Yes, thank you so much. Thanks to you guys for all of the work you do advocating for all of the beautiful souls taken too soon by the people that were supposed to protect them ❤
@chiberjuberdourado2487 like I've been with my boyfriend for close to two years and I'm not close to being comfortable moving in with him, and I don't have any children to worry about. Three days?? Absolutely insane no matter the circumstances.
My husband's Mom was the same way. She died in 2017 and left her estate to some dude she was shacked up with. They were in their 70's. She had many many men over the years, hopped from one to another. She was like that til the day she died. Her children hate her.
15:00 I’m sorry, she allowed this man to “cuddle and have alone time” nightly with her daughter and she didn’t even know his freaking birthday?! This woman is insane.
That mother purposely kept leaving Lola with him because she WANTED him to hurt her. You will never convince me otherwise. That was premeditated murder.
@MeganTheeCimmerian I would go so far as to say, she did see it... She just didn't care. It's easy to cry crocodile tears when things end up going not according to plan.
@@blacknbougie8021 I feel like CPS is becoming like a huge criminal organization cause it’s crazy how they lose kids chat locate these kids n so much more while the kids are supposed to be in their custody. I don’t trust CPS at all. They got some good people no doubt but some are terrible n only working for CPS so they can have access to kids. I watched few videos n saw news of how some CPS employees got caught hurting these kids n abusing them n doing absolutely terrible things. CPS can’t be trusted. I believe nobody is perfect and no system is perfect and I don’t expect CPS to be perfect but god how can they be so damn terrible? It’s their jobs to protect these kids n keep them safe n sadly so many of these kids end up in worse situations with CPS then they were before. They need to fire so many ppl n need to do way better job at checking on who they hire n why to work with there n be near kids. They made me lose all trust in them Long time ago. Seeing ppl like u believe in same or similar stuff makes me feel like I’m not goin crazy.
Well then his mother covered for him for that cuz his mum should have known or told him you don't need credit for emergency calls and I would have done it soon as I saw the pictures or messages he would have been caught in the bathroom with the girl or something red handed trying to cover up shit. Surely you know if you have raised someone capable of harm or capable of commonly sense.
That "Mother" should have got life too!! She excused and allowed that demon 😈 to hurt her child until she was gone!! No way she only received 6 years!! 😡😡😡 poor, poor baby! She didn't understand WHY she was being hurt constantly and NO ONE came to rescue or comfort her 💔😢🙏🏽❤️🕊🕊🕊 rest in Paradise baby girl, Nobody can hurt you anymore 💔
I agree, I always wonder - WHAT DO these people talk about? They so often know NOTHING about each other but they live together and even make babies. The degree of absolute ignorance and lack of curiosity is simply astounding.
I get it but it's a deep wound it starts young usually daddy issues you feel as though u are unworthy and unloved if you are not in a sexual relationship. They need to feel beautiful and that's how they do it. I was that way for the majority of my life now I've got 12 years single.
Dude it’s crazy that they can’t say things like “domestic violence” or “sexual abuse” but when you turn on the tv, it’s full of cuss words and violence. SMH RUclips
It's really not tho, it's literally a well known fact that it is one of the main reasons behind RUclips's censorship issue, I have seen so many stupid comments in my life and there's nothing stupid about saying that parents who just sit their children in front of RUclips are a major issue, mostly because RUclips kids will sometimes show children inappropriate videos that aren't supposed to be watchable and it makes it so all creators have to be extremely careful or they risk demonetization and other penalties, like this is common knowledge to creators, if this is the stupidest comment you've ever seen this must be your first day in social media @@autumnthomas3923
To be fair, health visitors aren't social workers. Everyone sees a health visitor after having a baby. I don't understand why social services wasn't involved.
That supposedly called mother should have gotten at lease 25 years for bringing a man into their home just after meeting him for 3 days- And she hears a bang wakes up, he tells her to go back to sleep she just hit her head and she doesn’t check on her, she goes back to bed.. this is sickening to to me- I’m glad they took the other kids away from her. And I also hope she has nightmares every night about what she let the evil man do to her child. And as for him, I hope karma came to him the day those doors locked behind him in prison.. I am probably hurting more for that child than her own mother- I can’t stop crying..just thinking about that child crying out for her mother to help her.. and she never came!! 😢
It makes sense, considering how stupid government officials tend to be. The fact that they didn’t immediately know this was abuse and still euthanized the dog shows they just don’t give AF.
Especially since they were already being held on murder charges against the same victim the dog is allegedly to have (again, only from the word of literally one of the defendants)
I'm sure he abused the dog as well. It's sad the innocent dog was put down but at least it's free from the abuse forever now and is hopefully by Lola's side.
You put earphones on, turn the music up, perhaps take some form of alcoholic and herbal relaxant and just lay there because you don't hear the screaming!
I have slept through fire alarms and _actual fire trucks_ showing up to the apartment complex I lived in at the time. You'd be shocked at what people can sleep through - especially when you add medications & possibly illegal drugs into the situation! In all fairness, I've been on Trazodone for several years now for my insomnia, so it's possible just one fewer prescription and I would wake up more easily. But I'm also on medications that can make me sleepy, so it's possible it wouldn't have made a difference! Who knows... Regardless, she woke up at least once during the torture session, so no matter what happened or didn't happen up to that point, she ran out of excuses *right there.*
He killed her daughter and her dog. Despicable. I know she was probably stuck in a cycle of abuse, but even if you lose your self worth you still have a child that deserves better. Rest peacefully Lola and Jessie, you deserved so much better. Can’t believe the monster is going to get parole.
This just kills me. An innocent baby, a blameless pet dog, both lose their lives because an ignorant, neglectful, idiot mother could not see what was right before her eyes? I've experienced DV; as soon as I felt my children were at risk, I found my way out. Not easy, we lacked finances, but my children and pets were safe.
That's just the thing. I have such empathy for women who struggle to leave abusive relationships but after you have a kid, everything changes. That means the mom has to change too. You get yourself together and get out or you send that child somewhere they can be safe. Those are the acceptable options.
@@missmissy_90 I think so too!! How could she not?! Toddlers are wild, no doubt....but they can fall and bump into things and not get broken or bruised up!!! If a child suddenly has all these obvious injuries it should be crystal clear that it's not just the rambunctious toddler!!!
Exactly! She also spent time with her maternal grandmother but didn't bother noticing the bruises/cuts on her body? Both sides of the family and friends let Lola down. Poor baby had no one to champion for her. I feel sorry for the other kids as well. May this heal in time.
I’m from Wales and just wanted to add that ‘Flying Start’ is such a helpful resource. Any child (whether their parents work or not) can attend for 2 ½ hours every weekday, following their 2nd birthday and they offer a lot of services; speech & language, behaviour techniques, hygiene, parenting programmes and just general help/support & advice. I chose to enrol my son because he was born severely premature (29 weeks) and he was and still is an only child. It’s sad that Sinead didn’t take the opportunity to use a services that most cannot access 😔
I just realised that Lola was born 30th September 2017 just 3 days before my son on 3rd October 2017. And Flying Start did cease all sessions during the pandemic. My son is 6 ½ now, and thriving; as should Lola be 🥺 Stories like these are the reason I’ve stayed single for 7 years since my pregnancy; I trust nobody. Meanwhile his ‘dad’ is into his 4th or 5th relationship and couldn’t understand why I was upset that he chose to introduce his new partner to our child after just 3 weeks 🤨 your child’s safety has to be paramount or you’re just a bad parent.
