My safety tip, talk to the truckers! Sometimes they have cameras recording where your semi is. I've had a trucker stop me from going to dinner alone and told me he and his wife would go with me. Apparently, his wife had a weird feeling about a man who had been going around "accidentally" walking into the women's bathroom. My RV was also picked up by their camera. They let me know what time they would be leaving and I left when they did. They were doing their reset and I got a solid amount of rest while having a couple that helped look out for me.
I drive a truck and have been all over the country, ive found its best to leave the phone in your pocket when you get out anywhere and lock your doors and keep your eyes moving like you do when your driving
I have driven a truck for 45 years and have never had any problems!! Sometimes people don’t pay attention and I will give you that . But if your to scared to go out and enjoy this life then maybe it time to stay home where it can happen there also!!!!!!!
I’m 62 solo towing 33’. I carry a big stainless steel jug with ice in it when I go into gas stops. It has a a place on the lid I can put my hand through and bop you up the side of your head if you mess with me. I try to walk with my shoulders back when going in. I have bear spray handy in my truck. I guess I’m an oddity at campgrounds as people have asked me if I’m alone. I decided for safety measures to get a loveseat camp chair to look like there’s more than one person there. I also put out additional seating. People stopped asking after I did that. I listen to my gut instinct. I’ve been known to leave when it felt off at overnights stops or gas stations, I’ve even started down a trail and it felt wrong so I went back to my vehicle.
Back when I used to hike a lot, one day I set out on a trail alone. Not far down the trail I clearly heard the words, "Go BACK!" NO idea what, where, or why... I have learned to listen to that gut instinct without question, especially when it's that loud and clear.
@@joanies6778 Although I do my hiking with my Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mix (87 pounds), I too listen to that instinct. An evening walk in woods in Washington State just didn't feel right so I turned back. Next day I found out from the campground owner that there were bears sighted on the trail later in the evening. My dog is big and protective but not an even match for a bear.
Canadian RVer here. Our laws are quite a bit different up here, and personal protection while traveling up here can mean using an assortment of methods. First and foremost, no matter where I am and what I am doing, whether on the road, or at home, I always practice a heightened degree of situational awareness. (I'm the type that, when at home, does the walk around checking doors and window locks before going to bed) When travelling we keep the house door locked and when we stop for shopping etc, we always lock the cab doors. While boondocking, I will not park in an isolated spot, or a parking lot that does not have some sort of lighting. As far as the rig is concerned, we have external motion detector lights and video cameras on all sides of the rig, and a door alarm on the house door. That alone makes us a less than desirable target for most of the randoms who may want to approach the rig. When we are "in" for the night, all doors and windows are closed and locked. We also have several "items" within the rig that can be used to deter anyone from entering the rig. They are all within an arms distance no matter where we are in the rig, and scale up in their level of deterrence, starting with always having a charged and working cell phone (to call 911). The next level up is a MUST for all rigs , a fire extinguisher. These non-lethal little buggers, when sprayed into the face of someone trying to enter the rig, can be quite effective as a repellent and aid in incapacitating a would be bad person. We also have several cans of bear spray in the rig. Again, great as a non-lethal human repellent and legal to carry in Canada when out camping (not so legal to carry on your person while out walking around in an urban environment,). Then next level up is a 2 foot long, security flashlight with a taser built in to it. Between the ultra bright light, distorting flashing strobe, and the taser, it packs a threefold punch (it's also long enough and tip heavy enough to make for a good old fashion club.) The other "items" just go up in lethality and carry a lot of controversy with them so we wont mention those here. Now ALL of these things are TOTALLY USELESS, if one does not have the physical and mental ability to use them; and that leads me back to the most important aspects of personal security when RVing, MINDSET. Be alert to your surroundings, , listen to your "gut" instincts. If the location or situation "feels off" leave and head to another spot. Do not get complacent. When overnight boondocking, do not make it so your rig can't get up and go. This is far easier for us as we have a motorhome but can be done with a towable as well.. Someone tries to break the house lock while we're inside, I just jump in the driver's seat, fire the rig up and start rolling. Always be mentally prepared to deal with a hostile situation, be it flight or fight. Have several plans laid out, and follow them I'm an old dog, but did serve in the military when I was young and I truly believe that training, along with regular practice of certain skills, will be enough to ensure mine and my wife's safety. .Be safe out there.
@@julietteshore1118 You're welcome. Not all of us live in countries where packing a firearm is practical (or legal), so I thought I'd throw out a few "alternate" methods that are less problematic in those countries. But I still must stress, situational awareness and preventative methods, like avoiding situations to begin with, are far better than trusting any device.
@@claramunk7410 I got mine from a local outdoor sports retailer, but there are quite a few similar ones available. I'm not certain links in comments are allowed or appropriate.
Rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. This situation would have ended very differently if he had attacked our family. If you can legally carry, it is your duty to defend your life. Law enforcement can't be everywhere all the time, baddies can be. Fitness only gets you so far when baddies have a knife or a gun. Stay fit and aim small. Tips and Tricks: Smith and Wesson M&P Shield EZ for older folks; Glock 19 for boring folks; Sig Sauer P365 for spicy folks; PSA Dagger Compact for poor folks; H&K P30 for rich folks.
Your semi-auto bias is shown (I prefer them also). However, not all people can chamber a semi-auto This is were a revolver, like a Ruger SP 101 or SW 60 or even a smaller caliper revolver comes in handy.
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi I respect your opinion. You are welcome to it. You're categorically wrong, but that's never stopped anyone in history from making poor decisions. I wish you nothing but the best, fellow human. May the odds ever be in your favor.
I am a 49 year old motorhome transporter that travels solo. These are great tips!! I also always pretend like I’m not alone. When leaving the RV, I talk loudly back into the RV like I’m talking to someone. I also talk to truckers. They are a whole community that looks out for each other.
This is probably going to get worse. I am a single woman and travel by myself with my show dogs. I’m almost 70. I had a a young man come by my motorhome after I stopped at a rest area. He left, but when he was walking away I saw a knife in his hand which was behind him. I’m not a little old lady (yet). I carry.
Yes, me too. I'm 56 and starting to feel more vulnerable at times. Concealed carry gives me peace of mind. I live in Washington state on Tuesday a career criminal who should have been locked up in a psychiatric unit for career criminals decided to carjack an 80-year-old woman who was out walking dogs she fought to get the dogs out of the car and he rolled over her killing her and then dumped the car and decided to hurt the dog as well. Had one person had a gun it all would have ended much differently. People tried to come to her aide one of the gentlemen hopped out of the van with a baseball bat but it was too late because he had a knife and was very busy with it. People in Seattle love to talk about how dangerous guns are and I couldn't help but think had someone just had their concealed carry this woman might still be alive and a dog as well. Stay safe. It's going to be like the '70s all over again. With the drug addiction & runaway crime. Police are short staffed and burnt out. The general public gets to be the sitting ducks.
One thing I would suggest is if you are in your trailer/RV always lock your door and if you get a knock at the door check out a window before you unlock your door. You can always talk through the window if needed.
No disrespect intended, but the real problem with what happened to that couple was that a very evil person attacked them. Shame on him! No one should be attacked whether they are in good shape or not. He robbed this man of his life, and his mate of her dear husband. They had the right to live their life in peace, but now everything is changed. So, so sad. Yes we need to be very careful but we also need to teach others how to be decent human beings.
You can't control other people, you can only make the best decisions yourself. Sadly there are awful people in the world. I hope this attacker gets a terminal prison sentence, but that won't bring the man back to life 🙍.
We are 74 & 71 and in pretty good shape. We avoid states (and Canada) that restrict 2nd Amendment rights. I carry a second amendment device on my person and have 2 others in our Airstream. I practice my second amendment rights at least weekly. We also choose our campsites carefully. Otherwise we enjoy life.
I am not so scared. Yes things happen but the chances are not high that they will. I have slept a lot with my rv door and windows open and nothing has happened to me or mine.
@@vanssolo1 One incident is all it takes . We are not crazy for taking steps to keep ourselves, our families and our pets safe. I don't "gun tote". I'm no showboat. But, both my wife and I have CCP's. It's the last thing we'd ever want to do but are willing to if necessary.
Personal safety has always been a priority for my husband as he is retired PD. Lock your doors, always be mindful of your surroundings. If you choose to carry any weapon, be trained on how to use it and keep proficient. Cameras and phones documenting actions can save lives. Be smart and safe, not paranoid ❤
Also be aware of law changes as you cross state lines. Many states have welcome centers on the major highways where you can stop to make changes to meet the state law.
Situational Awareness is the number 1 deterrent. If you want to carry fine, just know the laws in the state you are travelling in. Non lethal options are available like Byrna, bear spray, wasp spray, etc. Pepper gel is better than pepper spray as it won't blow back on you in windy areas, but both work. Just stay alert and leave the area if your not comfortable. A women's senses are A lot keener than a mans. Trust your wife/girlfriend if they arent comfortable.
I used to drive trucks cross country, and now days it's way too dangerous, back around 2012 I stopped at a truck stop, and people were all a buzz about something that happened earlier, when a truck driver got twenty bucks from the fuel island, and was attacked for the twenty dollars, I don't know what is going on with society anymore but I want to go back to the 70s and 80s, way better life back then
I agree with everything you said. I am a senior but I'm fairly fit and over 6 feet tall and 200 pounds. That is a bit of a deterrent. While I don't travel a lot, I do snowbird from IL to FL. We only stay at campgrounds. No boondocking at Walmart or a rest area. In my opinion that's asking for trouble. I do stay alert to my surroundings when stopping for fuel or for a restroom break. At campgrounds, even when we know our neighbors or are familiar folks, we still lock doors. At this point, I will tell you that I'm more concerned with what happens when someone decides to try to break in. At that point, I do believe in conceal and carry and I'm a vet, so I'm trained. "nuff said.
Stopping at a rest area south of portland, oregon one evening after dark...I was walking to the rest rooms with my German Shepherd...I noticed 3 men standing together near the buildings....they appeared to be perusing the people who were coming and going into the restrooms and parking lot....I will tell you my spider sense kicked in.....I noticed that they watched me coming down the sidewalk...I know that i would be an easy mark...an old fat woman in her seventies....but as I watched them their eyes went to the dog by my side on a leash.....and all three took a partial step back....that was a very strange moment...creepy....
