things i thought were normal growing up in toxic asian household

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024

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  • @Yoimiya_Lover29
    @Yoimiya_Lover29 6 дней назад +16253

    Tina's lore gets more horrifying every video l swear

    • @Halfblood_Directioner
      @Halfblood_Directioner 6 дней назад +38

      Fr though

    • @priskruger314
      @priskruger314 5 дней назад +12

      Ugh the resilience of her parents is unreal 😮

    • @hellsbells-b9r
      @hellsbells-b9r 5 дней назад +32

      And people kept defending her dad 💀

    • @tr4sh.doll_
      @tr4sh.doll_ 4 дня назад +29

      @@hellsbells-b9r yeah they're like "yeah he's just a little strict but it's probably his way to show his love" when she literally describes psychological abus€💀
      sadly I think It hits too close to home for some people, it can be hard to acknowledge that this is not normal at all

    • @hellsbells-b9r
      @hellsbells-b9r 4 дня назад +7

      @@tr4sh.doll_ And ppl thinking parents doing the bare minimum automatically makes them benevolent, so that whenever you express frustration, they claim you take these parents for granted. Like, bro...your parent would otherwise just be neglecting you and violating the law.

  • @NavyaRinwa
    @NavyaRinwa 6 дней назад +15025

    Oh my god it's like family trauma is shared throughout asia.

    • @sakuriyinn
      @sakuriyinn 6 дней назад +149

      Africa and South America too

    • @JackKendaddy_tangerine
      @JackKendaddy_tangerine 6 дней назад +40

      Communism 🙏🙏‼️🌹

    • @adaonwuzuruike5576
      @adaonwuzuruike5576 6 дней назад +12

      ​@@sakuriyinnLeave Africa out of this craziness please.

    • @A45-r8s
      @A45-r8s 6 дней назад +75

      ​@adaonwuzuruike5576 why, this is present in many African cultures, just like everywhere else

    • @moonlightthecat596
      @moonlightthecat596 6 дней назад +69

      @@adaonwuzuruike5576 Hah, im african and family trauma is pretty present in my family 😭

  • @aishasalehrafea893
    @aishasalehrafea893 6 дней назад +13945

    "My dad gets a knife caughts his own finger" EXCUSE ME???😭😭

    • @eleventwelve2650
      @eleventwelve2650 6 дней назад +124

      I was like: girl I think that one is specifically for you.
      But I do agree with the nothing happened the next day hahaha

    • @pinkclouds6512
      @pinkclouds6512 5 дней назад +48

      @@eleventwelve2650my dad broke his arm to frame my mom

    • @ThandoNxele
      @ThandoNxele 5 дней назад +9

      😮😮

    • @TheJelloJester
      @TheJelloJester 5 дней назад

      @@pinkclouds6512uh…story please if youre comfortable doing so? 😃✋

    • @giratina2220
      @giratina2220 5 дней назад +26

      Bro one time my parents were fighting so bad and my dad picked up a knife and stabbed his stomach 💀 Also once before this he was berating my mother and breaking things in the house (we were very broke since my dad spent all the money on drinks) my older brother got so pissed him and my father had a goddamn fistfight and he broke my dad's nose. He called the cops later on my dad and managed to get him in the jail, though only for like a week (also got beaten by the cops).... Wow, it sounds so terrifying now that I'm writing it 💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @KaileyGichuhi
    @KaileyGichuhi 6 дней назад +5179

    I like how she says the most traumatic stuff with a straight face while doing her make up so normally😭🤭

    • @tokkibokki_
      @tokkibokki_ 5 дней назад +52

      Happens when you Asian
      Once my dad tried to jump off the roof of the building multiple times because my mom left the AC remote in the wrong place 😅

    • @amethyst6351
      @amethyst6351 5 дней назад +27

      @@tokkibokki_Im sorry WHAT!!

    • @tokkibokki_
      @tokkibokki_ 5 дней назад +6

      @@amethyst6351 Dont worry bout it

    • @sarahfromtheneverland9001
      @sarahfromtheneverland9001 5 дней назад +1

      Relatable

    • @saby777
      @saby777 5 дней назад +7

      These things make you numb after a point. It's wild and so upsetting to think about the level of trauma a person must've went through for that to happen.

