WHY YOU MUST LET HER GO
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Letting go of what we want gives us what we need.
I’m currently battling this situation
I'm stealing this and it is so true.
Control, if you're able to let someone go that you generally like, YOU ARE IN CONTROL
Facts
Facts bro
Once you let go of the woman you love or truly have an interest in, that's the moment you know yo just leveled up to ALPHA
It's hard man but it's what I'm going through now. She be acting up and I have to teach her a lesson by walking away and showing her I got value myself
@@krazzyvibestv8657 same bro it’s hard but trust me you feel much better
@@krazzyvibestv8657 bigdog sound like this ur girl am I rite?
Did it to a girl I was it for 2 years, really loved her man, but it had to be done, peace of mind is too important to me.
@@CoachingbyCade i feel you bro. I'm on the same thing right now and something in my inner is telling me to stop this relationship but I'm overthinking right now
My grandpa told me: ‘never let a woman dominate you. Women love men for what they have to offer them; women will never love men for who they are’
Your grandpa is a boss 💯
Deep
@@krazzyvibestv8657 I agree👍keep it 💯
Og
Well men crying that they want a woman to love them for who they are and your grandpas wisdom says they never did.
The root of all suffering is attachment. -Buddha
Deadass
Is it though? Depressed people suffer from apathy, 'anhedonia,' lacking pleasure in their favorite things. Pure detachment could also become a defense mechanism based on a fear of intimacy = suffering. Maybe the root is just too much dopamine? Don't listen to the "same song" for too long, take a break to restore your desire.
I’m going through right now - attached to a female 🤦🏾♂️
@@Rich20109 shift your focus elsewhere. Your self-respect, peace, and purpose mean more than any woman.
I Am Chris Norwood ❤️ you bro
Stop telling her your thoughts & observe more. Never let a woman know what you’re thinking. Learn to speak through your actions. Learn to put your ego in check & realize the power of silence. The less you care for her, the greater your control over the relationship.
Yeah as soon as i showed i cared everything went to shit with my gurl I tried to stay alpha as much as possible but after 6 months I fell in love and got weak she dump me real fast
Thank you
This is what happen to me. Fell in love everything went to shxt. I learn my lesson.
Treat her like a celebrity she will treat u like a fan
very true my friend
One of the most valuable lessons
What does that mean ?
@@rami30 don't pur her on a pedestal
You forgot to say “ She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” also.
“Never get attached to something that you can’t walk away from in 30 seconds or less”
Great classic movie..."Heat"!!
@@ARGunsmoke Classic line but I hated Heat. It was so slow and boring. The ending pissed me off. All Pachino had to do was walk away.
@@sparkzmentalz2 yeah thats all he had to do but he had to know the truth about the betrayal...I was shaking my head during that scene cause I knew it was a poor decision
@@sparkzmentalz2 Dinero, not pachino
For every fine chick there is a dude that's tired of her.
charismatic_jones Charlie Sheen
@@B1LLBILL I dont know, did he say that? I know because it's some dudes that's waited for my relationships to end/fail so they can swoop in 🤣
@@Mylesaj7 maybe they smashed when u was in the "relationship"
Exactly
@@wisewordsfromr8310 control is an illusion
When you see a dude who has more than you who tells you have to let these girls go..you gotta believe him.
I’ve been looking for a sign. This video gave me my biggest realisation. subscribed with swiftness.
Facts I be telling niggas gotta let em go if u ain’t tryna be there for life w them haha
Hahaha facts 😂
The moment you let her go your pockets get fatter 💸💸💸
Truth
💯👌
U aint never lied
Truest words ever spoken
💯💯💯
I'm going through this now. Hardest shit ever have to overcome
Hang in there homie,get u a lil work out routine and a🔥🔥🔥 playlist of music 🎶
we on same titanic
keep working on yourself brother, stay busy
Meto bro but he saying rs bro
You’re almost there bro don’t worry, I’ve overcome it TWICE‼️
I'm 23 and realized I will never get married. As a man be selfish with your purpose, and I feel women take away time from that.
"Let her earn her spot, and maintain it"
Facts
Same of the man... Let him earn his spot too... Its a dual thing not one sided but hey...
Huh
esther ngongi him being high value and being on his shit is him earning his spot now it’s her turn to show what she can offer
@@untitled5229 word 💯
This is the video that changed everything for me.
