Informative video and stunning as always you have a inner light that shows when you talk dating wisdom. loved all four tips and details, being I'm introverted male have never dated or had a relationship Sometimes signs of attraction has went over my Head.
@@mac1bc easier said than done for a logical and analytical Person who that trait isn't a selling point, and no Degree cooking, tech self taught and learned
Love your videos...not that this question apolies to me as im in a healty loving relationship when and if she asks about your past relationships should you be honest and say you never had a girlfriend (but ONLY if its true) or would that creep her out, lol
Women today are a complicated species. This shy woman shows me all the signs of attraction, then she just stays quiet. Maybe I should try to ask her interests and hobbies, the see if anything happens. If not, then move on.
Just focus on your life and let them do what they want they are manipulated by the media to yhe point of not wanting what they want so hit the gym and focus on money
She wants to be more than a friend. 1 she becomes physical.- she compliments you. 2 she asks a lot of questions about you. 3 she starts doing things for you- she might call, ask for lunch,coffee etc. 4 she compliments you.
You are so informative Appolonia. Yeah, I agree that women love to offer acts of service once they begin falling tor you. She may even begin commenting on a shoe that may look good on you or a certain suit that fits your physique, thus showing that she already understands you and what's best for you.
Damn, like I swear. I've been following you since last month.. This psychological stuff is the key to unlock the door into her heart and get past her traps and eventually finding the prize at the end of the maze.
Unfortunately, in my experience, the women I've encountered felt they should be the focus on my life rather than an addition to it. It's becoming more difficult to find women that can stand on their own let alone one that shares your values and interests.
All women want that from the men they choose. How come most married men cant take money out the house for something just for him without her getting pissed off and wanting a divorce. Remember one thing, women dont marry the man she marries the lifestyle he able to provide, and sex alone gets boring after the first week or so especially if you're fuckin 5x each day.
@@delljr2769 So, what do you want from women? Commitment? Well, you are then living in a wrong culture. Contract is what you are going to get, if you are from the west. If you want commitment then you can't break your own family bond (with your parents, brothers/sisters, relatives). There cannot be too much individualism. You got to compromise somewhere. India has the lowest divorce rates in the world. It is because of ancient culture/tradition of monogamy and family bonding. If the man loses his job, wife will go to work to save the family. Husband will look after the children. Wife wakes up early in the morning, cooks for the whole family and then go to work. Neither husband nor wife cheats mostly because they know that they are violating the natural law (dharma) because it can create karma or cause and effect. So at philosophical level also India is different (even though they are also aping the west blindly nowadays). Mostly there is no blind hedonism or materialism
i think this is the first time i'm got onto your page and i think i'm looking because of a situation i have at work where the girl ( and i'm krazy for her ) compliments me like to day she said " you're killin it with the outfit i was wearing ". not the first time for that kind of compliment - she and i have been going back and forth like this for months - I keep putting myself "On Hold" because i want to make sure my "Intentions" or "Intention" is how it should be. I've been single for quite a while because i made the decision to stop picking the wrong women till i figure out what i was doing wrong. i've put myself in check with this woman so many times it came to the point i said to myself ( for the first time ever about anyone ) " i unconditionally love her " - and then i put that on hold - since i see her at work regularly we bump into each other and then i'm right back to being krazy about her.... i'm all vulnerable because i can't hide my damn feelings which means almost everyone at work sees what's going on . She's not the kind of woman who would ever say first though that she's interested she's way too smart for that at least i'm pretty sure about that. I think i accidentally and insensitively hurt her feelings once because she was gone for a month thought i'd never see her ever again. I was freeking LOOSING IT mope'n around the whole month people asked me "what's wrong are you ok". Yeah i can deal - but she showed up unexpectedly one day just dropping in and came back to see me and i was just OMFG - i was so in the moment krazy to see her i couldn't help and the only words out of my mouth were " i missed you" ....then she had to go so right back again thought i'd never see her again----. then the next day she showed up to work and i was so excited/happy/thrilled to see her show up i had to just put myself on hold completely - was the only way i get a grip on myself - so of course she comes almost running out to the yard where i work and said in the most beautiful tone of voice i've heard from her " how are you doing " and i was practically non reactive because of my state of mind and needed to have some kind of control of myself - all i said was i'm doing pretty good and didn't make a connection like i wished i had .... I think she was so excited because she took me saying the day before " i missed you " as me saying lets heat things up ..