How To Stay In Love In A Long-Term Relationship - Q&A w/Stefan and Tatiana James

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

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  • @TatianaJames
    @TatianaJames  3 года назад +30

    We hope that you enjoyed our relationship Q&A! Let us know any other questions you'd like us to answer in the comments below...

    • @kaylawallace5330
      @kaylawallace5330 3 года назад

      i really love this . thank you guys so much

    • @nilegirl4786
      @nilegirl4786 3 года назад

      Tatiana James
      I wanna to add Arabic transcription to your valuable videos.. I am a Sudanese and your videos inspire me so this will help to increase your Arabic subscribers

  • @nutripauorganic2196
    @nutripauorganic2196 3 года назад +60

    Stay with someone that looks at you as Stefan looks at Tatiana 😍

  • @endlesseverything460
    @endlesseverything460 3 года назад +42

    Haven't even watched the full video, but I'm already learning so extremely much. Tatiana, I would LOVE a video about the feminine and the masculine. You seem to have so much knowledge about it and learning from you, who I consider my big sister, would be such great help. Okay now I'm gonna continue watching the video:)

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  3 года назад +9

      Enjoy the rest of the video! We have a part 2 coming soon where we talk about the feminine and masculine 🙌

    • @zephyrlibs
      @zephyrlibs 3 года назад

      @@TatianaJames post it this weekend, can't wait

  • @itsbriiiyahhh
    @itsbriiiyahhh 3 года назад +32

    I agree that giving your marriage/relationship attention is so important. And these tips are very helpful. But when you have kids involved, it takes sooo much more energy to give attention to your marriage especially when you’re a stay at home mom. Some husbands feel like they just work and that’s enough, while wives are at home taking care of everything else and it’s physically and mentally tasking. It strains the marriage for sure. But to anyone reading this who has a family, I think great communication and teamwork when it comes to kids helps a marriage the most. That way it’s easier to make sure your marriage/relationship is still a focus/priority in your life as well. Just my opinion. Thanks Tati for the tips ❤️

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  3 года назад +3

      Thanks for sharing this! Yes it's so important to have that communication and framework

    • @LL-zp4xo
      @LL-zp4xo 3 года назад

      Communication communication communication as well as understanding after that communication, is the key!!

    • @kw6724
      @kw6724 3 года назад

      Yes, I absolutely agree with you. I love the tips that they gave but it almost portrays a “perfect” relationship, which we know doesn’t exist. Often times kids changes the dynamics of our relationships. Men failed to realize that if they helped out more with the kids, we’d be more willing to tend to their needs. Far too often relationships are sort of one sided due to our spouses not knowing how to empathize. I believe that empathy could take marriages a long way.

  • @stephaniec9355
    @stephaniec9355 3 года назад +7

    I don’t have a partner but I’m watching this for when I do. My parents have been married for years & I’ve seen long lasting relationships BUT not fully caring, loving and growth minded relationships. Thank you both!!! 🥰

  • @milenasantos5544
    @milenasantos5544 3 года назад +7

    It’s such a blessing hearing these advices from you. My husband and I have a great relationship and it’s sad when people say they don’t believe in love or marriage anymore. I admire you as businesspeople and as a couple even more. ❤️

  • @lolap603
    @lolap603 3 года назад +12

    It brings me all the positivity and hope! when I see 2 in love with each other for years and working together on the relationship and their love actually comes to a happy end. Congrats & Bless you ❤️

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! Really glad you like the video from us

  • @LL-zp4xo
    @LL-zp4xo 3 года назад +5

    This needs to go viral. It’s amazing!! God bless you guys. Many couples need to hear this and you set a great example!! I have been married to my sweetheart for 17 years and we have 5 beautiful kids together. I am 38 years old and we are blessed with an amazing relationship. I can agree with everything you both said because these tips are what makes any relationship successful. Good job guys!!

