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  • Опубликовано: 16 дек 2024

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  • @AlphaGadgetarian
    @AlphaGadgetarian 5 лет назад +2207

    Break up se zyada hurts seeing that person with someone else.....it literally hurts 🙂

    • @arpitaalone8980
      @arpitaalone8980 5 лет назад +12

      Yes right....

    • @shwetasinngh
      @shwetasinngh 4 года назад +2

      Vishakh Pandey trueeeee

    • @afzalkhan.6486
      @afzalkhan.6486 4 года назад +85

      Most painfull thing to see your ex with someone else..... But after brrakup they are only your Ex, so dont care wha they are doing... Let them go in to hell.

    • @farhanakhtar1436
      @farhanakhtar1436 4 года назад +8

      Yar dil ki bat krdi

    • @momeroy3258
      @momeroy3258 4 года назад +3

      Oh god I knowww

  • @ruchajadhav4613
    @ruchajadhav4613 4 года назад +1290

    Most hurting thing is that person is doing fine without you

    • @harshalrathod9989
      @harshalrathod9989 4 года назад +56

      even more hurting is that person is enjoying with someone else...and that someone is our frnd...😟😟😟😟😟so hurting

    • @happier___368
      @happier___368 4 года назад +8

      Exactly 💯

    • @rajnimam1714
      @rajnimam1714 4 года назад +14

      @@harshalrathod9989 soo true😞......my bf is doing the same from 3 years and now I'm kinda ready to breakup..... Idk how I'm going to handle it..... I was already soo depressed in the Lockdown and now this....

    • @harshalrathod9989
      @harshalrathod9989 4 года назад +18

      @@rajnimam1714i wasted lockdown in depression...from last 4 mnths she started to avoid me..if i msg her..she says that she is busy..i think she is focussed on study...so i also dont disturb her..she even dont talk a 5 min to me...i feel so depressed...but few days before i caught her chatting with my frnd...she talk with my frnd through her papa's whts app account...so i dont realize it first..i wasted lockdown in seeing just their last seen...😦😦she cheated me😢.u dont worry dear...karma will hit them back...just wait and watch

    • @rajnimam1714
      @rajnimam1714 4 года назад +10

      @@harshalrathod9989 i wasted 3 years buddy don't worry.....everone is going through the same shit over here

  • @sukug1989
    @sukug1989 6 лет назад +167

    Two more points
    1. Dont try to be friends with your ex. ( atleast for a year)
    2. Dont rush into new relationship. Take your time to heal.

  • @firdousalam8874
    @firdousalam8874 6 лет назад +309

    One of the most difficult tasks in life is removing someone from your heart ☹️

  • @vinitabehera762
    @vinitabehera762 6 лет назад +498

    I recently broke up from my 5 years relationship. We were about to confess it to our parents. And without any proper reasons he left. Yes I agree i treated myself worst during this time.

    • @kirandeshmne6165
      @kirandeshmne6165 6 лет назад +13

      Big hug to you Vinita...may you find peace...And pray that you meet your soulmate

    • @vinitabehera762
      @vinitabehera762 6 лет назад +28

      Kiran Deshmne thank u so much. But he came back and we r getting married by the year end. Hugging u tight.

    • @kirandeshmne6165
      @kirandeshmne6165 6 лет назад +12

      Vinita Behera you lucky lucky gal!!
      Hope you have a wonderful wedding and wish you a happy married life

    • @vinitabehera762
      @vinitabehera762 6 лет назад +1

      Kiran Deshmne thank you 😘❤️😍

    • @ritishasingh6867
      @ritishasingh6867 6 лет назад +2

      Vinita Behera So happy for you💕

  • @aayushiagarwal8353
    @aayushiagarwal8353 6 лет назад +109

    I felt relatable to the part that I actually started blaming myself so much for the break up and harmed myself not in a physical way, but yes I did it mentally.

    • @troyee1311
      @troyee1311 3 года назад +3

      Everyday I feel like I should have done this, I should have called him.. Its my ego and all and I seriously blame myself each and everyday😩

    • @pre5er
      @pre5er Год назад

      Mee too

  • @sameersingh5645
    @sameersingh5645 3 года назад +99

    Thanks alot. I had a breakup 2 months ago. We had a 5 years long distance relationship. We met once in few months and things were so good back then. I remember the way she used to get excited few days before when we were about to meet. Now we somehow managed to get a college in same place. But she met another guy few months back from her college, they became best friends and she cheated on me physically. I was shattered when she confessed me , I somehow managed to get out of that and forgive her. Then few weeks later she told me that she don't feel for me and now she loves that guy. They are together now and I'm alone by myself. These were the worst months of my life , i couldn't sleep, i neither study nor feel good. But from few days I'm healing myself somehow.

  • @Rashmi_Chauhan
    @Rashmi_Chauhan 6 лет назад +353

    Recently I had my breakup..after 10 years of long relationship..he left without any proper reason...till today I treated myself very badly...thanks for this video praju😊 u are right it's not end of the world

    • @shalu_kutty
      @shalu_kutty 4 года назад +16

      10 years is a big thing 🙁🙁🙁🙁

    • @kalpeshbhoir207
      @kalpeshbhoir207 4 года назад +9

      Same @Rashmi i also had my relationship of 9 years and I recently had break up
      I feels so so bad and it it really painful to recover ourself 🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @vaishnavim1651
      @vaishnavim1651 4 года назад +5

      10 years is big thing ,ur so strong ,😶🙂😎🤗

    • @sanghamitrabaidya1964
      @sanghamitrabaidya1964 3 года назад +5

      Same for me also. He left me without showing proper reasons after 7 year relationship.

    • @ujhere8344
      @ujhere8344 3 года назад +3

      Have you move on now?