3 months later and if it wasn't for this video I wouldn't be in this position of power I I am in right now. It feels SO good when she starts looking for you after 3 months of no contact. Now I'm considering if I even want her back.
I really hope you didn’t take her back in a serious manner. That shit NEVER worked the 2nd time around.
The first time is the hardest. After that test you go to the next level
exactly right...took me almost 3 decades to figure this out...Youngsters, pay attention!!
She belongs to the streets 👑🐺know your Worth Kings..
“Guy want to always fix shit, you not bob the builder “ words to live by
This is the best video on RUclips, absolutely true. My most recent one did this and everything you say is spot on. Younger me would cry and beg, this was the first one I actually liked and walked away. Powerful
When everything was good with my relationship, I watched these videos and was saying to myself “why do these guys hate women so much? They ain’t even all like that”. Now that we’ve split. This all resonates perfectly. The bullshit always starts at some point. There’s NOTHING you can do about it to prevent it either, all you can do is be mentally prepared for it. That’s why I’ve learned to roll back my attachment from a girl once I realize that it’s going too far.
Facts, I broke it off with my ex 2 years ago, after a month she begged me back. and like a dumbass I took her back thinking she'd be different. At that time was watching these videos along with other red pill shit cause something in my gut told me she'd leave. A year later she did. But didn't hit as much cause I was already preparing for it
I already had the experience on letting her go and you're right is one of the hardest things to do but it's worth it.
Yeah it sucks letting the gurl you love go and knowing you may never see her again
I let one go recently.After she wasted a chance I was out.Did not matter how much I liked her.
All relationships are temporary - ALL women are catch and release !!
Jada said it....
Amen
That's why y'all got just pump and dump
Absolute truth, I’ve been living this. When they think they got you, the games and bullshit begin.
With experience it’s not hard at all , as a man you have master emotional control and stoicism. It’s ok for you to feel
Yep this neither is right. Don’t ever get comfortable with woman they will turn on You in a minute
For damn sure
Like a rattle snake
After ya let her go, get right back to the grind.
Amen !
Never stopped the grind to begin with
Facts
So damn get back to making money
@@kpap612 Aman
Real talk, stop catching feelings kings kno yo worth let her not bring her Drama on u, chase yo dreams, smell good n let her go everything is temporary in this world we jst pass through
U just saved my life bro
Brother god bless you, you actually saved my life. Quality content. Quote of the century "You ain't alpha until you leave the girl you like".
In Russia we call it - women's demo version. You gotta pass through this phase (up to 6 months) in order to see the true nature
3 years later and this comment is accurate.
This is EXACTLY what just happened to me. Everything was magical our first month. Mind blowing sex. And then the bull shit came. And I walked away. U are spot on FitX.
It sucks but it has to be done
I still don't get what kind of bullshit y'all talking about...
@@awakenedone7577 bull shit being..... Changing their treatment of you, manipulation too
this guy gave me the speech i needed. red pill facts
I can find a Million of you. True facts my brother
Truth. It happened to me as soon as I moved in and put a ring on it. Lesson learned
"Woooooo" i like that energy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This man speaks truth ! Listen to everything he teaches you cuz trust me it works ! Have self-respect for yourself and never be afraid to walk out if they start shit !
Gotta always be reading her actions when dealing with women.
Damn right cause they are excellent readers of us and this is a great forum for men especially black men and the more you know the more you begin to understand.
@@leonhousey7949 true g
I’m not gonna lie I’ve been scouting your videos for a while now FitxFearless... but out of all videos this particular one is the one I needed. I finally realized by watching this video what I need to do. I haven’t been able to let go of a woman that I can honestly say I fell head over heels for and it’s been mentally draining. I felt like I needed to fix things, change myself, and win her back but now I realize after what you’ve said I’ve been given a gift. To be able to restart and just live my life is something I have to strive for. Thank you dearly man and keep making great content because your definitely somebody I’m inspired by. 💯🙏🏼
"youre not bob the builder mothaf*^ka" lmao that was funny
Smash and dash no matter what she got or looks like you will never be the first or the last
woodro blue83 I saw that shit all the time. When I meet a woman, I’m like I ain’t the first man to sleep with you and I won’t be the last . So I take my piece and keep it moving .
Ain't that the fucking truth!
True
I watched this video the day it was uploaded & I didn't think much of it then... I got into a relationship with a girl a month later that I really liked and now 6 months later this is making perfect sense .... The pain is still there though .... I can't wait to completely heal .
