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  • @brandeerodriguez8536
    @brandeerodriguez8536 29 дней назад +85

    Watching you find yourself after your big public break up 8 years ago, was a beautiful thing. It was vulnerable and real.

  • @kristendreamy
    @kristendreamy Месяц назад +103

    It feels like the good old days with nikki on youtube again 😊❤

    • @steveaustin8870
      @steveaustin8870 Месяц назад +3

      till the next breakup which will definitely happen lol

    • @CourtneyyMorriss
      @CourtneyyMorriss 29 дней назад

      My thoughts exactly!❤

    • @CurrentlyReadingWithKimberly
      @CurrentlyReadingWithKimberly 27 дней назад +2

      @@steveaustin8870dude you keep commenting this. Are you okay? Lol

    • @steveaustin8870
      @steveaustin8870 22 дня назад

      @@CurrentlyReadingWithKimberly I am but she isn't...

    • @alwaysyouramanda
      @alwaysyouramanda 17 дней назад

      2016 RUclips was terrifying if you searched bikini haul and clicked the related links 😮 (iykyk)

  • @allisong3736
    @allisong3736 Месяц назад +94

    I love that you're back on your vlog game! You used to be one of my fave vloggers!!

    • @ericabaker7704
      @ericabaker7704 Месяц назад +2

      I swear man 😢❤

    • @steveaustin8870
      @steveaustin8870 Месяц назад +1

      till the next breakup which will definitely happen lol

  • @Girlchild406
    @Girlchild406 Месяц назад +55

    Therapy is great! But if anybody, ANYBODY, makes you feel annoying for still grieving a pet or a breakup then they are not your people! Grief has no time-limit! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 25 дней назад +1

      Just Don’t use the therapy company she’s promoting!! They illegally sold all their clients medical records! She’s aware of this and keeps promoting them unfortunately

  • @kekelarue5974
    @kekelarue5974 29 дней назад +36

    It is an age thing, Nikki. I did so many embarrassing things in my 20’s regarding being overly emotional and/or clingy. I was your exact age 34 when I finally started to awaken to my real or mature self. Met my now husband at 36 after working out following finding your videos (you were great motivation). I got married at 39 and have been happily living the life I always wanted. Don’t beat yourself up too much for past relationships. Just enjoy your days and keep discovering you!❤

    • @AK-jd7td
      @AK-jd7td 29 дней назад

      100% agree. I am 31 and I did the same thing in my 20s and it’s definitely the age. It also is therapy. Nothing to do with birth control at all. I am on birth control because I’ve PMDD in it literally has no effect on me in that way.

    • @pkeys88
      @pkeys88 5 дней назад

      You give me hope. I’m 36. ❤

  • @monicamaroney7050
    @monicamaroney7050 Месяц назад +78

    OG nikki energy

  • @christina7328
    @christina7328 Месяц назад +34

    We all remember the Castle Blackfinch videos of when you decorated in October. That house was pretty epic all decked out for Christmas before Halloween had even passed. Excited to see more fun videos!

  • @paniodtripow
    @paniodtripow Месяц назад +10

    hey! So I am pretty sure I watched every single video of yours since 2014 and I love how you changed and evolved, but also how you got your glow back! Also it's awesome to see 2x week videos! Cannot wait for another one!

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Месяц назад +24

    So happy for you and where you’re at in life, Nikki! 😻❤️

  • @zsivonkron6805
    @zsivonkron6805 10 дней назад

    I really enjoyed the variety of questions, never knew what you were going to get next, but I also think having the combination of specific topics and then everything else that wouldn’t fit in a topic would be fun. ❤

  • @leslieclawson6319
    @leslieclawson6319 Месяц назад +11

    That is the best advice I've heard about responding to someone coming on too strong. Very smart! Sage woman!

  • @ness-lee-crunch
    @ness-lee-crunch Месяц назад +30

    My cat Nikki (last name Blackcatter- for ours truly) . Was so concerned when Squish was meowing for the shower. 😂

  • @kloekat62
    @kloekat62 Месяц назад +14

    The whole Q&A I was just admiring how beautiful Nikki’s hair is love love this color on her

  • @nicki9687
    @nicki9687 Месяц назад +8

    This hair looks the best on you!! So cute! Love you xo

  • @jennifercleveland
    @jennifercleveland Месяц назад +7

    Love seeing you so light and happy. Love all the videos lately. I feel like the move has been so good for you. I thin that other place had some stagnant energy in it :)