  • @snehadatta1779
    @snehadatta1779 4 года назад +60

    It sucks when I see that the person happy without me or maybe pretending 😣

    • @ataulkarim8809
      @ataulkarim8809 3 года назад +2

      So you too try to be happy and Embrace your inner self

  • @siddhikale9031
    @siddhikale9031 6 лет назад +111

    You know what darling!!!
    After a breakup watching your videos is the best thing to get happy n positivity ♥️♥️

  • @deliciafernandes9946
    @deliciafernandes9946 6 лет назад +554

    God I just had a breakup yesterday! This video was really helpful Prajakta. Thanks for making so relatable, good content!💕

    • @suavesanjana6734
      @suavesanjana6734 5 лет назад +4

      how r u now?

    • @arpitaalone8980
      @arpitaalone8980 5 лет назад +8

      And mine today...

    • @seonajoyce9636
      @seonajoyce9636 4 года назад +6

      @@arpitaalone8980 and mine today

    • @satm03principals89
      @satm03principals89 4 года назад +4

      Bencho tuuu abi tak jinda hai?????

    • @pravartikaraj264
      @pravartikaraj264 4 года назад +6

      Mine one month ago 🥺 and still its hard for me to get through it plus i have been chasing the person cause if which i even lost my friendship ... but honestly on the other hand its not easy to stay friends with ur ex🥺

  • @southindiacompany3283
    @southindiacompany3283 4 года назад +60

    After break up we loose love for ourselves. We will have no reason to love ourselves. It is very hard to find our worth after break up. We will have to reinvent our personalities

  • @manjusha9608
    @manjusha9608 6 лет назад +70

    Going through it and i can't believe the person who used to say 'i love you' to me more than the times i can count, left me.... Prajakta these steps are easy to say but hard to follow :(

  • @aishwaryaaishu4898
    @aishwaryaaishu4898 3 года назад +9

    Connected to the video,
    He got married last Sunday and didn't even tell me about that..it was 7 years of relationship with full of love , fun and joy. Due to his family, everything changed just in one month.
    I came to know that he married his school frnd whom I know and he made a drama saying due to financial issues I am getting married to my cousin, atlast I got caught him and I feel he betrayed me . Thank God I am away from such kind of people.
    I was always compromising for sake of him, so that he will be happy, we will be happy. Atlast he left me without saying anything, I have lots of questions to ask him but I don't think he has answers for all those answers.
    This is the present situation, I am having severe headache and pain ..
    Everything will be fine , it's just a span of time.

    • @Lucky-lk3vo
      @Lucky-lk3vo 3 года назад +2

      I can understand what you are going through sister... Please stay strong more power to you😣

    • @devanshish7129
      @devanshish7129 3 года назад +1

      Stay strong champ.;! U will be fine 🙂.

  • @dikshamawri3183
    @dikshamawri3183 6 лет назад +119

    *1 year since my bad breakup and can relate to each and every word of Prajakta*
    I love you girl!😍😘💕

    • @lovevox9807
      @lovevox9807 6 лет назад +2

      Also try Love vox video '' Breakup or wakeup'' mind changing for move on

    • @ranu0152
      @ranu0152 6 лет назад +1

      Diksha Mawri same yaar😔😔😔

    • @vivekchaturvedi2313
      @vivekchaturvedi2313 3 года назад

      I hope now u are okkk

  • @bhavyasrivastava8340
    @bhavyasrivastava8340 3 года назад +6

    You are just a gem and two days ago only i had breakup and i felt so lost since but after watching this i realise that yes i did the right thing although i was the one initiating but one thing i learnt that there is no point in staying with a person who is constantly putting you down making you feel like shit about yourself never embracing your good qualities rather making you feel bad about whatever you did and most importantly the person who loves you will actually fight through anything with you and wont ever giveup and those who give up never actually loved you so that a win ... so to all those suffering right now trust the process you are being redirected to better things it doesn’t feel like it now but it will all make sense lots of love❤️✨✨

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Hello dear, I recommend you Dr Ezekiel, He was the one who help me bring back my 6years broken 💔 relationship,so I promise that he will help you too,And also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise I which you seek his help,thanks

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Message him on whatsapp

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      ➕2347054407388⏯⏯⏯⏯

  • @zeba2764
    @zeba2764 4 года назад +36

    When I broke up I was 17.it was my first relationship and yes,i treated myself like shit.I started hating myself as well as the fact that i couldn't hate my ex.but after 1 year things started to change, life started to become easier. What I'm trying to say is time actually healed nearly everything.
    But to my surprise, we got together after 2 years of separation.while staying away from each other we figured out what was wrong.So i can say at the end it was worth it.That breakup was necessary at that momment.
    And thanks Prajakta.You always make us happy..

    • @prakritisingh2513
      @prakritisingh2513 3 года назад +2

      How you managed after getting separated from him, how he came back in your life, my life seems to be hell, I left everyone for him now he is leaving me for no reason, please help I am broken

    • @prakritisingh2513
      @prakritisingh2513 2 года назад +1

      @@Teenage_vlogging give yourself some time, cry as much as you can not for him but for yourself, and then try to focus what you like Start loving yourself, because self love is most important you don't need anyone else to love you because you are enough for yourself.

    • @prakritisingh2513
      @prakritisingh2513 2 года назад +2

      @@Teenage_vlogging I can understand dear, he didn't cheat you OK but he don't want to live with you anymore, it simply means that he doesn't love you and people always do these types of things first they will say they love you and after sometime they don't want to stay anymore, you know why this happens because he only had interest In you or he was just liking you and dear interest gets over with time, liking changes but love is something different
      True meaning of love means it does not change whatever the circumstances is, no matter of time, beauty doesnt matter because love is with soul.
      So believe me your dream person is yet to come, who has left you was just part of your life.
      Now try to focus on yourself, I have suffered same dear. So I am there for you.