Just this morning is was watching my 18 and 13 year old sleeping! We just never know how blessed we are!!! Thank you for your love of children and giving them a voice
Emmm… imagine, a junkie texts you on FB, and you not just accept a DM request, but start a relationship with him while being a scared victim of DV 🤯🤯🤯🤯
Yea it sounds like the toddler’s “bad behavior” was a result of normal child behavior and a lack of parenting. I have a child the same age and could be called “cheeky,” is strong willed and independent. Those traits can be a good thing, as long as there is a parent who cares enough to correct and guide the child. Animals take better care of their babies. And what would it take to at least throw your trash in the garbage can? The state of that house is a form of child abuse in my opinion. Freaking worthless excuse for a mother. Her child did not have to die.
🎯 I raised a very strong willed child. When I was stressed by his behavior, I would remind myself that his personality would never let him be someone who followed the crowd into alcohol and drugs...guidance requires time & attention that so many don't want to invest in their children...😢
@normacook8325 I'm a strong believer that a lot of parents want BABIES but not to have CHILDREN. How you treat them when they start becoming their own person is the difference.
@@charliedeegan1598you’re 100% correct. Lots of people can make it past the baby stage without any hiccups, once that little human starts having its own voice and feelings however, they can’t take it. It shows truly how shallow of a human you are if you cannot handle a small child resisting something, to the point where abuse seems like the better alternative.
They really would have, same with Fostering, almost better to let wolves raise them then some of the Forster parents there are or just parents in genetalb
The mom has to be on drugs too, that is the only explanation. That girl had more "accidents" under him care in a month than my kids had thier whole lives. That should be such a huge red flag.
Who cares at this point..when she went to jail she was drug tested.What they should have really looked into was if the poor little girl was SA'd. That is an actual important issue.
I mean im pretty sure the biggest monster is the man who made a childs eyes explode, but idk. I guess there just isnt any way to say "the mother is a horrible person"
The father can still be involved in his child's life. Her father chose not to. Where was her grandma or anyone else that claimed to love that little girl? @MrHemi4spd
HE shoved her baby into a busy roadway and she decided to stay with him and LET HIM STILL WATCH THEM???? They are equally responsible for what happened to the kid.
I feel for victims of DV, but I believe there’s a point at which you no longer are just a victim. There’s just no way this woman didn’t notice the red flags. She saw them, and she chose to ignore them. This was her fault, and it’s insane to me that she got such a short sentence for basically allowing this random man to abuse her child.
No, it was BECAUSE she was a victim and not taking responsibility for her trauma that this happened. Doing similar things she did when she was DV to cope with/survive the situation. At some point, you have to exit survival mode and protect and care for yourself in the aftermath, because she didn't do the necessary healing work, she endangered her children.
Broad don't look like she got it bad from him at all, where was the evidence to support that? Gross that anyone would say that this made any kind of sense, this lady didn't care bout her kid, she wasnt a scared victim, this doesnt just 'happen' to people who never learned to protect themselves, yall are disgusting for real.
@@Redvelvetkumabecause she is a selfish l0ser, her child is dead. This does not just happen to people bc they never learned to stand up for themselves in domestic situations, you are GROSS for saying that!!!!!
@michelle7377 thank you for your comment! Yes, it's been a bit of a haul, but today I am happy, enjoying life, my crafts and wee dogs bring me joy, and I now enjoy meeting people! I appreciate your comment. Hope your day is a beautiful one.
This case is sicker than most in my opinion. With the fact that he took pics while he was beating her has me think he wasn't even angry when he did this. It seems like he did it for fun! The fact that he kept her up with him at late at night makes me think SA may have happened as well. This guy was 1 sick MF!
I kinda assumed molestation might have been involved because honestly..it doesn't seem past him. Sinead and Kyle can go f themselves. Also where the hell was the dad?
That crossed my mind too, should have been investigated further so our joke of a justice system could at least add some more onto his sentence@beautykilled5623
I am so horrified. The "snoring" that happened when Lola was beat unconsious, is called agonal breathing. Agonal breathing is basically when the brain fully shuts down and only the brainstem is active, keeping the body alive by breathing. That poor sweet girl did not deserve that one fucking bit. I am so so horrified 😭😭
Cps tried to help but the mother lied to them. She was offered help but she declined it. This is the mothers fault- she let a man move in that she did not know. She allowed him to babysit and ignored the warnings. She was a lazy parent who failed her children
@@mandurahmum123 they shoulda been on them like they be on them parents that actually care & try. it seems they always turn a blind eye to the horrible parents
The insanity that this punk tried to threaten the help and fight the parents of the childs mom and the stupid woman still stood by him. Disgusting he got such a short sentence
Fucking stupid ass woman, I can’t believe there’s a bunch of women out there that are like this piece of shit mother that ALLOWS their kid to get brutally abused by a man they’re in a relationship with, like, HOW IN THE FUCK ARE YOU GONNA LET YOUR POS BOYFRIEND ABUSE YOURRRR KID??? And YOU DIDN’T DO SHIT ABOUT IT?? Makes me infuriated
28 years is the minimum and it's unlikely he will be released. Whether that be because of prison justice or because he won't be deemed safe to release I don't know but knowing how the prisons here in the UK work (i used to work in a medium security prison where chomos had sudden falls downstairs resulting in paralysis and such) I'm erring towards the former.. I for one live in hope that's to be the case.
@@WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey I recall multiple murderer documentaries from the UK I've viewed were the killers have gotten out super early. Look up the Monster of Worcester you'll be disgusted.
The name Lola was derived from the Spanish word Dolores, which means sorrow. It is meant to carry the message that one must encounter pain and suffering in order to truly experience joy in life. How sad that Lola’s final experiences in this earth were the literal translation of her name.
I feel bad for her. She didn't deserve to endure pain that could've been prevented by the adults around her. Tbh, her grandparents should've gotten custody. Also RIP to her dog Jessie! They deserved better
They put the poor dog down on HIS word?! They didn’t HAVE to do anything. Bad enough an innocent child was killed by that POS-but authorities just perpetuated the horror by murdering an innocent dog….
that woman is insanely slow! because there’s no way!! she only complained when he would hit her but wouldn’t say anything when he’d do it to her daughter 🤯🤯
Able bodied young man that is physically able to work but wants to stay home and take care of your kids = the biggest loudest red flag, no goos can come of it.
@@rexthelegend3180I would agree. I see it the same as women wanting to be stay at home moms. I personally think it can be a green flag, but of course it could be a red flag too. Just like everything really, it depends on the context and intentions.
@@rexthelegend3180 Wanting to stay home with kids you just met for no reason IS a big red flag. This comment's talking about men who aren't the father of their girlfriend's children.
Both her eyes were swollen completely shut when paramedics arrived 💔 Also the fact that his first thought was to send a video of her to his mum… she knew way more that she let on
When will mothers of young children, and fathers too, realize that your primary responsibility is to your children, no matter how much you long for a partner? This happens far too much to not know the dangers of bringing a stranger into your home with your kids. It even happened to a friend of mine who caught her new husband taking photos of her Seven-yr. old in the shower. Please WISE UP.
what makes this channel stand out to me is that it focuses on making sure that the victims are humanized and respected, and that the families are heard. it's a really good way to tackle heavy topics happening to real people because it doesn't turn the tragedy into a spectacle. a breath of fresh air tbh
All these adults failed this baby. It makes me sick to hear these people talk about how they’ll miss this little girl. Where were they when she was being beaten and shaken to death? This mother should have gotten life in prison because she brought this monster into her house and allowed him to be around her children. All these people are guilty for failing this child.
