From The UK To Being Homeless In Jamaica!! ( sad story 🥲 ) - Part 1 🇯🇲

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @gavinnandu6407
    @gavinnandu6407 Год назад +459

    Never judge a person. By the way, they look and dress. You never know what someone goes through in life. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Bless up !!

  • @vilroymcbean6040
    @vilroymcbean6040 Год назад +863

    My wife and I have looked after Patrina for over 12 years. She frequented our Ave. in the Kgn. 6 area. She's highly intelligent. She has a family and a home. Like many in her situation, she doesn't stay on her medication. We have fed and clothed her. They moved her off the Ave. late last year. I had no idea where she was. On Friday, someone asked me for her. We had gone shopping and bought her groceries. Glad to see her!!!! Mental illness is Real!!!!

    • @LGGGlove
      @LGGGlove Год назад +73

      I saw the mental illness thank for the clarity

    • @barbaraskitchen-ju
      @barbaraskitchen-ju Год назад +46

      Definitely some mental health she’s all over the place 🇹🇹🇺🇸

    • @blessedpeace1532
      @blessedpeace1532 Год назад

      She was a lovely girl she is mentally unstable at the moment needs some help.

    • @chloefarrow6072
      @chloefarrow6072 Год назад +33

      Is her story true as parts aren’t adding up ??

    • @willieshajames4558
      @willieshajames4558 Год назад +45

      Too much book does send you mad it's either that or jealousy spiritually

  • @donaldtracey4541
    @donaldtracey4541 Год назад +293

    This woman is in trauma . She been through a lot of setbacks by people she trust.
    Respect Coco your heart is in the right place 🙏.

    • @yvonnepitter119
      @yvonnepitter119 11 месяцев назад +2

      Blessings to you . I hope she gets off the street very soon ❤

    • @john_cockpit
      @john_cockpit 11 месяцев назад

      CLICKBAIT!
      BULL💩!
      THIS GUY IS DOING THIS FOR 🤑🤑🤑 NOTHING ELSE PEOPLE

    • @donaldtracey4541
      @donaldtracey4541 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@john_cockpit Click bait got you clicking .
      Stop projecting your negativity on Others.

    • @john_cockpit
      @john_cockpit 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@donaldtracey4541
      In order to call this video and logically the rest of the vids of this vlogger clickbait. I have to atleast watch one
      And I will never click anything connected to this vlogger. And will spread my point about him. Certainly his subscribers

    • @donaldtracey4541
      @donaldtracey4541 11 месяцев назад

      @@john_cockpit That's your choice.
      Click bait is when a blogger misleads the viewers with a misleading caption that have nothing to do with the video content , I have not seen where Coco has done that. I'm not here to convince other wise.
      You are your own master.

  • @bbah523
    @bbah523 Год назад +73

    Patrina is a very intelligent woman. You can hear the way she speaks. She really needs a second chance. Praying for her.

    • @eulabogan6406
      @eulabogan6406 Год назад +6

      I will pray for Katrina that God will bless her with all her needs

    • @tonifergie1423
      @tonifergie1423 10 месяцев назад

      🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @LucanSimpson
      @LucanSimpson 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@tonifergie1423i would appreciate you giving me the opportunity

  • @anas77725
    @anas77725 Год назад +198

    The Jamaican Government, needs to do more to help the homeless and people with mental health issues, 😮

    • @jesusisking258
      @jesusisking258 Год назад +8

      They don’t do nothing and do not care for their people who have mental health

    • @anas77725
      @anas77725 Год назад +6

      @@jesusisking258 This is really Bad and shameful on the Government ,especially when they are elected to Serve the PEOPLE

    • @dinagreaves6686
      @dinagreaves6686 Год назад

      Jamaican government are all crooked thy should be ashamed of thmslfs thy are no good 🤬🤬

    • @alha7040
      @alha7040 Год назад +4

      I hv seen dat in black countries mental health is still taboo...sad...I hv seen too many cases in african countries...hope they will take it serious cos west is done with mental health problems...but it is fast growing problem in africa

    • @anas77725
      @anas77725 Год назад +1

      @@alha7040 We really need to help one another as well as love each other as a collective MELANATED PEOPLES, PEOPLE KEEP TALKING ABOUT THE GOVERNMENTS BUT LETS BE REAL AS INDIVIDUALS WHEN WE JUST DO THE GOVERNMENTS WILL EVENTUALLY FOLLOW US OUT OF SHEAR SHAME

  • @rasheidablack8122
    @rasheidablack8122 Год назад +92

    I know her she was in England, something happend but I don't know what ,she sings very well too , haven't seen her in awhile ,but I hope her family sees this n help to help her ,she's very educated too.

    • @noviandy6482
      @noviandy6482 Год назад +21

      So if you know her, why not try to get some help for her, or get in touch with her family.... She really need some good help.... God bless.

    • @yvettekinchking8838
      @yvettekinchking8838 Год назад +14

      Anyone knowing this lady from England please reach out to her ramily😮😢. She needs help 🙏

    • @yvettekinchking8838
      @yvettekinchking8838 Год назад +2

      Long drawn out saga 😢.

    • @normaharvey4392
      @normaharvey4392 Год назад +5

      Anyone who knows this lady please tell her story and so that she can get some help a d support she needs some shelter so she can off the street this is so sad

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +3

      ⁠Life is a Lengthy Saga

  • @alda3831
    @alda3831 Год назад +642

    Coco boy you're a good man, iam a Jamaica living overseas I commend you for wanting to to help this person, it appears that this lady suffered some type of trauma, listening to her speak and her demeanor she appears to have mental illness .try speaking to someone from the area that knows her or a family member. ..something is off

    • @blacknurse7
      @blacknurse7 Год назад

      She is schizophrenic. Give her some food and move along. You can't reason with her unless she has medication.

    • @COCOBOY369
      @COCOBOY369  Год назад +32

      You can send some money to my PayPal account and I’ll give it to her

    • @COCOBOY369
      @COCOBOY369  Год назад +24

      I agree it will be difficult

    • @bbking7470
      @bbking7470 Год назад +43

      @@COCOBOY369 I don't Have anything to spare right now
      However, as a black person, I'm very happy to see you helping my Jamaican sister.
      I will do what I can when I have Money to spare
      However now it's not a good time for me.

