I had a damn interview I got there almost 30 minutes late and he didn’t even bother with me so y’all think whatever you want. Thanks for everything Super I don’t care what any of these people had to say keep doing your thing.
You say "he didn't even bother with me" after showing up 30 minutes late like that came to you as a surprise? You should've taken the ride and did what you had to do as a man with kids, weirdo.
But you were going to be there @12:30 so you weren’t late. What happened that you ended up being 30 mins late then? I feel you didn’t try hard enough because you would have made that appointment. And that’s after he gave you another chance after not making that first appointment. Not a good look for you dude.
I bet if you heard his story, he'd describe being raised by his mama. Now he's an emotional mess because he never had dad around to set him straight, and found his new mama to take care of him.
Mikey sounds like he is full of excuses. Been a stay at home dad for 5 years? C’mon man. Your problems didn’t start when your girlfriend missed 2 weeks of work to birth a baby resulting in her missing pay. He has had plenty of time to get a job or some type of income to better their life. I hate to see women chose a man over their own children. Sad situation all around.
Maybe Mikey is not good at working thru problems. Not everyone with degrees are good working thru problems. I suggested they need to learn how to pray. I have used prayer as problem solving tool since December 2009. In my experience prayer does help you to work thru problems, as you get answers to your prayers and your problems become less.
I see drug addiction written all over his face! She even said, he tested positive for fentanyl at his last job interview. You don’t test positive by smelling it! Why have another child and he still hasn’t found a JOB! She should go and stay with her brother with her kids! That dude is a LOSER!She shouldn’t be doing the daily pay thingy, she should be paying the hotel in advance. Paying it daily runs up the costs! Her going back to work, TWO WEEKS after a C-Section is so dangerous to her health! She’s in hopes of him getting a job, so she’s believing his lies! Let’s hope she wakes up and decides to only support herself and her babies! She needs to drop this rock immediately! This is sad!
@Sometimes I Get Carried Away he may or may not be a “junkie”, but he might be taking something and waiting a few days before donating plasma! There’s too many jobs out here to get. He’s over qualified, doesn’t make any sense. Walmart, Target, or any restaurant would hire on the spot! They’re not looking for qualifications, just workers! It’s been FIVE years, and you mean to tell us that he hasn’t been able to find a job that he’s qualified for? Lies!
I thought the same thing. He probably didn't show because he knew he would fail the drug test. I hope this wonderful lady mandates rehab or he can fend for himself. It would honestly be the best thing for both of them as well as their children.
We all knew there was NO job interview when he refused the ride. What happened to "My interview is at 2pm but I have a bus pass and will get there at 12:30"? Everyone can clearly see that this man has a substance abuse problem. How do you allow this man to not work a job for 5 years? This woman is seriously in denial and I feel sorry for her and those children.
True, This guy doesn't want to work. He can't find a job in this economy? Even with a bad President, there are jobs galore, because people don't want to work after Covid. He would rather live off of her and public assistance and get as much of a free ride as he can. You have to help yourself first. This guy is a user and a loser. That woman should run away from this jerk.
You can definitely tell. If you look closely after haircut. You can see breakout in the face around the mouth. This dude is a dope head, hope he gets some help. He talks about being sad about it, but he doesn't have the strength to put it down for his family. You cannot help a person who won't help themselves.
As a social worker I see women like her daily. They are co dependent and have savior mentality at this risk of their own well being. He is clinging onto her for life and she wants to feel wanted and loved so there you have it. Terrible cycle. Meanwhile, neither can raise or parent their children. Thankfully, her brother stepped in. They will remember that their mother chose a man over them and will be resentful.
I didn't have kids, but I was the one who worked. I couldn't see past the BS of the guy. I was dependent on him emotionally. But I did wake up one day. I have a place with my cats and never forget how grateful I am.
@@marjorieallard6665 I can relate to what you've said word-for-word. Even the part about the cats lol Seriously, best decision of my life was when I finally woke up and decided to leave.
100%. Unless he’s ingesting fentanyl, there is No way he would “test positive”. It’s like someone saying you caught chlamydia from a toilet seat. Doesn’t happen.
My glaring observation and advice to women of child bearing age is to Protect Your Womb. If she was childless and struggling to be with him, she would eventually break free and might do well on her own. But having had his children binds her (psychologically) in a different way. Ladies, if you know that your partner is behind the eight-ball financially, please don't bring babies into the equation. You're not giving them a fair chance because love alone won't get the job done when it comes to raising productive children.
Love you’re not wrong about this. My sons dad USED to be a deadbeat and I used to be broke. Through hard work and communication with him I went back to school and worked and he watched our son for a while so I could better my life. Long story short- I got a good full time job, then a house, then a better car. He too bettered his life and ended up bonding with our son and being a great dad. I know my story is the EXCEPTION not the rule and I’m damn lucky. Two people both WANTED to change and better themselves and our son now has two responsible parents. Like I said... My story is the EXCEPTION not the rule and I shouldn’t have been in situation to begin with. Being irresponsible, blaming others, and no accountability will get you no where but heartache in life!
That man is horrible for forcing his childs mother to work after giving birth and then let the kids go to foster care. She could find a homeless shelter for her and the kids and let him sleep on the concrete.
I used to be in this situation. No one forces you to do anything unless theres a human trafficking hostage situation. She can leave him. Our actions and choices results to our very own situations!
@@spalahang So true. Something tells me she has low self-esteem and is "settling" with him as she doesn't think she can do any better. So she's willing to believe him, plus she has a child with him. I would never chose a man over my children, but that's what she's doing. I agree...she could easily leave him but she won't.
Her kids aren't in foster care...they are living with her brother now because of their current living conditions (cockroaches, drug-infested area, etc.).
The young lady doing the apartment building tour in the beginning sounds like a competent gem of an employee…her positioning of the facilities, etc. is top notch!
Yes! I agree! I was very impressed by the way she presented the property and communicated with the guest. Someone needs to recruit her to be a realtor. She could do very well for herself.
Sometimes I feel so tired but watching this makes me realized I have to be grateful to have my job even when I have to wake up at 2 in the morning to get ready in order to make it on time sometimes I'm too tired but this shows me I must keep going no matter what
Yes! Especially right now it’s dang near impossible to get a job. I started telling myself “ I GET to go to work today” instead of I HAVE to go to work today” Sounds lame lol but it really does change your mindset!
It’s ridiculous how expensive apartments have become. Just the application fees and security deposit is enough to deter many people. Now every complex has mandatory extra fees like valet trash service. Why are all new apts labeled “luxury” now? I feel sorry for young people today trying to get started in life. Oh and that couple you interviewed, I feel bad for her especially but all I kept hearing from them was excuses. There is definitely some drug activity going on there.
Holy cow. That guy is definitely not sober. He can’t get a job because he can’t piss clean. They won’t tell the truth. Just complain about their situation.
Might not be drugs. But probably IS! No reason to be living this way if one shows up and works, has a credit history, a safety savings fund. Not that difficult, unless all money is spent on heroin.
@@mommak8342 yes I think the way this man presents himself just shows, well, it just shows everything. Smoking, lying on the bed the way he is during this video, mumbling. Feel sorry for the wife, kids and dog.
I’m 26 and I’ve lived in “luxury housing” a few times in my life. It’s very beautiful but it’s cheaply made and a horrible experience dealing with property management companies. At this point my goal is to buy a 3 unit apartment building and live in 1 unit. That’s the most economical way for my fiancé and I to become homeowners and eventually buy a larger single family home. Hoping and praying something changes because it literally gets worse every year.
It's the financialization of our economy. We didn't have the inflation problem until the Federal Reserve lowered rates near zero so Wall Street could get cheap loans and drive up asset prices.
The problem is, she loves him. She's embarrassed of him & tries to make excuses for him, but she knows the truth, which is, that she'll never get out of that cycle as long as she stays with him. She's so worried about his well being without her, that she lost her children & is losing herself.
If she could not work or became ill, he would be on to the next low self-esteam woman WITH a paycheck in a blink of an eye and wouldn't care two hoots about her at all.
People who give up in life are people who lose in life, my first experience happens to be a failure but I never gave up cause I knew it was going to work out for me trying continuously, fortunately I'm smiling today by getting involved in investment.
You're absolutely right, you've remind me of what someone once said "The mind is the man, the poor is in it and the rich is it too". This sentence is the secret of most successful investors. I once attended similar and ever since then been waxing strong financially, and i most tell you the truth..investment is the key that can secure your family future.
Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth, investing remains a priority. I learnt from my last year's experience, i am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time
I urge everyone to start somewhere now no matter how small, this is literally the time for that, forget material things, don't get tempted,i became more better the moment i realized this.
Maybe it's me, but I heard her complaining about roaches in the other places they lived. Looking at all the big gulp cups sitting around that room. They might have contributed to that situation. He's not working and won't even clean up the place. Thing that make you go hmmm....
Sorry but here in Houston (and various other states) roaches are in EVERY SINGLE APARTMENT. Even when you stat clean. Landlords are responsible for making sure the walls and foundation are bug free. Cant clean behind drywall hun. It’s a structural issue that requires maintenance.
@@sayyadinawitch We have bark scorpions here in Arizona, but thankfully most responsible apartment complexes will spray regularly, or at a tenant's request.
I work with the homeless and they keep the big gulp cups and the McDonald’s cups because you can go into the store and get a refill for free or cheaper. In the McDonald’s here if you don’t buy anything you are ask to leave. If you have a cup, you go in and get the refill and you can sit for a while in a cool setting if it is hot. It’s why you usually see the cups from fast food or mini marts.
No one should be required to work in this country that’s what’s wrong with this country you shouldn’t live to just work then die. Very stupid. Freedom dude
She’s in denial she speaks every time he speaks because she knows his drug use is showing. She’s in love to the point she’ll ride with him to skid row. If she left on her own she could get to the point of living in those nice apartments & get her kids back. He’s all talk… she knows it… until she starts believing who he is based on his actions vs words she will continue to sink with him. Just truly sad… I’d love to hear what her brother thinks about this guy.
If that lady at 12:00 did her life solo w the kids, her life would be easier. I understand you don’t want to be lonely. But mothering an extra adult will always keep one behind.
@Emzy Willrich Who carried and birthed those children? I'll wait. Men like you act as if fathers who do their DUTY of providing are doing women a FAVOR. Be grateful women continue to give birth to you losers.
@@emzywillrich7243 It would be different if he was home taking care of the children as a stay at home dad. So you can’t compare this drug using bun to a man being a man and provider!!!
I considered a motel after my apartment complex ended my lease after 4 years. But most apparently had bed bugs and still cost over $1200 a month. I decided to stay in my Jeep for a month until my apartment was available.