There were so many red flags here. For one, don't let this loser move in after 3 days. Then she lets him babysit her kids alone. He was a sadist and a psychopath but she ignored every sign. The biological dad should have taken her.
Totally agree! She never visited them and they never noticed she had bruises and cuts on her. I've gotten into arguments for my niece because she needed new shoes as her old ones were too tight on her, and yet these monsters weren't aware of the bruises this little girl had? What about the visits with the father and grandparents? No one bathed her and saw that she had marks on her body? Very selfish people who really didn't care and now want to act as if they were actually concerned when they didn't really care at all 😞
It sounds like this little girl and her mom had a caseworker that cared, but the ding dong mom lied! Lied!?! The mom sure should have gotten more time! She was an accomplice in my opinion. Turned her back on this poor child, her other children, just so she could shack up and get fiddled. She’s worse than the perpetrator. So glad she lost her other kids!
He probably enjoys watching it over and over. Sadomasochist. Why else would he take that risk of having that evidence. He is getting a huge payoff by watching it repeatedly. Sick F @#$@#!
Woah, this story is just insane. Who puts their dog to sleep based on someone else’s accusations???? Who lets someone stay in their home that is obviously hurting their child???? Really???? Just crazy…
My first thought too. Where was he this whole time? He only gets involved in the end. Weird how he could miss her so much yet wasn’t around at all to know she was being hurt.
@anad.6896 yea duh but the court is there for a reason. If it wasn't worth him to fight for his rights then he's a deadbeat. My ex is a deadbeat and claims to girls he likes that I deny his rights but I got court papers proving I asked to discuss visitation and he denied and waived all rights to that. I asked on purpose cuz I knew he was a deadbeat and wanted the proof if needed in the future.
Wow the carriage ride really hit my heart. I can’t imagine how much she would have loved that in life 💔 what a beautiful gesture for a little princess. RIP baby girl.
What pisses me off are these fathers. So many of them have ZERO relationship with their child, they scream how awful it is when a new bf kills their beloved child. Yes, it is awful! But where were you? Where were your visits? Your weekends? Your "turn" with your child, when you could have saved her?
do you really think that the bloke would let him see his daughter? the father has no rights, the mother gets everything even when she's mentally iII, why would they even let a trauma survivor who cared more about her facebook boyfriend than her own children have custody of them? I don't blame her father, they always treat the father like sht and many children die because they think that the kids are better off with a psycho (or stupid) mum than a loving dad.
That poor baby. and the dog. Idk why they put the dog down. Dangerous dogs bite, they don't push children down the stairs like that, and if they do, its an accident. Who ever made the choice clearly wasn't thinking.
Another senseless death of 2 innocent beings. I didn't know you could put a dog down for being jumpy and rambunctious (even if that story was even actually true but it wasn't)...Maybe Re-home the dog or even a shelter, but why kill the dog? RIP Lola and Jessie.
They could've easily waited until the autopsy results were ready. But to put the poor dog into a shelter for the time being was too much of an inconvenience to them, I guess.
This happened just a short distance from me, the whole community came together for this precious little one. It has tore Pembrokeshire apart. Great attempt at our Welsh names guys xxxx
I literally went to JAIL for my kid as soon as I even SUSPECTED possible abuse from her FATHER. It was only briefly and my dauhgter and I are happily together and away from him completely with sister. The fact some women can allow it to go as far as this.....a penis is never worth it. You always have the chance to protect.
So we're just going to pretend like a 2-year-old won't scream bloody murder when they're hurt? Night after night, that excuse of a mother must have heard her toddler scream and cry as she's being beaten, and she just pretended to be asleep. She just ignored it. 6 years... She ALLOWED it to happen, and she gets six years. That's absolutely nothing. I don't understand how each instance of abuse isn't counted as a separate offense. This poor baby didn't die in one night. She died over the span of MONTHS. That mother knew. She knew what was happening and she did nothing. She killer her child just as much as her boyfriend did. And for her to "wonder" if Lola would still be alive if she didn't let Kyle into her house... She's delusional.
How didn't she know the person you're with dob. I haven't dated in a long time because I'm married, but I know everyone's birthday and last name that are around my family.
@rebeccabyrne3236 she was getting high and didn't care. She is even more guilty than him. If I found out someone was dangerous, I would not allow that person by my family. I don't care if I "loved" that person because blood is thicker than water.
@elainashelley1636 I was cringing every time it sd she went back. Like that baby was SO close to being alive today. I was a single mom of 4, anyone I was with wasn't even allowed to tell them to do a chore.
Disgusting monster's. There's no way it didn't cross her mind that he was intentionally hurting her child. She preferred to have a viciously cruel boyfriend than none at all, so turned a blind eye to the abuse. Selfish mother 🤬🤬🤬 As for her boyfriend's mother she needs to look deep into her own soul and accept a large amount of blame too 🤨
@@sarahleask2478it’s misogyny. Anything a man does, people will find a way to put the blame on women because grown men cant be held accountable for their actions 🤷♀️ (the mother was wrong in this case but people seem more focused on her rather than the man who killed the baby)
Your attention to detail, particularly in sharing little stories about the victims, really does add so much to your videos. My little godchild loves painting my nails; she’s so cute and optimistic; looking up at me from the absolute mess with huge eyes asking sincerely “didn’t I do good?” Really, hats off. You make these kids and their families directly relatable and I hope you never stop.
Fellow Maine resident here, (Limington) & I just wanted to say how much I appreciate ALL the work that two of you put into your content to shed light on these tragic & horrific cases… As a Mom to a little girl & boy, these cases shatter my heart, however, these beautiful babies deserve to have their stories heard… If change is to ever happen for the kids, we must keep talking about it, we must keep their names alive even if it’s difficult & uncomfortable to do so. & that’s one of the MANY reasons I respect the both of you so much, bc I can only imagine how damn hard it is to research & bring these videos to fruition, yet you still do it bc you care! Much love & best wishes♥️
I love how you really explain lots of wonderful qualities and the child's favourite things to do, you bring them back to life for those of us listening. Thank you for that.
these videos always break my heart, especially hearing about their little hobbies and things they love- it always brings me to tears :( rest in peace to all of these little angels
How many times did Lola cry out for her mother I wonder? How many times did her mother hear or see something and just ignore it? mothers and fathers who allow a relationship to come in between the safety of your child you no longer deserve to be called a parent. You’re not a parent you’re not a mom you’re not a dad you are a matter fact I think you’re worse because you’re allowing it that is unacceptable, I have a two year-old grandson who is on 124 seven he gets into more than my other grandson. He breaks more he smashes more he spills more. He throws more he more but he doesn’t get punished anymore than the other. He doesn’t get spankings and beatings and starved and cold showers, he doesn’t lose his bed. He doesn’t have to sleep in a closet on the floor. He doesn’t get tied up. He doesn’t get beat with objects. He isn’t starved. I just don’t know what to say about these cases. I just don’t know what to say.
I think the mom knew he was abusing her and the mom made him watch her all the time because she wanted Lola gone. I think he was doing other things to the kids as well. (S.A)
This is so fucking upsetting. Like how freaking dense can one fucking be. Since he came into her life her daughter kept popping up with bruises smfh. She definitely allowed the shit to happen.
I hope everyone watching from the states was able to have a safe Memorial Day weekend!
