As a white South African that comes from white trash, when a white person waves their hand admitting they use like they're in Church, they still use and ain't trying to fix shit. They just feel good about themselves saying "I have a problem" like a 5 year old screams that they can tell time at teacher. Don't come here calling me judgemental, my mom is one of those people and all her slum friends were too. I know what I'm talking about.
@@MikeRotch-ur7sxeverything you did was so that your children would not have to struggle as you did. Find the love in your heart once more. Happy new year brother.
He's not spittin. He's talking bollocks. Shifting the focus on her, making up excuses for smoking drugs. "I'm do drugs because I'm not well however my lady friend who I choose to spend everyday around is an addict" stop falling for bullsh1t social media
@@DHFT147 I'm not 'falling' for anything. From my own experiences i've deducted that they are both definitely struggling, she needs someone to keep her in check, and while the guy has some issues of his own, I don't think he's making up excuses. When you are in an environment like that for so long, your perception shifts, same goes for what you grew up around. While I don't exactly know your perception, I can guarantee it is vastly different from theirs. I agree that weed is a drug, but I can recognize the positive and negative effects it can have on you, depending on how you use it, habits, brain chemistry, etc. He's using it as a dependency to keep him off of hard drugs, which is not particularly good, but it's a step in the right direction. It looks like they are all each other have, and it is good to have a battle buddy to keep you in check.
@@DHFT147 He’s talking about smoking weed and drinking because he has bipolar disorder and presumably no access to treatment. He’s simply doing what he needs to do with what he’s got, but the implication is very heavily that she has an addiction to something a lot more severe and is trying to stop. He didn’t dodge anything, even from how she was acting you can tell she knew her problem was worse. You can argue that he has a problem too, but something tells me it’s not at the top of their priority list currently.
@@lainiwakura666 I never called him a hero..? I'm just saying that tough love is sometimes necessary for change, and she's able to take that without it being personal while realizing she does need the harshness.
@@simplerocketscience6222 yep, 'cos you can prove that unequivocally. Looking forward to your evidence. It was a generalised caring term I used. I'm not particularly religious but thought I'd send a message of support. I just forgot that the internet is full of know it all's.
@@simplerocketscience6222Satan and his demonic force are responsible for this. Also people have a free will and choice. People can make wrong decisions/choices and we have to repent and make better choices/decisions to improve our lives
@@elijahfalcone2153maybe not physically, but psychologically he is. He also is just self medicating, I refuse to call that 'using for medical purpose'.
Sometimes a broken man just needs a purpose to pick himself back up. The fact she admitted to having a problem shows they’re both working hard together to get each other better
She’s a gorgeous woman and seems to be doing good despite her addiction, the male looks pretty good also so it’s obvious they take care of eachother. Addiction is hard and loving someone who is an addict it’s sometimes harder so mucho respect towards them. May the gods keep them in their sights
My biggest respect to them. Humanity is messed up and people seek a way out of misery and pain. The best we can do is help each other find a bit of happiness and equality. My thoughts and prayers are with these people.
I can tell the man doesnt do hard drugs, His eyes and his skin say it all, he’s healthy. I hope the lady finds help because she seems like a beautiful lady who’s only struggling with addiction. May Life heal all beings. 🇿🇦
@@PadraigpGlad you pointed that out. Addiction is a symptom of many other factors including mental illness, trauma, physical health issues, inequalities and inequities, behavioral problems, environmental conditions, and on and on and on. Addiction is like trying to put an octopus to bed -as you get three or four legs tucked in, three or four are climbing out the other side.
@@flatsixx while you are true you are still wrong. Addiction can and definitely will be sometimes present without any other indication. Some people could be the happiest ever and still chase highs and then lose controll of the chase. Alcohol one of the major players in this field. Most alcoholics are alcoholics not because their life is shit but because they didnt knew what was coming when they decided to drink every weekend and more.
Black or White poverty has no race, so whether I am black which I am or White humanity is humanity and to help humanity we don't have to look at skin colour race, culture or religion.❤
@@tonykennedy8592 I mean not everyone 1st language is English and while correcting someone is not wrong, we still need to consider that it's not everyone's mother tongue.