( but i can't be sure and don't want to assume anything )... Anyway she walked away and a few minutes i saw her and she was a little depressed which i've never seen her because she's always so full of joy ( what i love about her )..... Lonng story short here - watching your video here - i already realize i care for this girl more than i've ever cared for anyone in my life - mmmmm i'm telling ya ( i gota get a grip on myself ) but when you say women like to know what a guys thinking and or women look for how a guy makes them "Feel" - i felt like maybe next time i see her oor at the next opportune appropriate moment i should just tell her " i've never cared for anyone like i care for her " ----- it's so not the same as just saying " OH i LOVE YOU" which can sound like BS - but today i couldn't help myself and i walked up to her and said " your amazing " --- she was very receptve about that asked me why i thought so LOL - anyway i just told her " you just are ".. i've been trying to figure out how to break this ice with her and stick my neck out without feeling like a fool in the process or some lame ass and think if i tell her i've never cared about anyone as much it's a fairly neutral approach ............. anyway thnx for your vid has helped me think through this a bit ------ it's weird - i've put myself in check so many times with her i crossed the road that i like her so much for who she is that how i feel is UNConditional - and that's a damn first for me --------- i feel so out in unfamiliar territory with her i'm just KRAZY - anyway - thnx again
You rock ! Thank you I went into rock bottom when my best friend was killed and my Girlfriend of 7 years walked out on me shortly after, but I have been watching your all videos and it makes me hopeful for the future . Also the girl I always have had a secret crush on hit me up out of no where so (: with your help I think I got this life thing .
Hi Stonie, Wow! That is a lot and I know it can be difficult. I'm so happy you can find support with my videos. I am here for you even if it's just a video. Stay strong and I know you got this life thing! xo Best, Apollonia
The day I want a woman is the day I find one without major entitlement issues. I'd have to go outside North America. Where most women live half way between fantasy and reality. "I'm strong and independant" they say. "Could you do this because I can't" 5 minutes later.
my crush is always looking for me and always smiling etc. i never heard her ask me any question or her being curious about me. Its like shes two different people and shes also a bit cold when she leaves work
Second video I watched of yours, and you're really honest, and realistic. I find women to be a real mystery, and usually don't like to put too much thought, or assume...let's just say I'm oblivious to signals, or find myself in denial over any signs that a girl gives me, just to spare myself possible disappointment. I find your advice very sincere, so I suppose I'll subscribe, and see what more I can learn from you. I'm definitely not a player, and would really like to meet someone special. I'll have to watch your last video b/c my last relationship was a nightmare. :)
We’ve been friends for a while, but never really asked to hang out outside of school. She asked me if I wanted to take a walk with her, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????
My man being a beta makes you over think girls don’t typically ask a guy to do something with her if she’s not at least comfortable being close to you 🤷🏾♂️
This was solid advice. Thank you! Perhaps a video on how Not to be constantly a woman's Second or even last choice after other guys. How to find a sweetheart of your own? I'm still stuck in opening a door for a lady days, so I may be in left field still. A gentleman in his late 30's is not an appeal these days. -Comanche Nation -
Apollonia Ponti Your words are on point. Although, women pride themselves on How Many choices they have these days. They Always seem to know I am still alone and modern females want Nothing to do with a hard working man so it's a guarantee that I will be alone for when they are done with the guys they choose first. True statement : A man and his Mamma is More appealing than a man and his dog these days. -Comanche Nation
What about women in the work place? There are several of my co workers, including higher ups, that find a reason or make time to come by my desk and let me know they are there. However, our office sexual harassment policy forbids me from making any compliment toward any women. My eye contact is even restricted. How does a man handle that?
I read Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages. Good book. He talked about us having a love tank like a car has a gas tank and our love tank get filled by a good woman. My cheating former wife of 20 years was too busy shooting holes in my tank. The only 'love' I had at that time is that I LOVED telling her we were done. Dating seems a bit daunting now a days.
What if she tells you she wants to be friends but she acts jealous but says she doesn't care but then ask if I'm talking to another female even tho she is talking to someone else it's crazy.