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You're dedication is admirable.
Yes, thank you so much. Thanks to you guys for all of the work you do advocating for all of the beautiful souls taken too soon by the people that were supposed to protect them ❤
Thank you for giving these babies a voice.
Thank you! Hope you both (and your cat babies) had a great Memorial Day weekend, also! 🐈 ❤
The dog was probably the only one that cared about Lola.
i think kyle killed jessie (the dog) because the dog would've protected or tried to protect lola
@@daft_jOh, definitely. The average dog, even if it's a coward, will try to protect children and women from abusive men.
That really bothered me, poor dog 😭
The poor innocent dog was euthanased.
The only comfort that little girl had and it was taken away.
He moved in after just 3 days?
3 DAYS????
Talk about irresponsible!
It’s unbelievable! Great parenting.
Especially if you're a parent and afraid of being in another DV situation, like HUH?!? That's the the BEST way to get back into a DV situation! Smh
If it worked out you would be saying how responsible she was & to always trust your gut when it comes to love
or something corny like that
@@LordOfThePancakes Nope. I’d still think it was entirely irresponsible. Letting anyone, male or female, move into after a couple of days is insane.
@chiberjuberdourado2487 like I've been with my boyfriend for close to two years and I'm not close to being comfortable moving in with him, and I don't have any children to worry about. Three days?? Absolutely insane no matter the circumstances.
I had a mom that needed a man, at all costs. It made for an AWFUL childhood. I am so sorry for these babies. I know, sweeties. I know.
Sorry, dear. It's not your fault. ❤️🩹
My husband's Mom was the same way. She died in 2017 and left her estate to some dude she was shacked up with. They were in their 70's. She had many many men over the years, hopped from one to another. She was like that til the day she died. Her children hate her.
How sad 😢 I really hope life is good now after a terrible childhood you deserve some love & happiness sweetie ❤️
Sounds like my mother.
I hope the best for you ❤❤
15:00 I’m sorry, she allowed this man to “cuddle and have alone time” nightly with her daughter and she didn’t even know his freaking birthday?! This woman is insane.
any male asking for ”alone time” with your child IS SO FUCKING WEIRD
Right that's what I'm saying
I got chills at the ‘my 2yo child has taken a bang to the head has gone limp and snoring.’ That’s not snoring, that’s agonal breathing 💔
Poor little girl😭😭😭
Fucking sickening...
That mother purposely kept leaving Lola with him because she WANTED him to hurt her. You will never convince me otherwise. That was premeditated murder.
I agree
I agree
Prime example of a Mother who shouldn't be a Mother. May Lola Rest In Peace.
@MeganTheeCimmerian I would go so far as to say, she did see it... She just didn't care.
It's easy to cry crocodile tears when things end up going not according to plan.
For sure, all she cared about was that piece of crap man!
Does the CPS stand for "can't protect shit." ?
To me it does. I've been writing this in comments for yrs; although it gets deleted sometimes, I'm glad it's catching on.
CORRECT
I believe so!
@@blacknbougie8021
I feel like CPS is becoming like a huge criminal organization cause it’s crazy how they lose kids chat locate these kids n so much more while the kids are supposed to be in their custody. I don’t trust CPS at all. They got some good people no doubt but some are terrible n only working for CPS so they can have access to kids. I watched few videos n saw news of how some CPS employees got caught hurting these kids n abusing them n doing absolutely terrible things. CPS can’t be trusted. I believe nobody is perfect and no system is perfect and I don’t expect CPS to be perfect but god how can they be so damn terrible? It’s their jobs to protect these kids n keep them safe n sadly so many of these kids end up in worse situations with CPS then they were before. They need to fire so many ppl n need to do way better job at checking on who they hire n why to work with there n be near kids. They made me lose all trust in them Long time ago. Seeing ppl like u believe in same or similar stuff makes me feel like I’m not goin crazy.
I think you're right!
He STILL hadn’t made the FREE telephone call, requesting a FREE ambulance, to take her to a FREE hospital, to receive FREE healthcare! WTF?!!? 🤬
Exactly hun what a pair of bastards x no credit on his phone is the worst excuse ever dumb arsed piece of shit 💩
WTF indeed. He wanted to get away with it. Period.
Price is often just an excuse
@@Lilliz91 they were not in the states. I believe they said this was in europe where healthcare for the most part doesn’t have a cost
Well then his mother covered for him for that cuz his mum should have known or told him you don't need credit for emergency calls and I would have done it soon as I saw the pictures or messages he would have been caught in the bathroom with the girl or something red handed trying to cover up shit. Surely you know if you have raised someone capable of harm or capable of commonly sense.
That "Mother" should have got life too!! She excused and allowed that demon 😈 to hurt her child until she was gone!! No way she only received 6 years!! 😡😡😡 poor, poor baby! She didn't understand WHY she was being hurt constantly and NO ONE came to rescue or comfort her 💔😢🙏🏽❤️🕊🕊🕊 rest in Paradise baby girl, Nobody can hurt you anymore 💔
Aww... Your words are so sweet...❤
pambeforethestorm9784, your comment was so true
and she'll be out in 3. disgusting
“Buying her stuff she didn’t need.” This is a HUGE red flag to me. Adults will groom young victims to stay quiet by buying them toys….
She didn’t even know his DOB before he moved in. Disgusting.
Omg that was my thought too, wtf is wrong with this lady?! Why would you trust this dude 😑😑
Meh..
Coulda been worse
@@LordOfThePancakesThat you, Kyle?
I agree, I always wonder - WHAT DO these people talk about? They so often know NOTHING about each other but they live together and even make babies. The degree of absolute ignorance and lack of curiosity is simply astounding.
I will never understand the desperation of these so called mothers needing a male in their lives.
Put your children FIRST!
YESSSS EXACTLY PUT YOUR FUCKING CHILDREN FIRST BEFORE ANY MAN WTF IS WRONG WITH THESE MOTHERS😡😡
I get it but it's a deep wound it starts young usually daddy issues you feel as though u are unworthy and unloved if you are not in a sexual relationship. They need to feel beautiful and that's how they do it. I was that way for the majority of my life now I've got 12 years single.
I've been single for 11years and Its great @@amybowen5800
Daddy issues 😮😢
The whiplash I got from your comment vs your pfp lmao
Dude it’s crazy that they can’t say things like “domestic violence” or “sexual abuse” but when you turn on the tv, it’s full of cuss words and violence. SMH RUclips
its cuz too many lazy breeders think youtube is a babysitter :3 blame them!!
@@GuardiaCompagniathis is the dumbest comment I have ever read
It's really not tho, it's literally a well known fact that it is one of the main reasons behind RUclips's censorship issue, I have seen so many stupid comments in my life and there's nothing stupid about saying that parents who just sit their children in front of RUclips are a major issue, mostly because RUclips kids will sometimes show children inappropriate videos that aren't supposed to be watchable and it makes it so all creators have to be extremely careful or they risk demonetization and other penalties, like this is common knowledge to creators, if this is the stupidest comment you've ever seen this must be your first day in social media @@autumnthomas3923
@@GuardiaCompagnia🤣 what ignorance
@@GuardiaCompagniaI have never seen the truth worded such way and I love it
Why was he taking pictures of all her injuries?? It almost sounds like he wanted to enjoy looking at them after. What a complete freak
The children lived in filth with a battered young mother who keeps inviting abusive junkies into the house despite social workers being involved. 😐
To be fair, health visitors aren't social workers. Everyone sees a health visitor after having a baby. I don't understand why social services wasn't involved.
