I apologize for the music from 0:36-0:39ish, Due to the video reaching so many people out of respect to the company Loren worked for we decided to edit out their name (Since the subtitles butchered the name i kept them in so you could still know what else he was saying in between him saying the company's name) and the music was the quickest and easiest way to do so :) Thank you all for the support so far! We had no idea people would care this much about Loren and his condition and we are overwhelmed with love and support!
This is extremely tragic, but stay positive about this. We live in a time where robotics are making HUGE strides! Since it appears his spine made it through, he is a perfect candidate for robotic limbs. The signals will come from his brain, but having the spine not damaged, he is going to have amazing control over the robotic limbs. Just think " Robocop" , because that is where we're headed with all of the technology these days. The robotic limbs he WILL get will allow him to do things he could not do with his actual arm and legs. He should never think, 'how will I survive without 3 of my limbs? , because he is going to have them back, just robotic
I'm going to contact a few places that may find your story very interesting( for lack of a better term). Obviously robotic limb technology is very expensive, but the recent leaps in this field will likely mean he is a great candidate for testing the most recent technology. There are likely going to be people that will be dedicating a lot of time and energy on helping him, but it will be beneficial to them as well. Many of these companies are in a race to be the " top dog" when it comes to this field, and he will likely benefit because of this. Remember , EVERYTHING happens for a reason! Stay positive!
Also, for later down the track, you can get ‘lower surgery’ im not sure how that would work without a groin but there’s also some fantastic prosthetics too. My fiancé is transgender so we know a bit about this stuff :-) all the best
You should keep up on RUclips following the story plus the content would help you guys in the money factor and be in a lot of people interested to se your lifestyle
@@poolhalljunkie9 yes. this guy knocks me out. but, you are so right and I tell this to myself and others, our trials, pains, woes, are real, no shame, but then remember, there are so many who could have it worse. count your gifts. get up and keep going. Im still trying to wrap myself around his story that was on my youtube page. im well, this is nothing more than amazing human spirit, and Love
Loren you just saved my life. I am 64 and suffer from clinical depression. Just yesterday I wanted to die so badly. I mentioned to my son that there are so many people who deserved to live whose lives are cut short. Then I find you here and how courageous you are with an innate power to survive. I am humbled by you. Thank you for saving mine.
😢🙏💗 Stay strong Cia and I am praying for you. Bless you. Your story HELPED ME. I have been very depressed over Covid and many other things. A good friend of mine told me to watch over the thoughts going through my brain. I did that and amazingly I started getting better. 🦋💓
I know that you may have a difference perspective being the one whose life has been impacted but no matter how horrible the situation was, you are still alive and that means everything. With life you have so many opportunities to not fight with but learn to exist with your life's nuances. You are not defined by how many limbs you have or do not but the courage in your heart to live a life not driven by what you can't do ❤❤ you're capable of so much if you let yourself, I hope you nothing but good health and happiness!!
Dude's entire life changed because other people couldn't be bothered to do the _bare minimum._ Couldn't be bothered to obey traffic laws and observe a work zone, couldn't be bothered to train him properly before putting him in a forklift. Someone else didn't want to be inconvenienced even for a moment and he's the one who suffered the consequences. As inspiring as Loren is for pressing forward and for all the support he has around him, all at such a young age, people need to take away that _THIS_ is why you need to pay attention and do things the right way even when it's not "convenient" for you. You're not the main character. You're not the only one who's going to have to pay for your dumb decisions.
My fiancé drove forklift trucks for a decade and though it's not his main job, I hate when he does have to use one. At least his company requires training on it every few years or so. Heck, he was once a trainer.
The bigger problem is that roads were monopolized by the government, and the government sucks at maintaing the roads. They hire companies usually based on being the cheapest or based on nepotism rather than quality. They also avoid hiring third shift companies, because they usually aren't unionized, and first and second shift is the most dangerous time to do road maintenance. The government also pays for jobs in an inefficient way that causes ridiculous delays and lengthy times, which exacerbates the problem of people annoyed in work zones.
@@don-op2ml blessed man me and wife are high school sweethearts been together for 10 years married one of them. It’s all about the heart of a relationship.
“Idc if I’m a head on a plate” facts. I watched my dad lose pieces of his body. He was still strong and brave to me. He was still my dad. You’re still you. Still loved. Still able to love.. the best part of you is still here. ❤
I was eighteen when I was in a horrific car crash that ended up paralyzing me for life..... I know the journey your in and it is a total & complete difference from what you thought your life would be..... But I seen the same fight in you I had back then I cared less how bad the damage was I just wanted to live.... That was 31 yrs ago... Yes a LOT will change and the rest of your life you will fight adapt & overcome them all..... NEVER quit, NEVER say die & you WILL be the same man you are at your demise that you was since the accident that changed you life..... A FIGHTER & A WARRIOR... Never forget that Loren
Not me I would want to die whats the point he lost his manhood he lost everything. Dont get me wrong hes a very brave person and I'm so impressed with how positive he is I wish him all the best all I know is I couldn't do it. I feel bad with how young he is its not fair at all. I hope he sued that company I hope that company went bankrupt.
Hes only 18? Such maturity for a young guy. The strength of you two is incredible. Youve been through so much. Be proud of yourselves. Stay strong. I honestly believe that even after what hes been through hell do amazing things
This is why I get so freaking mad when i see people speeding almost climbing up your car. They need to realize that speeding leads to nothing good not even making u super early!
I just got home after a long day out working with a pinched nerve that's been killing me for 3 weeks now. I woke up this morning and pain and was depressed and couldn't understand why my luck is so shitty and why the pain is still here. Anyway, I get home and make some food and take a shower and start scrolling through RUclips, even I come upon this video. I am now completely grateful and ashamed. I'm grateful that I'm able to walk and still have my health despite a little bit of pain. I'm ashamed at the fact that I was feeling so sorry for myself when this complete boss of a man can rise above what he has been through and what he goes through on a daily basis, and just continue to be a complete and total man about it. Much respect to this man and his wife, family and loved ones. He is a REAL man.
Paige Tuley same my heart literally dropped, especially because I just turned 18 like 2 months ago & hearing about his survival story really moved me in so many ways. Seeing his determination to live and go through this is beyond amazing ! He’s so mature and so so strong. I’m wishing the best and a successful recovery
umiumi xio it does though. He has such a long life ahead of him and it’s so sad that this happened to him so soon in his life. If he were like 70 and this happened his life would’ve been mostly over, Lorens life is supposed to just be beginning
I would stay with my husband. It's not even a question. My love for my husband is unconditional. He's been there for me through profound disability & disruption in our peace. I would do the same for him any day.
@@SabiaandLoren love trump's everything. I stayed with my husband during very brutal moments in our marriage. If you love someone you make it work no matter the circumstances some people just don't believe in love like that and will never experience it. Kudos to you Sabia for being a strong woman to stand by your man in a difficult situation
Goes without saying how brave and amazing this couple is but i cant imagine the ER medics just looking at this kid and having absolutely no idea where to start. How he survived is an absolute miracle.
E verdade meu amigo e aí que o sobrenatural entra onde as mãos do homem não alcança aí entra as mãos do médico dos médicos ou seja as mãos de DEUS p quem crê e confia ele tudo pode fazer 🇧🇷 DEUS coloca limite nós homens p mostro o seu pode ........DEUS seja louvado sempre
So true, he’s a huge inspiration to me. I had a freak accident skateboarding and broke my arm, both my legs. Tore my ACL, MCL, and meniscus in my left leg. Currently done with surgery’s but have been getting down on myself because I won’t be able to skate for 1-2 years. This dude has given me so much hope. I see him troop through this and it makes mine seem not as hard anymore, makes it seem much more possible. I love seeing his passion for staying alive and it’s helped fuel my passion to work hard so I can get back to skating. Much love for these people and how awesome they are. Sorry for the long reply. I was just really moved by this persons story and felt the need to share on how inspiring it is to me
@lucky. thank you, I’m doing alright. Physical therapy is starting to get tough now but I’ve got a pretty good amount of range of motion back in my leg so it’s awesome to see how it’s improving
I have no idea how he can still even smile after such a horrific accident. You are so freaking strong, I wish I had even a little of such strength. You are amazing and I wish you the absolute best and for a fast and good recovery
Desiigner I said the same. I have Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis and I honestly thought there could never be a worse condition to be in. I’ve struggled for three years mentally with something that now seems so simple.
I was in a severe motorcycle accident almost 2 years ago that could've killed me at the most and at the least have my lower leg amputated. I just made the best of what I had and I knew that I still had a life to live. Ik he will make the best of his life with what he can do now.
This dude is over here worrying about his hair. You are the ultimate Chad. God cant express the respect everyone has for you. Seriously man, you are fucking awesome
living through something like that makes you appreciate just being alive. the reality hasn't set in yet, not possible for our brain. it will slowly settle in over the next year :( basically pink cloud syndrome
Words cannot express how amazed I am at your maturity in dealing with an unimaginable tragic event. I'm blown away. God bless you both and your families!!