    • @alda3831
      @alda3831 Год назад +67

      Iam waiting to see the follow-up of what happen to this young lady why her passport was taken away, and why she's treated bad by her family according to her, coco boy you must dig deeper before you give her money

  • @wonitahandrew5227
    @wonitahandrew5227 Год назад +135

    So nice to know that good people still exist ❤

    • @unclesam1125
      @unclesam1125 Год назад +5

      Yes good people still out here 😊

    • @juneebanks894
      @juneebanks894 Год назад +3

      So nice you trying to help her that so good❤

  • @blessedassurance8881
    @blessedassurance8881 Год назад +55

    This lady still remains articulate and beautiful.....
    God has rewritten your story, sweet sister. 🙏🏾

  • @miandoye7480
    @miandoye7480 Год назад +142

    She’s suffering from trauma and disappointment, Lord help her 💗💯

  • @lindsaywilson2468
    @lindsaywilson2468 Год назад +234

    You gave her respect, dignity and kindness. That’s what our mental health community desperately needs. You just engaging with this sweet lady has likely brightened her day. I’m sure she is known in the community, and people do what they can to help and look after her. There are some really lovely people in this world. God bless you all ❤

    • @Mukizworldentertainment
      @Mukizworldentertainment Год назад +5

      Yes we all help but dont think family give a shxt about i know her

    • @gennisparry4352
      @gennisparry4352 Год назад

      How do you know that she has a mental health problem? Someone robbed her.

    • @lynnthurston9296
      @lynnthurston9296 Год назад +6

      My friend you gave it your all! She is lost in her own little world of the things that were done to her. She needs to let it go so she can move on. Hence, she's not there yet and has mental issues. May God bless her and keep her safe and also the same for you too. God has a lot of stars in your crown for you.

    • @suzettelewis7564
      @suzettelewis7564 Год назад +8

      I think more follow ups with the involvement of others will help her achieve her dreams.She shows lots of interest in education.I pray one day we will see her on the TV.Lord Jesus please rescue her from the streets and keep her safe Amen

    • @dorrellclarke4887
      @dorrellclarke4887 Год назад +4

      She's having a lot of problems, and is not every one can hold on . The man is taking to her and is like she's straying from the story. But my heart goes out for her. Loving Father, please help her,,,,,❤

  • @RobertLuxuryBrand
    @RobertLuxuryBrand Год назад +74

    Thank you for taking care of that woman. Sometimes small acts of kindness can easily help mentally ill people open up. Thank you once again ❤

  • @winsomemartin5300
    @winsomemartin5300 Год назад +155

    This lady is not crazy. Her situation and circumstances imposed a metal stress that can be corrected. It's not easy being away and be dump back in Jamaica with nothing. If you don't have money you can't survive. It's going to take someone with a good heart to get her on her feet and get her back to London if her paperwork is ok. Wish her Best of luck, my heart bleeds🥲

    • @adiosamigos6780
      @adiosamigos6780 Год назад +9

      @winsomemartin5300
      What make you believe she will be better off in England?

    • @winsomemartin5300
      @winsomemartin5300 Год назад +7

      @@adiosamigos6780
      To be treated and back on her feet to accomplish her dreams.

    • @bearingwitness8381
      @bearingwitness8381 Год назад +6

      With the Sovereign Lord God Almighty ALL things are possible! Get her to a faith filled Spirit filled believer in Jesus Christ who will pray for her. Only God can deliver her from every evil and heal her inside and out…, find a Christian who is in healing and deliverance ministry in your area and they will be able to help her. In the meantime I will pray for her healing and deliverance in JESUS Mighty Name…, for He is Healer and Deliver to all who put their faith in Him and His finished works on the cross. ❤❤❤

    • @clairepeace5783
      @clairepeace5783 Год назад +10

      London is NOT going to give her a better life !! Yes she will get NHS maybe a flat to live in ! But she will be very unhappy unless she works to keep herself ! Jamaica is better for her she has no idea about 🇬🇧

    • @hecter3008
      @hecter3008 Год назад +5

      Are you serious. Why should she be allowed to the UK?

  • @cindyc7927
    @cindyc7927 Год назад +52

    Prayers going up for Patrina and this kind-hearted Gentleman, who took the time out to render a listening ear and a helping hand.
    POWERFUL DOCUMENTARY ❤

    • @paulinehammil4136
      @paulinehammil4136 11 месяцев назад

      My prayers, go out to you Patrina. I know there is humanity within the world. Lord guide her steps. Mr Shay. Give thanks to you for showing kindness. 1 World, it is not for us to judge anyone, none of us do not know the next minute, hour, what the day will bring. Blessings my sister may you receive an olive branch.

  • @jacquelinendebele
    @jacquelinendebele Год назад +30

    This woman is extremely eloquent, seems like she really needed to have this conversation, cocoboy your patience and compassion is admirable. I pray that God be with her in Jesus name.

    • @LucanSimpson
      @LucanSimpson 10 месяцев назад +1

      @jacquelinedebele i would appreciate you giving me the opportunity

  • @DJTHREESPADE
    @DJTHREESPADE Год назад +56

    She is not confused " she is a pro intelligent" but act simple" her family jealous of her mind❤

    • @marjoriekashiri6950
      @marjoriekashiri6950 11 месяцев назад +1

      You are very right, she is not confused at all. She simply needs help financially so that she is able to stand up on her two feet. This has saddened me. Homelessness can make someone to appear mentally ill. Imagine a blank day - no plan for the day or plan for anything. Tell you, that can drive you mentally disturbed.

  • @simsimma8696
    @simsimma8696 Год назад +61

    This is my first time watching coco boy. There is a RUclipsr called kino good life he maybe able to connect with her sister as he is based in Trench Town and he also helps people in need.
    Watching this lady is heartbreaking 💔

    • @jayjallowworldz
      @jayjallowworldz Год назад +3

      You are right about that

    • @yvonnetaylor5433
      @yvonnetaylor5433 Год назад +6

      Wow i think she did well in school but when what breaks her heart when the time came to graduatee what an accident they certificate cant be found wicked dem they saw how brilliant she was those ppl in england thats where her heart got broken

    • @jayjallowworldz
      @jayjallowworldz Год назад

      @@yvonnetaylor5433 it's really sad she need help

    • @Shaozuki
      @Shaozuki Год назад +3

      Yes Kino knows her he originate from Third Street and she’s from Fourth street

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +2

      That town is replete with many it seems who work black arts.I am touched by her plight.She is as vulnerable as a lady in her age group .Who is sometimes featured on his charity.Tracy she is abused and bullied.