Ikr. The health visitor was also complicit in this crime. She saw the state of the house. @@Lucy-ym8ch
Social workers need to start going to jail for neglecting these kids. They'd smarten up fast
She only got 6 years for letting that devil murder her beautiful little daughter.
I guess the dog to they are both awful
That supposedly called mother should have gotten at lease 25 years for bringing a man into their home just after meeting him for 3 days-
And she hears a bang wakes up, he tells her to go back to sleep she just hit her head and she doesn’t check on her, she goes back to bed.. this is sickening to to me- I’m glad they took the other kids away from her. And I also hope she has nightmares every night about what she let the evil man do to her child.
And as for him, I hope karma came to him the day those doors locked behind him in prison.. I am probably hurting more for that child than her own mother- I can’t stop crying..just thinking about that child crying out for her mother to help her.. and she never came!! 😢
She' ll get hers
Wait..So they euthanized an innocent animal at the WORD of a MURDERER with only PROOF OF INJURIES CAUSED BY HER MURDERER?? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!
It makes sense, considering how stupid government officials tend to be. The fact that they didn’t immediately know this was abuse and still euthanized the dog shows they just don’t give AF.
Degrees and training does not mean they have common sense
EXACTLY @@caretoomuch9967
Especially since they were already being held on murder charges against the same victim the dog is allegedly to have (again, only from the word of literally one of the defendants)
I'm sure he abused the dog as well. It's sad the innocent dog was put down but at least it's free from the abuse forever now and is hopefully by Lola's side.
How did the mom sleep through hours of torture on the poor baby? You can’t not hear that!
You put earphones on, turn the music up, perhaps take some form of alcoholic and herbal relaxant and just lay there because you don't hear the screaming!
Either she was drugged or she heard and chose to ignore.
I have slept through fire alarms and _actual fire trucks_ showing up to the apartment complex I lived in at the time. You'd be shocked at what people can sleep through - especially when you add medications & possibly illegal drugs into the situation!
In all fairness, I've been on Trazodone for several years now for my insomnia, so it's possible just one fewer prescription and I would wake up more easily. But I'm also on medications that can make me sleepy, so it's possible it wouldn't have made a difference! Who knows...
Regardless, she woke up at least once during the torture session, so no matter what happened or didn't happen up to that point, she ran out of excuses *right there.*
She didn't give a damn about her kids. She invited someone she didn't know who was obviously abusing her kids. And let it happen.
She didn't care when he pushed the baby into traffic, so why would she start to care at home? She's just as culpable imo
Im a recording alcoholic and on my worst drunk days, my girls were still well taken care of. I hate when people use drugs and alcohol as an excuse.
A warning for all those absent daddies. You can be a savior and a safe haven to those poor forgotten babies .
Do you think they care? They care even less than this excuse of a mother.
@@JuMiKu out of sight out of mind - in sight different story - sad but true
They don't give a shit. Who tf leaves another man to raise their child? This "warning" lands on deaf ears of the missing.
@@glasperle77 You think most of them are escaping abusive wives? Lmfao it's because they don't want the child or they don't care enough to
He killed her daughter and her dog. Despicable. I know she was probably stuck in a cycle of abuse, but even if you lose your self worth you still have a child that deserves better.
Rest peacefully Lola and Jessie, you deserved so much better. Can’t believe the monster is going to get parole.
This just kills me. An innocent baby, a blameless pet dog, both lose their lives because an ignorant, neglectful, idiot mother could not see what was right before her eyes? I've experienced DV; as soon as I felt my children were at risk, I found my way out. Not easy, we lacked finances, but my children and pets were safe.
That's just the thing. I have such empathy for women who struggle to leave abusive relationships but after you have a kid, everything changes. That means the mom has to change too. You get yourself together and get out or you send that child somewhere they can be safe. Those are the acceptable options.
When bf grabbed mom's arm she was going to leave him.
She didn't yet how did she not know how abusive he was to daughter.
SHE KNEW 😢
@@missmissy_90 I think so too!! How could she not?! Toddlers are wild, no doubt....but they can fall and bump into things and not get broken or bruised up!!! If a child suddenly has all these obvious injuries it should be crystal clear that it's not just the rambunctious toddler!!!
@@novembershanghai
Absolutely.
Over 100 bruises at that.
"I'm not the devil" said the devil
The devil always says they’re not the devil
The greatest trick the devil ever pulled, was convincing the world that he didn't exist.
-Charles Baudelaire
Exactly & how discusting!
@@space_cadet04 and the most gullible swallowed it when god claimed he was good as well, yet the devil had never lied
Humans are way worse than the devil could ever be.
It’s crazy how the absent parent always appears AFTER the child dies.
Exactly! She also spent time with her maternal grandmother but didn't bother noticing the bruises/cuts on her body? Both sides of the family and friends let Lola down. Poor baby had no one to champion for her. I feel sorry for the other kids as well. May this heal in time.
He probably had little to no custody
@@carson5151or was being an absent parent
fr cause where tf was he?? everyone let her down
Many women cut off the fathers for their own personal motives
I’m from Wales and just wanted to add that ‘Flying Start’ is such a helpful resource. Any child (whether their parents work or not) can attend for 2 ½ hours every weekday, following their 2nd birthday and they offer a lot of services; speech & language, behaviour techniques, hygiene, parenting programmes and just general help/support & advice.
I chose to enrol my son because he was born severely premature (29 weeks) and he was and still is an only child.
It’s sad that Sinead didn’t take the opportunity to use a services that most cannot access 😔
I just realised that Lola was born 30th September 2017 just 3 days before my son on 3rd October 2017.
And Flying Start did cease all sessions during the pandemic.
My son is 6 ½ now, and thriving; as should Lola be 🥺
Stories like these are the reason I’ve stayed single for 7 years since my pregnancy; I trust nobody. Meanwhile his ‘dad’ is into his 4th or 5th relationship and couldn’t understand why I was upset that he chose to introduce his new partner to our child after just 3 weeks 🤨 your child’s safety has to be paramount or you’re just a bad parent.
Unfortunately not all kids in Wales can attend flying start. It depends on your post code.
Just this morning is was watching my 18 and 13 year old sleeping! We just never know how blessed we are!!! Thank you for your love of children and giving them a voice
Can we acknowledge the fact that the dog was put to sleep for no reason??
This family was really messed up, rip to the girl and dog ❤
Wow, we've come to the point where dogs matter more than a dead child. What has become of society?
The dog was another victim of the abuser
That poor dog. She was probably like, THEY SAID I DID WHAT NOW? That murderer lied on an innocent doggie.
@@BunnaySango animals are JUST as helpless as children you psychopath.
Emmm… imagine, a junkie texts you on FB, and you not just accept a DM request, but start a relationship with him while being a scared victim of DV 🤯🤯🤯🤯
And let him move in the next day is crazy 😅
And allowing him to move into your home just 4 days after meeting him. She’s as guilty as he is.
@@terryKessler42719 this one is not ok even with not a junky 🤯🤯🤯🤯
Exactly 😮
And claiming you felt he was going to be your "protector".... Yeah ok 🙄
Yea it sounds like the toddler’s “bad behavior” was a result of normal child behavior and a lack of parenting.
I have a child the same age and could be called “cheeky,” is strong willed and independent. Those traits can be a good thing, as long as there is a parent who cares enough to correct and guide the child.
Animals take better care of their babies.