This guy really has the will to live and some of us think we have the worst life and are so ungrateful and miserable and complain so much when truly he has it worse than most of us by far
A Hemicorporectomy is considered an extreme last resort, the amount of trauma his pelvis would have had...I can’t imagine. It’s incredible the surgery went so well and he pulled through! Amazing amazing strength.
joonie tunes an estimated 250 hemi surgeries have been performed worldwide since it was first introduced as a way of saving soldiers who suffered horrific combat trauma in world war II ( 250 were in 2011, today I don‘t know)
"Emergency rooms and ambulance service policies advise against the resuscitation of such patients. The UK's National Health Service, for example, in its "Policy and Procedures for the Recognition of Life Extinct" describes traumatic hemicorporectomy (along with decapitation) as "unequivocally associated with death" and that such injuries should be considered "incompatible with life".[8] The National Association of EMS Physicians (NAEMSP) and the American College of Surgeons Committee on Trauma (COT) have also released similar position statements and policy allowing on-scene personnel to determine if patients are to be considered unresuscitatable.[9]"
Господь сохранил жизнь этого красивого мальчика не просто так, значит у этого молодого человека есть какая то миссия в этом мире. Какие вы красивые внутренней красотой, с восхищением смотрю на вас, таких молодых, но таких мудрых. Пускай бережёт вас Господь! Главное, что мальчик остался жив! Живи долго, ты этого достоин, с такой женой, вы достойная пара!
I So Humbled myself too my Friend.....I was complaining about my sore throat today.....I saw this in RUclips and I will forever remember this moment ......🙏🏽
I’m so sorry guys it was my first video and I accidentally left in information that couldn’t be in so I had to last minute edit it after it had already been posted and that was the quickest thing I could do
Lucas Chudzij like I said this was my first video I didn’t understand how RUclips uploads and editing worked yet and needed to do something quick. Music was the first thing that popped up so I threw it in and fixed my problem.
Your story should be made into a movie. You are such an inspiration. Such positivity of both of you. You show no hatred or bitterness of how your life has dramatically changed. If I ever win lotto, I will come looking for you. Your love for each other shines bright. She’s the perfect woman for you.
We don't need movie, they are always skewed, we have them speaking on the RUclips. I come back to them from time to time to check how are they doing. And to write a comment wishing them all the best and to widen the audience.
I agree. You see makeup you tubers making bank when real life things happening around the world like things like this. A person surviving something like this is truly a blessing from God. It’s unbelievable. Your a strong person is what I’m saying. I hope you got your pain under control.
Listening to this makes me never want to complain about anything ever again. Thank you for being a source of strength for us all. God bless you and your amazing, supportive woman ❤
@@x98ccj Perhaps you should stop giving credit to fairies in the sky and instead take some time to acknowledge and thank the dedicated and amazing medical professionals who indeed helped these two extraordinary people.
@@shaneo5436 ...Shane, if it were not by the power of God Almighty (Jesus Christ), the health professionals could not even lift a scalpel. God is Knowledge and Wisdom, and He imparts this intelligence onto humans. He created the brain, that encases our ability to understand and reason. We give thanks to the medical staff, with full gratitude to God.
Ya girl is a rider!! You’re blessed as ever. I am so motivated. I have multiple sclerosis and have been down but you made me reconsider being lazy. You can do it and this is proof that so can I. Thank you ❤
I feel similarly watching this. I have Ehlers-Danlos, with some spinal issues causing nervous system disease, chronic pain, fatigue, horrible neck pain, autoimmune issues etc and I get depressed/shut down. Trying to get out of it
@@dreamerqueennotunderthemachineyou are so brave! Illnessess that mess with your mental health are horrible. Because you don't only have to fight the normal sadness because of your illness but also clinical depression because of malfunction of neurotransmitter release and so on. Immune system issues eat up your hydrocortisol (a hormone our bodies produce) which is absolutely vital for blood sugar levels AND has a huge positive impact on your mental wellbeing and lots of other important things. I am talking out of experience. Luckily I have found a doctor who prescribeds hydrocortisol. Without it I am enormously fatigued and severely depressed and no amount of willpower can change that. I don't know if you could get the medication but maybe you could do some research. I do so hope that you find some meds that reduce your suffering! Btw I am diagnosed with ME/CFS, small fibre syndrome, fibromyalgia, autoimmune disease, asthma, irritable bowel syndrome. As before mentioned I take hydrocortisol .And I take also some anti-depressants against the fibromyalgia pains. I wish you all the best!.
She’s his hero for being herself and for being there for him and helping them both to thrive together. He’s her hero for being himself and remaining determined to live life to the fullest, both for and with her!
I literally cried watching the story. You guys are amazing and strong and positive. Your girlfriend is a reminder that good and caring people still exist. And Loren you are so positive.
And here I was 1 hour a go complaining that my life sucks becauseI can't find a job...Lord I ask for your forgiveness and lay your hands on this couple so that they receive blessings in abundance from you. You guys are beyond motivational and strong.
@江俠 i respect that you WANT to work! Hahaa... That's a good thing! When I'm in the daily work grind it's easy to wish I didn't have to work, then there was a time in my life where I was unable to, and I remember just day dreaming of myself working and the things about it that gave me pride and just in essence, made me feel good about myself... I can only imagine how this man would love the same... It's all perspective.... Thanks for sharing!
It's so sad how this could've been avoided if he was just trained on the proper protocols. I hate seeing stories like this, where the company just didn't do their job and someone suffered. You guys have been strong and supportive of each other. I'm happy to see you guys are still smiling.
Karl McCune True but if he was ordered to do so, most likely this is a common practice in the company. If the accident hadn’t they would have continued having him to do it. I dont blame him for not saying No.
He better be a billionaire after this I know that wont bring back his life or take away the trauma but he just need compensation for the shit that happend to him im absolutely disgusted by that company.
@E VO I'm sure it has less to do with protecting the company and protecting themselves from legal action from the company for discussing certain information.
I just stumbled across your videos on tiktok. I’ve seen so many others sharing your story with people having very negative thoughts on you choosing to keep living. You have my highest respect for your choice to keep going on. As an individual with a disability myself, it’s so easy to feel anger towards those who are saying you should have just let go but at the same time I know they don’t know what it’s like to be in our position. I wouldn’t change my life for anything because it’s shown how strong I am to overcome all the adversity I’ve had to face. You are still here for a reason as I am as well. You are using your story to show others that even in the worst imaginable accidents there is still hope. There is still a life to live if given that choice. Don’t you ever let the negativity get to your head. Keep on fighting!
I wouldn't care if my husband was just a head. I'd carry that beautiful live head of his around and as long as he can talk and I can make him happy that's all that matters. I'll always be there for him. Til death do us part.
Laura Manchester just wow ! What a great guy, I work in workers compensation in Australia and deal with seriously injured workers. It seems the worse the accident the better the attitude and fight most people have. Well done dude
The fact that he is still alive is nothing short of a miracle. I must do better as a person bc this young man is the true definition of bravery, courage, perseverance, and optimism. I'm truly shocked at the way he's handling all of this.
I lived very close to this accident at that time but the news didn’t make it to my small town. This was a tough listen. You are a strong dude. Glad your still here and I’m sure you are doing amazing things
it’s so wild how your body goes into full adrenaline mode and he felt nothing from this. body’s are so powerful. his brain immediately began protecting him. that’s just so crazy to me. so happy you are safe and are physically and mentally so strong. sending lots of love and light to you all.
Sophie Wesselman same it’s absolutely incredible. I snapped both my humerus and ulna and smashed part of my wrist and all I felt was like a clunck that went through my body. I didn’t really get pain until ok few hour later while I was waiting for emergency surgery. I know it’s nothing compared to his injury but it’s just crazy how the brain works
A cousin of mine basically ripped her lower half leg off in a trampoline accident when her leg bent the opposite way by the knee, she was transported to the hospital via helicopter and everything. She later told us she didn’t feel anything except for when she was about to go into surgery, crazy how our brains know what to do.
Young man I had cancer about six years ago and my wife never left my side every chemo session I would stay in the hospital for four days and not once did she not sleep next to me. She’s my queen she’s my everything and young man looks like you caught a good woman to.
As a construction worker myself ( Environmental health and safety person) I have no words for this type of accident . All I want to say is I'm beyond words and happy that you are alive . Sending youa nd your family blessing .
You are such an inspiration…if anyone feels as if their life is unbearable or that they want to die…they can just think of you and how strong you are despite what you’ve been through. You are AMAZING!
This kid said he would still "find work doing something, itll just be a little bit" he lost his legs and his arm and still has the work ethic that most able bodied people dont even have. You're a trooper mate. And bless that beautiful girl you have by your side. Dont let her go
@@nunyabithniz not to sound rude but it seems like you brother in law needs his ass beat and your sister needs to leave him, she clearly doesnt need him
It's insane how close I feel to you two. I'm from Bozeman, and your strength is so telling. You have Montanan spirit, the most warm hearts, and perseverance. The fact that your strength has been able to light up the lives of others is awestriking. You did not deserve this tragedy, but you've handled it with grace. Truly a will to live and love that can shine for everyone to see. Bless you both ♡
I train forklift classes professionally. I have taught upwards of 500 employees how to drive a forklift and certify them. One of the first things I tell them is DONT JUMP if they tilt. The forklift seatbelt is also so you CANT jump. It’s human nature to want to jump. But forklifts high side. I stumbled across this video completely by accident. My heart goes out to this dude. Tough as nails. God bless.