We also went full-time with our German shepherd,,at 1st I thought why did we choose such a big dog..we're old and we still have young kids..our dog is amazing,,she won't even allow people to approach our children or grandchildren without a firm warming 😉..staying safe requires a line of defense and a backup plan
We have been full-time RVing for a year now. When we pull in for diesel or a rest area, I'm always watching now. But when we first started, I was so vigilant about it. But when I heard this story earlier this year, it woke me up. Love how you covered it, too! Thank-you!
I teach a course “Refuse to be a Victim” (NRA gun free course) 1) be aware of your surroundings! 2) TRUST your instincts, women are the worst as we think ‘oh I shouldn’t think that about that guy’.. yes you SHOULD 3) have additional latches on your screen doors, as well as your Rig door 4) walk with confidence looking at people! 5) play the “what IF” game. As you are walking through a parking lot (or store etc) think “What would I do if this happens? “ planning at all times will keep your plans sharp in case you need them. 6) If you have to unhook your toad or puller, HOOK them back as soon as you can. 7) DON’T advertise on facecrack etc where you are, or you are out of town! I could go on.. Take regular safety classes & if you carry…. Get out on the range often!!
My rules are simple: situational awareness and not being nose deep into your phone. I have a less than lethal Byrna in hopes of de escalation, but also a real pew for the worst case. It also helps that I have a rescue LEO GSD K9. It never hurts to mutter and yell to yourself like a crazy, if you start to get the weird feels.
@@GratefulGlamperit also helps to know how to deal with the unfortunate situation like a knife attack, in that the outer facing portion of the forearm is the best tool for deflecting a knife swipe. There are no arteries in this area. Yes you will get cut bad, but won’t bleed out.
I am a senior woman, in her 70s who drives a big SUV. I also travel with 4 large dogs one of which is my Service Dog. So one of the dogs is always with me. When I stop for gas I check the area as I am driving in, I check before I get out. I put the phone in my pocket and my purse in the foot well under the back seats that are dropped down for the dogs. I lock the door before I get out. I start pump gas without fooling around and while gas pumps I hop back into car and lock the door. I repeat the same procedure when I get out when done pumping gas. Get immediately back into the car and start the car immediately and deal with receipt and mileage, etc. After I move away. I also, carry a flashlight with a taser. Been doing this for years.
I usually go to Costco to for gas. Sure, there can be a waiting time but that means more people around. They also always have an attendant around and I always smile and wave to the attendant and if they can I’ll have a simple fun conversation with them. I also have a steering wheel club by my seat, not only does it lock the steering wheel but it hurts if you accidental hit yourself. ;).
At this point with the same of our country it doesn’t matter how in shape you are it’s the mental state of the attacker being aware of your surroundings pay attention never leave yourself open to attack! I personally believe concealed carry is the best protection but be well advised and trained with your personal carry options.
My dog, Pews, motion activated solar lights $ Security Camera’s are my go to! I always park in front of my trailer tongue (because I’ve heard horror stories of campers getting stolen while someone was asleep in it)! Motion activated solar lights alert me when someone is on my campsite at night & of course my dog alerts me too 😂
Great option for states 2A friendly; however, be careful in the antigun states. Research where you can carry before you end up in hot water. Plenty of resources and groups online.
@@austinboone2265 Maryland, any New England State, there are many more out there. Thankfully, I live in Alabama and have my freedom. I only travel in the South where I can protect myself and my family.
As a military veteran, I had veteran plates on my truck (we have a travel trailer) before I moved to Canada. Now I have different articles on the truck that are Marines related. It serves several purposes, but the largest is that people know to look elsewhere if they are looking for "excitement". I diligently practice most of the things you mentioned - staying alert, know your surroundings, apparently I typically "look intimidating", which is really helpful in avoiding that previously mentioned "excitement". As far as your last point, I sincerely hope that no one will ever know my stance....
My wife and I have camped in every state except Alaska and Hawaii. We also have camped in Canada. We have been camping for over 50 years and we have never had a serious problem. On a recent trip from Ohio to Florida we stopped for fuel in Elizabeth Town Kentucky at a Five-star gas station/convenient mart in a very good neighborhood. I filled up with fuel and got in our 2021 Thor Compass. I looked in the passenger side mirror and saw a man carrying 2 Jack Russel type dogs unleashed coming toward the camper. He tried to pull open the camper door. It was dead bolted and locked. He looked in the passenger side door and said something we could not understand. He returned to his green Chevy 1/2 ton truck with his 2 unleashed dogs. Keep your doors locked and have a way to protect your family if an intruder gains access to your home on wheels. Be safe and prepared. America is not what she use to be. Now for the rest of the story. We did not confront the man. We continued on I 65 south toward the Sunshine State. After a couple of miles I saw the green Chevy truck with his 4 ways on approaching, he pulled beside us. We could see him and the 2 dogs. He was very close to us. He tried to run us off the road. I slammed on the brakes to avoid hitting the truck however I did not stop. He tried this 3 times and was not able to get us to stop. We were in panic mode. My wife called 911. He was beside us again in his attempt to stop us. He saw me with the phone and sped off. We were able to get a partial plate number. We could see him at a great distance because he had his cargo light on in the rear of the truck bed. 911 told us they would let them know. The green truck with his cargo light on had pulled over at the next exit, waiting for us. We did not know what we would have to endure next. A class C RV had passed us and my wife suggested we stay close to the class C RV which I did. Maybe that is why the green truck did not try to follow us. Warnings to follow: 1. Keep your doors locked. 2. Purchase a dash cam. (We now have one) 3. Security cameras (we have them at home) 4. Have a way to protect yourself if someone gains access to your rv. 5. Do not stop. 6. If you are older you are a target. 7. 911 was no help. This was typed on Sticky Notes. It happened to my wife and I on October 31, 2022 at 7:08 am.
This may sound weird but I have always been judged by people as "an approachable" person. I have been in two very bad situations in my lifetime- twice attacked but when I was younger and in my home city of FL. My brother, a retired policeman and who lived in Manhattan and Boston, told me that the best thing to do in an unfamiliar environment is be very non expressive and more deadpan and look at no one but look around and assess the space.
There's 9 millimeters of separation between you being safe or being a victim... Unfortunately, self-defense classes rely on close contact with a perpetrator. Everything else you mentioned will start and end with your total awareness of your surroundings. The only true advantage you have before shtf...
that's why we carry whenever we're on the road. but the name of the game is situational awareness you have to have your head on a swivel its sad but true
Don't post on Social Media while you are not at home and don't post your travel plans. People surf social media looking for their next victim. Several years ago a neighboring town had 6 houses broken into over Memorial Day Weekend while families were away on holiday. The criminals found the empty homes because of social media posts and every victim had a link to the thieves because they were friends of friends or family members of a friend or some other connection that just trickled down the social media stream. Social Media is all knowing and is not private, no matter how private you try to make it.
Situational awareness is the key. Crooks love a victim who is walking around with their head in the clouds oblivious to their surroundings. If you can, be armed and have the confidence and will to defend yourself. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Stay with your traveling companions. Non lethal weapons are crap unless you are some kind of well trained self defense expert. Don’t travel remote areas such as rest stops at night. Be where you need to be by dark.
A great refresher video! I watched a video of felons viewing people on a video & when asked they all independently picked the same potential targets! Main lesson don’t give off a vulnerable vibe & don’t display apparent wealth! A small container of Bear Spray Gel (not liquid) has multiple protection qualities. Thank you for exploring this necessary but difficult subject!
I'm highly aware of my surroundings even though my husband often is not. My dad raised me to be aware and defensive, always prepared and knowing where my exits are. I appreciate the details in the video and many in the comments. I've not seen mention yet that most key fobs have an alarm/panic button for noise making. Use the alarm to attract helpful attention if intuition alerts you. Of course keys between your fingers folded into a fist can also be a good defense if things get physical. As a child I was attacked by 4 older kids, I tried and it worked: bend your knees and twist at the waist and lift your wings (with elbows and fists out). They all backed away. Move with a purpose; don't lolly-gag. Thanks for sharing valuable information.
I often camp alone. I have a giant pair of men’s boots that I keep outside my camper door. I also sleep with my car keys under my pillow so I can set off the car alarm in an emergency.
We are in our 60s and travel all the time. My answer is that both of us carry. So if My glock 20 didnt end this, my wifes glock 19 would have. Dont be fools. Remember when seconds count, police are only minutes away. You are 911 these days. Your afraid to be de-monitized. So now you've lost your 1st ammendment rights too.
not allowed to carry in Canada, same with pepper spray. as for this channel being afraid. get stuffed buddy. retired truck driver. as a woman one has to be more alert as a lot of men out there think it is ok to manhandle a female at truck stops. stay alert ladies and trust no one in truck stops. or rest stops.
I teach an NRA course and always remind people to range practice. Regarding Canada, as was mentioned above, WASP spray is legal to carry & use to take out bugs🤷♀️ We personally won’t go to places that doesn’t honor my 2nd rights.
@@sandydemars8100no. Unless you’re in the bush away from civilization & in bear country you cannot use it on another human. As for a Byrna, apparently it is considered a firearm but apparently is exempt from licensing but and there’s a few buts, it can’t be concealed, can only be used in self defence & some municipalities have their own restrictions. Basically, do your research.
Dont be fools goes both ways. There are too many legal cases where the victim lost using that same argument. State, federal, county laws vary. We all have to consider our risk tolerance. If going to jail or years in court battles using your retirement to pay the legal fees is an acceptable risk, that is your tolerance.
I just subscribed bcuz you are doing safety tips. Whether you live on the road or not, safety is key for everyone. When I drove rideshare, there would be no parking at my building, so I had to park three blocks away. I would double park in our lot, and take my stuff upstairs. Then, when walking 3 blocks, at 2-3 am, I had my head on a swivel, and no hand bag or anything ready to be stolen. I had only my keys in one hand and zapper in the other. I knew where the blind spot for the video security was @my building, so I didn’t use that entrance. Hint: public transportation > Never sit or stand at the bus stop or train station with your eyes on your phone. Always stand or sit with your back to the wall, otherwise someone can sneak behind you, get you in a headlock or use a garrot, and strangle you, or drag you to anywhere. Don’t use both ear buds, so you can hear what’s going on around you.
We travel in our 40’ Skoolie with a 200lb English Mastiff. Just did. 12,000 mile trip from Alaska to the lower 48 and back. If we don’t have our dog with us I always carry bear spray, not mace. Bear spray is legal to carry crossing back in forth through Canada. The dog just deters 99% of folks. The high, and mentally ill are not deterred all that much. Still, if someone’s got a gun, there isn’t much we can do. We just try to stay aware, and don’t get out, or wait a bit until it feels safer. Or just drive to the next off ramp,rest area, or business. Believe it or not most truck stops are safe, but noisy. As an old trucker we stay at them quite a bit, when we just need 8 hours or so of quick sleep.
Thanks for this important message. Every so often there is an awful tragedy like this and it reminds us that as full time RVers we always have to take precautions.
I have a 47-state carry permit with the way people are today. You just never know. When I'm driving, I also keep a big can of auto brake cleaner next to me in the seat.if I use a rest area bathroom I take it with me.
You mentioned carrying keys but didn't point out that most vehicles today have remote unlocking key fob that also is equipped with a "panic button" which sets off the car alarm or horn. Whether you are in the RV or vehicle or outside that is a loud and effective way to scare off someone who is looking to assault you. It also alerts others in the area that something is amiss.
We just discussed this during an all female camping trip. We don’t feel this protects us because “everyone” just ignores car alarms. We made a pact then and there not to do so. If we heard an alarm on that trip, we agreed to all converge on the spot.
We always have our air horn beside the door. Wasp spray that sprays about 10-15 ft away, and our more serious things on our side. When my husband is out pumping gas I am watching all around us. Our dog is not huge but very protective. There are plenty of good people out there but now with the open boarder there are thousands that are already breaking the law and have no fear of our laws. It pays to be vigilant!
Age 72, fairly fit, taller woman, not heavy and not skinny, have been told I’m intimidating, walk confidently, try to stay aware of surroundings…make it obvious I’m looking around….when traveling alone. Often drive longer distances in large pickup alone. When I stop for rest break/nap, I text my husband exactly where I am and how long I may be resting…and take pictures of the area. Then text when I’m headed back on the road. Also “often” exercise right to carry.
When we RV, we always head to Provincial Park Campgrounds in Canada with lots of trails for hiking, water for Kayaking and we spent alt least 1-1/2 to 2 hours a day doing these outdoor events, we do not really call them exercises as they are really rewarding activities. As such we also carry bear spray for those out back park hikes in the BC mountains so that in it's self would be a good deterrent to any violent attacks. I for one am always in the moment, no headphones or ear buds as I am enjoying nature.
Things are definitely much different now. We were lack’s on the door locking at first. It irritates my husband but since the couple in Texas got murdered I am locking our RV door every time I come in. I need to be better at rest stops. Thanks for the info
That is one response, and while it can be very effective, you may need a lot of money to defend yourself in both criminal and civil courts. It’s an unfortunate reality of today’s litigious society.
Our first yr of full-time rvers..was 2020..we had to drive through areas where they're was riots..my husband is a retired semi driver..friends told us to arm your self, bear spray in the truck and rv..a dog..and having a siren on your key chain..pepper spray..it's very effective
I was doing contract work and drove from Ohio to CA. I took my 65 lb dog with me. Found out earlier that if I felt angry/upset towards someone, in this case hunters going on a popular hiking trail, he would growl and lunge at large men. I did go to the ranger station and report them and found out they could hunt there, but there were no signs to alert people. The rangers gave the spiel, but when I just looked at him, he said yeah I know, he didn’t like that he had to permit it and it did endanger hikers. My dog’s normal personality was all people are friends or potential friends. I had to tell him all people don’t want to pet him when I could see they were afraid of him. He became better known at the apartment I was staying at than me! Had a woman open her window and ask if that was Buddy. When I said yes, she said her husband talks about Buddy, could she and her children pet him. This absolutely made his day. But I knew he would protect me. As a single 140 lb woman, I know I can be a target so I am always alert and paying attention to my surroundings as I don’t want to become a statistic.
I lock my doors as soon as I am getting in. I drove solo over the road truck driver for 14 years and was 42 when I started driving. Before cell phones. I learned to always pay attention to everything around me when walking. So many are looking a their phones while walking. Not a good idea. After dark I never walk close to other vehicles and look all around you.
I totally agree with people becoming too absorbed in phones and earbuds. If I'm wearing earbuds in public, I only use 1. My earbuds also have a "transparent" mod that allows me to hear what's going on around me. I read an article years ago on being aware of your surroundings at ALL times (especially women who are alone). Always walk with your head up and constantly scan your surroundings. Being aware of who/what's around you can also make you aware if someone else might need your assistance. Also, know where you parked your car. I can't tell you how often I see people wandering around a parking lot looking for their car because they forgot where they parked, and lock all your doors immediately after entering your vehicle.
I hear of tragedies and near tragedies. I want people, they don’t listen, they’re extremely naive, stubborn and rarely listen. People who isolate themselves and isolate themselves in the backcountry are asking for trouble and it’s sad.
Thanks for the tips. I am always searching my location for thing that look out of the ordinary and all the way we can exits a situation if need be. My husband is disabled being aware is the most important tip I can give.
We had a huge discussion after this occurred and came to the conclusion that surrendering whatever the perp wants is most likely the best strategy unless you can get the upper hand. I think often the first reaction is to fight but at what cost. Very sad and horrifying.
I have the popular fuel card that RVers use and I cannot tell you how many times I have been approached at a major fuel stop while fueling or even at a rest stop (yes, I have stopped at that same rest stop). Sometimes it is a trucker curious about my RV, but other times it is a random person who asks to use my points for showers and such. Living in Los Angeles as long as I did I learned to have everything locked at all times, walk around with a different set of keys laced between my fingers, act like my head is on a swivel, if one person is trying to talk with me being on the lookout for a partner who may try to come up alongside or behind me, and carry myself like I am amped up and may be looking for a fight myself. Most people try to avoid crazy so that's the persona I project. Sad that I cannot have a quality convo with a trucker who means well, I am using the fuel pumps they rely on to make a living, but I am just trying to avoid being a target. Oh, and the wife has had extensive krav maga training. I pitty the fool that tries anything on her. Thanks for the video. Best...
Add an outside cameras, so you can see what’s going on around you before you step out the door. Most vehicle key fobs have a panic button on them, they make a lot of noise, headlights flashing, which attracts attention. The last thing A perpetrator wants. Pay attention to what’s going on around you.
Once we are in the RV for the night, I ensure the steps are retracted in and the doors are locked. Second, as you stated situational awareness, looking around your surroundings all of the time where ever your at. Also my wife and I both are certified to carry, train, train, train is key. Ours are with in reach at all times unless guests are over, then put in the safe. Never let a stranger in, talk through the doors or an upper window if need be. Thanks for the video, good tips. Be safe everyone.
Always be aware of your surroundings, get training and utilize your 2A…You must meet force with a higher force to end a encounter, we all hope and pray we never have to encounter this but if we do be prepared.
We carry our Byrna guns. They are a non lethal weapon that uses CO2 chargers to shoot pepper spray "bullets" (pellets filled with pepper spray). They are very effective!
They are regarded as “less than lethal”, but can be lethal based on shot placement. You can use the projectiles with pepper spray or just the kinetic projectiles that can and do often cause broken bones, large bruises, etc. They are not considered firearms in the U.S., but are effective deterrents. I’ve seen RUclips vids of people being shot with them, and it is game-over when hit.
Our RV is only for vacationing and weekend excursions. But when we are on our RV trips, we hike non stop even if the campsite is not in the woods. We will just do laps around wherever the site is, and bring our rollerblades & badminton set. I also keep a yoga mat to do core work. I don’t find my RV trips to be lazy. And if we are in a city with a rink, we will even go ice skating. Then again, i take figure skating and hockey classes when home, and go to our local gym a few times a week. We fight hard to not be sedentary!
You need to remember, many of your subscribers that RV are Canadians, and basically any weapon cannot be carried/used, which is unfortunate, at least to give you some confidence in 'having' safety! Nonetheless, I'll tell you a short story, where on a solo hunting trip several years back, I got myself a Motel room for the night, and was awoken to some noise outside. There was a young fellow (I say young as he apparently was 19 years old) trying to break a side window out of a vehicle opposite of the room I was in. He wasn't able to, so he went to a second vehicle, did the same..again, no luck, although he did keep trying. After a while he left, walking behind the opposite side of Motel rooms between the parking lot. About 15 minutes later, the alarm goes off on my pickup truck, so I stuck my head out the door and asked what he was doing...his answer, he's trying to get into 'his' truck...so I quickly slid on my jeans and t-shirt, and headed outside. After getting out the door the guy was coming right at me! Now, I'm in my early 70's, and now very angry...so I put him in a head-lock, and I could tell after a short while my energy level being angry was cutting off his breathing...so I let off somewhat, and he came to life again, trying to fight me. I had bare feet, but we ended up in the gravel parking lot, but again I got the better of him, back in a head-lock again, to where we fell down, and I held him until the police arrived, as the owners had heard the scuffle. He tried telling me he just wanted something to drive to town...nonetheless, my hand was bleeding, my feet where bleeding and the woman owning the Motel came to my room and cleaned up the best she could. That was the one and only fight I've had in my life, and he had no weapons (thankfully) so as you say, staying in relatively good shape, you can hold your own if you try. When the adrenalin kicks in, one can truly not realize what they are capable of honestly. Thank you for this, as like you we have a Class A diesel pusher, and tow our Honda CRV. One thing that came to mind, when you mentioned about being able to leave quickly...we have to take the key out of our CRV, and put the transmission in Park, so leaving would be tough, if we had to quickly. Perhaps a manual transmission vehicle wouldn't have that issue, but we do as I'm sure do others. No idea if there are ideas on this issue, but I'd sure love to hear them! We're Snowbirds, so we do travel and use Rest Area's, so a big thanks for tackling this issue, as it's much appreciated!
Note to Canadians if you go to any good sporting goods store and by the orange flare gun in an orange floating box you will find this great in your boat or RV. A flare in the face would scare most attackers away. Note a 12 gauge shotgun shell is the same size as the flare shell. In Canada of course you have no right to defend your self and can be charged if you do as the criminals rights are just so much more important than honest people's but if you have to fire a flare gun to defend yourself or family you at least get to be judged by a Jury, which is better than dead. Alternatively move to the US. I love Canada but having to be defence less is just not on. In the past we have had to call 911 a number of times and they just dont come so you really are on your own.
We use plant fitness black card program to work out when in proximity to any fitness facility across the US. Depending on the state regulations and if needed, we open or concealed carry, but also have other devices for defense.
: ( THANKS for sharing this tragic event... , my condolences to the widow : ( I think awareness is key and have tried to teach to daughters and Grandson. Be prepared as best you can. ALL the BEST and safe travels to ALL ! ! !
These are excellent tips! Situational awareness is first. In addition, I carry a Byrna loaded with teargas and we both carry stun/flashlights. I don't care if I never have to use them.
We are both 75 and never go without our two big dogs. They are both cream puffs. However their bark is huge and they can be, and are, very threatening to strangers who come into their territory.
We made the mistake of not knowing, even though we checked reviews, that a campground we were going to stay overnight in was a Party Spot. Nothing before dark gave indication. Then, a full caravan of 20-somethings showed up with tents, pop-ups, campers, etc, and started throwing down immediately. Camp Host was "gone for the evening" supposedly. We didn't settle in, just wanted to sleep, so we cranked up and left by midnight when the bonfires (6 of them on the lakeside) started having fireworks added. Made damn sure I got my money back, but my point of this story is just to be vigilant. Campgrounds don't guarantee safety. Be vigilant and aware at all times.
I don't understand staying at a rest area. They are busy, loud, and dangerous. I don't think it is a secret that you are at a greater risk at rest areas and truck stops.
I must say, when I am out I am carrying. 2 years ago, I was off grid with my 5 year old when I was approached by a man claiming to be part of the ranger patrol. He got so close to me that we were sharing air. I declared at that time, I was carrying and would not miss the shot that close. He left pretty quickly. There are scary people out there and everyone must be prepared to protect themselves.
Hey grateful glamper I watched your video on rv parks not allowing rigs over 10 or 15 years old regardless of condition. My suggestion to you is gather signatures and initiate a class action suit based on the very reasons you outlined in your video. Best wishes
Situational awareness is key …. Gotta pay attention to where you are and ask around, folks will often tell you if you should or should not stop somewhere. Broken glass, needles, trash and so on will tell you what’s happened there. Don’t be afraid, be aware. Great video Charity!!
I'm a car traveler, but I hardly ever stop at interstate rest stops. They just don't feel safe to me. I would rather stop at a convenience store with lots of other people around. The more people that are around, the safer you are. Of course, you have to pick your locations carefully too, but I usually scout my route before I get on the road.
Good tips! Dont pull into an overnight parking throw out your slides, turn on your ginny at 11:30 at night, dont CAMP....it makes people trying to sleep angry. Dont make people mad! I have met several Unstable people
Thank you for bringing the awareness of this tragedy. By heart goes out to the Weaver family. I donated a small amount to their go fund me. If everyone posting here would do the same maybe that would help them get to their financial goal. Will not bring Mr. weaver back but will show them there are still good people in this world.
Had to laugh again, Charity! I am one of those over 55. I am a single, 71 year old, 5'2" 120 lb woman who usually travels alone, except for my 75 lb yellow lab, Boux! (I'm from Louisiana, rhymes with roux, lol) And, my safety is a concern. I am very careful about where I stop and try to always be vigilant of my surroundings. Good work. Enjoy your videos, especially the diy's and organizational videos!
I just watched and I’m horrified of what happened. I diligently listened to all your safety tips. I have a practice that I think your viewers could incorporate in ways to stay safe. I start looking for gas stations when my tank is down to a quarter. Two reasons: finding a station before I run out in case they are widespread AND if I do find a remote station I give myself the option of not stopping if it looks sketchy. I tow so as a woman, I’m VERY aware of where I exit my vehicle. Even if it’s a well populated area. But on the road I’ve learned to give myself options.
Sadly, this couple live only about 30 minutes from us, in Missouri, and in the same community our kids have lived for 20 years. While we do not know them, our hearts break for the wife and family. We, too, are RVers in our 70's and try to always be aware of our surroundings when we stop at Rest Areas to walk the dogs and at fuel stations. This is a practice we have used for many, many years and taught our children every day of their adolescent to adult lives. We still remind them of this any time they are out. We travel with two dogs and almost never leave the RV without them or each other when we stop at Rest Areas. At fuel stations I always keep my eye on my husband and the surroundings. We live in a very scary world but, it is not going to keep us from enjoying our travels. Happy Glamping and may God Bless and keep us all safe.
Thank you for your channel and being honest even about the hard topics. I have been considering going full time with my kids and nobody else makes level headed videos on this topic.
A few other safety tips that I have not seen mentioned. Always BACK into your parking spot so that you do not have to maneuver your rig should you need to make a quick getaway. Also, always keep your keys in the same spot so that you can reach for them automatically without having to go on a search and rescue for them. And lastly - privacy curtains. Dash cams, front and back that record movement outside and send a notice to your phone. Motion sensor lights on the outside of your rig. Travel safe!
Something happened on my 10,000 mile, coast to coast Spring road trip in a very serene setting. I travel with big boom protection but the only thing that would have helped in this particular situation was a ccw so, I'm gonna' get one of those to accompany my new 9mm.
The most fit person can be overpowered by surprise. All precautions may not stop a crazy person. We all can only do our best, but there is no perfect method to be 100% safe.
I drove over the road for thirty years. Never just park and hop out of your vehicle . Park sit a few minutes and look around check out the area and what other people are doing. Always be aware. And carry protection train and train often no matter your age.
Perhaps someone has already mentioned this, but if your phone battery is running out and you don't have a means of charging it, change your voicemail, starting with "Help" and state where you are and your situation so someone can try to get help to you!
For older or more frail rv'ers I would recommend having a 20 gauge shotgun (Younger or in better shape, 12 gauge), loaded with Winchester #4 buckshot. Less recoil, and that load does not "over penetrate". Meaning it minimizes the risk to other people that may be near by. This method is ONLY recommended if someone actually gains entry inside your rv while you are in there.
My safety tip, talk to the truckers! Sometimes they have cameras recording where your semi is. I've had a trucker stop me from going to dinner alone and told me he and his wife would go with me. Apparently, his wife had a weird feeling about a man who had been going around "accidentally" walking into the women's bathroom. My RV was also picked up by their camera. They let me know what time they would be leaving and I left when they did. They were doing their reset and I got a solid amount of rest while having a couple that helped look out for me.
That’s so great they watched out for you. Thanks for sharing
I love this!❤
There is at this moment a serial killer on I5 working the Highway rest areas - they think it is a trucker - be safe people.
God bless that angel couple!
What a blessing,!!
I drive a truck and have been all over the country, ive found its best to leave the phone in your pocket when you get out anywhere and lock your doors and keep your eyes moving like you do when your driving
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I, too, am a driver. And I never exit the truck without my phone.
I have driven a truck for 45 years and have never had any problems!! Sometimes people don’t pay attention and I will give you that . But if your to scared to go out and enjoy this life then maybe it time to stay home where it can happen there also!!!!!!!
Thx for such great information!! Better to be safe than sorry!!
Hey now ...I'm not over 55 for another 15 years... Good informational/thought provoking video as always
I’m 62 solo towing 33’. I carry a big stainless steel jug with ice in it when I go into gas stops. It has a a place on the lid I can put my hand through and bop you up the side of your head if you mess with me. I try to walk with my shoulders back when going in. I have bear spray handy in my truck. I guess I’m an oddity at campgrounds as people have asked me if I’m alone. I decided for safety measures to get a loveseat camp chair to look like there’s more than one person there. I also put out additional seating. People stopped asking after I did that. I listen to my gut instinct. I’ve been known to leave when it felt off at overnights stops or gas stations, I’ve even started down a trail and it felt wrong so I went back to my vehicle.
Well done!
Thanks for sharing
The only time your gut is wrong is when you don't listen to it.
Back when I used to hike a lot, one day I set out on a trail alone. Not far down the trail I clearly heard the words, "Go BACK!" NO idea what, where, or why... I have learned to listen to that gut instinct without question, especially when it's that loud and clear.
@@joanies6778 Although I do my hiking with my Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mix (87 pounds), I too listen to that instinct. An evening walk in woods in Washington State just didn't feel right so I turned back. Next day I found out from the campground owner that there were bears sighted on the trail later in the evening. My dog is big and protective but not an even match for a bear.
Canadian RVer here. Our laws are quite a bit different up here, and personal protection while traveling up here can mean using an assortment of methods. First and foremost, no matter where I am and what I am doing, whether on the road, or at home, I always practice a heightened degree of situational awareness. (I'm the type that, when at home, does the walk around checking doors and window locks before going to bed) When travelling we keep the house door locked and when we stop for shopping etc, we always lock the cab doors. While boondocking, I will not park in an isolated spot, or a parking lot that does not have some sort of lighting.
As far as the rig is concerned, we have external motion detector lights and video cameras on all sides of the rig, and a door alarm on the house door. That alone makes us a less than desirable target for most of the randoms who may want to approach the rig. When we are "in" for the night, all doors and windows are closed and locked. We also have several "items" within the rig that can be used to deter anyone from entering the rig. They are all within an arms distance no matter where we are in the rig, and scale up in their level of deterrence, starting with always having a charged and working cell phone (to call 911). The next level up is a MUST for all rigs , a fire extinguisher. These non-lethal little buggers, when sprayed into the face of someone trying to enter the rig, can be quite effective as a repellent and aid in incapacitating a would be bad person.
We also have several cans of bear spray in the rig. Again, great as a non-lethal human repellent and legal to carry in Canada when out camping (not so legal to carry on your person while out walking around in an urban environment,). Then next level up is a 2 foot long, security flashlight with a taser built in to it. Between the ultra bright light, distorting flashing strobe, and the taser, it packs a threefold punch (it's also long enough and tip heavy enough to make for a good old fashion club.) The other "items" just go up in lethality and carry a lot of controversy with them so we wont mention those here.
Now ALL of these things are TOTALLY USELESS, if one does not have the physical and mental ability to use them; and that leads me back to the most important aspects of personal security when RVing, MINDSET. Be alert to your surroundings, , listen to your "gut" instincts. If the location or situation "feels off" leave and head to another spot. Do not get complacent. When overnight boondocking, do not make it so your rig can't get up and go. This is far easier for us as we have a motorhome but can be done with a towable as well.. Someone tries to break the house lock while we're inside, I just jump in the driver's seat, fire the rig up and start rolling. Always be mentally prepared to deal with a hostile situation, be it flight or fight. Have several plans laid out, and follow them
I'm an old dog, but did serve in the military when I was young and I truly believe that training, along with regular practice of certain skills, will be enough to ensure mine and my wife's safety.
.Be safe out there.
Thank you. All really good advice. I’m in UK but still these things are so important to take on board. Thanks 🙏
@@julietteshore1118 You're welcome. Not all of us live in countries where packing a firearm is practical (or legal), so I thought I'd throw out a few "alternate" methods that are less problematic in those countries. But I still must stress, situational awareness and preventative methods, like avoiding situations to begin with, are far better than trusting any device.
Can you share the flashlight you mentioned ~ if u purchased on Amazon can u possibly share the link
We fellow Canadians. Good points.
Thanks
@@claramunk7410 I got mine from a local outdoor sports retailer, but there are quite a few similar ones available. I'm not certain links in comments are allowed or appropriate.
Rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. This situation would have ended very differently if he had attacked our family. If you can legally carry, it is your duty to defend your life. Law enforcement can't be everywhere all the time, baddies can be. Fitness only gets you so far when baddies have a knife or a gun. Stay fit and aim small.
Tips and Tricks: Smith and Wesson M&P Shield EZ for older folks; Glock 19 for boring folks; Sig Sauer P365 for spicy folks; PSA Dagger Compact for poor folks; H&K P30 for rich folks.
Thank you for the info
@@loraineforshee699 Dead men tell no tales !!
Your semi-auto bias is shown (I prefer them also). However, not all people can chamber a semi-auto This is were a revolver, like a Ruger SP 101 or SW 60 or even a smaller caliper revolver comes in handy.
@@betterwithrum one does not have to carry a firearm in order to fulfil your duty ti defend.
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi I respect your opinion. You are welcome to it. You're categorically wrong, but that's never stopped anyone in history from making poor decisions. I wish you nothing but the best, fellow human. May the odds ever be in your favor.
I am a 49 year old motorhome transporter that travels solo. These are great tips!! I also always pretend like I’m not alone. When leaving the RV, I talk loudly back into the RV like I’m talking to someone. I also talk to truckers. They are a whole community that looks out for each other.
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This is probably going to get worse. I am a single woman and travel by myself with my show dogs. I’m almost 70. I had a a young man come by my motorhome after I stopped at a rest area. He left, but when he was walking away I saw a knife in his hand which was behind him. I’m not a little old lady (yet). I carry.
That is scary! Glad you were ok, stay safe and thanks for sharing
That IS scary for sure!
So glad you carry!!! I teach an NRA course so I want to add, Get out and practice regularly
Similar happened to my parents a few years back. Their show dogs were three German Shepherds. No problem for the parents.
Yes, me too. I'm 56 and starting to feel more vulnerable at times. Concealed carry gives me peace of mind. I live in Washington state on Tuesday a career criminal who should have been locked up in a psychiatric unit for career criminals decided to carjack an 80-year-old woman who was out walking dogs she fought to get the dogs out of the car and he rolled over her killing her and then dumped the car and decided to hurt the dog as well. Had one person had a gun it all would have ended much differently. People tried to come to her aide one of the gentlemen hopped out of the van with a baseball bat but it was too late because he had a knife and was very busy with it. People in Seattle love to talk about how dangerous guns are and I couldn't help but think had someone just had their concealed carry this woman might still be alive and a dog as well. Stay safe. It's going to be like the '70s all over again.
With the drug addiction & runaway crime. Police are short staffed and burnt out. The general public gets to be the sitting ducks.
Situational awareness is key! One of the first things they teach you in a conceal carry class
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100% agree. Training is important!!! Practice needs to be consistent.
Head on a swivel.
One thing I would suggest is if you are in your trailer/RV always lock your door and if you get a knock at the door check out a window before you unlock your door. You can always talk through the window if needed.
No disrespect intended, but the real problem with what happened to that couple was that a very evil person attacked them. Shame on him! No one should be attacked whether they are in good shape or not. He robbed this man of his life, and his mate of her dear husband. They had the right to live their life in peace, but now everything is changed. So, so sad. Yes we need to be very careful but we also need to teach others how to be decent human beings.
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Right it was all he period.
You can't control other people, you can only make the best decisions yourself. Sadly there are awful people in the world. I hope this attacker gets a terminal prison sentence, but that won't bring the man back to life 🙍.
We are 74 & 71 and in pretty good shape. We avoid states (and Canada) that restrict 2nd Amendment rights. I carry a second amendment device on my person and have 2 others in our Airstream. I practice my second amendment rights at least weekly. We also choose our campsites carefully. Otherwise we enjoy life.
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I am not so scared. Yes things happen but the chances are not high that they will. I have slept a lot with my rv door and windows open and nothing has happened to me or mine.
@@JCcreates927 I agree. One incident and everybody wants to arm up. Crazy.
@@vanssolo1 One incident is all it takes . We are not crazy for taking steps to keep ourselves, our families and our pets safe. I don't "gun tote". I'm no showboat. But, both my wife and I have CCP's. It's the last thing we'd ever want to do but are willing to if necessary.
I would like to point out... bear spray works on people as well.
Yes it does…
So does wasp spray!
@@debragriffith6628and wasp spray has a truer aim and further aim
Unfortunately some people do not respond to pepper sprays due to being under influence of illegal drugs. Stay situationally aware at times.
This is great information. I was just wondering about bear spray last night.
Thank you for the wake up call.
My condolences to those that were not so fortunate.
Always have a means of personal protection. Don't go to states that prohibit your ability to protect yourself.
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AMEN!!! We don’t go to places that don’t honor our 2nd Rights!!!
Agreed. I would try and stay in Constellational carry states if I could.
Or, don't support the rules of a country that doesn't take seriously the dangers of aggression.
I agree stay in free states
Personal safety has always been a priority for my husband as he is retired PD. Lock your doors, always be mindful of your surroundings. If you choose to carry any weapon, be trained on how to use it and keep proficient. Cameras and phones documenting actions can save lives. Be smart and safe, not paranoid ❤
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Also be aware of law changes as you cross state lines. Many states have welcome centers on the major highways where you can stop to make changes to meet the state law.
Situational Awareness is the number 1 deterrent. If you want to carry fine, just know the laws in the state you are travelling in. Non lethal options are available like Byrna, bear spray, wasp spray, etc. Pepper gel is better than pepper spray as it won't blow back on you in windy areas, but both work. Just stay alert and leave the area if your not comfortable. A women's senses are A lot keener than a mans. Trust your wife/girlfriend if they arent comfortable.
I used to drive trucks cross country, and now days it's way too dangerous, back around 2012 I stopped at a truck stop, and people were all a buzz about something that happened earlier, when a truck driver got twenty bucks from the fuel island, and was attacked for the twenty dollars, I don't know what is going on with society anymore but I want to go back to the 70s and 80s, way better life back then
Or the 50s/60s…..
@@GratefulGlamper OH back when women couldn't have a bank account or credit card in our own names. No freakin' way....
So sad
I agree with everything you said. I am a senior but I'm fairly fit and over 6 feet tall and 200 pounds. That is a bit of a deterrent. While I don't travel a lot, I do snowbird from IL to FL. We only stay at campgrounds. No boondocking at Walmart or a rest area. In my opinion that's asking for trouble. I do stay alert to my surroundings when stopping for fuel or for a restroom break. At campgrounds, even when we know our neighbors or are familiar folks, we still lock doors. At this point, I will tell you that I'm more concerned with what happens when someone decides to try to break in. At that point, I do believe in conceal and carry and I'm a vet, so I'm trained. "nuff said.
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AMEN! As an NRA instructor, I remind people to get out on the range often!
Thanks for your service!
Signed;
Navy wife , Navy brat & Army m-I-love
Once you get by our German Shepherd, then you'll have to deal with me.
Say goodnight Gracie.
We travel with our 85 lb German Shepherd, Bear. Haven't had any trouble yet!
We also have a German shepherd, great protection she barks if someone talks to me. She will sit right in front of me until she deams you safe
Stopping at a rest area south of portland, oregon one evening after dark...I was walking to the rest rooms with my German Shepherd...I noticed 3 men standing together near the buildings....they appeared to be perusing the people who were coming and going into the restrooms and parking lot....I will tell you my spider sense kicked in.....I noticed that they watched me coming down the sidewalk...I know that i would be an easy mark...an old fat woman in her seventies....but as I watched them their eyes went to the dog by my side on a leash.....and all three took a partial step back....that was a very strange moment...creepy....
We also went full-time with our German shepherd,,at 1st I thought why did we choose such a big dog..we're old and we still have young kids..our dog is amazing,,she won't even allow people to approach our children or grandchildren without a firm warming 😉..staying safe requires a line of defense and a backup plan
Awareness, confidence, common sense, and a big dog (rotties for me) are absolute musts.
We have been full-time RVing for a year now. When we pull in for diesel or a rest area, I'm always watching now. But when we first started, I was so vigilant about it. But when I heard this story earlier this year, it woke me up. Love how you covered it, too! Thank-you!
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I teach a course “Refuse to be a Victim” (NRA gun free course)
1) be aware of your surroundings!
2) TRUST your instincts, women are the worst as we think ‘oh I shouldn’t think that about that guy’.. yes you SHOULD
3) have additional latches on your screen doors, as well as your Rig door
4) walk with confidence looking at people!
5) play the “what IF” game. As you are walking through a parking lot (or store etc) think “What would I do if this happens? “ planning at all times will keep your plans sharp in case you need them.
6) If you have to unhook your toad or puller, HOOK them back as soon as you can.
7) DON’T advertise on facecrack etc where you are, or you are out of town!
I could go on..
Take regular safety classes & if you carry…. Get out on the range often!!
Thanks for the tips!
where do you teach your course?
My dad taught my sisters and me to fight like a man so that we could defend ourselves
Where do you teach this course? I'm in southern Illinois.
This is GREAT advice! I like #5 the best and I naturally do this 100% of the time. It surprises me how many people just don't know how to do this.
2A folks. Conceal carry, pepper spray, pocket knife...setup your EDC for your lifestyle.
Always be aware of stranger, don't let your guard down. Lock your door.
My rules are simple: situational awareness and not being nose deep into your phone. I have a less than lethal Byrna in hopes of de escalation, but also a real pew for the worst case. It also helps that I have a rescue LEO GSD K9. It never hurts to mutter and yell to yourself like a crazy, if you start to get the weird feels.
Yes, thanks for sharing!
@@GratefulGlamperit also helps to know how to deal with the unfortunate situation like a knife attack, in that the outer facing portion of the forearm is the best tool for deflecting a knife swipe. There are no arteries in this area. Yes you will get cut bad, but won’t bleed out.
@@GratefulGlamper I'm 58 and heart patient I need more info on self defense ?
I love that! Crazy acting people do scare all people.
Good advice! Acting crazy in a dangerous situation helped King David!
I am a senior woman, in her 70s who drives a big SUV. I also travel with 4 large dogs one of which is my Service Dog. So one of the dogs is always with me. When I stop for gas I check the area as I am driving in, I check before I get out. I put the phone in my pocket and my purse in the foot well under the back seats that are dropped down for the dogs. I lock the door before I get out. I start pump gas without fooling around and while gas pumps I hop back into car and lock the door. I repeat the same procedure when I get out when done pumping gas. Get immediately back into the car and start the car immediately and deal with receipt and mileage, etc. After I move away. I also, carry a flashlight with a taser. Been doing this for years.
Great tips, thanks for sharing
I usually go to Costco to for gas. Sure, there can be a waiting time but that means more people around. They also always have an attendant around and I always smile and wave to the attendant and if they can I’ll have a simple fun conversation with them. I also have a steering wheel club by my seat, not only does it lock the steering wheel but it hurts if you accidental hit yourself. ;).
Those are great thing to do to keep safe. My question is, why the taser? Have you ever had to use it?
@@Pp4Gd I do as well when I can. However, I live in a rural area & the closest Costco is 4 hours away. I do use Costco though whenever I am near one.
Leaving the refueling process and locking yourself in a car being refueled is NOT a safe solution at all.
At this point with the same of our country it doesn’t matter how in shape you are it’s the mental state of the attacker being aware of your surroundings pay attention never leave yourself open to attack!
I personally believe concealed carry is the best protection but be well advised and trained with your personal carry options.
I love your doggo. He is the best safety device around, and the best emotional support available.
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My dog, Pews, motion activated solar lights $ Security Camera’s are my go to! I always park in front of my trailer tongue (because I’ve heard horror stories of campers getting stolen while someone was asleep in it)! Motion activated solar lights alert me when someone is on my campsite at night & of course my dog alerts me too 😂
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I highly recommend the LCP .380. Fits in your front pocket like a phone. I don’t leave my house without it.
Good to know, thanks for the comment
Buy the LCP .380 II the original one has a terrible trigger
Great option for states 2A friendly; however, be careful in the antigun states. Research where you can carry before you end up in hot water. Plenty of resources and groups online.
@@dwaineesch1344 , great point sir! Thankfully I have no desire to go to California, New York or New Jersey lol!
@@austinboone2265 Maryland, any New England State, there are many more out there. Thankfully, I live in Alabama and have my freedom. I only travel in the South where I can protect myself and my family.
As a military veteran, I had veteran plates on my truck (we have a travel trailer) before I moved to Canada. Now I have different articles on the truck that are Marines related. It serves several purposes, but the largest is that people know to look elsewhere if they are looking for "excitement". I diligently practice most of the things you mentioned - staying alert, know your surroundings, apparently I typically "look intimidating", which is really helpful in avoiding that previously mentioned "excitement". As far as your last point, I sincerely hope that no one will ever know my stance....
Thanks for your service ‘jar head’ 😉
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Navy Wife , Navy Brat & Army mom
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So that's why all those old farts wear military caps and teeshirts . They are trying to look intimidating
My wife and I have camped in every state except Alaska and Hawaii. We also have camped in Canada. We have been camping for over 50 years and we have never had a serious problem.
On a recent trip from Ohio to Florida we stopped for fuel in Elizabeth Town Kentucky at a Five-star gas station/convenient mart in a very good neighborhood.
I filled up with fuel and got in our 2021 Thor Compass. I looked in the passenger side mirror and saw a man carrying 2 Jack Russel type dogs unleashed coming toward the camper. He tried to pull open the camper door. It was dead bolted and locked. He looked in the passenger side door and said something we could not understand. He returned to his green Chevy 1/2 ton truck with his 2 unleashed dogs.
Keep your doors locked and have a way to protect your family if an intruder gains access to your home on wheels. Be safe and prepared. America is not what she use to be.
Now for the rest of the story.
We did not confront the man. We continued on I 65 south toward the Sunshine State. After a couple of miles I saw the green Chevy truck with his 4 ways on approaching, he pulled beside us. We could see him and the 2 dogs. He was very close to us. He tried to run us off the road. I slammed on the brakes to avoid hitting the truck however I did not stop. He tried this 3 times and was not able to get us to stop.
We were in panic mode. My wife called 911. He was beside us again in his attempt to stop us. He saw me with the phone and sped off. We were able to get a partial plate number. We could see him at a great distance because he had his cargo light on in the rear of the truck bed. 911 told us they would let them know.
The green truck with his cargo light on had pulled over at the next exit, waiting for us. We did not know what we would have to endure next.
A class C RV had passed us and my wife suggested we stay close to the class C RV which I did. Maybe that is why the green truck did not try to follow us.
Warnings to follow:
1. Keep your doors locked.
2. Purchase a dash cam. (We now have one)
3. Security cameras (we have them at home)
4. Have a way to protect yourself if someone gains access to your rv.
5. Do not stop.
6. If you are older you are a target.
7. 911 was no help.
This was typed on Sticky Notes. It happened to my wife and I on October 31, 2022 at 7:08 am.
Totally terrifying! What was with the dogs? He sounds very mental
Thank God, you’re OK
Glad you’re ok, how terrifying
Good storytelling and important details. Thanks for the info.
@@belindah9790 My first thought was this deranged person would toss the dogs in the RV first to attack the occupants. Sick.
@@chelegerson2093 very!!!
This may sound weird but I have always been judged by people as "an approachable" person. I have been in two very bad situations in my lifetime- twice attacked but when I was younger and in my home city of FL. My brother, a retired policeman and who lived in Manhattan and Boston, told me that the best thing to do in an unfamiliar environment is be very non expressive and more deadpan and look at no one but look around and assess the space.
And note the insulting superficiality of how this was reported on "the news".
There's 9 millimeters of separation between you being safe or being a victim...
Unfortunately, self-defense classes rely on close contact with a perpetrator.
Everything else you mentioned will start and end with your total awareness of your surroundings. The only true advantage you have before shtf...
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that's why we carry whenever we're on the road. but the name of the game is situational awareness you have to have your head on a swivel its sad but true
Don't post on Social Media while you are not at home and don't post your travel plans. People surf social media looking for their next victim. Several years ago a neighboring town had 6 houses broken into over Memorial Day Weekend while families were away on holiday. The criminals found the empty homes because of social media posts and every victim had a link to the thieves because they were friends of friends or family members of a friend or some other connection that just trickled down the social media stream. Social Media is all knowing and is not private, no matter how private you try to make it.
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💯 we don’t post anything until we are no longer in that area - hence why much of our travel content isn’t “real time”
Situational awareness is the key. Crooks love a victim who is walking around with their head in the clouds oblivious to their surroundings. If you can, be armed and have the confidence and will to defend yourself. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Stay with your traveling companions. Non lethal weapons are crap unless you are some kind of well trained self defense expert. Don’t travel remote areas such as rest stops at night. Be where you need to be by dark.
Great tips, thanks for sharing
Exactly!!!
My dad brought me up with “judged by 12, than to be carried by 6” 💁🏻♀️
Also important to practice & train!
Blessings,
A great refresher video! I watched a video of felons viewing people on a video & when asked they all independently picked the same potential targets! Main lesson don’t give off a vulnerable vibe & don’t display apparent wealth! A small container of Bear Spray Gel (not liquid) has multiple protection qualities. Thank you for exploring this necessary but difficult subject!
Thanks for watching
Don't stop at rest stops -- we only stop at big truck stops
That's exactly what I was going to say..we only stopped there in a emergency
You can be a target anywhere. Even in big truck stops!
I'm highly aware of my surroundings even though my husband often is not. My dad raised me to be aware and defensive, always prepared and knowing where my exits are. I appreciate the details in the video and many in the comments. I've not seen mention yet that most key fobs have an alarm/panic button for noise making. Use the alarm to attract helpful attention if intuition alerts you. Of course keys between your fingers folded into a fist can also be a good defense if things get physical.
As a child I was attacked by 4 older kids, I tried and it worked: bend your knees and twist at the waist and lift your wings (with elbows and fists out). They all backed away. Move with a purpose; don't lolly-gag.
Thanks for sharing valuable information.
I often camp alone. I have a giant pair of men’s boots that I keep outside my camper door. I also sleep with my car keys under my pillow so I can set off the car alarm in an emergency.
Great tips. Thanks for sharing
I think that so many people use the boot thing that it is a dead giveaway that there is a single woman inside.
Thank you for the car keys tip! I never thought of that. They will now be within arms reach when I’m asleep!
Good ideas. I also have started keeping a dog dish and dog leash outside my door, even though I don't have pets.
@@vanssolo1no, boots are not a dead give away, but glad you already know of that trick.
Buy a Byrna. Not lethal weapon or carry a gun. You can't assume you are always safe. Crime is EVERYWHERE.
We’ve heard of that, definitely a consideration
We never leave home without them. They are legal in every state. No permits or licenses are needed.
First time I saw it was in a RV magazine, haven't left home without it since. I also have Bad Guy Repellent
Yes, I've got mine.
Byrna is an excellent option
We are in our 60s and travel all the time. My answer is that both of us carry. So if My glock 20 didnt end this, my wifes glock 19 would have. Dont be fools. Remember when seconds count, police are only minutes away. You are 911 these days.
Your afraid to be de-monitized. So now you've lost your 1st ammendment rights too.
not allowed to carry in Canada, same with pepper spray. as for this channel being afraid. get stuffed buddy. retired truck driver. as a woman one has to be more alert as a lot of men out there think it is ok to manhandle a female at truck stops. stay alert ladies and trust no one in truck stops. or rest stops.
Can you have bear spray? The Byrna? In Canada?
I teach an NRA course and always remind people to range practice.
Regarding Canada, as was mentioned above, WASP spray is legal to carry & use to take out bugs🤷♀️
We personally won’t go to places that doesn’t honor my 2nd rights.
@@sandydemars8100no. Unless you’re in the bush away from civilization & in bear country you cannot use it on another human.
As for a Byrna, apparently it is considered a firearm but apparently is exempt from licensing but and there’s a few buts, it can’t be concealed, can only be used in self defence & some municipalities have their own restrictions. Basically, do your research.
Dont be fools goes both ways. There are too many legal cases where the victim lost using that same argument. State, federal, county laws vary. We all have to consider our risk tolerance. If going to jail or years in court battles using your retirement to pay the legal fees is an acceptable risk, that is your tolerance.
I just subscribed bcuz you are doing safety tips. Whether you live on the road or not, safety is key for everyone. When I drove rideshare, there would be no parking at my building, so I had to park three blocks away. I would double park in our lot, and take my stuff upstairs. Then, when walking 3 blocks, at 2-3 am, I had my head on a swivel, and no hand bag or anything ready to be stolen. I had only my keys in one hand and zapper in the other. I knew where the blind spot for the video security was @my building, so I didn’t use that entrance. Hint: public transportation > Never sit or stand at the bus stop or train station with your eyes on your phone. Always stand or sit with your back to the wall, otherwise someone can sneak behind you, get you in a headlock or use a garrot, and strangle you, or drag you to anywhere. Don’t use both ear buds, so you can hear what’s going on around you.
Thanks for subscribing and for the comment!
We travel in our 40’ Skoolie with a 200lb English Mastiff. Just did. 12,000 mile trip from Alaska to the lower 48 and back. If we don’t have our dog with us I always carry bear spray, not mace. Bear spray is legal to carry crossing back in forth through Canada. The dog just deters 99% of folks. The high, and mentally ill are not deterred all that much. Still, if someone’s got a gun, there isn’t much we can do. We just try to stay aware, and don’t get out, or wait a bit until it feels safer. Or just drive to the next off ramp,rest area, or business. Believe it or not most truck stops are safe, but noisy. As an old trucker we stay at them quite a bit, when we just need 8 hours or so of quick sleep.
Thanks for this important message.
Every so often there is an awful tragedy like this and it reminds us that as full time RVers we always have to take precautions.
I have a 47-state carry permit with the way people are today. You just never know.
When I'm driving, I also keep a big can of auto brake cleaner next to me in the seat.if I use a rest area bathroom I take it with me.
That is a good idea! You never know what might happen on the road!
You mentioned carrying keys but didn't point out that most vehicles today have remote unlocking key fob that also is equipped with a "panic button" which sets off the car alarm or horn. Whether you are in the RV or vehicle or outside that is a loud and effective way to scare off someone who is looking to assault you. It also alerts others in the area that something is amiss.
We just discussed this during an all female camping trip. We don’t feel this protects us because “everyone” just ignores car alarms. We made a pact then and there not to do so. If we heard an alarm on that trip, we agreed to all converge on the spot.
We always have our air horn beside the door. Wasp spray that sprays about 10-15 ft away, and our more serious things on our side. When my husband is out pumping gas I am watching all around us. Our dog is not huge but very protective. There are plenty of good people out there but now with the open boarder there are thousands that are already breaking the law and have no fear of our laws. It pays to be vigilant!
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American born kid from Ohio...not someone who crossed the open border. Worry less about them and more about everyone else.
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Age 72, fairly fit, taller woman, not heavy and not skinny, have been told I’m intimidating, walk confidently, try to stay aware of surroundings…make it obvious I’m looking around….when traveling alone. Often drive longer distances in large pickup alone. When I stop for rest break/nap, I text my husband exactly where I am and how long I may be resting…and take pictures of the area. Then text when I’m headed back on the road. Also “often” exercise right to carry.
When we RV, we always head to Provincial Park Campgrounds in Canada with lots of trails for hiking, water for Kayaking and we spent alt least 1-1/2 to 2 hours a day doing these outdoor events, we do not really call them exercises as they are really rewarding activities. As such we also carry bear spray for those out back park hikes in the BC mountains so that in it's self would be a good deterrent to any violent attacks. I for one am always in the moment, no headphones or ear buds as I am enjoying nature.
👍 Bear spray is great personal protection, thanks for sharing.
Things are definitely much different now. We were lack’s on the door locking at first. It irritates my husband but since the couple in Texas got murdered I am locking our RV door every time I come in. I need to be better at rest stops. Thanks for the info
Thanks for watching
Yes, even when awake and day light. I've seen people "accidentally" enter the wrong RV. That doesn't happen if locked.
As for me.. 9mm
.38 Special!
You better knock or else you’ll meet the Glock😊
That is one response, and while it can be very effective, you may need a lot of money to defend yourself in both criminal and civil courts. It’s an unfortunate reality of today’s litigious society.
@@ksw501USCCA membership works for you in a case like that.
Our first yr of full-time rvers..was 2020..we had to drive through areas where they're was riots..my husband is a retired semi driver..friends told us to arm your self, bear spray in the truck and rv..a dog..and having a siren on your key chain..pepper spray..it's very effective
Pepper gel is a better option as you are less likely to be affected by it also.
I was doing contract work and drove from Ohio to CA. I took my 65 lb dog with me. Found out earlier that if I felt angry/upset towards someone, in this case hunters going on a popular hiking trail, he would growl and lunge at large men. I did go to the ranger station and report them and found out they could hunt there, but there were no signs to alert people. The rangers gave the spiel, but when I just looked at him, he said yeah I know, he didn’t like that he had to permit it and it did endanger hikers. My dog’s normal personality was all people are friends or potential friends. I had to tell him all people don’t want to pet him when I could see they were afraid of him. He became better known at the apartment I was staying at than me! Had a woman open her window and ask if that was Buddy. When I said yes, she said her husband talks about Buddy, could she and her children pet him. This absolutely made his day. But I knew he would protect me. As a single 140 lb woman, I know I can be a target so I am always alert and paying attention to my surroundings as I don’t want to become a statistic.
I have recently transitioned into an RV life and I watch and appreciate your videos. They are generally very pertinent and helpful, thank you.
Thanks for watching and best wishes
I live in Lincoln County, NE and am always on guard at the rest areas. There have been 2 murders at the I-80 rest stop thats in our county. GBR
Super sad….but yes, GBR
Also heard a statistic that there is a truck stop or 2 in that area notorious for human trafficking. Who would suspect that in Midwest?
I lock my doors as soon as I am getting in. I drove solo over the road truck driver for 14 years and was 42 when I started driving. Before cell phones. I learned to always pay attention to everything around me when walking. So many are looking a their phones while walking. Not a good idea. After dark I never walk close to other vehicles and look all around you.
I totally agree with people becoming too absorbed in phones and earbuds. If I'm wearing earbuds in public, I only use 1. My earbuds also have a "transparent" mod that allows me to hear what's going on around me. I read an article years ago on being aware of your surroundings at ALL times (especially women who are alone). Always walk with your head up and constantly scan your surroundings. Being aware of who/what's around you can also make you aware if someone else might need your assistance. Also, know where you parked your car. I can't tell you how often I see people wandering around a parking lot looking for their car because they forgot where they parked, and lock all your doors immediately after entering your vehicle.
I hear of tragedies and near tragedies. I want people, they don’t listen, they’re extremely naive, stubborn and rarely listen.
People who isolate themselves and isolate themselves in the backcountry are asking for trouble and it’s sad.
Thanks for the tips. I am always searching my location for thing that look out of the ordinary and all the way we can exits a situation if need be. My husband is disabled being aware is the most important tip I can give.
Don't forget your golf 😉 clubs.
I'm praying for the Weaver family and all those in need.
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We had a huge discussion after this occurred and came to the conclusion that surrendering whatever the perp wants is most likely the best strategy unless you can get the upper hand. I think often the first reaction is to fight but at what cost. Very sad and horrifying.
I have the popular fuel card that RVers use and I cannot tell you how many times I have been approached at a major fuel stop while fueling or even at a rest stop (yes, I have stopped at that same rest stop).
Sometimes it is a trucker curious about my RV, but other times it is a random person who asks to use my points for showers and such. Living in Los Angeles as long as I did I learned to have everything locked at all times, walk around with a different set of keys laced between my fingers, act like my head is on a swivel, if one person is trying to talk with me being on the lookout for a partner who may try to come up alongside or behind me, and carry myself like I am amped up and may be looking for a fight myself.
Most people try to avoid crazy so that's the persona I project. Sad that I cannot have a quality convo with a trucker who means well, I am using the fuel pumps they rely on to make a living, but I am just trying to avoid being a target.
Oh, and the wife has had extensive krav maga training. I pitty the fool that tries anything on her.
Thanks for the video.
Best...
Thanks for sharing and for watching
Add an outside cameras, so you can see what’s going on around you before you step out the door. Most vehicle key fobs have a panic button on them, they make a lot of noise, headlights flashing, which attracts attention. The last thing A perpetrator wants. Pay attention to what’s going on around you.
Good tips, thanks for sharing
I love the 360 camera viewing of our RV! I cannot agree enough with this statement about an outside camera for monitoring.
Once we are in the RV for the night, I ensure the steps are retracted in and the doors are locked. Second, as you stated situational awareness, looking around your surroundings all of the time where ever your at. Also my wife and I both are certified to carry, train, train, train is key. Ours are with in reach at all times unless guests are over, then put in the safe. Never let a stranger in, talk through the doors or an upper window if need be. Thanks for the video, good tips. Be safe everyone.
👏🏼YES!!! TRAIN train train!!!
Thanks for the comment and for watching
Always be aware of your surroundings, get training and utilize your 2A…You must meet force with a higher force to end a encounter, we all hope and pray we never have to encounter this but if we do be prepared.
We carry our Byrna guns. They are a non lethal weapon that uses CO2 chargers to shoot pepper spray "bullets" (pellets filled with pepper spray). They are very effective!
Are they legally considered the same as other bang objects??? Or fall under pepper spray rules and regulations?? Or something else.
They are regarded as “less than lethal”, but can be lethal based on shot placement. You can use the projectiles with pepper spray or just the kinetic projectiles that can and do often cause broken bones, large bruises, etc. They are not considered firearms in the U.S., but are effective deterrents. I’ve seen RUclips vids of people being shot with them, and it is game-over when hit.
Our RV is only for vacationing and weekend excursions. But when we are on our RV trips, we hike non stop even if the campsite is not in the woods. We will just do laps around wherever the site is, and bring our rollerblades & badminton set. I also keep a yoga mat to do core work. I don’t find my RV trips to be lazy. And if we are in a city with a rink, we will even go ice skating. Then again, i take figure skating and hockey classes when home, and go to our local gym a few times a week. We fight hard to not be sedentary!
You need to remember, many of your subscribers that RV are Canadians, and basically any weapon cannot be carried/used, which is unfortunate, at least to give you some confidence in 'having' safety! Nonetheless, I'll tell you a short story, where on a solo hunting trip several years back, I got myself a Motel room for the night, and was awoken to some noise outside. There was a young fellow (I say young as he apparently was 19 years old) trying to break a side window out of a vehicle opposite of the room I was in. He wasn't able to, so he went to a second vehicle, did the same..again, no luck, although he did keep trying. After a while he left, walking behind the opposite side of Motel rooms between the parking lot. About 15 minutes later, the alarm goes off on my pickup truck, so I stuck my head out the door and asked what he was doing...his answer, he's trying to get into 'his' truck...so I quickly slid on my jeans and t-shirt, and headed outside. After getting out the door the guy was coming right at me! Now, I'm in my early 70's, and now very angry...so I put him in a head-lock, and I could tell after a short while my energy level being angry was cutting off his breathing...so I let off somewhat, and he came to life again, trying to fight me. I had bare feet, but we ended up in the gravel parking lot, but again I got the better of him, back in a head-lock again, to where we fell down, and I held him until the police arrived, as the owners had heard the scuffle. He tried telling me he just wanted something to drive to town...nonetheless, my hand was bleeding, my feet where bleeding and the woman owning the Motel came to my room and cleaned up the best she could. That was the one and only fight I've had in my life, and he had no weapons (thankfully) so as you say, staying in relatively good shape, you can hold your own if you try. When the adrenalin kicks in, one can truly not realize what they are capable of honestly. Thank you for this, as like you we have a Class A diesel pusher, and tow our Honda CRV. One thing that came to mind, when you mentioned about being able to leave quickly...we have to take the key out of our CRV, and put the transmission in Park, so leaving would be tough, if we had to quickly. Perhaps a manual transmission vehicle wouldn't have that issue, but we do as I'm sure do others. No idea if there are ideas on this issue, but I'd sure love to hear them! We're Snowbirds, so we do travel and use Rest Area's, so a big thanks for tackling this issue, as it's much appreciated!
Thanks for sharing!
Note to Canadians if you go to any good sporting goods store and by the orange flare gun in an orange floating box you will find this great in your boat or RV. A flare in the face would scare most attackers away. Note a 12 gauge shotgun shell is the same size as the flare shell. In Canada of course you have no right to defend your self and can be charged if you do as the criminals rights are just so much more important than honest people's but if you have to fire a flare gun to defend yourself or family you at least get to be judged by a Jury, which is better than dead.
Alternatively move to the US. I love Canada but having to be defence less is just not on. In the past we have had to call 911 a number of times and they just dont come so you really are on your own.
My thoughts exactly about towing our CRV and waiting while the diesel warms up before we'd be able to start driving.
Be aware. I carry. Trust no stranger. Try not being out after dark. Keep doors locked. Use motion lights.
Good tips!
just watched your safety vlog from 4 years ago, what a change you have both made, keep up the good work.
Thank you!
We use plant fitness black card program to work out when in proximity to any fitness facility across the US. Depending on the state regulations and if needed, we open or concealed carry, but also have other devices for defense.
: ( THANKS for sharing this tragic event... , my condolences to the widow : ( I think awareness is key and have tried to teach to daughters and Grandson. Be prepared as best you can. ALL the BEST and safe travels to ALL ! ! !
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These are excellent tips! Situational awareness is first. In addition, I carry a Byrna loaded with teargas and we both carry stun/flashlights. I don't care if I never have to use them.
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We are both 75 and never go without our two big dogs. They are both cream puffs. However their bark is huge and they can be, and are, very threatening to strangers who come into their territory.
I always overnight at a campground, just feel safer than overnighting at a parking lot.
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We made the mistake of not knowing, even though we checked reviews, that a campground we were going to stay overnight in was a Party Spot. Nothing before dark gave indication. Then, a full caravan of 20-somethings showed up with tents, pop-ups, campers, etc, and started throwing down immediately. Camp Host was "gone for the evening" supposedly. We didn't settle in, just wanted to sleep, so we cranked up and left by midnight when the bonfires (6 of them on the lakeside) started having fireworks added. Made damn sure I got my money back, but my point of this story is just to be vigilant. Campgrounds don't guarantee safety. Be vigilant and aware at all times.
I don't understand staying at a rest area. They are busy, loud, and dangerous. I don't think it is a secret that you are at a greater risk at rest areas and truck stops.
I must say, when I am out I am carrying. 2 years ago, I was off grid with my 5 year old when I was approached by a man claiming to be part of the ranger patrol. He got so close to me that we were sharing air. I declared at that time, I was carrying and would not miss the shot that close. He left pretty quickly. There are scary people out there and everyone must be prepared to protect themselves.
Hey grateful glamper I watched your video on rv parks not allowing rigs over 10 or 15 years old regardless of condition. My suggestion to you is gather signatures and initiate a class action suit based on the very reasons you outlined in your video. Best wishes
Situational awareness is key …. Gotta pay attention to where you are and ask around, folks will often tell you if you should or should not stop somewhere. Broken glass, needles, trash and so on will tell you what’s happened there. Don’t be afraid, be aware. Great video Charity!!
Thanks for watching
I'm a car traveler, but I hardly ever stop at interstate rest stops. They just don't feel safe to me. I would rather stop at a convenience store with lots of other people around. The more people that are around, the safer you are. Of course, you have to pick your locations carefully too, but I usually scout my route before I get on the road.
Great tips, thanks for sharing and for watching
Good tips! Dont pull into an overnight parking throw out your slides, turn on your ginny at 11:30 at night, dont CAMP....it makes people trying to sleep angry. Dont make people mad! I have met several Unstable people
Thank you for bringing the awareness of this tragedy. By heart goes out to the Weaver family. I donated a small amount to their go fund me. If everyone posting here would do the same maybe that would help them get to their financial goal. Will not bring Mr. weaver back but will show them there are still good people in this world.
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Had to laugh again, Charity! I am one of those over 55. I am a single, 71 year old, 5'2" 120 lb woman who usually travels alone, except for my 75 lb yellow lab, Boux! (I'm from Louisiana, rhymes with roux, lol) And, my safety is a concern. I am very careful about where I stop and try to always be vigilant of my surroundings.
Good work. Enjoy your videos, especially the diy's and organizational videos!
Thanks for watching, safe travels
You have been viewing many experiences DON'T Stop, the People look more than is Told.KEEP UP THE HARD WORK.❤
Thanks for watching
Keep a can of mace by the door the front door and we always carry a handgun and always keep the doors locked.
I just watched and I’m horrified of what happened. I diligently listened to all your safety tips. I have a practice that I think your viewers could incorporate in ways to stay safe. I start looking for gas stations when my tank is down to a quarter. Two reasons: finding a station before I run out in case they are widespread AND if I do find a remote station I give myself the option of not stopping if it looks sketchy. I tow so as a woman, I’m VERY aware of where I exit my vehicle. Even if it’s a well populated area. But on the road I’ve learned to give myself options.
Great tip, thanks for sharing
Sadly, this couple live only about 30 minutes from us, in Missouri, and in the same community our kids have lived for 20 years. While we do not know them, our hearts break for the wife and family. We, too, are RVers in our 70's and try to always be aware of our surroundings when we stop at Rest Areas to walk the dogs and at fuel stations. This is a practice we have used for many, many years and taught our children every day of their adolescent to adult lives. We still remind them of this any time they are out. We travel with two dogs and almost never leave the RV without them or each other when we stop at Rest Areas. At fuel stations I always keep my eye on my husband and the surroundings. We live in a very scary world but, it is not going to keep us from enjoying our travels. Happy Glamping and may God Bless and keep us all safe.
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Thank you Charity for your helpful tips. Praying for the Weavers family.💕🙏💕
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Thank you for your channel and being honest even about the hard topics. I have been considering going full time with my kids and nobody else makes level headed videos on this topic.
Thanks for the kind words and for watching
A few other safety tips that I have not seen mentioned. Always BACK into your parking spot so that you do not have to maneuver your rig should you need to make a quick getaway. Also, always keep your keys in the same spot so that you can reach for them automatically without having to go on a search and rescue for them. And lastly - privacy curtains. Dash cams, front and back that record movement outside and send a notice to your phone. Motion sensor lights on the outside of your rig. Travel safe!
If you use a cane to get around, do not get a folding cane, or one that breaks down, because it doesn't have any power when it needs to be swung.
Something happened on my 10,000 mile, coast to coast Spring road trip in a very serene setting. I travel with big boom protection but the only thing that would have helped in this particular situation was a ccw so, I'm gonna' get one of those to accompany my new 9mm.
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The most fit person can be overpowered by surprise. All precautions may not stop a crazy person. We all can only do our best, but there is no perfect method to be 100% safe.
Thank you for reminding all of us to be safe, RV'er or not! You be safe too!~
Thank you!
Another great video. My husband tells me to be aware all the time. Yes I’m 65 and do need to exercise.
This is why I only travel to states that acknowledge my Kansas concealed carry and I always go armed.
I drove over the road for thirty years. Never just park and hop out of your vehicle . Park sit a few minutes and look around check out the area and what other people are doing. Always be aware. And carry protection train and train often no matter your age.
Great tips, thanks for sharing
Thank You! We needed to hear this.
Thanks for watching
Perhaps someone has already mentioned this, but if your phone battery is running out and you don't have a means of charging it, change your voicemail, starting with "Help" and state where you are and your situation so someone can try to get help to you!
For older or more frail rv'ers I would recommend having a 20 gauge shotgun (Younger or in better shape, 12 gauge), loaded with Winchester #4 buckshot. Less recoil, and that load does not "over penetrate". Meaning it minimizes the risk to other people that may be near by. This method is ONLY recommended if someone actually gains entry inside your rv while you are in there.