    • @prakritisingh2513
      @prakritisingh2513 2 года назад

      @@Teenage_vlogging dear, at starting we feel everyone love is real, but it isn't so, and if his love is real then definitely he will come to you, tell me you have requested him so many times, you asked him what happened why he is doing this, you tried everything, still he don't want to stay then can you force anyone to be with you, and if you really love him then you should be happy in his happiness, right. OK do one thing just ask him last time what is problem, what wrong you did and most importantly ask him whether he loves you or not? In these questions you will get clearity then accept whatever he says, you can feel worst, feel like everything is over, very bad feeling which I and you can't explain, accept that pain feel it but don't run away from it,
      I will not say you that time heals because we never forget the person we love but we should accept that his happiness is not with us.

    • @prakritisingh2513
      @prakritisingh2513 2 года назад

      @@Teenage_vlogging no don't block him, just stop messaging and calling him .and try to control yourself. I know you will feel to talk to him or message him but control.
      What I did was I disabled my sim in which I used to talk to him, and I deleted his number from everywhere, started spending time with family and dedicated towards my career. I used to miss him sometimes but I divert my mind. Spend time with your close friends.
      In starting it Will be difficult but once you make mind that you will not disturb him anymore you will definitely do it.
      Focus on yourself for few months, make a big dream, you will get involved on those things.
      And whenever you feel like alone just msg me. I will help you in all the best way I can.
      Self respect is very important ,give priority to yourself. You deserve best.

  • @PoojaGupta-nw1ew
    @PoojaGupta-nw1ew 3 года назад +27

    Sometimes we don't even realise but start to blame ourselves for whatever happened at a subconscious level.. we don't realise it until we go deep within.. thanks for making me realise the same Prajakta❤️❤️

    • @NoThing-ec9km
      @NoThing-ec9km Год назад

      I am doing it even consciously. It feels I will never find love again. It hurts so much😭😭😭

    • @Richa_33
      @Richa_33 Год назад +1

      I am doing it. I am constantly feeling guilty, blaming myself.

  • @sarthakgupta3908
    @sarthakgupta3908 6 лет назад +19

    A true video 😂😂, it really happens, its been 3 months and now i am over from all that devdas part but still at every night before going to bed, she is the first and last things that comes to my mind, maybe i can't get over this thing

  • @Divine_Love...
    @Divine_Love... 3 года назад +3

    I also had breakup (5.5 years relationship)...I was depressed..not talking..not doing anything...crying..sitting alone..now I am totally fine without him... After breakup I know the value of
    family love
    Self-love
    Career
    Happiness
    I start reading novels... watch kdrama ...focus on Career...start to get closer with family...now I am totally fine... I can do anything I want...sleep...dance ...sing..watch kdrama...go wherever I want... talk to friends...fb..insta..tiktok..everything...I am happy being single...Happy with this life. ..

    • @378shreyapattnaik2
      @378shreyapattnaik2 2 года назад

      How did you handle it during the initial days?
      It's been just 7 days..... and I am feeling so miserable!!

    • @kashishwadhwani5081
      @kashishwadhwani5081 5 месяцев назад

      Unable to handle myself

    • @Divine_Love...
      @Divine_Love... 5 месяцев назад

      @@kashishwadhwani5081 Start Spritual Journey...You will learn Detachment....Self Control...Calm....Peace....compose...
      Nothing in this world is permanent...everything is temporary....This pain is also temporary...it will fade away...just believe that....Whatever is happening in your life is for your own good...Hare Krishna and move on..

  • @aishwaryamohite6147
    @aishwaryamohite6147 6 лет назад +8

    Every word you said is what i always believed in when i got out of my teenage. After my last breakup. I felt so content and satisfied in myself.. I learned to see the things around me differently. And was glad that i grew through all this!

  • @AasthaSinghE-P
    @AasthaSinghE-P 4 года назад +26

    I know the value of me and my feelings so did not give it to any body .happily engaged with DREAMS .😊

  • @divyakumar7381
    @divyakumar7381 6 лет назад +22

    I have been following you since you were at 85k. And now at 1.2M, I can say that you have grown so much. The way you have changed is so inspiring. You are so so cool. I love you.
    Love love❤

  • @Khaobituu347
    @Khaobituu347 4 года назад +1

    So true di.... Yarrr it really hurts but somewhere it was needed

  • @dollrai1509
    @dollrai1509 5 месяцев назад +3

    Most toughest process of my life right now 👍

  • @zeeyaasaryal7277
    @zeeyaasaryal7277 5 лет назад +48

    2 weeks since breakup,i m totally feeling clueless,i m feeling like the end of the world,i just cant bear all this its painfull as hell. I m not being able to take him out of my head,i just am not being able to accept the fact that he dosent loves me, ki usko koi fark nahi padta, i m dying...😭

    • @sandeepe5989
      @sandeepe5989 5 лет назад +4

      don't feel bad... things like this do happen to everyone..

    • @vaishnavim1651
      @vaishnavim1651 4 года назад +2

      Same situation here too😣😞

    • @Fuckyou1605
      @Fuckyou1605 4 года назад +2

      Same situation

    • @anushaana2684
      @anushaana2684 3 года назад +2

      it gets better but i cant really say anything upon taking him out of your head he is gonna stay for a bit long while

    • @sqsayyeda
      @sqsayyeda 9 месяцев назад

      Any update?

  • @surabhib2671
    @surabhib2671 6 лет назад +16

    Yeah the 'blaming yourself' part is kaaaaffiiii relatable !!
    And thanks a lot for this video ! Maybe I'll need it in the future 😅😅
    And I'm happy you put up such a unique video with advices that cannot be found on the internet !
    Love ya di ! ❤️

  • @yovanrandhawa
    @yovanrandhawa 3 года назад +2

    Have breakup yesterday! Cry alot and fckd, but, after watcg this practical video, just feeling light inside❤

  • @graveyard2785
    @graveyard2785 6 лет назад +24

    It was 9 years of relationship and she broke up .