Unreal that he was allowed to drive that vehicle untrained. I was allowed to drive a compacting roller (also untrained) and nearly rolled down an embankment trying to avoid colliding with a water truck - thing steers so slowly. When we are young we take so many risks.
I'm an instructor too. Absolutely, never ever jump out. If he had time to unbuckle a safety harness and think about jumping out he would have had time to grip the wheel and brace. So sad but there's so many people out there driving without proper training. So many people are pressured into this sort of thing by their boss. It's not worth it. Hang in there buddy.
@@JustinDeane1979 The terrible thing is that he didn’t even know how big a risk he was taking. This is the Foreman’s fault for grabbing someone to do a dangerous job they hadn’t even been trained for. A tragedy. I’m so proud and in awe of this young couple. I hope their love and strength endure. It’s going to be a long, tough road.
as a construction flagger this is why I cant stress enough to people to SLOW DOWN in a work zone!! You're a brave soul and I hope for a good recovery for you!
@@andreabarham407 It would help a lot of driving schools did a better job too. Stop with the gory “don’t drink and drive” videos and start with some “don’t speed!” videos instead.
Sabia, you should do a day in the life vid :) you said you hadn’t left the hospital, maybe try to go out and get yourself a coffee or do something nice for yourself! This is hard on both of you. But make sure you are caring for yourself also. You are both amazing! Thanks for sharing.
Macey Cervenka I’ve definitely connected with some great people from the area so I’m not as spooked to leave now! Might make some new friends while I’m here 🥰
Macey Cervenka honestly I’m sure that she wants to spend everyday with him. They need each other a lot right now and they seem genuinely happy to be together. But yes, she does need some her time as well.
I think of doctors who save people's lives like this as somewhat monsters. Guessing all that work...a million plus? For what? Let people die sometimes. That being said, what these two have is beautiful and I wish them the best. Question, if someone comes in all mangled and has a "Do not resuscitate" card that's notarized in their pocket would they be resuscitated or would the card be honored?
@@waldo2635 ....vouloir mourir est une chose facile ( toutes les facilitées existent ) et n'attendez pas que ce soit le médecin qui le fasse ayez le courage de vos actes
I have so much respect for the both of you for remaining positive through unimaginable adversity. It puts my insignificant problems into perspective. You two deserve the absolute best life can offer and I hope you are blessed for the rest of your days :)
Bruh, i have never seen someone so brave and looking forward to living despite your situation. I am so proud of you and very inspired by your will to survive and live the life you both want. This girl beside you is a one of a kind, a gem. You both are so lucky to have each other. Above all, you both are an inspiration to all of us. You have both inspired me to live, get up and appreciate life, enjoy what you have and be thank you for it. Thank you both and i wish you both well and will be following you both on your journey.....you have come this far, it will only get better from here on in. 🙏💪👊🤙
Alfasaurus are you genuinely gonna get mad because you’re middle aged and could never dream of being as strong as this teenager? Get a life and stop being so negative
Alfasaurus morphine is a painkiller, it’ll reduce his pain but not his outlook at the situation and how he is handling it. How he’s being strong and not breaking down is all because of himself. No matter what medication I would be in tears and nowhere near as strong as him, and you are in no right to comment and say negative stuff. Why wouldn’t you just be positive and support him like everyone else is?
Thank you for putting up this video. It truly is inspiring for everyone who loses hope for even petty situations they get themselves into. I wish u both well
“Even if I’m just a head on a platter” got me. To be so grateful for life is one of the greatest gifts of all and always comes at a high cost. I see beautiful things in you futures, you both have such a positive vibe despite it all. ❤️
Its Nov. 2022, i happened to see ur video today and i am in complete shock and sympathy along with alot of happiness to see u two young ppl go thru smthn as life changing and dramatic as this. And both of u are so optimistic and hopeful for ur future. I dont think theres any other obstacles that u guys could go through that wld compare to what u already endured. Yall have definitely been raised by good ppl with great hearts. Not many ppl ur age wld be so mature and responsible. I hope that u guys are saved because u are being blessed daily. I believe u will continue to be blessed. Yall have a chance to teach others how to love and live with the best frame of mind. Ive seen so many young ppl sit on a pity pot for so much less and only use their little problems for an excuse to use drugs. For Loren to talk abt finding work in half a body is just REMARKABLE. I think u should teach others how to have a fighting spirit and be positive in their trials in life. I am 63 and have a spinal disability. Ive got a long way to go to be half as positive minded as u are. I hope u know what an angel u have beside u. I look forward to seeing ur wedding on here. Sabia and Loren, u have blessed me just by hearing ur story. U should make a movie abt ur story. I honestly had no idea that we cld survive in just half a body. God has blessed u both. U both have blessed me with this story. Keep up the faith and stay strong. If Loren has brothers or even his father might cld donate sperm for yall to have a child. Not being gross just thinking of how u cld get close to the same dna. Sorry if thats too much. I mean no disrespect. Good luck in ur future choices.
This man is a just the highest form of human that is on this earth. His demeanor, compassion, love, patience, and maturity is EVERYTHING. Sabia is an angel and a woman of Valor beyond compare. Both of you are amazing
I know it’s been said like 800 times but I can’t believe he’s 18. i’m 18. i’m scared to go to a doctor’s appointment on my own, this guy is making major decisions like this...mad respect
Both of you are amazing. So inspiring. So strong and mature and not in anyway bitter about your situation. We definitely need more Sabia and Loren in this world. Love and hugs xxxx
I found your story from one of your other videos where you were showing what you could do. It started with you getting ready and into your bucket. I just want to say that you truly inspirational. To do through everything that you did and still have this positive of an outlook on life is amazing. I'm excited to see more of your journey. You are an amazing young man and have a wonderful woman by your side. Thank you for sharing your journey with the world...
My boyfriend is 18 and I can’t even imagine this happening to someone so young. I don’t even know this guy and I feel proud of him.. you’re a fighter :)
Absolutely amazing, the both of you. And the fact that you’re already concerned about figuring out life and how to manage it…..as someone who works in workers comp/personal injury I hope to God you’ve gotten plenty of quality legal advice; you deserve a HELL of a check.
it’s amazing how far medical technologies have come. such a fighter and such an amazing girlfriend you are for sticking with him. wishing you both the best
Oh my gosh, I've just worked backwards through your story to this point. Ive written and the rewritten a message several times now because nothing i write seems to express my feeling correctly. What an amazing man you are. Your girlfriend is the definition of strength and love. I pray that you both continue to find peace and happiness with each other. May the Goddess Bless you both! 💜💙💜
If those 2 careless drivers had not committed their traffic infractions Loren would be whole and normal. Let this be a wake up call to all drivers to drive correctly and courteously and not hurt or kill anyone working on a job site. God bless you both.
You didn’t owe us an explanation. But thank you for being comfortable with sharing this story with us! You are both very strong, Loren for going through that much physical and emotional pain and Sabia for seeing the one she loves go through this and go through it with him. You are a good girlfriend for sticking by his side! A lot of people would let this effect how they feel about a person. You two are an amazing team! And I cried especially when you mentioned that you can’t have kids now because I didn’t even think about that. I am wishing you two the best and remarkable recovery!!! And the fact that Loren is already talking about wanting to get a new job that he’s able to do it very inspiring because that shows that he’s not going to let this be a limitation and hold him back. Stay strong you guys! Much love 💕
Your story is incredible. You still being able to laugh and smile after what's happened is just wow. You're an inspiration to don't give up hope. Watching this video has changed my perspective. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽❤
I'm like so mad at the driver who didn't obey the rules of the road, who apparently thought his time was more important than the safety of his fellow drivers. And the construction dude who didn't even train Loren on the the lift and expected him to operate it. But, I also know that our higher power always has a plan, even if we can't see it at first. I love this couple!
Right!!?! I think the company is directly responsible for him being in the forklift. I hope they are paying this man's bills and for what he needs to have a good quality life at home moving forward. OSHA?
Yeah if he was properly task trained he would of known to never unbuckle his seat belt and try to jump. Equipment is designed with roll over protection to save lives in situations like these. Super sad. I can't imagine. This guy is a fighter though. Your amazing Loren
@badapple1403 pretty sure he was driving a telehandler, not an actual fork lift like you would find in a warehouse. In which case the piece of equipment he was driving was absolutely designed to sustain a rollover.
@@laurie.n2487 I bet you're right! Didn't think about that but if a lawyer was called, and should be, its a court case. I hope he wins millions ... not because I'm a gold digger but look what he lost!!!
That company should be liable for something in this case! Not training you? Not certifying you? That's criminal! Im so sorry. Ive got no words just tears 😢
Every road construction worker is also someone’s brother, dad, husband, boyfriend, son. I live in Minnesota, where road construction is 3 seasons. OBEY the posted speed limits! There are human lives at risk! Loren I’m so sorry this happened to you! You are truly a strong young man! God Bless you both!
I live in California where road construction is year round. I’ve seen construction sites where people just fly by! In other cases a Calif. Highway Patrol officer will sit in his car at the site to protect workers. I wish people would realize that there is nothing so important to get to in a hurry that can cost someone’s life.
