This one is gonna hit hard ! We dive deep into some more critical Dangers of being single for too long. As always lets chop it up in the comment section below...
49 and same. No drama, no forced situations , just me and my dogs. Mostly chilling in my music studio, or playing my guitar enjoying nature around me. (and never had problems meeting or finding a date, but relationship are often taxing and I want to keep my happiness
There is no need for socialisation if you work, going to make haircut or going to gym. Everywere you can show your attitude and have a small talk. Be yourself. Connect with only people you want. You have absolute self completeness.
I'm 39. Single for the last 6 years, I co-own a small but very successful company. I lift weights for the last 10 years, I eat clean, do a lot of cardio outside in warmer months. So I ain't that average late 30s guy with a big belly. I ain't tall in todays world standards (5ft10) and I don't have a problem with that. Some chicks wanted to hook up in the last 6 years, but I soon found out we weren't connected on a deeper level. To tell you the truth, I don't even miss having a partner. My hobbies keep me happy and occupied and my business keeps me financialy in a very safe place, so why bother with that.
Im 37 years old and have been in relationships of all sorts ALL MY LIFE . I am finally single for the first time in my life and it feels like a weight has been lifted from me. I feels so good to finally be able to make a decision by myself so i decided to fly to Egypt and LIVE LIFE !!!!!
I'm in my early 50s. I've been overweight my entire life. When all the people in your life, especially when you were a child, close all the doors, completely ignore you, beat you on a daily basis because you dared to talk back or stick up for yourself, then you don't get to complain when that kid grows up, discards society, discards love, and will violently defend yourself. Those like me chose something other than humans to hang around with. The choices have been made and there's no going back.
The innate & subconscious distrust of socially awkward guys has been around even in the 90s and likely before. There are some things that are out of our control like winning the genetic serotonin lottery or having traumatic experiences in your youth that were out of your control that led to socialization issues. The best thing anyone can do suffering from it is just having awareness and working on it daily with actionable steps like exposure therapy (like mentioned in the video) or building confidence through other, ideally social, activities.
You’re 💯 correct. It’s situations such as these that has to be considered. I’m glad you’ve highlighted this point. Respect for adding value and I’m thrilled that you resonated with this vid Roshea
so true - im single female, ive more or less given up hooking up with people/ having a social life last couple of years. i literally go to work, then gym, then supermarket then home. been like this for 5 years - i literally live on youtube! i look forward to getting home to watch video after video
I've not been in a relationship by choice for 4 years now, and am unlikely to go back. I've no problem socialising with my friends and their gf's down the pub, or convos with holiday guests (at their invitation) around the campfire, or with the regular two person TV filming team who come to record my work, or shoppers in my town who ask about my motorbike, or the ladies serving at the local biker café. Seriously, how much interaction do I need before I retire to the peace of my inner sanctum for the evening? With a woman in tow, the 'tingles' for her always fade no-matter what I do and she'll make my life hell until she finds the next toe curler.
2024: Those who don't need the exp, get ton of it, while those who need the exp, get little to none. Stay alive peeps, it's ok to not have exp. As long you don't knock someone up, you are fine. Get to work and be the change you want to see in this world.
1:40 not accurate, being social is like riding a bike, you could not ride a bike in years and get back on it and be fine. I had an overly social 20s and wasted alot of time partying which then needed to be caught up in my 30s. I partied so much in my twenties I feel like I partied 3 or 4x what an average person does in their lifetime so staying in and catching up with myself in late 30s 40s feels like a balance and financially has served me greatly to stop dating socialising for a while
It's Good to be alone. People need to learn how to move and their own business. As long as folks know how to read, watch other people interact, they will never loose social skills.
Good points this just randomly came up on my phone. There's this one girl that I've been friends with for a while now I've met her while I was working. She said she'd never had a boyfriend before and while I met her. I was already dating or about to get married to my fiancé long story short she always flirts with me all the time. And every time when I was with her she'll be giving me hints. Now that I'm single and I'm trying to talk to her while trying to hang out with her. She doesn't want to or always says will see and only hangs when she wants to So I don't know what the problem is if this is part of the case what should i do i caught feelings for her and its hard to meet women nowadays?
@RexDavis415 You know what i'm gonna do I was just thinking that maybe I should just pretend that I have a girl again And just ignore her altogether so that probably she could get some more attention.I don't know, it's just confusing.I don't know why we got to play these guessing games
@@randallmitchell6326 my thoughts are.. its nice honestly but some days suck, ive had so many opportunities but ik wht comes with being with a woman and im not really interested now
I'm 41 and happily single, and happily celibate. I own the house, the car, and I have 0 debt. What can F*ck up this paradise? A woman.
Im glad that you're content. Continue to thrive !
49 and same. No drama, no forced situations , just me and my dogs. Mostly chilling in my music studio, or playing my guitar enjoying nature around me. (and never had problems meeting or finding a date, but relationship are often taxing and I want to keep my happiness
I can have several friends I talk to without the need of having a partner, if I end up single my whole life I have nothing to do about it.
Exactly Fam. All you can do is control your own actions and nothing else. Continue to Thrive
There is no need for socialisation if you work, going to make haircut or going to gym. Everywere you can show your attitude and have a small talk. Be yourself. Connect with only people you want. You have absolute self completeness.