  • @annhamlet8247
    @annhamlet8247 Год назад +181

    Bless this man; this is a perfect example why we should not look down on other people everybody has a story, and we all have to make some effort to give a help in hand

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +5

      I am impressed I have never seen this channel

    • @BOOMLifestyle
      @BOOMLifestyle Год назад +1

      You really fell for his explanation of her for his check. 🙄

    • @BOOMLifestyle
      @BOOMLifestyle Год назад +1

      EXPLOITATION!!!

    • @sadies_craft
      @sadies_craft Год назад +1

      So true, my sister, here in Jamaican people laugh at peopl, but these people at times doesn't know that they may look good on the outside and doesn't know what their structure is like inside. We must adopt the principle to love and respect everyone. I can remember I was in a relationship, and I went to my doctor to have a checkup he gave me some tests to do and all was OK, but one of the result came back that I was born with only one kidney I went home and told him as a partner and he spread it in the community and those he told laugh and two days after he was at home sick I rushed him to the hospital only to know he has type 2 diabetes lost all his weight .I made up my mind and leave him I suffered severe psychological stress disorder that lands me to mental health issues. Presently, I'm still on my medication. I'm now trying to set up my little business. I already have the space ,I'm in need of help to buy some materials but afraid to ask sometimes people will shame you.

    • @broddablack5290
      @broddablack5290 Год назад

      So beautiful and kind

  • @Sisterholdmyhand
    @Sisterholdmyhand Год назад +303

    As British Jamaican in Jamaica at the moment this makes me sad. I lived near Crystal Palace in Croydon and will share this and see what comes up. The UK is such a harsh place people have no idea.

    • @evelynemmanuel6689
      @evelynemmanuel6689 Год назад +11

      Please see what you can do to get some help for her I feel sad.

    • @roselynholloway7863
      @roselynholloway7863 Год назад +2

      Is homelessness big there

    • @josweetlove1537
      @josweetlove1537 Год назад +47

      ​@@roselynholloway7863 there are homeless people on the streets in Britain and all over the world. Even the "wealthy" countries cannot solve homelessness.

    • @roselynholloway7863
      @roselynholloway7863 Год назад

      @@josweetlove1537 ok

    • @joywollery9614
      @joywollery9614 Год назад

      😮

  • @bakedbyyves
    @bakedbyyves Год назад +160

    She will never forget you. Thank you for treating her with such respect 🙏🏾

    • @anniebee1474
      @anniebee1474 10 месяцев назад

      He using her to make Money , It his highest views , He made a lot of money on her video that is why he coming back to her..He went Dominican Replic and no views so he came back to her..These people are opportunist

  • @charisse234
    @charisse234 Год назад +52

    I wish this lady absolute positivity peace and love ❤

  • @denesebrown8515
    @denesebrown8515 Год назад +167

    Someone in authority please help this lady before she slips over the border into full mental illness. I feel it for her.

    • @Barbara-tw2pb
      @Barbara-tw2pb Год назад +5

      I think that request of yours is a bit too late She looks like she’s already lost her mind

    • @yvonnewright3449
      @yvonnewright3449 Год назад +3

      @@Barbara-tw2pbthat’s so true she is sick lord of mercy thank to that brother ❤

    • @shantee747
      @shantee747 Год назад +4

      True..I feel for her😢😢😢

    • @veem5494
      @veem5494 Год назад +3

      She appears to not be there 💯 mentally.

    • @Barbara-tw2pb
      @Barbara-tw2pb Год назад +1

      @@veem5494 That’s because she ain’t

  • @timemedia23
    @timemedia23 Год назад +48

    Thank you for not looking away when you saw her. You have done your bits, and it's impactful.

  • @unstoppableblessings7773
    @unstoppableblessings7773 Год назад +74

    This lady is depress , she's not mentally ill , she needs help to be what she aspire in life, she needs a chance to achieve her dreams

    • @donettefacey3494
      @donettefacey3494 Год назад +6

      Depression leads to mental issues if not corrected,I've met her too.She is always bathing and cleaning herself and always fix up her hair despite her issues,she does it herself

    • @pielukas
      @pielukas Год назад +10

      Depression falls under the umbrella of mental illness

    • @Itsthe-jyeshta-ascendant
      @Itsthe-jyeshta-ascendant Год назад +3

      She had a breakdown, all the things happened to her and she was not able to handle it, her senses are still intact, her mind was stressed to a pint but thank God it didn’t rewire…. She understand her self , it’s mental blockage. She is aware of a lot of things but she is helpless to most!

  • @simonesheckle5956
    @simonesheckle5956 Год назад +67

    You tried to help her and that’s very commendable. I pray that she gets the help and healing she needs 🙏❤️

  • @carren3d
    @carren3d Год назад +89

    People see her in downtown kingston walking even to portmore, people said that she worked hard and accomplished alot in england for yrs but her partner scammed her, she is very respectful despite her obvious challenges

    • @healthiswealth9591
      @healthiswealth9591 Год назад +19

      Could the Ghanan man she mentioned be her ex partner?

    • @tracierickards6882
      @tracierickards6882 Год назад +3

      Yes I have heard that too.

    • @tracierickards6882
      @tracierickards6882 Год назад +16

      ​@healthiswealth9591 I have heard that she was working and sending money back to 'her man' to build her house etc. She finally returned and there was no house, no money, no man.

    • @peterpatton2867
      @peterpatton2867 Год назад +6

      Sorry to hear of her misfortune's.
      Don't know what causes her naivety and preoccupation with bad choice's and the decision making she does?
      I am not sure but her mannerism could've been due in part to her not feeling too well at that moment.
      Hopefully she'll perk up after she fully recovers.
      I hope to see her moving in a positive direction soon for herself.

