I always remember you saying this over and over the years. That man saw you. He's either taken or not interested. Keep it moving. Thirsty is never a good look. Plus Many Men aren't very forgiving and are super judgemental with a lot of double standards. They will take whatever you are offering and still judge you for it. They'll convince themselves that you do it all the time to different men even if that's your first time, are lose and they will hardly take you seriously unless they have something to gain e.g money. Plus once you set that precedent , you enter ur masculine energy and have to chase it lead all through. Don't do it ladies. Not worth it.
Amen! You don't have to ever have to make the move on a man first...all you gotta do is the three B's and prepare and position yourself and your man will come for you. Be blessed.
Of my friends/family where the woman approached the man first and it led to marriage, all of this relationships were female dominated and eventually they divorced because the man eventually felt like the prize in the relationship
God Bless You!! Thank you for teaching and preaching this powerful true word! God know he be using you in the lives of his daughters! Blessings to You and Your Queen!
I was once in a club with a man I later fell in love with and a woman was literally circling him. But he only ever looked at me. Later I found out he was/is/head over heels for me.
Be Blessed Tony! You are the best and I am grateful to know you and have the ability to listen to your ‘free’ sermons from God! Women, like Tony says, please don’t be chasing the men! Tony knows what he is talking about..❤️🙏🏼
Be blessed ✨ I just asked a guy if he’s single on Instagram 😂 but I also asked this popular whose a comedian when he’s coming back to Minneapolis, somewhat innocent, and replied “soon…” and also said he thought I was cute when he saw me at his show but I was with a guy (friend)😅 so that one worked in my favor.
I hear alot of men/women encourage women to give the good man a shot and while I understand that "yes ladies you want a genuinely good man 😁" the problem is that our need for connection/chemistry is often ignored. Just because he is a genuinely good man doesn't mean he's the man for said woman. Do you believe women should ignore their need for chemistry/connection?
Absolutely. My ex is a good man and that’s why I excused so much and went through unnecessary pain. We are ready for different things. I appreciate all the good he gave and gives but it’s not enough.
Thank you! I’m sorry but you need to like your partner genuinely and not bc he is a good man! I get that they are limited but how do you continue a life with someone that gives you no desire?? O yeah “ learn to love him” is what the older generation said! No thanks but I choose me! Both ppl should genuinely like each other
My God!!! My God!!! You shook the table with this Tony. I'm going to listen to this again. Thank you for the wisdom you constantly share. Question on Instagram, I have folks that request to follow me or message me and they will have 300 followers, 300 following and 2, 10, and 16 posts 🥴🧐🤔 are their real people or bots 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ my goal is to careful as well.
I'm not posting him or allowing him to post me. Just cause to many issues 🥴 I made him listen to you yesterday. He wasn't agreeing to anything.Oh well I'm team Gaskins.We will continue to watch you!
@@shakenia54 that's good. It's weird if someone rejects Tony's messages but I guess it does depend on what message he listened to. Some days Tony has a great message and other days his message is off.
Lol Men don't know how to receive Tony's messages. Probably because he reads men like a book.They automatically reject him instead listening and growing
Thank you for your videos! May GOD continue to bless you and your wife and family! You have really helped me in my life! Keep doing what GOD has called you to do! 💕💕💕
I'm going to be a coach one day as well. I'm in the healing process and I believe that GOD is calling me to help coach others with my testimony! Please pray for me and thank you and your Queen for being a part of my life! GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Be blessed 🙏I love this video so much, so much validation I needed to hear from a good man. I agree with the no photos of his woman. Even if he’s not actively seeking another woman, his heart still isn’t fully in which means there’s a chance for break up and moving on and eventually will be with another woman. It’s not solidified. You’re right. Perfectly said, I couldn’t find the words, thanks Tony! Saving this for future reference:) I don’t have an active instagram account and I’m not interested in social media so I’m probably going to continue being single. I’ve done match but took a couple years to find someone, who ended up being my fiancé and then found out he cheated, and had no prior red flags at all- that was the hardest relationship I’ve ever walked away from and left a scar. It makes me sad to think about being alone for so long, but I’m in my 30’s, not into drinking, I don’t go to church, and friends at this age are busy with their families and not trying to play Cupid. The men that are single that I know of, I’m told “are single for a reason”. It’s just hard to meet a serious man for long term commitment and marriage. I’m busy with my own teens and pets but I need an adult companion too. If you’ve read all this, thank you :) 🙏 just feeling a bit lonely this holiday season and needed to share (why with the world? I’m not sure, possibly to avoid overburdening my friends).