  • @hanelno
    @hanelno Месяц назад +13

    Love having you back this much. Such a treat. Been here since blondvsworld 👀❤️

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 29 дней назад +2

      Wish she would find a different sponsor. They literally illegal sells clients medical records for profit and Nikki is fully aware and keeps promoting them for the money 😢

  • @jujup7733
    @jujup7733 Месяц назад +8

    I love your new place! This video gave me Houston vlog vibes but better!! (when you lived in the four-story home)

  • @kainabeltran-rodriguez5619
    @kainabeltran-rodriguez5619 27 дней назад +2

    Wow. This video is really telling of who you are. You still prove to me all the time how truly genuinely real you are. You really care and have issues that we can all relate to a million times over. I’ve been here since 2014!! Love what you do. ❤ you!

  • @fruitygal957
    @fruitygal957 Месяц назад +1

    Loved this vlog. Your attitude is rockin girl. Such positive energy, and inspiring words.

  • @laramarshmackenzie
    @laramarshmackenzie День назад

    Ohhh you responed to my question :D! hehe I am flattered.

  • @kala3019
    @kala3019 29 дней назад +15

    I’m sure Nikki’s contract has her in a position with better help. I just feel almost obligated to point out that better help got into pretty hot water for selling their patients’ data for profit. If you are considering using them, please look into it.
    Edit: typo

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 21 день назад +1

      I know of 5 other RUclipsrs that have gotten out of their contract (probably because the contract became void once BetterHelp broke the law) i honestly feel like Nikki keeps using them as a sponsor because they pay her so well and her RUclips channel isn’t doing very well so she needs the paycheck

    • @celia8709
      @celia8709 16 дней назад

      They kept taking my money after cancelling. 400 pounds at least. And the therapists where absolutely useless so i basically wasted hundreds of pounds. But they gave me 10 in return for selling my data, may buy a yacht or something.

  • @Nina52117
    @Nina52117 Месяц назад +17

    So glad to see you happy and no longer depressed, you’ve been through so much! hopefully a forever ever after! 💍 ❤️😍 much love! 🤗

    • @steveaustin8870
      @steveaustin8870 Месяц назад +4

      till the next breakup which will definitely happen lol

    • @Loryxvwmwke
      @Loryxvwmwke Месяц назад

      @@steveaustin8870alright loser, are you planning on orchestrating it or something?
      What a sad little man to be hating on a harmless vlog.

    • @beccs5050
      @beccs5050 29 дней назад +3

      ​@steveaustin8870 which big break up is she talking about? She always a different boyfriend everytime she pops up on my socials.

    • @Kat-g3d
      @Kat-g3d 29 дней назад

      What's the point of you watching her content and commenting negative things? Get a life Steve. ​@@steveaustin8870

    • @grezb7828
      @grezb7828 28 дней назад

      @@beccs5050 it’s called life you guys! You evolve and grow! Should try it some time. Moving on…

  • @lauramazzenga1423
    @lauramazzenga1423 29 дней назад +1

    love your videos!! So glad to see you posting more XO

  • @elizabethholt1014
    @elizabethholt1014 28 дней назад +1

    Love the videos and your happy vibe! Keep posting, q&as are great!

  • @paulavu3
    @paulavu3 29 дней назад +4

    Love Nikki! We grow up and whatever is the past is the past. You’re doing awesome! 😊

  • @leslie3566
    @leslie3566 Месяц назад +1

    Love this Nikki! 😊

  • @justgabbb
    @justgabbb 24 дня назад +1

    Nikki never misses! Loved this video esp the breakup advice! your under-eyes are so bright! What did you use to conceal? Love you Nikki 💕💕💕💌

  • @kzfingerprint
    @kzfingerprint Месяц назад +1

    Enjoyed this!😊

  • @CreativelyPhoenix
    @CreativelyPhoenix Месяц назад +3

    OG Gymshark Meetup in Washington, DC 🤩🎉 it was a vibe and so great meeting you Nikki 😊

  • @chelsea7755
    @chelsea7755 29 дней назад +2

    I love your dark hair, but this caramel, bronde colour is just beautiful!

  • @rachelromero5056
    @rachelromero5056 24 дня назад +2

    Nikki! I’ve been following you for a decade now. I love you so much! I just need to make sure you’ve read ACOTAR. I just read it and I thought you’d love it lol also I’m so proud of you. I’m 34 too with no kids and single. So I feel you on everything.