    • @judsCaribbean
      @judsCaribbean Год назад +5

      I hope that she gets help for she seems here and not here sometimes. She said her cousin chocked her and took the money, then she said her aunt and her quarreled and fought and she ended up at police station. I guess she could be off the streets but dnt want to stay in trench town. It would be good to hear their side of the story but in the meen time I hope that a meantal health minister hear or sees the story and get to interview her. Her heart is set on UK, she won't feel better until she gets there.

  • @Kofi.86
    @Kofi.86 Год назад +36

    @Coco boy. In Jamaica people don't take mental sickness serious many family members put out their loves ones when they become this way

    • @shernettclarke4049
      @shernettclarke4049 Год назад +3

      I would be a advocate for mental illness in Jamaica 🇯🇲 the system turns a blind eye.

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +1

      They do I heard this,but many who do.Are themselves,afflicted with challenging mental disorders

  • @sherinewhyte6412
    @sherinewhyte6412 Год назад +166

    Thank you for highlighting this. I have seen her before at a bus stop. I think because of her homelessness and the trauma she has suffered she is having a nervous breakdown. If possible getting her some medical help would be good for her. A passport is not going to provide immediate help for her. She needs psychological help right now.

    • @truenorth7949
      @truenorth7949 Год назад +14

      absolutely, she needs some support and love. a passport is not going to help her right now, she needs to be in a healthy mindset first.

    • @raynaleechambers4721
      @raynaleechambers4721 Год назад

      ​@@truenorth7949😢😢

    • @marvaangel5946
      @marvaangel5946 Год назад +7

      Right now for her to get a passport is not an issue , she need medical attention . If she is deported it will be hard for to go back to England and of course she need somewhere to live

    • @marvaangel5946
      @marvaangel5946 Год назад +7

      Oh Lord im feeling sorry for her CoCo boy you are really patient

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +2

      Has she relatives

  • @christinebrown4901
    @christinebrown4901 Год назад +37

    In the uk, if you dont want help, they do not force you .He is right. She needs to tell him if she needs help, but she is mentally ill .They messed up her life up, and she have nervous breakdown.She said she was 1st in academic. I can see she is very intelligent she could have been anything in life .She had everything going good in her life came to uk probarly they set her up and immigration deported her back to Jamaica with nothing no money .This how its work in UK and the Usa or anywhere else. Its sad she look young for 43 smooth black no bleeach.

    • @BevaleeMiller-mz4ox
      @BevaleeMiller-mz4ox Год назад +1

      U are a God sent that what God want us do for the needy and the sick poor girl I believe she will come back I will be praying for her

    • @natillefoxy9881
      @natillefoxy9881 Год назад

      It's not the white mans responsibility to continuously save black people, we ALL know in a black man's country she will get absolutely NOTHING, for sure!!!!❤

  • @stephaniegoodwin6774
    @stephaniegoodwin6774 Год назад +70

    Let me tell you something. You did a tremendous job! You fed someone and got her medication. You are such a blessing for some. It appears that she has unresolved mental health issues. You just took time and talked with her and showed her someone cared. You have a special gift and I wish I can travel with you to help you give people hope and the feeling of caring

    • @shantiawizzy4511
      @shantiawizzy4511 Год назад +10

      Listening to this video...this girl is very intelligent. ❤I hope she gets the help she deserve.

    • @rosettapeart9250
      @rosettapeart9250 Год назад +3

      Such beautiful black woman I hope she gets some help

  • @PAULAOMEGA
    @PAULAOMEGA Год назад +132

    So sad😢.. mental healthcare should be a priority in Jamaica 🇯🇲🙏🏽💯

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +8

      It has never been in that country,it seems.Recently I browsed another channel.And was so disgusted at how someone.Was mocked and shunned.

    • @kattahb4103
      @kattahb4103 Год назад +8

      Every important issue to maintain a healthy successful society should be prioritize in Jamdung! Mental health should definitely be included.

    • @camilrichards4801
      @camilrichards4801 Год назад +4

      Bless her ❤❤❤❤❤❤she definitely has mental health....shes not far gone, medication and good home and exercise would bring her back......shes so intellectual. 😊😊😊😊😊

    • @onelovemaharani
      @onelovemaharani Год назад

      It should be worldwide

  • @namuffy
    @namuffy Год назад +131

    This woman is clearly mentally disturbed.

  • @krystalyapp8877
    @krystalyapp8877 Год назад +38

    This lady is destined for greatness she is going through a spiritual battle but she will make it the lord will ensure he carries her through.

  • @kerrykayjm
    @kerrykayjm Год назад +19

    This brought tears to my eyes because I don’t know this beautiful lady - but I understand her journey 💯 percent. She will be in my prayers. God bless you for treating her with kindness 🙏🏽

    • @vivolinhall2225
      @vivolinhall2225 Год назад

      Praying that God will continue to put the right people in her circle that have love and empathy.
      🙏🙏👏👏🙏🙏

  • @debbieangel9376
    @debbieangel9376 Год назад +51

    Thanks Coco Boy for bringing Patrina's story to light. Your mission is admirable

  • @Oliviacj-j6
    @Oliviacj-j6 Год назад +22

    Coco Boy you found pieces of the puzzle by giving her the exposure to get help. Dont worry great things going to come out of yhis interview. She is a nice person.

  • @marjoriewalker8155
    @marjoriewalker8155 Год назад +37

    You're are very respectful and kind.I pray she gets the help she needs.

  • @sbaby-kg8hn
    @sbaby-kg8hn Год назад +31

    Lots of JA families neglect and abuse their own family members it happened to me until I switched on them.

  • @georgiaramsay2670
    @georgiaramsay2670 11 месяцев назад +11

    Watching this story for the second time, as it touches my heart. You are a blessed soul. This is what the bible speak about, being our brothers keeper, irrespective of culture, colour etc. Uk is not a place for the weak minded, full of stress just to live a middle class life...may God send more destiny helper to this young lady.❤

  • @lislelisle5453
    @lislelisle5453 Год назад +8

    What a beautiful, beautiful face. She touched my heart, her sweet voice ♥️
    Definitely, trauma I can hear it in her voice and speech, I can see a social worker in her soul for children. I think this lady needs to be listened to.

  • @VioletLeslie
    @VioletLeslie Год назад +42

    Coco boy, this is touching. This lady is a very nice person, just imagine if she had succeed in life.

  • @ravajj.1579
    @ravajj.1579 Год назад +53

    I'm happy you asked to hear her story. She really needed someone to tell; who would listen!

