R.I.P., Asher Sullivan, you will never be forgotten. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 my condolences to you and your family. In death you’ll will continue to thrive and become the blessing to others you were destined to be🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
He was my best best friend and I am very sad this happened I am also his classmate but he is in better hands with god Rest in peace Asher Sullivan ❤🕊️ I love u soo much
sorry. very sad. should not have been playing in a drainage ditch. hmm, how did he get to do so much traveling? nice. why I believe in spankings to ward of dead to selves or others, and the lecture series my parents had when other "Kids" acted ... I could not hold that in. My heart breaks with deaths.
All through history, it shows a lot of children die young. There was an Era where people had alot of kids, with one of the reasons, because the chances of 1 if not 2 dieing early was almost common. Parents should never outlive their children. Worst pain in the world.
I still think it's a dangerous precedent to speak of someone who is still on life support as being dead. I understand fully that the individual will not recover. But, we have long held standards on what death is and what it isn't. One cannot take a dead body and put it on "life support" and sustain any kind of life. The individual, on life support is still alive. I know this seems like a distinction without a difference, but the long ranging consequences of changing our definitions of death and how we talk about it can be disastrous. We have had situations like this for many decades, so this change in how it's reported is not an organic change coming from people naturally. It's a change that is being directed from somewhere and it shouldn't be. If you are breathing and your heart is beating, even if machines are supporting this, you are not dead and should not be referred to as such. It's concerning that the term "brain dead" is not being used. Is the boy's brain not dead? Are we now euthanizing people we feel will not recover in order to take their organs? You see how obscuring the plain truth by changing the meaning of words can be a dangerous thing to do.
Omg, that's terrible, tragic.😞😓😥😢😢😢But bittersweet at the same time since his death is going to save lives through organ donation.🕊️Wow, little Asher, a true hero. Rest in power little buddy.🙏🏼
To the mother and father, i wish i could share some of what you must be feeling right now, but i can only guess what that really is, bc i know what i think i would feel if i were in your shoes. I just hope you get this, and let me take a minute to pause your chaos and just let you linger in my very simple advice, and hoping it helps lead you both through the hard time you're going to face, every single day for the rest of your lives... But you already know that, i can only assume... so my hope for you is to remind you or make you aware of yourself. Grieve... as a couple, and in your own ways as individuals, while being extremely mindful of your mental and emotional states of health and making sure you never allow yourselves to forget the love you share for your child.. none of my children have passed, but life happened for me quickly and ive endured my own hardships and internal battles ive faced from absolute turmoil over my children and i know how loss has a way of influencing us in a way that either allows us to grow and lift people up that are in our lives and be a better person every day forward and pay personal attention to how you acknowledge who you are, who youve been, and who you want to be, and remember that no one event defines who you are... Pay extra attention to how you treat others, and be open to the possibility that how you treat others is a reflection of how you treat yourself. & lastly... ...Cry. Even if its out of nowhere... Even if you're on TV. Those emotions are something treasured that shouldn't and be hidden or ashamed or embarrassed of, or anything in any negative sense. taken for granted for the disguised blessing they are... real. I hope courage, vulnerability, belief in a supreme good, trust, and faith guide you to where you all make sure and REQUIRE yourselves to build a discipline of taking a momentary deep breath and 15 second time out atleast one time every single day and making it your normal to say something loving, appreciating, supportive, or something you may be concerned about with eachother... I just wanted you to start actively being mindful to these simple realizations and tools that mentally help you prepare, and grow. So, love yourselves.. But most importantly, dont be someome that fails to see when your partner needs you... or be prideful and have an inflated ego that may make asking for help hard... Allow yourself to be. And just know that if you feel it, it's probably because you are supposed to... it's okay to smile, or enjoy something. Its not alright to bottle up the darker things in life to the point where you no longer even believe there's a chance for anything to light up your day. Im a dad to the sweetest daughter's in the world. But i arrived at this spot in my life bc i lost my self worth, and image after yhe military. I had mental and emotional wellbeing struggle, i had lost all my friends. The woman i have been in love with for 8 years, even though she walked away and all the circumstances that'll forever be regrets. I hated myself. My relationship was in shambles. I had just lost custody of my son... was sent to korea as a result. The judge knew if i was awarded the 50/50 i was asking for, my orders would be canceled and id already been told by Branch they would cancel my orders... i end up in korea 2018-2019.. missed my ladys entire pregnancy.. and lost her. I got home february 2019, and soent 3 years locking myself up in my bedroom, with so much anger, rage, and absolute disgust with multiple major relationships in my life that i had to realize if i didnt do the work, it