  • @jenoshea462
    @jenoshea462 28 дней назад +4

    Nikki your like your old self again 🥰🥰🥰 but bettterrrr!!! Hold onto you always boo ❤

  • @OfficialFinalGirl
    @OfficialFinalGirl Месяц назад +2

    Purposely saved this for Monday morning to get me out of bed 😂

  • @jenniferj4063
    @jenniferj4063 29 дней назад +1

    Hi Nikki, I'm new to your channel and just wanted to say hi 👋 and I am looking forward to seeing more of your content 😊 ❤. Love your chill vibes 😎

  • @MISSYMINX261
    @MISSYMINX261 Месяц назад +1

    Your kitties are so precious.

  • @leslieclawson6319
    @leslieclawson6319 Месяц назад +8

    You look gorgeous in PINK!

  • @Jodypar
    @Jodypar 29 дней назад

    Yes please more q and a’s!!!

  • @togather4ever
    @togather4ever Месяц назад +9

    You mentioning pet grift ugh. I lost my dog of 11 years about 7 months ago and there are sometimes my soul is just grieving it hurts so bad 😢. But thank you! ❤

  • @T-xw1nm
    @T-xw1nm 28 дней назад +3

    “He he he look at these” hahaha I totally feel this. 😅

  • @combat_sportsbuff2637
    @combat_sportsbuff2637 8 дней назад

    You’re gorgeous

  • @Astrialynnx
    @Astrialynnx 27 дней назад

    ❤❤❤ love ya Nikki!!! OG follower here!!

  • @Hermionegoh
    @Hermionegoh 29 дней назад

    Hey hey Nikkiiiiii miss youuuu xoxo

  • @mariemcleod46
    @mariemcleod46 24 дня назад

    Love the 3rd person journalling ❤

  • @Jennifer-hk4jy
    @Jennifer-hk4jy Месяц назад +11

    Is his name hunt or will? Or goodwill hunting?

    • @cristinaAvila2
      @cristinaAvila2 29 дней назад +2

      😂 this is what comes to mind for me lol

  • @anthiepapa8352
    @anthiepapa8352 Месяц назад

    Hi Nikkiii!! omg watching here from Europe 🩷

  • @camryndina1171
    @camryndina1171 26 дней назад

    Omg the bikinis look so good! The second one that you’re not sure about looks AMAZING girl, so flattering, I always think higher waistbands on things give the illusion of longer legs (my legs are short), so the fact that it’s more narrow and higher really suits you if you’re comfortable
    In it!!

  • @kharazif
    @kharazif Месяц назад +2

    pink bikini is adorable and super flattering!

  • @kocopuff27
    @kocopuff27 Месяц назад +1

    I love you SO much & this is JUST what I needed today! thank you for being so open 🩵 I was a lil distracted by the "among us" (?) audio in the background prob due to my neurodivergence lol but I wanted to mention that a lot of RUclipsrs have been finding some GREAT royalty-free background music that actually reminded me of your vibe! you know way more than me though & regardless, I SO appreciate you uploading, & seeing you happy makes me so happy! 💙

  • @fullyactivated
    @fullyactivated Месяц назад +8

    Does Nikki and Jasmine still talk? I think I must have missed something years ago. Never see them in each other’s videos but they don’t even talk anymore.

    • @Mariely1
      @Mariely1 Месяц назад +1

      They can’t be in eachother videos bc they live a couple hours away. But I’m pretty sure they are still friends

    • @fullyactivated
      @fullyactivated Месяц назад +6

      @@Mariely1 I hope so. I understand if they are never in each other's videos again, but they don't even mention each other. Maybe they are just friends but not super close anymore. I still remember the days, Niki, Jasmine, Whitney, and a a few more, always doing collabs and such.

    • @lupim25
      @lupim25 21 день назад +2

      They still are! I had asked Jasmine during one of her TikTok lives and she said yes!

  • @gabirao9357
    @gabirao9357 28 дней назад +1

    Shoulders be bouldering and I’m in support 🎉

  • @AestheticallyJess_
    @AestheticallyJess_ Месяц назад +4

    The message thing was 100000% an age thing! I did the same after my big break up - I was 24, I’m 34 now and looking back I WOULD never.

  • @jesusm2159
    @jesusm2159 Месяц назад

    Much success

  • @Crimsonowl35
    @Crimsonowl35 29 дней назад +1

    31 y/o and I love making messes and just having fun with it. Doesn't matter how if it's cooking, painting, gardening etc anything that I do and can make a mess. It's the most freeing feeling lol I have so much fun making it and just as much fun cleaning it up. Cheers to your 30's 🍻🥂

  • @izzilizzi2
    @izzilizzi2 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤ you're the best

  • @keepitinthediary
    @keepitinthediary Месяц назад +8

    I stopped counting my age at 30 😂

  • @headbounce22
    @headbounce22 Месяц назад

    Let’s go!!!