Yeah I have a best friend she's a girl and one thing I don't understand she wants to hang out every weekend every weekend and when I say that I don't want to hang out with her on the weekend she goes why
Already know she likes me Sign no 1. She offered to share her coffee with me after she drank it from the sipping orifice (because why am I going to be a dick and remove the entire lid)🤣 #2 She does dish out compliments with my response being a simple thank you. #3 I show her my scars and she touches them (very important) you can implement this strategy in your conversations and find out for yourself🙂 #4 when you leave, hugs that last more than 5 seconds followed by a deep breath (she's already planning on thinking about you when you leave....imagine that!) #5 also when you leave and no hugs are involved yet, she'll just voluntarily escort you. You'll see the way she does it and it will not feel as if it was forced. There you go
Hey Apollonia, huge fan after one video that I've been on a binge watching all your other videos. They've been super helpful and I appreciate everything you've done for us guys. I'm currently talking to a girl things seem to be going great. We're pretty open about liking each other but we haven't talked about a relationship or commitment. It has only been a few weeks so I think it's still early but when is a good time frame to start talking about working towards a relationship?
She does every single things that you mentioned but i dont know how to have an emotional relationship actually how to tell her i want to be more than a friend please Help Me😣😣
I know a woman who is an aries and I don't trust her she has a great personality and everything but I can't seem to keep her interest she seems to be all over the place with her energy
Unfortunately, three of these absolutely do not necessarily show that they want to be more than just friends. Only reason three, I.e., going out of their way to help/do things for you is correct in this list.
Im kindve confused. Some women in my past had their friends tell me they like me but I subtly rejected them; later asking 4 their number to just be friends but they said no. As of today Ive told beautiful/avg women i wanna hang out as just friends and they decline. Do they wanna be more than just friends w/me??? I can admit Im a universally attractive lightskinned black male with a kind of grayish course hair type, athletic, sing, Christian, college degree, respects women, confident(but not arrogant), and have high career goals. Women r confusing. Somebody help me out PLEASE!!! *JESUS SAVES*
charismaswagg Well, don't impose and act desperate. Women love guys who have subtle attitude. Develop that. But it all boils to down a person's karma or cause and effect (coming from past lives). So, karma pre-programs everything including a person's mindset, situations, circumstances and opportunities. You would get what you were supposed to get. If your karma was to get beautiful women despite being ugly, it would happen. If your karma was not to come across beautiful women despite being tom cruise look alike, it would happen as well.
There was a young woman at my job that had a boyfriend. She like me a lot she would help me a lot at work, stare at me and would touch my hand when I helped her with something when we were together. I like her back. One day she drop alot of stuff on the floor by mistake and I was half way down the hall way when I heard it so I ran to go help her pick it up and then she touch my hand as I was helping her. She was shy woman she would giggle at me when I told her something. I wish that she was my girlfriend even thou she had a boyfriend if I still think about her and miss her
What if the girl I like does some of these things but still says she wants to be friends. She does the touching and the complimenting, and sometimes ask those types of questions. I also looked at your friendzone video, and about to do those steps soon to see how she reacts. I feel like she likes me but wants to feel safe for us staying as friends
Be a friend. Some people find love over time through friendship! She might warm up to you; the best part of a relationship is having your partner as your best friend 😁
she hangs out with me, But she is not physically expressive with me. At work she is touchy feely with the guys, the bigger the player the more affection. With me - nothing, no affection, no touching, But I've been by her place lots of times, these other guys never, what gives? what am I missing?
Hi John, Seems as though she may not be attracted to you on that level. But I would have to know more about the "relationship" to understand. If you want guidance on attracting her book a session so I can help. Best, Apollonia
Excellent choice. Sign up for his news letters, invaluable advice. If you don't know how you naturally want to be shown that you're loved, you'll always be looking in the wrong places.
Ok I am confused as F... I have this girl in my class we talk often, she is teasing me, playing with my hair, borrowing my hoodies, but when I text her it's different. After talking for two days, making her laugh, talking about deep stuff and thoughts she just ghosted me but when I meet her in school she is behaving differently with me she doesn't ignore me even flirting with me. Wtf, she is single she doesn't talk to other guys, and her phone is ok.
I fell for a woman who actually tried to make it look like it's bad for being in love...Like how is that bad loving someone? And when I stopped hanging around with her, she began to tell all her friends and everyone that I left her cause I had feelings for her which is stupid (in her own perspective)....I mean tried to flirt and cared for her, I even trusted her, and was always there for her but she would say I make her feel uncomfortable and now I have stopped caring and moved on, she began telling everyone that I left her cause I fell in love with her...I mean what does she even want really? @.@ I am confused tbh... Now everyone comes to me and asks me if it's true...why did I leave if I have feelings for her? Well wtf ever? Why are women have to be pain in the arse sometimes man? Totally complicated...