would end... and i wanted what i was giving in return.. i tried to talk to her over 7000 times about the same issue, not prioritizing me and our family, and refusing me basic human acknowledgement. I had asked from feb 2019, all the way til we split may 3, 2022. Ive learned to find the peace in the presence of the world and its beautiful nature.. i full on ugly cried, every single day after she left me for 10.5 months straight... had nothing. Had nobody... except my daughter's. They were the only people i had that showed me concern or even acknowledged that i wasn't the bad person alot of people around them had been trying to tell them i was... And my daughter's were the ones that stood up for me. Theyre 7 and 5 now. About 4 years ago i had whooped my now 7 year old, and it was way harder than i thought and she wiggled away causing me to miss her diaper and smack her back, and the way she looked at me made me a small man in an instant and i was so ashamed and disgusted and disappointed in myself... after 3 months of absolutely nothing to do with me, she decided to finally talk to me and gave me a chance to grow and forgive me in the process while i worked on change i knew i needed the moment i saw that love and admiration weren't the emotions i seen on her face the day i spanked her.. it was hate... and pure, raw fear, in a little girl lthat was absolutely innocent and beautiful... and was scared to death of me and was afraid I was just going to hurt her... 3 months of her refusing to even get in the car if if was going to be anywhere i was at. When asked if she wanted to talk to me, i would hear her in the background on the phone start crying while saying no and she doesn't want to and im mean and she doesnt ever want to see me again... and she threw a fit just bc i wanted to tell her goodnight.. I just knew right then, i had to change... i wanted to. And i did. I became more aware of accountability being an individual responsibility, and being a better man was all i wanted to focus on after we ended up separated.. Couple years since then, but to this day, i have never whooped my daughter's since. Instead i earned their trust. I listen to them. I let them explain. I let them defend theirselves. I use mistakes as examples so they know that i was wrong for the way i had been, and there's no excuse just bc im their dad. If i am wrong, or i am doing something they're confused with morally or ethically, I've made it clear that i am all about asking questions about the things they're fascinated with, and they ask alot. Theyre both straight A❤ young ladys, listen to me without hesitation, talk to me about anything that is bothering them... i am still heartbroken and would love to be with their mother again... but i didn't catch the change i needed for my relationship with her in time and i held myself accountable and guilt ate me alive and regret and shame and for quite a while now, all i do is miss her and my family being together... bc i miss too much. And knowing ill never have them every day the way i did before... ive tried to get her to even speak to me bc we havent even talked about it in the 2 years since... but ive tried.. and shown her nothing but love and concern that she truthfully did not deserve from me... i had legitimate reasons to be upset with her. It was how i went about it that was wrong... i was toxic and had to grow up and lost the love of my life over failure to be aware of who i had become... And this is long, i know... and i apologize.. the hurt and burdens i carry are not the same as yours, but i told you a bit about me and my circumstances that allowed me to become aware and change and grow. And live again. And be proud of the character i display that i admire and respect. And seeing things that have played out because i worked on that character actively, i stopped hating myself.. i processed some abandonment issues with multiple people... then earning the love i get from my daughters... which is what let me love myself again. My girls are literally my best friends and theres no doubt in my mind that my ex and our daughters are absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me and i earned havinf 2 daddys girls... and it was everything that taught me that change and growth are alot easier than we think, but regardless of life and whatever it throws at us, we are always in control of how we display ourselves and how we treat people.. and regardless of others actions, decency is free.. i had to lose the best thing that i ever had to wake up and acknowledge that i was someone i wasnt proud of, but i own and am ashamed of admitting, but am not ashamed of admitting that it was my 3 or 4 year old daughters that taught me and gave me a lesson about how to be a man through that whole thing.. i miss tf out my girls and i don't get enough time .. its never enough. Just hurts knowing... Point in all of it... there's no way to grow without criticism and compassion... and my thoughts are with you all as a father, and someone who just happened to hear about your loss.. heal... seek peace. I don't know how or where you find it. I know for me it was teaching myself to fish at 28 and working through the absence of a father in my life and using that to drive me at a time when I could only describe as finding hope in the hopeless. You're stronger than you know.. make sure you don't lose sight of what you've got, in grief of what you've lost.. be humbled by heartache and let who you want to be, be who you are.. I don't pray, but I do believe in something that orchestrates room for beauty to blossom from disaster when we open ourselves up and love every moment thst makes you happy and every moment that makes you sad.. and never look down on yourself for being sad and feeling vulnerable. I wish you both the absolute best of well wishes, and strength in the process of healing and happiness.. I'd rather be at a lake, thinking about God, than sittin in church, thinking about going fishing.