I'm 39. Single for the last 6 years, I co-own a small but very successful company. I lift weights for the last 10 years, I eat clean, do a lot of cardio outside in warmer months. So I ain't that average late 30s guy with a big belly. I ain't tall in todays world standards (5ft10) and I don't have a problem with that. Some chicks wanted to hook up in the last 6 years, but I soon found out we weren't connected on a deeper level. To tell you the truth, I don't even miss having a partner. My hobbies keep me happy and occupied and my business keeps me financialy in a very safe place, so why bother with that.
Im 37 years old and have been in relationships of all sorts ALL MY LIFE . I am finally single for the first time in my life and it feels like a weight has been lifted from me. I feels so good to finally be able to make a decision by myself so i decided to fly to Egypt and LIVE LIFE !!!!!
Egypt hey ! A new chapter for you fam . Safe journey and may we see each other across the pond
I'm in my early 50s. I've been overweight my entire life. When all the people in your life, especially when you were a child, close all the doors, completely ignore you, beat you on a daily basis because you dared to talk back or stick up for yourself, then you don't get to complain when that kid grows up, discards society, discards love, and will violently defend yourself. Those like me chose something other than humans to hang around with. The choices have been made and there's no going back.
The innate & subconscious distrust of socially awkward guys has been around even in the 90s and likely before.
There are some things that are out of our control like winning the genetic serotonin lottery or having traumatic experiences in your youth that were out of your control that led to socialization issues.
The best thing anyone can do suffering from it is just having awareness and working on it daily with actionable steps like exposure therapy (like mentioned in the video) or building confidence through other, ideally social, activities.
You’re 💯 correct. It’s situations such as these that has to be considered. I’m glad you’ve highlighted this point. Respect for adding value and I’m thrilled that you resonated with this vid Roshea
so true - im single female, ive more or less given up hooking up with people/ having a social life last couple of years. i literally go to work, then gym, then supermarket then home. been like this for 5 years - i literally live on youtube! i look forward to getting home to watch video after video
I totally hear ya. I'm glad that there is a level of contentment. Stay Strong
I agree. Even after being divorced with kids, life is just more simple and peaceful single. But never alone!
I've not been in a relationship by choice for 4 years now, and am unlikely to go back. I've no problem socialising with my friends and their gf's down the pub, or convos with holiday guests (at their invitation) around the campfire, or with the regular two person TV filming team who come to record my work, or shoppers in my town who ask about my motorbike, or the ladies serving at the local biker café. Seriously, how much interaction do I need before I retire to the peace of my inner sanctum for the evening? With a woman in tow, the 'tingles' for her always fade no-matter what I do and she'll make my life hell until she finds the next toe curler.
I'm 38 years old, and I've been single for almost 7 years. Also, I don't have many friends. That's the story of my life.
I'm also celibate and single. God is first period!
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2024: Those who don't need the exp, get ton of it, while those who need the exp, get little to none.
Stay alive peeps, it's ok to not have exp. As long you don't knock someone up, you are fine. Get to work and be the change you want to see in this world.
Your never alone, however one can be lonely with someone...
1:40 not accurate, being social is like riding a bike, you could not ride a bike in years and get back on it and be fine. I had an overly social 20s and wasted alot of time partying which then needed to be caught up in my 30s. I partied so much in my twenties I feel like I partied 3 or 4x what an average person does in their lifetime so staying in and catching up with myself in late 30s 40s feels like a balance and financially has served me greatly to stop dating socialising for a while
I hear where you coming from. Super dope to hear that your way of life in your 30’s & 40’s is serving you greatly Fam
Indeed, I don't think you ever forget how to socialize after being alone for a long time, but you lose your desire to.
interesting point@@dreadedsun69
And we're back with part 2!❤
Indeed. As promised🔥
Are you still doing the call ins?
@@GameOn71213 when I’m back from SA🇿🇦, early Jan 💯
@@randallmitchell6326 great
Loved both parts!
I’m glad that you resonate with it Fam
It's Good to be alone. People need to learn how to move and their own business.
As long as folks know how to read, watch other people interact, they will never loose social skills.
You have described me to a tee
RealTalk hey. Welcome to the channel 👊👊
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Good points this just randomly came up on my phone. There's this one girl that I've been friends with for a while now I've met her while I was working. She said she'd never had a boyfriend before and while I met her. I was already dating or about to get married to my fiancé long story short she always flirts with me all the time. And every time when I was with her she'll be giving me hints. Now that I'm single and I'm trying to talk to her while trying to hang out with her. She doesn't want to or always says will see and only hangs when she wants to So I don't know what the problem is if this is part of the case what should i do i caught feelings for her and its hard to meet women nowadays?
It's a law of attraction. Girls like guys that are desired by other women.
@RexDavis415 You know what i'm gonna do I was just thinking that maybe I should just pretend that I have a girl again And just ignore her altogether so that probably she could get some more attention.I don't know, it's just confusing.I don't know why we got to play these guessing games
You realize people with mental illness can't often do what you say, right?
This is my problem. I have hard time connecting with women. I have no clue to game her. I am 48 years old
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Everyone always says to make god first, how do you put god first
"Seek ye first The Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you" Matthew 6:33
New sub bro!
Welcome Fam
Im 27 and been single my whole life
I hear ya. What’s it like , what’s your thoughts ….
28 yo same
@@randallmitchell6326 my thoughts are.. its nice honestly but some days suck, ive had so many opportunities but ik wht comes with being with a woman and im not really interested now
its over