THE DANGER OF COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS | Wu Wei Wisdom

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @noremac4807
    @noremac4807 Год назад +2

    I love that this lovely lady asks the questions on viewers minds and gets the topic teased out
    Thank you

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hello Noremac, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @boyera23
    @boyera23 Год назад +6

    I'm so grateful for you guys. Comparison has been one of the big demons on my back and I'm tired of holding myself back 😣

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад +1

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. I'm pleased to read you are tired of it, start thinking how you can redirect that focus and energy. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @carriechapman2365
    @carriechapman2365 Год назад +5

    I need to really deconstruct this belief, and sadly, society is all about COMPETITION, COMPARISON......

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Our Shen has innate and intrinsic value and worth. that cannot be moved by sociality changing values. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @OGRADYHOMES
    @OGRADYHOMES Год назад +7

    Thank you..wonderful information to help us stay self loving

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      You are so welcome. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @cybermom41
    @cybermom41 Год назад +3

    I am only 4 minutes into the session...Alexandra your 'role model ' is incredible...David. bless you for being so clear!! Using others as a 'measuring stick'.. I never realized I did this... I love and find such freedom in NOT doing this. I just never knew I was!! 🙏🙏❤️❤️🙂

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @nawhatererr
    @nawhatererr Год назад +2

    So happy to see you grow so fast in the last days. I hope this meesage spreads ❤

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. We apricate your encouragement :-) Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @beritblomqvist22
    @beritblomqvist22 Год назад +2

    Thank you for learning.❤ Love to you🌸🍀🦋☀️

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      You are so welcome. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @noremac4807
    @noremac4807 Год назад +1

    I was terminated from a long held senior role, effectively canceled for my point of view. Performance management was used as a smoke screen. It was brutal, and I lost all confidence, and then my home. It was and still is terribly traumatic …. my societal value totally decimated. It’s hard for intrinsic value to compensate for this….

  • @rosiemac2538
    @rosiemac2538 Год назад +1

    Everybody needs someone to love apart from yourself

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hello Rosie, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. It starts with creating love for yourself. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @warriorofthelight05
    @warriorofthelight05 Год назад +1

    Such a joy to listen you 💚🙏

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Hello warrioroftheheligt, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

    • @warriorofthelight05
      @warriorofthelight05 Год назад

      @@WuWeiWisdom Thank you,Deligthed for your invite

  • @KC-lp8xl
    @KC-lp8xl Год назад +3

    Thanks so much for taking the time to post another wonderful informative video which is very much appreciated.
    This one really hits home. Comparing is an addiction, to the point that it leaves one drained and exhausted. It cripples people so that they are not living, just existing. Most of the time, they don't feel good enough, and on the rare occasion that they find a reason to feel better than another person, it doesn't feel right either, looking down on others. They switch between these two unbalanced states.
    In a previous video, you explained the difference between "Confronting" and "Being Confrontational" which was most helpful.
    Could you do the same with the terms: "Criticising' and "Being Judgemental" as in CCJ, as these two words seem to my mind to both have the same meaning.
    Thank you again for all the wonderful work that you do.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад +1

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. I think comparing is a choice! be accountable for making that choice. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @victoriaburgess700
    @victoriaburgess700 Год назад +6

    There’s still some bad parenting going on …I’ve seen it….hinting at their children to follow what society, culture, or what is “normal”. A lot of young people are lost today…very sad.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. I don't agree with "Lost" Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @cinemannie39
    @cinemannie39 Год назад +1

    PS: THANK YOU, David and Alex for your generosity. You are driving home deep truths that many of us are reluctant to apply. Much appeciation for your work❣

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Wow, thank you! Keep up the good work, consistency is key. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @cinemannie39
    @cinemannie39 Год назад +2

    Dear Akex, now that I am in my eighties, I compare myself to whom I used to be, not so much physically, or materially, but emotionally and spiritually. Hard for me to accept that I was far wiser in every way 🙃Any advice?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Год назад

      Thanks for your question, I suggest focusing on your Shen - spirituality. Then you will realise your innate value and worth is unique and therefore cannot be compared. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @noremac4807
    @noremac4807 Год назад +1

    But don’t we also need societal value? And how do we balance that requirement (we need it to succeed and fit in) with our instrinsic value.
    When I look at society, I feel less valued as I am not as smart or educated or financially stable etc, so I have to compare in order to find myself wanting, in order to improve, right?

  • @noremac4807
    @noremac4807 Год назад +1

    But you could be missing education, knowledge, skills etc, and that is value that you’re missing which you would need to address in order to get ahead.