This is one of the realest videos I've seen in a while. Keep it 100 ya'll 👌🏽
My man speaks only the truth and the gospel. We as men cannot and must not be afraid to let her go once she starts acting the fool. And if she wants to be chased that probably means she doesn't want to be caught!
I really like this guy you have to have a sense of humor when dealing with crazy ladies it helps keep your sanity
The abuse that women perform is psychological and emotional, and men don’t usually address that, some are not even aware. Having boundaries and maintaining respect is a must.
Bruh you so right. And women know how to hide there true colors .... all in do time she gonna show you who she really is
This is a Golden rule!💯💪🏿
100% facts !!! I didn't even smash was just friends. We were cool , if you seen me you seen her. So another guy came around so they started hanging out and then 1 day she told me I was bothering her and I was like what? So I told her I'm out 🤣🤣 and haven't spoken to her since.
Congratulations bro
Lol
Been there
Wow, got exact similar experience.
Just happened to me. She’s dating a friend, I never looked at her as anything but a train wreck. Then she starts doggin me wanting to hang out. I resisted resisted. Made the mistake of telling a close friend about this. She’s pursuing him now. I’m better off lol a dumpster fire.
Why do I feel attacked?! Naw for real though.... Great content lord. I needed this 👑
let her go & self improve on yourself let her enjoy that L
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You said it all bro, it is happening to me now... I have to let go!!!!!
Me tooo bro 🥺🥺 like I feel attacked but it’s the damn true
Same thing happened to me. Soon as I moved around she started chasing me. Now she a side piece. She messed up that number 1 spot
It’s all business! Let her go at any moment! Women out number men for a reason!
Business, never personal
so true!! :). comes a dime, and then bammm all the red pill knowledge goes out the window
Bro, ama keep it a hundred with you, YOU HAVE THE MOST USEFUL INFORMATION ON ALPHA MENTALITY ON RUclips! Wow! Everything you say is ON POINT! STRAIGHT TO THE POINT! Nah I appreciate you bro! Hope you see this 🙏🏾🔥.
Young God only if someone took the time to talk to me as you did this whole video decades ago.. What a difference it would of made.. You are here with a purpose here.. Salute!
“Set your watch to it” thats the funniest and most truthful shit i ever heard
"Guys always trying to fix things. You ain't Bob The Builder" xD
Just rewatched this and I really needed it. Crazy how 1 random girl can get you. Thank you again for this I'm about to give her that 1 chance but I won't put up with it anymore as hard as it is I'm about to bounce.
Going through this now. Dated this chick for 6 months and she was a freaking dime. At first she was super feminine, cooked for me, was thoughtful, good morning texts everyday, best sex I ever had etc and the moment I told her "I love you", 2 weeks later the BS started and she ended up dumping me by ghosting me. Never told me we were breaking up or anything, she hit me with "I need time" and blocked me everywhere. Never saw it coming.
I never simped and never lost sight of my purpose, I treated that girl better than any of her exes before me and she still left. I make good money and she was a server at a restaurant, she literally checked out more than likely for a co worker.
I won't let myself get attached again like that girl did. Guys don't fall for it, he's right the BS always comes once they figure you out.
Yoooo I lost it with that "You aint Bob the Builder". That shit was hilarious. Speak the truth my brotha!!!!!
This is true high value because this shit is hard. The problem imo is that human nature likes having ups and downs so if you a find a chick who always treats you well and another one who treats you well sometimes, you're almost always going to pursue the one who was giving you ups and downs
One of the best speech i ever listened too !
How much I needed this is unreal man 🙏🏾
You are very wise for your age sir, and you are telling nothing but the truth. When you're with a woman always have the energy as if she can be replaced at anytime.
You drastically changed my life
I REALLY HOPE AND PRAY US GUYS TAKE THIS MAN'S ADVICE SERIOUSLY
Facts this is so true they be starting shit up and make it seem like you the problem
The bullshit never stops you just gotta keep it stepping ALWAYS! 💪🏾
We ain’t bob the builder. This video came just in time. Thanks G
Thats why I love watching your videos man . You only spitting the truth , i’m living exactly what you said about being insecure , girl ruining my life and doing bs.. This guy videos give me hope and help a lot improving.
Hell yea real shit I'm goin threw it right now... I should of left a long time ago
Favorite video you've ever made! Respect
He is so right , the first girl ....