"Pelarske"... Did you know/know of a Ronald Pelarske, by chance, who would have died in the 80s as a middle-aged to senior man? The reason I am asking, is because my husband & I also live in MN, and his mother just recently learned a few years ago that her father was not who she thought he was, and instead it was a man named, "Ron Pilarski"... But, we searched and searched that name to find his maternal grandfather, and found NOTHING. I am wondering if your spelling is actually the correct spelling of the name. He was supposedly Polish... Thank you.
@@bh29 hi BH! There is some question as to the correct spelling, but it’s been ske for as long as I know . There are Pelarski’s in Holdingford Mn you may want to check with. My husband nor I know Ronald. Sorry
You survived a hemicorporectomy. Something we pretty much consider as unsurvivable in medicine. I’m amazed. You are amazing. I wish you all the very best with your future and I hope you keep going with all the fantastic support you have round you. Loads of good vibes my dude
A hemicorporectomy is "just" a type of very extended surgery. Why should it be pretty much unsurvivable? It is a risky surgery indeed, I totally agree, but the risks are more or less controllable. I think the really, really amazing thing is how he survived the time from accident to emergency room and the induction of the first anaesthesia.
@@nothingbutwahala She was probably thinking of traumatic hemicorporectomy - which is pretty much non-survivable unless you happen to be standing right next to a hospital when it happens. Surgical one is complex and risky procedure, fragile and old patients are at a significant risk of dying on the table. His pelvis was crushed, it wasn't transected/amputated in any way as far as I remember when I listened to his story.
@@solsticequeen Patients like these have shorter lifespan due to high amounts of medications that damage organs in long term. There is also a risk of complications with wounds, urine drainage and skin ulcers that can lead to premature death.
@@saltycanadian6190 what is that supposed to mean ? Everyone deserves all medical care like if it’s possible to save someone who has been injured then they should be helped no matter their profession, I’m genuinely confused by your comment
I don’t know how I got here but you two are amazing. Him for his positive attitude and surviving this horrible accident. And her for not giving up on him and looking for the next best guy to come along. I know it’s not easy for both of you. I will stop complaining about the small stuff. I will start watching both of your growth.
You 2 are the most outstanding people in every way.. I cried and I smiled and I am in awe. Strength, defiance, loyalty and I think you are teaching us all a thing or two.. I wish you a long and happy life the both of you with lots of laughter, joy and adventures to come... My heart goes out to you both ❤❤❤❤❤
I just came across a new video of yours & had to come back to the story & as someone whos been chronically ill & developing a bunch of issues the last cpl yrs your story gave me some motivation to try harder to push through the hard days when all i wanna do is stay in bed if you can manage with such a severe and life changing disability i can manage with my way more mild issues. Talk about strength, perseverance & willpower. I wish you both the best it doesnt seem like you could have anyone better by your side either!
The way he looks at you melts my heart! He’s a strong person and is very blessed to have a girlfriend that helped him through this journey! I’ll continue my prayers! Love all the way from Kentucky❤️
I apologize for the music from 0:36-0:39ish, Due to the video reaching so many people out of respect to the company Loren worked for we decided to edit out their name (Since the subtitles butchered the name i kept them in so you could still know what else he was saying in between him saying the company's name) and the music was the quickest and easiest way to do so :) Thank you all for the support so far! We had no idea people would care this much about Loren and his condition and we are overwhelmed with love and support!
This is extremely tragic, but stay positive about this. We live in a time where robotics are making HUGE strides! Since it appears his spine made it through, he is a perfect candidate for robotic limbs. The signals will come from his brain, but having the spine not damaged, he is going to have amazing control over the robotic limbs. Just think " Robocop" , because that is where we're headed with all of the technology these days. The robotic limbs he WILL get will allow him to do things he could not do with his actual arm and legs.
He should never think, 'how will I survive without 3 of my limbs? , because he is going to have them back, just robotic
I'm going to contact a few places that may find your story very interesting( for lack of a better term). Obviously robotic limb technology is very expensive, but the recent leaps in this field will likely mean he is a great candidate for testing the most recent technology. There are likely going to be people that will be dedicating a lot of time and energy on helping him, but it will be beneficial to them as well. Many of these companies are in a race to be the " top dog" when it comes to this field, and he will likely benefit because of this.
Remember , EVERYTHING happens for a reason! Stay positive!
Also, for later down the track, you can get ‘lower surgery’ im not sure how that would work without a groin but there’s also some fantastic prosthetics too. My fiancé is transgender so we know a bit about this stuff :-) all the best
Grab A Sandwich I know I’m sorry 🙈🙈
You should keep up on RUclips following the story plus the content would help you guys in the money factor and be in a lot of people interested to se your lifestyle
His strength makes me ashamed of the petty things I complain about often in life.
Same
You can drown in 6ft or 50ft of water we all have our demons no need to compare
Same. I never felt like a little in my life. This dude is something else indeed
Don't be ashamed. Your feelings are valid too. I would say just try to appreciate more. Which I'm sure we all could stand to do.
@@poolhalljunkie9 yes. this guy knocks me out. but, you are so right and I tell this to myself and others, our trials, pains, woes, are real,
no shame, but then remember, there are so many who could have it worse. count your gifts. get up and keep going. Im still trying to wrap myself around his story that was on my youtube page. im well, this is nothing more than amazing human spirit, and Love
Loren you just saved my life. I am 64 and suffer from clinical depression. Just yesterday I wanted to die so badly. I mentioned to my son that there are so many people who deserved to live whose lives are cut short. Then I find you here and how courageous you are with an innate power to survive. I am humbled by you. Thank you for saving mine.
keep going, take your time and seek help, you’ve got this!💜
😢🙏💗 Stay strong Cia and I am praying for you. Bless you. Your story HELPED ME. I have been very depressed over Covid and many other things. A good friend of mine told me to watch over the thoughts going through my brain. I did that and amazingly I started getting better. 🦋💓
Please stay🤍 what will your son do without you? God bless you.
You are precious and loved 💜🤗
Praying for you🙏I was depressed to but i cried out to Jesus and He immediately lifted that dark weight off my shoulders.
The random guitar scared the absolute shit out of me!😊
yeah...sorry 😁
dw my souk left my chest 😊
😂😂😂 me too!
Me too wth
In my bed all dark arround
I thought I touched another video with my finger 😂😢
@@GD-xc4wg we were learning... 🤷♀😂
I was recently in a horrible accident and lost my leg. You are definitely giving me strength to keep going no matter what.
Im so sorry about that ❤
@@alicept5477 thank you so much ☺️
I know that you may have a difference perspective being the one whose life has been impacted but no matter how horrible the situation was, you are still alive and that means everything. With life you have so many opportunities to not fight with but learn to exist with your life's nuances. You are not defined by how many limbs you have or do not but the courage in your heart to live a life not driven by what you can't do ❤❤ you're capable of so much if you let yourself, I hope you nothing but good health and happiness!!
@@aliciakidd7940 ❤️❤️❤️
I am really sorry! Stay positive and stay strong. You will be guided by God.
Loads of love
Dude's entire life changed because other people couldn't be bothered to do the _bare minimum._ Couldn't be bothered to obey traffic laws and observe a work zone, couldn't be bothered to train him properly before putting him in a forklift. Someone else didn't want to be inconvenienced even for a moment and he's the one who suffered the consequences. As inspiring as Loren is for pressing forward and for all the support he has around him, all at such a young age, people need to take away that _THIS_ is why you need to pay attention and do things the right way even when it's not "convenient" for you. You're not the main character. You're not the only one who's going to have to pay for your dumb decisions.
Ok well he knew he wasn’t qualified and still did it so
My fiancé drove forklift trucks for a decade and though it's not his main job, I hate when he does have to use one. At least his company requires training on it every few years or so. Heck, he was once a trainer.
The bigger problem is that roads were monopolized by the government, and the government sucks at maintaing the roads. They hire companies usually based on being the cheapest or based on nepotism rather than quality. They also avoid hiring third shift companies, because they usually aren't unionized, and first and second shift is the most dangerous time to do road maintenance. The government also pays for jobs in an inefficient way that causes ridiculous delays and lengthy times, which exacerbates the problem of people annoyed in work zones.
@@positivelyparker this wouldn’t have happened if the driver of the car actually followed traffic laws.
@@positivelyparker his boss was in charge of training him and didn’t.
This guy has the most amazing woman in his life.
@@don-op2ml because?
@@don-op2ml omg, i read your comment all wrong 😂 i thought you said that people don't like her
My wife would stay with me to threw anytging
@@jacobkey6268 mine to been married 22 years never left my side
@@don-op2ml blessed man me and wife are high school sweethearts been together for 10 years married one of them. It’s all about the heart of a relationship.
“Idc if I’m a head on a plate” facts. I watched my dad lose pieces of his body. He was still strong and brave to me. He was still my dad. You’re still you. Still loved. Still able to love.. the best part of you is still here. ❤
Well said! God bless!
Yes❤❤❤❤
That was cute and it's true. I would imagine you'd have to have a good sense of humor about the situation. So tragic
I was eighteen when I was in a horrific car crash that ended up paralyzing me for life..... I know the journey your in and it is a total & complete difference from what you thought your life would be..... But I seen the same fight in you I had back then I cared less how bad the damage was I just wanted to live.... That was 31 yrs ago... Yes a LOT will change and the rest of your life you will fight adapt & overcome them all..... NEVER quit, NEVER say die & you WILL be the same man you are at your demise that you was since the accident that changed you life..... A FIGHTER & A WARRIOR... Never forget that Loren
“I don’t care if I’m a head on a plate imma get this and stay alive”
What a legend
The fact he never gave up on his own self. He truly is amazing and inspirational !