  • @ILOVEMYSELF-v2b
    @ILOVEMYSELF-v2b 6 дней назад +2402

    As an asian with asian parents.. My dad once cut of his toe and put it under my moms pillow and he layed down playling unconsious as the police came. Terrifying

    • @ecmurphy918
      @ecmurphy918 6 дней назад +347

      Wtf...this comment section is scaring the shit out of me

    • @Fifiandtheflowertots72
      @Fifiandtheflowertots72 6 дней назад +58

      You're lying....

    • @Toriislaw
      @Toriislaw 6 дней назад +40

      ​@@Fifiandtheflowertots72 and how tf would you know?

    • @oigmajing2940
      @oigmajing2940 5 дней назад +102

      @@Toriislawi think they meant it like “no way..” bc theyre shocked

    • @priskruger314
      @priskruger314 5 дней назад +8

      Could the toe be re-attached? 😮

  • @KeturaNompilo
    @KeturaNompilo 6 дней назад +3372

    The stomping around all night got me😂😭😭

  • @rizwanaazizp6252
    @rizwanaazizp6252 6 дней назад +497

    The dad lore just keeps getting more and more insane😭😭

  • @Leahwoods619
    @Leahwoods619 6 дней назад +335

    Makes me realize over and over again how "non-asian" my asian parents behaved and that makes me feel really grateful . In my 18 years of living with them , i have NEVER once seen them fight . Im sure they do , but it never reaches their kids , which is the way it is supposed to be . To those who go through this stuff , stay stong , sending love and virtual cookies 🍪

    • @divyansha4653
      @divyansha4653 3 дня назад +9

      Same I'm also Asian and I have Never experienced this 😭

    • @mallarieluvsgirls
      @mallarieluvsgirls День назад

      @@divyansha4653the fact you think that nasty abusive part is equivalent to asian culture is pathetic. could never hate my people that way.

  • @UserIsAPotato
    @UserIsAPotato 6 дней назад +525

    Sh literally traumatizing💀💀
    Sometimes being asian feels like some curse😭

  • @BabyDigi
    @BabyDigi 6 дней назад +531

    It’s the same with African/ carribean households . My mom mocked and laughed at me for being severely depressed and stressed out and literally turned into me having thoughts of pushing her down the stairs cuz of it …

    • @michaeladelgado8787
      @michaeladelgado8787 6 дней назад +63

      Nah cause why is that true sadly. I told my mom I wanted to unalive myself and she told me to do it and see if she would care if I survived or not. Or if I didn’t want to be home and go hang out with my friends she would threaten me by saying she would take herself off of dialysis and check into hospice since I don’t need her anymore. Shit is wild

    • @Fifiandtheflowertots72
      @Fifiandtheflowertots72 6 дней назад +17

      Same with my arab parents😔

    • @homedepot.
      @homedepot. 6 дней назад +39

      YESSSSSS!!!!! I'm Jamaican and when I was 14 I was extremely depressed bc of lockdown and a lot of other things in my life and I told my mom I was suicidal and she literally went to the kitchen, grabbed a knife, and handed it to me and told me that if I was gonna kms I should do it in the shower so it's less mess to clean up. actual insanity.

    • @thefacelesspager
      @thefacelesspager 6 дней назад +7

      frrrrrrrrrrrr. it's so annoying

    • @kid-ava
      @kid-ava 5 дней назад +20

      @@homedepot. remind me of my jamaican mom. she told me if I'm gonna kms to not do it in the house cause she doesn't want to clean up my blood or deal with cops. and she told me to tell her where to scatter my ashes cause she won't pay for my funeral..way to make me feel great about myself...I will never forgive her for that

  • @lolgacha3217
    @lolgacha3217 6 дней назад +175

    The first one is literally the most craziest thing I’ve heard in a hot minute 😭

  • @idollheart
    @idollheart 6 дней назад +660

    i'm actually so glad i don't have asian parents, all the stories of tina and other ppl are traumatizing me 😭

    • @Caitlynnie-x1d
      @Caitlynnie-x1d 6 дней назад +68

      Nono, it really depends on how your parents are

    • @chesiresays
      @chesiresays 6 дней назад

      You must be a child if you can’t figure out that the same way shitty asian parents exist, is the same way shitty non asian parents exist… the same way good asian parents exist is the same way good non asian parents exist. People aren’t a monolith, while culture definitely influences parents being shitty, people still have free will and know wrong from right as grown ass adults.