  • @nupursasmal6848
    @nupursasmal6848 3 года назад +6

    Your concept of relationship is the best one ever. It is so mature, loving and nourishing. Cheers to you both on the wedding! I wanna have a relationship like you someday

  • @DD-dr4dn
    @DD-dr4dn 3 года назад +11

    Her eye contact 👁 👌🔥❤️

  • @AJ-pq7qh
    @AJ-pq7qh 5 месяцев назад

    Mr and Mrs. James, this is no doubt one of the better and practical videos I have ever watched about a loving relationships. I admire the values you both used as a framework you go by. Great job in setting aside the egos to create a healthy partnership. Love is the ultimate goal no matter what. Keep up the good work you’re putting in to have what you have. Awesome. !!! I hope to one day meet both of you.

  • @neossiss
    @neossiss 3 года назад +1

    You two are honestly amazing for the path you’re trailblazing while setting an example for others. I found so much wisdom to be used in my own life and relationships and I’m so excited to start. Much blessings to you two!

  • @589supra
    @589supra 3 года назад +1

    You two binding together is so real and beyond this material world! This is spiritual

  • @catherinemarie6
    @catherinemarie6 3 года назад +7

    I love you two. Congratulations on your marriage! I will be implementing your ritual into my relationship. I think it’s perfect. Thank you!

  • @zhennilin5794
    @zhennilin5794 3 года назад +2

    i love you guys so much!!!!! 💕💕💕
    Love the part of remembering the intent of love , to be able to see beneath the surface and remember that is soo important

  • @liveyoureveryminute7728
    @liveyoureveryminute7728 3 года назад +2

    Well done you two. I think that it takes two enlightened people to acknowledge each other and want to understand each other for the benefit of both. The secret of course it's to always keep working at it. All the best for your future together.

  • @rroman2752
    @rroman2752 3 года назад +4

    OMG LOVE THIS POWER COUPLE, YOUR HUMBLENESS AND WILLING TO SHARE WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED WITH US IS AMAZING!!!!

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the video

    • @75Cee
      @75Cee 2 года назад

      So true!

  • @Moonlvr555
    @Moonlvr555 3 года назад +4

    How you both look at each other is couple goals 😍… infinite blessings for your union 🙏

  • @glamdawling
    @glamdawling 3 года назад

    *Re: how to find your soulmate conversation*
    When I was younger, I thought I knew what I wanted. But through dating and relationships, I learned some hard lessons about myself and realized that I had little to no idea. Now I’ve fine tuned what I want and I’m excited for the possibility of attracting exactly that in a new partner.
    I saved this video to my favorites. I love what you and Stefan are saying!

  • @erikjaircontreras
    @erikjaircontreras 3 года назад +14

    tatiana is perfect; smart, beautiful, intelligent.

    • @34OLD
      @34OLD 3 года назад

      No ones perfect lol

    • @SD-dn6uh
      @SD-dn6uh 3 года назад +1

      No one is perfect is an excuse .we just improve ourselves and become better version of ourselves . This is my view

  • @75Cee
    @75Cee 2 года назад

    You guys are making me cry. I have rarely heard such beauty. Thank you.

  • @shivana1552
    @shivana1552 3 года назад +6

    Already enjoying this!!! LOVE YOUR VIDEOS you have inspired me to live that entrepreneur life

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  3 года назад

      Awesome! Keep me updated with your progress and enjoy the video

  • @Daisylilly_
    @Daisylilly_ 3 года назад +4

    Here for the newly weds 💕🧚🏼‍♀️💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
    Been here since Stefan when he explained how you met and Tatiana s first video which she deleted 😁so happy you made it this far and for thanks for the value you bring to us I learnt a lot from the 2 of you 💙

  • @efsuna9186
    @efsuna9186 3 года назад +2

    I really needed to hear these things, very grateful that you shared this with the world. Thank you!

  • @annarose2860
    @annarose2860 3 года назад +1

    Really cool to hear someone's advice on keeping a healthy relationship with the person you love the most.
    Nice to see something different on your channel we definitely need more of your words 🌼🌼💓

  • @sophiakelley4408
    @sophiakelley4408 3 года назад

    I love this! Thank you for sharing your love and giving us a sneak peek into what makes a relationship grow, I cannot wait to meet my person and implement your teachings!

  • @brittnietapia3555
    @brittnietapia3555 9 месяцев назад

    This is the best video I’ve seen on long term relationships!

