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Комментарии • 115

  • @comfynicole
    @comfynicole 10 месяцев назад +233

    not having the best season with my mom (that I do love very much), so seeing this multi-generational mom/daughter content was very sweet and heartwarming 🩷💌 the safety you feel in asking for advice from your mom, and the way your mom thought to help your daughter make you welcome-home art, and the love you have for your daughter, everything was so sweet.

    • @whenraindropsfall
      @whenraindropsfall 9 месяцев назад

      can relate. Logic is unwelcome😅 hope it works out

  • @JessConte
    @JessConte  10 месяцев назад +59

    thanks to Love & Pies for sponsoring this video 🥰 download Love & Pies for free now! cherrypick.gg/JessConteLP

    • @natio8497
      @natio8497 10 месяцев назад

      I LOVEE playing Love and Pies :))) Soooo excited that someone I love watching online plays the game too!

    • @theunbrokenpiece
      @theunbrokenpiece 10 месяцев назад

      im obsessed with it and it’s your fault 😭😭🥧🥧

  • @tamaranr22
    @tamaranr22 10 месяцев назад +98

    Queen Janine 💛 mothers know best, so glad you took the experience and enjoyed it ✨☁️

  • @anavanessa9182
    @anavanessa9182 10 месяцев назад +42

    The fact that your mom was able to stay with baby is such a sweet blessing 🥺🩷

  • @josiesisk
    @josiesisk 10 месяцев назад +43

    Jess, this is so good! Your videos are always edited to a masterpiece! Thank you for taking us along not only your journey but your journey as a mom, I’m not a mom yet, but watching your videos has already helped me so much as I prepare to be a wife in just 6 months whatttttt 🥰🥰 and then hopefully a mom in the future!! Thank you for sharing the joy and peace of the Lord in all you do!! Love and prayers ❤️❤️

  • @tamaranr22
    @tamaranr22 10 месяцев назад +66

    I’m not a mom but something I always say to my mother or my aunt is that yes you are mom but you are your own persona as well and you need to keep doing the things that you love so you don’t lose that part of your identity, you are an amazing mom and I’m sure kaiah had the best time with your mom 💛🥰😊

  • @KatiesAdventuree
    @KatiesAdventuree 10 месяцев назад +25

    I love the saying “distance makes the heart grow fonder” 😌

  • @HerGaming
    @HerGaming 10 месяцев назад +1

    Jess JUST COOK! Oh the throwback, I love the hat & apron combo 🥰

  • @kellyncapps5033
    @kellyncapps5033 10 месяцев назад +12

    The first time leaving your child is always the hardest. My daughter is 3 and I have only been away from her overnight, for 2 days. She was 2 years old. I cried and I struggled but my mom and I went to a women’s conference that blessed me greatly. My dad watched her for me and she had a great time. We FaceTimed and it was all okay. For mama’s, our babies feel like an extension of ourselves and it’s completely normal to get emotional when separated. You are an awesome mom and are doing a wonderful job ❤️

  • @larkspurmoon
    @larkspurmoon 10 месяцев назад +9

    This Made me so emotional 🥹We are proud of you Jess as a mother. Yes what you said is true, accept the opportunities, Kaia will be super proud of you too. My mum passed on great opportunities for me and my brother during her peak years, which now I feel bad about, I wish she wouldn't have done that.

  • @kayrahb2730
    @kayrahb2730 10 месяцев назад +7

    Im older than you, but the way I learn from and admire you, Jess.. words can't describe. I pray by God's grace if i ever have babies, I can be a mum and person like you work to be.

  • @Jaztene
    @Jaztene 10 месяцев назад +3

    Just wondering.. why couldn't any of Gabe's family babysit? aren't they a lot closer to where you guys live? why does Jess' mom have to fly all the way from Australia? :(

    • @ourcottoncandylife7584
      @ourcottoncandylife7584 10 месяцев назад +2

      Was wondering same. They live in states too. I guess they prefer Jess’s parents to babysit so she flew all the way from Australia. That was really sweet for her though

  • @tamaranr22
    @tamaranr22 10 месяцев назад +6

    I love the relationship you have with your mom 🥰 you are the cutest ever

  • @sparky711choc
    @sparky711choc 10 месяцев назад +4

    Good for you and your husband for taking a few nights away. It's actually good for your daughter as well to have parents who take time away together now and then. Kudos!