Single for a reason could mean they are also very intentional about waiting for their own good thing as well. Never give up hope. It happens mostly when we aren't looking. Keep the faith. Sending you hugs this season. ❤️🤗
Very sorry you are going through this. Know that you are not alone and it is normal to feel the way you do. Although you are not go to church, I find that our greatest hope is in the word of God. You are not a mistake and the desire you have for a companion is normal and out there by God. The Bible says that God gives us the desires of our hearts. Believe, keep hope alive, be positive minded and enjoy your life as a single person. I would like to invite you to join our singles community for encouragement: facebook.com/groups/867747304400490/?ref=share&fs=e&s=cl
Oreos are so gorgeous though 🤣 I’m so white I glow in the dark lol. Before my Dad died, I learned that he also was most attracted to very dark skinned women..now I wonder if who we are attracted to is also partially genetic. Just a thought. I’ve matured and now don’t date based on skin color, I think most people date mostly based on instant physical attraction when they’re younger and then we learn to stop objectifying eachother and find attraction in someone character vs appearance.
Tony!!!!! Well sometimes the Woman doesn’t want to have their relationship out there, you don’t have to put all your business on Social media. I know how haters work, so no I would never post my Man nor would I want to be on his page.. Until we say “I do”
My apologies however, I disagree. As a God fearing woman you don’t need to consciously place your self anywhere, because when God is doing the work, that man is going to find you no matter what you do. God’s will is for women to be sold out to him entirely until he sends you the man best befitted for you. If you want go spiritually deeper, God has already done it. The manifestation however, is according to his WILL, which will happen when you gain revelation of his word.
Good point. However when I think further on this God has created us to be social beings, to network, to influence, to GO and make disciples. Our lives as Christians is about making a difference in people’s lives. Which tells me that to meet my partner I have to be active, I have to play my part by being around other people so my partner can see me and meet me. Networking is also fine on social media.
In Bethlehem, Ruth sustained herself and her mother-in-law by gleaning kernels from the barley harvest. One day, she met the owner of a field named Boaz, who received her kindly. Not because Ruth was “social” Ruth was actually in the field not looking for anything. I encourage you to read Gods word to it’s entirety. Allow God to do the work while YOU focus on the lord. God thoughts are not our thoughts and his ways are not our ways. @@christiansabstainingformar8079
PSA TO MY STRAIGHT SISTER QUEENS 👑: I'm a WHOLE masculine centered Lesbian and heterosexual men stay jumping in my DMs and getting BLOCKED 🚫 so I know this is true. LMBO 😂
What are your thoughts about this Tony? I know this man we know each other and we dated intensely for over two and a half months strong connection even told each other I love you. We had a couple of misunderstandings that we talked through. But, now I'm being ghosted. I reached out a couple of times by phone and even sent a letter. It's been weeks now. I feel like our connection was genuine. In your opinion do you think he could be processing and will come back? Should I wait or be more forward and reach out again? Thanks.
Girl he ain’t processing. He probably had something else with another woman goin on. No matter what it is, he doesn’t value you or what y’all had, or else he wouldn’t have done it. From woman to woman, I say this lovingly: do yourself a favor and move on. You don’t deserve anyone who would treat you like that.
Please, I am begging you in the name of God, do not wait or reach out, you gonna be heartbroken for no reason. Move on with your life. He doesn’t love, you’re just projecting at this level.