  • @juliejulz320
    @juliejulz320 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing such priceless content. The stuff that needs to be taught to young teens and young adults. Ideally working on yourself like Stefan said. This is the work you put in before marriage, during dating, lay the foundation brick by brick. Thank you both for sharing your journey.❤

  • @sararodriguesinez
    @sararodriguesinez 3 года назад +1

    If a person is suffering there is something in there that needs care. You should read reich and learn about the five stages of forming your personality. You can take yourself from pain, but never change who you are. That's the most beautiful thing. Accept yourself, negotiate with yourself. You guys to that just talk and respect each other.

  • @jamilaaissi7093
    @jamilaaissi7093 3 года назад +3

    How do I know if the relationship not working, if he's the one or not

  • @queencoraflora
    @queencoraflora 2 года назад

    Wow I am LOVING your videos!! I feel you both and appreciate the Radiance of Wisdom, in harmony with the Honesty around Humanness. Super inspiring on many Levels. Thanks so much for making these videos and being Who You Are! I LOVE your LOVE. :)

  • @christnimrod6368
    @christnimrod6368 Год назад

    Amazing. Congratulations Stefan and LOVELY Tatiana on your LOVING MARRIAGE. :)

  • @kaywoodparsons1874
    @kaywoodparsons1874 3 года назад +1

    My wife and I do Date Night once a month and reserve B& B or Air B & B. We have a ton of fun!

  • @luciddreamer11
    @luciddreamer11 3 года назад

    Brilliant that both of you are showing up so honestly. I love it, and I learn so much from both of you. I focus 100% on my business and feel so impressed by those who have both a great relationship AND are super successful in business. (Maybe one day I'll understand that it actually IS possible also for me.) Cheers!

  • @Fashionista239
    @Fashionista239 3 года назад

    You are both so inspiring and well spoken! I learned a lot from your video thank you! ✨✨✨

  • @SomiFitBossNG
    @SomiFitBossNG 3 года назад +2

    My favorite couple right here. Amazing humans both of you

  • @ΑφροδιτηΤρομπουκη
    @ΑφροδιτηΤρομπουκη 3 года назад

    I really love your content Tatiana you are incredible together!! Could you do a separate video about how can we find high value men? ❤️🙏

  • @rroman2752
    @rroman2752 3 года назад

    replayed while on the treadmill...Loved this video!!!

  • @amenet8777
    @amenet8777 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful couple
    I love the pearls of wisdom i feel that alot of relationships could benefit from this.

    • @amenet8777
      @amenet8777 3 года назад

      Some points i wrote that may benefit others
      what can you do better to meet your partners needs
      - Whats great about our relationship
      - What do you appreciate about your partner
      - Weekly meeting without distractions to rate relationship
      - Reflect on magic moments
      - Meet your own needs personally
      - Fill your own cup up
      - Law of attraction- what do you want gain clarity on that
      - Non negotiable things
      - Who do i need to become to attract that
      - Who is best version of myself that i can become

  • @SharnixAkosua
    @SharnixAkosua 3 года назад

    Aww! You guys are such a power couple👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻. It’s so beautiful!

  • @marianadavila323
    @marianadavila323 3 года назад +1

    This was awesome, thank you!

  • @sujatadongre99
    @sujatadongre99 2 года назад

    Best relationship guidance ever! Thanks to the couple.

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 года назад

      So glad you liked the video! Thanks for warching

  • @SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets
    @SallyAlexandriaAlexParakeets 3 года назад +1

    Congrats. Good video. Happy autumn.

  • @HannahM21487
    @HannahM21487 3 года назад

    Loved this!! I took notes!

  • @kintuinka
    @kintuinka 2 года назад

    I love your relationship videos please more of those! I see u live what i allways have believe is a real and beautifull relationship and isnpires me to keep believing is posible

  • @melarc4560
    @melarc4560 3 года назад +1

    Awesome info! 🤗

  • @yosrayari9555
    @yosrayari9555 3 года назад +1

    I loved all the quetions and your replies are so informative, You're such a great couple i love u both aloooot

  • @ronaldo19832
    @ronaldo19832 3 года назад +1

    Stefan is a lucky guy… so is Tatiana

  • @Kintsugi97
    @Kintsugi97 2 года назад

    Definitely loved this

  • @krysk5868
    @krysk5868 3 года назад

    Amazing video. Thank you for creating this 🙏

  • @Sharifa466
    @Sharifa466 3 года назад

    Thank you two for this! 🙏

  • @brendavaladez4074
    @brendavaladez4074 3 года назад

    Totally Unrelated to this video but I am wondering if the ASM course is still available through you at the moment ?