The girl i really like will never ask questions like that so i know this will happen because the only time we are around each other is in church and church activities
I need your help , my ex broke up with me cause her family for bid her from seeing me or talking to me , it’s not what we both want. But she feels like she has to choose her family . I never did anything to them. Her brother was my best friend and that hurt him. But it’s just happened. Now she blocked my number . She was crying and told me this is forever for now . Idk what to do just leave her alone ? And forget about her “/ ?
Great book! Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a win. Read that book back when it was first published. Highly recommended along with Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerich.
Informative video and stunning as always you have a inner light that shows when you talk dating wisdom. loved all four tips and details, being I'm introverted male have never dated or had a relationship Sometimes signs of attraction has went over my Head.
Hi Demetruis,
Happy you enjoy the videos! Also, hope my videos help with attraction in the future.
Best,
Apollonia
@@ApolloniaPonti they do Sometimes I second guess attraction from rejection Fear. Thanks for Reply
We can tell sir. Get out there and start getting some rejections under your belt.
@@mac1bc easier said than done for a logical and analytical Person who that trait isn't a selling point, and no Degree cooking, tech self taught and learned
Love your videos...not that this question apolies to me as im in a healty loving relationship when and if she asks about your past relationships should you be honest and say you never had a girlfriend (but ONLY if its true) or would that creep her out, lol
She took her dress off in front of me and just stood there smiling...I had no idea if she wanted to be more than just friends :)
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If she's trying to help she still might just be being a good friend. Friends help each other.
Your channel is super underrated. You give some of the best advice and insight I’ve ever heard. Keep it up
Many coaches stress avoiding questions about past relationships, but if she starts talking about it, I enjoy listening to those experiences.
I think #3 is the best one because she's taking her time and investing in you.
Investing in you yeah Off course Most Women do that 🤔😉😱😄😀😆😆🤪🤪🤪😂😂
She did all of those signs. Still rejected me
Same here. I should've known, the body language was not genuine. It wasn't there in her eyes
She was just playing or got bored . Same happened to me . No worries mate
Women today are a complicated species. This shy woman shows me all the signs of attraction, then she just stays quiet. Maybe I should try to ask her interests and hobbies, the see if anything happens. If not, then move on.
Just focus on your life and let them do what they want they are manipulated by the media to yhe point of not wanting what they want so hit the gym and focus on money
Might you didn’t effort enough or she just played with you
She wants to be more than a friend.
1 she becomes physical.- she compliments you.
2 she asks a lot of questions about you.
3 she starts doing things for you- she might call, ask for lunch,coffee etc.
4 she compliments you.
my sister wants to be more than friend?
@@thierry1026 HAhAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Watch Game of Thrones in front of her to see if it's true.
@@thierry1026 Maybe she wants to be your monetary recipient.
Then she says you're my big brother!!
@@thierry1026 Bro 😂
You are so informative Appolonia. Yeah, I agree that women love to offer acts of service once they begin falling tor you.
She may even begin commenting on a shoe that may look good on you or a certain suit that fits your physique, thus showing that she already understands you and what's best for you.
I always wait till Apollonia says "You.. are always.. loved" before going to her next video. It makes me smile every time! You are AWESOME Apollonia!
Damn, like I swear. I've been following you since last month.. This psychological stuff is the key to unlock the door into her heart and get past her traps and eventually finding the prize at the end of the maze.
Been taking serious notes lol and honestly, I've had this happen on recent dates. Great video Ms Ponti! The signs are there if your paying attention 😀
Yes! So happy you're here! Thank you!
Best,
Apollonia
This Is A Great Video!!! Thanks for sharing! I agree with all your 4 points at least it holds true in My Experience 👌👌👌💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
how many got here because shes so pretty?
Thank you so much for your help and support ❤️ 🙏❣️ 😊 for me to get it done
Thank you so much for your help.
Great advice apollonia. Very helpful
Thanks for the information Appollonia. Love the tan.....beautiful
Wonderfully said.
