Native American (Navajo) Teachings about the Mother-In-Law. And other in-laws.
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- Опубликовано: 7 янв 2024
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When most people think of their Mother-in-law they may not have those warm fuzzy feelings.
After watching this video those feelings may change.
See, in Navajo culture the in-laws are a protected class. The family rallies around them and makes sure they are not treated poorly.
But, in the case of the Son-in-law and Mother-in-law the dynamic is interesting. The two are never suppose to see each other.
Some even say the mother-in-law would wear a bell so the son-in-law knew when she was around.
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In an age where there's always nasty jokes about in-laws, it sure is refreshing to know how they are really to be treated. Thank you for teaching the Right Ways.
I remember what Wally is talking about.
I have the greatest respect for my brother in law. And we have been friends for over 65 years and counting. I remember when he would call for me. He would ask when my next days off will be. I would setup the days and I would come to his house. I never asked why. When he called. I was on my way to help.
Even to this day. He calls. I make myself available for his needs.
I also took care of my mother in law in her later years. She couldn't walk no more. I would carry her into the house. Get her bed setup. Made sure she was comfortable. I helped as much as I could before she passed on.
My wife took care of her mom till the very end. ❤
If people lived by these teachings, world would be a better place. Thank you for your wisdom.✨✨
I love hearing you laugh, Grandfather!
Maybe I will get more honorable in-laws in my next life. I love it when Wally is jocular. He is always delightful.
lol true
I'm a White guy watching from a different country and want to say *your ideas are very important* , thanks for your videos.
Could I ask which part of the world your watching from?
Much respect for this man
Thank you for creating this channel and sharing wisdom.
Everyone benefits from shared wisdom.
Thank you! Just love hearing about these traditions🪶🙏
My dad’s bumper sticker read…
“Happiness, is seeing a picture of your mother in law, on the back of a milk carton.”
(Grandma hated that sticker🤷♂️)
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Makes you laugh…, until you are one.
^Mother-in-law, not on the Milk Carton. Hahaha!
HA!
☆○• Thank You, for Wise, Thoughtful Words and Ideas.☆♡☆☆•❤
I never joked about my mother in law. She was the most wonderful woman i ever knew. I treated her with the greatest respect. I never question a task she wanted me to do. I always did what she wanted me to do.
I helped care for her up to the day she passed on. My mom and my mother in law were best friends also.
The family i married into have known each other for over 4 generations.
I truly appreciate your teachings 🙏🏼
Thank you precious gems of wisdom. 🤝
Thank you Grandfather!!! Thank you for sharing wisdom and love. Both are greatly needed ❤
Thank you for your kind words of my father Shidáʼí. I cherish our conversations and the lessons my dad gave me growing up. I miss him but carry his wisdom and love for everyone with me everyday.
Love when he speaks his native tongue
Real then real😊
Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. I just wish ou ancestors would have listened to the first nations peoples sooner.
Thank you grandfather ❤
Thank you 😊❤🙏💝
👍🙏>>>💚~~~ Thank You
Amazing how much of a difference respect makes. Thank you for showing us the importance of it.
You look very nice in that color shirt, but regardless, it is always nice to hear your tale. This old one traveled to Arizona in 1962 with a church I was attending. Painted a church on the reservation. So much respect and from then on I could never watch cowboy/Indian movies. Good health and blessings to you and yours. For those of you trying to figure it out I was 12 years old and lived in s. Calif.
I’m a totally white, Godfearing Christian man; but I love the Navajo culture. It’s very similar to the old ways of respecting others and your stewardship of Gods gifts my ancestors had. We need to make the culture of love and respect popular again! 😊
Thank you Mr. Brown AND Shane...
Mother In law!! 62 Ernie K Doe.. LoL Thank you for always sharing desert wisdom!! 🏜
🔔❤🙏🔔😂🤣the way he said protected him against his sister ❤ lol good stuff
Hey Uncle Wally 🌾🦦
hope you are well and happy
Love carries no bounds.
Good rule for the mother in law. No hen pecking allowed.😊
Your wrong. It's about respect for each other. It's not about hen picking at all.
my in laws are great, all Navajo! I am half white, Sha da neh! I learned to say that, real stern, to make everyone chuckle! I would say it like your mine!
What does that mean? It's really hard to find native languages and translations on Google.
@@SkitSkat674 "my in law", but the tone is real important in Navajo...
Thank you very much.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 💫💫💜
Wow, there is so much to learn from the traditions. Sounds like very respectful, harmonious living.
Thank you 🙏
Wow! Such wisdom ,purity, integrity and morality .
Good job wally
Thank you, it makes good sense.
I really enjoy your video's.
💜 Thank 🫂-you 🇨🇦 very 💜 much 💜🫂🇨🇦
Thank you for sharing.
Respect is always a best practice
I had absolutely nasty in-laws. They disliked me very much, and excused their son cheating on me.