  • @HelloMoto_
    @HelloMoto_ 10 месяцев назад +3

    I would be the same way as you leaving my child.. but honestly if there was anyone I would be ok and comfortable leaving them with it would be my mom. I think anyone else and I wouldn’t have taken the trip either haha. Glad your mom made it in time!!
    Jess: crying over leaving Kaia
    Gabe: Vegas baby 😂

  • @adriennepound9804
    @adriennepound9804 10 месяцев назад +2

    My baby girl is just one and she noticed when dada goes to work and sometimes she’s okay with it and says buh bye but sometimes she will cry 😢

  • @myreamora7892
    @myreamora7892 10 месяцев назад +3

    My boyfriend and I are massive F1 fans as well and I was so happy that y’all had that opportunity and experience together!!! I love your content and everything you preach Jess 🤍

  • @Layla_2899
    @Layla_2899 10 месяцев назад +2

    🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

  • @adrianruvalcaba3897
    @adrianruvalcaba3897 10 месяцев назад +2

    One of those Jess Conte was a baby. My mother told me I was happy 😊😁😁😁

  • @Shelbyann1997
    @Shelbyann1997 10 месяцев назад +4

    Awe Jess!❤ you are such a good mama!

  • @KhaliahAli
    @KhaliahAli 10 месяцев назад +2

    OMGOODNESS what a big milestone, Jess! The first time I left my son for more than a day was when he was four! I had so much mom guilt but, that trip, that moment opened my heart to know that I still had a life before motherhood and that it is okay to do life sometimes that is not mothering! I happy you and Gabe got some one on one time and that your amazing mum swooped in to save the weekend! It’s looks like F1 treated you guys so well! I was in Begas Oct 22-25 while they were building the race track seems I missed all the fun! 😅 I hope you are feeling much better! 🫶🏽

  • @kulsoomaslam4216
    @kulsoomaslam4216 10 месяцев назад +2

    I was waiting for your vlog.
    My day will go better now ❤

  • @Kat-ef9jd
    @Kat-ef9jd 10 месяцев назад +3

    Here as soon as notification

  • @Jmjiltss
    @Jmjiltss 10 месяцев назад +4

    You’re such a good mom Jess❤

  • @Bri0812
    @Bri0812 10 месяцев назад +1

    The way you say 'can' when you were talking about prepping the house sounded so American! We're losing our little Aussie beauty haha

  • @adrianruvalcaba3897
    @adrianruvalcaba3897 10 месяцев назад +2

    That's a big fans awesome.

  • @khawla9459
    @khawla9459 10 месяцев назад +1

    you look beautiful, but I think a blonde balayage would look insane on you

  • @fatash87
    @fatash87 9 месяцев назад +1

    I’m so glad you went on the trip. I know it’s really hard leaving your kids behind, but we have to remember that we are our own person and have hobbies and enjoy things outside of being a mom and a wife. It’s important to continue to do things that bring you joy so you don’t lose who you are once becoming a mom. ❤

  • @adrianruvalcaba3897
    @adrianruvalcaba3897 10 месяцев назад +2

    2nd second to comment?

  • @haileythompson1345
    @haileythompson1345 10 месяцев назад +2

    jess, i love that your videos have started to feature more and more notes for Kaia! it is so cool to see you grow as a mom and when Kaia watches these videos one day, she will be so so proud of her mom and dad :)

  • @jl8805
    @jl8805 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wish you'd upload more often 😫 LOVE your videos! I always go back and see if I missed a video 😅 glad yall had fun :)

  • @adrianruvalcaba3897
    @adrianruvalcaba3897 10 месяцев назад +2

    She's gonna vlogs

  • @ashabaliga2319
    @ashabaliga2319 10 месяцев назад +2

    1st one to comment?

  • @katherinesandoval8331
    @katherinesandoval8331 10 месяцев назад +1

    My favorites 🤩💕so much love and blessings

  • @ayenbueno
    @ayenbueno 10 месяцев назад +1

    you're so sweet and you love her so much this is so heartwarming to see

  • @kaydeebeedy1582
    @kaydeebeedy1582 10 месяцев назад +1

    Leaving your babes at home for the first time is so hard! But it feels good during and after, it’s good for both of you! ❤️

  • @marialyacosta2280
    @marialyacosta2280 10 месяцев назад +1

    Omg love youuuuu💕💕you’re an amazing woman and mother ✨

  • @Jen-ir8xc
    @Jen-ir8xc 10 месяцев назад +1

    jess you literally look so cute with your chef hat HAHAHA

  • @HK-mr1cu
    @HK-mr1cu 10 месяцев назад +2

    Jess is so pretty!!!❤

  • @kelseyjade248
    @kelseyjade248 9 месяцев назад

    I personally would not have left her. Like my mom has watched her for a day, but I can’t leave her for more then a day.
    Like thanksgiving my mom drove to Tennessee and she spend the times with her but my daughters dads mom wanted her to stay the night but I wasn’t ready for it. I just am not ready to leave her over night. We have a routine and nights are the best because it’s just the moments with her. I think maybe when she is y’all’s daughter age maybe I’d feel comfortable.
    Me my daughter and her dad were all sick. It was like over a week my daughter had a seizure and was tested for being sick. She had the rino virus and the old corona virus. Everyone around us has been sick. 😢Hopefully you guys felt better.