Mad Respect to her for being honest with not only the guy doing the interview but also herself.. it takes a strong person to admit that they have a problem my mother was addicted to cocaine and speed when I was growing up and the only time she admitted that she had a problem was on her death bed and it still haunts me to this day If only more addicts would accept the help (when it’s offered) to get clean and to get off the streets but unfortunately you can’t help people like that unless they see that they need said help
Hope you find what you need, alcohol is brutal. Good luck, don't hate yourself, don't blame yourself, try every day to get a little better. Think of it like exercising. The effort breaks you down but it makes you stronger each time
@@zama8386because there is a lack of enforcing the law. Which means there will be more oppertunity for people to break the law, or in this case have easy access to drugs. Because of its easy access its easier to fall into addiction. And addiction claims lives. Yes people choose to take drugs, but it could be because of depression, trauma, abuse. You dont know, please have sympathy
@@madrugadao000 *it does require you to not pass judgment on them, and consider them as human like yourself then all sudden my sentence will make more sense to you*
Wish nothing but Love and prosperity for these 2. We're all living a human experience, hope theirs brings better days even though there's likely still more bad to come they have each other and that's amazing to see people endure together. Best wishes from the USA 🇺🇲
Here's two people who need help from a psychologist for addiction (which is classified as a psychological disorder) and bi-polar (as stated by the gentleman), yet South Africa continues to restrict mental health services. There are scores of students fighting hard for their chance to enter the field, but we are only allowed to accept approximately 8 students a year! Yet, there is a shortage of psychologists in hospitals and schools 😢
This one sparked a tear. Hits home hard. I’m happy they are making the best of their situations and still seem to be there for eachother. We all need to slow down and respect and put ourselves in eachothers shoes more often. Time and patience can sometimes be all the medicine a loved one needs. Stay strong and safe everyone.💙
Man this was beautiful I needed this today. I know y'all poor in South Africa but y'all richer than the rest of us this way and I think that's the most important way to be wealthy.
I have bipolar and I’m a recovering heroin addict I’ve been on regular meds and I’m prescribed medical cannabis and both made it worse for me. The meds made me think about hurting myself and cannabis drives me deeper into depression and apathy. I hope these people find peace. I have more in common with them than my friends and family
@Deezy_Ankh Black Economic Empowerment laws make it nearly impossible to find a job for white people in South Africa, next to that there is a massive shortage of jobs in the country.
@@Die-versity-yg4upyes, because you take care of your skin. Look at the older generation who did not use sunscreen, etc. They're not as bad as these two, but the African sun is very harsh on us.
@Sheismrda *Ion*- an atom or molecule with a net electric charge due to the loss or gain of one or more electrons. The correct words would be *I Don’t*
This is really heart-warming. This is humanity❤ Thank you for sharing and even for their courage to share. People dont realise how hard it is to get to this stage.. Mo Power❤
Watch the full Documentary on my channel! Link in description! 😱
Thx for credits x
Https://ruclips.net/video/Jik_MkFD6Fs/видео.html
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I don't think I can stomach it at the moment to be honest.
Will you give this couple 3/4 of the money you earn? Maybe put it towards a better future.
The fact she said yes, means she's actively trying to fix it😢
Nah shes probably gonna ask for a lighter or something
@@cheeseboymafiashe's trying and that's all matters
Well, he ain't wrong too. Weed ain't a drug problem
As a white South African that comes from white trash, when a white person waves their hand admitting they use like they're in Church, they still use and ain't trying to fix shit. They just feel good about themselves saying "I have a problem" like a 5 year old screams that they can tell time at teacher.
Don't come here calling me judgemental, my mom is one of those people and all her slum friends were too. I know what I'm talking about.
Positive thoughts
That "Life pushes huh" really hit hard
Being gay is wrong
@@MikeRotch-ur7sxeverything you did was so that your children would not have to struggle as you did.
Find the love in your heart once more. Happy new year brother.
@@MikeRotch-ur7sxlife's hard on every generation the world is a scary and dangerous place
I know, amen brother
@@MikeRotch-ur7sxhow would you know how old that person is
Im an African and i wish these fellow Africans quick recovery...there is more hope to life
Amen!!
Africans 😂😂, You mean Dutch.
@@kingsamuelofficialI don’t like what you are implying
@@kingsamuelofficialidiot
@@kingsamuelofficial that sets a dangerous president
He's spittin. Im glad theyre both able to recognize that the tough love is necessary for change.