  • @wollKleks
    @wollKleks Год назад +72

    When a person like you uses so much honest empathy and humanity to help a seemingly disoriented person deserves the highest respect and recognition. I believe your religion is real life here and now wherever you are!
    Unfortunately, you can't fix an entire life that's gone awry in just a few minutes with the best words.
    Keep it up brother

  • @mrsevelync6900
    @mrsevelync6900 Год назад +122

    So angry!! As a Ghanaian myself, hearing that one of my fellow people caused the start of her misery, is heartbreaking. I really pray she gets the help she needs, I wish I could personally help her myself and even ask my husbands family in Jamaica if they can help in any way too.

    • @TraumaTalkswithCooks
      @TraumaTalkswithCooks Год назад +3

      I feel the same

    • @logicali9575
      @logicali9575 Год назад +21

      I’m African, it’s always Africans working for the system that make it hard for other Africans needing help from the system. I think it’s a slave mentality thing of marking masser happy. It’s such a shame but I’ve felt it first hand.

    • @islandvybz5245
      @islandvybz5245 Год назад +6

      I was so shocked the first time I saw this. Know exactly what you mean. I cant explain the shock to my system at the time...

    • @Paradise-hm2wb
      @Paradise-hm2wb Год назад +3

      I hope that Ghanaian lady with the family in Jamaica can reach out to young woman she just needs Direction when someone to show that they actually care what about what direction and pathway her life takes takes

    • @joanieblackman7128
      @joanieblackman7128 Год назад +1

      Thank god fore your good heart hoop your familie gone help her jah💚 jahbless

  • @AD-qt2lo
    @AD-qt2lo Год назад +35

    Thank you so much for bringing this vulnerable young lady to public attention. Hopefully she can now receive the help and support that is needed. God bless you for taking the time to see and remember her!

  • @allenrose802
    @allenrose802 Год назад +34

    I don't think that she doesn't want better for herself. I think that she was traumatized. God bless her.

  • @brendarichards704
    @brendarichards704 Год назад +15

    Coco How can someone who sounds to know more places and colleges in London end up with out a helping hand...in Jamaica ... this is Deporation of ill person..Human Rights have let her done badly..this a crime...thank you Coco for love for this Angel of God...

  • @lea-ne9zv
    @lea-ne9zv Год назад +28

    If you want to help her ask her for her aunts number so you can get a better understanding of the situation to see if the passport would actually help her. I don’t think it’s a matter of her not wanting any help, she appears to have experienced a mental health break down.

  • @DiseasedKodak
    @DiseasedKodak 11 месяцев назад +15

    So much respect for trying to help this lady out!

  • @RB3565
    @RB3565 Год назад +2

    Thanks

    • @RB3565
      @RB3565 Год назад +1

      I just happen to scroll by and I came across this.
      The headline just broke my heart and tears started running. I have subscribed and chipped to help with the little I have. God bless you!

    • @COCOBOY369
      @COCOBOY369  Год назад

      Thanks man!
      I appreciate it , I’ll try to check on her again this weekend and help her🙏💕🙏

  • @-yo5yk
    @-yo5yk Год назад +9

    You are an angel and very patient because you almost have to put words in her mouth. I love helping people too. Continue the work you are doing, and the Lord will bless you abundantly. Thank You so much for letting God using you. This is real love from above.

  • @Tevenshev
    @Tevenshev Год назад +19

    hey Coco-Boy, for future reference, there is "THE GOOD SAMARITAN INN' operated by the Seventh-day Adventist Church at Heroes' Circle in Kingston, Jamaica. They offer help including overnight accommodation especially for women. They have facilities for persons to shower etc.
    God bless.

    • @Stonygut1865
      @Stonygut1865 Год назад

      I think someone commented that she is not homeless, she refuses to stay where she is placed to live and has been on the streets for the past twelve years. I think she is struggling with mental illness.

  • @andreahenry8594
    @andreahenry8594 Год назад +33

    Coco Boy,thank you for generosity and kind heart,we are our brother's and sister's keeper. However, she needs medical help,she's disconnected from reality, and appears to be suffering some form of trauma,therefore, it's beyond your scope. Her mind strays from topic to topic. I'm not sure of your location,but there's a mental health hospital in Kingston. Call Bellevue,perhaps you call and try and ascertain some help for her. Thank you and nuff blessings ❤🙏

  • @samanthaflanigan1434
    @samanthaflanigan1434 Год назад +21

    She’s so intelligent! I really pray she’ll get through this

  • @patriciarowe6685
    @patriciarowe6685 Год назад +16

    My father came to the UK from Jamaica. Things are expensive in Jamaica my father used to send money back home to his family 30 years ago. I cant imagine how hard things are for them in 2023. God bless everyone who is suffering with mental health. Jesus is with you ❤

  • @diorcnidaria9601
    @diorcnidaria9601 Год назад +97

    Coco, as a Jamaican living abroad and seeing your kindness to this sister, thank you brother! How did this happen in Jamaica? She needs help!!!!

    • @imrandamss2385
      @imrandamss2385 Год назад +7

      Definitely, mental health issues

    • @fabiansmith200
      @fabiansmith200 Год назад +1

      @@imrandamss2385 mental health didn't caused her to be the only one not graduated... And that someone would fight for her to come back to Jamaica

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +7

      Is also profiting his self,from your country.Your country has become,an earner for many of these so called do gooders

    • @jennifermorgan3242
      @jennifermorgan3242 Год назад

    • @BOOMLifestyle
      @BOOMLifestyle Год назад +3

      You really fell for his exploitation of this sister for his RUclips check. 🙄 He’s gross. Vampires in Jamaica all over again.

  • @thandizimmermann8275
    @thandizimmermann8275 Год назад +20

    That's humanity in action. Thank you for your kindness to complete strangers.

  • @JeffreyHinds-o7u
    @JeffreyHinds-o7u Год назад +31

    She is articulate,her support system of family seems to have given up on her, as she have not met their expectations.

    • @happydays9613
      @happydays9613 Год назад +2

      Or their just bad mind people full.of jealously.

    • @PrioryCampion
      @PrioryCampion Год назад

      @@happydays9613 your correct about that.