    • @mrpenis3625
      @mrpenis3625 6 дней назад

      My Indian parents are kinder and less strict than American parents so it just depends, I got really lucky

    • @flora0713
      @flora0713 5 дней назад +38

      @@Caitlynnie-x1d100% I have Asian parents and they’re nowhere as bad as how tinas or others parents were and there are some Asian parents I know who are super chill and understanding!!

    • @someoneanyone365
      @someoneanyone365 5 дней назад +18

      Tell me why my blindingly white parents could go toe to toe with Asian parents though😭 mental illness, child abuse, domestic violence, trauma, etc doesn’t necessarily discriminate

  • @YourFav_14
    @YourFav_14 5 дней назад +53

    "I dont know how he's not built like bella hadid right now" girl im crying😭😭

  • @tay-tay5162
    @tay-tay5162 6 дней назад +53

    Yep,the weight shaming.
    Very common in Asian hosueholds sadly. My mom would starve me for a day or two,reduce my food on my plate and would say "A second plate?? For what? To get fatter? Look at your thighs! No one would want to marry someone with those."

  • @kuromi_coverl0ver
    @kuromi_coverl0ver 6 дней назад +71

    The first part is wild 😭 i am genuinely scared

  • @trixishere1
    @trixishere1 6 дней назад +85

    That genuinely insane

    • @mymuna4689
      @mymuna4689 День назад

      Its actually common as fuck in asia.
      And adults normalize it and most of the teenagers are mentally sick including me.

  • @meraki_bunny
    @meraki_bunny 6 дней назад +145

    every time i open this it’s likes go crazy 😭 it went from 26 to 123 in like two seconds

  • @claraornelas4321
    @claraornelas4321 6 дней назад +21

    "bItCh?" got me ROLLING on the ground 😂😂

  • @surpriseeeeeeeeeee
    @surpriseeeeeeeeeee 6 дней назад +27

    the "b**ch?" got me XDDD

  • @emilycooljo
    @emilycooljo 6 дней назад +65

    during covid my grandparents were my primary care takers and i would get yelled at if i went outside, they would have HORRIBLE fights just like that, and i got praised because i starved myself and my sisters gained weight😭 im so sorry about the cops tho, that is so wild

    • @Fifiandtheflowertots72
      @Fifiandtheflowertots72 6 дней назад +3

      😳😳😟😟😟

    • @ReenaOjha-w9e
      @ReenaOjha-w9e 2 дня назад +1

      If u stay in the toxic household it would be bad for u . try to go nc with them.

  • @nehironcul1460
    @nehironcul1460 6 дней назад +62

    girl the cops?? im so sorry 😭🫶

  • @kaylahfonseca777
    @kaylahfonseca777 6 дней назад +28

    these are all INSANE 😭 girl i’m glad u survived

  • @pinkpinkmermayyy
    @pinkpinkmermayyy 5 дней назад +15

    I remember when my Pakistani (south Asian) parents were having this huge fight to the point where the way were threatening divorce and my mom was crying HEAVILY but then after it they took me and my siblings to an arcade and got us slushees like nothing happened. LIKE HUH??

    • @theweirdo-12
      @theweirdo-12 День назад

      Your mum sounds like she was trying to convince you guys it wasn’t a big deal, I think maybe she felt guilty in case she made you upset, and wanted to make up for it by getting you a treat.
      That’s wholesome my mum just storms out of the house and comes back half an hour later with a face on and doesn’t speak to anyone for at least an hour. Also when her and my dad fight it makes me stressed so I start crying and then she fully screams at me for making it about myself 😂

    • @pinkpinkmermayyy
      @pinkpinkmermayyy День назад

      @@theweirdo-12 oof I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I thought my mom taking me and my siblings there was just her trying to avoid her problems by now I see what she probably really meant. I kinda feel bad for my comment now lmao

    • @theweirdo-12
      @theweirdo-12 День назад

      @@pinkpinkmermayyy Don’t feel bad, I might be totally wrong! It is kinda strange to not address that…maybe she should’ve explained to you that it was nothing to worry about instead of just ignoring it…anyway have a nice day/night! **punches air at incredibly successful internet interaction**

  • @mochii-q2w
    @mochii-q2w 6 дней назад +14

    My asian dad literally gets into fights with his brother all the time. One time they fought over who has the most anger issues. Excuse me?!

