Love your videos! It’s such a great signal to me whether I feel relaxed and chatty around certain people or I feel more restricted and closed. Thank you for the awareness!
Can you do a video about how to fix the woman being in her masculine because of being very independent from running a company and taking care of herself for long periods, and a man in his feminine because he’s been in his feminine energy for a long time and hasn’t been truly in his masculine energy because of his life as a child and growing up in that situation and energy, it’s hard to for females to get in thier feminine when the man is in his feminine, and how to switch that energy while both are in the wrong energy? Would love a video on how both partners switch rolls and energy…❤❤❤
@@fareenashofficial Your video expressed a reliance on feelings. Commitment, self discipline, and self sacrifice are required if a relationship is to last.
Wow. My brother is feminine. I don’t trust him and we were never good together. I get so sad and unhappy and resentful if i gave him the opportunity to prove himself (told him to do something). And he would always keep procrastinating and invalidating my feelings. He is still attracted to me but it’s so surface level and unfulfilling!!
First of all, why is it important that your brother is attracted to you?! Second, telling a man what to do is emasculating because that is acting like his mother. If you tell a man what to do, or do it for him, that is undermining his agency and autonomy (for anyone really, but this is really important for guys). You need to invite, request, encourage a man to take action but if you tell him what to do or do it for him, you are destroying his ability to take initiative. Instead of telling him what to do, just ask "can you please do this for me?" and wait for him to do it (if he says he will). A request, especially with "please" shows that you respect his freedom and autonomy to do what he wants, and that you don't control Jim. If he does it for you, it's because he decided and chose to do that, NOT because he had no choice or because you were in control of him. I think women get this wrong because a lot of women enjoy being led and being told what to do. They WANT a man to be assertive and take charge and confidently tell her what to do. But this doesn't work on guys, because now you are treating him the way a woman (you) wants to be treated. So essentially, treating him like a woman and you are being masculine.
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Can you do a video about how to fix the woman being in her masculine because of being very independent from running a company and taking care of herself for long periods, and a man in his feminine because he’s been in his feminine energy for a long time and hasn’t been truly in his masculine energy because of his life as a child and growing up in that situation and energy, it’s hard to for females to get in thier feminine when the man is in his feminine, and how to switch that energy while both are in the wrong energy?
Would love a video on how both partners switch rolls and energy…❤❤❤
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If you rely on your feeling...you are going to be with lots of guys through the years. Eventually feelings will say I need someone new.
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@fareenashofficial So you reject a life long marriage and traditional family unit.
Def not. I am in marriage. Feeling without logic is frivolous though.
@@fareenashofficial Your video expressed a reliance on feelings. Commitment, self discipline, and self sacrifice are required if a relationship is to last.
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Wow.
My brother is feminine. I don’t trust him and we were never good together.
I get so sad and unhappy and resentful if i gave him the opportunity to prove himself (told him to do something).
And he would always keep procrastinating and invalidating my feelings.
He is still attracted to me but it’s so surface level and unfulfilling!!
I’m sorry this is your experience with him!
First of all, why is it important that your brother is attracted to you?!
Second, telling a man what to do is emasculating because that is acting like his mother.
If you tell a man what to do, or do it for him, that is undermining his agency and autonomy (for anyone really, but this is really important for guys). You need to invite, request, encourage a man to take action but if you tell him what to do or do it for him, you are destroying his ability to take initiative.
Instead of telling him what to do, just ask "can you please do this for me?" and wait for him to do it (if he says he will). A request, especially with "please" shows that you respect his freedom and autonomy to do what he wants, and that you don't control Jim. If he does it for you, it's because he decided and chose to do that, NOT because he had no choice or because you were in control of him.
I think women get this wrong because a lot of women enjoy being led and being told what to do. They WANT a man to be assertive and take charge and confidently tell her what to do. But this doesn't work on guys, because now you are treating him the way a woman (you) wants to be treated. So essentially, treating him like a woman and you are being masculine.