I did the same thing. I stayed in my car for 3 month in the dead of summer (June-july -aug) got a 2nd job working at Amazon. Worked at the hospital from 8-4 and Amazon 6-3am. I was able to buy my first 🏡 which was a lot cheaper than getting an apartment.
My advice is to buy real property. Even if it is a studio apartment. Become an owner. If your credit is not great, fix it. Even if your credit is not great, speak with a mortgage broker. Speak with NACA. Ask about FHA and USDA loans. Ask about down payment assistance programs. If you can consistently pay rent for 4 years, you can pay a mortgage. But after owning a property for 4 years you will have equity. Equity offers better options. Good Luck.
This is frustrating on his end. My husband had never spent more then 2 days looking for a job in the phx area. There are SOOO many construction, HVAC, plumbing, fast food jobs and more hiring everywhere. He’s NOT over qualified but he’s not under qualified and I’m sure can be taught a trade. He just doesn’t want it enough.
People seem to misunderstand what “overqualified” actually means. It’s not that employers think you’re to good for the job they have on offer, but that you’re likely to leave at the first chance of better job that more aligns with your resume. Why would an employer want to take the person they’re fairly sure will be gone as soon as possible, when they can higher and train someone with less options in life than their low paying job?
Right, he doesn’t want it at all. Even as a SAHM I found a way to make money online side hustle and make some money to contribute after I first had my kids as newborns until I could go work my real job while their dad was working just cause I didn’t want to feel like a bum ya know?
As a mechanic with qualifications and a degree these last 6 months I had the hardest time I ever had finding a mechanic job. It’s actually scary how hard it was for me to find a job I never had this issue before. Luckily I found one and luckily I was employed the entire time while searching. The economy is scary right now
Did anyone else catch that there was 2 different reasons why they were evicted? They had so many roaches they were refusing to pay rent but then at the same time, they wanted to renew their lease and weren’t allowed to? There’s just so much that doesn’t add up about these people
She was on maternity leave and they go behind on rent as her job didn't give her PAID maternity leave, they had roaches because of low-income housing which cheap gov't landlords only will spray one apartment not the entire building so they just come back. It was a long story and they interrupted each other so it was confusing, I know.
@@shellyslioneyes Please. Look at all the empty big gulp cups scattered around that room, I’m sure they contributed to their own issues. It’s just easier to make excuses than own up to the fact that her loser man is on drugs and refuses to work. BS fast food says he’s “overqualified” - especially for the last five years Lmao everyone was short staffed during covid and most businesses were hiring literally anyone who would apply. He’s a bum & she enables him. Talking about he failed a drug test from fentanyl that came from under the door 😂😂 pleaseeeee
Single woman living in New Mexico and when my grandma passed away I became homeless I was her caregiver I am now in a motel paying $1,600 a month prayers please I'm really struggling.. 🙏🥰 thank you!
I will and I understand. I've been living in a motel for the past year. I have bad credit and a past eviction so it's hard to find a decent place to live on my income. I keep saying things are going to get better and this is temporary, but when you are alone in a motel room it can be pretty depressing.
@@afropick3445 it takes time, look at studio apartments , i found 1 and stayed there 6 years and it was only 100 a week the whole 6 years, i was like u couldnt rent a regular apartment , i eventually rented a house from a private owner , then a apartment froma private owner , u have to seek the private owner type rentals , and big company u wont get anything unless u can pay a years rent in advance,
Same here, there's was No Logical reason for turning down a ride! I nearly lived her life for 10 years, just short of living in hotels, but with my mother in a 35ft Travel Trailer!😢😬😖😭 with my ex and 2 kids! One was a new born at the time. I finally had enough, told him to get OUT, got a job myself, and moved out of the hell hole I lived in. He never paid child support, (no problem, I collected for HIS inheritance from his parents!) I have remained, both kids went to College and are successful and I have 2 Beautiful Granddaughters, so far😉 (that he has never seen 😁)and I have retired! Last I heard he's still a bum,still no job (and I hear no Teeth 😬) it was a VERY small town🤷♀️
I do agree. How could you agree to a haircut and then turn down a ride to the interview. We didn't have to be an Oracle to predict what was going to happen. I wonder what his bachelor's degree was in. It certainly wasn't in finance!
Watching this gives me the worst anxiety and flashbacks to such a terrible time in my life. When a man sucks the life out of you while you just try to hold things down, has to be one of the worst experiences to go through. He’s clearly on substances. He clearly has zero intention of working or getting clean and will continue to use his wife as long as she lets him. This video made me sick to my stomach.
Arbys would be the perfect job for him. He could easily walk there in a few minutes. He would not have to rely on anyone taking him, and being so close, he could easily pick up extra shifts.
Of COURSE he could have. He could also go to a temporary agency who are always looking for workers to send to companies who these days RELY on temp workers. I just retired from a manufacturing plant after twenty five and a half years, and the entire time we used temporary workers for all three shifts. He's kicking back, puffing away on a smoke, talking about how "she's doing all she can". This is insulting. Dude could EASILY find a job. I hear NOTHING but "poor us" excused from these two, but NOTHING they're going through is any different than every other generation. It's called personal accountability, personal responsibility, and using the grey matter between the ears. Sorry, I've been around a long time and have heard it all. Dude could and should be working.
In fairness it is mainly this expensive for them because they have messed up their lives to the point that the only place that will even consider letting them in the door is a fricking hotel. A HOTEL! It would be like if I got so many DUIs that they took my license away and then I got banned from city busses because I kept getting in fights or what have you on them... then I sat here complaining about how expensive it is to have to take a taxi everywhere. Yeah, taxi's... like hotels... aren't set up to be the cheapest option. However, they are the only ones that will take you at this point.
I wish the best for that couple. I hope they both get the professional help that they need. Denial is a powerful force. I knew she was already on that BS when she said he tested positive but doesn’t even use the stuff. I’m in the mental health/ substance abuse field and I ‘see’ this type of thinking play out all of the time. It’s pretty sad actually.
As soon as she said her man tested positive for fentanyl because their neighbors used it a lot, I was googling that ish and the consensus seems to be that "second hand high" from fentanyl is pretty dang uncommon, perhaps not even possible.
You don’t get a contact high with a positive test from Fentanyl. These people think we’re all stupid. Lots of us are 1) clean and sober and have talked more BS than they have, and 2) have medical degrees.
Stay-at-home dad for 5 years?!?! Are you serious?!?! She’s making excuses for him!!!!! And he’s making excuses!!! Big ups to you Big Super-you are a good guy!
@Hoopty Driver I would possibly believe that if was just 1 maybe 2 jobs tops not hiring him but every single job? And the jobs he interviews for aren't hiring him because he is "over qualified"? No sorry don't buy it for 1 second.
I look forward to these videos from Big Supa. I noticed this woman is seriously co-dependent x10. She like many women with low self worth will hold onto a man at any cost. Thankfully, her brother stepped in and took the girls. This woman is a hard working and got a hustler work ethic. She would be good on her own. Her love for this man is holding her back though.
Working in the medical field for 20 years, I see these people all the time. It's never their fault. They talk and talk and talk but never take personal responsibility. They have a sob story and blame everything else and are professional victims. It's all drugs and alcohol at the end of the day. They come in talking about how they never do drugs or drink, but you can tell merely by looking at them, they are full of shit. I have seen what drugs and alcohol do to people. You can't hide the effects of the drugs and alcohol on your body and mind.
@Freddie Cunningham Helping is fine to a point. The problem is helping turns into enabling eventually. They get too much help and are always looking for a handout and stay the perpetual victim. They choose drugs and alcohol over everything and then complain about the consequences of their own choices. They need to suffer the consequences, not be babied and coddled.
@@Wasabi5000 when people are healthy mentally and physically, have a strong support system to help them navigate hard times AND have REAL opportunities to stand up on their own professionally, THEY DO! Nobody wants to come out of a situation like this and work a shit job. Drug use is a numbing agent. If we want homelessness to end & community support to end, WE MUST have good jobs with living wages available AND affordable housing!
This is a LIVING REALITY and I'm glad someone is shining a spotlight on this!!!! Someone I dated previously is going thru the same thing currently in their life, but the good thing is that her son is living with her in a 2-bedroom motel in GA. She lost everything in storage not long ago after having to move from a place she was renting because the owner sold it. He gave her time to move, but she couldn't find a suitable place to replace where she lived and ended up renting the motel every week. At the same time, she was unemployed and dealing with medical issues and her options were limited. She now has a good job working for Toyota in GA, but she's still stuck in the hotel situation, and she tries to hustle to make extra money. I'm doing ok myself and have my own apartment in TX. I offered for her to move here so she could save up money to help her get on her feet, but she's got a teenage son and of course her job with Toyota that she just got. She's not going to give up what she already has to move here. All I can say is, that it doesn't take much for people to end up in this situation. Honestly, she's doing better than me as far as the job is concerned and sometimes, I wonder how I'm able to just make it every month myself?? I'm grateful that I can stand on my own two feet and still take care of everything myself.
Mike - it is very brave of you to share your life on here. But as recovering addict myself I can spot someone dying from the disease. Even if you are not using buddy, it manifests in your suicide attempt and self esteem. At least go to meetings and get a sponsor. It will help you with your stability.
You can, he mentioned he has a bachelors degree and he’s applying at fast foods, i was “overqualified” one time as a sales representative for solar, im bilingual, i have customer service experience, negotiation experience, finances experience, etc. and i was told “you have the necessary skills we need, but you’re overqualified and we feel that there’s better candidates out there”
Depending on the position you're applying for, only list experiences for the position. If you're a civil engineer (CE) and unemployed, do not list your CE experiences if you are applying for a janitorial or restaurant position.
I've worked for many restaurants and they'll hire anybody with a pulse. New hires come and go all the time, nobody gives a rats ass whether you have a degree or not. If you have a bachelors degree, go apply to any restaurant. I guarantee you 90% will hire you. Restaurants, theaters, bookstores, etc are FILLED with college graduates.
He is her biggest problem bar none. Unload him the sooner the better. If you really love him & you have children together, you can tell him he can have supervised visits once he goes to rehab & get serious about supporting his family. At least she's trying...6 days a week! He's a huge lazy liability...unload him!
So, men are not allowed to suffer from depression? The man tried to kill himself twice. He needs to be in some type of facility to get to the root of his problem. It could be drugs or psychosis.
Don't be judgemental. Struggling to survive will drive you to do drugs. Empathy is needed. Not your gd judgment that does absolutely nothing for anyone.
@@FeralAmity what is it,that makes you afford to pay,for drugs,but can’t save that money,to get you out of that situation.And to keep having children in their situation,is the height of irresponsibility.
He just seems lazy. He sees himself as above doing certain work. Dude hasn't worked in 5 years so he is not "over qualified" for anything. Probably content letting her pay for everything while he spends his days complaining about how the system is rigged against him. She seems hard working and would be better off without him.