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Our prayers go out to the Sullivan family. Rest in Peace, Asher.
Thank you for donating his organs so others can live! ❤
Simply heartbreaking 💔
Rest in peace 😔😔😔 Asher . Fly high 🕊🕊🕊
Prayers for this family. I cannot imagine.
Prayers for strength
God bless the family! ❤️ Ashet! Prayer's
R.I.P., Asher Sullivan, you will never be forgotten. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 my condolences to you and your family. In death you’ll will continue to thrive and become the blessing to others you were destined to be🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
He was my best best friend and I am very sad this happened I am also his classmate but he is in better hands with god Rest in peace Asher Sullivan ❤🕊️ I love u soo much
sorry. very sad. should not have been playing in a drainage ditch. hmm, how did he get to do so much traveling? nice. why I believe in spankings to ward of dead to selves or others, and the lecture series my parents had when other "Kids" acted ... I could not hold that in. My heart breaks with deaths.
as hard is this is at least you know he is with JESUS not everyone that lost a friend has that peace I am so sorry you have to go though this
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@@joshuam2212thanks ❤
@@joshuam2212 Honestly, can you back up your claim with some good evidence?
Prayers out to the family and friends So very sorry for your loss 🙏 💔 🙏
As a parent, I cannot imagine their anguish. 😭 Rest peacefully, Asher. ♥️
Prayers for his family and friends
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Sullivan family's. Fly high asher Flights of angels sing thee to thy rest
So sad. When I was young I almost got pulled into a drain when riding my bike when it was flooding. My prayers go out to his family and friends. ❤
This is absolutely devastating. God bless his family. 🙏🏻
another day,another dies, some things never change, the good always die young.
I’m so very sorry to hear this. Sending prayers for his family and friends 🙏🏻❤️
Why are we losing so many young kids today it's a shame a tragic parents should not bury their kids at that age these tragedies must stop
All through history, it shows a lot of children die young. There was an Era where people had alot of kids, with one of the reasons, because the chances of 1 if not 2 dieing early was almost common. Parents should never outlive their children. Worst pain in the world.
May he rip. 😢 I’m so sorry for their loss
So horribly sad. I'm so sorry 😢
Our prayers go out to his parents, friends and relatives. May the God of all comfort , comfort them.
R I P Asher 😔
We all knew this was coming, but this still hurts. Even the anchors are having trouble holding it together. 💐
I still think it's a dangerous precedent to speak of someone who is still on life support as being dead. I understand fully that the individual will not recover. But, we have long held standards on what death is and what it isn't. One cannot take a dead body and put it on "life support" and sustain any kind of life. The individual, on life support is still alive.
I know this seems like a distinction without a difference, but the long ranging consequences of changing our definitions of death and how we talk about it can be disastrous. We have had situations like this for many decades, so this change in how it's reported is not an organic change coming from people naturally. It's a change that is being directed from somewhere and it shouldn't be.
If you are breathing and your heart is beating, even if machines are supporting this, you are not dead and should not be referred to as such. It's concerning that the term "brain dead" is not being used. Is the boy's brain not dead? Are we now euthanizing people we feel will not recover in order to take their organs?
You see how obscuring the plain truth by changing the meaning of words can be a dangerous thing to do.
😢😢😢
He was just a kid sad ❤🕊
Condolences to the family. It's always heartbreaking to lose a child especially when they haven't had a chance to reach adulthood . May he RIP ! 🙏🌹
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤For their family.❤
Blessings to his family!!!
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bless this family always & God be with this family!! Prayers are with your family during this time!!! So sorry for your loss!!!!
god is GOOD all the time!
I am so very sorry !! May God Bless and hold up Asher's parents, friends and family during this horrific loss !! I am so sorry 🙏
He was a little kid 😢
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for family and friends of Asher🙏🙏
That’s really not good I’m so incredibly sorry 😢
' ! ❤️ ! " Responsibility Matters for ALL Lives " ! 😔 ! Sad ' RIP ' Dear Boy ! ✝️ ! '
Very tragic, prayers for the family. 🙏
My heart goes it to the family, Asher is with his Heavenly Father… God bless you Asher 🙏🏾🕊️
Sad
I'm so sorry for your loss.
May the Lord remember him in His kingdom💕
😢
Omg, that's terrible, tragic.😞😓😥😢😢😢But bittersweet at the same time since his death is going to save lives through organ donation.🕊️Wow, little Asher, a true hero. Rest in power little buddy.🙏🏼
So sad to hear this news. Prayers for his family.