  • @kulsoomaslam4216
    @kulsoomaslam4216 10 месяцев назад +2

    First ❤

  • @thaisass7981
    @thaisass7981 7 месяцев назад

    you know what's so sweet? I think she got sick because she was missing her baby and of course, I want her to have a lovely time away from her baby but honestly, that is so beautiful ❤

  • @jamieashton7285
    @jamieashton7285 9 месяцев назад +1

    😊😊😊

  • @sosiaster1640
    @sosiaster1640 10 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @delfinamoyanopicca
    @delfinamoyanopicca 10 месяцев назад

    WHO WAS THE DRIVER YOU SAW???!!!!

  • @vianeyv96
    @vianeyv96 10 месяцев назад

    I also just left my son for a work trip for 2 days (he was 17 months old) and I also cried and felt all the same emotions as you. But he didn’t even notice I don’t think 😂 he seemed normal when I came back.
    Super cool to go to f1 especially by invitation 😮

  • @julypatchouli9719
    @julypatchouli9719 10 месяцев назад

    I think it is so important to start making little trips apart from her. She needs to learn to be okay with a skilled babysitter. And you too 😊 And I'm sure she had a great time with her granny. My nephews love staying with me now. Yes we had some homesick bumps in the beginning. And I had to reasure my sister every 30 min in the beginning that we are okay. But now we a rolling so easily. And the boys are okay with not being home for a few nights as well. Especially since Aunty July gives out little extras that are not allowed with mom and dad 😊

  • @smickx96
    @smickx96 10 месяцев назад

    My son will be 3 in April. I didn’t leave him until September of last year. When I went on my most recent trip I definitely cried but it helps knowing I won’t be gone long & I get to video chat or get pictures. Your trip looked so fun! You & Gabe are doing a great job ❤️

  • @jaygombos
    @jaygombos 10 месяцев назад

    Jess, I’m now OBSESSED with Love & Pies. I can’t stop playing it 🫣🫶🏽

  • @HardCoreMegatron
    @HardCoreMegatron 10 месяцев назад

    I downloaded love & pies mid way through watching this video and I'm OBSESSED now. I literally fell asleep playing it into the wee hours of the morning 😂❤

  • @JenanHannaway
    @JenanHannaway 10 месяцев назад

    Although I don’t know all the details on how social media / influencing works fully - but if this trip is nothing but a work trip (aka. For financial reasons) then i want to say that this is NOT you focusing on yourself and not your baby, the fact that you’re going out there to make ends meet is FOR your baby. No.2 - if this is just a pleasure trip, then STILL I will say that this is not you caring for yourself at the cost of caring for your daughter (if that makes sense) this is you caring for yourself FOR your daughter because how can you be a knowledgable, wise mother if you didn’t give yourself the chance to learn and grow and experience these things. I think so long as you are doing it responsibly - aka making sure baby girl is taken care of while your away, then you have done nothing less than be a mother through and through. You go girl 🎉
    Also. If this trip gives you nothing but joy - then a mother that’s happy is a mother that’s bursting with love. So yea

  • @kandneeko
    @kandneeko 10 месяцев назад

    She may have knew you were leaving, but more importantly she knew you’d always come back

  • @summer_kerry1464
    @summer_kerry1464 10 месяцев назад

    I have just downloaded Love & Pies game. It’s such a nice game, love it so much! Btw I’m watching your video from KL, Malaysia❤

  • @hilciatejera6822
    @hilciatejera6822 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Jess🥰

  • @angelicamarliza
    @angelicamarliza 10 месяцев назад

    I live in Las Vegas! I hope you and Gabe enjoyed watching the race!

  • @valentinapanizsubero8206
    @valentinapanizsubero8206 10 месяцев назад

    We are planning to go to Vegas like a marriage scape I the only thing that was in my mind is leaving my daughter 😩 she is gonna be like 16 months old at that time. So I feel you 🥺❤️‍🩹

  • @daniellekramer93
    @daniellekramer93 10 месяцев назад

    My sister and bro in law both love F1!!! We were there right before it happened and saw them setting it up. So cool!!! I was there Halloween weekend to watch my bro drag race. My sisters fave is that Daniel guy.