I have a hard time with wrapping my head around the fact that they told him he was over qualified. Any place would love for him to wash dishes or push a broom or bag groceries or prep food. I just don't feel like he is putting 100% in because he would have a job. He looks pretty well put together so I'm just curious how much effort he puts in 🤷
It's probably a lie BUT I will say, its the number one reason they use to let you down easy after an interview. "Oh you are great but you are just too over qualified for this position. You are amazing. Good luck out there. Please don't shoot up the place or steal anything on the way out. "
Honestly I can say I’ve traveled the whole USA working in the same type of business. Nevada and Arizona have so much warehouse work these days and the prior 10yrs that you can walk into ANY temp agency and go to work the next day making 15-18hr!!! This guy is a lazy piece of work!!!!! He wasn’t going to an interview!!!! He’s a damn JOKE!!! He can careless about her working 6days to support him and now he has free childcare so he doesn’t have to do that either!!!!! THANK GOD for the brother for those children!!!! She needs to get rid of his “over qualified” lazy ass!!
I work for a hotel at the front desk and I never make anyone leave after 28 days. I just make them make a New reservation and put their reservation in their mom's name. No sense making anyone leave like that!
“Fast food won’t hire me cuz I’m over qualified.” I headed my mother telling me this every time my drug addict stepdad couldn’t get a job. She was in just as much denial as this woman. Also, he has a 4 year degree? I call BS. I’d be surprised if he even has a GED.
Lol no, a BA AND an Associates… can’t get a job anywhere. I just can’t with this guy. Over-qualified for everything. Maybe he should go interview for CEO for Bank of America or something… Christ.
That’s the first thing I thought of when he said he had a bachelors degree … BS 🙄 I’m like no, as a matter of fact, he sounds like he may be under the influence.
While I believe it's a very small possibility that you could, it's higly unlikely. And I absolutely don't believe that's what happened in this case either
This couple I feel bad for. It's so true that when you have to live in a hotel the cops treat you like your an addict. My wife and I lived in some of the hotels she mentioned. It's sooo hard to get back in a normal apartment after losing everything and having to live in a car or hotel. Good luck!!! You will make it!!! Don't give up
I know he is reading the comments and angry but…. You can fool some people but you can’t fool yourself. Let these comments motivate you to join AA, seek counseling and find work. Sometimes people look physically able to work but their past trauma along with low self worth makes it harder for them to work.
Sometimes in life one needs to let go If one person does more that the other. It's time to let go. Poor does not meanto be ashamed. But this needs to be fit. Let him go. Thank you Super for this educational interview.
The irony of poverty is that it can be one of the most expensive lifestyles. If you can't qualify to rent an apartment, you end up in a hotel AND eating out WAY more than if you had access to a proper kitchen. I like to live as frugal as possble because an ilness or job loss can happen at anytime and I want to make sure I can weather an unexpected event and not end up in a bad situation.
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@desertedenblooms Where do you keep your eggs and sandwiches if you live outside? What do you do after you get robbed of everything including birth certificates, id, social? The guy in the video is bullshitting, but there are people who are not getting hired anywhere because they have no qualifications or references. When was the last time you slept in a shelter with a mentally unstable dude with a shank, a rapist and a couple gang members while dealing with corrupt staff making it hard for you to either get work or work without losing your bed, getting robbed by staff or being reprimanded in some way.
I 100% agree. I make decent money for a single woman and came into a decent amount of money and i put in all my savings and when I had to buy a car before pandemic shutdown I could've bought the beautiful foreign luxury car that i Wanted BUT I'm extremely smart and frugal with my money and live like i make WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY less than i actually do and couldn't rationalize to buy a big ticket item cause the "What ifs" something bad happens and i start falling behind and end up in a bad financial decision.
@@LueyLoca well i would keep it where I kept mine in a cooler with ice! when I did not have a frig! for weeks! because I could not afford one. I spent a over a month with three kids sleeping on a neighbors living room floor and couch. Cleaning their home to repay the kindness and mostly spending time outside because we had pets to take care of ...I have seen hard time...the person said she did not wish me in any shelter, I was prepared to have to go because work was about to start up....my my your so self righteous, probably voted for diaper wearing moron and more programs! good luck with that . THEY ARE IN A HOTEL! WITH A SMALL FRIG! THEY CAN FILL IT UP SOME USEABLE RESOURCES AND EAT WELL... IF NOT YOU BUY , USE EACH DAY, ITS A PAIN BUT ITS DOABLE...STOP TREATING PEOPLE LIKE PETS, PEOPLE NEED TO THINK AND DO FOR THEMSELVES!
I have a family member who would rather be homeless and live off of money of others. His motto is "work is for the man who doesn't know how to party". These two people are full of excuses. No reason for a 46 year old man to not be working. Drugs are obviously still an issue.
America. I got put out of my apartment for one month's rent. I got the money up within the month, but late fees made it more than I could afford. At the same time, they did a dog amnesty at my apartments for all the people who were sneaking their pets in without paying. They would allow the pets to stay for free. So the beginning of this video reminded me of that. Such luxury right next to the people who don't have much. This is the American way.
Respect to you, Super. Cali uses the phrase "affordable housing" to manipulate all kinds of theft but never addresses the actual issues. We have one journalist who, just like you, talks to the people. It's very educational. 🏆
Stayed at a Microtel Inn for about 10 months. After doing some research, I learned after 28 days I could establish residency. From there I would be exempt from paying the rental or hotel tax. Saved me about $250 a month.
anyone notice how happy the good boy looked on the second segment haha. what a nice dog, it does show a little bit of what kind of people the owners are.
All these fees before even being accepted is what I call BS fees. It doesn’t cost 200$ to run that check and they are making a mint between application fees and check fees alone.
I applied one time with a private landlord.. told her before I applied I had a previous eviction.. paid $80 PER PERSON to apply, she ran a case search online for free and then turned around and said she couldn’t rent to us bc we were evicted previously. They stealing peoples money out here
I was pulling for dude to get that job, too...but after seeing him turn down a free ride, l actually said out loud...He ain't going to no interview...he's going somewhere that he don't want Super to see. I just hope his wife will face the reality that his positive drug test was unlikely from second-hand source floating in the air. Dude is using probably drugs and lying to his wife about it. Enabling this man won't help this families circumstances. I know codependency is a tough habbit to beat,, but the wife needs to focus on getting a place for just her and the kids, so they can have stability together in the future. I was very hopeful, even though I felt it was a long shot that Mikey wasn't full of ...💩
I know everyone situation is different but I have a question. Why do people who are already struggling decide to have children? Plus, why do they CURRENTLY have a dog?
I'm glad you made this video I'm from Chicago but, when I moved to Indianapolis for 6 yrs I was surprised how many people live and how many hotels had weekly rates but, from $250 years ago to 300 to $350 a week it's basically your check if you making $10 to $15 hour. You can't save up to move out!! Now imagine you got a girl and kids. I sacrificed and slept in my car for 2 weeks to get out. Once my check was screwed up and I didn't have my weekly rent. I told the owner my boss was going to cut me a paper check. The hotel manager said hey no problem just leave your things and pay me when you get back. Well I got back after the bank was closed and the check cashiers was skeptical of the signature check. So I slept in my car for a night till I was able to cash it. If your credit not perfect and I'm talking 600 or you can have a 10 to 15 year old eviction not to mention some places want 2 months security and you have a car need maintenance and $4-5 dollar a gallon gas and lastly you remember to eat. Once you move in a motel it's nearly impossible to move out. A lot of apartments don't care how old your eviction is. They NOT excepting you even though I make twice as much now. RENT in major cities in the WORST neighborhoods in Chicago are More than most rural areas. Houses in bad neighborhoods are $250,000 to $300,000
I liked the juxtaposition of the new place and then the situation that these two are in because its the reality for so many people. This was a great video.
I live in Tempe. Have for 30 years. Tempe has invisible gated communities. The invisible gates are regulations and practices. It is not a kind city. Doesn't matter who is mayor or which party they belong to, because nothing changes.
No, that's not how it works. It's called individual effort brings about individual results. And being that all these people are grown, they get to decide what kind of excuses they want to live by or what kind of life they are going to have. And the parents success or lack of success flows over to THEIR children and that is without exception. I heard a bunch of excuses which is common when people get caught up in these types of ruts. They have made a whole lot of mistakes for sure. And it all comes down to the mindset. It also lets you know the truth that white privilege is just something politicians sell us. For I have seen a whole lot more white people begging on the street corners and living these type of struggling existence. Never let anyone sell you anything but individual effort and responsibility. Any excuse is enough to land you where these people are.
@@SquidSnuggles Ah, yes. Unfortunately the reason these people can feel as entitled as they do is because of people like you. This 'man' has not had any kind of employment in 5 YEARS. (strangely SHE seems to find jobs). Leaves his wife and children homeless and often without enough food. Obviously has a substance abuse issue, but that's all ok. His life might have taken a turn for the worse. We don't know - you are also making assumptions about that. He needs to be held to a higher standard. The man has children. My enormous taxes contribute to this man's irresponsible lifestyle. I have every right to be 'judgemental'.
@@katiebrent3332nd why keep disclosing that information if it prohibits you from getting a job? It's not like they'll check. Oh right he doesn't want to "lie" about it 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Thank you for showing this. People need to see how the world really is. The first 12 years of my life with my mother, I grew up in a rooming house, one room, two single beds. We shared the kitchen with 10 people. Always took the toilet paper with me to the washroom. Things have turned out good for me but I can't forget the past. I'm very frugal. I have no credit card. I have no debt. Thank God for my past. It's made my future much better. Why do we send money to Ukraine, and not help people in our own country. I'm from Canada.
Nothing wrong with a credit card if you pay it off every month. Unless you are one of those people that can't handle having one. Then it's smart to not have one. How do you buy things online?
@@DAVIDSMITH-kj8di I agree there's nothing wrong with a credit card if that works for you. I just depend on myself I do not want to follow anyone's rules. When I spend money I look at my bank account and then I purchase I don't wait for the end of the month to pay them off I do it daily. It just works for me but we were all different individuals
@@DAVIDSMITH-kj8di We aren't all able to buy things online in the real world. I'm 61 and have never had a credit card. 29% interest, I don't think so, there's nothing I need that bad!
My family had low income rentals for a long time. But many people didn’t qualify for apartments because they either trashed their previous rentals, or had been evicted because of drugs. They usually ended up spending more on hotels than renting.
I am a landlord in Los Angeles and it’s totally illegal to have bedbugs. In fact, you can go to court and Sue for any damage caused to you and lawyers are very worried about that always report bedbugs right away, and if your landlord isn’t taking care of it make sure you go to the housing department.