There’s a time when you have to become like a heart of stone
What makes a man is we control our emotions and use logic
Lmao he said you’re not Bob the builder 😭😂🤣💀
This is the video I needed. I'm going through this shit right now.....but u know what, my mission and my purpose will always come first....Respect for the video 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
I needed to hear this message like that its awesome and gives you strength
Ask yourself, why do you need a woman? Nikola Tesla lived without sex as well as many great men that transmuted their sexual energy.....I was once a player that went through hundreds of women. It's not worth it- focus on yourself
Got fuckin dam 😂😂
Women aren’t just for sex! And we need sex too 🤣! Let’s not act like, life is all bout being busy on yourself! It’s all about balance, finding equilibrium and never loser sight of who you are..
@@adamasene9218 yes well said
@@adamasene9218 FACTS!! Perfectly said cause lord knows I'm not giving up sex. That shit too fun lol. But gotta have balance
Imma still need to experience first lmao, i'm a virgin
At first I wasn’t ready to hear this shit. But ain’t nothing more true. If she don’t treat you better than you deserve she doesn’t deserve you!
Toxic is the magic word. Right now I’m going through this shit. Divorce is in the future. Near future. Don’t ever think that because you have her and loved her like no one ever did that she will treat you right. That doesn’t exist. It’s fake.
Right on my brother. You hit the nail right on the head👍
This mindset is golden
0:10 they will behave when you don’t like them and aren’t attached. As soon as you like her, they will always start the bs when you like her.
Always be willing to walk away, no matter the circumstance
3:00 she will ruin your life
4:00 one chance
Or else you slowly get poison dripped over time
Drama comes as soon as she knows you like her
They’re manipulative
6:45 don’t marry just because things weee going well for some time. Don’t live in scarcity and be lazy
Don’t marry the first girl that is nice to you. The more cons to that than pros. To find the best apple, you have to eat a lot of apples
9:30 you are a peice of s lazy loser
10:50 don’t get invested in these girls
She gotta earn her spot, then maintain. Same with cars
I needed this. Putting this girl in check tonight
They say you think you are compatible with your significant other, live with them and watch what happens.....long story short I thought I liked a girl but her true colors showed so it's time to move on 💯💯💯
I’m 45 and I’ve had plenty of women in my life but I only ever truly wanted and fell in love with 2 and I had to let them go .. The pain was unbearable but the games and the BS aren’t worth the headaches.
HE AIN'T LYING THO!!!!
Fitx right this happened to me a couple months ago! Don’t let your guard down boys!!!
He funny as hell. It’s the truth though. Value yourself more. Let her go. It hurts like hell, but it needs to be done.
Thank you For this man I needed to hear this. It is so hard to let go
It’s 4 billion of them Fitx💪🏾
Bro you are 100% right. Its hard but it will happen eventually. Will this shit ever change?
IsraelitesMatter wym?
I hate it but you’re 100 % correct - now I know
Dude, the way you say bitch🤣 got me thinking that one broke your heart recently! You speak with emotions dawg 🤣
Bro you scolded me, I moved for my ex and I realise I was a simp because she changed. You talk truth
Excellent video - so true. I like your honesty a lot - that's what makes your videos and advice different and #1.
If you feel like texting your ex, watch this part to get snapped out of it 9:57
10:15 gotta be a meme😭😭🤣🤣
This opened my eyes had to subscribe
Awesome video Fitx!
I literally just told my ex I really like and was dating that we love each other, and care about each other, but we couldn’t work because our distance was between us
Yesterday I remember her talking as if she was the best thing that happened to me and I told her I wanted to date other women and she tried to say that she would remove the other girls from my life 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾🙅🏾♂️ I didn’t like how she tried to make herself sound - as if I couldn’t find a better girl than her (she was a dope chick tho)
Guys here’s a secret: if you can let a girl go there’s something that happens in your brain that realizes if you can TELL A GIRL YOU WANT OTHER GIRLS, it makes you feel like you really have options.
Most men tell OTHER MEN that they want to date other women.
Strong men tell OTHER WOMEN that they want to date other women.
Solid men tell THEMSELVES that they want to date other women - and act like it
Add: I did a video on letting go if you’re still having a hard time ruclips.net/video/3Zd3bOLPXIk/видео.html
Damn🤣🤣💔💔💔 I'm hurt but this Is sooo true ..been a victim