He's not spittin. He's talking bollocks. Shifting the focus on her, making up excuses for smoking drugs. "I'm do drugs because I'm not well however my lady friend who I choose to spend everyday around is an addict" stop falling for bullsh1t social media
@@DHFT147 I'm not 'falling' for anything. From my own experiences i've deducted that they are both definitely struggling, she needs someone to keep her in check, and while the guy has some issues of his own, I don't think he's making up excuses. When you are in an environment like that for so long, your perception shifts, same goes for what you grew up around. While I don't exactly know your perception, I can guarantee it is vastly different from theirs. I agree that weed is a drug, but I can recognize the positive and negative effects it can have on you, depending on how you use it, habits, brain chemistry, etc. He's using it as a dependency to keep him off of hard drugs, which is not particularly good, but it's a step in the right direction. It looks like they are all each other have, and it is good to have a battle buddy to keep you in check.
@@DHFT147 He’s talking about smoking weed and drinking because he has bipolar disorder and presumably no access to treatment. He’s simply doing what he needs to do with what he’s got, but the implication is very heavily that she has an addiction to something a lot more severe and is trying to stop. He didn’t dodge anything, even from how she was acting you can tell she knew her problem was worse. You can argue that he has a problem too, but something tells me it’s not at the top of their priority list currently.
Hes spitting his teeth out because of his supposed weed/drink problem …what a hero
@@lainiwakura666 I never called him a hero..? I'm just saying that tough love is sometimes necessary for change, and she's able to take that without it being personal while realizing she does need the harshness.
God bless them both, best wishes from Ireland
God is responsible for this situation.
@@simplerocketscience6222 yep, 'cos you can prove that unequivocally. Looking forward to your evidence. It was a generalised caring term I used. I'm not particularly religious but thought I'd send a message of support. I just forgot that the internet is full of know it all's.
Get them TF out of Africa 🌍 now !!!!!!
Drugs are bad, mmkay?
@@simplerocketscience6222Satan and his demonic force are responsible for this. Also people have a free will and choice. People can make wrong decisions/choices and we have to repent and make better choices/decisions to improve our lives
Awww man, I'm glad they've got each other. It's a beautiful thing.
It is a beautiful thing😢
Two drug addicts are not helping eachother......
Enable eachother
@@ChallieWallieone of them is not am addict. Weed is not a addictive drug and he clearly states he uses it for medical purposes.
@@elijahfalcone2153maybe not physically, but psychologically he is.
He also is just self medicating, I refuse to call that 'using for medical purpose'.
Kindness in his eyes. Nobody should be left behind
Sometimes a broken man just needs a purpose to pick himself back up. The fact she admitted to having a problem shows they’re both working hard together to get each other better
I can see the little boy he once was, God bless you on your journey
What a kind comment. Much love and respect from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️
Hes a good dude. Got a good heart you can see it in the mans eyes
was thinking the same thing
Poor guy is simple though. We should look out for people like this but most of the time we leave them for the wolves.
Which dude is a good dude? The one in red or grey?
If he had a little more melanin on him you would've said he's a pretender
@@Ricky-oi3wvinstead of taking care of people like this they keep us distracted and fighting amongst ourselves for the scraps the rich leave behind
She’s a gorgeous woman and seems to be doing good despite her addiction, the male looks pretty good also so it’s obvious they take care of eachother. Addiction is hard and loving someone who is an addict it’s sometimes harder so mucho respect towards them. May the gods keep them in their sights
My biggest respect to them. Humanity is messed up and people seek a way out of misery and pain. The best we can do is help each other find a bit of happiness and equality. My thoughts and prayers are with these people.
His big heart isn't half as big as either one of his ears put together.
@@Wtfu2 damn you considered doing stand up?
The worst lies are the ones we tell ourselves
What is the lie? They've both admitted to their consumptions.
Neither of them lied
What are you on about?
But he is right, weed is not a drug like the crappy pills they sell for mental medical conditions
Relax guys. He's simply complimenting them on their willingness to face the truth
I wish I could hug these people’s souls. That ‘life pushes’ hit hard and I completely understand.