I do property management. Sadly took a risk on 3 families like this. Only 1 remains other 2 families were evicted before a month. They committed hate crimes against the other tenants. Breaks my heart and I no longer believe everything they say. You can see he's influenced by a substance
Big Super your an amazing person helping them out like this. I honestly don’t think this man had a job interview. He had said he has been trying to find a job and no one will hire him. Ok if that is true, why at the end did the guy say it’s his first job interview in 5 years? Get a security job and work nights if you have too, do handy work and side jobs, heck do online surveys and make a few bucks a day if you have too. Don’t just sit and waste away.
I peeped that too! He responded above and said he arrived 30 minutes later for job interview and managed didn’t want to be bothered and he doesn’t seem to get it! Super offered him a ride. Sad! Hopefully, he’ll get together.
I had two great parents and grew up in a home. I can't imagine it but I have compassion for those that didn't have the advantage that I had. My mother was a stay-at-home mom and an intellect. Almost all of my siblings and I have advanced degrees.
Mr. Super Big Living In Arizona you are a good man. I appreciate all the kindness you show to others in need but never let anyone take advantage of you. God is going to be good with you. Keep passing positivity onto others ❤️ There should be more men like you other there.
I really love this guy presenting these videos of real life situations, i have lived in those weekly pay hotels before, back in the 90's they are so crippling to get out of, you have to use all the resources to get out of there, these situations are always better to handle if you are single, nothing extra to freed and definitely no children, she was a TRUE talker, i could not imagine living in this Super Expensive living situation, so the video told us alot, now there is always the story of the real reason of these situations PS the Narrator is really hot, and patient dealing with these people
You must be retarded. These people are druggies and 100% responsible for the situation they are in. Both are also very poor liars, so easy to see through.
Big Super BRAVO ZULU. The interview was not only good but also an eye opener to see and hear what people are going through in difficult times. Most people tend to ostracize people when their at a low/down point in life but some people have the ability to use discernment when we see other people going through difficult times. Watching the interview made me do some deep thinking! The government gave out 6trillion＄during the pandemic. Out of the 6T! 2.5T＄ went toward FRAUD, WASTE and ABUSE. Big Super continue to do what you do. Take care. Be safe. God bless.
Thanks for the video, Mr. Super. I see poor people dragging on cigs all the time first thing I think is well that's a few hundred bucks you're lighting on fire every month.
I couldn’t rent in my 20s because I was broke and my parents had bad credit and couldn’t co-sign for me. I kept seeing kids my age walking into the real estate office with their parents to sign a lease, no problem. That’s where I learned about generational wealth and I promised myself I would be that parent for my kids one day. It took years and A LOT of struggle, but I finally have a perfect credit and own my home. It’s doable y’all! Don’t make excuses, just focus on a goal .
I lived for 5 years in hotels. It is awful. I can totally relate to everything. They are going through. I just got out of that situation in July. I hope you could too. Prayers from Jersey to you both.
I stayed in one between car living and renting an apartment and it was gross. Expensive and people living out of the hotel. I didn’t trust anyone to park my park there so parked down the street.
She's a hard worker, for sure, but she has such low self-esteem to stay with this drugged out, user. How he can let her play Mommy to him for five years whilst he does drugs at the loss of their daughters is beyond me.
Blame it on the economy they have to pay utilities and people to come in and clean the room, and a lot of people destroyed the room. Our government needs to build more affordable housing for people in need. Besides this guy is making a lot of rescue sitting home for 5 years saying that you cannot get a job because you're overqualified yeah okay while she goes out to work pregnant and all that's crazy I hate to see a mother put her man before her kids because without him I'm sure she'll be doing just fine with her kids whole situation is sad and he's lazy.
I'd pick up literal shit with my hands all day if I had to in order to support my kids. I'd offer the first day for free to show how motivated I am. Whatever it takes.
Living in a hotel can seem like a endless loop. I did it with a mentally I'll son and another that was in his last year of highschool. It was ROUGH. I worked 4 jobs to get out of that loop and my son did graduate. Took 2 years...but I never want to be in that situation again.
She won’t. I’ve seen it too many times. Abusive husbands/boyfriends with varying levels of abusiveness, multiple baby mamas, drug users or alcoholics, and they’ll stand by them and defend them with every ounce in their bodies.
My sis ter is in same EXACT situation. Her old man has a felony so can't get or keep a decent job and they can't afford a place..for them and the kids ...so he works daily and she side hustles..they been doing this for years
I love the video host. He’s articulate, calm and insightful. Youthful mistakes have a catastrophic impact on your credit rating and ruins your life in the USA. It’s doesn’t happen in australia or New Zealand - it’s cruel , inhumane.
I had a damn interview I got there almost 30 minutes late and he didn’t even bother with me so y’all think whatever you want. Thanks for everything Super I don’t care what any of these people had to say keep doing your thing.
You say "he didn't even bother with me" after showing up 30 minutes late like that came to you as a surprise? You should've taken the ride and did what you had to do as a man with kids, weirdo.
But you were going to be there @12:30 so you weren’t late. What happened that you ended up being 30 mins late then? I feel you didn’t try hard enough because you would have made that appointment. And that’s after he gave you another chance after not making that first appointment. Not a good look for you dude.
Of course he didn’t bother with you, 30 minutes late to the interview. That let him know you wouldn’t be a reliable employee. Do better!
no surprises... man get your thing together and be a real man for your wife.. enough with the excuses
No judging over here, but Big Sup offered you a ride & even asked, "Were you sure before leaving🤔. People only do what you allow... Facts!!!
I get so SICK oh hearing women talk about working while they have a deadbeat dude to take care of in addition to kids!!!!! COME ON GET IT TOGETHER!!!!
THAT DUDE IS HIGH ON SOMETHING
@@teresaalford5978 believe it or not, it's hard to find a job right now, I'm a trucker and I'm having a hard time
Sometimes women will take a piece of a man just to have a man,know your worth ladies and don't settle.
I bet if you heard his story, he'd describe being raised by his mama. Now he's an emotional mess because he never had dad around to set him straight, and found his new mama to take care of him.
@@trinitynboth co-dependents, addict vibes
Mikey sounds like he is full of excuses. Been a stay at home dad for 5 years? C’mon man. Your problems didn’t start when your girlfriend missed 2 weeks of work to birth a baby resulting in her missing pay. He has had plenty of time to get a job or some type of income to better their life. I hate to see women chose a man over their own children. Sad situation all around.
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Speak on it IDK he looks lazy and a druggie and she's tired taking care of grown man in this condition..SMDH
poor woman, that guy is lazy ass man, he's not that type of person... lying one... omg
Not sad!!!
Maybe Mikey is not good at working thru problems. Not everyone with degrees are good working thru problems. I suggested they need to learn how to pray. I have used prayer as problem solving tool since December 2009. In my experience prayer does help you to work thru problems, as you get answers to your prayers and your problems become less.
I see drug addiction written all over his face! She even said, he tested positive for fentanyl at his last job interview. You don’t test positive by smelling it! Why have another child and he still hasn’t found a JOB! She should go and stay with her brother with her kids! That dude is a LOSER!She shouldn’t be doing the daily pay thingy, she should be paying the hotel in advance. Paying it daily runs up the costs! Her going back to work, TWO WEEKS after a C-Section is so dangerous to her health! She’s in hopes of him getting a job, so she’s believing his lies! Let’s hope she wakes up and decides to only support herself and her babies! She needs to drop this rock immediately! This is sad!
Agreed..
That’s what I thinking
@Sometimes I Get Carried Away he may or may not be a “junkie”, but he might be taking something and waiting a few days before donating plasma! There’s too many jobs out here to get. He’s over qualified, doesn’t make any sense. Walmart, Target, or any restaurant would hire on the spot! They’re not looking for qualifications, just workers! It’s been FIVE years, and you mean to tell us that he hasn’t been able to find a job that he’s qualified for? Lies!
@sometimesigetcarriedaway He just was sampling a little Fentanyl. He is not living the Fentanyl lifestyle. lol
According these folks in the comment section you can test positive just from second hand fentanyl smoke, yea right lol
He's a user, comfortable with living this way, and she's an enabler. PERIOD. Speaking from experience TRUST tough love is the only way out ma'am... 🙏🏽
yep
Agreed
I thought the same thing. He probably didn't show because he knew he would fail the drug test. I hope this wonderful lady mandates rehab or he can fend for himself. It would honestly be the best thing for both of them as well as their children.
Oh yes.
Real talk: if a man is prettier than you, he's finna try and use you for something. It may not be politically correct to say it, but it's true.
We all knew there was NO job interview when he refused the ride. What happened to "My interview is at 2pm but I have a bus pass and will get there at 12:30"? Everyone can clearly see that this man has a substance abuse problem. How do you allow this man to not work a job for 5 years? This woman is seriously in denial and I feel sorry for her and those children.
Yes, I agree. He lied about having the job interview. Why would you turn down a car ride?
True, This guy doesn't want to work. He can't find a job in this economy? Even with a bad President, there are jobs galore, because people don't want to work after Covid. He would rather live off of her and public assistance and get as much of a free ride as he can. You have to help yourself first. This guy is a user and a loser. That woman should run away from this jerk.
You can definitely tell. If you look closely after haircut. You can see breakout in the face around the mouth. This dude is a dope head, hope he gets some help. He talks about being sad about it, but he doesn't have the strength to put it down for his family. You cannot help a person who won't help themselves.
Omg I said that too! There was no interview to ride to!
Yep!! No job interview! What is he doing all day while she’s working?? Hmmm
As a social worker I see women like her daily. They are co dependent and have savior mentality at this risk of their own well being. He is clinging onto her for life and she wants to feel wanted and loved so there you have it. Terrible cycle. Meanwhile, neither can raise or parent their children. Thankfully, her brother stepped in. They will remember that their mother chose a man over them and will be resentful.
I didn't have kids, but I was the one who worked. I couldn't see past the BS of the guy. I was dependent on him emotionally. But I did wake up one day. I have a place with my cats and never forget how grateful I am.
Yes, and they will repeat that cycle! You're welcome!
@@marjorieallard6665 I can relate to what you've said word-for-word. Even the part about the cats lol
Seriously, best decision of my life was when I finally woke up and decided to leave.
wow!
Wow, that's deep.
The hotel woman is in DENIAL about her boyfriends drug use. He's weaving and bobbing right in front of her.
I came here just to say this.
LMAO!!!
Yuuup
100%. Unless he’s ingesting fentanyl, there is No way he would “test positive”.
It’s like someone saying you caught chlamydia from a toilet seat. Doesn’t happen.
You missed her tell tell side watch her rubbing her own arms she high as well just holds it together better than him
The host from the beginning is incredible. That's the employee and spokesperson you want to hire.