Unfortunately, in my experience, the women I've encountered felt they should be the focus on my life rather than an addition to it. It's becoming more difficult to find women that can stand on their own let alone one that shares your values and interests.
All women want that from the men they choose. How come most married men cant take money out the house for something just for him without her getting pissed off and wanting a divorce. Remember one thing, women dont marry the man she marries the lifestyle he able to provide, and sex alone gets boring after the first week or so especially if you're fuckin 5x each day.
@@delljr2769 So, what do you want from women? Commitment? Well, you are then living in a wrong culture. Contract is what you are going to get, if you are from the west. If you want commitment then you can't break your own family bond (with your parents, brothers/sisters, relatives). There cannot be too much individualism. You got to compromise somewhere. India has the lowest divorce rates in the world. It is because of ancient culture/tradition of monogamy and family bonding.
If the man loses his job, wife will go to work to save the family. Husband will look after the children. Wife wakes up early in the morning, cooks for the whole family and then go to work. Neither husband nor wife cheats mostly because they know that they are violating the natural law (dharma) because it can create karma or cause and effect. So at philosophical level also India is different (even though they are also aping the west blindly nowadays). Mostly there is no blind hedonism or materialism
WOW! Earth shaking signs! She flirts with you! Who would have thunk it! Amazing revelation!
Apollonian is the best I’ve seen on advising men with understanding women.
Thanks so much!
get the series of books men are from mars women are from venus
@@49inxs great books!!!
Thank you is the Goldmine of information
She does all of it. Keeps coming around etc.
Still wants to stay friends.
I must be really deep inside the friendzone 😅
I love your videos an music can I have yr tune please
She just wanted your attention
Love your videos, they have been very helpful and inspirational! Continue doing what you do best!
Thank you! Will do!
Really good video , I recognise myself in it
i think this is the first time i'm got onto your page and i think i'm looking because of a situation i have at work where the girl ( and i'm krazy for her ) compliments me like to day she said " you're killin it with the outfit i was wearing ". not the first time for that kind of compliment - she and i have been going back and forth like this for months - I keep putting myself "On Hold" because i want to make sure my "Intentions" or "Intention" is how it should be. I've been single for quite a while because i made the decision to stop picking the wrong women till i figure out what i was doing wrong. i've put myself in check with this woman so many times it came to the point i said to myself ( for the first time ever about anyone ) " i unconditionally love her " - and then i put that on hold - since i see her at work regularly we bump into each other and then i'm right back to being krazy about her.... i'm all vulnerable because i can't hide my damn feelings which means almost everyone at work sees what's going on . She's not the kind of woman who would ever say first though that she's interested she's way too smart for that at least i'm pretty sure about that. I think i accidentally and insensitively hurt her feelings once because she was gone for a month thought i'd never see her ever again. I was freeking LOOSING IT mope'n around the whole month people asked me "what's wrong are you ok". Yeah i can deal - but she showed up unexpectedly one day just dropping in and came back to see me and i was just OMFG - i was so in the moment krazy to see her i couldn't help and the only words out of my mouth were " i missed you" ....then she had to go so right back again thought i'd never see her again----. then the next day she showed up to work and i was so excited/happy/thrilled to see her show up i had to just put myself on hold completely - was the only way i get a grip on myself - so of course she comes almost running out to the yard where i work and said in the most beautiful tone of voice i've heard from her " how are you doing " and i was practically non reactive because of my state of mind and needed to have some kind of control of myself - all i said was i'm doing pretty good and didn't make a connection like i wished i had .... I think she was so excited because she took me saying the day before " i missed you " as me saying lets heat things up ..( but i can't be sure and don't want to assume anything )... Anyway she walked away and a few minutes i saw her and she was a little depressed which i've never seen her because she's always so full of joy ( what i love about her )..... Lonng story short here - watching your video here - i already realize i care for this girl more than i've ever cared for anyone in my life - mmmmm i'm telling ya ( i gota get a grip on myself ) but when you say women like to know what a guys thinking and or women look for how a guy makes them "Feel" - i felt like maybe next time i see her oor at the next opportune appropriate moment i should just tell her " i've never cared for anyone like i care for her " ----- it's so not the same as just saying " OH i LOVE YOU" which can sound like BS - but today i couldn't help myself and i walked up to her and said " your amazing " --- she was very receptve about that asked me why i thought so LOL - anyway i just told her " you just are ".. i've been trying to figure out how to break this ice with her and stick my neck out without feeling like a fool in the process or some lame ass and think if i tell her i've never cared about anyone as much it's a fairly neutral approach ............. anyway thnx for your vid has helped me think through this a bit ------ it's weird - i've put myself in check so many times with her i crossed the road that i like her so much for who she is that how i feel is UNConditional - and that's a damn first for me --------- i feel so out in unfamiliar territory with her i'm just KRAZY - anyway - thnx again
You rock ! Thank you I went into rock bottom when my best friend was killed and my Girlfriend of 7 years walked out on me shortly after, but I have been watching your all videos and it makes me hopeful for the future .
