that you can do to yourself. After every breakup naman, there's hope, life, and light again. Just keep moving forward. It may seem difficult pero it's only in the beginning. Embrace the pain and learn to accept how things have transpired. It's not an easy task especially if you really loved the person pero what matters now is you being able to stand the storm.
I hope that you find the love that you deserve. Kapit lang. Laban lagi! 💚💚💚
Gawd. I’ve been moving on for almost 2 years and I still think I’m floating. There definitely are good days where I don’t think of him and other days I wallow in every memories and possibilities with him. I made a mistake in making him my world. Not that I didn’t leave anything for myself, I sort of made him my source of happiness and when he was out, that happiness just disappeared. Last year, I coped and found ways to distract myself but it costed me a lot. Traveling is my go to for distractions, be that out of the country, the beach or just the malls. Goodness, that was costly. At least though, the pain waned little by little. Now in quarantine, I’m stuck in a room where we used to live together and it’s just sad being cooped. Everyday is a struggle for me mentally. Those memories in my subconscious just keep popping out. It’s so hard. I try to keep myself busy and whenever I think of him I just slap myself back to reality, that it’s over. I wish I could move on fully soon.
Oh my gosh very same except sa part na almost 2yrs ka palang nag momove on. Ako more than 2yrs na 😭😭 ang hirap parin. Pero it is what it is eh.
@@pearlmaemil7367 Wow, more than two years. Gosh, how long do you think this will last? I plan on moving to a different city just to start over, start fresh. I hope this will boost my will to move on. Laban lang.
Di ako alam. Everytime i move forward, may makita lang ako or maalala, i always go two steps backward. Nakakapagod na din. Nawawala, bumabalik, eto nanaman ang peg hahahaha. I promised myself na ayoko na. Pero everytime nakikita ko sya, nababali nanaman promise ko. Saklap pa na same circle of friends lang kami 😂 pero kaya natin to, mapapagod din tayo and bka bukas pag gising natin, okay na ulit lahat. If you think it'll help you move on, then go for it. ❤️
Okay. Everyone is different with how they react or cope with a break up. Some are "indifferent" But may have that lingering feeling they might not be aware of or don't want to acknowledge. It's completely normal and valid. You may also be the one that has a hard time and resort to drinking etc. And though bad, it's still valid.
How we move on varies from one person to the next. The important thing is we learn to love ourselves and care for ourselves afterwards
Maui and my ex have the same mindset. I wish I could be like them so that I don’t have to go through the pain of being left for another person.
We broke up a month ago and I had no choice but to accept his decision. What I did was I focused on studying to distract myself and went back to the province to be with the people that I care about. I’m still moving forward as of now.
A tip for you guys is to trust the process and know that it is not the end of the world. There are a lot of good things out there. ❤️
Same Jan, same :') breaking up during quarantine is really hard since there are no distractions to distract you from sadness and pain
Jan: *speaking his heart out*
Einj: iF yOurE hAPPy aNd yOu knOw iT clAp yoUr HanDs
Ganyan talaga yan sanay na kami HAHAHA
Honestly, i came into the same situation as Jan. A quarantine break-up. But watching this again today, confirms that I have moved on. Quarantine really forced us to deal with things alone. It help cause I was able to realize many things about that relationship and how it should’ve ended even before the pandemic. Thank you Ms Jan for the inspiration. I aspire to be Ms Jan!
“Single kase walang mahanap.” Same adea. Same
THESE GUYS NEVER FAILS TO AMUSE ME, shot mga pre!
Mag shot ako para sayo
@@NatalyaAdea para sakin din po
When it's done, it's done. I mean no matter what the reason is, at the end of the day all you need is acceptance. There might be times, that relationships may have a second blow but most of the time, it's a bye bye situation. Haist i love this ep.
Kaka break lang namin mula sa very toxic relationship 3 days ago, and I really appreciate you guys!
Einj, Adea, Jan, and Maui! I am so glad I follow y'all. Thank you so much!
Cried buckets. Couldn't eat, couldn't focus for a month. But experiencing break up during quarantine helped me appreciate and take care of myself more. Nagawa ko yung mga bagay na gusto kong simulan before. It's okay to grieve, but at some point, kahit gaano pa katagal, dapat matapos din yung pag-grieve at tulungan ang sarili na maka-move forward.