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 6 лет назад +3

      Jon Snow if Ygritte left you, don't worry you'll get your Daenerys

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 6 лет назад

      Jon Snow hahah thanks you😂

    • @graveyard2785
      @graveyard2785 6 лет назад

      Vaishnavi Chavan so khaleesi are u ready to take 7 kingdoms

    • @vaish_chavan
      @vaish_chavan 6 лет назад

      Jon Snow I am the rightful heir

    • @graveyard2785
      @graveyard2785 6 лет назад

      My father Rhaegar Targaryen was the eldest son and heir to King Aerys II,that mesns technically i am the only rightful legal heir of the seven kingdom so i should take the throne ,but though u r my love now so u can take whatever is mine except for my Valyrian sword

  • @jrani9529
    @jrani9529 Год назад +5

    Break up hurts especially when you had planned the future together... I've been there and for 2 years I feel like living in hell... Seeing him how easily he give up and be with another girl

    • @WishalDubey
      @WishalDubey Год назад +1

      I can relate with you I'm here dealing with her memories and she totally forgot me right after our breakup i even begged she just said No means No i even said i can wait for months and years she said no bye
      Anyways sab thik ho jayega time lagega sab thik ho jayega maine hi jada attachment bana li thi woh toh next day hi like who are you?

    • @vaibhavsingh2078
      @vaibhavsingh2078 11 месяцев назад

      @@WishalDubey exactly bro, same happened with me, she forgot me just after the moment of breakup. maine bahut beg kiya use, but she said the same "no, means no". abhi tak aisa koi din nhi hua hoga jisme usne mujhe good morning wish na kiya ho, but on new year, i wished her a lot of good things, but she didm't even reply to me. i am crying for her and she is like she doesnt even know who i am. I loved her by each nd every thing i have, i sacrificed each and every thing for her, i did what she told me to do.
      one advice from my side too, that koi bhi kaam bahut jyada mat kiya karo, like jo person jyada padhai karta hai wo pagal ho jata hai, jyada phone chalata hai to bhi pagal ho jata hai, aise hi jyada pyaar karne se bhi log pagal ho jate hai (like me).

  • @primosworld6111
    @primosworld6111 4 года назад +5

    We are separating legally..I really loved him but then I took a stand for myself and I respect myself....Thank you kaash agodar video pahila asta

  • @myheart6374
    @myheart6374 Год назад +1

    Everything is so relatable. He broke up with me after being with me for the last 7 months together. School love. Hard to forget . I saw a very bad phase with him
    But from today I'll try to move on. It is a part of life. The world is not going to be end. Thanks for these lines.

  • @TheSrishtiDas
    @TheSrishtiDas 6 лет назад +9

    Break up is just a part of life! Don’t let it dominate your happy being, time is a good healer! Rest, just go with the flow 😊

  • @aparajitasengupta2151
    @aparajitasengupta2151 5 лет назад +6

    Ye vdo mere bday prr upload hua ...and .....it helped me a lot....!!! Ha accha toh pakka niklega breakup se...hum free ho jaenge...and or Jada strong

    • @learnersuraj3445
      @learnersuraj3445 5 лет назад

      My gf name is aparajita Mishra... Interesting 😂😂😂😂

  • @shubhamjain180
    @shubhamjain180 5 лет назад +13

    Its been a year after my breakup. And still the memories haunt me. I hope something blossoms through the bs i am going through somethings....

  • @greeyongolds1663
    @greeyongolds1663 Год назад +1

    Unfortunately we are so selfish that we don't want them to be happy without us but this must change if we want to be happy and at least we should spare them if we claim we really loved them

  • @mishra_anurag.
    @mishra_anurag. 6 лет назад +43

    Very well said Prajakta "world is not ending" and time also not stopping is going going and going and everyone should understand this thing I must say it's very important

  • @dr-shwetar5335
    @dr-shwetar5335 4 года назад +16

    I broked up with my fiance yesterday... It's like hell!! We just imagined our marriage kids many things.. We engaged our parents too.. And this is it..!! Future seems so dark!!

  • @ujjwalsantra9127
    @ujjwalsantra9127 5 лет назад +77

    The third one is very relatable as i am not that beautiful compared to my friends

    • @shreegoyal9750
      @shreegoyal9750 4 года назад +9

      you are beautiful, its all about who you are

    • @vastavraut1657
      @vastavraut1657 3 года назад +4

      If you are beautiful from inside no power cant make you unhappy and you are the first priority of the good people.....

    • @gautamsen5908
      @gautamsen5908 3 года назад +1

      same here

    • @nachinachi1701
      @nachinachi1701 3 года назад +1

      You are beautiful

    • @nachinachi1701
      @nachinachi1701 3 года назад +1

      It's me who was ugly I guess

  • @aru5105
    @aru5105 Год назад

    And after reading the comments here I'm feeling so better for myself, it was just a 10 months of relationship n only 7 of them were beautiful with memories , another 3--- I was just trying to save the relation even after myself getting hurt, I'm just 18, it was a long distance relationship, even the breakup wasnt so ugly, ended at a fine note--- after seeing here that people r having years of relationship n just being left for no proper reason, having made memories offline too--- I'm not at so worse n painful condition like them-- n i thank universe now. Liked this video so much- trust the process n it's not the end of life. Certain things have to end so that better things can begin. Everythin happens for a reason. Love n light ⭐

  • @pushpajchougule8316
    @pushpajchougule8316 6 лет назад +34

    My only point is when you are breaking up, dont just make the other person to hate you. Dont just give her or him a reason to hate you. At least keep a beautiful memory with you.
    I got to learn that u shouldnt be depended on anyone for your own happiness.
    "If you cant save the relationship, at least save your pride"