Also the girl I always have had a secret crush on hit me up out of no where so (: with your help I think I got this life thing .
Hi Stonie,
Wow! That is a lot and I know it can be difficult. I'm so happy you can find support with my videos. I am here for you even if it's just a video. Stay strong and I know you got this life thing! xo
Best,
Apollonia
@@ApolloniaPonti thanks so much
Great video, so much on point and accurate
Thank you for this!
My pleasure!
The day I want a woman is the day I find one without major entitlement issues. I'd have to go outside North America. Where most women live half way between fantasy and reality. "I'm strong and independant" they say. "Could you do this because I can't" 5 minutes later.
Is it me or just every time I see a girl named Apollonia I immediately think on Godfather 1 ...
Love that book. 5 love languages.
She made fun of me lmao and u say that’s a sign thankx 😂❤️
Tease me please me - yeah possible
3:19 You were about to say "Men are f*cked" 😂😂😂 Tell 'em how you really feel! Lol. (Low key, I'll admit we definitely are 😉)
I rewound it to catch the gear shift away from the F bomb. It was pretty funny.
Lol u had me dying!!!! Lol i pressed 3:19 over and over again!! Lol
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 Me too! Lol
Sad that I didn't check my notifications oflate. Missed you r videos badly.
my crush is always looking for me and always smiling etc. i never heard her ask me any question or her being curious about me. Its like shes two different people and shes also a bit cold when she leaves work
Great advice
Heyyyy, you've removed the buddha head and laptop. Lol.
I really loved that background scene madame
Awesome thank you 👏
No touching no text no call only eye contact body language and conversation and shes married and I know them both.. Muxed signals big time
That's real it's good talk about yourself.
Thanks Apollonia!
You're welcome!
Your Awesome and so is she.
God bless you ✊🏻
You too!
I cant believe guys actually dont know this eye contact and smiling always worked for me then the chase is on
I got an 86 yr old that says i am handsome and she wants me to go see her at her house.. I may go
Second video I watched of yours, and you're really honest, and realistic. I find women to be a real mystery, and usually don't like to put too much thought, or assume...let's just say I'm oblivious to signals, or find myself in denial over any signs that a girl gives me, just to spare myself possible disappointment.
I find your advice very sincere, so I suppose I'll subscribe, and see what more I can learn from you. I'm definitely not a player, and would really like to meet someone special. I'll have to watch your last video b/c my last relationship was a nightmare. :)
This is exactly how my GF was acting towards me when we first met💯 the same exact stuff.
Women know women like men know men!! Best 2 u 2!!
What happens now is she still acting that way?
Brilliant wisdom!!
Thank you👍 learning alot from you
Nice video beautiful ✌️
You bring men hope, thank you
Wow! No wonder! I was just being patronized and tolerated!
She wants to be more than friends; buy She doesn’t want to be my girlfriend, she wants to be my “super friend” 😂 hell no
Yes, you should be her BFF...BEST FRIEND F@CK !
@@donaldfewell9929 - When you get this figured out, please let the rest of us slobs know!
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@@vumeopower BEST F@CK FRIEND you mean.
Ha Ha!! Right, she just can't tell you she likes you romantically!! Even, though the balls in her court!!
And here I thought it was when she " has both legs thrown over her shoulders" (smile)!
We’ve been friends for a while, but never really asked to hang out outside of school. She asked me if I wanted to take a walk with her, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????
My man being a beta makes you over think girls don’t typically ask a guy to do something with her if she’s not at least comfortable being close to you 🤷🏾♂️
Great she does that but keep saying (in friendly and respectful way)
This was solid advice. Thank you!
Perhaps a video on how Not to be constantly a woman's Second or even last choice after other guys.
How to find a sweetheart of your own?