So sorry to hear of his passing. So young and so sad. I feel sure he is with God. Praying for your family.
Prayers for Asher’s parents and family. May he rest in peace 😇
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
R.I.P. little man. May god and his angels guide you through heaven and show you the life you should have had. Condolonces to the family.
Poor child 😢😢😢 prayers for the family and father 💐💐
God bless this young man and his family 🙏☮️
Sorry to hear this
Im sending my condolences and prayers to all effected 🙏
So very, very sad, 🙏 for the family and friends, give them the strength to keep going. 🙏
How sad.😢
Fly high, Asher!😢❤
God bless this soul in the sleep in the spirit of the heavens.
❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Etc. in healing for the families etc. in believing
REST IN PEACE LITTLE MAN...GOD IS WITH YOU ...REST IN PEACE...LOVE AND ALOHA FROM HAWAII ❤️
He is in arms of JESUS ALWAYS MAY HE RIP
My condolences to the family God bless 🙏
❤💔❤️
Life is so unfair. God bless 🙏
Prayers for family
Jesus how thin was this kid to fit in a storm drain? Or why wasn’t a cover on it? That city has a lawsuit coming!
💔💔💔💔💔
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🙏 😞
I pray God’s peace will be with you all.
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🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
😞
So sad
🕊️
Rip
Very sad
To the mother and father, i wish i could share some of what you must be feeling right now, but i can only guess what that really is, bc i know what i think i would feel if i were in your shoes.
I just hope you get this, and let me take a minute to pause your chaos and just let you linger in my very simple advice, and hoping it helps lead you both through the hard time you're going to face, every single day for the rest of your lives...
But you already know that, i can only assume... so my hope for you is to remind you or make you aware of yourself. Grieve... as a couple, and in your own ways as individuals, while being extremely mindful of your mental and emotional states of health and making sure you never allow yourselves to forget the love you share for your child.. none of my children have passed, but life happened for me quickly and ive endured my own hardships and internal battles ive faced from absolute turmoil over my children and i know how loss has a way of influencing us in a way that either allows us to grow and lift people up that are in our lives and be a better person every day forward and pay personal attention to how you acknowledge who you are, who youve been, and who you want to be, and remember that no one event defines who you are...
Pay extra attention to how you treat others, and be open to the possibility that how you treat others is a reflection of how you treat yourself.
& lastly...
...Cry. Even if its out of nowhere... Even if you're on TV. Those emotions are something treasured that shouldn't and be hidden or ashamed or embarrassed of, or anything in any negative sense. taken for granted for the disguised blessing they are... real.
I hope courage, vulnerability, belief in a supreme good, trust, and faith guide you to where you all make sure and REQUIRE yourselves to build a discipline of taking a momentary deep breath and 15 second time out atleast one time every single day and making it your normal to say something loving, appreciating, supportive, or something you may be concerned about with eachother...
I just wanted you to start actively being mindful to these simple realizations and tools that mentally help you prepare, and grow. So, love yourselves..
But most importantly, dont be someome that fails to see when your partner needs you... or be prideful and have an inflated ego that may make asking for help hard...
Allow yourself to be. And just know that if you feel it, it's probably because you are supposed to... it's okay to smile, or enjoy something. Its not alright to bottle up the darker things in life to the point where you no longer even believe there's a chance for anything to light up your day.
Im a dad to the sweetest daughter's in the world. But i arrived at this spot in my life bc i lost my self worth, and image after yhe military. I had mental and emotional wellbeing struggle, i had lost all my friends. The woman i have been in love with for 8 years, even though she walked away and all the circumstances that'll forever be regrets. I hated myself. My relationship was in shambles. I had just lost custody of my son... was sent to korea as a result. The judge knew if i was awarded the 50/50 i was asking for, my orders would be canceled and id already been told by Branch they would cancel my orders... i end up in korea 2018-2019.. missed my ladys entire pregnancy.. and lost her. I got home february 2019, and soent 3 years locking myself up in my bedroom, with so much anger, rage, and absolute disgust with multiple major relationships in my life that i had to realize if i didnt do the work, it would end... and i wanted what i was giving in return.. i tried to talk to her over 7000 times about the same issue, not prioritizing me and our family, and refusing me basic human acknowledgement.
I had asked from feb 2019, all the way til we split may 3, 2022. Ive learned to find the peace in the presence of the world and its beautiful nature.. i full on ugly cried, every single day after she left me for 10.5 months straight... had nothing. Had nobody... except my daughter's. They were the only people i had that showed me concern or even acknowledged that i wasn't the bad person alot of people around them had been trying to tell them i was...