And what would it take to at least throw your trash in the garbage can? The state of that house is a form of child abuse in my opinion.
Freaking worthless excuse for a mother. Her child did not have to die.
She should have gotten life in prison also. She’s as guilty as he is.
🎯 I raised a very strong willed child. When I was stressed by his behavior, I would remind myself that his personality would never let him be someone who followed the crowd into alcohol and drugs...guidance requires time & attention that so many don't want to invest in their children...😢
@normacook8325 I'm a strong believer that a lot of parents want BABIES but not to have CHILDREN. How you treat them when they start becoming their own person is the difference.
@@charliedeegan1598you’re 100% correct. Lots of people can make it past the baby stage without any hiccups, once that little human starts having its own voice and feelings however, they can’t take it. It shows truly how shallow of a human you are if you cannot handle a small child resisting something, to the point where abuse seems like the better alternative.
@charliedeegan1598 great point!
My mom couldnt be without a man and put her alcoholic husband before me. Both were extremely abusive. She never protected me.
I am so sorry that you had to go through that. 😢
Shame on mom for dismissing the warnings. I will never understand these desperate woman looking for any man. She's just as guilty
Wild wolves would have cared for these children better
Mother wolves basically never do this shit, and father wolves are loving and attentive, so yes.
Wolves are actually really good mothers, they've been known to adopt human children
They really would have, same with Fostering, almost better to let wolves raise them then some of the Forster parents there are or just parents in genetalb
especially since are HAMRLESS so horrible comparison but ok
The mom has to be on drugs too, that is the only explanation. That girl had more "accidents" under him care in a month than my kids had thier whole lives. That should be such a huge red flag.
Right..and she slept for 12 hours
Who cares at this point..when she went to jail she was drug tested.What they should have really looked into was if the poor little girl was SA'd. That is an actual important issue.
Yes she used meth with him.
Mother is the biggest monster in this case. The psychopath only got away with what SHE allowed and enabled him to.
Rabbit: you are absolutely correct
Yup
Mother is a psychopath too no way she isn’t
I mean im pretty sure the biggest monster is the man who made a childs eyes explode, but idk. I guess there just isnt any way to say "the mother is a horrible person"
💯 correct!😢
Stupid father never checked up on his child, then has all these loving words afterwards!
He should also go to jail for child abandonment!!
The father can still be involved in his child's life. Her father chose not to. Where was her grandma or anyone else that claimed to love that little girl? @MrHemi4spd
He did - he lived local but once kyle got incolced his contact with lola was stopped - they argued a lot over fb messenger.
Unbelievable that you still blame the father instead of aknowledging that the mother is a monster.
@@alfombraspersasyorientaleslior you forgot to mention the bf the real monster
HE shoved her baby into a busy roadway and she decided to stay with him and LET HIM STILL WATCH THEM???? They are equally responsible for what happened to the kid.
I feel for victims of DV, but I believe there’s a point at which you no longer are just a victim. There’s just no way this woman didn’t notice the red flags. She saw them, and she chose to ignore them. This was her fault, and it’s insane to me that she got such a short sentence for basically allowing this random man to abuse her child.
@@gooch151516domestic violence
You can be a victim and a perpetrator. But in the end, that second one is what shows what kind of person you are.
No, it was BECAUSE she was a victim and not taking responsibility for her trauma that this happened. Doing similar things she did when she was DV to cope with/survive the situation. At some point, you have to exit survival mode and protect and care for yourself in the aftermath, because she didn't do the necessary healing work, she endangered her children.
Broad don't look like she got it bad from him at all, where was the evidence to support that? Gross that anyone would say that this made any kind of sense, this lady didn't care bout her kid, she wasnt a scared victim, this doesnt just 'happen' to people who never learned to protect themselves, yall are disgusting for real.
@@Redvelvetkumabecause she is a selfish l0ser, her child is dead. This does not just happen to people bc they never learned to stand up for themselves in domestic situations, you are GROSS for saying that!!!!!
how could a mother betray her child in such a deciteful way
Unfortunately she's not a mother. A mother wouldn't betray her children.
@@michelle7377 facts 😪very heart breaking
Believe it. I had the mother from hell...there are no words......
@@LindaGrey-wm9uc I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope life is being good to you now.❤️❤️
@michelle7377 thank you for your comment! Yes, it's been a bit of a haul, but today I am happy, enjoying life, my crafts and wee dogs bring me joy, and I now enjoy meeting people! I appreciate your comment. Hope your day is a beautiful one.
That so called mother should have gotten a full life sentence for allowing this to happen
You are so right! 😢
At mininum spayed
AMEN WHY COULDN'T WE BE THE JUDGE???!!!!
@@marcelalopez9053exactly. How come such people are always so fertile
I feel physically sick poor Lola didn't stand a chance in that home..Rest in peace Lola no more pain 😢💔
Why didn’t the mom call the police? That whole family is weird and should not have children with them at all.
This case is sicker than most in my opinion. With the fact that he took pics while he was beating her has me think he wasn't even angry when he did this. It seems like he did it for fun! The fact that he kept her up with him at late at night makes me think SA may have happened as well. This guy was 1 sick MF!
I think he SA'd her too, unfortunately
Definitely yet that isn't covered? Odd
I kinda assumed molestation might have been involved because honestly..it doesn't seem past him.
Sinead and Kyle can go f themselves. Also where the hell was the dad?
That crossed my mind too, should have been investigated further so our joke of a justice system could at least add some more onto his sentence@beautykilled5623
I completely agree. They must have checked it out on the autopsy....however HE BATHED HER before waking the egg donor up....
I am so horrified. The "snoring" that happened when Lola was beat unconsious, is called agonal breathing. Agonal breathing is basically when the brain fully shuts down and only the brainstem is active, keeping the body alive by breathing. That poor sweet girl did not deserve that one fucking bit. I am so so horrified 😭😭
It's so heartbreaking seeing all these parents harm their children and CPS failing them
right & cps so quick to take the kids of a parents that care & give them to a sicko
@@bigb3x Exactly. It's disturbing
Cps tried to help but the mother lied to them. She was offered help but she declined it. This is the mothers fault- she let a man move in that she did not know. She allowed him to babysit and ignored the warnings. She was a lazy parent who failed her children
Cps is too busy persecuting good parents who do not Vax etc to be bothered protecting children actually in danger
@@mandurahmum123 they shoulda been on them like they be on them parents that actually care & try. it seems they always turn a blind eye to the horrible parents
Ive never heard of the cops keeping people in jail due to community outrage. People must have been pissssssssssssed off at these two
Where was her biological father during all this time bc if he was seeing her regularly, surely he would have questioned all the bruising and cuts
The insanity that this punk tried to threaten the help and fight the parents of the childs mom and the stupid woman still stood by him. Disgusting he got such a short sentence
RIGHT THOUGH LIKE THATS FUCKING DISGUSTING
Fucking stupid ass woman, I can’t believe there’s a bunch of women out there that are like this piece of shit mother that ALLOWS their kid to get brutally abused by a man they’re in a relationship with, like, HOW IN THE FUCK ARE YOU GONNA LET YOUR POS BOYFRIEND ABUSE YOURRRR KID??? And YOU DIDN’T DO SHIT ABOUT IT?? Makes me infuriated
28 years is the minimum and it's unlikely he will be released. Whether that be because of prison justice or because he won't be deemed safe to release I don't know but knowing how the prisons here in the UK work (i used to work in a medium security prison where chomos had sudden falls downstairs resulting in paralysis and such) I'm erring towards the former.. I for one live in hope that's to be the case.