I saw this comment as soon as she said it
Absolute Mad Lad
Not me I would want to die whats the point he lost his manhood he lost everything. Dont get me wrong hes a very brave person and I'm so impressed with how positive he is I wish him all the best all I know is I couldn't do it. I feel bad with how young he is its not fair at all. I hope he sued that company I hope that company went bankrupt.
@@Seekthetruth.DontfollowblindlyI agree with you!!!
Hes only 18? Such maturity for a young guy. The strength of you two is incredible. Youve been through so much. Be proud of yourselves. Stay strong. I honestly believe that even after what hes been through hell do amazing things
Caleb Alexander I couldn’t have put it better myself. Sending so much love and adoration to this beautiful young couple. ♥️
I know they are SO mature and strong
@@Dennismalamas please Tell me Loren's story . My english is weak. i dont understand english listening
@@Dennismalamas thanks so much
Very impressed by these two. Must be very evolved souls. Their love for one another is enviable.
The person who hit you with their car should be jailed for negligence for life.
Yes. I was wondering who it is.
I agree!!
I WISH I WAS A PERFECT PERSON LIKE YOU.
MATTHEW 3;2
This is why I get so freaking mad when i see people speeding almost climbing up your car. They need to realize that speeding leads to nothing good not even making u super early!
Silly comment.
I just got home after a long day out working with a pinched nerve that's been killing me for 3 weeks now. I woke up this morning and pain and was depressed and couldn't understand why my luck is so shitty and why the pain is still here. Anyway, I get home and make some food and take a shower and start scrolling through RUclips, even I come upon this video. I am now completely grateful and ashamed. I'm grateful that I'm able to walk and still have my health despite a little bit of pain. I'm ashamed at the fact that I was feeling so sorry for myself when this complete boss of a man can rise above what he has been through and what he goes through on a daily basis, and just continue to be a complete and total man about it. Much respect to this man and his wife, family and loved ones. He is a REAL man.
when i heard he was 18 my heart absolutely dropped.
I was shocked
umiumi xio just be quiet
@@chloeholman7990 nah
Paige Tuley same my heart literally dropped, especially because I just turned 18 like 2 months ago & hearing about his survival story really moved me in so many ways. Seeing his determination to live and go through this is beyond amazing ! He’s so mature and so so strong. I’m wishing the best and a successful recovery
umiumi xio it does though. He has such a long life ahead of him and it’s so sad that this happened to him so soon in his life. If he were like 70 and this happened his life would’ve been mostly over, Lorens life is supposed to just be beginning
Your girlfriend is a saint. An absolute saint. I wish you both the best possible life together.
I would stay with my husband. It's not even a question. My love for my husband is unconditional. He's been there for me through profound disability & disruption in our peace. I would do the same for him any day.
@@SabiaandLoren absolutely girl. U stick by ur mans side!! Prayers to you both
@@SabiaandLoren love trump's everything. I stayed with my husband during very brutal moments in our marriage. If you love someone you make it work no matter the circumstances some people just don't believe in love like that and will never experience it. Kudos to you Sabia for being a strong woman to stand by your man in a difficult situation
That's a bit patronising tbh
Sorry but why is she a saint? Because she’s doing what any good girlfriend would and should do?
Whatever , monetary settlement comes from this will never be enough to compensate for the injuries
You don't say.
Goes without saying how brave and amazing this couple is but i cant imagine the ER medics just looking at this kid and having absolutely no idea where to start.
How he survived is an absolute miracle.
E verdade meu amigo e aí que o sobrenatural entra onde as mãos do homem não alcança aí entra as mãos do médico dos médicos ou seja as mãos de DEUS p quem crê e confia ele tudo pode fazer 🇧🇷 DEUS coloca limite nós homens p mostro o seu pode ........DEUS seja louvado sempre
@@alaersonramosramos6653Thank the doctors that kept this man alive
And suddenly, my issues in life seem so insignificant. A subtle reminder how blessed we all are.
Right.
Absolutely!!!
So true, he’s a huge inspiration to me. I had a freak accident skateboarding and broke my arm, both my legs. Tore my ACL, MCL, and meniscus in my left leg. Currently done with surgery’s but have been getting down on myself because I won’t be able to skate for 1-2 years. This dude has given me so much hope. I see him troop through this and it makes mine seem not as hard anymore, makes it seem much more possible. I love seeing his passion for staying alive and it’s helped fuel my passion to work hard so I can get back to skating. Much love for these people and how awesome they are. Sorry for the long reply. I was just really moved by this persons story and felt the need to share on how inspiring it is to me
@lucky. thank you, I’m doing alright. Physical therapy is starting to get tough now but I’ve got a pretty good amount of range of motion back in my leg so it’s awesome to see how it’s improving
I have no idea how he can still even smile after such a horrific accident. You are so freaking strong, I wish I had even a little of such strength. You are amazing and I wish you the absolute best and for a fast and good recovery
Desiigner I said the same. I have Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis and I honestly thought there could never be a worse condition to be in. I’ve struggled for three years mentally with something that now seems so simple.
Amen
I was in a severe motorcycle accident almost 2 years ago that could've killed me at the most and at the least have my lower leg amputated. I just made the best of what I had and I knew that I still had a life to live. Ik he will make the best of his life with what he can do now.
This dude is over here worrying about his hair. You are the ultimate Chad. God cant express the respect everyone has for you. Seriously man, you are fucking awesome
living through something like that makes you appreciate just being alive. the reality hasn't set in yet, not possible for our brain. it will slowly settle in over the next year :( basically pink cloud syndrome
Words cannot express how amazed I am at your maturity in dealing with an unimaginable tragic event. I'm blown away. God bless you both and your families!!
Hes young
This guy really has the will to live and some of us think we have the worst life and are so ungrateful and miserable and complain so much when truly he has it worse than most of us by far
He talks like he just broke one leg, brave guy and great attitude.
A Hemicorporectomy is considered an extreme last resort, the amount of trauma his pelvis would have had...I can’t imagine. It’s incredible the surgery went so well and he pulled through! Amazing amazing strength.
joonie tunes an estimated 250 hemi surgeries have been performed worldwide since it was first introduced as a way of saving soldiers who suffered horrific combat trauma in world war II ( 250 were in 2011, today I don‘t know)
Svetlana Colosova wow my research was way off! Thank you for the correction
When the doctors presented the surgery to us they referred to it as a hail mary surgery.. so essentially for Loren it was the last resort you're right
"Emergency rooms and ambulance service policies advise against the resuscitation of such patients. The UK's National Health Service, for example, in its "Policy and Procedures for the Recognition of Life Extinct" describes traumatic hemicorporectomy (along with decapitation) as "unequivocally associated with death" and that such injuries should be considered "incompatible with life".[8] The National Association of EMS Physicians (NAEMSP) and the American College of Surgeons Committee on Trauma (COT) have also released similar position statements and policy allowing on-scene personnel to determine if patients are to be considered unresuscitatable.[9]"
Why we don't really want socialized medicine. Eventhough some people swear they do
Господь сохранил жизнь этого красивого мальчика не просто так, значит у этого молодого человека есть какая то миссия в этом мире. Какие вы красивые внутренней красотой, с восхищением смотрю на вас, таких молодых, но таких мудрых. Пускай бережёт вас Господь! Главное, что мальчик остался жив! Живи долго, ты этого достоин, с такой женой, вы достойная пара!
Nurse here :
This had me at the edge of my seat and my jaw on the floor. This is unreal. Unbelievable. Miracle.
I have worked in healthcare for over 20 years and have met only two hemicopectomy cases. It is a strong will that has kept these amazing people going.
And this is when I shut up and humble myself after watching you. Baby you two are so blessed. You give me strength. Continue to tell your story.
So true
Beautifully expressed. You are a bright lite yourself !!
💖🙏🏻
🥰
I So Humbled myself too my Friend.....I was complaining about my sore throat today.....I saw this in RUclips and I will forever remember this moment ......🙏🏽
0:33 that literally scared me so bad I freaking skdjdkdnnssj
Me too......what the heck was that so randomly going off like that? The audio was quiet for me so I had my volume up high as well.....
I’m so sorry guys it was my first video and I accidentally left in information that couldn’t be in so I had to last minute edit it after it had already been posted and that was the quickest thing I could do
Sabia and Loren dw I thought it was funny af
@@SabiaandLoren You know you could've muted the video.
Lucas Chudzij like I said this was my first video I didn’t understand how RUclips uploads and editing worked yet and needed to do something quick. Music was the first thing that popped up so I threw it in and fixed my problem.
Your story should be made into a movie. You are such an inspiration. Such positivity of both of you. You show no hatred or bitterness of how your life has dramatically changed. If I ever win lotto, I will come looking for you. Your love for each other shines bright. She’s the perfect woman for you.
We don't need movie, they are always skewed, we have them speaking on the RUclips. I come back to them from time to time to check how are they doing. And to write a comment wishing them all the best and to widen the audience.
A movie? Be a short movie
And who’s going going to play his role? Him? You can’t just put anyone in front of a camera and expect them to perform silver screen level talent.
