the airport one was one of those situations in friendships where someone does something or reveals something youre like “damn i guess we werent as close as i thought”
i have a little stuffed dog that i got for my first birthday by my passed away grandmother. if someone did something to it, even if it was fixable, i would genuinely be distraught as that is such a breach of boundary the way the girlfriend speaks about the turtle is so hateful too. just weird
I assume the turtle means something similar to that boyfriend, but maybe he doesn't want to share the detail, because of how condescending the gf talkes about it. Either way, such objects of value should be treated as that, no matter, what it is. I think it's really nice, that you have such a meaningful memorabilia. I wish I had that, too.
As someone who sews there's a very clear difference between machine stitches and hand stitching. She's painting him as weird for noticing the colour of stitches but if he's literally had it for 20 years how could he NOT notice?? OP just doesn't care
the airport one: the only correct response if youre able to leave is- buy new phone chargers, go buy a blanket and a couple sleeping masks. then come back and tough it out with your friend. imagine something did happen to her, but also, how silly is the friend to be a young girl staying in a hotel room alone? even if it's just for one night. way better to stick together anyway. they could have made it such a fun experience.
or ask for help online,people who have been stuck somewhere have gotten help before,there was a big station that were closed suddenly some years ago,late at night and the locals went there with supplies pillows and sleeping bags for those who were stuck.
it is rare to find another troublemaker in the wild like this. they're two of my favourite youtubers and i feel like it would be so interesting to watch!!
20:00 As a homeowner, I'm seeing all the lawsuits of kids drowning, drunk people falling in. Also, in the US, if kids (depending on their age and the state laws) tresspass onto your property because of an attractive nuisance like a pool, and they get hurt, you're likely responsible for that kid's death or injuries. Always secure your pool!
It’s absolutely insane someone would allow others to use their pool in that manner. Even if everyone had to sign waivers, you’re still cooked. Better have a nice umbrella policy with tens of millions in coverage. Can’t even really have the house, and therefore liability, owned by an LLC because I think that corporate veil could be pierced pretty easily if you’re living there (even as a “renter”).
11:02 yeah one of my favourite memories from my childhood is when my family had a power outage, we light a few candles around the mantle of the fireplace and grabbed one of our card games and honestly those were just the coziest of vibes. I almost forgot about that night but this story ironically just made me remember it. Lol
honestly with the airport one, if I was the friend stuck in the airport, I would feel selfish for making my friend stay and suffer with me. I agree that logically, theres no point in two people suffering. It’s 17 hours in a well lit presumably safe airport. It would suck but I’d live. The minor comfort of having a friend with me wouldn’t outweigh the guilt I’d feel at stripping them of the good night’s sleep they couldve had. I’ve slept overnight in an airport for a flight that was delayed by 8 hours, and I’ve lived next to loud construction several times in my life. edit: i called my sister and asked her thoughts, if we were theoretically stuck in this situation together. She said as the person stuck, she would never force someone to stay with her, but that as the “hotel” person, she would also never choose to go. While I had imagined the theoretical “suffering” to go from a 100% to a 90% for the stuck person if the friends stayed together, she pointed out that it may actually make it much more of a mild inconvenience, say 25% suffering for each person, which is obv much better than a 90% total, because they can find things to do to pass the time together. I have only ever been stuck in these types of situations when I was by myself, so I guess its hard to imagine that much of a mental and emotional improvement just by having one person stay with you, but I can kind of see how that might be the case and am more on board with the “stick with your friend” camp now. Of course it still depends on the situation, whether you’re close with the person youre stuck with or not, and whether anyone has any medical issues that make it more important for them to get a good nights sleep.
(Long story short : my mom threw out my 7-8 years of pen collection ) I started collecting pens at a very young age i don't know why But i used to play with them like some fictional characters I had about 50 pens when i was in 3rd Grade then i lost all those Because we were moving out Then i again started collecting them in 4th grade and lost all again about 50 aswell Then in 5th grade i started again(pen fighting was popular in my school i Don't know if u know it and i won some pens from it )till 12th(i am in college now) 7-8 years of pen collection 250+ pens i had(some of them were rare no one was manufacturing them anymore,my dad also gave me like pen when he was studying 20-30 yrs old pen) But my mom started forcing me to throw them away because her logic was useless things attracts bad energy I didn't agree Then one day i came from college and after some days I realized my box of pen collection is not in my room I asked her she told me she put it in a bag in a cupboard I was like okay Then after couple days i went to see if my collection is their But it was all gone I was very sad And can't also be angry at her I didn't say anything She just threw my 7-8 years of collection like nothing 😭😭😭 (Sorry if my english is bad)
I'm so sorry that's an awful thing for her to do and you have the right to be angry. It meant something to you especially the more sentimental or older ones. That's so sad
Can I be mad at her for you because that’s just disrespectful😭if they were stored in one place in your room she shouldn’t have thrown them out. It’s not like it was overtaking the whole house😭😭
the first one is so weird bc what if that plush was a gift from someone, maybe someone who has passed? and if the gf trusted her bf then she wouldn’t have to cut it open. strange
10:15 I got my own story for this! I was traveling via grey hound from okc ok to Tennessee can’t remember the little town now but I made two life long friends from there and my friend angel and I stayed together overnight. We talked all night long! I’ll always cherish those memories because I met several great people!
Ive found your channel through my recommended page (this particular video), I clicked and I’ve gone thru some of your older stuff and so far I’ve enjoyed your commentary. I personally prefer the ones where you’re alone (but maybe it’s an unpopular opinion?) so yeah keep up the good work! Reddit videos are great when there’s good commentary ☻
The airport story: I have chronic pain and migraines, the space they were stuck in, sound like a fucking trigger minefield. So I would probably stay for a bit , probably go get comforts for friend and then go sleep. Like I don’t think “hey why don’t we both enjoy endure this”, is the best plan. Ppl are jumping to the end, years on well look back and laugh….cool story but in the moment -it drove us batty and we didn’t talk the whole day. 😂😂. I think there was a middle ground if they’re both able bodied, or in whatever way, cool to endure all that. But taking time away for sleep, silence, and just creature comforts? Probably better one of us is well rested n gets us to our final stop alright. No one mentioned pitching a fit to the airline. Now that would have been helpful if they had any space to move to feel safer. Oh! Or hotel friend could pay for a lounge pass for the stuck friend. There are better options than let’s both suffer. 😅
My exact argument for this. Its a bit 50/50 as technically like Arthur said its more the airports fault. I would indeed make sure the other person has a spot I know currently a lot of airports do have sleep cabins and also they should be able to provide a place to sleep or just sit in peace. Or just like you said buy a charger and or powerbank and a travel pillow/comforter blanket ,eyemask etc and then take a short nap in the hotel room making sure you can be reached by the other person. Just so you are at least a bit more refreshed. I myself struggle with fainting spells and panic attacks triggered by lack of sleep and other stuff so it would be hell. Just for the girl dont get me wrong but as long as you can provide her with amenities and perhaps a cabin you did all you could ofc depending on the situation.
I don’t think the gender roles were discussed enough regarding the second post. If I was expected to help cook because I’m a woman and those rules didn’t apply to the men I would be pretty pissed and not feel inclined to cooperate. In any other circumstance though I’d feel so awkward sitting around not doing anything whilst the rest of the group is contributing.
yeah the fact the husband was sat doing nothing while it was majority women helping (from how it’s written) which doesn’t sit right with me. great that the husband helped as well but i do question the gender roles at play here
Sigh, always someone like you trying to make things bigger than they are. You just gonna ignore the son helping so you can push an agenda that wasn't there?
Me and my boyfriend both have a lot of stuffed animals, anytime we travel we buy eachother some. They are sentimental usually by default as I would assume that people that mean a lot to you would buy you one. My point is to leave the teddys alone 💗
While i agree that you shoulnd't assume to not help when you're the guest, you shouldn't neither assume a guest should offer help if you invite him. And if you need help, you should tell and not expect him to offer; on this technicality i don't think the woman was an asshole
The pool situation I have 100% experienced! My uncles neighbor from down the street did the EXACT same thing. My dad also was guilted by the pta to use his pool and was part of rumors because he said no.
Hey Arthur, just saw your interview of the Outlander cast on instagram! You’re SO FREAKING LUCKY!! It’s my absolute favourite tv series of all time! Didn’t know you were a fan too! Much love from me, a fellow Outlander fan from Denmark 🏴🇩🇰😍❤️
The woman who didn't help with the dishes was a bit of an asshole, but her husband is definitely an asshole. Don't say to her afterwards I couldn't believe you didn't help, you spoiled princess; say please can you help at the time.
TBF to that airport story I would say that it sounds like they were forced to sleep on the floor in the airport so they aren't going to turn the lights off if they do 24/7 flights. Would be better if they had a place to sleep but what happens if there isn't enough space and what not? kinda starts getting a bit all over the place.
As a dyspraxic person, I have been told off for cutting vegetables wrong MANY times. I avoid dinner party events now because I agree it's wrong not to help, but always felt like I made such a mess of helping that I'd leave feeling overwhelmed/guilty. (which is not the end of the world as there are plenty of other activities to enjoy with friends and family)
If you are a good friend you would wish your friend a nice night in a free hotelroom, instead of having a shit night in a nousy lighted airport! I would insist my mate leaves me so he or she is fresh in the morning to support me the rest of the trip!
She’s not an asshole for not offering. 1. She didn’t want to. 2. If you need help, sure you can expect people to offer first but you should definitely ask if they don’t. Some people won’t know or think unless prompted. Give them the benefit of the doubt. 3. Other people were there helping. Putting on a show (by asking when it’s not needed) just for the aire of generosity is weird af imo. 4. Hell, expecting your guests to offer help is weird af imo. Never understood these random “obligatory” customs/social norms. 5. The women being asked to help prep while the men buss plates wasn’t mentioned. I don’t mind this set up as both genders are allowed time to chat amongst themselves. BUT she was ran off from the job because it wasn’t up to whatever meal party standard MIL wanted. 6. If her own husband isn’t helping her, why is it expected that the guests will? 7. The story is a bit questionable because MIL was running around but there were also so many people there. How much help were they really? Or did MIL run them out of the kitchen after a certain point lol? All of this has some nuance to it. These are just elementary points to think about the situation more.
OP returns from a holiday to find Karen sitting in his living room. "Oh, you weren't using the house so I figured it was fine" she casually explains, as she takes a piping hot pizza out of his oven and scrolls instagram on his wifi. A month later, OP has to arrange a costly pool repair after one of Karen's wild pool parties ends in the tragic demise of an inflateable crocodile whose tail drifted too close to the filter. Thankfully, OP still has that old credit card lying around somewhere to make the bill a little less painful. He is astonished when it gets declined. "Oh," announces Karen, nonchalantly, "You weren't using it, so I figured it was fine". A year goes by. OP is now in a relationship, but the stress of living next door to Karen is taking its toll. OP's partner seems increasingly distant, and intimacy is but a faint memory. One day, OP comes home after a long day at work. He heads upstairs and is shocked to see Karen in bed with his partner. "Oh," remarks Karen, "Well, you know the rule..."
with the airport overnight one, i really dont think it was that bad. if i couldnt leave the airport, id encourage my friend to go to the hotel. not worth both people suffering unnecesarily
You do not need a visa to VISIT France you need a visa to live or work there, that story is completely made up, of course her friend would have been allowed to sleep at the hotel too 🙄
I call bullshit on the airport one. There are constant planes, trains, buses, coaches etc. running between France and the UK ain't now way you'd be left for 17 hours when arranging an alternative would be simple. Plus there's these things called transitory visas, if you're stuck in a country waiting for a flight and don't have a regular visa you can in some cases leave the airport entirely or at the very least leave the secure zone to get to a hotel, and the airline is obliged to sort this out for you if there's a delay over a certain amount. Having said that fuck off is your friend obliged to be 48 hours sleep deprived just to make you feel a little safer. You are perfectly safe in an airport, in fact probably more safe than literally anywhere else. If she was travelling alone she'd still have been in the same situation.
@JackMavichvile I don't live in London either but nice assumption! (Oh and neither of the people involved live in the UK, they were visiting so most likely they are going to London...) The airline has to replace the entire trip if they for some reason couldn't arrange a replacement flight getting you on a coach to dover and then another coach to wherever your flight was meant to be would be superior to leaving you in France for 17 hours, you wouldn't pay anything the airline would. Plus even if you did pay the eurostar's as little as £39, not sure where you're getting a flight for £3.90 from...
@@thedarkness111 in a vacuum, most likely they were going to London, yes, but given the delay, most likely they were not going to London. Why is it so unfathomable that they might not be visiting London
I envy you. I'm in Australia and we've already had 34⁰ last week... It's going to be a stinking hot summer and I'm really not looking forward to weeks of 40⁰+ . Want to swap?
@@coloradoreader559 I'm originally from the very south of New Zealand and yes, I'd rather have that than boil in the heat, have burning hot car seats, steering wheels, footpaths, etc... And bushfire season.
The pool thing reminds me of a time I went to my sisters house and a random lady had just entered her garden to push her kid on the swings… Sooooo weird
Re read those pool rules from a different perspective. My kids will not be using the pool after 5 pm guaranteed! My family when outside using the pool will not play loud music. The last one is just pure entitlement, but she sees it as her doing two favours for this last want. In her eyes, couldn’t have compromised any more.
13:00 seems a cultural difference, if i'm the guest i will not help. you invited me, if you cannot handle the work that comes with dinner invites then don't invite people. I never ask or accept help when i invite people over, you are here to enjoy yourself and i want to cook you something as a nice gesture. If i wanted them to cook for themselves and clean up for themselves then they can stay at home. My friends and family share the same sentiment.
“right so” we all say in unison
Cooommme onnn
right so
Right sew*
*"Raht sew"
I’ll watch anything this man makes bro could read the dictionary and id be hooked
ONG
the way he talks is so engaging it doesn’t matter what he’s talking about
arthur owning stuffed animals is so on brand
and very valid
Right? It’s so sweet 🥹
the airport one was one of those situations in friendships where someone does something or reveals something youre like “damn i guess we werent as close as i thought”
definitely! My friends left me behind in an airport and I never saw them again, that sort of thing sticks with you!
i have a little stuffed dog that i got for my first birthday by my passed away grandmother. if someone did something to it, even if it was fixable, i would genuinely be distraught as that is such a breach of boundary
the way the girlfriend speaks about the turtle is so hateful too. just weird
I assume the turtle means something similar to that boyfriend, but maybe he doesn't want to share the detail, because of how condescending the gf talkes about it. Either way, such objects of value should be treated as that, no matter, what it is.
I think it's really nice, that you have such a meaningful memorabilia. I wish I had that, too.
As someone who sews there's a very clear difference between machine stitches and hand stitching. She's painting him as weird for noticing the colour of stitches but if he's literally had it for 20 years how could he NOT notice?? OP just doesn't care
Agwh the 'right so' is just so sweet and gets me every time 🫶
Aggwhh
I agree but I read the agwh as someone clearing their throat 😭😭
i'm studying law and arthur was NOT lying about land law being awful. this is exactly what i needed today
I hope it all goes well ❤
the airport one: the only correct response if youre able to leave is- buy new phone chargers, go buy a blanket and a couple sleeping masks. then come back and tough it out with your friend. imagine something did happen to her, but also, how silly is the friend to be a young girl staying in a hotel room alone? even if it's just for one night. way better to stick together anyway. they could have made it such a fun experience.
FRRRR
I agree except…what I don’t understand is how she is silly to stay in a hotel room alone? Many women solo travel
or ask for help online,people who have been stuck somewhere have gotten help before,there was a big station that were closed suddenly some years ago,late at night and the locals went there with supplies pillows and sleeping bags for those who were stuck.
Please do make this a series, it was great to hear you POV on each situation. Hopefully we get to see more!!
Im already manifesting a Dylan Is In Trouble and Arthur crossover
Oh jeez I can’t even picture what they would be like together lol I feel like their sense of humor is so different but I’m 10000% here for it
I can not picture this whatsoever but I’m so here for it
I can see it. They’re both verbal thinkers and love to breakdown scenes for the substance, not like pick a fave and ignore the rest.
it is rare to find another troublemaker in the wild like this. they're two of my favourite youtubers and i feel like it would be so interesting to watch!!
20:00 As a homeowner, I'm seeing all the lawsuits of kids drowning, drunk people falling in. Also, in the US, if kids (depending on their age and the state laws) tresspass onto your property because of an attractive nuisance like a pool, and they get hurt, you're likely responsible for that kid's death or injuries. Always secure your pool!
It’s absolutely insane someone would allow others to use their pool in that manner. Even if everyone had to sign waivers, you’re still cooked. Better have a nice umbrella policy with tens of millions in coverage. Can’t even really have the house, and therefore liability, owned by an LLC because I think that corporate veil could be pierced pretty easily if you’re living there (even as a “renter”).
i love when arthur does reddit videos they always make me feel comfy and relaxed and I love watching them while reading
I love hearing you watch them from inside your walls so think about that next time youre feeling comfy and relaxed.
@@nathangaspacio6128 I miss seeing your shadows and hearing you drop things when are you coming back
@@oliverse_crazy930 not for a while, gotham needs me (ive lost it)
@@nathangaspacio6128 damn well the spiders need me now (I've always wanted to see one of those comments)
i could literally listen to this man talk about how paper is manufactured for 5 hours and love every second
arthur tv reddit video?? oh we are SO back
11:02 yeah one of my favourite memories from my childhood is when my family had a power outage, we light a few candles around the mantle of the fireplace and grabbed one of our card games and honestly those were just the coziest of vibes. I almost forgot about that night but this story ironically just made me remember it. Lol
The first one is so autism coded too, to take someones safe thing and ruin it to satisfy ones own curiosity is absolutely vile
That pool lady is mental! 5PM cut off for anything in you're own garden is outrageous, 10PM is the cut off for that
13:29 I call BS on the OP being the AH! He could've helped his mom in the kitchen SHE’S HIS MOM!
How is she absolved by someone else not stepping up? If a group of people neglect their duty as courteous guests, then they're ALL assholes.
@Oujouj426 Not absolved but you can't be expecting so much from someone when Not doing so much yourself
honestly with the airport one, if I was the friend stuck in the airport, I would feel selfish for making my friend stay and suffer with me. I agree that logically, theres no point in two people suffering. It’s 17 hours in a well lit presumably safe airport. It would suck but I’d live. The minor comfort of having a friend with me wouldn’t outweigh the guilt I’d feel at stripping them of the good night’s sleep they couldve had. I’ve slept overnight in an airport for a flight that was delayed by 8 hours, and I’ve lived next to loud construction several times in my life.
edit: i called my sister and asked her thoughts, if we were theoretically stuck in this situation together. She said as the person stuck, she would never force someone to stay with her, but that as the “hotel” person, she would also never choose to go. While I had imagined the theoretical “suffering” to go from a 100% to a 90% for the stuck person if the friends stayed together, she pointed out that it may actually make it much more of a mild inconvenience, say 25% suffering for each person, which is obv much better than a 90% total, because they can find things to do to pass the time together. I have only ever been stuck in these types of situations when I was by myself, so I guess its hard to imagine that much of a mental and emotional improvement just by having one person stay with you, but I can kind of see how that might be the case and am more on board with the “stick with your friend” camp now. Of course it still depends on the situation, whether you’re close with the person youre stuck with or not, and whether anyone has any medical issues that make it more important for them to get a good nights sleep.
(Long story short : my mom threw out my 7-8 years of pen collection )
I started collecting pens at a very young age i don't know why
But i used to play with them like some fictional characters
I had about 50 pens when i was in 3rd Grade then i lost all those
Because we were moving out
Then i again started collecting them in 4th grade and lost all again about 50 aswell
Then in 5th grade i started again(pen fighting was popular in my school i Don't know if u know it and i won some pens from it )till 12th(i am in college now)
7-8 years of pen collection
250+ pens i had(some of them were rare no one was manufacturing them anymore,my dad also gave me like pen when he was studying 20-30 yrs old pen)
But my mom started forcing me to throw them away because her logic was useless things attracts bad energy
I didn't agree
Then one day i came from college and after some days I realized my box of pen collection is not in my room
I asked her she told me she put it in a bag in a cupboard
I was like okay
Then after couple days i went to see if my collection is their
But it was all gone
I was very sad
And can't also be angry at her
I didn't say anything
She just threw my 7-8 years of collection like nothing 😭😭😭
(Sorry if my english is bad)
I'm so sorry that's an awful thing for her to do and you have the right to be angry. It meant something to you especially the more sentimental or older ones. That's so sad
Noooooiiiiii
@JammyDodgerXD thank u my friend
Imagine collecting something for all ur teenage years and ur mom throws it away because of some stupid logic that it brings Negative energy
Can I be mad at her for you because that’s just disrespectful😭if they were stored in one place in your room she shouldn’t have thrown them out. It’s not like it was overtaking the whole house😭😭
Arthur is the best Sidemen
😭😭
i hope this is sarcasm, if not, he's not a sidemen
Arthur not being a Sidemen is the best part of him
@@HapArt481 its a reference to a different vid
@@HapArt481 r/woooosh
the first one is so weird bc what if that plush was a gift from someone, maybe someone who has passed? and if the gf trusted her bf then she wouldn’t have to cut it open. strange
I would pay to get this turned into a series
I thought this said "I would pay to get this turned into a salsa"
listening to u analyse these situations is like a breath of fresh air. u have good morals king and we love to see it ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Watching this on the bus to go out drinking was the best idea I’ve had so far
Second best, Going out drinking was your best idea 👍
10:15 I got my own story for this! I was traveling via grey hound from okc ok to Tennessee can’t remember the little town now but I made two life long friends from there and my friend angel and I stayed together overnight. We talked all night long! I’ll always cherish those memories because I met several great people!
Make the most of it mate, True friends are hard to come by. Keep making great memories 👍
@ amen! People be crazy!!! It was another time though traveling in like 2010
Please make this a series! I read these stories all the time and wanna know what others think and how they will react. Love your videos!
I've been waiting for one of you guys to do an AITA, glad it's you, more please.
Ive found your channel through my recommended page (this particular video), I clicked and I’ve gone thru some of your older stuff and so far I’ve enjoyed your commentary. I personally prefer the ones where you’re alone (but maybe it’s an unpopular opinion?) so yeah keep up the good work! Reddit videos are great when there’s good commentary ☻
Arthur’s come on has just been in my vocabulary for ages now 😂😂
00:02 ‘The world is full of arseholes’ is a crazy statement 😭🙏
The airport story: I have chronic pain and migraines, the space they were stuck in, sound like a fucking trigger minefield. So I would probably stay for a bit , probably go get comforts for friend and then go sleep. Like I don’t think “hey why don’t we both enjoy endure this”, is the best plan. Ppl are jumping to the end, years on well look back and laugh….cool story but in the moment -it drove us batty and we didn’t talk the whole day. 😂😂. I think there was a middle ground if they’re both able bodied, or in whatever way, cool to endure all that. But taking time away for sleep, silence, and just creature comforts? Probably better one of us is well rested n gets us to our final stop alright.
No one mentioned pitching a fit to the airline. Now that would have been helpful if they had any space to move to feel safer. Oh! Or hotel friend could pay for a lounge pass for the stuck friend. There are better options than let’s both suffer. 😅
My exact argument for this. Its a bit 50/50 as technically like Arthur said its more the airports fault. I would indeed make sure the other person has a spot I know currently a lot of airports do have sleep cabins and also they should be able to provide a place to sleep or just sit in peace. Or just like you said buy a charger and or powerbank and a travel pillow/comforter blanket ,eyemask etc and then take a short nap in the hotel room making sure you can be reached by the other person. Just so you are at least a bit more refreshed.
I myself struggle with fainting spells and panic attacks triggered by lack of sleep and other stuff so it would be hell. Just for the girl dont get me wrong but as long as you can provide her with amenities and perhaps a cabin you did all you could ofc depending on the situation.
i always like arthurs commentary, the mutliple perspectives being pointed out properly is so satisfying
series!!!
Definitely would love more! I really enjoy your level-headed takes on things
i absolutely loved this video, please make this a series!!
I don’t think the gender roles were discussed enough regarding the second post. If I was expected to help cook because I’m a woman and those rules didn’t apply to the men I would be pretty pissed and not feel inclined to cooperate. In any other circumstance though I’d feel so awkward sitting around not doing anything whilst the rest of the group is contributing.
yeah the fact the husband was sat doing nothing while it was majority women helping (from how it’s written) which doesn’t sit right with me. great that the husband helped as well but i do question the gender roles at play here
Evidently it wasn't a case of gender roles because the woman's son was helping with the cooking.
Sigh, always someone like you trying to make things bigger than they are. You just gonna ignore the son helping so you can push an agenda that wasn't there?
i agree w you, however this was a different circumstance as the son was also helping, and as arthur said, the fil was also in the wrong
@@charlie8904 I think the post said he helped carry things
Me and my boyfriend both have a lot of stuffed animals, anytime we travel we buy eachother some. They are sentimental usually by default as I would assume that people that mean a lot to you would buy you one. My point is to leave the teddys alone 💗
While i agree that you shoulnd't assume to not help when you're the guest, you shouldn't neither assume a guest should offer help if you invite him. And if you need help, you should tell and not expect him to offer; on this technicality i don't think the woman was an asshole
The pool situation I have 100% experienced! My uncles neighbor from down the street did the EXACT same thing. My dad also was guilted by the pta to use his pool and was part of rumors because he said no.
i would LOVE for this to become a series!
omg this was such a good video please make it into a series! 🌹
“Hunkering down” in your friends pool shed is not the struggle you think it is 😅
Hey Arthur, just saw your interview of the Outlander cast on instagram! You’re SO FREAKING LUCKY!! It’s my absolute favourite tv series of all time! Didn’t know you were a fan too! Much love from me, a fellow Outlander fan from Denmark 🏴🇩🇰😍❤️
Great Video loving the content 🙌
arthur uploaded, everyone jumped and cheered!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
you are now aware of your breathing
cheers mate can’t breathe now xxx
i have anxiety im always aware of my breathing, check mate
You are now aware of your tongue in your mouth
You are now consciously blinking and you are aware of your tongue in your mouth
@@Datmekanik prick
Could've added a 'post' at the end saying: AITA for not subcribing to Arthur Frederick?
The woman who didn't help with the dishes was a bit of an asshole, but her husband is definitely an asshole. Don't say to her afterwards I couldn't believe you didn't help, you spoiled princess; say please can you help at the time.
12:42 wait I'm literally the opposite i feel awkward at someones house if i didn't help if they doing something
TBF to that airport story I would say that it sounds like they were forced to sleep on the floor in the airport so they aren't going to turn the lights off if they do 24/7 flights. Would be better if they had a place to sleep but what happens if there isn't enough space and what not? kinda starts getting a bit all over the place.
As a dyspraxic person, I have been told off for cutting vegetables wrong MANY times. I avoid dinner party events now because I agree it's wrong not to help, but always felt like I made such a mess of helping that I'd leave feeling overwhelmed/guilty. (which is not the end of the world as there are plenty of other activities to enjoy with friends and family)
Dyspraxics unite 🤟
your videos are amazing Arthur! (please another planet Arthur vid im obsessed!!)
If you are a good friend you would wish your friend a nice night in a free hotelroom, instead of having a shit night in a nousy lighted airport! I would insist my mate leaves me
so he or she is fresh in the morning to support me the rest of the trip!
Totally. What is this “struggle love”
She’s not an asshole for not offering.
1. She didn’t want to.
2. If you need help, sure you can expect people to offer first but you should definitely ask if they don’t. Some people won’t know or think unless prompted. Give them the benefit of the doubt.
3. Other people were there helping. Putting on a show (by asking when it’s not needed) just for the aire of generosity is weird af imo.
4. Hell, expecting your guests to offer help is weird af imo. Never understood these random “obligatory” customs/social norms.
5. The women being asked to help prep while the men buss plates wasn’t mentioned. I don’t mind this set up as both genders are allowed time to chat amongst themselves. BUT she was ran off from the job because it wasn’t up to whatever meal party standard MIL wanted.
6. If her own husband isn’t helping her, why is it expected that the guests will?
7. The story is a bit questionable because MIL was running around but there were also so many people there. How much help were they really? Or did MIL run them out of the kitchen after a certain point lol?
All of this has some nuance to it. These are just elementary points to think about the situation more.
Such a good video. Please continue this series 🙏
Wow, facial hair game becoming real strong Arthur! 😍
might be sleepytime bedtime but the arthur tv grind never stops 💪💪
came from jacksfilms and your videos are fun and i like that you add a lot of commentary!
love this kind of content !!
Your videos are so comforting
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Loved this video! Hope this turns into a series.
OP returns from a holiday to find Karen sitting in his living room. "Oh, you weren't using the house so I figured it was fine" she casually explains, as she takes a piping hot pizza out of his oven and scrolls instagram on his wifi. A month later, OP has to arrange a costly pool repair after one of Karen's wild pool parties ends in the tragic demise of an inflateable crocodile whose tail drifted too close to the filter. Thankfully, OP still has that old credit card lying around somewhere to make the bill a little less painful. He is astonished when it gets declined. "Oh," announces Karen, nonchalantly, "You weren't using it, so I figured it was fine". A year goes by. OP is now in a relationship, but the stress of living next door to Karen is taking its toll. OP's partner seems increasingly distant, and intimacy is but a faint memory. One day, OP comes home after a long day at work. He heads upstairs and is shocked to see Karen in bed with his partner. "Oh," remarks Karen, "Well, you know the rule..."
I love this u need to make this a series!!
Bach and arthur posting in the same two hours? This is the only thing that makes me happy at this point.
Love you and your videos Arthur ❤
u make the best commentary videos
9:20 😂 she’s like bye beyotch 😂😂
Just got home from the pub, made popcorn, and now I’m watching Arthur 🥰
I’m drunk
Re: offering help at the in-laws. If he noticed his mother was rushing around why didn’t he offer to help. Why is the onus on the wife?
13:59 he does help but i think there were a lot of dishes so they needed more
@@Thebaldoceloti hope you’re being sarcastic
It said the husband helped though? It was the father in law that didn't.
Practice your English comprehension before commenting next time
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@@Save-Your-Sanity 😬
Leaving your friend in the airport alone to suffer while you go to a hotel is INSANE to me...
with the airport overnight one, i really dont think it was that bad. if i couldnt leave the airport, id encourage my friend to go to the hotel. not worth both people suffering unnecesarily
If I were the stranded friend in that situation, same. They were in the UK, not in Kabul or something.
I do not believe a single word of that story about the airport lol
You do not need a visa to VISIT France you need a visa to live or work there, that story is completely made up, of course her friend would have been allowed to sleep at the hotel too 🙄
I call bullshit on the airport one. There are constant planes, trains, buses, coaches etc. running between France and the UK ain't now way you'd be left for 17 hours when arranging an alternative would be simple.
Plus there's these things called transitory visas, if you're stuck in a country waiting for a flight and don't have a regular visa you can in some cases leave the airport entirely or at the very least leave the secure zone to get to a hotel, and the airline is obliged to sort this out for you if there's a delay over a certain amount.
Having said that fuck off is your friend obliged to be 48 hours sleep deprived just to make you feel a little safer. You are perfectly safe in an airport, in fact probably more safe than literally anywhere else. If she was travelling alone she'd still have been in the same situation.
@JackMavichvile I don't live in London either but nice assumption! (Oh and neither of the people involved live in the UK, they were visiting so most likely they are going to London...)
The airline has to replace the entire trip if they for some reason couldn't arrange a replacement flight getting you on a coach to dover and then another coach to wherever your flight was meant to be would be superior to leaving you in France for 17 hours, you wouldn't pay anything the airline would.
Plus even if you did pay the eurostar's as little as £39, not sure where you're getting a flight for £3.90 from...
@@thedarkness111 in a vacuum, most likely they were going to London, yes, but given the delay, most likely they were not going to London. Why is it so unfathomable that they might not be visiting London
I'm so excited for new Arthur content 😊😊😊
Bring flowers for the
table. Mils fav desert.
Just something to
convey appreciation !
AHHHHH NEW POST
13:50 funniest reaction. Lol she's the asshole for watching old people suffer
It’s snowing here in South Dakota. So this is a nice break from the 10 degree weather 😂
I envy you. I'm in Australia and we've already had 34⁰ last week... It's going to be a stinking hot summer and I'm really not looking forward to weeks of 40⁰+ . Want to swap?
@ you want to be in -12!? Sorry I did the conversion. I would rather be in 92 degrees LOL we can swap :)
It's been snowing here in UK and we don't like it, I would rather it be hot, I forgot what the sun looks like we have rain 200 days a year 😢
@@coloradoreader559 I'm originally from the very south of New Zealand and yes, I'd rather have that than boil in the heat, have burning hot car seats, steering wheels, footpaths, etc... And bushfire season.
@ totally fair! I would love to visit there someday ♥️
Arthur + AITA = more please
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@@Emilybraithwaite1ur pfp im dead 😭😭😭
The pool thing reminds me of a time I went to my sisters house and a random lady had just entered her garden to push her kid on the swings…
Sooooo weird
definitely turn this into a series!
ArthurTV making my day better! 🥰
Love this Arthur!
Re read those pool rules from a different perspective.
My kids will not be using the pool after 5 pm guaranteed!
My family when outside using the pool will not play loud music.
The last one is just pure entitlement, but she sees it as her doing two favours for this last want. In her eyes, couldn’t have compromised any more.
The last one unironically made my blood boil
Please make this a series!
It’s raining here in California and I’m in a bit of pain. I needed an Arthur upload today
i’d love to see another casual uk vid 🫶🏻🫶🏻
my favourite type of videos 🙏
13:00 seems a cultural difference, if i'm the guest i will not help. you invited me, if you cannot handle the work that comes with dinner invites then don't invite people. I never ask or accept help when i invite people over, you are here to enjoy yourself and i want to cook you something as a nice gesture. If i wanted them to cook for themselves and clean up for themselves then they can stay at home. My friends and family share the same sentiment.
“right so” lets see more aita vids🙏🏼🙏🏼
This guy is too nice man, I hope it’s not just internets and he actually is
such a slay to be here rn 🎉🎉🎉
Subscribed, great content, wish I found it sooner
perfect time to sit down with my dinner, thanks arthur!!!