My glaring observation and advice to women of child bearing age is to Protect Your Womb. If she was childless and struggling to be with him, she would eventually break free and might do well on her own. But having had his children binds her (psychologically) in a different way. Ladies, if you know that your partner is behind the eight-ball financially, please don't bring babies into the equation. You're not giving them a fair chance because love alone won't get the job done when it comes to raising productive children.
Very insightful and TRUE!!! Great advice.
Love you’re not wrong about this. My sons dad USED to be a deadbeat and I used to be broke. Through hard work and communication with him I went back to school and worked and he watched our son for a while so I could better my life. Long story short- I got a good full time job, then a house, then a better car. He too bettered his life and ended up bonding with our son and being a great dad. I know my story is the EXCEPTION not the rule and I’m damn lucky. Two people both WANTED to change and better themselves and our son now has two responsible parents. Like I said... My story is the EXCEPTION not the rule and I shouldn’t have been in situation to begin with. Being irresponsible, blaming others, and no accountability will get you no where but heartache in life!
sad but so true I see it everywhere
Only one of the children were his the 13yr old wasn’t his
Men, do the same as what she's suggesting.
That man is horrible for forcing his childs mother to work after giving birth and then let the kids go to foster care. She could find a homeless shelter for her and the kids and let him sleep on the concrete.
I used to be in this situation. No one forces you to do anything unless theres a human trafficking hostage situation. She can leave him. Our actions and choices results to our very own situations!
@@spalahang So true. Something tells me she has low self-esteem and is "settling" with him as she doesn't think she can do any better. So she's willing to believe him, plus she has a child with him. I would never chose a man over my children, but that's what she's doing. I agree...she could easily leave him but she won't.
Her kids aren't in foster care...they are living with her brother now because of their current living conditions (cockroaches, drug-infested area, etc.).
A brother taking care of his sister's kids is not foster care. It's family.
They are both drugfiends dumbo
The young lady doing the apartment building tour in the beginning sounds like a competent gem of an employee…her positioning of the facilities, etc. is top notch!
Yes! I agree! I was very impressed by the way she presented the property and communicated with the guest. Someone needs to recruit her to be a realtor. She could do very well for herself.
U get what u pay for!
@@tjsokkerplayerthought the same!! She needs way more commission. She articulates very well!!
So the first place is cheaper than the roach motel? Wow.
Honestly my first thought was how her job is a memorized script that can and will be done by AI one day in the future
Sometimes I feel so tired but watching this makes me realized I have to be grateful to have my job even when I have to wake up at 2 in the morning to get ready in order to make it on time sometimes I'm too tired but this shows me I must keep going no matter what
Yes! Especially right now it’s dang near impossible to get a job.
I started telling myself “ I GET to go to work today” instead of I HAVE to go to work today”
Sounds lame lol but it really does change your mindset!
It’s ridiculous how expensive apartments have become. Just the application fees and security deposit is enough to deter many people. Now every complex has mandatory extra fees like valet trash service. Why are all new apts labeled “luxury” now? I feel sorry for young people today trying to get started in life. Oh and that couple you interviewed, I feel bad for her especially but all I kept hearing from them was excuses. There is definitely some drug activity going on there.
Holy cow. That guy is definitely not sober. He can’t get a job because he can’t piss clean. They won’t tell the truth. Just complain about their situation.
Might not be drugs. But probably IS! No reason to be living this way if one shows up and works, has a credit history, a safety savings fund. Not that difficult, unless all money is spent on heroin.
@@mommak8342 yes I think the way this man presents himself just shows, well, it just shows everything. Smoking, lying on the bed the way he is during this video, mumbling. Feel sorry for the wife, kids and dog.
I’m 26 and I’ve lived in “luxury housing” a few times in my life. It’s very beautiful but it’s cheaply made and a horrible experience dealing with property management companies. At this point my goal is to buy a 3 unit apartment building and live in 1 unit. That’s the most economical way for my fiancé and I to become homeowners and eventually buy a larger single family home. Hoping and praying something changes because it literally gets worse every year.
It's the financialization of our economy. We didn't have the inflation problem until the Federal Reserve lowered rates near zero so Wall Street could get cheap loans and drive up asset prices.
The problem is, she loves him. She's embarrassed of him & tries to make excuses for him, but she knows the truth, which is, that she'll never get out of that cycle as long as she stays with him. She's so worried about his well being without her, that she lost her children & is losing herself.
Trueeee
If she could not work or became ill, he would be on to the next low self-esteam woman WITH a paycheck in a blink of an eye and wouldn't care two hoots about her at all.
Damn, you MUST be a female. I am a male and can tell you from experience, we are dumb and miss ALL nuances. Oh, we snore too. Sorry...
@@offgridjack5779 Yeah, he was yawning in the video. From what? A hard day's work?
@Randy Millhouse He was tired from talking lol. Forming sentences is so hard.
When you offered him a ride and he declined, I knew the job interview didn't exist.
Or it's real and he never intended on actually going to the job interview and it was all for show.
I knew something was wrong with him. How does she put up with that?
FACTS!!!!
@@Naturefan354 he made a comment that he was 30 minutes late and the man wouldn’t do the interview.
@@smfarrie2943 Wow! What a coincidence 😆
Seeing things like this really makes me appreciate what my family and I have. I feel for the people that have to live like this or worse.
Yes l agree with you, so difficult and hard and sad 2 find safe and affordable. Good luck!🙏
People who give up in life are people who lose in life, my first experience happens to be a failure but I never gave up cause I knew it was going to work out for me trying continuously, fortunately I'm smiling today by getting involved in investment.
You're absolutely right, you've remind me of what someone once said "The mind is the man, the poor is in it and the rich is it too". This sentence is the secret of most successful investors. I once attended similar and ever since then been waxing strong financially, and i most tell you the truth..investment is the key that can secure your family future.
Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth, investing remains a priority. I learnt from my last year's experience, i am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time
I urge everyone to start somewhere now no matter how small, this is literally the time for that, forget material things, don't get tempted,i became more better the moment i realized this.
Maybe it's me, but I heard her complaining about roaches in the other places they lived. Looking at all the big gulp cups sitting around that room. They might have contributed to that situation. He's not working and won't even clean up the place. Thing that make you go hmmm....
LOL! CORRECTOMUNDO!
Sorry but here in Houston (and various other states) roaches are in EVERY SINGLE APARTMENT. Even when you stat clean. Landlords are responsible for making sure the walls and foundation are bug free. Cant clean behind drywall hun. It’s a structural issue that requires maintenance.
@@sayyadinawitch We have bark scorpions here in Arizona, but thankfully most responsible apartment complexes will spray regularly, or at a tenant's request.
I work with the homeless and they keep the big gulp cups and the McDonald’s cups because you can go into the store and get a refill for free or cheaper. In the McDonald’s here if you don’t buy anything you are ask to leave. If you have a cup, you go in and get the refill and you can sit for a while in a cool setting if it is hot. It’s why you usually see the cups from fast food or mini marts.
@@kindnessrules3885 Keep the cups, but don't complain about roaches and bugs if you got used cups sitting around that you could easily wash.
I hear to many excuses. I am sorry. As a disabled person and I work pt. It's tough. But I do it.
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My co worker is disabled and catches 4 buses which equals a total of 4 hour round trips to get to work.
Exactly! Good for you. I'm proud of you.
@@larose6551 fucking hell that's not to be celebrated. That's awful.
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No one should be required to work in this country that’s what’s wrong with this country you shouldn’t live to just work then die. Very stupid. Freedom dude
He don't want no job. Tell her to dump him and go get her children
It was so hard to watch this.
Weak woman. I see white woman with several kids white kids , end up with a black or brown BUM. Lazy dope doin BUM
Period! Cuz that man is not going to change. Always a liability. Hopefully it clicks in her brain
Men are not allowed to suffer from depression too? The man tried to kill himself two times!
The girl is now on Only Fans
I want to thank you sir, for being so kind to these folks. ❤
She’s in denial she speaks every time he speaks because she knows his drug use is showing. She’s in love to the point she’ll ride with him to skid row. If she left on her own she could get to the point of living in those nice apartments & get her kids back. He’s all talk… she knows it… until she starts believing who he is based on his actions vs words she will continue to sink with him. Just truly sad… I’d love to hear what her brother thinks about this guy.
If that lady at 12:00 did her life solo w the kids, her life would be easier. I understand you don’t want to be lonely. But mothering an extra adult will always keep one behind.
There are men who take care of their wives and children too!
@Emzy Willrich Who carried and birthed those children? I'll wait. Men like you act as if fathers who do their DUTY of providing are doing women a FAVOR. Be grateful women continue to give birth to you losers.
@@emzywillrich7243 It would be different if he was home taking care of the children as a stay at home dad. So you can’t compare this drug using bun to a man being a man and provider!!!
I considered a motel after my apartment complex ended my lease after 4 years. But most apparently had bed bugs and still cost over $1200 a month. I decided to stay in my Jeep for a month until my apartment was available.
I would have done the same to save that money.
I did the same thing. I stayed in my car for 3 month in the dead of summer (June-july -aug) got a 2nd job working at Amazon. Worked at the hospital from 8-4 and Amazon 6-3am. I was able to buy my first 🏡 which was a lot cheaper than getting an apartment.
My advice is to buy real property. Even if it is a studio apartment. Become an owner. If your credit is not great, fix it. Even if your credit is not great, speak with a mortgage broker. Speak with NACA. Ask about FHA and USDA loans. Ask about down payment assistance programs. If you can consistently pay rent for 4 years, you can pay a mortgage. But after owning a property for 4 years you will have equity. Equity offers better options. Good Luck.
@@tampapropertygirl3422 if only it was thst easy bud😂
This is frustrating on his end. My husband had never spent more then 2 days looking for a job in the phx area. There are SOOO many construction, HVAC, plumbing, fast food jobs and more hiring everywhere. He’s NOT over qualified but he’s not under qualified and I’m sure can be taught a trade. He just doesn’t want it enough.
YOUR TALKING COMPLETE CRAP
People seem to misunderstand what “overqualified” actually means. It’s not that employers think you’re to good for the job they have on offer, but that you’re likely to leave at the first chance of better job that more aligns with your resume. Why would an employer want to take the person they’re fairly sure will be gone as soon as possible, when they can higher and train someone with less options in life than their low paying job?
@@jeremyf6821 who cares
Right, he doesn’t want it at all. Even as a SAHM I found a way to make money online side hustle and make some money to contribute after I first had my kids as newborns until I could go work my real job while their dad was working just cause I didn’t want to feel like a bum ya know?
As a mechanic with qualifications and a degree these last 6 months I had the hardest time I ever had finding a mechanic job. It’s actually scary how hard it was for me to find a job I never had this issue before. Luckily I found one and luckily I was employed the entire time while searching. The economy is scary right now
Homie could sign up for temp agencies and probably be working within 24 hours.