OMG I'm so sorry you had to go through that, it must've been awful. I hope your life is good now. Blessings upon you dear. 😌🙏🕊️
---Marya Kamilla 🐎🐎🐎 🇺🇸 🇭🇺 🇲🇳👑
My husband comes from generations of adulters, his grandparent's, his mother & him. There's a long list of dishonorable behavior that his mom has pulled, I have no respect for her at all. I RELUCTANTLY share our food, mostly for her brother who lives with her & because of how I was raised. But she has no honor & deserves no respect.
I knew a man that was married to a woman who wanted to be a social climber. They ended up divorcing. Even her parents took the side of their son-in-law.
I enjoyed hearing about your family :) thanks for sharing Mr Wally
If the son in law truly was in love with her daughter and treated her kindly, the mother in law would be extremly happy about that and there would be no problem between the 2. Possibly the woman who asked to be carried out to the sun light might have known this about him.
No. The son in law truly loved the daughter. The mother in law knew about it already.
It was custom for the mother in law and the son in law never to see each other.
At times. If by accident he is near. The mother in law would cover herself until he was gone. This was custom in the old days.
Out of respect and gratitude for his son in law. She asked him to come over so she could see him because she was dying and asked his son in law to carry him to the sunlight and also she could see his face. Out of love for him. She said thank you.
4:47 I use the plural , or singular third or second person suffices, never first; Y’all. One of my favorite pronouns. Learned it in Nashville TN.
Did not understand, why a man can not see his mother-in-law!
You must be single
It's a custom. Like many custom for different tribes or people around the world. All native tribes have custom.
It's nice hearing stories of familes loving and respecting each other...so rare here today
A wind taller can tell you how we won WWII. thank you for your service
Thank you for everything you share, brother. i'm sorry that you are having to hear a great many things...as the voices get louder and the battle rages on. He's out there on the Ice Shelf pacing back and forth....all huffin and puffin and ragglemuffin. he got cut to the quick a few days ago. First time perhaps in a long time or ever for all i know....that Slewfoot felt PAIN.
So his fellow fallen and their children in the spirit realm are FURIOUS.
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We love you Mr. Wally
Your teaching is good thing
I think you are simply wonderful!
Thanks for sharing
Thank you for sharing ✌️💞🤟
Wow!!!! Thank u
Thank you 🙏🌠🌹🕊🌹🌠
Thank you papa, happy new year
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Aho ❤
Semper Fi Brother.
Mother-in-law "jokes" are everywhere, I see. 🤨 Always wondered why. 🤔
---Marya Kamilla 🐎🐎🐎 🇺🇸 🇭🇺 🇲🇳👑
What a beautiful story Wally❤ Would you please carry me out into the Sun🙏 God Bless You Wally I love you my friend 😊♥️🙏
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A Cowbell is 100% appropriate for mum-in-law to wear to warn others of her imminent approach 😅
My mother and my father's mother were in the classical mother-in-law/daughter-in-law strife filled relationship. It is not fun as a child to have to tiptoe around two hostile adults you love.
Man i feel bad after listening to this, im always avoiding in laws and family events.
Don't feel bad. Not all in-laws are supportive or even friendly.
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Sir, can you put out one video a day?, I have so few I actually like in here to listen to. Tell a story I don't care. One a day maybe a bit too much it's super annoying I know. ✌💙
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Yes or Navajo elders good teachings to us job grampma 👍
Interesting, kinda different culture from my home, though we are protective too. My mom has taught my husband how to use power tools and the sort, and the family doesnt feel complete around the dinner table unless my brother in law and husband are there.
Mother in law syndrome is real. I have a collection of Snake Plants AKA Mother in Law Tounge. They remind me to watch my tongue and mind my own business regarding my son in law.
Mother in law should be second mother to the girl. She should teach nicely and love the girl.
I was tryin to think in my mind this image that i could describe like that movie Twister when they went to save the relative lady and the girlfriend/fiance left. So then they was going to the tornado and from where they were in that red truck they could see the black suburban and he turned off the cb ignoring them. They got in its path when it shifted. He programed cruise control and jumped from it sending it for data
I am curious to know what is being sung in the video?
Would there be a problem when there are several mothers in law in one pueblo? How would you know whose bell it is?
Why was the mother in law not allowed to see the sun in law?
Cause women are easily tempted by the devil
Cus the moon was in the way.
Custom
Musi choggh Enthnetheh seh night si.
Does anyone know what two words you can get if you rearrange the letters of mother in law?
Lother in maw
@@jayl5032 that is 3 words, but the answer is 'woman hitler'
@@debluetailfly Anagrams can be hilarious! WASHINGTON DC morphs into DNC SHIT WAGON. 🤣
---Marya Kamilla 🐎🐎🐎 🇺🇸 🇭🇺 🇲🇳👑
@@alanmorris1828 Hilarious but sadly true.
@@debluetailfly Well, my theory says that with language comes lying. Now with the advent of block lettering, it proved a reliable method of encryption to pass messages between 2 parties in pouches containing tiles so that each party descrambled what seemed the most plausible, relevant one. This method is still used today but if I explain how, YT will likely delete my reply LOL.