Kaya mo 'yan!
Exactly ☝️
Very relate (na naman) with Adeaaaa~ ALAK ANG SAGOT SA SAKIT! Lol.
But, as Miss Jan had said, let us acknowledge our pain and trust the process of moving on. Most importantly, mas isipin pa rin ang mga sarili nating kapakanan.
HAHAHAHAHAH
Thank you so much for this topic, because I actually watched a Rec•Create video after my most recent break-up, and nab-binge watch talaga ko kayo from time to time haha.
So in a way, you guys are part of my moving forward process, and towards sa new life ko. Lagi ako babalik-balik to watch your videos. Thank you so much, once more:)
grieve and cry until you're tired, then eat, drink water take a bath. Talk to people, cry again if needed, move forward.
NOTIF GANG WHOOOOO
Support system is a must. 💕
Thanks Rec.create!! Our feelings are all valid! Keep moving forward 😄
Moving on and getting over
Are not the same, it seems to me
'Cause you've been gone, I'm growing older
But I still can't seem to get you off my mind
And I do believe I feel you all the time
I know no one asked pero one of the hardest part siguro ng moving on is yung kapag dumating na yung time na ready ka na na ilet go yung good/happy feeling & memories na you had with them. Alam mo yun, ready ka na. Sure ka na. Alam mong hindi ka na aatras. Alam mong bibitaw ka na. Yung tanggap mo nang dumaan lang kayo sa buhay ng isa't isa to make each other feel something good for a while.
Be honest with yourself and your feelings, recognize them rather than suffer from the anxiety it creates
sobrang miss ko na 'tong apat na to grabe hahahahahahaha kaya unfiltered marathon muna
sa nag momove on ngaun regardless of what you have been through e.i acads, love life or any burden in your heart and mind i am praying for yall a peace of mind. And to the people around you i advice that please dont invalidate someones struggle cuz we have different pace in copping up! peace!! laban lang.
Im with maui on this one
YAAAAN
I Agree!
@@mauitang3096 and i like it so much that youre consistent with what you said nung 1st episode ninyo about break ups. 👍
@rec.reate LANG MALAKAS.. 😍♥️
KAYO ANG MALAKAS SAMIN 👊🏼❤️🙏🏽
Had the same experience with Jan 🥺 and all I can say is SOBRANG HIRAP. Imagine nakakulong ka lang and walang magawa because of the quarantine, you can’t even hug your friends ☹️
AYE my fave GANG! Here we go again! 👏🏼 wala na naman kayong HALAMAN! Mahihirap! CHOS
Reminisce the good.
Try and find the lessons.
Embrace the hurt.
Rekindle happy relationships (friendships, family, etc.)
Walk forward.
Rinse and repeat.
Thank you sa episode nato. As a dood na kakahiwalay lang last September from my first relationship (which lasted for a year and 7 months), this helped me a lot. I was confused and questioning myself kasi para akong si Einj at Maui na wala na agad nararamdam (like after we broke up, parang inilabas ko lang for a day yung mga rants ko and ok na). People would always tell me na I need time to grieve and ilabas ko daw lahat ng emotions ko pero parang wala naman talaga e. Akala ko there's something wrong with me pero may mga ganung tao pala talaga. Thank you, next!
I recently broke up with my “ex now” and just like Jan Angelo, why this time? The time of pandemic, nagtatanong ako if naghiwalay ba kami cuz we don’t love each other na or just because of the stress with this pandemic na hindi na kami naka pag-isip ng tama, mahirap kasi wala ka talagang magawa para maibsan yun sakit kundi isang buhos ng luha nalang. Ang sakin nalang acceptance and PRAY! Ma he-heal at magiging happy rin naman very soon. 🙏💙 love yourself and stay safe.
Feel it. Accept that it happened. Move on. Choose your battles; conserve your peace.
Ngayon ko lang to pinanood kase i was going thru somethin din the day this was published but thankful ako na we had the right closure and she told me that i just need to mature and make amends to my mistakes that i did in the past for her to accept me ulit. She had a point that's why i wanna suggest a topic that would tackle about "how should someone mature/ grow to be a better lover or person". And Jan please bring back your nike cortez lmao love lots rec•create! I've learned so many things from you guys that's why i will never get tired on watching your videos as well as sharing your channel to my other friends that might need your vids. That's all guys. Thankyooouuuuu!