  • @ptrgomes047
    @ptrgomes047 6 лет назад +274

    Zakir Khan ......Single raho Sakt Raho...🤙✌️🤙🤙

  • @kushagra132
    @kushagra132 6 лет назад +5

    Hey Prajakta, totally agreed by all your 3 steps to overcome breakup. There is a whole new world with immense opportunities open for everyone outside. And as said which is totally true, “EVERYTHING COMES AT PERFECT TIME, No matter how hard you try out. 😀😀

  • @raptichatterjee5152
    @raptichatterjee5152 3 года назад +2

    3 years to this video and it is helping me now

  • @nupurbishnu7611
    @nupurbishnu7611 3 года назад +4

    I just cant put off the memories out from my head..he was a habit in my life..its so distrbing in my career .. I can't move on the way he cheated me..plz help its just suffocating my life.

  • @surabhiprabhudesai6613
    @surabhiprabhudesai6613 6 лет назад +46

    Hey prajakta! Wow! I mean 'WOW'. And it's true that people harm themselves which is bad. Today, this video will open many eyes! Thank you for such beautiful video

    • @aisha1599
      @aisha1599 6 лет назад +6

      Hey u r the one whom insta pic pratakta has recreated!

  • @sanskritclass7549
    @sanskritclass7549 6 лет назад +19

    She is a cute rabbit..
    I am in love with her cuteness..
    Those glasses... Damn cute yaa 😘😘💖💖

  • @swtghs
    @swtghs 4 года назад +2

    She broke up with me due to time issue.. but i begged to her to fix all the things and really wanted to do tht..but she didnt beleive on me...i told her 100000times sry to her and told them again and again but she didn't rdy to listen....and she only recalled all the mistakes every time....abd i blame myself lot..tht is why i am in depression...but wanted to move on but i can't and i am spoiling my dreams.. so guys plz wht ever we decide be careful... it's ur lyf....

    • @Ash_LynxTheAmericanboy
      @Ash_LynxTheAmericanboy 4 года назад

      sweet ghosh Yeah ruining my dreams my sleeps everything for him. I look like a crap now!

  • @Yuka-ej2gl
    @Yuka-ej2gl 4 года назад +5

    This video has proved so motivational to me for a long time . Whenever I feel like involving in a relationship , I do come to watch this video which propels me to believe that one shouldn't prefer uncertain relationships over their merry life . One might accept a proposal out of desperation and start considering a person as their world , and it would bring a temporary solace to the life . But Ultimately , someday , out of the blue , disaster might approach in the form of a break up . I always try avoiding falling into the kinda messed up condition over and again . I am done with relationships for quite a while .

  • @sujanashabnam805
    @sujanashabnam805 6 лет назад +28

    How can I overcome my depression through it...like each nd everyday all of a sudden I started crying..I can't focus on my other things..nd Like I don't hv any other works..so tht I can make myself busy..I don't know actually Wht should I do..Its has been two months..nd m still like this..nd still I didn't hv any clue..how to deal with this situation..

    • @malavikagopalakrishnan6315
      @malavikagopalakrishnan6315 4 года назад

      How are things going now? Are you fine..?

    • @karan6516
      @karan6516 4 года назад +2

      @@malavikagopalakrishnan6315 I wanna know the same coz I'm going through the same thing now

    • @15anshulkumar
      @15anshulkumar 4 года назад +1

      @@karan6516 To everybody who is suffering :- Time Heal all wounds. You will find love again. Straight up facts. Just cut contacts with your ex and move on with your life.

  • @miniaggarwal3920
    @miniaggarwal3920 4 года назад +8

    i just had a break up last week and today i came to know my 3 years long boyfriend is getting married this month and it was all pre-planned. i don't know what should i do or what should i say think. im just numb. everything happened all suddenly. i gave so much of me in that relationship and this is how it ended.

    • @nidhisharma5413
      @nidhisharma5413 4 года назад

      @Amit SharDa hey can we talk

    • @aasthabhatnagar4046
      @aasthabhatnagar4046 3 года назад

      Hi mini. I am going through the same phase. How are you doing now? I want to know. I am very depressed and anxious. I am dying day by day and I don't know how to fight this stupid urge or texting him? Sometimes I doubt if I will be heal or not in the future.

  • @beingmyself03
    @beingmyself03 Год назад +2

    I had a breakup a month ago, things have been hard for me, though it was just a 3month relationship but the attachment it brings is something I just cannot deny…it’s tough for me to accept everything…healing yet get nostalgic at timesss

  • @sanjivanigujarpatil984
    @sanjivanigujarpatil984 4 года назад +5

    Most hurting thing is that person is doing fine without you.. You are right praju dii.. Not ending 🌏 world Thanks for this video.. I am blaming myself

  • @suprovatabassum1163
    @suprovatabassum1163 3 года назад +7

    Had a break up 10 days ago. It was a 6 years relationship. Now I don't know what to do.

    • @kiranNiks
      @kiranNiks 3 года назад

      I guess none of us do....thts why searching what to do in youtube....