May God bless them both and stay in their lives, I wish for the best for both of them, I pray life gets better for them
I can tell the man doesnt do hard drugs, His eyes and his skin say it all, he’s healthy. I hope the lady finds help because she seems like a beautiful lady who’s only struggling with addiction. May Life heal all beings. 🇿🇦
Nobody struggling with addiction is " only" struggling with addiction.
Still doing them
Healthy hahaha wtf
@@PadraigpGlad you pointed that out. Addiction is a symptom of many other factors including mental illness, trauma, physical health issues, inequalities and inequities, behavioral problems, environmental conditions, and on and on and on. Addiction is like trying to put an octopus to bed -as you get three or four legs tucked in, three or four are climbing out the other side.
@@flatsixx while you are true you are still wrong. Addiction can and definitely will be sometimes present without any other indication. Some people could be the happiest ever and still chase highs and then lose controll of the chase.
Alcohol one of the major players in this field. Most alcoholics are alcoholics not because their life is shit but because they didnt knew what was coming when they decided to drink every weekend and more.
Black or White poverty has no race, so whether I am black which I am or White humanity is humanity and to help humanity we don't have to look at skin colour race, culture or religion.❤
Your first sentence needs a comma so it reads : Black or white, poverty has no race". Your sentence literally asigns two races to poverty
@@tonykennedy8592 I mean not everyone 1st language is English and while correcting someone is not wrong, we still need to consider that it's not everyone's mother tongue.
Really
@@tonykennedy8592did you understand the comment without the punctuation? Yes
Did you have to be a dick ? No
@@tonykennedy8592 as you fuck up in your own comment, didn’t know punctuation police were patrolling.
You can tell he genuinely loves her and wants to help her ❤
Mad Respect to her for being honest with not only the guy doing the interview but also herself.. it takes a strong person to admit that they have a problem my mother was addicted to cocaine and speed when I was growing up and the only time she admitted that she had a problem was on her death bed and it still haunts me to this day If only more addicts would accept the help (when it’s offered) to get clean and to get off the streets but unfortunately you can’t help people like that unless they see that they need said help
I believe childhood trauma is the biggest gateway drug
@@ImaRandomFemale usually kids growing up in healthy environments don't pick bad friends.
@@ImaRandomFemale
Without a doubt!
Very sad. 😐
@@lightarmy.888in my experience that couldn't be further from the truth
Looking at her I suspect she has fAS syndrome, so the problem is older than she is. Some of us get dealt a s**t hand.
Yes mam. I was an alcoholic at 21 while paying semi pro rugby 😂
Unresolved trauma will mess you up when you’re older.
I pray they continue to have the courage to deal with it all.
He sounds like a very humble man.
I’m glad they have each other
This is heartbreaking because i know first hand as an alcoholic that ive been battling for years. May god bless them in some way.
Hope you find what you need, alcohol is brutal. Good luck, don't hate yourself, don't blame yourself, try every day to get a little better. Think of it like exercising. The effort breaks you down but it makes you stronger each time
@@nk-dw2hm thank you my friend, God Bless
South Africans are salt of the earth people. I love my South Africa.
You do know that if you salt the earth you cant grow any thing that why people cant farm with sea water 😂
@@sakurakou2009 lol. You also can't live without salt.
Meaning salt is a precious mineral 🤗
Typical south Africans xD
These can't be south Africans......
Sterkte julle twee. Wees sterk en kyk na mekaar.
Jy is reg
En dit is baie hartseer Om mense so the Sien
Maar Ek weet
Hulle Gaan beter word een dag
What language are you speaking?
Afrikaans@@dustin628
@@dustin628 That is Afrikaans. It comes from Dutch originally.
@@captaincat1743isn't there something like 13 different dialects of the language?
Praying for them both . She is fantastic for recognizing it . Good on him for helping her
Wishing a speedy recovery don’t give up don’t give in!
I love the guys posativity and optimisim , i hope they get all the support to give them the best chance of healing .
Hope these guys get out Poverty and they're addiction. Love from Gauteng(South African Province)❤
I think this video is also in Gauteng
The fact that he understands and doesn't wish to and it hurts him to, when he must yell. He definitely has a good heart.