FACTS. He’s flat out lazy. Seen it many times before.
There's almost always a temporary agency around motel6.
Yes! Labor ready, temp agency something!
Yup!!! That's where I work...making parts for Honda !! Making more than most fast food places and such...plus benefits too...this guys has no excuse
Day Labor your correct !
Did anyone else catch that there was 2 different reasons why they were evicted? They had so many roaches they were refusing to pay rent but then at the same time, they wanted to renew their lease and weren’t allowed to? There’s just so much that doesn’t add up about these people
Yeah, 2 and 2 is 6 with these two.
She was on maternity leave and they go behind on rent as her job didn't give her PAID maternity leave, they had roaches because of low-income housing which cheap gov't landlords only will spray one apartment not the entire building so they just come back. It was a long story and they interrupted each other so it was confusing, I know.
@@shellyslioneyes Please. Look at all the empty big gulp cups scattered around that room, I’m sure they contributed to their own issues. It’s just easier to make excuses than own up to the fact that her loser man is on drugs and refuses to work. BS fast food says he’s “overqualified” - especially for the last five years Lmao everyone was short staffed during covid and most businesses were hiring literally anyone who would apply.
He’s a bum & she enables him. Talking about he failed a drug test from fentanyl that came from under the door 😂😂 pleaseeeee
most of these peopel are losers
They have that cash app memorized though.
Single woman living in New Mexico and when my grandma passed away I became homeless I was her caregiver I am now in a motel paying $1,600 a month prayers please I'm really struggling.. 🙏🥰 thank you!
I will and I understand. I've been living in a motel for the past year. I have bad credit and a past eviction so it's hard to find a decent place to live on my income. I keep saying things are going to get better and this is temporary, but when you are alone in a motel room it can be pretty depressing.
Prayers
@@afropick3445 it takes time, look at studio apartments , i found 1 and stayed there 6 years and it was only 100 a week the whole 6 years, i was like u couldnt rent a regular apartment , i eventually rented a house from a private owner , then a apartment froma private owner , u have to seek the private owner type rentals , and big company u wont get anything unless u can pay a years rent in advance,
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I live in my truck and work full time f a motel.
The young lady who introduced the apartment complex is so good at her job.
Much respect to you for trying to help this man 🙏 but once he turned down the ride to his interview, I knew right then he didn’t want no job!!!
Same here, there's was No Logical reason for turning down a ride!
I nearly lived her life for 10 years, just short of living in hotels, but with my mother in a 35ft Travel Trailer!😢😬😖😭 with my ex and 2 kids! One was a new born at the time.
I finally had enough, told him to get OUT, got a job myself, and moved out of the hell hole I lived in. He never paid child support, (no problem, I collected for HIS inheritance from his parents!)
I have remained, both kids went to College and are successful and I have 2 Beautiful Granddaughters, so far😉 (that he has never seen 😁)and I have retired!
Last I heard he's still a bum,still no job (and I hear no Teeth 😬) it was a VERY small town🤷♀️
I do agree. How could you agree to a haircut and then turn down a ride to the interview. We didn't have to be an Oracle to predict what was going to happen. I wonder what his bachelor's degree was in. It certainly wasn't in finance!
@@emzywillrich7243 Hahahahahaha
The leasing agent in the beginning was so pleasant, i forgot what the video was about. 😂 started enjoying the tour
Watching this gives me the worst anxiety and flashbacks to such a terrible time in my life. When a man sucks the life out of you while you just try to hold things down, has to be one of the worst experiences to go through. He’s clearly on substances. He clearly has zero intention of working or getting clean and will continue to use his wife as long as she lets him. This video made me sick to my stomach.
Me too girl
Who are you to judge. Look at your shady past
Looks like a Circle K on one side of the hotel & Arby's on the other side. Seem like he could've gotten a job at one of those places.
That what I said you best go flip some burgers 🍔 or ring ppl up at the ⛽️ station.
Arbys would be the perfect job for him. He could easily walk there in a few minutes. He would not have to rely on anyone taking him, and being so close, he could easily pick up extra shifts.
I've stayed at that location. It's just worse now than it was then.
Of COURSE he could have. He could also go to a temporary agency who are always looking for workers to send to companies who these days RELY on temp workers. I just retired from a manufacturing plant after twenty five and a half years, and the entire time we used temporary workers for all three shifts. He's kicking back, puffing away on a smoke, talking about how "she's doing all she can". This is insulting. Dude could EASILY find a job. I hear NOTHING but "poor us" excused from these two, but NOTHING they're going through is any different than every other generation. It's called personal accountability, personal responsibility, and using the grey matter between the ears. Sorry, I've been around a long time and have heard it all. Dude could and should be working.
It's a crying shame how expensive it is to keep a roof over your head! This world is evil and wicked. This is 2023 for crying out loud!
I say the same thing. Working people should have a safe clean roof over their heads! God save us! 🙏🏽
In fairness it is mainly this expensive for them because they have messed up their lives to the point that the only place that will even consider letting them in the door is a fricking hotel. A HOTEL! It would be like if I got so many DUIs that they took my license away and then I got banned from city busses because I kept getting in fights or what have you on them... then I sat here complaining about how expensive it is to have to take a taxi everywhere. Yeah, taxi's... like hotels... aren't set up to be the cheapest option. However, they are the only ones that will take you at this point.
I wish the best for that couple. I hope they both get the professional help that they need. Denial is a powerful force. I knew she was already on that BS when she said he tested positive but doesn’t even use the stuff. I’m in the mental health/ substance abuse field and I ‘see’ this type of thinking play out all of the time. It’s pretty sad actually.
As soon as she said her man tested positive for fentanyl because their neighbors used it a lot, I was googling that ish and the consensus seems to be that "second hand high" from fentanyl is pretty dang uncommon, perhaps not even possible.
You have a hopeless job
Hey. he s overqualified to get a job 😂
You don’t get a contact high with a positive test from Fentanyl. These people think we’re all stupid. Lots of us are 1) clean and sober and have talked more BS than they have, and 2) have medical degrees.
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS I said exact thing!!!!!!
Stay-at-home dad for 5 years?!?! Are you serious?!?! She’s making excuses for him!!!!! And he’s making excuses!!! Big ups to you Big Super-you are a good guy!
Yep. Fast food will hire anyone as long as they show up, work hard, don't steal, and don't use drug and alcohol.
Pretty sure he didnt get the job for more reasons than one.
I agree I don't believe he isn't getting hired because he is "over qualified". 😂 Give me a break!
If could happen. We don't know until we are in the same situation.
@Hoopty Driver I would possibly believe that if was just 1 maybe 2 jobs tops not hiring him but every single job? And the jobs he interviews for aren't hiring him because he is "over qualified"? No sorry don't buy it for 1 second.
He's allergic to work.
@@Naturefan354 He seems "slow". The woman seems pretty intelligent, That's why she has a job.
I look forward to these videos from Big Supa.
I noticed this woman is seriously co-dependent x10.
She like many women with low self worth will hold onto a man at any cost.
Thankfully, her brother stepped in and took the girls.
This woman is a hard working and got a hustler work ethic. She would be good on her own. Her love for this man is holding her back though.
Has to be low self esteem. She had to go back to work 2 weeks after a c-section because that low life wasn’t working. Pitiful
She is very fat and unattractive and has a thin man with her that she will give everything away for no matter how much of a loser he is.
He’s a bum . Needs to leave and go get a job. There’s No excuse. All that money on tattoos could have been spent on those kids and rent and food .
Thanks for not dragging these people through the mud while their already low.
@lele cheesy this is what keeps people in a low spot. Sometimes people need awareness and someone to put it bluntly to them
Working in the medical field for 20 years, I see these people all the time. It's never their fault. They talk and talk and talk but never take personal responsibility. They have a sob story and blame everything else and are professional victims. It's all drugs and alcohol at the end of the day. They come in talking about how they never do drugs or drink, but you can tell merely by looking at them, they are full of shit. I have seen what drugs and alcohol do to people. You can't hide the effects of the drugs and alcohol on your body and mind.
But they are Americans. Help them out
@Freddie Cunningham Helping is fine to a point. The problem is helping turns into enabling eventually. They get too much help and are always looking for a handout and stay the perpetual victim. They choose drugs and alcohol over everything and then complain about the consequences of their own choices. They need to suffer the consequences, not be babied and coddled.
@@Wasabi5000 when people are healthy mentally and physically, have a strong support system to help them navigate hard times AND have REAL opportunities to stand up on their own professionally, THEY DO! Nobody wants to come out of a situation like this and work a shit job. Drug use is a numbing agent. If we want homelessness to end & community support to end, WE MUST have good jobs with living wages available AND affordable housing!
@@freddiecunningham2860 YEA, GIVE THEM A EASY LIFE, SMART IDEA
@@freddiecunningham2860 you can't help someone quit, they need to do it for themself or it will never work
This is a LIVING REALITY and I'm glad someone is shining a spotlight on this!!!! Someone I dated previously is going thru the same thing currently in their life, but the good thing is that her son is living with her in a 2-bedroom motel in GA. She lost everything in storage not long ago after having to move from a place she was renting because the owner sold it. He gave her time to move, but she couldn't find a suitable place to replace where she lived and ended up renting the motel every week. At the same time, she was unemployed and dealing with medical issues and her options were limited.
She now has a good job working for Toyota in GA, but she's still stuck in the hotel situation, and she tries to hustle to make extra money. I'm doing ok myself and have my own apartment in TX. I offered for her to move here so she could save up money to help her get on her feet, but she's got a teenage son and of course her job with Toyota that she just got. She's not going to give up what she already has to move here. All I can say is, that it doesn't take much for people to end up in this situation.
Honestly, she's doing better than me as far as the job is concerned and sometimes, I wonder how I'm able to just make it every month myself?? I'm grateful that I can stand on my own two feet and still take care of everything myself.
Mike - it is very brave of you to share your life on here. But as recovering addict myself I can spot someone dying from the disease. Even if you are not using buddy, it manifests in your suicide attempt and self esteem. At least go to meetings and get a sponsor. It will help you with your stability.
Amen I have 10 yrs clean and the first 2 words he spoke o told my wife that dude is strung out on something. You can’t bullshit fellow addicts !
Thank you for giving Mike advice from experience.
You're never overqualified to work at a restaurant, gas station, lawn care, janitorial work, auto care. "Tell a fool anything, but tell me the truth".
Yes you can be.