    • @ruksp.8520
      @ruksp.8520 3 года назад

      It's hurting so much.... Please someone help me please
      It was 5 year's relationship and we were about to get married but because of cast problem he decided to choose his parents decision and left me forever. Please someone help me please. In my family there were lost of problem and i was deal with all of them because he promised me that one day he will come and drag out me from this hell.Now i am so much helpless it's hurting please help me

    • @shishirjaiph1986
      @shishirjaiph1986 3 года назад +2

      @@ruksp.8520 Girl I had a 4 year relationship, he asked for marriage, we spend our time thinking about our future but now his eyes suddenly OPENED and he said that his family won't allow because of caste.. Look if your man is courageous enough he will tell convince his family or forget him, it's harsh but true.. I was also in your situation but as time passed I healed and I am better than before.. As Prajakta also said everything happens for good so just trust yourself and focus on your career, family and friends. Hope it helped you

  • @Bhaswatiiii
    @Bhaswatiiii 6 лет назад +16

    Everything happens for a reason ❤

  • @karateamrit
    @karateamrit 4 года назад +1

    Ahhh. 5 months ki roona dhoona ko sukoon mila didi❤️🙏🏻

  • @manisoni5002
    @manisoni5002 6 лет назад +42

    when you released the video..I was in a relationship. ..and today I had a brkup and Trust me..This was all I needed and It is helping me SO MUCH. .ThankYouSoMuch Di❤

  • @vishaliniragala9228
    @vishaliniragala9228 6 лет назад +5

    Break ups are worst if a person is sensitive.

  • @anxious.soul6
    @anxious.soul6 6 лет назад +11

    I m 25 years old mera 1 week phle hi breakup hua h mera first love tha ye 5 months chala hmra relation or Abhi mujhe lg rha h ye meri worst condition h 😭😭

  • @nehasoni3038
    @nehasoni3038 3 года назад +2

    Recently i had brekup, today i feels very demotivate but after watching your video am ok

  • @himanshigarg4258
    @himanshigarg4258 3 года назад +20

    Everything is so temporary don't let this ruin you

  • @prachipandey9493
    @prachipandey9493 6 лет назад +7

    Hey Prajakta,
    The thirsd point was really relatable..i strongly agree..😅😅

  • @vidushi4255
    @vidushi4255 4 года назад +4

    Just had my first breakup, I'm 17,i was in the relationship with this guy for 2 SERIOUS years. This is day 5 since the breakup. I already feel so depressed. That person was my best friend my human diary. I have no where to vent out. I always wanted to make it work. It hurts real bad

    • @vidushi4255
      @vidushi4255 3 года назад

      @MEENAKSHI NATHANI I hope you are doing well

    • @aritribhattacharjee2201
      @aritribhattacharjee2201 3 года назад +1

      @@vidushi4255 how are u now ? Is everything fine

    • @vidushi4255
      @vidushi4255 3 года назад

      @@aritribhattacharjee2201Yes I'm doing really well now. Thank you so much for asking❤

    • @aasthabhatnagar4046
      @aasthabhatnagar4046 3 года назад

      How are you now? I am going through the same phase? I am 21 and I am so depressed and my anxiety is on peak. Idk how to fight with this urge of texting him. Sometimes I doubt myself if I will be okay or not in the future.

    • @378shreyapattnaik2
      @378shreyapattnaik2 2 года назад

      @@aasthabhatnagar4046 Hello! I hope you are okay

  • @architaray9776
    @architaray9776 4 года назад +2

    I completely agree with you Prajakta. Every break up is a huge learning lesson. Forcing things only make it worse. I was so damn stupid and did some weird things after my breakup. Now after moving ahead in my life I feel so ashamed for doing them and also laugh at it. Life really goes on without someone and at the end all these trivial things do not really matter.

  • @ritishasahoo2353
    @ritishasahoo2353 5 лет назад +33

    I had a breakup a week back...This video helped me a lot😇😇...

  • @roshan93
    @roshan93 6 лет назад +15

    I Love Your Last scene Hilarious Dialogue " Ab Main Ja Raha, Bye-Bye" is oustanding Prajakta LoveLove

  • @pinkbow7061
    @pinkbow7061 6 лет назад +181

    Prajo is soo cute 😘 who else agree ?? 😍😍😍

  • @Khaobituu347
    @Khaobituu347 4 года назад +1

    Yarrr di ...thanks for this video... Actually presently I am dealing it very badly..so feeling really relaxed

  • @bhoomimalhotra8547
    @bhoomimalhotra8547 6 лет назад +170

    Breakup se Jyda Hurt Kb hota h ?
    Me - Result aya Fail hogya 😩
    Now its ur turn ?😜

  • @jyotisingh6609
    @jyotisingh6609 6 лет назад +36

    Yes before breaking up with my ex, I used to think that he will all alone, he will go through a bad phase and I can't make him sad because of me but now when I am over it I see him having fun with his friends, his friends abused me, don't talk to me but all that is fine cz now I am more than happy now. I am dating my best friend now and I am about to get married to him also. So yeah you were right, everything happens for a reason and for our good only.

    • @mahak5599
      @mahak5599 6 лет назад +3

      Jyoti Singh OMG..marrying your best friend...😍😍 *how lucky* 😍😍

    • @aashishrivastava3179
      @aashishrivastava3179 6 лет назад +1

      Damn I'm so happy for you 😘😘 (I've somewhat similar story btw! Yeah but I ain't getting married 😂)

    • @jyotisingh6609
      @jyotisingh6609 6 лет назад +1

      Thank you guys 😊

    • @rare.ruturaj
      @rare.ruturaj 6 лет назад +2

      Wish u a happy married life 👍😉✋

    • @11yugesh
      @11yugesh 6 лет назад

      👿👿

  • @yashikasharma6695
    @yashikasharma6695 3 года назад +3

    You are right P❤️ Time heals everything if we want to.

    • @toshiamoug6819
      @toshiamoug6819 3 года назад

      Hello, I recommend you to Dr Ezekiel, he was the one who helped me restore my 6 years broken relationship, he can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. Also, Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise. I will advice you seek his help thanks.