And my daughter's were the ones that stood up for me. Theyre 7 and 5 now. About 4 years ago i had whooped my now 7 year old, and it was way harder than i thought and she wiggled away causing me to miss her diaper and smack her back, and the way she looked at me made me a small man in an instant and i was so ashamed and disgusted and disappointed in myself...
after 3 months of absolutely nothing to do with me, she decided to finally talk to me and gave me a chance to grow and forgive me in the process while i worked on change i knew i needed the moment i saw that love and admiration weren't the emotions i seen on her face the day i spanked her.. it was hate... and pure, raw fear, in a little girl lthat was absolutely innocent and beautiful... and was scared to death of me and was afraid I was just going to hurt her...
3 months of her refusing to even get in the car if if was going to be anywhere i was at. When asked if she wanted to talk to me, i would hear her in the background on the phone start crying while saying no and she doesn't want to and im mean and she doesnt ever want to see me again... and she threw a fit just bc i wanted to tell her goodnight..
I just knew right then, i had to change... i wanted to. And i did. I became more aware of accountability being an individual responsibility, and being a better man was all i wanted to focus on after we ended up separated..
Couple years since then, but to this day, i have never whooped my daughter's since. Instead i earned their trust. I listen to them. I let them explain. I let them defend theirselves. I use mistakes as examples so they know that i was wrong for the way i had been, and there's no excuse just bc im their dad. If i am wrong, or i am doing something they're confused with morally or ethically, I've made it clear that i am all about asking questions about the things they're fascinated with, and they ask alot. Theyre both straight A❤ young ladys, listen to me without hesitation, talk to me about anything that is bothering them... i am still heartbroken and would love to be with their mother again... but i didn't catch the change i needed for my relationship with her in time and i held myself accountable and guilt ate me alive and regret and shame and for quite a while now, all i do is miss her and my family being together... bc i miss too much. And knowing ill never have them every day the way i did before... ive tried to get her to even speak to me bc we havent even talked about it in the 2 years since... but ive tried.. and shown her nothing but love and concern that she truthfully did not deserve from me... i had legitimate reasons to be upset with her. It was how i went about it that was wrong... i was toxic and had to grow up and lost the love of my life over failure to be aware of who i had become...
And this is long, i know... and i apologize.. the hurt and burdens i carry are not the same as yours, but i told you a bit about me and my circumstances that allowed me to become aware and change and grow. And live again. And be proud of the character i display that i admire and respect. And seeing things that have played out because i worked on that character actively, i stopped hating myself.. i processed some abandonment issues with multiple people... then earning the love i get from my daughters... which is what let me love myself again. My girls are literally my best friends and theres no doubt in my mind that my ex and our daughters are absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me and i earned havinf 2 daddys girls... and it was everything that taught me that change and growth are alot easier than we think, but regardless of life and whatever it throws at us, we are always in control of how we display ourselves and how we treat people.. and regardless of others actions, decency is free.. i had to lose the best thing that i ever had to wake up and acknowledge that i was someone i wasnt proud of, but i own and am ashamed of admitting, but am not ashamed of admitting that it was my 3 or 4 year old daughters that taught me and gave me a lesson about how to be a man through that whole thing.. i miss tf out my girls and i don't get enough time
.. its never enough. Just hurts knowing...
Point in all of it... there's no way to grow without criticism and compassion... and my thoughts are with you all as a father, and someone who just happened to hear about your loss.. heal... seek peace. I don't know how or where you find it. I know for me it was teaching myself to fish at 28 and working through the absence of a father in my life and using that to drive me at a time when I could only describe as finding hope in the hopeless. You're stronger than you know.. make sure you don't lose sight of what you've got, in grief of what you've lost.. be humbled by heartache and let who you want to be, be who you are.. I don't pray, but I do believe in something that orchestrates room for beauty to blossom from disaster when we open ourselves up and love every moment thst makes you happy and every moment that makes you sad.. and never look down on yourself for being sad and feeling vulnerable. I wish you both the absolute best of well wishes, and strength in the process of healing and happiness..
I'd rather be at a lake, thinking about God, than sittin in church, thinking about going fishing.
😇🙏🏻❤️
He floats...they ALL float
Apparently he wasn't smart enough to get inside
His parents give him a ridiculous name like Asher & then let him be swept into a storm drain during a flood...This is a D-List Movie Tragedy. RIP Kid.
There is no details about how it happened so I’m thinking 🤔 how strange as well. Do people not watch their kids?