  • @lovelylivie14
    @lovelylivie14 10 месяцев назад

    My son is almost 2 and the first time I had to leave him with Daddy bc my sister had tragically passed away and I was gone for 10 days. Honestly, it was horrible for me haha but I had the reassurance that Daddy was with him. The second time was just recently and our friend watched him. She sent me videos and pictures every day multiple times a day! He was having an absolute blast! I think it really matters WHO is watching our babies when it comes to trips away. You did a good job Mama!

  • @emmacarpenter1133
    @emmacarpenter1133 10 месяцев назад

    I’m so sorry you were sick! You looked absolutely beautiful! I love love your hair ❤
    Good job for doing something for yourself!

  • @ledesmasn
    @ledesmasn 10 месяцев назад

    The first time I left my kids, they were 3 & 4. My mom & grandma flew to Kansas from California to stay with them for a week. I cried the whole way to the airport, the whole flight to Costa Rica (for a friend's wedding), but once I was there I had a blast. The mom-guilt didn't ever go away but I made the most of it. I'm so proud of you for going and having a good time! Kaia was just fine and you made awesome memories

  • @דבורהמדינה
    @דבורהמדינה 10 месяцев назад

    Me and my husband did the same and I was crying the whole vacation, my baby was having fun with my mom, and she was absolutely ok but for me it was a horrible experience and I won't do it again.

  • @lauraferreira199
    @lauraferreira199 10 месяцев назад

    ive been having crazy baby fever lately 🥹 im only 18 😅
    much love to you jess and to the family, love having a cup of coffee in bed or the sofa while watching, feels like im just chilling with a friend 🤍

  • @marieklercruz4904
    @marieklercruz4904 10 месяцев назад

    Yes!! It happened to me. So unfortunately my baby goes to daycare because I’m in the military but I had to drop him at my moms 6hrs away for 5 days yesterday because daycare couldn’t take him since someone had an emergency surgery and I cried for the first 15 minutes of my drive back home. It was the hardest thing ever. He’s only 4 months which made it harder but easier because he didn’t cry because we left. Leaving our babies is so hard sometimes

  • @melanienriveraalvarez8759
    @melanienriveraalvarez8759 10 месяцев назад

    I feel like our kids do know that we’re not gonna be around. I just spent the whole thanksgiving week with my 3month old daughter and went back to work today. She was really fussy last night and had a rough day today.
    Also I love your relationship with your mum and Kaia, mine is also good and watching my mum being a grandma is the greatest blessing, she’s always around to give me a hand ❤

  • @memyselfmartini2328
    @memyselfmartini2328 10 месяцев назад

    So glad you were able to go and so happy Grandma had some quality time with her granddaughter. How very special ❤🎉

  • @kayem5812
    @kayem5812 10 месяцев назад

    I feel this so much my son is 2 and I have yet to leave him for longer than a few hours mom anxiety/guilt is so bad 😮‍💨 so happy for your guys for the F1 race!

  • @Emilyarmman
    @Emilyarmman 10 месяцев назад

    The first time I left my son was when I was delivering my second baby, I cried the whole time at the hospital

  • @bluehearts2012
    @bluehearts2012 9 месяцев назад

    Jess, I love the jacket you wore to the Formula 1 event. It was cute and stylish.

  • @tabita522
    @tabita522 10 месяцев назад

    Till today when my daughter is 4 and she has started school. That's the only hours I am away. I still can't leave her when she is home. I get this guilt of leaving her behind just to do my own stuff. I am like either I'll take her with me or I will not do.

  • @gabby8339
    @gabby8339 10 месяцев назад

    Our babies don't know whats happening, they can just feel mummys emotions ❤

  • @jasmineindia
    @jasmineindia 10 месяцев назад

    my mum still cries when I leave for longer than a few days and I’m 18 so don’t worry 🤣🤣🥰🥰

  • @shivaaanshi
    @shivaaanshi 10 месяцев назад

    I just look upto you to have a bond like this with my mother and hopefully one day with my child ☺️ this is so precious

  • @tiffanymcgowen3756
    @tiffanymcgowen3756 10 месяцев назад

    As an experienced mother myself yes leaving the first time is hard but it makes it easier on your kid in the future. I have 3 kids. 2 of them I have been able to leave for a short period of time and it's all fine but my last I never left for any reason then when I had to not by choice it really screwed with her to the point she has separation anxiety now and she screams anytime I'm not in the same room with her and she's almost 3 now. So take the opportunities if you have someone you trust with your daughter.