You can, he mentioned he has a bachelors degree and he’s applying at fast foods, i was “overqualified” one time as a sales representative for solar, im bilingual, i have customer service experience, negotiation experience, finances experience, etc. and i was told “you have the necessary skills we need, but you’re overqualified and we feel that there’s better candidates out there”
Depending on the position you're applying for, only list experiences for the position. If you're a civil engineer (CE) and unemployed, do not list your CE experiences if you are applying for a janitorial or restaurant position.
I've worked for many restaurants and they'll hire anybody with a pulse. New hires come and go all the time, nobody gives a rats ass whether you have a degree or not. If you have a bachelors degree, go apply to any restaurant. I guarantee you 90% will hire you.
Restaurants, theaters, bookstores, etc are FILLED with college graduates.
@@Adrian10_14 um, he doesn;t have to mention his bachelor degree
Homeboy sounds high AF in the video and she still believes it was a false positive.
You’re showing the real parts of America and making a difference one day we’ll be thanking you for the change that’s happen eventually 😅
He is her biggest problem bar none. Unload him the sooner the better. If you really love him & you have children together, you can tell him he can have supervised visits once he goes to rehab & get serious about supporting his family. At least she's trying...6 days a week! He's a huge lazy liability...unload him!
So, men are not allowed to suffer from depression? The man tried to kill himself twice. He needs to be in some type of facility to get to the root of his problem. It could be drugs or psychosis.
She is a big problem for him too!! Codependency is terrible in this type of relationship. They are both toxic for each other.
I feel sorry for his wife because she really believes that he has no addiction problems. Girl open your eyes (seriously).
Don't be judgemental. Struggling to survive will drive you to do drugs. Empathy is needed. Not your gd judgment that does absolutely nothing for anyone.
She knows.
@@FeralAmity what is it,that makes you afford to pay,for drugs,but can’t save that money,to get you out of that situation.And to keep having children in their situation,is the height of irresponsibility.
He just seems lazy. He sees himself as above doing certain work. Dude hasn't worked in 5 years so he is not "over qualified" for anything. Probably content letting her pay for everything while he spends his days complaining about how the system is rigged against him. She seems hard working and would be better off without him.
another moron
💯 agree
he looks well kept for someone who’s depending on his partner’s income. just fucking lazy.
she will leave him and kids will grow up gender confused 👍🏻 so glad I don't have children
@@baconoftheark import 3rd world become the 3rd world
I have a hard time with wrapping my head around the fact that they told him he was over qualified. Any place would love for him to wash dishes or push a broom or bag groceries or prep food. I just don't feel like he is putting 100% in because he would have a job. He looks pretty well put together so I'm just curious how much effort he puts in 🤷
His speech patterns indicate an intellectual disability of some sort, and likely serious clinical depression as a result
It's probably a lie BUT I will say, its the number one reason they use to let you down easy after an interview. "Oh you are great but you are just too over qualified for this position. You are amazing. Good luck out there. Please don't shoot up the place or steal anything on the way out. "
Overqualified addiction specialist
Honestly I can say I’ve traveled the whole USA working in the same type of business. Nevada and Arizona have so much warehouse work these days and the prior 10yrs that you can walk into ANY temp agency and go to work the next day making 15-18hr!!! This guy is a lazy piece of work!!!!! He wasn’t going to an interview!!!! He’s a damn JOKE!!! He can careless about her working 6days to support him and now he has free childcare so he doesn’t have to do that either!!!!! THANK GOD for the brother for those children!!!! She needs to get rid of his “over qualified” lazy ass!!
Overqualified bs!
I work for a hotel at the front desk and I never make anyone leave after 28 days. I just make them make a New reservation and put their reservation in their mom's name. No sense making anyone leave like that!
“Fast food won’t hire me cuz I’m over qualified.” I headed my mother telling me this every time my drug addict stepdad couldn’t get a job. She was in just as much denial as this woman.
Also, he has a 4 year degree? I call BS. I’d be surprised if he even has a GED.
Lol no, a BA AND an Associates… can’t get a job anywhere. I just can’t with this guy. Over-qualified for everything. Maybe he should go interview for CEO for Bank of America or something… Christ.
@@lindseyrauss9172 bro 😂 I'm goin to hell I died when I read this. Laughing for damnear 5mins strait 🤦😭
It might be in finance. 🥸
😂😂😂😂
That’s the first thing I thought of when he said he had a bachelors degree … BS 🙄 I’m like no, as a matter of fact, he sounds like he may be under the influence.
You don't test positive from second hand smoke she can miss me with that excuse.
While I believe it's a very small possibility that you could, it's higly unlikely. And I absolutely don't believe that's what happened in this case either
You can.
You actually could
Plus, if he tested positive so would she.
@@hoopty. No you cannot
This couple I feel bad for. It's so true that when you have to live in a hotel the cops treat you like your an addict. My wife and I lived in some of the hotels she mentioned. It's sooo hard to get back in a normal apartment after losing everything and having to live in a car or hotel. Good luck!!! You will make it!!! Don't give up
I know he is reading the comments and angry but…. You can fool some people but you can’t fool yourself. Let these comments motivate you to join AA, seek counseling and find work. Sometimes people look physically able to work but their past trauma along with low self worth makes it harder for them to work.
All I can see...is the Man of the house very relax and not worried about his family.
Sometimes in life one needs to let go
If one person does more that the other. It's time to let go. Poor does not meanto be ashamed. But this needs to be fit. Let him go. Thank you Super for this educational interview.
Awe so sweet u giving them support and building confidence in that man
The irony of poverty is that it can be one of the most expensive lifestyles. If you can't qualify to rent an apartment, you end up in a hotel AND eating out WAY more than if you had access to a proper kitchen. I like to live as frugal as possble because an ilness or job loss can happen at anytime and I want to make sure I can weather an unexpected event and not end up in a bad situation.
EGGS ARE A GREAT SOURCE OF PROTIEN...SALADS AND SANDWICHES...THERE IS NO EXCUSE...NONE...NONE...ZEROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SOUP IN A CAN OR STEW IN A CAN......ZEROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
@desertedenblooms Where do you keep your eggs and sandwiches if you live outside? What do you do after you get robbed of everything including birth certificates, id, social? The guy in the video is bullshitting, but there are people who are not getting hired anywhere because they have no qualifications or references. When was the last time you slept in a shelter with a mentally unstable dude with a shank, a rapist and a couple gang members while dealing with corrupt staff making it hard for you to either get work or work without losing your bed, getting robbed by staff or being reprimanded in some way.
I 100% agree. I make decent money for a single woman and came into a decent amount of money and i put in all my savings and when I had to buy a car before pandemic shutdown I could've bought the beautiful foreign luxury car that i Wanted BUT I'm extremely smart and frugal with my money and live like i make WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY less than i actually do and couldn't rationalize to buy a big ticket item cause the "What ifs" something bad happens and i start falling behind and end up in a bad financial decision.
@@LueyLoca well i would keep it where I kept mine in a cooler with ice! when I did not have a frig! for weeks! because I could not afford one. I spent a over a month with three kids sleeping on a neighbors living room floor and couch. Cleaning their home to repay the kindness and mostly spending time outside because we had pets to take care of ...I have seen hard time...the person said she did not wish me in any shelter, I was prepared to have to go because work was about to start up....my my your so self righteous, probably voted for diaper wearing moron and more programs! good luck with that . THEY ARE IN A HOTEL! WITH A SMALL FRIG! THEY CAN FILL IT UP SOME USEABLE RESOURCES AND EAT WELL... IF NOT YOU BUY , USE EACH DAY, ITS A PAIN BUT ITS DOABLE...STOP TREATING PEOPLE LIKE PETS, PEOPLE NEED TO THINK AND DO FOR THEMSELVES!
Travel a TON for work. I bring my air fryer with me and save a TON.
Everyone should have a friend like you Big Super. God bless you for the work that you do, and for the grace you show to others.
Amen! And ..... btw.... hope you had a very nice and blessed, Resurrection of Our Savior Day"!
@@freebirdrox7330 I did, thank you. 🕆
I have a family member who would rather be homeless and live off of money of others. His motto is "work is for the man who doesn't know how to party".
These two people are full of excuses. No reason for a 46 year old man to not be working. Drugs are obviously still an issue.
America. I got put out of my apartment for one month's rent. I got the money up within the month, but late fees made it more than I could afford. At the same time, they did a dog amnesty at my apartments for all the people who were sneaking their pets in without paying. They would allow the pets to stay for free. So the beginning of this video reminded me of that. Such luxury right next to the people who don't have much. This is the American way.
Respect to you, Super. Cali uses the phrase "affordable housing" to manipulate all kinds of theft but never addresses the actual issues. We have one journalist who, just like you, talks to the people. It's very educational. 🏆
What’s the journalist name and YT channel?
Oh hell. No! Girlfriend your man is an addict and you need to boot his ass.
She’s extremely intelligent. I could definitely seeing her doing HR at a good company. I really hope someone gives her a chance and a leg up.
Greed
The care and attention you put into your content is awesome, it's a mixed bag of up town and reality. Hope the dude gets a job😅
Stayed at a Microtel Inn for about 10 months. After doing some research, I learned after 28 days I could establish residency. From there I would be exempt from paying the rental or hotel tax. Saved me about $250 a month.
anyone notice how happy the good boy looked on the second segment haha. what a nice dog, it does show a little bit of what kind of people the owners are.
All these fees before even being accepted is what I call BS fees. It doesn’t cost 200$ to run that check and they are making a mint between application fees and check fees alone.
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Plus 50 per applicant. Which is basically 50 per adult. That's bs.
@@tif8266 Ya I mention that .
I applied one time with a private landlord.. told her before I applied I had a previous eviction.. paid $80 PER PERSON to apply, she ran a case search online for free and then turned around and said she couldn’t rent to us bc we were evicted previously.
They stealing peoples money out here
It took almost a month before I was approved for my current application… proof of income, bank statements, background check… verification from HR…
I was pulling for dude to get that job, too...but after seeing him turn down a free ride, l actually said out loud...He ain't going to no interview...he's going somewhere that he don't want Super to see. I just hope his wife will face the reality that his positive drug test was unlikely from second-hand source floating in the air.
Dude is using probably drugs and lying to his wife about it. Enabling this man won't help this families circumstances. I know codependency is a tough habbit to beat,, but the wife needs to focus on getting a place for just her and the kids, so they can have stability together in the future. I was very hopeful, even though I felt it was a long shot that Mikey wasn't full of ...💩
I know everyone situation is different but I have a question. Why do people who are already struggling decide to have children? Plus, why do they CURRENTLY have a dog?