  • @meherd1853
    @meherd1853 6 дней назад +26

    Im south asian but luckly dont have crazy strict or toxic parents and am so thankful for them especially hearing other peoples stories like this

  • @AmranMoh-t7h
    @AmranMoh-t7h 5 дней назад +4

    No bc that with the weight thing is so real! My dad always makes these “jokes“ and my mom just laughs it of like what?! It makes me so angry and if my husband said that to me!? DIVORCE

  • @Iamyourfavpookie
    @Iamyourfavpookie 5 дней назад +7

    dang the dad lore go crazy We need a dad reveal.

  • @simply_frog6035
    @simply_frog6035 6 дней назад +22

    Brother what??? Wild 😭

  • @qixiamo
    @qixiamo 5 дней назад +5

    I thought my parents were crazy but yours take the cake Tina, I’m so sorry 😭💀

  • @someone-lm4gi
    @someone-lm4gi 6 дней назад +11

    The first one reminds me of that one time when my grandma was telling me stories of how my mother got a knife and tried to stab my father. He just got a big gash on his palm, and that's all 😅

  • @Nugget.100
    @Nugget.100 6 дней назад +8

    I got scared for a sec when u said he grabbed a knife 😨

  • @lmk_01
    @lmk_01 6 дней назад +12

    WHAT- im genuinely concerned

  • @emsyaeh
    @emsyaeh 6 дней назад +16

    omg im so sorry 😭

  • @keitafanskwangya
    @keitafanskwangya 5 дней назад +5

    I remember my uncle once tried breaking into our house at like 3 am bc he was pissed at his sis (my mom) bc she didn't want to aid my grandpa's hospital bills (my mom and my grandpa have beef since he was abusive towards her and my grandma back in the day; sidenote my grandpa chased my grandma around the neighborhood with a KNIFE when my mom was in her teen years)
    since our house back then was small I slept in the living room since we didn't have enough bedrooms for all the siblings, and the living room was small af so the spot I was sleeping at was right next to the window. when my uncle tried to break in the house he smashed the window next to me while I was asleep and glass shards were scattered all around me. thankfully I didn't get any cuts since I sleep with the blanket over my entire body so I managed to dodge all the glass somehow.
    my uncle kept yelling profanity at my family for that entire time and kept pointing a knife at us, he was getting so loud to the point my neighbors had to step in 😭 we had to move out of that house since my uncle lived close to us and he didn't receive any accountability for attempted breaking and entering and threatening for some reason

  • @MaelsVi
    @MaelsVi 5 дней назад +6

    My parents did something like this too. One day my mom slapped me for not wanting to eat something that she cooked, and my dad fought with her over it. My mom picked up scissors and ended up cutting my dads hand. Next day... nothing. I was traumatized for life and to them it was just some little petty squabble

    • @ReenaOjha-w9e
      @ReenaOjha-w9e 2 дня назад +1

      Ur mom is a psycho bruh run and go nc with her. If she TRY na contact u get a restraining ORDER.

  • @Georgeツ
    @Georgeツ 5 дней назад +3

    ...and I thought my dad was nuts. NOPE 😶 I just needed some perspective. I am horrified 😐

  • @staeriix
    @staeriix 6 дней назад +5

    the asian family lore is insane 😭 I have so many stories of my grandparents it’s so weird

  • @anishamonzur8199
    @anishamonzur8199 6 дней назад +5

    Well i can relate with you. I am from Bangladesh and i am living in a toxic and abusive household and all the things you said that they act like nothing happened It's seriously relatable to me. I am so depressed and suicidal that i hate myself so much. They Won't even understand my mental health. They would say oh our girl is just sick!! They did take me to the psychologist but they Didn't continue because It's a waste of money?!! Bruhhh i done with them tbh!! I got mature and responsible when i was only 3!!! Literally 3!!! It feels like i am the only one who is mature to handle situations!! Ughh