  • @ShortnSpicyNikks
    @ShortnSpicyNikks Год назад +99

    My heart cries for Patrina and I pray that she receives the much needed help. I battle with Anxiety and Depression and reside in Canada. I believe if she gets the opportunity to go back to the UK, she may be able to get the mental health support she needs. Mental illness is real and can be very serious, but with the right support we can also contribute positively to society. I share my journey on my platform. God bless you sir 🙏🏽💙🔥

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq Год назад

      The west will do it

    • @evelynemmanuel6689
      @evelynemmanuel6689 Год назад +7

      I feel the same way for her, she will be abused on the streets she already told CoCo boy the guy wanted to sleep with her I hope they leave her alone she don't need anymore problems.

    • @danniellejohnson448
      @danniellejohnson448 Год назад +7

      In the UK the wait for help is 2 years + if your lucky and only allowed 6 counselling sessions unless, you can afford to go private and pay £100 per session weekly

    • @josweetlove1537
      @josweetlove1537 Год назад +8

      @danniellejohnson448 i read the first comment and it appears people still feel the streets are paved with gold in Britain. "She can go to UK for mental help" as though they can help their own people. The waiting list for persons for medical help is years wait but they make it sound so easy.

    • @Kernewik101
      @Kernewik101 Год назад +2

      The Torys have been 'in charge' of uk for 14 yrs-& they've cut all the funding every year so there's fck all help for anyone with mental health problems & they'll probably put her straight into the detention centre & send her back to Jamaica or to Uganda😢😢

  • @LovenoHate64
    @LovenoHate64 Год назад +11

    She’s smart and I believe if she had the money and her Passport,she’ll not sitting around waiting for help from no auntie! God Bless her and protect her….❤️🙏🏽

  • @eyesb3911
    @eyesb3911 Год назад +32

    🙏🏾 this lady gets the help she needs.

  • @leroygarwood2813
    @leroygarwood2813 Год назад +141

    Going back to Jamaica like that is like dropping out of a tree ruff and this is why when all of us leave Jamaica we should still have something back home

    • @NativeNomad10
      @NativeNomad10 Год назад +8

      well said

    • @monikadunns6512
      @monikadunns6512 Год назад +10

      I do understand your point utterly remember that she mention about getting only get a year ( more or less visa to study)
      You are only entitled to work 20 hours per week on a student visa.
      Yes, you have some worthless son of a B in England who sit on their ass and refused to create stability for themselves.
      Mental illness is real and I wish the government could do more to help these people indeed.

    • @winstonjones771
      @winstonjones771 Год назад +10

      That’s well and good if you leave Jamaica as a adult,
      I leave Jamaica age 10 long story but I got stranded in Jamaica and spent 10yrs with nothing, thank god i don’t lose my mind but it wasn’t easy people treat you like shit they no nothing about you so they make it up
      I pray this lady finds a way out like I did
      I spent ten years in Jamaica, I’m back in the uk now doing well , I have a digital hub where I help young people

    • @asassynation9955
      @asassynation9955 Год назад

      ⁠@@monikadunns6512So….her own Government won’t take care of her, or any other of their people, but the fault lies with a “worthless Son of B in England”?
      Maybe if their own country created better stability for them, they wouldn’t want to go to England to begin with?
      It’s easier to blame the U.K. because we’re a “rich” country, but the truth is. We’re not actually so rich anymore and the illegal immigration mostly, is causing a MASSIVE ripple effect for EVERYONE, and yes, it’s seeping right down to the poorest of us as well. People do NOT want accept how many problems immigration causes, we’re only a teeny tiny little country, we only have so much room and so many resources, illegal immigration costs our country over a billion pounds a year (and counting) all whilst Jamaica apparently gets away with treating their OWN people like crap?
      It’s THEIR responsibility to take care of their own people, not everybody else’s - just like it’s not Jamaica’s responsibility to take care of any British person, it’s not our government’s responsibility or duty to take care of any others either.

    • @margaretmcpherson5642
      @margaretmcpherson5642 Год назад +2

      Good on you to fight your way back and helping others, God bless you young man.

  • @aivaenednew
    @aivaenednew Год назад +23

    This makes me sad to watch and I want to do something to help. So many things observed from this one conversation; she’s not psychologically sound which stems from trauma, neither is she physically fit. She needs long term shelter, proper care & rehabilitation. The government are so concerned about everything else except the welfare of the people, particularly the homeless and the local charities don’t do enough with their outreach. Shes a classic example of the disparities within the country. Thank you for making this video, she really does need help and hopefully this video reaches who it needs to reach in Jamaica for her to get the healthcare and wellbeing support she desperately needs.

  • @teekolinski491
    @teekolinski491 Год назад +42

    I get it. After watching this & reading the comments, I realize that she is feeling hopeless. Allegedly she has been in this situation on and off for around ten years. The Ghanian man she mentioned was her ex. She would work and give him money and they were supposed to be saving & building a house back home but that was all a lie. He took off with the money, and her family never did anything with the cash she was sending home & that's when everything started to go downhill. She worked hard in London but invested everything in the Ghanian. Her family is basically finished with her because she blew her chance. You know Jamaican parents & family don't show any mercy or empathy when you mess up. They make you feel worse and will keep bringing up your mistakes forever. Now she is stuck 'kotching' with her aunt, deep in self-regret & can't see how to get out of the hole. Just reminiscing about the past & what could have been. 😢
    Now I see why parents always say to focus on your studies alone in high school and college, leave romance for later. When women fall in love, we just focus on that & lose all senses. The wrong man will leave you in a hole deeper than where he found you. This is a testament to life. She needs someone to support her & make her find purpose again. She is getting old & time is running out.

    • @beverleyreid7572
      @beverleyreid7572 Год назад +1

      Very well said.

    • @maximr6576
      @maximr6576 Год назад +2

      She worked hard for him but he choked her and left with their money. What a dumb man. That beside love and decency.