THIS IS THE SIGN!!!
I broke up with my ex last June 2020 before Independence Day. It was my first serious relationship. I broke up with that person through chat because it’s quarantine and there’s a lockdown so we cannot go out and see each other. I talked to that person and yes it was painful on both sides because we really love each other. The problem was on me. I really need to focus on myself because my problems piled up and I don’t know where to start. It was the hardest point in my life. I don’t know what to do. And I think I cannot grow on my own when I’m being committed with someone. So, I told my ex that I need to focus on myself, solve my problems first and for me to do that was to be single again. It was a painful decision but a relief. After that breakup, I accepted it (like Kuys Maui) and kept myself busy. I went on biking, hiking, swimming, and did other activities (I brought back my plantito hands lol). I also managed to solve my problems and found myself growing and it made me feel better. It made me love and value myself more. Maybe grieving was not my coping mechanism in moving on. Right person, wrong timing lang talaga.
The GANG with a REALSHIT TOPIC EVERYTHING WAS LEGIT
Yes yes yes
So glad to discover this channel .. been looking for this kind of show..
Omg! Saaaaaame Einj! Yung tipong habang kayo pa, nagmu-move on ka na.
Thank you Unfiltered. This is an insight. I broke up with my ex last night after 5 yrs of idiocy.
We support whatever is healthy for you brodie
Thanks man 🤜
I guess it’s ok to move on fast basta di sya rebound or trying to hurt your ex. As long as it’s bc you’re happy with the new person, gora move on ka lang.😊
Okkk maui izza vibee!!! Kung kaya ni Maui dapat kaya rin naten yaaz!!!
This set of people really do compliment each other...my perfect kind of mix! ❤💚💙💜💛❣
Hope you can do at least twice or thrice a week vlog...always on the loop for new unfiltered eps! Kudos Rec•Create team! Keep safe!
Also for those people who are moving on with whatever situation, don't forget to forgive yourself too! 😉👌
relate much kay Jan talaga like sobrang hirap kapag quarantine tapos wala na kayo ng tao. Ang hirap gumalaw-galaw dahil limited lang lahat dahil pandemic. One thing na masasabi ko na pinakaimportante sa moving on is acceptance. I understand Maui sometimes if you choose to accept agad hindi ka na mahihirapan eh. Anyways, nasa atin pa rin ang desisyon as long na hindi tayo nakakasagasa ng ibang tao edi G!
If youre moving on, avoid your friends. It wont help promise hahah and also social media 😆 keep your self isolated. 😆😆😆
I still believe that the best way to move on is to find someone who will comfort and makes you feel loved again. Sound selfish but it’s the reality, you move on with a different person.
Content suggestion: when do you think is the right time to be in a relationship??? Or what is your goal or plan after this quarantine???
I really love this segment, I get to learn so much things and you guys makes us feel like we're part of your group.
Auto watch pag unfiltered talaga!
"whatever you're feeling, feel it" yes nemen tama yung sinabi ko sa kaibigan kong broken. we can't always be happy naman kase kailangan ren naten malungkot to feel alive
Ako kasi, it takes a few weeks bago ko ma-realize na totoo na pala. Saka pa lang nagsi-sink in na break na pala talaga kami. Ito yung mga times na nami-miss mo na sya at yung mga moments nyo together.
Moving on, gustong gusto ko umiyak, kaya nakikinig ako ng mga senti songs kahit hindi naman ako mahilig sa music. Kain ako ng kain. Nood ng mga romantic movies. Tas nagkukulong lang ako sa kwarto. I isolate myself. Then I just talk to few good friends over the phone. I don't go out.
2nd phase ng moving on process ko, anger. Ewan ko, pero effective naman. Once I started hating my ex, I usually start losing interest. Then, that's the time I begin to forget.
Matagal ako mag-move on. It takes months, sometimes years. Minsan napapanaginipan ko pa yung hayop! Char.
Then, kapag medyo nakakalimot na ako, saka pa lang ako makikipagkita sa mga kaibigan ko to hang out or go somewhere. The farther, the better. Then, I'll open up myself to new people. Ready nang maglandi!
Oh, before I forget, I delete all our photos and block my ex from all my social media. Including friends and family.