  • @tugitime
    @tugitime 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for this

  • @zamzamomar5368
    @zamzamomar5368 3 года назад

    I appreciate if you make video on your social life for example about your friends and how you enjoy your life with them and how you make balance between social life and your work life

  • @emtanaka5892
    @emtanaka5892 3 года назад

    Such a good video!

  • @stephmacedo139
    @stephmacedo139 3 года назад

    Please share your journal!! Great video!

  • @UnitedChristians.Academy
    @UnitedChristians.Academy 3 года назад

    Fantastic! Thank you

  • @mrandmrscorona8658
    @mrandmrscorona8658 3 года назад

    These are all great tips … might check out your other videos

  • @itouchtheskyilovetrentino
    @itouchtheskyilovetrentino 3 года назад

    I am a great fan of both of you. Cheers from the top of the mountain.

  • @aleikah
    @aleikah 3 года назад

    Very true! I love this!!!

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 3 года назад +1

    My role models!

  • @lianap1147
    @lianap1147 3 года назад

    Beautiful couple 👩‍❤️‍👨 I am happy for you two ⚘

  • @josephcoatofmanycolors
    @josephcoatofmanycolors 3 года назад +18

    When you both have GOD in your relationship, it will never fail.

  • @maryandjoseph7772
    @maryandjoseph7772 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video 🙏🏻

  • @justbeyou8433
    @justbeyou8433 3 года назад

    Wich for you all the best and a happy life together love you tatiana ❤

  • @AJay-rq9fc
    @AJay-rq9fc 2 года назад

    They are overachievers in business and in personal life dedicated hardworking

  • @adrianaantillonreal
    @adrianaantillonreal 3 года назад

    You guys are awesome! Yes, to attract a beautiful person, WE have to be that person first. Stefan, we all "women" take long! Haha! Joke :)

  • @yiddena
    @yiddena Месяц назад

    Solution Focused Brief Therapy .... On a scale of 1-10

  • @davidparnell1903
    @davidparnell1903 3 года назад +1

    Hi

  • @subhashnisarta3496
    @subhashnisarta3496 3 года назад

    So listening from you Lovely very soon and 💝🎗️🎁 thanks for your giving me your 🎁 opinion about getting good relationship with the partner no question about it, absolutely accept from both of you.and I am happy with your 🎁 relationship.thanks.

  • @Pcwerou
    @Pcwerou Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 2 года назад

    Relationships require more effort from the man than from the woman I believe or just that's how it seems

  • @foolishpassions3269
    @foolishpassions3269 3 года назад +4

    Is it okay to ask my partner to delete their social media completely so the opposite sex can't reach her when she uses it for keeping in touch with frienships?

    • @kneecoal1257
      @kneecoal1257 3 года назад +6

      you can talk with her about it, but i would check out stefan’s video on jealousy and maybe it will bring you some peace of mind. asking her to delete social media purely because you can’t handle interactions with the opposite sex is a big red flag (in my eyes) you don’t want to control your partner because that’s not love. make sure your ego is in check and you trust her

    • @ameliagray1618
      @ameliagray1618 3 года назад +8

      No work on your insecurities

    • @josephcoatofmanycolors
      @josephcoatofmanycolors 3 года назад +2

      Don’t do that, you will be controlling her at that point and that’s the beginning of failed relationship, unless you don’t trust her then call it off now.

    • @liveyoureveryminute7728
      @liveyoureveryminute7728 3 года назад

      My answer would be let her know it bothers you ... but no more. If she won't stop or hides the communications then perhaps she should be in a relationship by herself. You should never control her but you only accept what you are willing to, and if it becomes too much, move on. She won't change for you if pressured only for love.. Good luck.

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 3 года назад +1

      What?!

  • @jobunny919
    @jobunny919 Год назад

    I think it's pretty easy to stay in love with one of the hottest chicks in the world lol