This Is Why Black Women Do The Right Things For The Wrong Men pt.2
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- She falls into that trap often. Doing all the things she thinks is right for all the wrong men makes her bitter, but it's avoidable and I'll explain how.
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My name is Kendra (my government name), but I’m also known around the Black Manosphere as DJ Fish Grease. That’s because I COOK, and I’m talking DEEP FRY, the foolishness that goes on in our communities. I’m really not a mean person, I just have a low tolerance for people, groups or institutions that play games with the lives of people I love. Like many of you, I fought the clutches of feminism (by extension, the gynocracy) all my life and I have happily supported Red Pill men throughout my lifetime (my father, husband, son, family members and friends.) I consider myself a Red Pill woman since birth. I was in a 20 year marriage before my husband passed away. He and I raised two children together (I have no biological kids, I raised my brother and sister practically from birth.) I belonged to a local Baptist Church but converted to Islam at the age of 18 - so I have a connection and a strong knowledge of both. I currently live in Chicago with family, not the good part unfortunately :-( …Go Bears!
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Black women will trick off an entire decade, their 20’s, but time is critical. 🤷🏾♂️
I am woman enough to admit I did ALL of this at one point in time. Thanks for giving the mindset and mental process definition and WORDS - the importance of this to me and many other women can't be said enough.
Peace to you sister. I have a question and it's with love in my heart. I am asking this question due to I have girls. Why was you doing these things. What was you looking at. Did you think about anything outside of you and how did you pursue yourself to be that why? Again thank you and be blessed
@@shadeedmuhammad8107 I welcome the question. I did this when I was younger (18-27), likely for the following reasons:
1. Didn't grow up with a consistent guiding male presence. Dad and Mom never married, he wasn't present. Grandfather was there, but he was a man of very few words - no man ever told me what to look for, how to vet men - nothing.
2. Mom never married - not a lot of guidance on vetting men either.
3. Lacked confidence to use my voice and ask the tough questions. I thought I was lucky to get what I got.
4. No thoughts on the future. None. Just thought I "was too young" to get so serious about any of this life stuff.
5. Generations of feminism in my ear. I was raised by some very powerful women who, while they taught me a decent amount about being a feminine woman, did not encourage me to lean into it at all.
Around 27, I began to realize what I actually DID want, that I was not making good decisions AT ALL and I honestly had no clue why that was. Unfortunately, I'd brought a son into the world as a single parent (product of a long term relationship). I "put myself in a corner" for three years while I went to law school and did the internal work. I met my now husband at 31 and have continued on this spiritual and feminine journey. I now have two daughters and another son, all of whom will have a much firmer grasp of these things than I did!
Hope this helped :)
@@sheisLD Yes it did thank you sister!
I have done the same thing as well I regret many mistakes and thank you for your honesty
"How dare you give me structure and boundaries?!" Thank-you very much, Ms. Kendra. They say, "Controlled" or "Controlling". They want wanton Freedom with no Responsibilities, Accountability, and Consequences. They don't want to be Adults and Mature. Pure Chaos.
Facts!!!!
This Black Woman has the Cure for our Black Male and Female Relationship issues! Sisters y’all need to stop fighting her and listen!!!👊🏾
Women these days think it's OK to have Honda and Toyota mileage. I remember my Pops telling me before he passed: "We live in a nation of hoes, Son."
I am guilty of all of these behaviors with my ex-husband. We were together in a trauma bond off and on from when I was 15yo to 28yo. My father was very strict and very structured. So subconsciously I rebelled and got with my ex who had no father at home, was unruly, and had zero discipline or structure.
No one ever held me accountable for my choice to be with an abusive f-boy. I had low self esteem during that period of my life and saw myself as low as I saw him.
But when God showed me my true value and the light in 2014, I finally left him for good, got into therapy and began my lioness training. I’m so glad I found this channel!!! It’s helped me so much.
I love this!! With no woman giving me correct guidance I had to learn the hard way. Thank you ma’am ❤️
Clinically the best truth on a platform I've ever seen for this particular issue!!
Kendra your info. Should be mandatory n our households n in our classrooms
I be hollering she is hitting home every time
As a black man from Newark NJ you are the honest truth and may god continue to bless you because a lot if sisters pick the worst brothers that are broken
Avon Ave up in here...##Salute she spits nothing but truth.
I got my paper my notebook my pen my pencil in case I make mistakes I can erase and redo this assignment cuz teacher old teacher you teaching and cooking all at the same time 😂😃😃😂
When Some of these women going to hold theirselves Accountable for thing????
This was a Powerful Video
Unfortunately, very little conversation, planning or strategy is implemented in our households effective enough to prepare our young women for a successful future based on the XLV System. Too many of us are jumping into "situationships" because of the spirit of FEAR, along with other spirits.