@@WakeyWakeyEggsandBakey I recall multiple murderer documentaries from the UK I've viewed were the killers have gotten out super early.
Look up the Monster of Worcester you'll be disgusted.
The fact that cps just stopped during covid is ridiculous.
Everywhere was an increase of child abuse because of that!
the great covid hysteria, it was a test run to how much they could get away with.
Yea, that disgust me because in the US they never stopped.
The name Lola was derived from the Spanish word Dolores, which means sorrow.
It is meant to carry the message that one must encounter pain and suffering in order to truly experience joy in life.
How sad that Lola’s final experiences in this earth were the literal translation of her name.
💔💔💔
😢😢😢😢
Dolores is plural so it is sorrow but also can be physical pain
I feel bad for her. She didn't deserve to endure pain that could've been prevented by the adults around her. Tbh, her grandparents should've gotten custody. Also RIP to her dog Jessie! They deserved better
In some countries in eastern europe, they call an ugly woman a "Lola."😢
They put the poor dog down on HIS word?! They didn’t HAVE to do anything. Bad enough an innocent child was killed by that POS-but authorities just perpetuated the horror by murdering an innocent dog….
that woman is insanely slow! because there’s no way!! she only complained when he would hit her but wouldn’t say anything when he’d do it to her daughter 🤯🤯
Able bodied young man that is physically able to work but wants to stay home and take care of your kids = the biggest loudest red flag, no goos can come of it.
Yeah, I can imagine a few contexts where he isn't trouble, but they're very particular!
I get what you’re saying and I think I agree, but also I don’t think wanting to be a stay at home dad is a red flag.
@@rexthelegend3180I would agree. I see it the same as women wanting to be stay at home moms. I personally think it can be a green flag, but of course it could be a red flag too. Just like everything really, it depends on the context and intentions.
@@rexthelegend3180 Wanting to stay home with kids you just met for no reason IS a big red flag. This comment's talking about men who aren't the father of their girlfriend's children.
Both her eyes were swollen completely shut when paramedics arrived 💔 Also the fact that his first thought was to send a video of her to his mum… she knew way more that she let on
Who would hand the mother a piece of her child's tongue!?!??
She wasn't a Mother!
A psychopath
@@susanh1292I agree
A narcissist who just wants a reaction. What a sick monster
That is horrifying! 😨
When will mothers of young children, and fathers too, realize that your primary responsibility is to your children, no matter how much you long for a partner? This happens far too much to not know the dangers of bringing a stranger into your home with your kids. It even happened to a friend of mine who caught her new husband taking photos of her Seven-yr. old in the shower. Please WISE UP.
what makes this channel stand out to me is that it focuses on making sure that the victims are humanized and respected, and that the families are heard. it's a really good way to tackle heavy topics happening to real people because it doesn't turn the tragedy into a spectacle. a breath of fresh air tbh
All these adults failed this baby. It makes me sick to hear these people talk about how they’ll miss this little girl. Where were they when she was being beaten and shaken to death? This mother should have gotten life in prison because she brought this monster into her house and allowed him to be around her children. All these people are guilty for failing this child.
There were so many red flags here. For one, don't let this loser move in after 3 days. Then she lets him babysit her kids alone. He was a sadist and a psychopath but she ignored every sign. The biological dad should have taken her.
@peggypeggy4137 but instead he chose to be a deadbeat. To me he's just as guilty as the mum.
Totally agree! She never visited them and they never noticed she had bruises and cuts on her. I've gotten into arguments for my niece because she needed new shoes as her old ones were too tight on her, and yet these monsters weren't aware of the bruises this little girl had? What about the visits with the father and grandparents? No one bathed her and saw that she had marks on her body? Very selfish people who really didn't care and now want to act as if they were actually concerned when they didn't really care at all 😞
It sounds like this little girl and her mom had a caseworker that cared, but the ding dong mom lied! Lied!?! The mom sure should have gotten more time! She was an accomplice in my opinion. Turned her back on this poor child, her other children, just so she could shack up and get fiddled. She’s worse than the perpetrator. So glad she lost her other kids!
The lady should've believed her eyes.not dirty but filthy sign
@@BossLady-nb1pithat was during the pandemic sadly case workers weren’t allowed to visit families to stop the spread of the virus.
Why was he so obsessed with taking photos and videos, making evidence of what he’d done??
Right? He had some kind of weird thing about that I’m sure, its obvious what that behavior implies.
That's what I'm wondering. Sounds like a fetish and he was enjoying it.
He probably enjoys watching it over and over. Sadomasochist. Why else would he take that risk of having that evidence. He is getting a huge payoff by watching it repeatedly. Sick F @#$@#!
That's just the stupidity of current-day.
People see an accident, they pull out their phones... to record... not to call help.
@@Trehlas wow 😂 youre slow as hell if you Believe that that applies here 😂 take extra care with who you allow with your fam, youre gullible as hell!
“She messaged him repeatedly” FOR 13 minutes. But didn’t think once to call 911 herself?
Woah, this story is just insane. Who puts their dog to sleep based on someone else’s accusations???? Who lets someone stay in their home that is obviously hurting their child???? Really???? Just crazy…
How are you a loving attentive parent from a distance? Never ever step away from your children. It opens the door for the devils to come in.
My first thought too. Where was he this whole time? He only gets involved in the end. Weird how he could miss her so much yet wasn’t around at all to know she was being hurt.
Makes me so mad. Deadbeat parents should share equal blame as the parent who stands by and let's it happen.
It could be possible that the mother was keeping Lola away from her father. It happens more than you think
@anad.6896 yea duh but the court is there for a reason. If it wasn't worth him to fight for his rights then he's a deadbeat.
My ex is a deadbeat and claims to girls he likes that I deny his rights but I got court papers proving I asked to discuss visitation and he denied and waived all rights to that. I asked on purpose cuz I knew he was a deadbeat and wanted the proof if needed in the future.
his ex probably wouldn't let him near the children.
I cannot bear to hear the ending of these stories, mentioning how upset the family members are.... Where were YOU???!!!!! YOU failed her too 😠
Exactly!!!! Where was the dad ????
That's what I wondered too. Also, the woman that saw the baby had a black eye, why didn't she report that?
Wow the carriage ride really hit my heart. I can’t imagine how much she would have loved that in life 💔 what a beautiful gesture for a little princess. RIP baby girl.
So , Where was Daddy Daniel ,during the months of Mothers’ “ care “?
Probably at the pub.
What pisses me off are these fathers. So many of them have ZERO relationship with their child, they scream how awful it is when a new bf kills their beloved child. Yes, it is awful! But where were you? Where were your visits? Your weekends? Your "turn" with your child, when you could have saved her?
Good point, Leah.
Yeah people want to put all the blame on the terrible mother but where’s the accountability from the father?
do you really think that the bloke would let him see his daughter?
the father has no rights, the mother gets everything even when she's mentally iII, why would they even let a trauma survivor who cared more about her facebook boyfriend than her own children have custody of them? I don't blame her father, they always treat the father like sht and many children die because they think that the kids are better off with a psycho (or stupid) mum than a loving dad.
I shudder to think what else that poor baby went through 😢. And the mother knew and allowed it!
Yes after hearing to the end, how could the mother not see the horrendous injuries.
She had this dude living with her and she didn’t even know his birthday!? Smfh
That poor baby. and the dog. Idk why they put the dog down. Dangerous dogs bite, they don't push children down the stairs like that, and if they do, its an accident. Who ever made the choice clearly wasn't thinking.