Tony, help answer this question. If a man sees her beauty and tells her child, "He's sorry, but he wants to get between her thighs." Am I wrong for saying that's all he wants?
Most times when people try to segregate you it's not a good thing, what doesn't he want you to know? What do those women know about him that he doesn't want to filter back to you....plus once you're segregated one is vulnerable to abuse
@@nikkyshamz2696 Thank you sister for your feedback, I thought it was because he liked me and and wanted to keep me separate from others. We don't speak either
Ok I’ve got something to say…someone please answer me. Why is it that God wouldn’t send you a man that’s not going to approach you but God often does men who approach us but turn out to be complete monsters. Why does God let bad ppl have us but never the ones we desire?
The world belongs to the devil and so you will find more evil than good in this world. Be patient, live in the Spirit, continue to hope and seek God and one day it will happen for you. Join our Facebook community: facebook.com/groups/867747304400490/?ref=share&fs=e&s=cl
I was thinking the same thing. The channel is from Dubai. I do not think they have permission to be taking other people's content and posting it for likes and the come up! I quickly unliked!
I always remember you saying this over and over the years. That man saw you. He's either taken or not interested. Keep it moving. Thirsty is never a good look.
Plus Many Men aren't very forgiving and are super judgemental with a lot of double standards. They will take whatever you are offering and still judge you for it. They'll convince themselves that you do it all the time to different men even if that's your first time, are lose and they will hardly take you seriously unless they have something to gain e.g money.
Plus once you set that precedent , you enter ur masculine energy and have to chase it lead all through. Don't do it ladies. Not worth it.
Average and uglier (sorry God,) men will try but good looking, well put-together men will pause because there's a ego risk there though.
Amen! You don't have to ever have to make the move on a man first...all you gotta do is the three B's and prepare and position yourself and your man will come for you. Be blessed.
Be blessed
What are the 3 B's?
Body, Brain, Brand (your focus/business…..
Of my friends/family where the woman approached the man first and it led to marriage, all of this relationships were female dominated and eventually they divorced because the man eventually felt like the prize in the relationship
Yup! Let the man lead always! Women mother and dominate their men too much. They leave and find more feminine women because polarity is there.
"LISTEN TO MEEE!"
Be Blessed!
Be Blessed 🙋🏽♀️
Be Blessed.
I always knew this. These new women out here talkin bout “approach himm!” 🙄 just f****n it up for the rest of us
You are telling the truth Tony thank you for your transparency
God bless Tony and his wonderful family! He changed my life 🙏🏼🤲🏼☀️
Tony, thank you. You puttin me on game!
God Bless You!! Thank you for teaching and preaching this powerful true word!
God know he be using you in the lives of his daughters! Blessings to You and Your Queen!
Thank You Tony for this wisdom.
Be BLESSED 🙌
20:28...You talking STRAIGHT to me!!! Letting it go 2022!!
Be Blessed!!!!! Be blessed my brother
Be blessed 💙
💎 Be Blessed
I was once in a club with a man I later fell in love with and a woman was literally circling him. But he only ever looked at me. Later I found out he was/is/head over heels for me.
Needed this! This was 100% truth and made so much sense!
the peri-AUD kills me every time 😂
Be Blessed
You had me laughing at the end with the Oreo in the milk. 😂
I've never believed in shy men if they like you enough either. It's a cope we tell ourselves. He's just not into you.
I’m blessed every time I watch your videos Tony. Thanks for what you do!
“Be Blessed “, ❤life lessons learned are so important. I celebrate 🎊 & appreciate your gifts to Humanity 😊.
Mary J, NC USA 🇺🇸
Be Blessed and thank you Tony. You are that good wisdom to keep us women within our right mind space. 🙏🏾
Be Blessed Tony! You are the best and I am grateful to know you and have the ability to listen to your ‘free’ sermons from God! Women, like Tony says, please don’t be chasing the men! Tony knows what he is talking about..❤️🙏🏼
Something is telling me Mr.Tony will be on the Dear future Wifey Podcast! Can't wait!😌
Be blessed! Thank you for the reminder.