I will pray that there is going to be a Movie about your Story
I am sure it will .... just like Kenny (dont remember his name) on his skateboard. Kenny had 2 arms tho... i will ever complain ever again...
"I don't care if I'm a head on a plate."
I love his attitude.
I love how you look at each other with love in your eyes.
These are the types of people that need to benefit off RUclips and earn millions.. god bless you guys! you’re so brave man
Yesssss not these dumb asses like jake Paul or these fake family RUclipsrs
I agree. You see makeup you tubers making bank when real life things happening around the world like things like this. A person surviving something like this is truly a blessing from God. It’s unbelievable. Your a strong person is what I’m saying. I hope you got your pain under control.
Yea!!!!
My thoughts exactly!
Amen!
This story is incredible…From survival to Loran’s attitude to the support of his girlfriend. Wow. People give up with a lot less obstacles.
Listening to this makes me never want to complain about anything ever again. Thank you for being a source of strength for us all. God bless you and your amazing, supportive woman ❤
“I’ll find work doing something, but it will be a little bit” ... they don’t come any tougher than you mate. Much love ❤️
He's the luckiest man in the world to have an outstanding woman to be there for him.
She's pretty darn lucky too!
I am not a religious person but few people would argue that Angels don't exist after watching this video. These two are extraordinary people .
@@x98ccj Perhaps you should stop giving credit to fairies in the sky and instead take some time to acknowledge and thank the dedicated and amazing medical professionals who indeed helped these two extraordinary people.
@@shaneo5436 ...Shane, if it were not by the power of God Almighty (Jesus Christ), the health professionals could not even lift a scalpel. God is Knowledge and Wisdom, and He imparts this intelligence onto humans. He created the brain, that encases our ability to understand and reason. We give thanks to the medical staff, with full gratitude to God.
@@rebeccalavoy6655 Amein!!
Ya girl is a rider!! You’re blessed as ever. I am so motivated. I have multiple sclerosis and have been down but you made me reconsider being lazy. You can do it and this is proof that so can I. Thank you ❤
How old are you. My mom has MS
I feel similarly watching this. I have Ehlers-Danlos, with some spinal issues causing nervous system disease, chronic pain, fatigue, horrible neck pain, autoimmune issues etc and I get depressed/shut down. Trying to get out of it
@@dreamerqueennotunderthemachineyou are so brave! Illnessess that mess with your mental health are horrible. Because you don't only have to fight the normal sadness because of your illness but also clinical depression because of malfunction of neurotransmitter release and so on.
Immune system issues eat up your hydrocortisol (a hormone our bodies produce) which is absolutely vital for blood sugar levels AND has a huge positive impact on your mental wellbeing and lots of other important things.
I am talking out of experience.
Luckily I have found a doctor who prescribeds hydrocortisol.
Without it I am enormously fatigued and severely depressed and no amount of willpower can change that.
I don't know if you could get the medication but maybe you could do some research.
I do so hope that you find some meds that reduce your suffering!
Btw I am diagnosed with ME/CFS, small fibre syndrome, fibromyalgia, autoimmune disease, asthma, irritable bowel syndrome.
As before mentioned I take hydrocortisol .And I take also some anti-depressants against the fibromyalgia pains.
I wish you all the best!.
Yes she's a keeper
She’s his hero for being herself and for being there for him and helping them both to thrive together. He’s her hero for being himself and remaining determined to live life to the fullest, both for and with her!
I literally cried watching the story. You guys are amazing and strong and positive. Your girlfriend is a reminder that good and caring people still exist. And Loren you are so positive.
And here I was 1 hour a go complaining that my life sucks becauseI can't find a job...Lord I ask for your forgiveness and lay your hands on this couple so that they receive blessings in abundance from you. You guys are beyond motivational and strong.
Amen
You are blessed. And have an amazing wife
Amen
@江俠 i respect that you WANT to work! Hahaa... That's a good thing! When I'm in the daily work grind it's easy to wish I didn't have to work, then there was a time in my life where I was unable to, and I remember just day dreaming of myself working and the things about it that gave me pride and just in essence, made me feel good about myself... I can only imagine how this man would love the same... It's all perspective.... Thanks for sharing!
Amen 💙🙏🏽💙
It's so sad how this could've been avoided if he was just trained on the proper protocols. I hate seeing stories like this, where the company just didn't do their job and someone suffered. You guys have been strong and supportive of each other. I'm happy to see you guys are still smiling.
Hes also at fault, he wasnt trained on the forklift he should of said no.
Karl McCune
True but if he was ordered to do so, most likely this is a common practice in the company. If the accident hadn’t they would have continued having him to do it. I dont blame him for not saying No.
He better be a billionaire after this I know that wont bring back his life or take away the trauma but he just need compensation for the shit that happend to him im absolutely disgusted by that company.
@E VO I'm sure it has less to do with protecting the company and protecting themselves from legal action from the company for discussing certain information.
@E VO in the US that happens alot!
I just stumbled across your videos on tiktok. I’ve seen so many others sharing your story with people having very negative thoughts on you choosing to keep living. You have my highest respect for your choice to keep going on. As an individual with a disability myself, it’s so easy to feel anger towards those who are saying you should have just let go but at the same time I know they don’t know what it’s like to be in our position. I wouldn’t change my life for anything because it’s shown how strong I am to overcome all the adversity I’ve had to face. You are still here for a reason as I am as well. You are using your story to show others that even in the worst imaginable accidents there is still hope. There is still a life to live if given that choice. Don’t you ever let the negativity get to your head. Keep on fighting!
So brave and strong. The lady beside you is a gem, an angel. Bless you both.
He's a fighter and she's an angel
PERFECT ASSESSMENT! 🥰🥰
A great fighter in deed very strong and the lady is God sent to him.
May God help you both.
You two are a terrific couple.
Her love kept him fighting. Love them!!!
Yes!
This is how you know love is not about sex. True love is in the heart not the body.
Couldn’t have said it better myself🙏
Con las manos
@@ryuzatu161 hmmm creo que ocupas terapia
Agree 100%
I wouldn't care if my husband was just a head. I'd carry that beautiful live head of his around and as long as he can talk and I can make him happy that's all that matters. I'll always be there for him. Til death do us part.
and at the end he said "im pretty lucky"...his attitude towards life is just inspirational
much love ❤
Beautiful couple, that girl is pure gold and he’s a warrior. A warrior and an angel, sounds like a great match to me!
He'll be in medical textbooks for next 100 years at how he was saved. He's a fighter.
He is the most incredible accident survivor I've ever seen.
Laura Manchester just wow !
What a great guy, I work in workers compensation in Australia and deal with seriously injured workers.
It seems the worse the accident the better the attitude and fight most people have.
Well done dude
Talie Hughes ...I do worker’s compensation in the US. I agree with you.
I’m so glad your alive
OHh he became like this because of an accident..... ohhh God..
@@martinikorjo5317 Yes they talk about it the first part of the video what happened.
The fact that he is still alive is nothing short of a miracle.
I must do better as a person bc this young man is the true definition of bravery, courage, perseverance, and optimism. I'm truly shocked at the way he's handling all of this.
I lived very close to this accident at that time but the news didn’t make it to my small town. This was a tough listen. You are a strong dude. Glad your still here and I’m sure you are doing amazing things
it’s so wild how your body goes into full adrenaline mode and he felt nothing from this. body’s are so powerful. his brain immediately began protecting him. that’s just so crazy to me. so happy you are safe and are physically and mentally so strong. sending lots of love and light to you all.
Sophie Wesselman our bodies are so powerful yet incredibly fragile. i think about this a lot.
Stargirl yes 100%!
Sophie Wesselman same it’s absolutely incredible.
I snapped both my humerus and ulna and smashed part of my wrist and all I felt was like a clunck that went through my body. I didn’t really get pain until ok few hour later while I was waiting for emergency surgery.
I know it’s nothing compared to his injury but it’s just crazy how the brain works
A cousin of mine basically ripped her lower half leg off in a trampoline accident when her leg bent the opposite way by the knee, she was transported to the hospital via helicopter and everything. She later told us she didn’t feel anything except for when she was about to go into surgery, crazy how our brains know what to do.
Jess R yes see! that is so wild! 🤯 happy you’re okay!
Young man I had cancer about six years ago and my wife never left my side every chemo session I would stay in the hospital for four days and not once did she not sleep next to me. She’s my queen she’s my everything and young man looks like you caught a good woman to.
Prescious, that's the only word I can think of describe her.
Greeting from indonesia, i hope you get better soon my mom also had cancer. And this video makes me feel so strong.
What a handsome couple. Love to you both.
As a construction worker myself ( Environmental health and safety person) I have no words for this type of accident . All I want to say is I'm beyond words and happy that you are alive . Sending youa nd your family blessing .
You are such an inspiration…if anyone feels as if their life is unbearable or that they want to die…they can just think of you and how strong you are despite what you’ve been through. You are AMAZING!
Sabia is a Angel, and Loren is a fighter, this ladies and gentlemen is what couples goals should look like.
Thank you for speaking my mind
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Amen to that!!!