Bless you both, I hope you both get the help you need/want and get to where you may both want to be
I am from South Africa and there is a big drug problem everywhere and the police is kak over here so I’m glad we have someone documenting it…
Everywhere???👀👀😂😂
The police is kak indeed
Why do we always blame the police for people's personal choices,
Southafrica should implant strict laws against drugd like east asia
@@zama8386because there is a lack of enforcing the law. Which means there will be more oppertunity for people to break the law, or in this case have easy access to drugs. Because of its easy access its easier to fall into addiction. And addiction claims lives. Yes people choose to take drugs, but it could be because of depression, trauma, abuse. You dont know, please have sympathy
It's much better to be a stoner than an alcoholic
Good luck with that
drugs are drugs
Nah, it's shit to be either
Wake up feeling refreshed vs waking up feeling like a hammer was tossed at you
Yeah, zaza all the way
@@nastyc6052weed is a drug? Narure that never go through any chemical lab? You must be so dumb with that arrogance
at least they have each other when everything was awful i was so happy to have my love, i miss her rest in peace baby ❤
Can’t knock the honesty
She is Lucky because God saw it fit to provide her with someone that cares
Lol God allowed her to become homeless and have a drug problem but it’s ok cos he sent another crackhead that ‘cares’ 😂
God saw it fit to make her homeless and get her into drugs
Uh?🤦🏻♂️
@@madrugadao000 *it does require you to not pass judgment on them, and consider them as human like yourself then all sudden my sentence will make more sense to you*
Why did God see fit to give her a drug problem in the first place?
Vir all die Afrikaanse mense daar buite will ek se God is daar vir julle en ek is onsettend lief vir julle ❤
❤
Me(also south african) : Where's this tho?
This comment was not addressed to you, take your identity crisis to your own people
@@RicksPhatPharm-vw2lbNcoaaww🥺 someone needs a hug😂 also how would your level of brain know I'm mixed or not??💁🏽♂️🤣
@@amukelanimkasi3550Are you Afrikaans.? Waphapha maan
Someone bless these two
For some reason this video is by far the only video that touches the depths of my heart
" I must say" is the prefix and suffix to honesty
My fellow south Africans.
Sad😢😮
Wish nothing but Love and prosperity for these 2. We're all living a human experience, hope theirs brings better days even though there's likely still more bad to come they have each other and that's amazing to see people endure together. Best wishes from the USA 🇺🇲
There hearts are so beautiful, it’s sad to see so many kind souls live in such poor conditions
May you both pull through your problems, and boy you are so good with your woman! What a MAN ✌️💪
Do more like this bro make people aware
They seem nice with pure hearts 💕
Wish that transparency and honesty was commonplace in America
Wholesome answer
Here's two people who need help from a psychologist for addiction (which is classified as a psychological disorder) and bi-polar (as stated by the gentleman), yet South Africa continues to restrict mental health services. There are scores of students fighting hard for their chance to enter the field, but we are only allowed to accept approximately 8 students a year! Yet, there is a shortage of psychologists in hospitals and schools 😢
Yes! Like gender dysphoria! Please help psychologists. OR maybe just redefine your terms.
Oh wait...there will be a DSMV 10 SOOOON. Lol
@@EddieD4224you will be left behind by time.
@@caintrip9745 and you will be redefined in time.
they are both good people and i wish the best for both of them and her in her recovery!
This one sparked a tear. Hits home hard. I’m happy they are making the best of their situations and still seem to be there for eachother. We all need to slow down and respect and put ourselves in eachothers shoes more often. Time and patience can sometimes be all the medicine a loved one needs. Stay strong and safe everyone.💙
God bless this beautiful family ❤️❤️
How do we help them ??
Man this was beautiful I needed this today. I know y'all poor in South Africa but y'all richer than the rest of us this way and I think that's the most important way to be wealthy.
Definitely going to watch this documentary. So sad, wish them healing and recovery 🙏😢🇿🇦 hayi things are tough in South Africa though.
Thats a good man and a good woman somtimes it takes doing things for someone you love when you dont love yourself.
Feal for you, life is good when you have people ❤
🎉😂
we needa FREE rehab in South Africa,my plan is to have one.
Prayers for you and yours and for a speedy recovery 🙏
He’s got a huge heart.
He’s a good friend
“But like I say, life pushes.”
I believe in you. One day at a time.
Bless you, and hope you live a full life and get through your recovery!
I wish I knew where they were - we can all make a small difference in someone's life, we can change the world one person at a time
Go look for and find them
It's in Johannesburg, South Africa. There's a link for the full video, in the pinned comment, above. Reach out to the OP for further information...