    • @altheahyatt1904
      @altheahyatt1904 Год назад

      Some ofThese people from Ghanaian are spiritual wicked I feel the hands of them and right know my son have children for them if I was not a praying and fasting Christian I would be right where the woman is. 🙏 may God answers her questions and God bl this man
      She needs help but she's confused
      How can I give her my help

    • @samsuave6254
      @samsuave6254 Год назад +3

      People around the world have focused on their studies and have still ended up homeless. Actually this outcome is rife in England, London today in part driven by the cost of living here… I can’t express how easy it is to do all the ‘right’ things and still end up homeless in the UK
      Actually many have jobs but are still homeless 😅
      Just thought I’d make that point

    • @compactcasette
      @compactcasette Год назад +1

      West Indians, Afro-Americans, Afro-Cubans, Afro-Brazilians etc should have nothing to do with Africans. The vast majority are treacherous snakes. There's a reason they sold our ancestors. Wise up people

  • @nikkian9254
    @nikkian9254 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hope this helps in some way 💕 In case you see her again~ God bless 🙏🙏

  • @jersey4947
    @jersey4947 Год назад +18

    First time viewing this channel and I have to subscribe to it and sharing it to others I do live in the 🇺🇸United States and this is heartbreaking and I love the kindness of you brother 🙏

  • @DelroyGreaves-pe3qo
    @DelroyGreaves-pe3qo Год назад +56

    She looks like she needs some motivation. Don't give up on life.

    • @sandrawalker2066
      @sandrawalker2066 Год назад +4

      She has resigned herself to her fate

    • @peterpatton2867
      @peterpatton2867 Год назад +2

      ​@@sandrawalker2066
      Seems so.

    • @HotandSpicy87
      @HotandSpicy87 Год назад +2

      Thank u coco please go back and take her off the streets 🙏🙏

  • @krystalyapp8877
    @krystalyapp8877 Год назад +36

    As a nurse and social worker i can tell you taste it if she offers you its her comfort in knowing you arent trying to harm her many of my mentally ill patients ask me to do it and i do just to give them confort it even allows them to feel closer to you and open up more

  • @dawnhenry6306
    @dawnhenry6306 11 месяцев назад +3

    She is truly beautiful, her smile is radiant please help her

  • @dawnallen287
    @dawnallen287 Год назад +4

    Thank you my brother for been so faithful to her may the Almighty High Bless You

  • @ValentinaMitchell1
    @ValentinaMitchell1 Год назад +132

    Thank you for showing so much compassion! ❤

    • @COCOBOY369
      @COCOBOY369  Год назад +5

      💜

    • @ValentinaMitchell1
      @ValentinaMitchell1 Год назад +7

      Very great questions you asked. For all we know just a few positive words may have stuck with her and already has helped some. Positivity ❤

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад

      What’s your Whatsafpp no

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад

      ⁠They all do,I asked for his No.
      He hasn’t the manners to answer.I so want to help,you don’t have to be jama to do reach out to someone’s succour

    • @BOOMLifestyle
      @BOOMLifestyle Год назад

      @@mawama6719 VAMPIRE! HE SHOULD GO TO GAZA

  • @DanielleEdwards-u5z
    @DanielleEdwards-u5z Год назад +11

    Mental health is a serious thing... Many struggle each day... She is stuck but she believes and has hope. I know her better will come.

  • @janetoliver4266
    @janetoliver4266 Год назад +26

    This lady urgently needs a place to live as she may get hurt or become mentally unwell.

  • @monalisamonalisa5466
    @monalisamonalisa5466 Год назад +2

    @Coco Boy you are a man of substance and good hearted!
    For that; I have liked, subscribed and shared, for I love your contents ! Sending you love and wishing you happiness 😊

  • @chesterrichards3651
    @chesterrichards3651 7 месяцев назад +1

    I just watched your film and you are a good person. Your actions of supporting this woman was so touching and restored my belief in human kindness. Keep doing what you do CoCo boy - you are a top guy.

  • @alisharif3827
    @alisharif3827 Год назад +15

    Why didn’t they help her there in Jamaica people who crossing the road? It’s shameful on Jamaican people this guy is really helpful God blessed you my dear brother, and thank you so much for your fantastic compassion and wonderful support with your great heart ❤ ❤

    • @Mark-ix6dc
      @Mark-ix6dc Год назад

      This happens all over the world jamaica is a speck on the world map mental health is a real issue all over the word

  • @SandraStewartson-e2r
    @SandraStewartson-e2r Год назад +10

    Wow,I am bereft of words.
    Thumbs up Coco boy.
    Lets hope someone who knows her will come to her rescue.
    Jevohah bless and guide you Coco boy❤❤

  • @tracierickards6882
    @tracierickards6882 Год назад +52

    She has been in the area on and off for well over 10 years and at one point she lived on the sidewalk outside the French Embassy on Hillcrest Ave which is just 2 minutes drive away. She has mental health issues but usually does not cause any problems. The only thing you can do right now is to get her into a mental health facility at this point. She will disappear from the area for several months and then you see her pop up one day. I have heard so many stories about her past and the only consistency is that she was in the UK. I feel sorry for her but it may be a challenge as in individual to get her to agree on therapy. Kudos to you for trying.

    • @MarjorieWong-ym3ft
      @MarjorieWong-ym3ft Год назад +4

      That ave looks lonely and cold in nature

    • @juliabent1173
      @juliabent1173 11 месяцев назад

      She need some medical assistsnce sorry for her

    • @beverleymorgan8539
      @beverleymorgan8539 9 месяцев назад

      Thank God you send help for her she is very intelligent God is. good.

  • @stevegardener3552
    @stevegardener3552 Год назад +8

    You did good man, you were patient and kind plenty of respect 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @NurseSnow2U
      @NurseSnow2U 9 месяцев назад

      He really did. He’s a rarity and a gem of a human. 🤍🙏🏽✨

  • @SirFrost
    @SirFrost 11 месяцев назад +2

    She don't want help bro, God bless you though! 🙏❤️

  • @AdventureTrailsVaal
    @AdventureTrailsVaal Год назад +24

    Her situation of living on the street has affected her mind to an exte. She definitely needs help. A shelter with supportive structures

  • @kandydolor5286
    @kandydolor5286 Год назад +46

    Thank you Coco Boy for caring❤
    Your kindness has left me overwhelmed.
    I hope Patrina gets out of this awful situation asap and that her aunt sees this and is able to assist her.

    • @BOOMLifestyle
      @BOOMLifestyle Год назад

      Good lord, can’t you see he’s a parasite for clicks.

    • @esmemorgan8117
      @esmemorgan8117 Год назад +1

      I noticed she never once say thank you!!