They were thinking but they didn't GAF!
Another senseless death of 2 innocent beings. I didn't know you could put a dog down for being jumpy and rambunctious (even if that story was even actually true but it wasn't)...Maybe Re-home the dog or even a shelter, but why kill the dog? RIP Lola and Jessie.
They could've easily waited until the autopsy results were ready. But to put the poor dog into a shelter for the time being was too much of an inconvenience to them, I guess.
This didn’t happen overnight. Many are to blame for this child’s death!!!!!
Kyle does more drugs while in recovery and sober than i did when I was a drug addict
He played her to get to her daughter and so many signs of abuse 😭 Poor Lola 😞😭
This happened just a short distance from me, the whole community came together for this precious little one. It has tore Pembrokeshire apart.
Great attempt at our Welsh names guys xxxx
I literally went to JAIL for my kid as soon as I even SUSPECTED possible abuse from her FATHER. It was only briefly and my dauhgter and I are happily together and away from him completely with sister. The fact some women can allow it to go as far as this.....a penis is never worth it. You always have the chance to protect.
Protection over penis . Everytime
They put you in jail for protecting your daughter?? Seems on brand for them! Let me guess...US?
I really wanna buy you a drink. Well done!
Who took care of your child when you were in jail?
That's a weird question to ask I'm sure this person has a family@@deborahfay102
So we're just going to pretend like a 2-year-old won't scream bloody murder when they're hurt? Night after night, that excuse of a mother must have heard her toddler scream and cry as she's being beaten, and she just pretended to be asleep. She just ignored it.
6 years... She ALLOWED it to happen, and she gets six years. That's absolutely nothing. I don't understand how each instance of abuse isn't counted as a separate offense. This poor baby didn't die in one night. She died over the span of MONTHS.
That mother knew. She knew what was happening and she did nothing. She killer her child just as much as her boyfriend did. And for her to "wonder" if Lola would still be alive if she didn't let Kyle into her house... She's delusional.
That’s not “ snoring “ it’s called the death rattle it happens right before death 💀
She didn't know his dob? That's like one of the first things I ask. This woman had to have been on substances too, clearly.
How didn't she know the person you're with dob. I haven't dated in a long time because I'm married, but I know everyone's birthday and last name that are around my family.
@@elainashelley1636okay same here
She obviously knew nothing about him except his drugs of choice and thought he would be a great role model for 3 toddler girls.
@rebeccabyrne3236 she was getting high and didn't care. She is even more guilty than him. If I found out someone was dangerous, I would not allow that person by my family. I don't care if I "loved" that person because blood is thicker than water.
@elainashelley1636 I was cringing every time it sd she went back. Like that baby was SO close to being alive today. I was a single mom of 4, anyone I was with wasn't even allowed to tell them to do a chore.
Disgusting monster's.
There's no way it didn't cross her mind that he was intentionally hurting her child. She preferred to have a viciously cruel boyfriend than none at all, so turned a blind eye to the abuse. Selfish mother 🤬🤬🤬
As for her boyfriend's mother she needs to look deep into her own soul and accept a large amount of blame too 🤨
Absolute scumbags doesn't cover it!!
He has a father as well. Why blame just the mother?
@@sarahleask2478they're not she's mentioned both
I know the mothers did wrong but why do i feel like you’re blaming them more than holding the man accountable for killing a child…
@@sarahleask2478it’s misogyny. Anything a man does, people will find a way to put the blame on women because grown men cant be held accountable for their actions 🤷♀️ (the mother was wrong in this case but people seem more focused on her rather than the man who killed the baby)
Monsters I tell you. Both of them are. Rest in peace sweet baby and Jessie.
Is this What Happens when your Parents Scum to the Dark Side?
The mom starting a new relationship within a few hours is crazy. What’s more crazy is her letting him move in a few days after.
Calling a toddler demanding is wild.
Can't believe that a mother would allow anyone to treat her children like this. Shocking!
Your attention to detail, particularly in sharing little stories about the victims, really does add so much to your videos. My little godchild loves painting my nails; she’s so cute and optimistic; looking up at me from the absolute mess with huge eyes asking sincerely “didn’t I do good?”
Really, hats off. You make these kids and their families directly relatable and I hope you never stop.
The guys mother never thought to call the police after the first round of photos?
All this evidence and they believed him and killed the dog. Horrible
I don't understand how all of this abuse is beneath the radar.
Thank you for bringing awareness to these babies
My heart can’t handle monsters like this being permitted to continue to breathe air after such a convincing conviction. 😭
He looks like such a creep!! My heart breaks for these children who go thru this
He does 🤮
Fellow Maine resident here, (Limington) & I just wanted to say how much I appreciate ALL the work that two of you put into your content to shed light on these tragic & horrific cases… As a Mom to a little girl & boy, these cases shatter my heart, however, these beautiful babies deserve to have their stories heard… If change is to ever happen for the kids, we must keep talking about it, we must keep their names alive even if it’s difficult & uncomfortable to do so. & that’s one of the MANY reasons I respect the both of you so much, bc I can only imagine how damn hard it is to research & bring these videos to fruition, yet you still do it bc you care! Much love & best wishes♥️
Much love to you, Allie! 💜
@@TheMiseryMachine Those furbabies of yours love to stick their tails where they don't belong. Cuz deysosilly yesdeyare. Yeeyus...
Agree
I love how you really explain lots of wonderful qualities and the child's favourite things to do, you bring them back to life for those of us listening. Thank you for that.
these videos always break my heart, especially hearing about their little hobbies and things they love- it always brings me to tears :( rest in peace to all of these little angels
That woman should get life in jail
How many times did Lola cry out for her mother I wonder? How many times did her mother hear or see something and just ignore it? mothers and fathers who allow a relationship to come in between the safety of your child you no longer deserve to be called a parent. You’re not a parent you’re not a mom you’re not a dad you are a matter fact I think you’re worse because you’re allowing it that is unacceptable, I have a two year-old grandson who is on 124 seven he gets into more than my other grandson. He breaks more he smashes more he spills more. He throws more he more but he doesn’t get punished anymore than the other. He doesn’t get spankings and beatings and starved and cold showers, he doesn’t lose his bed. He doesn’t have to sleep in a closet on the floor. He doesn’t get tied up. He doesn’t get beat with objects. He isn’t starved. I just don’t know what to say about these cases. I just don’t know what to say.
Rest Eternally in Heaven, Princess Lola 😩🥺😭💔... Wow smh...
Anybody else kept saying to themselves how can someone be this gullible until they seen what she looked like
Honestly, yes
@@KaileyB616sadly yes. She was desperate and targeted
I still can’t believe these women leave their precious babies with these sort of monsters 🤬
Thank you so much for sharing the stories of these innocent angels 💔
It seems like she was letting Kyle raise Lola. It seems like he was with her more than the Mother. Why did he spend so much time with her? SMDH
yeah my same thoughts
I think the mom knew he was abusing her and the mom made him watch her all the time because she wanted Lola gone. I think he was doing other things to the kids as well. (S.A)
This is so fucking upsetting. Like how freaking dense can one fucking be. Since he came into her life her daughter kept popping up with bruises smfh. She definitely allowed the shit to happen.
Wow so sad everyone failed Lola poor baby girl this is so sick and heartbreaking 💔😢💯 Rip you beautiful angel 😇
Everyone failed that baby