The way i needed to hear this 😵💫 be blessed!
Be Blessed !!
Be blessed. Thanks Tony for your wisdom. I appreciate you
Be blessed...men definitely have eyes to see even if their vision is far from 20/20 😃
Be Blessed, and thank you for continuing to share.
Be blessed,Im so blessed,Amen
God bless you brother Gaskins. def this is Gods calling for you for us Single ppl
Be blessed 🙌🏼
Be blessed ✨ I just asked a guy if he’s single on Instagram 😂 but I also asked this popular whose a comedian when he’s coming back to Minneapolis, somewhat innocent, and replied “soon…” and also said he thought I was cute when he saw me at his show but I was with a guy (friend)😅 so that one worked in my favor.
Good notes to take
Thank you and be blessed.
Thank you for sharing this information it was needed
Be blessed! This was a good word of wisdom. God bless y’all
I hear alot of men/women encourage women to give the good man a shot and while I understand that "yes ladies you want a genuinely good man 😁" the problem is that our need for connection/chemistry is often ignored. Just because he is a genuinely good man doesn't mean he's the man for said woman. Do you believe women should ignore their need for chemistry/connection?
Absolutely. My ex is a good man and that’s why I excused so much and went through unnecessary pain. We are ready for different things. I appreciate all the good he gave and gives but it’s not enough.
Thank you! I’m sorry but you need to like your partner genuinely and not bc he is a good man! I get that they are limited but how do you continue a life with someone that gives you no desire?? O yeah “ learn to love him” is what the older generation said! No thanks but I choose me! Both ppl should genuinely like each other
There should be a balance!
@@christiansabstainingformar8079 as well it should! I absolutely agree with you! It’s a 50-50 thing
Faccccts
Be Blessed 🙏🏽 thank u Tony
BE BLESSED
Be blessed!! ❤
Be blessed!🙏🏽
Be blessed thanks for the knowledge
Be blessed, wonderful message!
Be blessed 🙌🏾 Thanks for the knowledge king!
Be blessed Thank you for the inspiration!
WORD
Thank you tony I needed to hear that please be blessed.
Already knew it. Men don’t post their woman bc they’re still hunting for other women
Be blessed Mr. Gaskins. I appreciate your content.
Be blessed!!
Be Blessed...This is good.
Thank you this was very enlightening. You r needed out here for sure😊
This is such a good message! Thanks Tony!!
Be blessed! Great message Tony!!
Thank you.
Thank You Tony! God Bless You!
Be Blessed 🙏🏾💯
be blessed
Be blessed
Be blessed!
My God!!! My God!!! You shook the table with this Tony. I'm going to listen to this again. Thank you for the wisdom you constantly share. Question on Instagram, I have folks that request to follow me or message me and they will have 300 followers, 300 following and 2, 10, and 16 posts 🥴🧐🤔 are their real people or bots 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ my goal is to careful as well.
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I'm not posting him or allowing him to post me. Just cause to many issues 🥴
I made him listen to you yesterday. He wasn't agreeing to anything.Oh well I'm team Gaskins.We will continue to watch you!
Is your man a player?
No not at all
@@shakenia54 that's good. It's weird if someone rejects Tony's messages but I guess it does depend on what message he listened to. Some days Tony has a great message and other days his message is off.