  • @lilianamcampa
    @lilianamcampa 10 месяцев назад

    as a follower of yall for years, I am so happy to see yall enjoying yourselves at an f1 race! yall deserve it, parents sometimes need breaks! God bless!

  • @gabrielletrujillo2163
    @gabrielletrujillo2163 10 месяцев назад

    I have 4 kids and I cannot leave those babies lol. What we end up doing is inviting our parents to the trip we are going on so that we get to spend all day with the kids and then for adult things like races or concerts we go out at night and grandma and grandpa watch the kids at the hotel haha!

  • @celia5893
    @celia5893 10 месяцев назад

    ok but how adorable was your reunion with Milo. He's such a sweet boy.

  • @lauraeeeee
    @lauraeeeee 9 месяцев назад

    yay piastri our booooiiii

  • @hanh_minh
    @hanh_minh 10 месяцев назад

    honestly i love it when jess recommends us some games, i'm obsesed with love & pies!

  • @valspint
    @valspint 10 месяцев назад

    I love that Iam watching this video while playing love and pies lol

  • @Mariajesus-lb3mj
    @Mariajesus-lb3mj 10 месяцев назад

    Te avergüenzas de tu hija porqeo llevemos la carita

  • @soullessnight6539
    @soullessnight6539 10 месяцев назад

    Aww Jess, it is so gut wrenching to leave your child but if you have to be away, having your Mum with your cutie is the most calming way to leave:). The timing was a blessing❤

  • @MandeepKaur-hg7et
    @MandeepKaur-hg7et 10 месяцев назад

    Love the welcome home drawings🥹🫶🏽

  • @evaalvarez697
    @evaalvarez697 10 месяцев назад

    Is there going to be a F1 full coverage vid🤩👀

  • @debrafirestone861
    @debrafirestone861 10 месяцев назад

    I do not trust anyone except family and close friends

  • @Coleyeg
    @Coleyeg 10 месяцев назад

    Love this! Also love how your mum got to still look after her over night and for a couple night the fact she lives so far away I bet she’ll be thankful to for that time and letting you guys have alone time to make more amazing memories! Mum to mum though, mum guilt is so normal but it’s okay as long as they’re happy we need to just breathe and try relax they’re okay we’ll be fine xx

  • @ingerhelenehummel580
    @ingerhelenehummel580 10 месяцев назад

    We have the same luggage: White/Brown.

  • @estelamarie9640
    @estelamarie9640 10 месяцев назад

    I just get so happy every time you upload jess!!!

  • @hunnaspain18
    @hunnaspain18 10 месяцев назад

    Jess your such an amazing mom and a huge inspiration to my girlfriend who is a mom as well at age 19

  • @shannonmcdonald8314
    @shannonmcdonald8314 10 месяцев назад

    oh my gosh the way i gasped!!! what a dream, glad you guys had fun, one day i would love to go!!!

  • @abbywenger2328
    @abbywenger2328 10 месяцев назад

    I AM SOOOO JEALOUS I LOVE F1 TOO!!!!!! SO EXCITING!

  • @angelicaca.
    @angelicaca. 10 месяцев назад

    can’t wait to see your fam grow 😉🥹🤍

  • @Cieeelo
    @Cieeelo 10 месяцев назад

    I'm learning from this mama@jess here

  • @rachelleMayDoc24
    @rachelleMayDoc24 10 месяцев назад

    Haha I’m on level 80. Love that game!

  • @haileylindsey9336
    @haileylindsey9336 10 месяцев назад

    I am now obsessed with this game 😂🥹🫶🏻

  • @tahlia4189
    @tahlia4189 10 месяцев назад

    you're such a delight, sweetest Jess 🤍

  • @LarissaTuong
    @LarissaTuong 9 месяцев назад

    I can watch Jess's vlogs all day long

  • @carmelaella3897
    @carmelaella3897 10 месяцев назад

    Can't wait for your next vlog 😊❤️

  • @xokelseyxo9238
    @xokelseyxo9238 10 месяцев назад

    Endless love and respect for you, Jess. I am so glad that you and Gabe had a wonderful time! ❤

  • @jessserrano3051
    @jessserrano3051 10 месяцев назад

    Not her welcome home signs 🥹🥹🥹

  • @debrafirestone861
    @debrafirestone861 10 месяцев назад

    In todays world I wouldn’t leave my child for any race No way I would only leave her with family