    • @toshiamoug6819
      @toshiamoug6819 3 года назад

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @toshiamoug6819
      @toshiamoug6819 3 года назад

      +2347054407388⏭⏭⏩⏩

  • @poppy2809
    @poppy2809 2 года назад +2

    I just had my breakup too
    End of 3 years of confused relationship

  • @barshasworld3770
    @barshasworld3770 4 года назад +23

    I just recently brokeup with my ex it was 6 months relation. I know you might think it's just 6months but trust me i was so emotional attached to him. I was so dam loyal and didn't saw anyone beside him. But recently i came to know that he was dating one more girl from 1year. I was so broken and didn't knew what to do. When i told him about it and what was this shit he was just died for second chance and told please come back i would never do it again. He brokeup with that girl and it was hard but i gave him second chance. But i was not happy and was not able to trust him and he was not even doing anything to gain my trust back. So today i brokeup and block him from everywhere. I am little heart broken but it is better to be in that relationship it was completely toxic.

    • @Thatgurlceo24
      @Thatgurlceo24 4 года назад +2

      same just broke up 💔

    • @auishikhan3496
      @auishikhan3496 4 года назад +2

      how are you right now sis?

    • @barshasworld3770
      @barshasworld3770 4 года назад +2

      @@auishikhan3496I am fine now and much more motivated😊

    • @barshasworld3770
      @barshasworld3770 4 года назад +1

      @@Thatgurlceo24 don't be sad it has been for a good cause just believe. And something good is gonna come out of it surely 😊👍

    • @vaishnavim1651
      @vaishnavim1651 4 года назад

      U really have a big and huge heart ❤️🤗be happy and strong

  • @rajivgupta4809
    @rajivgupta4809 6 лет назад +6

    I am saloni.Aap jitni bhi baate bolte ho h wo saari baate sach h...!!?!!😂🤣🤣🤣. LOVE LOVE ❤️💖💖💖❤️

  • @vaeshnavee9585
    @vaeshnavee9585 3 года назад +8

    I just had breakup day before yesterday and this video poped up ❤

  • @smitasrivastava8525
    @smitasrivastava8525 4 года назад +2

    Thank you praja kta..... I love you

  • @charchityadav600
    @charchityadav600 6 лет назад +6

    Amazing video. U talked about it in such a way that me and I think everybody else got relaxed , heard you talking about break up with so much fun, laughs all n all full of postivity, on other side wch was a too serious thing for us at dt point in our lives. So, thank you Prajakta. As u say , love love 😊

  • @komalmishra651
    @komalmishra651 6 лет назад +35

    #realtalktuesday how to get over fake frns.... bcoz i have faces many frns in my life till now who have left me for their greed...!!!!!!!! Plz make a vdeo on it

  • @iamgalib
    @iamgalib 6 лет назад +6

    I don't know why I feel like singing a song for you...
    Hmmmm...hmmmm...hmmmmm
    Kuch na kahoooo
    Kuch bhi na kahoooo
    Kuch na kahoooo
    Kuch bhi na kahoooo
    Kya kehna haiii
    Kya sunna haiiiii
    Mujhko pata haiiiiii
    Tum ko pata haiiiiii
    Samay ka yeh pallll tham sa Gaya haiiiiiii
    Aur iss pal meinnn koi nahi haiii
    Bas ek mein huuuu
    Bas ek tum hoooo
    Kuch na kahoooo
    Kuch bhi na kahoooo

  • @PriyaSharma-183
    @PriyaSharma-183 2 года назад +1

    Watching this today again. Break up to 3 saal phle ka hua. But today after knowing that person got engaged made me crying again....missing him off course ... But thank you again 'world is not ending '

  • @anamshaikh1387
    @anamshaikh1387 3 года назад +3

    Have you ever seen a best friend turning to a stranger? That's w hurts, the most.

  • @priyanshsingh3979
    @priyanshsingh3979 3 года назад +3

    It hurts the most i have ever experienced ,I literally cried almost for an year

  • @anushkajoshi.1631
    @anushkajoshi.1631 6 лет назад +23

    Praju mam it's true. After a breakup i starts treating myself so badly that I can't even explain. My first boyfriend left me because he found someone else and told me that we could not be in a relationship. I was so hurt. I cried a lot and became depressed started thinking that i am an ugly girl whom no one can love. You know i am short in height so i thought that i didn't deserve him. But ya now it's ok

  • @aishwaryam9050
    @aishwaryam9050 4 года назад

    Guys she is right joh hota hai ache ke liye liye hota hai and woh jab ho raha hota tab aisa lagta hai ki isse buri cheez nahi ho sakti hai but after some time you realise it! Trust the Process. Hope everyone gets strength through to cope with it! 💫 💛

  • @ritikanigam7571
    @ritikanigam7571 6 лет назад +19

    It's been 2-3 months I started following your videos, stories. And you making my world a better place :)

  • @Cookiebtw1
    @Cookiebtw1 2 года назад +3

    Time heals everything ❤🍃

  • @sonam_margaret
    @sonam_margaret 4 года назад +7

    I just had my break up😭 3days ago and this is due to caste problem my parents. he loves me still a lot I am not able to forget him our relationship was of 1 year long everything was good we were preparing for our future too.. but now everything finished

    • @spriya533
      @spriya533 4 года назад

      It’s the same here....but it was 10yrs relationship

    • @siavosia7828
      @siavosia7828 4 года назад

      Yarrr mere breakup Ko 6 din have hae yarrr I can feel Ur pain yarr be strong yarrr be strong

    • @nickysagolsem9133
      @nickysagolsem9133 4 года назад

      Me too one days back I broke up It's really hurt to me 💔😭

    • @auishikhan3496
      @auishikhan3496 4 года назад

      how?