    • @yvonneh5334
      @yvonneh5334 Год назад +2

      @@esmemorgan8117 I noticed too. Maybe because of her mental illness. I know a young lady who used to be very polite and grateful. She has developed a mental illness and now does not say thanks for anything.

  • @ednatulloch9677
    @ednatulloch9677 Год назад +48

    God bless you for genuinely being there for this broken lady. She is a good hearted person and she warmed my heart when she told you to taste the drink since you never had it before. I feel so bad for her she seems emotionally and mentally traumatized. God help her please to get the appropriate treatment and help. Sir, keep up the good work.

  • @LGGGlove
    @LGGGlove Год назад +6

    So sad the abuse on so many levels of the girl. She appear to be special. You are really trying to make a difference Coco. My first time in your channel. God Bless your kindness. I work with the disabled and mentally ill you need a lot of patience. Permanent Advocate has to be a partner to be that 24 hour support.

  • @marianndongwe4407
    @marianndongwe4407 Год назад +3

    Really amazing to spent that time speaking with the lady and it’s very sad that she doesn’t seem to know exactly what she wants. Thank you Shy that there are still some good people out there. May God bless you and l hope she will be helped to recover from this mental illness.

  • @donaldking4439
    @donaldking4439 Год назад +17

    This young lady is of unsound mind and is out of touch with reality my friends I pray for her 🙏

  • @lorraineanderson8730
    @lorraineanderson8730 Год назад +15

    She's really respectful.
    I think some bless person has to try to help her.

  • @em4160
    @em4160 Год назад +22

    Coco Boy your a good person God bless you and u can tell that lady needs some form of help

  • @bbah523
    @bbah523 Год назад +2

    Coco Boy thank you for all the help you extended to Patrina. If we all step up and help people with challenges like Patrina it would be awesome. May God Bless you Coco Boy and God guide and protect this lady.

  • @socialwork63
    @socialwork63 Год назад +6

    Very intelligent, insightful and a pretty lady yet gratitude and thanks goes a long way. I hope she comes out better from this hardship!!

  • @eunicegrant7305
    @eunicegrant7305 Год назад +9

    Hello my brother with such beautiful heart ❤️ ❤❤I met good hearted people before but you man is the sweetest I ever encountered!! Especially as a foreigner to a black and homeless woman, you are truly amazing. and I do hope many more with be like you. May the Blessings of God continued to be with you and upon you for the rest of your life.. Peace and Love to you my Brother. and thank you for your kindness.🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯

  • @helennicholson1749
    @helennicholson1749 Год назад +9

    She is very Educated shock of been pull out your comfort zone she seem like she want better living than trench town dont give up on her ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @VagnN
    @VagnN Год назад +8

    COCO BOY, you are doing it so very well. You are a good human, and you are doing your best trying to help her. We can't change the world, but you was trying with few steps 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @randylh5112
    @randylh5112 8 месяцев назад

    Coco boy thanks for sharing this story. I have great respect for you and your work as a youtuber. Your generosity is authentic....

  • @ericataylor3759
    @ericataylor3759 Год назад +3

    Great guy, he is truly s man of God blessings go with him hoping that this lady gets help and return to London, be safe guy..

  • @BritishJamerican7
    @BritishJamerican7 Год назад +82

    I'm not sure if she is dealing with Reality. She may be Delusional as her mind is jumping from several scenarios to Academia. Missing documents, missing exam papers etc. Trench Town/London seems to play a part. Prayers going up for this lady. She seems Lost both mentally and Physically.

    • @shaymene8112
      @shaymene8112 Год назад

      she mention her aunty beating her as well. A lot of Jamaicans think it's normal to BEAT little children which is very traumatic for kids. I am not surprise so many Jamaicans have mental issues. The parenting is so upside down, with hold love and support and give beating and resentment. Doesn't make any sense to me

    • @Jennifer-it6tr
      @Jennifer-it6tr Год назад

      This lady has mental issues. So sorry for her, she needs help.

    • @melitaaitcheson-johnson5905
      @melitaaitcheson-johnson5905 Год назад

      I think she lacks motivation, she is grandiose and delusional. Something is not right with her, she is a laidback sick girl, obviously she has some mental issues. She is just the typical personality who ends up being a street person. She is 43 , what has she been doing? I think her family has helped without success . She is a middle aged woman already, mentally ill and needs serious mental evaluation and therapy. I think she was a smart girl who was hindered by mental illness. She is yet to take responsibility for the way her life is, COCO is very patient, but zi think he is wasting his time. She is like Billy Bogs. , even if she is taken off the streets she will end up back there. She cannot connect with reality

    • @eyeswideopen7126
      @eyeswideopen7126 Год назад +9

      Of course she's lost.. she's on the streets with nobody. Like a dog. Her head is gone.

    • @olivejohnson5546
      @olivejohnson5546 Год назад +1

      Agreed

  • @Darcsymphonie
    @Darcsymphonie Год назад +30

    LOVING GOD, YOU ARE ALWAYS NEAR TO US, ESPECIALLY WHEN WE ARE WEAK, SUFFERING AND VULNERABLE. Reach out to those who experience mental illness Or whatever the case may be, Lift their burdens, calm their anxiety, and quiet their fears. Surround them with your healing presence that they may know that they are not alone. Amen. Love and blessings everyone!!

  • @deedee2698
    @deedee2698 Год назад +17

    She has definitely been to London because i know gipsy Road and Crystal Palace... and there is a salon called Diva ... not sure if its still there.
    Hope she gets the help she needs

    • @GinjaFajr
      @GinjaFajr Год назад

      Yeah defo, i know where she talking about

  • @CUDDELINA
    @CUDDELINA Год назад +2

    I respect you so much for your work. It’s amazing. You are amazing. I will be privileged to follow your work. You are inspiring. Your sincerity in helping Patrina is awesome. You are truly an angel of God.

  • @richieogun3093
    @richieogun3093 Год назад +26

    This is difficult to watch but there is so much to learn from Coco boy and Petrina. Trauma can galvanise some people to succeed in life but it can crush other people's dreams.
    But we should not judge anyone, especially people like Petrina who tried but faced her own peculiar challenges.
    I also love how coco boy told her not to blame others, but use that energy to galvanise herself