I'm still stuck in opening a door for a lady days, so I may be in left field still. A gentleman in his late 30's is not an appeal these days.
-Comanche Nation
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Hi There!
A gentleman in his late 30's is very appealing! If you are a woman's second choice then you shouldn't be a choice at all.
Best,
Apollonia
Apollonia Ponti Your words are on point.
Although, women pride themselves on How Many choices they have these days.
They Always seem to know I am still alone and modern females want Nothing to do with a hard working man so it's a guarantee that I will be alone for when they are done with the guys they choose first.
True statement :
A man and his Mamma is More appealing than a man and his dog these days.
-Comanche Nation
This ultra new category 🔥 😂😂
Half girlfriend 😉🤔💜
What about women in the work place? There are several of my co workers, including higher ups, that find a reason or make time to come by my desk and let me know they are there. However, our office sexual harassment policy forbids me from making any compliment toward any women. My eye contact is even restricted.
How does a man handle that?
do not sh*t where you work
quit your job and work in a grocery store as a cashier
I read Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages. Good book. He talked about us having a love tank like a car has a gas tank and our love tank get filled by a good woman. My cheating former wife of 20 years was too busy shooting holes in my tank. The only 'love' I had at that time is that I LOVED telling her we were done.
Dating seems a bit daunting now a days.
What if she tells you she wants to be friends but she acts jealous but says she doesn't care but then ask if I'm talking to another female even tho she is talking to someone else it's crazy.
Ain't nobody got time for that
*Eats popcorn as he listens in on this*
Is called giving take be kind to each other care for each other look after each other have a laugh and a joke make each other happy simple as that
This is so rare! LOL! Once you are in the friend zone you never get out unless she has aged and no longer attractive!
Yeah I have a best friend she's a girl and one thing I don't understand she wants to hang out every weekend every weekend and when I say that I don't want to hang out with her on the weekend she goes why
can you do a video about why a girl says she doesnt want a boy friend but still treats like youre in a relationship with her .
What does it mean when your female friend has your back? When she’s willing to fight someone for you
Already know she likes me
Sign no 1. She offered to share her coffee with me after she drank it from the sipping orifice (because why am I going to be a dick and remove the entire lid)🤣
#2 She does dish out compliments with my response being a simple thank you.
#3 I show her my scars and she touches them (very important) you can implement this strategy in your conversations and find out for yourself🙂
#4 when you leave, hugs that last more than 5 seconds followed by a deep breath (she's already planning on thinking about you when you leave....imagine that!)
#5 also when you leave and no hugs are involved yet, she'll just voluntarily escort you. You'll see the way she does it and it will not feel as if it was forced.
There you go
Hey Apollonia, huge fan after one video that I've been on a binge watching all your other videos. They've been super helpful and I appreciate everything you've done for us guys. I'm currently talking to a girl things seem to be going great. We're pretty open about liking each other but we haven't talked about a relationship or commitment. It has only been a few weeks so I think it's still early but when is a good time frame to start talking about working towards a relationship?
She does every single things that you mentioned but i dont know how to have an emotional relationship actually how to tell her i want to be more than a friend please Help Me😣😣
I know a woman who is an aries and I don't trust her she has a great personality and everything but I can't seem to keep her interest she seems to be all over the place with her energy
Unfortunately, three of these absolutely do not necessarily show that they want to be more than just friends. Only reason three, I.e., going out of their way to help/do things for you is correct in this list.
What's wrong with just telling a woman I'm interested in her and that I want to find out more about her
You can. Nothing wrong with that.
Good tips.. Empathetic
Im kindve confused. Some women in my past had their friends tell me they like me but I subtly rejected them; later asking 4 their number to just be friends but they said no. As of today Ive told beautiful/avg women i wanna hang out as just friends and they decline. Do they wanna be more than just friends w/me??? I can admit Im a universally attractive lightskinned black male with a kind of grayish course hair type, athletic, sing, Christian, college degree, respects women, confident(but not arrogant), and have high career goals. Women r confusing. Somebody help me out PLEASE!!!
*JESUS SAVES*
Woman don't want to be respect they want to be lead
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Well, don't impose and act desperate. Women love guys who have subtle attitude. Develop that. But it all boils to down a person's karma or cause and effect (coming from past lives). So, karma pre-programs everything including a person's mindset, situations, circumstances and opportunities. You would get what you were supposed to get. If your karma was to get beautiful women despite being ugly, it would happen. If your karma was not to come across beautiful women despite being tom cruise look alike, it would happen as well.