  • @krystlerae74
    @krystlerae74 Месяц назад +10

    I hate to ask but im a long time viewer. Confused. Is the “big breakup” you’re talking about the last one or the first when you were in when starting vlogging? It’s wonderful to see the light back in you! 💜

    • @drx6139
      @drx6139 Месяц назад +16

      She probably meant the first big breakup because maybe she would’ve said the LAST big breakup if she was talking about the recent ex. I felt it too when she went through those, so happy to see her journey and how lighter and happier she seems. It feels like her happiness is coming from within herself.

    • @Guyvermectin
      @Guyvermectin Месяц назад +1

      @@drx6139you’re dumber than a box Of rocks

    • @hollyparsons4234
      @hollyparsons4234 Месяц назад

      I was wondering this too!

    • @josephinehaas5337
      @josephinehaas5337 27 дней назад +2

      I think she’s talking about the one like 8 years ago because she also said she’s not “lashing out” in her 30s so this was back when she was in her 20s!! I know in a big offender of the lash out so I totally understand ❤😂

    • @drx6139
      @drx6139 27 дней назад

      @@josephinehaas5337 haha good deduction skills! The lashing out in texts is relatable, I think we all have once or had a friend that has done this lol

  • @laurenbx
    @laurenbx 29 дней назад

    Can relate on the June gloom - I live in England so the whole year is just gloom and it’s depresssssing. I try not to be phased by the weather but after 32 years I’ve had enough 😂

  • @letsgetdownwiththelindsays
    @letsgetdownwiththelindsays Месяц назад +2

    Hey Nikki, quick question are you going to dye your hair that cowboy copper color. I remember you saying you were few videos ago. My sister and I were wondering!!!! lol 😂 😊

  • @brandeerodriguez8536
    @brandeerodriguez8536 29 дней назад

    I looooove the last two bikinis on you!

  • @lisaharry5829
    @lisaharry5829 28 дней назад +1

    Couldn’t agree more about June gloom

  • @kylierene1378
    @kylierene1378 28 дней назад +3

    Oh you should foster cats or kittens. It's a great way to test the waters of a 3rd cat while helping your local shelters/rescues. This way too if it's overwhelming you don't have to foster again or you might find a wonderful match for your current kitties. I have 8 so I totally understand. 3 is actually a great number because I always felt when I had 3 they always had someone to play with when one wanted to just chill.

  • @elizabethalmaraz3061
    @elizabethalmaraz3061 23 дня назад

    Thank u for your advice.

  • @Fuzzytolee
    @Fuzzytolee Месяц назад +76

    That ex Teddy seemed bad for you like he was a Narc

    • @SusieQZee
      @SusieQZee Месяц назад +12

      He was also young wasn’t he?

    • @Jess_Bishop
      @Jess_Bishop Месяц назад +3

      @@SusieQZeeyep!!

    • @benicio1967
      @benicio1967 Месяц назад +26

      I get a strong feeling that he may have been very very immature in many ways. He didn’t grasp adult relationships or how to empathize, communicate or work together with a partner. He may have been fairly bright and ambitious but emotionally and socially he was much MUCH younger than his age. I could see he was painfully naive too.

    • @Mariely1
      @Mariely1 Месяц назад +48

      He immediately got back with his ex girlfriend after breaking up with Nikki. Which made me like him even less. They are now married. Imagine going through a pet loss, moving cross country for someone, a relationship loss, and come to find out ur ex proposes to his ex girl within months of a breakup!!? Ouch. My poor babygirl Nikki went through so much

    • @Jess_Bishop
      @Jess_Bishop Месяц назад +3

      @@Mariely1 this is awful! She literally moved to be with him. Ughh! How do you know he’s married?

  • @karlaviviane8839
    @karlaviviane8839 Месяц назад

    Nikki💜

  • @michellesteele5307
    @michellesteele5307 Месяц назад +1

    Nikki! Im going to San Diego in August, id love a video on what to do there from your perspective!

  • @laurawassy
    @laurawassy 29 дней назад +1

    Yesss, more YT 😺

  • @brandeerodriguez8536
    @brandeerodriguez8536 29 дней назад +4

    Don’t get a 3rd cat. I have 3 cats and they don’t play with each other. The first two that were bonded are less bonded now

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад +1

    Gray May June gloom lmao 😂 20:15

  • @gina1710
    @gina1710 Месяц назад +1

    Was there a link for the bathing suits?!