Lmao they would be nothing if it wasn’t for his misfortune
a couple of a good example full of courage to other's its not easy .God Bless to both of you
This kid said he would still "find work doing something, itll just be a little bit" he lost his legs and his arm and still has the work ethic that most able bodied people dont even have. You're a trooper mate. And bless that beautiful girl you have by your side. Dont let her go
Meanwhile im not working becuz of depression and panic attacks i feel like a bitch now xD
Tyler Anderson I wanna send this comment to my brother-in-law. I swear he’s soooo lazy my sister has to work nonstop to support her kids AND him 😪
@@nunyabithniz not to sound rude but it seems like you brother in law needs his ass beat and your sister needs to leave him, she clearly doesnt need him
eewre mental illness is just as serious as physical illness or disability :)
Tyler Anderson oh trust, she will never. She doesn’t love herself enough to be confident that she’ll find someone better 😫
It's insane how close I feel to you two. I'm from Bozeman, and your strength is so telling. You have Montanan spirit, the most warm hearts, and perseverance. The fact that your strength has been able to light up the lives of others is awestriking. You did not deserve this tragedy, but you've handled it with grace. Truly a will to live and love that can shine for everyone to see. Bless you both ♡
You guys are flipping awesome. Unimaginable circumstances met with such a fighting spirit and positivity. Inspiration in a bottle. I am humbled.
I train forklift classes professionally. I have taught upwards of 500 employees how to drive a forklift and certify them. One of the first things I tell them is DONT JUMP if they tilt. The forklift seatbelt is also so you CANT jump. It’s human nature to want to jump. But forklifts high side. I stumbled across this video completely by accident. My heart goes out to this dude. Tough as nails. God bless.
Unreal that he was allowed to drive that vehicle untrained. I was allowed to drive a compacting roller (also untrained) and nearly rolled down an embankment trying to avoid colliding with a water truck - thing steers so slowly. When we are young we take so many risks.
I'm an instructor too. Absolutely, never ever jump out. If he had time to unbuckle a safety harness and think about jumping out he would have had time to grip the wheel and brace. So sad but there's so many people out there driving without proper training. So many people are pressured into this sort of thing by their boss. It's not worth it. Hang in there buddy.
@@JustinDeane1979 The terrible thing is that he didn’t even know how big a risk he was taking. This is the Foreman’s fault for grabbing someone to do a dangerous job they hadn’t even been trained for. A tragedy. I’m so proud and in awe of this young couple. I hope their love and strength endure. It’s going to be a long, tough road.
“Forklifts high side”? What does this mean? Is it a typo?
@@superruca overcorrect 😂. Unfortunately this happens all the time. When you see it turning over one way, you try and bail off the other side.
as a construction flagger this is why I cant stress enough to people to SLOW DOWN in a work zone!! You're a brave soul and I hope for a good recovery for you!
To be honest, they deserve better pay and benefits than cops.
Yeah this whole thing wouldn't have happened if not for the stupid arrogant selfish idiot in the car.
@@andreabarham407 It would help a lot of driving schools did a better job too. Stop with the gory “don’t drink and drive” videos and start with some “don’t speed!” videos instead.
Hope that driver got death sentence for this accident
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I say this everytime but I love y'all so much. I am rewatching this but you two never cease to amaze me.
His girlfriend seems more traumatized by the story than he is. Serves as a great testament to the adaptability of the brain and body
Sabia, you should do a day in the life vid :) you said you hadn’t left the hospital, maybe try to go out and get yourself a coffee or do something nice for yourself! This is hard on both of you. But make sure you are caring for yourself also. You are both amazing! Thanks for sharing.
Macey Cervenka I’ve definitely connected with some great people from the area so I’m not as spooked to leave now! Might make some new friends while I’m here 🥰
@@SabiaandLoren Sabia, is there an address to mail cards?
Macey Cervenka honestly I’m sure that she wants to spend everyday with him. They need each other a lot right now and they seem genuinely happy to be together. But yes, she does need some her time as well.
As an ICU nurse I am in awe of you, your sweet girlfriend, the doctors that did this for you. YOU are truly a miracle....
I'm also an ICU nurse and felt exactly the same way. He's absolutely remarkable.
I think of doctors who save people's lives like this as somewhat monsters. Guessing all that work...a million plus? For what? Let people die sometimes. That being said, what these two have is beautiful and I wish them the best. Question, if someone comes in all mangled and has a "Do not resuscitate" card that's notarized in their pocket would they be resuscitated or would the card be honored?
@@waldo2635 has to be honoured if not, the nurse or doctor can loose their licence. Its an offence
@@waldo2635 ....vouloir mourir est une chose facile ( toutes les facilitées existent ) et n'attendez pas que ce soit le médecin qui le fasse ayez le courage de vos actes
@@mdnjeanpierre652 Sur la base de vote reponse, je suppose que vous eyes lie a Karine Jean-Pierre??? Will you please write in English next time?
I have so much respect for the both of you for remaining positive through unimaginable adversity. It puts my insignificant problems into perspective. You two deserve the absolute best life can offer and I hope you are blessed for the rest of your days :)
Bruh, i have never seen someone so brave and looking forward to living despite your situation. I am so proud of you and very inspired by your will to survive and live the life you both want. This girl beside you is a one of a kind, a gem. You both are so lucky to have each other. Above all, you both are an inspiration to all of us. You have both inspired me to live, get up and appreciate life, enjoy what you have and be thank you for it. Thank you both and i wish you both well and will be following you both on your journey.....you have come this far, it will only get better from here on in. 🙏💪👊🤙
Never seen someone so strong and positive about such an horrific thing
cauz he is on drugs... are you little kids idiots?
Alfasaurus are you genuinely gonna get mad because you’re middle aged and could never dream of being as strong as this teenager? Get a life and stop being so negative
J Wite Im happy, no problem. But lets look these two happy teens after 2 years. These kids doesnt know this guy is full of morphine
Alfasaurus morphine is a painkiller, it’ll reduce his pain but not his outlook at the situation and how he is handling it. How he’s being strong and not breaking down is all because of himself. No matter what medication I would be in tears and nowhere near as strong as him, and you are in no right to comment and say negative stuff. Why wouldn’t you just be positive and support him like everyone else is?
@@alfasaurus362 You're right, but that doesn't make you any less of an asshole.
"I'm pretty lucky."
If that doesn't sum up this young man's whole character, I don't know what could.
Thank you for putting up this video. It truly is inspiring for everyone who loses hope for even petty situations they get themselves into. I wish u both well
Thanks for the honesty. Wishing you the best. You both are amazing.
“Even if I’m just a head on a platter” got me. To be so grateful for life is one of the greatest gifts of all and always comes at a high cost. I see beautiful things in you futures, you both have such a positive vibe despite it all. ❤️
Deni this got me too❤️
Watched this morning and am still thinking about that.
It got to me also! His determination to live and get through this is beyond anazing. His strength inspires me. 💖
She’s also the best person ever to just stay and wait for her boyfriend to get these surgery’s it’s very nerve racking and everything
We all know how this is going to end, it's sad but it's understandable.
Sa V what do you think is going to happen? You think she’s going to leave him eventually?
Sa V and what’s that?
Hunter Robinson yes are you fucking kidding me? Lmao
It has a 1/2200 dislike ratio calm tf down
Dude. Hooooooly shit. This is an insane story. Unvelievable. Glad hes in good spirits and living life. Absolutely amazing.
Its Nov. 2022, i happened to see ur video today and i am in complete shock and sympathy along with alot of happiness to see u two young ppl go thru smthn as life changing and dramatic as this. And both of u are so optimistic and hopeful for ur future. I dont think theres any other obstacles that u guys could go through that wld compare to what u already endured. Yall have definitely been raised by good ppl with great hearts. Not many ppl ur age wld be so mature and responsible. I hope that u guys are saved because u are being blessed daily. I believe u will continue to be blessed. Yall have a chance to teach others how to love and live with the best frame of mind. Ive seen so many young ppl sit on a pity pot for so much less and only use their little problems for an excuse to use drugs. For Loren to talk abt finding work in half a body is just REMARKABLE. I think u should teach others how to have a fighting spirit and be positive in their trials in life. I am 63 and have a spinal disability. Ive got a long way to go to be half as positive minded as u are. I hope u know what an angel u have beside u. I look forward to seeing ur wedding on here. Sabia and Loren, u have blessed me just by hearing ur story. U should make a movie abt ur story. I honestly had no idea that we cld survive in just half a body. God has blessed u both. U both have blessed me with this story. Keep up the faith and stay strong. If Loren has brothers or even his father might cld donate sperm for yall to have a child. Not being gross just thinking of how u cld get close to the same dna. Sorry if thats too much. I mean no disrespect. Good luck in ur future choices.
This man is a just the highest form of human that is on this earth. His demeanor, compassion, love, patience, and maturity is EVERYTHING.
Sabia is an angel and a woman of Valor beyond compare.
Both of you are amazing
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Soooo agree. 👍👍❤
I m sad about You both it s dificult to her passing the life of that way i admire her for give him strenght.. sorry if i.m so hard..
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I know it’s been said like 800 times but I can’t believe he’s 18. i’m 18. i’m scared to go to a doctor’s appointment on my own, this guy is making major decisions like this...mad respect
you guys have been through so much and are very mature for your age. God bless you. Stay positive stay stronh
He was 18 when it happened. He's older now
Both of you are amazing. So inspiring. So strong and mature and not in anyway bitter about your situation. We definitely need more Sabia and Loren in this world. Love and hugs xxxx
I found your story from one of your other videos where you were showing what you could do. It started with you getting ready and into your bucket. I just want to say that you truly inspirational. To do through everything that you did and still have this positive of an outlook on life is amazing. I'm excited to see more of your journey. You are an amazing young man and have a wonderful woman by your side. Thank you for sharing your journey with the world...