I know black people are not turning to love. Which would solve this.
I'm 26 and I can admit that I've experienced most of the things you're talking about. I moved in with a men at a young age and had a child with him. When it came time for him to buy the ring like we agreed he started complaining. I was bitter about this for 3years until I dound Kevin Samuels channel and realized that I was the cause of my problems. I've been learning a lot of things and continue to do so.
I am asking out of curiosity, my ex, and I pretty much went through this same thing. She thought that time and a baby would get her a ring, but she wasn't showing she would be a good wife, so I never married her, and I'm sure she that bothered her, but she never worked on the things she needed to work on to become a good wife. Why do women think time and a baby warrants marriage?
If your childhood broke u, u gotta fix that. I got chsrged with her brokenness to fix. I never allowed my childhood to dictate who i became in life. It took too much of my energy and it became exhausting. 15yrs, 4 girls and we just split in January. Still don't want to face the truth of who she is and put in the work and put it into action.
I went through this 20 years ago, and I left and I knew better the next time I’m married with 4 children and loving it and it didn’t take relationship after relationship to figure it out. I had to look in the mirror and found my husband two years later I’m blessed and I was intelligent enough to pick right the second time around.
She can sing . Her tones and pitches be on point. I thought that was mike for real lol. Good lecture today
Kendra you the Cure for Real .
Sounds like what my ex did to me left me for a man that has been the same since we were in school together
Not the Pipes! 😍👀 Crimson & the Cures!
My condolences also for the young man everyone that knew him family friends
What's happening is they are falling in love with the problem.
This information you talk about should be in books 📚
Two can play that game, think like a man, shows like this also destroying the family structure.
Please Sistas listen to the knowledge that Ms.kendra is teaching.
Kendra they wait for the dance before they hit the 👍 button.
Great Topic
Sadly so many women believe their own lie. I mean how long does it take for you to work on yourself?
RIP Mr. Carroll.
A part of the issue is control. It's easy to feel in control of a relationship when she is in a relationship with a bum.
I have seen this situation first hand. Women that didn't want any accountability seek men who CAN'T hold them accountable.
I met a chick who thought she was a fixer, fixed a crackhead, then told others I was in drugs from @“The 10:51 Vitamin Shoppe”! Her friends thought she was saving me
Boop!!!! 💖💖💖💖💖
Your words help me throughout my day
Excellent content Kendra.
That's a Willy Lynch Slavery CURSE Sis' 😱🥱😮😯
Mcdonald's fries 🍟 😅🤣
Guys don't waste your time with women of such attitude you will regret it. They won't change, they will manipulate a show.
You ain't lying .
And that's because that's the only Olympics you don't have to train for LoL 😂
This is so accurate, point blank!
Damn this lady can cook .
Thank you.
Boop!!!
New subscriber here.
May he RIP . My condolences 🙏 to his family.
You are telling the truth.
Miss lady, I am going to marry you when I come in town. You speak words of wisdom! Because we have lost are path to GOD, this is the results.
The Cure! 🙌🏾
The original covering wasn't a scandalous rapper, a poor singing pop star or a stripper. Dad wasn't cool enough. You did it again Ms. Davis, I failed to notice how rightfully strict the original boundary was.
You need money as a tool but money should not control you and that's the problem that women don't understand today it must be a tool used to build legacy yet it's become a tool to destroy community and love.
Do fish grease back at it 🧕🏾
Kendra 😍😍😍
So I don't know what these women are today LoL 😂
Watch it !!!!!!
at this moment I'm a F19 t this point of my life I need to correct myself and be vetted with a proverbs 31
That's the Biblical definition of a good woman.
Bars 20 32 on
That's a good one the victim Olympics LoL 😂
The benefit scenario goes both ways I say! However, she's making valid points! As a brotha responding, please sista Kendra do a segment on how this plays in reverse as well! Meaningful relationships vs convenient arrangements! No Covenant these days, barely!
Go watch SheepStaySleepTV; her partner, on this
I guess they hyinas
I'm depressed by blac women
It’s hard to listen to this because people are not spiritual using worldly talking points to support their arguments and it never works you are all committing adultery and don’t even know it.
SMDH 😏! Seek Help...
Sister ,you got it twisted it's men that don't give women s*** and f*** them ,not the ones who give .I could agree with you up until this point but not this message. I heard this message until the end but I disagree with some points that you made. However this addresses some of the cognitive dissonance in men and women. I was formally a Muslim and I disagree with the narrative that you have to have preparation in terms of money for musilima. that is not how the Western marriage structure is set up and legally two individuals come together in close resemblance (of that which is in the Bible )to build a relationship and this is where the breakage comes from with religion and not knowing the common enemy we have.
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You could just as eassely be talking to men