May Allah help all the people in need
Lmao sure
Who's Allah?
@@ryanbrown3391 arabic for God ( Usually the Jewish/Christian/Muslim Unitarian interpretation )
Ameen
Farts
I love their honesty 🫡
I have bipolar and I’m a recovering heroin addict I’ve been on regular meds and I’m prescribed medical cannabis and both made it worse for me. The meds made me think about hurting myself and cannabis drives me deeper into depression and apathy. I hope these people find peace. I have more in common with them than my friends and family
WEED for biplar. Makes sense.
❤ Bless them.
May God bless these two
That’s heart breaking stuff. Addiction is such a sad thing. My heart goes out to these 2 ❤
This is sad but he lowkey look like Andrew Tate if he was homeless
😭😂😂😂😭😭
Damn! Yes! It’s the ears 😂
No cap 💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂
Was waiting for this comment. 😂
Drugs are drugs pal. Anything that puts you out of your normal state of mind is a drug.
They squandered it😂
Same as alchol and the trash big pharmaceutical companies sell. Dude weed is not a drug
@@olefilegoitseoneishmael.mo8330facts. Side effects on meds are worse than certain hardcore drugs themselves long term
Stupid comment
So soda and coffee and candy all drugs huh.
Brutally honest and full of real knowledge. Good man in a bad world.
So polite... God bless you both.
He looks like andrews tate real dad lol
If this is what thecANac has done, can you imagine the EFF 😢
Blame the invaders.
The privilege is gone.
starting to sound like the very people you have been saying to, that "life is fair nobody can ruin your life but you", these two are druggies baby
You gotta explain how the government did this. I know how it happened in the USA but that's a totally different thing.
@Deezy_Ankh Black Economic Empowerment laws make it nearly impossible to find a job for white people in South Africa, next to that there is a massive shortage of jobs in the country.
Unconditional love. God bless these people
God bless these folks. Nobody deserves to be on the streets 😔🙏🏾
That AFRICAN SUN if ROUGH ON THE WHITE SKIN
Afrika is nie vir pissies nie....
Good thing we have sun screen
yeah the story is probably very embellished.
12 generation white in South Africa . No skin problem . Those people live rough . Yhey will look like that in any northern hemisphere country .
@@Die-versity-yg4upyes, because you take care of your skin. Look at the older generation who did not use sunscreen, etc. They're not as bad as these two, but the African sun is very harsh on us.
Ion think that’s how bud works but ayee
@Sheismrda
*Ion*- an atom or molecule with a net electric charge due to the loss or gain of one or more electrons.
The correct words would be *I Don’t*
@@f82dot ☝🤓
biggest nerd i have seen in youtube replys.
God bless you two i hope youre doing better everyday
I’m so glad they have each other, that love and hope can make some serious things happen ❤
Idk but lowkey he looks like Andrew Tate lol
Low key you need to get your eyes tested
Nah low key Andrew looks like this guy. Not other way around.
Bro is a bad influence to her 🤞. She can't be speaking for her
Much love keep your heads up I'm 16yrs clean off of Heroin and I love life and a 2nd chance at raising a family I thank The Supreme Being everyday
Praying for both of you, much love❤️🙏
It's shameful how poorly they're being treated in their own country, love from Australia
????
@@giveherheadnotheadaches South Africans, the country's a rotten pit and they refuse to take care of their own citizens
what th does that mean? treated? please explain
South Africa is a Black man's land.
and blackboard were oppressed what about them?
“Weed is not a drug problem” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well technically drugs cant be drug problems
God bless them both. Love from England 🏴
God.will.never see them.through
Don't give up guys!! She's lucky to have your support my friend.
True weed is not a drug problem
This is the alternate ending of lord of the rings if Frodo failed his adventure.
The fact that shes honest about it is huge so good on her
That’s beautiful. In a rough spot but they got each other.
Being South African, aren't they both multilingual? How many of you trolls can even speak one language intelligibly?
No doubt they're Afrikaans. We don't know if they speak a third language.
This is Andrew tate back in the days.😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is really heart-warming. This is humanity❤ Thank you for sharing and even for their courage to share. People dont realise how hard it is to get to this stage.. Mo Power❤