Human bodies get old, they lose things, properties, might look weird throughout the years, but man, brave souls, shine forever. 😉
Idk why I had to scroll so deep to stumble onto this, such a beautiful quote😊
Beautiful spoken and so true❣️
True and beautiful!
That one arm he's got is gonna end up looking hella jacked!
Beautiful & very true indeed!!!
My boyfriend is 18 and I can’t even imagine this happening to someone so young. I don’t even know this guy and I feel proud of him.. you’re a fighter :)
Holy hell...you are incredible. I'm at a loss for words. Your strength is unbelievable.
Absolutely amazing, the both of you. And the fact that you’re already concerned about figuring out life and how to manage it…..as someone who works in workers comp/personal injury I hope to God you’ve gotten plenty of quality legal advice; you deserve a HELL of a check.
I'm a forklift operator and I can't believe they let u get in it in such a dangerous environment without knowing what to do if it tips....wtf.
Joseph Lane what do you do,
River Handley he said in the video... u stay inside
Joseph Lane That was my thought. You have to be certified, and licensed.
You just nailed the basis of their lawsuit.
Vanessa-not a smart thing to say
it’s amazing how far medical technologies have come. such a fighter and such an amazing girlfriend you are for sticking with him. wishing you both the best
Really appreciate your positive attitude towards life. Lots of love for both of you. ❤
Oh my gosh, I've just worked backwards through your story to this point. Ive written and the rewritten a message several times now because nothing i write seems to express my feeling correctly. What an amazing man you are. Your girlfriend is the definition of strength and love. I pray that you both continue to find peace and happiness with each other. May the Goddess Bless you both! 💜💙💜
I feel ashamed of whining about my life and my pain. You're an inspiration to me. Hugz
Keep your head up your amazing person your so strong continue to inspire people sending love to your guys god bless❤❤
Agreed, this is truly an amazing story of perseverance and strength. Amazing people, God bless both of them and their families.
If those 2 careless drivers had not committed their traffic infractions Loren would be whole and normal. Let this be a wake up call to all drivers to drive correctly and courteously and not hurt or kill anyone working on a job site. God bless you both.
Same. Exactly my thoughts.
Omg Drama Community represent!
You didn’t owe us an explanation. But thank you for being comfortable with sharing this story with us! You are both very strong, Loren for going through that much physical and emotional pain and Sabia for seeing the one she loves go through this and go through it with him. You are a good girlfriend for sticking by his side! A lot of people would let this effect how they feel about a person. You two are an amazing team! And I cried especially when you mentioned that you can’t have kids now because I didn’t even think about that. I am wishing you two the best and remarkable recovery!!! And the fact that Loren is already talking about wanting to get a new job that he’s able to do it very inspiring because that shows that he’s not going to let this be a limitation and hold him back. Stay strong you guys! Much love 💕
You are amazing and I wish the best to both of you. The two of you show that love can get you through anything.
Your story is incredible. You still being able to laugh and smile after what's happened is just wow. You're an inspiration to don't give up hope. Watching this video has changed my perspective. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽❤
That company should have been sued for millions, they need to pay for their negligence
Yes
Amen, yes they do, and the driver.
Billions. While there is no amount that can represent the value, millions are no longer enough. Loren deserves billions!
Exactly
Workmans Comp covers it. Plus he was operating equipment he was not qualified for and knew it.
At best you go after the car driver.
I'm like so mad at the driver who didn't obey the rules of the road, who apparently thought his time was more important than the safety of his fellow drivers. And the construction dude who didn't even train Loren on the the lift and expected him to operate it. But, I also know that our higher power always has a plan, even if we can't see it at first. I love this couple!
Right!!?! I think the company is directly responsible for him being in the forklift. I hope they are paying this man's bills and for what he needs to have a good quality life at home moving forward. OSHA?
Yeah if he was properly task trained he would of known to never unbuckle his seat belt and try to jump. Equipment is designed with roll over protection to save lives in situations like these. Super sad. I can't imagine. This guy is a fighter though. Your amazing Loren
@badapple1403 pretty sure he was driving a telehandler, not an actual fork lift like you would find in a warehouse. In which case the piece of equipment he was driving was absolutely designed to sustain a rollover.
@@kimberlyhartz6529 oh definitely, he they probably didn't say the name of the company because they are getting the shit sued out of them
@@laurie.n2487 I bet you're right! Didn't think about that but if a lawyer was called, and should be, its a court case. I hope he wins millions ... not because I'm a gold digger but look what he lost!!!
That company should be liable for something in this case! Not training you? Not certifying you? That's criminal! Im so sorry. Ive got no words just tears 😢
Every road construction worker is also someone’s brother, dad, husband, boyfriend, son. I live in Minnesota, where road construction is 3 seasons. OBEY the posted speed limits! There are human lives at risk! Loren I’m so sorry this happened to you! You are truly a strong young man! God Bless you both!
I live in California where road construction is year round. I’ve seen construction sites where people just fly by! In other cases a Calif. Highway Patrol officer will sit in his car at the site to protect workers. I wish people would realize that there is nothing so important to get to in a hurry that can cost someone’s life.
"Pelarske"...
Did you know/know of a Ronald Pelarske, by chance, who would have died in the 80s as a middle-aged to senior man?
The reason I am asking, is because my husband & I also live in MN, and his mother just recently learned a few years ago that her father was not who she thought he was, and instead it was a man named, "Ron Pilarski"...
But, we searched and searched that name to find his maternal grandfather, and found NOTHING.
I am wondering if your spelling is actually the correct spelling of the name. He was supposedly Polish...
Thank you.
@@bh29 hi BH! There is some question as to the correct spelling, but it’s been ske for as long as I know . There are Pelarski’s in Holdingford Mn you may want to check with. My husband nor I know Ronald. Sorry
You survived a hemicorporectomy. Something we pretty much consider as unsurvivable in medicine. I’m amazed. You are amazing. I wish you all the very best with your future and I hope you keep going with all the fantastic support you have round you. Loads of good vibes my dude
A hemicorporectomy is "just" a type of very extended surgery. Why should it be pretty much unsurvivable? It is a risky surgery indeed, I totally agree, but the risks are more or less controllable.
I think the really, really amazing thing is how he survived the time from accident to emergency room and the induction of the first anaesthesia.
@@nothingbutwahala She was probably thinking of traumatic hemicorporectomy - which is pretty much non-survivable unless you happen to be standing right next to a hospital when it happens.
Surgical one is complex and risky procedure, fragile and old patients are at a significant risk of dying on the table.
His pelvis was crushed, it wasn't transected/amputated in any way as far as I remember when I listened to his story.
Will he live a life of normal length or will losing all of these body parts shorten his life immensely??
@@solsticequeen Patients like these have shorter lifespan due to high amounts of medications that damage organs in long term.
There is also a risk of complications with wounds, urine drainage and skin ulcers that can lead to premature death.
@@saltycanadian6190 what is that supposed to mean ? Everyone deserves all medical care like if it’s possible to save someone who has been injured then they should be helped no matter their profession, I’m genuinely confused by your comment
I don’t know how I got here but you two are amazing. Him for his positive attitude and surviving this horrible accident. And her for not giving up on him and looking for the next best guy to come along. I know it’s not easy for both of you. I will stop complaining about the small stuff. I will start watching both of your growth.
You 2 are the most outstanding people in every way.. I cried and I smiled and I am in awe. Strength, defiance, loyalty and I think you are teaching us all a thing or two.. I wish you a long and happy life the both of you with lots of laughter, joy and adventures to come... My heart goes out to you both ❤❤❤❤❤
How on earth did he survive the trauma and then the mental part ? Incredible. God bless his and his family.
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Things happen for a reason.
The brain is amazing, but the brain of youngsters is amazingly brilliant.
The human will AND the incredible supportive partner he has!
Just saw this on Tiktok, we are all so happy you are alive, truly a miracle! You both are so strong. I’m so sorry this happed.
Omg it’s Nicole👀
nicole
Same
..nicole..can we just say prayers for his recovery
Praying for you sweetheart all all the time
I just came across a new video of yours & had to come back to the story & as someone whos been chronically ill & developing a bunch of issues the last cpl yrs your story gave me some motivation to try harder to push through the hard days when all i wanna do is stay in bed if you can manage with such a severe and life changing disability i can manage with my way more mild issues. Talk about strength, perseverance & willpower. I wish you both the best it doesnt seem like you could have anyone better by your side either!
The way he looks at you melts my heart! He’s a strong person and is very blessed to have a girlfriend that helped him through this journey! I’ll continue my prayers! Love all the way from Kentucky❤️
I'm convinced that 85 percent of drivers should take their test again or have their license revoked
I agree. A family member of mine was ran over by a milling machine...no, he didn't make it.
Every 7 years when you renew you should have to test
THIS‼️ let’s talk about how no one was required to retake eye exams during 2021 bc of Covid. watch out for blind drivers‼️
@@adenamoran4830 I’m sorry for your loss that’s crazy
I agree