  • @Lexilov_123
    @Lexilov_123 6 дней назад +10

    That's actually so insane, my parents are Asian but they are not like this, they're chill if I'd say. Weird.😂

  • @MelanieMartinezzz205
    @MelanieMartinezzz205 5 дней назад +2

    Love how she says it so casually 😂❤

  • @amberleeparry5005
    @amberleeparry5005 5 дней назад +5

    I’m not Asian but after my mom died I had live with her parents and it was soooo toxic and strict. Think military and prison all in one. I was treated as a juvenile delinquent from day 1 of moving in. It was hell and shaped the next 15 years of my life. Im so thankful to happy and healthy today.

  • @Kiarakakes
    @Kiarakakes 6 дней назад +2

    Well damn big girl are beautiful to tf🥺🙌🏾

    • @tireddaily
      @tireddaily 5 дней назад

      of course! just toxic standards

  • @xhoananokaj
    @xhoananokaj 6 дней назад +5

    Girl u eat these ur the only one that can keep me entertained for more than 1 second

  • @m3lli3_970
    @m3lli3_970 6 дней назад +2

    I didn’t realise how wild asian parents can get, I’m happy that I have chill asian parents 💀

  • @Curious_Kay
    @Curious_Kay 5 дней назад +2

    same my parents are also Vietnamese too😭

  • @sashabunny24
    @sashabunny24 6 дней назад +17

    The acting completely normal next day to the argument is soooooo common for real

    • @behindzerosp
      @behindzerosp 5 дней назад

      I think is common for many families and with😊 kids where the parent actually didn't out so much weight on the argument with the kid

  • @Booknerd1805
    @Booknerd1805 6 дней назад +3

    Gurl I have Asian parents and they’ve done some interesting things but nowhere near as bad as yours. Seriously glad ur okay.

  • @AruniPerera-bu2xf
    @AruniPerera-bu2xf 4 дня назад +1

    this makes me very grateful for my south asian parents. Will remember to do my chores tmrw without complaining lmao.

  • @jennifergraceh
    @jennifergraceh День назад +1

    This explains so much about my ex and his family’s dynamic (I lived with him and his mom and sister for 8 years while we were together and our daughter was little until I couldn’t take his abuse anymore and broke up with him and moved out with my daughter). His mom, while super supportive and empathetic and on my side as far as the abuse went, would also try to keep the peace in the house. She would tell me things like, oh he’ll be better tomorrow I’ll talk to him. She did say, when I moved out, how she was envious, because she couldn’t break up with her son 😂. But i experienced so much of what the content creator said here which was a huge culture shock for me. She just showed up on my feed so I’m unfamiliar with her videos.

  • @avathetwizzy
    @avathetwizzy 4 дня назад +1

    Coming from a middle eastern household with both parents being two different types of narcissist… I feel your pain girl, I really do.