I feel you Jan. Oo, sobrang hirap mag move on kapag walang distractions at hindi mo nakakasama mga kaibigan mo. Sometimes, a hug from a friend can mend a shattered piece of yourself. Thus, it's really hard to do so in this pandemic.
Pero makaka move on din tayo Jan. Kaya natin to.
This is so timely ty recreate fam
Why do I feel like I'm Maui. Which I was classified as emotionally constipated 😂😅
emotionally constipated whaha😂
When’s your bday? 😂
haha same. i dont grieve at all, i dont really know my emotions.
Grabe ang ganda talaga ng episodes nyo 😍😍 keep it up
Salami po
I didn't skip the Ads para may pambili ng Furnitures haha!
Same experience with Einj para akong nabunutan ng tinik. It was a huuuge relief when my ex and I broke up.
I'm glad na may ganito akong nahahanap na mapapanuod at this moment. Sana makatulong sakin to move forward after this heartbreak.
Missing this kind of talk with friends!! Tamang chill and giving your thoughts💕💯 solid!!
For Ms. Jan - nandito lang kame for you mga unfiltered pips .
We lost something but life for us must go on. 😊 always keep moving forward! Kudos to us! Keep fighting! 💪💪💪
So true! Worth it.
Earlyyy hahahha is this a sign para mag move on hahahha
hahahha
Move on na po kayo char hahaahha hugs po!
indeed
I feel like si Maui yung type ng person na hindi ni lolook forward yung kung anong mangyayare sa kanila nung GF nya in the future. Like yung magiimagine ng ikakasal kami ng babaeng to and maraming imaginations pa na happy ending kahit di naman talaga sigurado na mangyayare yun sa future. Thats why after break up nya is hindi nya masyadong dadamdamin talaga yun. Idk if thats true but i think its also a good thing na you dont invest too much to your partner kasi nga hindi niyo hawak yung future but nasasa inyo pa din kung kayo yung gagawa ng tinatawag na "tadhana" niyo 😉
your opinion about "freedom" and "human rights" i have a twt says "people greeds for freedom may lead to chaos" and thanks. for a good and open minded content..
I feel you Jan.
The best team!!! More eps pleaase
Love y'all guys
loveyou guys 🥺❤️
Nakarelate ako kay einj! Na habang kayo pa nagmomove on kana. Like, di na healthy ung relationship. And toxic nalang siya, and may hinihintay mo kung may magbabago pa. Tapos kapag napag usapan nyo na ng ex partner doon papasok ung sinasabi ni maui na kapag tapos na tapos na.
coping mechanism ko is to watch Recreate videos 👌🏻
Yaaaaaaan ❤️
Currently sharing the same experience with Jan. A break up during quarantine is really difficult especially when you're not close with your parents and you have no one to talk to. My mood is always off and I don't even have a will to do my school works. Until one day, I decided to talk to God and told him everything that hurts me. Whenever I feel so sad and lonely, I'll just watch some inspirational videos from Pastor Steven Furtick and other vids to help me get through with this feeling.
Eto ang kailangan ko now, im still moving on with my last jowa almost a year na kaming break pero until now mahal ko pa sya at umaasa pa din ako, ang pinaka masakit ay yung umasa ako sa mga sinasabi nya na okay pa maayos pa pero ang hindi ko alam may bago na pala sya PINAASA NYA LANG AKO. Thankyou for this video.
nakakamiss kayooooo!!!!🍿🍿🍿
Wish I have Maui’s ability to just remove feelings right away. Sometimes I feel emotions are such an inconvenience.
Hi adea. Hi jan. Hi Maui. Hi einj
Yellow
Finally may bagong ep 🥵🥵🥵
I know that feeling Jan. Same story.
I envy you Maui!!! Sana all mabilis mag move on
love you guysss
11:00 i feel you jan 💔💔💔
More videos, I really love these people.❤❤❤
GHOSTING EP NEXT PLEAAAASE!! sure ako dmai nakakarelate ngayon hahahaha
good morning to you too, jan
OMG SI MS GONZALES 😂
wag na lang po magjowa para wala nang move on move on
HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Most important is prioritize yourself. It's your time to focus and learn more about yourself. ALSO, TAKE YOUR TIME NO RUSH. Appreciate all the things around you even the people who are there for you. (Pero pwede pa rin makinig sa madramang mga kanta. Hahahahaha) ☺️