I'm glad you made this video I'm from Chicago but, when I moved to Indianapolis for 6 yrs I was surprised how many people live and how many hotels had weekly rates but, from $250 years ago to 300 to $350 a week it's basically your check if you making $10 to $15 hour. You can't save up to move out!! Now imagine you got a girl and kids. I sacrificed and slept in my car for 2 weeks to get out. Once my check was screwed up and I didn't have my weekly rent. I told the owner my boss was going to cut me a paper check. The hotel manager said hey no problem just leave your things and pay me when you get back. Well I got back after the bank was closed and the check cashiers was skeptical of the signature check. So I slept in my car for a night till I was able to cash it. If your credit not perfect and I'm talking 600 or you can have a 10 to 15 year old eviction not to mention some places want 2 months security and you have a car need maintenance and $4-5 dollar a gallon gas and lastly you remember to eat. Once you move in a motel it's nearly impossible to move out. A lot of apartments don't care how old your eviction is. They NOT excepting you even though I make twice as much now. RENT in major cities in the WORST neighborhoods in Chicago are More than most rural areas. Houses in bad neighborhoods are $250,000 to $300,000
I liked the juxtaposition of the new place and then the situation that these two are in because its the reality for so many people. This was a great video.
I agree.
If you have enough money for the 1st place, you may as well buy a house.
I live in Tempe. Have for 30 years. Tempe has invisible gated communities. The invisible gates are regulations and practices. It is not a kind city. Doesn't matter who is mayor or which party they belong to, because nothing changes.
No, that's not how it works. It's called individual effort brings about individual results. And being that all these people are grown, they get to decide what kind of excuses they want to live by or what kind of life they are going to have. And the parents success or lack of success flows over to THEIR children and that is without exception. I heard a bunch of excuses which is common when people get caught up in these types of ruts. They have made a whole lot of mistakes for sure. And it all comes down to the mindset. It also lets you know the truth that white privilege is just something politicians sell us. For I have seen a whole lot more white people begging on the street corners and living these type of struggling existence. Never let anyone sell you anything but individual effort and responsibility. Any excuse is enough to land you where these people are.
Are you saying they discriminate against low income people?
My sympathy dried up when she said 'he's overqualified' 🙄
That part! Because she is making excuses for him. This man clearly needs professional help
You are over qualified if you have a bachelor's degree and trying to get a job at a fast food joint. They won't expect you to stay long.
@@emzywillrich7243 Yes, I know that can be a thing, and I feel badly for those folks. However, I highly doubt this fellow has a Bachelor's Degree.....
@@SquidSnuggles Ah, yes. Unfortunately the reason these people can feel as entitled as they do is because of people like you. This 'man' has not had any kind of employment in 5 YEARS. (strangely SHE seems to find jobs). Leaves his wife and children homeless and often without enough food. Obviously has a substance abuse issue, but that's all ok. His life might have taken a turn for the worse. We don't know - you are also making assumptions about that. He needs to be held to a higher standard. The man has children. My enormous taxes contribute to this man's irresponsible lifestyle. I have every right to be 'judgemental'.
@@katiebrent3332nd why keep disclosing that information if it prohibits you from getting a job? It's not like they'll check. Oh right he doesn't want to "lie" about it 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Thank you for showing this. People need to see how the world really is. The first 12 years of my life with my mother, I grew up in a rooming house, one room, two single beds. We shared the kitchen with 10 people. Always took the toilet paper with me to the washroom. Things have turned out good for me but I can't forget the past. I'm very frugal. I have no credit card. I have no debt. Thank God for my past. It's made my future much better. Why do we send money to Ukraine, and not help people in our own country. I'm from Canada.
Nothing wrong with a credit card if you pay it off every month. Unless you are one of those people that can't handle having one. Then it's smart to not have one. How do you buy things online?
@@DAVIDSMITH-kj8di I agree there's nothing wrong with a credit card if that works for you. I just depend on myself I do not want to follow anyone's rules. When I spend money I look at my bank account and then I purchase I don't wait for the end of the month to pay them off I do it daily. It just works for me but we were all different individuals
@@DAVIDSMITH-kj8di We aren't all able to buy things online in the real world. I'm 61 and have never had a credit card. 29% interest, I don't think so, there's nothing I need that bad!
My family had low income rentals for a long time. But many people didn’t qualify for apartments because they either trashed their previous rentals, or had been evicted because of drugs. They usually ended up spending more on hotels than renting.
I am a landlord in Los Angeles and it’s totally illegal to have bedbugs. In fact, you can go to court and Sue for any damage caused to you and lawyers are very worried about that always report bedbugs right away, and if your landlord isn’t taking care of it make sure you go to the housing department.
I do property management. Sadly took a risk on 3 families like this. Only 1 remains other 2 families were evicted before a month. They committed hate crimes against the other tenants. Breaks my heart and I no longer believe everything they say. You can see he's influenced by a substance
That girl showing you the apartments is freaking amazing!!!!
I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF... THERE IS NO WAY I COULD DO THAT! BLESS HER LONELY HEART. SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE LADIES❤
Big Super your an amazing person helping them out like this.
I honestly don’t think this man had a job interview. He had said he has been trying to find a job and no one will hire him. Ok if that is true, why at the end did the guy say it’s his first job interview in 5 years? Get a security job and work nights if you have too, do handy work and side jobs, heck do online surveys and make a few bucks a day if you have too. Don’t just sit and waste away.
I peeped that too!
He responded above and said he arrived 30 minutes later for job interview and managed didn’t want to be bothered and he doesn’t seem to get it!
Super offered him a ride. Sad! Hopefully, he’ll get together.
@@larose6551 exactly! I feel like he doesn’t really want to work. Heavens Super even offered him a ride.
Her dog is super cute 🥰 he's handing her the ball like saying "Everything is going to be all right!"
You are a blessing.
Keep doing your thing and showing us what’s out there.
I'm thinking of the kids. Can you imagine having these two for parents?
No way
I had two great parents and grew up in a home. I can't imagine it but I have compassion for those that didn't have the advantage that I had. My mother was a stay-at-home mom and an intellect. Almost all of my siblings and I have advanced degrees.
When they opened in 1984, Arbour Park on East Apache furnished 1 bedroom $365.00 month. I remember the tour I got then. Same “state of art” lol.
Mr. Super Big Living In Arizona you are a good man. I appreciate all the kindness you show to others in need but never let anyone take advantage of you. God is going to be good with you. Keep passing positivity onto others ❤️ There should be more men like you other there.
I really love this guy presenting these videos of real life situations, i have lived in those weekly pay hotels before, back in the 90's they are so crippling to get out of, you have to use all the resources to get out of there, these situations are always better to handle if you are single, nothing extra to freed and definitely no children, she was a TRUE talker, i could not imagine living in this Super Expensive living situation, so the video told us alot, now there is always the story of the real reason of these situations
PS the Narrator is really hot, and patient dealing with these people
My heart goes out. I lived in a motel with my mom when I was a kid. I'm just sending all of my love to this family.
@@AlexBrandon. thank you. Yes, 100% I wouldn't have changed it if I could. It was character building, to say the least.
You must be retarded. These people are druggies and 100% responsible for the situation they are in. Both are also very poor liars, so easy to see through.
Big Super BRAVO ZULU. The interview was not only good but also an eye opener to see and hear what people are going through in difficult times. Most people tend to ostracize people when their at a low/down point in life but some people have the ability to use discernment when we see other people going through difficult times. Watching the interview made me do some deep thinking! The government gave out 6trillion＄during the pandemic. Out of the 6T! 2.5T＄ went toward FRAUD, WASTE and ABUSE. Big Super continue to do what you do. Take care. Be safe. God bless.
Thanks for the video, Mr. Super. I see poor people dragging on cigs all the time first thing I think is well that's a few hundred bucks you're lighting on fire every month.
Spoken like a true person who has never been addicted to nicotine!?
I couldn’t rent in my 20s because I was broke and my parents had bad credit and couldn’t co-sign for me. I kept seeing kids my age walking into the real estate office with their parents to sign a lease, no problem.
That’s where I learned about generational wealth and I promised myself I would be that parent for my kids one day.
It took years and A LOT of struggle, but I finally have a perfect credit and own my home. It’s doable y’all! Don’t make excuses, just focus on a goal .
No doubt, HE IS LYING ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO GET A JOB. WAKE UP LADY! Her children are going to be another generation of excuses.
Why criticize her kids? That’s not necessary.
I lived for 5 years in hotels. It is awful. I can totally relate to everything. They are going through. I just got out of that situation in July. I hope you could too. Prayers from Jersey to you both.
I stayed in one between car living and renting an apartment and it was gross. Expensive and people living out of the hotel. I didn’t trust anyone to park my park there so parked down the street.
She's a hard worker, for sure, but she has such low self-esteem to stay with this drugged out, user. How he can let her play Mommy to him for five years whilst he does drugs at the loss of their daughters is beyond me.
Typical modern American broad
Me and my son are homeless right now in Arizona. I can't even find a place to shelter me and my son. But I haven't giving up hope.
How are you doing?
@@Cali2FIorida I am okay, still waiting for a family Shelter.
It's crazy all these motels 6's used to be 50 to 55 bucks a night cash pay. It's crazy they are jacking up the rates on people like this.
Blame it on the economy they have to pay utilities and people to come in and clean the room, and a lot of people destroyed the room. Our government needs to build more affordable housing for people in need. Besides this guy is making a lot of rescue sitting home for 5 years saying that you cannot get a job because you're overqualified yeah okay while she goes out to work pregnant and all that's crazy I hate to see a mother put her man before her kids because without him I'm sure she'll be doing just fine with her kids whole situation is sad and he's lazy.
It was originally six bucks. That's why they called it that
@@cwilliams7017 I had no idea. Wow that is interesting
@@kay41128 I agree completely with you. Definitely need affordable housing.
I'd pick up literal shit with my hands all day if I had to in order to support my kids. I'd offer the first day for free to show how motivated I am. Whatever it takes.
Living in a hotel can seem like a endless loop. I did it with a mentally I'll son and another that was in his last year of highschool. It was ROUGH. I worked 4 jobs to get out of that loop and my son did graduate. Took 2 years...but I never want to be in that situation again.
Congratulations to you for making it through!
You are where you are in life because of who you are
She should cut loose that useless baggage and just focus on her and her girls. Sad but true.
Facts
Straight facts!!!!
💯💯💯💯💯
She won’t. I’ve seen it too many times. Abusive husbands/boyfriends with varying levels of abusiveness, multiple baby mamas, drug users or alcoholics, and they’ll stand by them and defend them with every ounce in their bodies.
Amen
My sis ter is in same EXACT situation. Her old man has a felony so can't get or keep a decent job and they can't afford a place..for them and the kids ...so he works daily and she side hustles..they been doing this for years
I was watching this thinking I smell a felony record. Sad.
I love the video host. He’s articulate, calm and insightful. Youthful mistakes have a catastrophic impact on your credit rating and ruins your life in the USA. It’s doesn’t happen in australia or New Zealand - it’s cruel , inhumane.