Lol Men don't know how to receive
Tony's messages. Probably because
he reads men like a book.They automatically reject him instead listening and growing
Thank you for your videos! May GOD continue to bless you and your wife and family! You have really helped me in my life! Keep doing what GOD has called you to do! 💕💕💕
I'm going to be a coach one day as well. I'm in the healing process and I believe that GOD is calling me to help coach others with my testimony! Please pray for me and thank you and your Queen for being a part of my life! GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Be blessed❤
Be blessed 🙏I love this video so much, so much validation I needed to hear from a good man. I agree with the no photos of his woman. Even if he’s not actively seeking another woman, his heart still isn’t fully in which means there’s a chance for break up and moving on and eventually will be with another woman. It’s not solidified. You’re right. Perfectly said, I couldn’t find the words, thanks Tony! Saving this for future reference:)
I don’t have an active instagram account and I’m not interested in social media so I’m probably going to continue being single. I’ve done match but took a couple years to find someone, who ended up being my fiancé and then found out he cheated, and had no prior red flags at all- that was the hardest relationship I’ve ever walked away from and left a scar. It makes me sad to think about being alone for so long, but I’m in my 30’s, not into drinking, I don’t go to church, and friends at this age are busy with their families and not trying to play Cupid. The men that are single that I know of, I’m told “are single for a reason”. It’s just hard to meet a serious man for long term commitment and marriage. I’m busy with my own teens and pets but I need an adult companion too. If you’ve read all this, thank you :) 🙏 just feeling a bit lonely this holiday season and needed to share (why with the world? I’m not sure, possibly to avoid overburdening my friends).
Single for a reason could mean they are also very intentional about waiting for their own good thing as well. Never give up hope. It happens mostly when we aren't looking. Keep the faith. Sending you hugs this season. ❤️🤗
@@nikkyshamz2696
So sweet of you Nikky, thank you :)
Happy holidays to you!
@@SS-in1ts thank you ❤️🤗
Very sorry you are going through this. Know that you are not alone and it is normal to feel the way you do. Although you are not go to church, I find that our greatest hope is in the word of God. You are not a mistake and the desire you have for a companion is normal and out there by God. The Bible says that God gives us the desires of our hearts. Believe, keep hope alive, be positive minded and enjoy your life as a single person.
I would like to invite you to join our singles community for encouragement:
facebook.com/groups/867747304400490/?ref=share&fs=e&s=cl
Oreos are so gorgeous though 🤣
I’m so white I glow in the dark lol.
Before my Dad died, I learned that he also was most attracted to very dark skinned women..now I wonder if who we are attracted to is also partially genetic. Just a thought. I’ve matured and now don’t date based on skin color, I think most people date mostly based on instant physical attraction when they’re younger and then we learn to stop objectifying eachother and find attraction in someone character vs appearance.
Tony!!!!! Well sometimes the Woman doesn’t want to have their relationship out there, you don’t have to put all your business on Social media. I know how haters work, so no I would never post my Man nor would I want to be on his page.. Until we say “I do”
Wh n bad things happen I get loud and mad ! How to calm that down
Develop emotional intelligence. Read about it and practice is…recommended book ruclips.net/video/7BBDj4_YfkQ/видео.html
21:33 🔥
Amen 🙏🏽
This was helpful 😂
My apologies however, I disagree. As a God fearing woman you don’t need to consciously place your self anywhere, because when God is doing the work, that man is going to find you no matter what you do. God’s will is for women to be sold out to him entirely until he sends you the man best befitted for you. If you want go spiritually deeper, God has already done it. The manifestation however, is according to his WILL, which will happen when you gain revelation of his word.
Good point. However when I think further on this God has created us to be social beings, to network, to influence, to GO and make disciples. Our lives as Christians is about making a difference in people’s lives. Which tells me that to meet my partner I have to be active, I have to play my part by being around other people so my partner can see me and meet me. Networking is also fine on social media.
In Bethlehem, Ruth sustained herself and her mother-in-law by gleaning kernels from the barley harvest. One day, she met the owner of a field named Boaz, who received her kindly.
Not because Ruth was “social” Ruth was actually in the field not looking for anything. I encourage you to read Gods word to it’s entirety. Allow God to do the work while YOU focus on the lord. God thoughts are not our thoughts and his ways are not our ways.