  • @llamalyssa9088
    @llamalyssa9088 5 дней назад +1

    Nobodies families are perfect but this def concerning 😂 the knife omg

  • @idkmannnnnnnn
    @idkmannnnnnnn 6 дней назад +3

    good god what is going on with your dad 😭😭

  • @Nananan-vj7kr
    @Nananan-vj7kr 6 дней назад +3

    Girl you went trough a lot, you are so strong. God bless you 💕

  • @L_oliviarodrigosbiggestfan
    @L_oliviarodrigosbiggestfan 6 дней назад +3

    The first one is me and my siblings tho 😂😂

  • @205zia
    @205zia 4 часа назад

    The argument one- I can totally relate I can understand

  • @ava_spamxx2
    @ava_spamxx2 6 дней назад +5

    Omg I’m so sorry 😭😭😭

  • @Thatgirlsam1
    @Thatgirlsam1 2 дня назад +1

    FRRR THIS IS SO TRUEE MY PARENTS FIGHT SO BAD

  • @Ladna20
    @Ladna20 6 дней назад +9

    Omg whoever had to deal woth similar things im so sorry

  • @billies.wildflower
    @billies.wildflower 4 дня назад

    the lore just keeps growing

  • @Luv4Apricot
    @Luv4Apricot 6 дней назад +2

    “Splat the blood on the wall and blame it on my mum” EXCUSE ME WHAT 😨

  • @Randomoizer
    @Randomoizer 5 дней назад +1

    Girl I NEED to know what highlighter you use! It’s absolutely gorgeous 🤭

  • @infile-ps5rq
    @infile-ps5rq 5 дней назад +1

    I'm so glad we moved to US cuz it changed my parents way of “teaching” violently and my violent I mean a literal knife helf on me if I didn't memorize a definition. I'm sorry you had to go through a traumatic experience it definitely effects you negatively

  • @wasabi4790
    @wasabi4790 2 дня назад +2

    We need a trauma dump candy salad

  • @ItsMe-ct9br
    @ItsMe-ct9br 2 дня назад

    Exactlyyy, my parents said I'm going 'crazy' when I went through depression and anxiety

  • @Xx_Day_xX
    @Xx_Day_xX 22 часа назад

    I get you on the depression part 😢

  • @sanders2353
    @sanders2353 6 дней назад +1

    So real. My parents would have suck violent fights that my mom broke a stool leg and wooden spoon over my dads head and the neighbours called the cops. I was 10 and my brother 2

  • @Goldaisy
    @Goldaisy 5 дней назад

    I am 11yrs old, with Vietnamese parents and I can relate to you so badly!!!!!

  • @maitrangnguyen4538
    @maitrangnguyen4538 3 дня назад

    Girllll as a Vietnamese, i feel bad for u. I can’t even imagine how u got over this

  • @Fleta_Maughner
    @Fleta_Maughner 22 часа назад

    Y'all this is accurate as hell, i can confirm

  • @dqndicore
    @dqndicore 5 дней назад

    New dad lore just dropped 💀 the stomping around sent me 😭

  • @ifallthingsmatter
    @ifallthingsmatter 2 дня назад +1

    Most families are toxic is now seems. But not everyone tells their real story.

  • @Justagirl13833
    @Justagirl13833 День назад

    Wait bc why is this kind of relatable…😭
    Except the cutting his finger part my dad never did that

  • @lizziewaymire2001
    @lizziewaymire2001 3 дня назад

    Girl I'm so sorry that's awful 😔❤️

  • @alyssrrrr
    @alyssrrrr 21 час назад

    the fighting is so real they just act like it never happened and call me crazy if i mention it!

  • @alexisbaker578
    @alexisbaker578 5 дней назад +1

    That is… idek but mine girl same 😂😭💀

  • @scaramouchee.e.e.e..e.e
    @scaramouchee.e.e.e..e.e День назад +1

    a-are you okay??? The first is is terrifying, like wth, I wouldn’t wanna live with them anymore. Thank god my parents aren’t like that.

  • @mrudhulaperarulalan1564
    @mrudhulaperarulalan1564 5 дней назад

    GIRL I LOVE YIU SO MUCH JUST SUBSCRIBED

  • @emily.toombs
    @emily.toombs 3 дня назад

    As someone with a narcissistic mother, I can totally relate. She would do absolutely insane $hit like repeatedly bashing her head against a wall Wheeling like a banshee for hours because I wasn’t getting remarried right then. The neighbors called the police, acted totally fine. Next day was chipper as hell and asking me what’s wrong when I wouldn’t engage with her. She chased my brother down during an argument with a car, into a city park, ended up in the massive duck pool. There’s a local news RUclips vid (Tri-City park) of it. Acted like it was a tiny mistake.

  • @Floor4w8y
    @Floor4w8y 5 дней назад

    U give me luck bro thank u!! 😌

  • @PrettygirlFaith454
    @PrettygirlFaith454 5 дней назад +1

    All jokes aside I’m sorry that you had to deal with all that

  • @Rahafsaleh_1421
    @Rahafsaleh_1421 5 дней назад

    Girl her bella hidid jokes have me dying

  • @learnmore_m2
    @learnmore_m2 5 дней назад +1

    That's wild, hope you good now❤❤

  • @lego_my_eggo_
    @lego_my_eggo_ 5 дней назад +1

    Okay but like the first one is actually insane I can’t 🫢🫢

  • @katiie6549
    @katiie6549 6 дней назад +2

    I relate to the first one alot and its not even funny 🙁 my parents should be divorced but they keep staying together for me and my brother and this has been going on for the past 10 years ://