    • @denarendall
      @denarendall 28 дней назад

      They’re from Knight swim - you’ll love them! My fave swim brand!

  • @brittanyheisler2288
    @brittanyheisler2288 29 дней назад

    Nikki!!

  • @caroliinec
    @caroliinec 18 дней назад +1

    23:55 nikki, you deserve to be with someone who accepts you for who you are. Never feel the need to change your body for anyone, especially for a guy. You are more than your body. 💕💕

  • @lisajudkins6265
    @lisajudkins6265 27 дней назад

    Nikki your voive is so soft and soothing girl im falling asleep listening to you ❤️

  • @LL-wu5ui
    @LL-wu5ui Месяц назад +8

    When you've been following for so long ypu're confused about which big breakup she is talking about.

    • @josephinehaas5337
      @josephinehaas5337 27 дней назад +2

      I think the first one ! The big one. Miles and teddy weren’t that big. I think more mutual breakups.

  • @camryndina1171
    @camryndina1171 26 дней назад +2

    Side note, the lighting is so nice in this new house lol

  • @dennettmolly
    @dennettmolly 29 дней назад +1

    You’re dating a will?!?! I love that!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @annaknelsen5099
    @annaknelsen5099 28 дней назад +7

    Why are u still promoting better help :(

    • @TiffSingh-tz8uy
      @TiffSingh-tz8uy 27 дней назад

      You don't like it - you don't have to be influenced...can't we allow her to just have her sponsorship.

  • @lorenaespinoza6342
    @lorenaespinoza6342 27 дней назад +2

    Sometimes, we just lose ourselves in relationships unfortunately

  • @hazeit
    @hazeit 24 дня назад +3

    Enough with the betterhelp! Why are the viewers having to warn others about the issues and the class action lawsuits so the influencers can get their sponsor money. Be better.

  • @GoldysGym
    @GoldysGym 25 дней назад

    it was definitely a birth control thing for me and my cousin, now that we are older we can afford to get off of it thank goodness :)

  • @celesterizza519
    @celesterizza519 23 дня назад +1

    Its so weird to think I’ve been watching you for 10+ years hearing about how the fitness industry has changed!

  • @blanket101
    @blanket101 Месяц назад

    Yay

  • @mpbeautyinsight
    @mpbeautyinsight 27 дней назад

    May gray, June gloom.

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    I really like the pink and red it looks good on you 😳💯 6:36

  • @user-ss8ul6po7h
    @user-ss8ul6po7h 27 дней назад

    I am just wondering do you make all your income from RUclips?

  • @AngelqueM
    @AngelqueM Месяц назад +10

    You notice you start posting videos when you are in a relationship?

    • @beccs5050
      @beccs5050 29 дней назад +9

      I've said this before!! A long time ago. She has patterns, and it always ends the same. Even her mumbling hasn't changed when she mentioned years ago she knows she does it and was working on it. Poor girl is stuck in a never ending cycle.

    • @Diana-wk9qv
      @Diana-wk9qv 29 дней назад +9

      She’s only happy when she gets into a relationship and that’s very sad. She needs to be happy with herself and not only when a guy validates her

    • @caroliinec
      @caroliinec 18 дней назад +2

      Definitely noticed she seems addicted to male validation. All the traits of needing male validation describe her perfectly! Theres for sure a pattern of her content improving when Shes in a relationship then declining when Shes not. Heartbreaking. Hope she gets help for it. She deserves better❤

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    Lmao 😂 19:07

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    No you have the right cats because normally same sex cats want to fight and not play fight but throw down 😂 19:56

  • @lenemariakowalczyk9777
    @lenemariakowalczyk9777 29 дней назад

    🌞❤️

  • @vmarsfiles
    @vmarsfiles Месяц назад +1

    One thing Nikki gon do is find a new man! I need to go outside more lol

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    You need some steel toe shoes 😂 3:08

  • @gretchenmanresa4435
    @gretchenmanresa4435 29 дней назад +1

    Kids change them alot.. small ones are 10/10! You forget u even got any.

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    No you don’t miss it 18:24

  • @lula1908
    @lula1908 Месяц назад

    🩷

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    😂 0:09

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    😂 4:10

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    😂 1:36

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    😂 10:19

  • @emy2127
    @emy2127 19 дней назад

    🤩

  • @chodpalmert1786
    @chodpalmert1786 Месяц назад

    😂 16:26