@@christiansabstainingformar8079
PSA TO MY STRAIGHT SISTER QUEENS 👑: I'm a WHOLE masculine centered Lesbian and heterosexual men stay jumping in my DMs and getting BLOCKED 🚫 so I know this is true. LMBO 😂
Loll I think God has me hidden, which is ok
Lol be blessed
Hi! Can you give in-site on husbands choosing everyone and everything but their wife. But "he loves you"
I am sorry if this is happening to you! Please visit the link in the description for more information.
Aren't a lot of men nowadays meeting women on social media and through online dating and approaching in person a little less.
Social media is an aspect of connecting and networking similar to in-person networking. Online dating is another thing all together!
What are your thoughts about this Tony? I know this man we know each other and we dated intensely for over two and a half months strong connection even told each other I love you. We had a couple of misunderstandings that we talked through. But, now I'm being ghosted. I reached out a couple of times by phone and even sent a letter. It's been weeks now. I feel like our connection was genuine. In your opinion do you think he could be processing and will come back? Should I wait or be more forward and reach out again? Thanks.
Girl he ain’t processing. He probably had something else with another woman goin on. No matter what it is, he doesn’t value you or what y’all had, or else he wouldn’t have done it. From woman to woman, I say this lovingly: do yourself a favor and move on. You don’t deserve anyone who would treat you like that.
Sorry to say this, but the thrill is gone. Do yourself a favor and move on… he surely has. Much love 💕
Please, I am begging you in the name of God, do not wait or reach out, you gonna be heartbroken for no reason. Move on with your life. He doesn’t love, you’re just projecting at this level.
Watch this video
Ghosting Versus the Silent Treatment | Tony Gaskins
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Lol @ point blank and peri-awd hahha
So true about men & their social media & photos of their girlfriend not being posted .
So lame.
😂
@Tony Gaskins are they stealing your content??
Please kindly read the description. Thank you 🙏🏽
Tony, help answer this question. If a man sees her beauty and tells her child, "He's sorry, but he wants to get between her thighs." Am I wrong for saying that's all he wants?
Thank you for your question and for supporting our channel. Please kindly visit the description to get information on Tony.
Be blessed!
And if you like his pictures and he likes the woman pictures back but he never sent her a message ???
Hi,
What if he segregated you from other women?
Segregating anyone is not a good thing!
Most times when people try to segregate you it's not a good thing, what doesn't he want you to know? What do those women know about him that he doesn't want to filter back to you....plus once you're segregated one is vulnerable to abuse
@@nikkyshamz2696 Thank you sister for your feedback, I thought it was because he liked me and and wanted to keep me separate from others. We don't speak either
@@semanisa9611 ❤️❤️
Online dating could work as well though, Tony. It is VERY tough....but it does occasionally happen.. .
Yes, it does sometimes!
@@christiansabstainingformar8079 💯 agree .
Ok I’ve got something to say…someone please answer me. Why is it that God wouldn’t send you a man that’s not going to approach you but God often does men who approach us but turn out to be complete monsters. Why does God let bad ppl have us but never the ones we desire?
The world belongs to the devil and so you will find more evil than good in this world. Be patient, live in the Spirit, continue to hope and seek God and one day it will happen for you.
Join our Facebook community:
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Is this channel stealing his content??
No, read the description 🙏🏽
@@christiansabstainingformar8079 did you get his permission ? That should be annotated
I was thinking the same thing. The channel is from Dubai. I do not think they have permission to be taking other people's content and posting it for likes and the come up! I quickly unliked!
@@christiansabstainingformar8079 make your own content to help singles out!
Hey women have options.
But if you have history with the man. I don't see nothing wrong with letting him know you digging on him!
Mmmmmmm…….
NOT!
Never take advice from a guy sitting in his car.... haven't y'all learned 🤣🤣🤣
Not Gaskins... chill
There’s more than 2 reasons why he wouldn’t approach. Thats made up lol
Yes, there are many reasons, these are just two of them 😊
Are you really taking others content??? I’m telling!!
Please kindly read the description. Thank you 🙏🏽