Anyway, it's been said also that words containing anagrams have secret intentions & so this makes lying nearly impossible. Shows the Mind of the Creator to do this, since He doesn't like deception. You'd need much more than a supercomputer just to design such a system around the human brain faculty of language. Anagrams are believed to be a form of subliminal messaging & so are used for psych warfare. LOL NOTHING gets past this Mongol!
---Marya Kamilla 🐎🐎🐎 🇺🇸 🇭🇺 🇲🇳👑
I have to assume it has to be so as to not offend your mother? Because in laws have always been no different from the rest of your extended family. For you are supposed to leave your parents for your wife. Maybe it goes into that? I have to assume its one of two, unless its so that no bad blood is made? other than that it would be similar to treating them as strangers & i don't see most of our ancestors doing that. Since family is one of the only things we have cared about, Besides the Great Spirit. Ayo Hawwah Great Spirit Bless.
Unless they're vampires from Georgia
Thanks for your wisdom. But I have a question. I only know English. When you start your video. You speak in your native tongue. Is it a prayer? Or something else?
he is mostly telling Navajos what part he is going to leave out in the rest of the video
I’m dying even the Indians didn’t like there in laws 😂
Why can't a man be in the presence of his mother-in-law? What is the reasoning behind this?
please dont speed up the video
So the man doesn't have to suffer his mother-in-law, but the woman has to suffer his mother?!?!
Men live with the womens clan. So, no. It’s not about who suffers who. It’s called respect.
Show you’re not Diné in one sentence or less
@@NCRonrad Men marry into their wives clan, not the other way around.
@@dookahan yup, that’s what I’ve done. With the Zapotec clan. yá'át'ééh shí’ kis
@@NCRonrad yáʼátʼééh shi’kis
what about daughter-in-law and mother-in-law? 😂
Mine was great she
Great name Spanish ya know
Made her olives and old Italian
Showed me how to treat them
Ever tried to bye some
Position they very picky
Back doors to get there
Were the olive lay in the freezer
Lengths I went to for min
then
Marking them where is your yalawa from
Were is your log from
Trying to railroad into facilities, by refuses medical attention. Mom said she went to a female Dr in Stuart where MY degenerate primary care dr office is in same area And stated he is Director of surrounding area of Dr's. If written meds from CVS was forced to lie and will continue to have reaction to implant per experimental hysterectomy device in groin. We need rescue immediately not medical at this time.
Only trusted persons
Mr Manson, Mr reznor, Mr Mathers Mr Depp to get here authorized to Make our arrangements legally medical. And for transportation for us.please and of course you Wally. Threatening to finish this now and tonight
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@@0pct-Zscrop2-bcue7im9a.4spaceI know, right? Some unusual ones on here! I cannot make head or tail of them either. 😑
---Marya Kamilla 🐎🐎🐎 🇺🇸 🇭🇺 🇲🇳👑
Huffin and Puffin and all Ragglemuffin. Doesn't know to do, hurt....in Pain...and TRAPPED.
once upon a time a man observed a conversation I was having with my husbandC and said "when are you going to give him is balls back?" i answered..."He didn't come with the balls you reference...Ask his mom".....I am a mother in law as well...once my son asked me "mom, do you expect me to discipline my wife?" I answered, "well son, that is between you and your wife. However, if you allow your wife to gossip about your family business and it causes harm and divides our extended family while burying the responsiblity she holds , then we have to decide what information she is privy to." needless to say...I must protect boundaries. My husband has a wife, I honor that. I first must honor THE TRUTH. My son left his mother and I honor his commitment by extending grace in his choice of remaining committed to his wife and children. I miss them. but. GRACE. AND UNDERSTANDING ARE PRINCIPLES WE ALL MUST EXTEND to others. EVEN IF THAT MEANS ABSENCE. I WOULD NOT BE COMFORTABLE WEARING A BELL AROUND MY NECK.
Discipline is not appropriate in marriage
no? tell that to the beast that condones mental, physical, and emotional abuse to a wife, mother, daughter, grandmother who has had her children used as a to drive her to the point of seeking an end to her own life. tell that to my father, husband. tell that to the judges, lawyers, counselors, child protective services, pastors, preachers, mayors, teachers who stand by and witness OR USE THE CHILDREN AS A TOOL OF ABUSE... tell that to every human I have cried out to to save my children from all of the above. tell that to your tribal leaders...tell that to someone who cares. they have STOLEN MY JOY, MY PEACE, MY SEED, my lifes work,...tell that to the ones who have stolen my name....tell that to the ones who claim to want to love and protect my children but are ONLY PRETENDING FOR PERSONAL GAIN. TELL THAT TO THE ONES WHO HAVE NO BLOOD SWEAT OR TEARS IN VESTED IN RAISING UP THE CHILDREN WHO WERE THE PRODUCT OF THE "MARRRIAGE" .....tell that to my children IN A WORLD WITHOUT LOVE. @@Beginnerreadsthebible