  • @shatakshimishra8740
    @shatakshimishra8740 4 года назад +1

    I m so much relatable to the third one. But seriously, I would blame just myself forever for our breakup. I used to get over violence sometimes, n yeah this was all bcz he had been doing the same thing but the fact he used to give me was that he loves me n when someone loves you, they even have the right to scold u . I know I'm the only one who's responsible for all these. It was a 4 year relationship n now it's really crucial for me . Infact I cannot overcome his absence. I'm unable to accept the fact that he's never gonna come back😭 It's not that easy as u say prajakta

  • @priyadarra2103
    @priyadarra2103 4 года назад +6

    I had a break up yesterdvy he just left me for his ex gf...after being with me 10 yrs

    • @priyadarra2103
      @priyadarra2103 4 года назад

      I can't get over it

    • @dd-tn8ur
      @dd-tn8ur 4 года назад +2

      @@priyadarra2103 hey, Im just going through this phase,two years relationship,all going well,but suddenly I became time waste for him,he is not ready to give his time to me,only 30 minutes in a day,I cannot msg or call him if I miss him during day,so I choose to leave him,he still wants me,bcoz he has noone to support him mentally but I choose not to stay as a side mat,to b used when needed,so I will say to u
      If u got to know reality of ur previous partner before marriage,u r lucky,kindly treat urself with love,and it will seem dark for few days since ur mind accepts this fact that he has gone now nd will not be back to u,u will be filled with his thoughts sometimes as to why he changed but remember all these are process of mind to realise the truth
      Just indulge urself in any work whether productive or not,it really helps
      I hope u will recover fast from this, once forgive him for what he did
      Remember my words or anything cannot lessen ur pain but it will give u the ways to tackle nd remember u r not alone in this, lot are facing same problem
      U will come out of this, god bless you

    • @shreegoyal9750
      @shreegoyal9750 4 года назад

      I am sorry .... you will be fine but that means you were his rebound. Such things often happen.

  • @chinmayipatharkar7885
    @chinmayipatharkar7885 3 года назад +3

    I dated a guy for 8 years now i am 26 and he cheated on me and now getting married ... i even dont know how to get out of it😞

    • @mishra988
      @mishra988 3 года назад

      Stay strong ... Kuchh conversations aise honge Jo bhgwan ne sun liya ...it will all worth later on .... Don't blame urself .... I also had a very bad heart break but that's oky .

  • @nidhishetti
    @nidhishetti 6 лет назад +8

    Omggg prajakta thanku for the video.. Cant thank u enough.. 💗💗💗💗

  • @aashitripathi5846
    @aashitripathi5846 3 года назад +1

    Daym I saved this ! Now relatble enough n yeah - I'll c this whenever I'll feel low

    • @vivekchaturvedi2313
      @vivekchaturvedi2313 3 года назад +1

      Hey aashi time will heal as people say this.. i am also going through hard time. So yaa more power to you..and lots of prayer

  • @sukritgoyal4299
    @sukritgoyal4299 6 лет назад +10

    perfect timing 😄 u r my fav youtuber ndd can yiu guess just prso ee brkup hua bt apke yee bate sunn ke kafi btr feel hoo rha h tysm🙈 #lovelove .,❤✌

  • @hinkalhellokitty
    @hinkalhellokitty 4 года назад +6

    I have scrolled through so many videos on breakup, but this video it worth it. You helped me prajakta, its on me :))

  • @khushboojain7977
    @khushboojain7977 6 лет назад +750

    Who else is 18, still single, and still watching this video? 😂
    Just me? Ok..

    • @shubhamjanjal2414
      @shubhamjanjal2414 6 лет назад +3

      Just_a_Random_ Girl still single??😜

    • @graveyard2785
      @graveyard2785 6 лет назад +7

      I am single because ygritte is dead .

    • @khushboojain7977
      @khushboojain7977 6 лет назад +1

      Aren't you also dead Jon Snow? 😂

    • @graveyard2785
      @graveyard2785 6 лет назад +1

      Just_a_Random_ Girl naah not yet thanks to the Red women .

    • @hmcyberpoint87
      @hmcyberpoint87 6 лет назад +1

      Just_a_Random_ Girl 17* here 🤣😂😂😂

  • @rabhaya971
    @rabhaya971 2 года назад +1

    Thanku dii!! U helped me alotttttt!!!!❣❣❣

  • @rajmaagoswami
    @rajmaagoswami 6 лет назад +56

    Your top is so pretty di😊 😊

    • @MostlySane
      @MostlySane  6 лет назад +5

      Yay! Thanks!

    • @nibeditadutta8425
      @nibeditadutta8425 6 лет назад

      MostlySane where is it from? It's lovely 😍

    • @bubbly4250
      @bubbly4250 6 лет назад

      Rajmaa Goswami I was about to say the same thing

    • @rajmaagoswami
      @rajmaagoswami 6 лет назад

      Mubayana Matin Bubly yay...highfive ....

    • @DeepaSingh-yd9dz
      @DeepaSingh-yd9dz 6 лет назад

      Bar bar to upr khech ri h top ...
      Dusra hi phn leti

  • @ananayatripathi9362
    @ananayatripathi9362 3 года назад +3

    I love a guy whose mother want a job girl for his son. I m jobless and this year is my last semester of post graduation.after my PG or sometimes I got a job without telling me but This year he Married with someone else. And break my heart into several pieces 🥺😭😭💔 I am so much depressed after that I unable to think anything.

    • @sukritybera2538
      @sukritybera2538 3 года назад

      I'm going through a breakup as well. 1.5 months through, I am better than before. It will hurt, but not one day. You'll have to take each day at a time, do not focus on tomorrow. Take today's day, give yourself time, cry if you need to. This will get better with time slowly. You will heal and you will be able to feel that. Just go through it, feel every emotion of yours. Don't try to fight your brain or emotions. You'll be better each day.

  • @preetinirmalkar1858
    @preetinirmalkar1858 4 года назад +3

    Actually.. u motivated a lot of people .. u are an amazing person

  • @devikajain3061
    @devikajain3061 2 года назад +1

    Painful thing is that when the other person has approached you and left you when you started develop feelings for that person and he is done absolutely fine without you and you are the one left with tears.