  • @numget1111
    @numget1111 4 дня назад +1

    i'm not asian but i have a mixed family (mom is american, dad is mexican) and holy shit even just having one brown parent highly affected the way we were raised. my mom wants to be a mexican woman so bad and it particularly offends me when she calls herself so because she is clearly not (she's WHITE white), but man she and my dad certainly raised us like full brown kids, generational trauma, physical abuse played off as discipline, psychological abuse, bodyshaming, basically all the greats of being raised in a not typical all-american family.

  • @prateetisinha7068
    @prateetisinha7068 3 дня назад

    Oh my god! I'm so sorry to hear you had to go through something so horrifying! I'm Indian and touchwood, I and everyone around me have had wonderful childhoods! But, it breaks my heart that some children in some parts of the world have to go through this and bear the brunt of this throughout their lives!

  • @IslaWalker-w4c
    @IslaWalker-w4c Час назад

    how is she talking about it so casually?!
    "oh yeah and my mom called the cops on my dad."
    Like WHAT?!

  • @aestheticvibes1914
    @aestheticvibes1914 День назад

    I'm not asian but i relate to the big fights and not even the next day they talk to to each other like NOTHING HAPPENED 🤦🏻‍♀️🥲

  • @anniezheng8138
    @anniezheng8138 2 дня назад

    Yes dude Asian parents literally showing the darkest parts of their psyche and acting like nothing happened later on is so canon

  • @SS-xj4fs
    @SS-xj4fs 5 дней назад +1

    My mom pretended to be dead one time when I was 6, just to “see how I’d react”. Needless to say, I was traumatized 🥴 It’s so out there that sometimes I wonder if I hallucinated it or something

  • @paisleetaylorsversion1312
    @paisleetaylorsversion1312 4 дня назад

    dad lore is crazy

  • @Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyy99
    @Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyy99 2 дня назад

    This is exactly what im saying and none of my friends believe me other than my asian friends

  • @Malnourished__Salamander
    @Malnourished__Salamander День назад

    I sadly relate to you with the parents arguing thing my mom and step-dad argue a lot my mom usually starts them but one time my step-dad punched the wall and said he didn’t wanna marry my mom bc the way she was and then on their wedding day, they acted completely normal 🤑

  • @Its_Not_Me_Its_You
    @Its_Not_Me_Its_You День назад

    please drop the skincare routine omg

  • @sabamohamed1246
    @sabamohamed1246 4 дня назад

    the way she said bich got me dyin

  • @giratina2220
    @giratina2220 5 дней назад +1

    Bro one time my parents were fighting so bad and my dad picked up a knife and stabbed his stomach 💀 Also once before this he was berating my mother and breaking things in the house (we were very broke since my dad spent all the money on drinks) my older brother got so pissed him and my father had a goddamn fistfight and he broke my dad's nose. He called the cops later on my dad and managed to get him in the jail, though only for like a week (also got beaten by the cops). Also, I was nine when this all happened.... I have no idea how I'm normal even after experiencing this shit 💀💀

  • @Moonx-000
    @Moonx-000 5 дней назад +1

    Wait you’re vietnamese?? Dang girlie me too!!!
    Besides from that, my mum and dad once fought with each other and they were about to divorce. They have 3 children including me. Me and my brother were crying saying things like “i will always remember you” or “i won’t fight with you” but next day everything was normal as if it was just a nightmare 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Nelmezz
    @Nelmezz 5 дней назад +1

    14 year old's wattpad oc ahh lore 💀

  • @Lily-y9l3r
    @Lily-y9l3r 6 дней назад +1

    The Way she said bitch and her eyes were going up and Down just made me Roll on the floor😂😂

  • @AluminaStar
    @AluminaStar 5 дней назад

    THE LAST ONE omg so like I'm mexican but STILL THE SAME😭😭😭
    Like, my dad calls my mom "Gordita/Fatty" So much and I personally find it strange and STILL in an ED since I was 10 (16 & trying to eat more but I literally can't)