There was a young woman at my job that had a boyfriend. She like me a lot she would help me a lot at work, stare at me and would touch my hand when I helped her with something when we were together. I like her back. One day she drop alot of stuff on the floor by mistake and I was half way down the hall way when I heard it so I ran to go help her pick it up and then she touch my hand as I was helping her. She was shy woman she would giggle at me when I told her something. I wish that she was my girlfriend even thou she had a boyfriend if I still think about her and miss her
A woman who wants to be more than just friends thats what you want just tell her straight up its the only way she can talk to you
What if the girl I like does some of these things but still says she wants to be friends. She does the touching and the complimenting, and sometimes ask those types of questions. I also looked at your friendzone video, and about to do those steps soon to see how she reacts. I feel like she likes me but wants to feel safe for us staying as friends
I don't have any problems in person ,but to get women to answer me on a dating site this is a problem
Dating sites are creepy
What to do if she said she wants friendship?
Be a friend. Some people find love over time through friendship! She might warm up to you; the best part of a relationship is having your partner as your best friend 😁
What if she says she wants to get closer but isn't sure about her feelings then?
Yes I'm confused
Is it a good sign if they send stuff to you first thing in the morning despite not having met yet?
Are this 4 rules written in stone, awesome video as always.
she hangs out with me, But she is not physically expressive with me. At work she is touchy feely with the guys, the bigger the player the more affection. With me - nothing, no affection, no touching, But I've been by her place lots of times, these other guys never, what gives? what am I missing?
Hi John,
Seems as though she may not be attracted to you on that level. But I would have to know more about the "relationship" to understand. If you want guidance on attracting her book a session so I can help.
Best,
Apollonia
Bruh😒 She thinks you have a vagina because you have testosterone deficiency
@@mansamusa6724 Ha ha. He's her bud.
you in the friend zone bud
Some people do like complimenting everyone though
On this planet, it is prohibited to fall in love without reading Chapman's 'The five love languages'
Excellent choice. Sign up for his news letters, invaluable advice. If you don't know how you naturally want to be shown that you're loved, you'll always be looking in the wrong places.
@@farshimelt where to sign up?
This is my phone, not Michael Cary's phone.
AP I see that hood in you (;
Ok I am confused as F... I have this girl in my class we talk often, she is teasing me, playing with my hair, borrowing my hoodies, but when I text her it's different. After talking for two days, making her laugh, talking about deep stuff and thoughts she just ghosted me but when I meet her in school she is behaving differently with me she doesn't ignore me even flirting with me. Wtf, she is single she doesn't talk to other guys, and her phone is ok.
Move on. She's playing games.
I like your videos and they are so educative. But I wanna know, is it cool to have a distance relationship???
Avoid long distance relationships! They don't work!
Can you please do a video on introverted women?
I fell for a woman who actually tried to make it look like it's bad for being in love...Like how is that bad loving someone? And when I stopped hanging around with her, she began to tell all her friends and everyone that I left her cause I had feelings for her which is stupid (in her own perspective)....I mean tried to flirt and cared for her, I even trusted her, and was always there for her but she would say I make her feel uncomfortable and now I have stopped caring and moved on, she began telling everyone that I left her cause I fell in love with her...I mean what does she even want really? @.@ I am confused tbh...
Now everyone comes to me and asks me if it's true...why did I leave if I have feelings for her? Well wtf ever? Why are women have to be pain in the arse sometimes man? Totally complicated...
Damn that's sucks bro 😟
The girl i really like will never ask questions like that so i know this will happen because the only time we are around each other is in church and church activities
Tim Esmond If I were you I would ask her to do something outside of church. She'll know what you mean.
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I need your help , my ex broke up with me cause her family for bid her from seeing me or talking to me , it’s not what we both want. But she feels like she has to choose her family . I never did anything to them. Her brother was my best friend and that hurt him. But it’s just happened. Now she blocked my number . She was crying and told me this is forever for now . Idk what to do just leave her alone ? And forget about her “/ ?
She calls me sweet names like love, baby..I don't do the same but she hasn't stopped.
You look so classy here. Just beautiful.
Great book! Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a win. Read that book back when it was first published. Highly recommended along with Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerich.