I noticed about what she mentioned about women are the one buying / carrying the food while the men just sit & wait. I personally do not go get the food but my husband is the one buying / collecting the food. My reason is, probably the wife or girl is unable to decide what to eat and therefore the guy will let her decide & buy the meal.
i often see (in MRT) man sitting down while their (female) friend standing. Some men wouldn't even give up their seats to elderly or people in need. Of cos there are always gentleman around ready to offer their service to others. I think morale education plays a major role in this issue.
It's because the man has already decided what dish he wants, while the woman is still trying to make her mind. So, it's better for the woman to order for him while she is still exploring stalls trying to decide what to eat.
Seating in hawker centre is first come first serve. I usually let my wife buy her favourites food while I stay to keep her seat. When she returns, she will stay to keep my seat while I look for my food. This is very normal. Your HK guest has completely misunderstood. Sometimes man buy for woman. Sometimes woman buy for man. Again this is very normal. Singapore Chinese language is unique. We throw in dialect, English and Malay. Again, this is normal. Since you married to Singapore man, aren’t you aware of our local uniqueness by now?
hm I also think it’s probably the woman still wants to browse around and decide what to eat so she order for the guy. i see myself and my girlfriends, if they already know what they want to eat, it’s always their boyfriends or husbands ordering. but very often, it’s more sg culture to each go order and take their own food.
think there is no fixed situation in who buy food. at least at my family,. sometimes, each will get their own, if someone is getting food for the rest, it is usually me who get the food for my wife before i go get my food
HK taxi don’t like epayment (accept cash only), converse mostly in Cantonese (few willing to do in mandarin) and speed driving most of the time. Uber in HK on the other hand does not have all these issues, but is not legalised by HK govt. Why? It’s the colour of HK culture. Having lived in HK for 5 years, I accepted the cultural disparity, and leverage these traits to my benefit. Nothing to complain about, just adapt and move on. Guess this is Sporean’s strength.
I am usually the one playing games on the phone and my husband does the buying of food. Next time, I will observe if it’s the other way round for other couples. Interesting…
Depending on the women.... My girlfriend usually is not picky. So in that case I will prefer to buy for both of us. But if she cannot decide and wants to walk around, I will let her go ahead while I wait and play with my phone....
Its very common here in Singapore that the woman is in charge of the food. Outside and at home. Men the money. My wife would order and pay for the food, as to show she is "leading or boss" in this topic. And she likes it, unless in Western context, then is man that orders, but she still pays.... Money wise, the change my wife will give me back so that I have loose notes. Coins she keep because I don't carry coin pouch. But the money is not really matter, because I will withdraw from ATM to make sure she got the enough cash on her, hew hundred bucks. So when pay, I give her, so that I can get change for when she not around. This shows also when with her, I eat expensive ones - got give change. Mine alone, cheaper food. Just give small notes.
Eros look at things & situation are very assuming. U absolutely have no idea about the couple. U are jus based on wat u see. It’s more than meets the eyes most of the time. In Sg, there’s no need to be so calculative over who buys. It’s very outdated mindset that it’s a problem if girl buy for guy. If girl want to be the one buying. There are many ways to skin a cat. Don’t live in the past & sweat over the small stuff.
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I noticed about what she mentioned about women are the one buying / carrying the food while the men just sit & wait. I personally do not go get the food but my husband is the one buying / collecting the food. My reason is, probably the wife or girl is unable to decide what to eat and therefore the guy will let her decide & buy the meal.
i often see (in MRT) man sitting down while their (female) friend standing. Some men wouldn't even give up their seats to elderly or people in need. Of cos there are always gentleman around ready to offer their service to others. I think morale education plays a major role in this issue.
这位漂亮的小姐。婚姻不是互相体贴吗？有时丈夫帮太太买食物，有时候太太宠丈夫。如果一直单方呵护另一方，久了会累吧？你试试给你丈夫个惊喜，说不定他很开心。
我是新加坡人。如果我和老公打算吃一样的食物 ，我老公会去买，而我则坐着等。我也经常看到男的帮女的买餐啊，女的坐着。所以这位嘉宾说的情况don't happen at all times in Singapore, maybe on rare occasions.
Maybe
在马来西亚基本不会看到女的帮男的买，新加坡感觉比较男女平等
身为一个土生土长的新加坡人，女生帮男生买食物应该不是典型的举动。可能女嘉宾见到的例子刚好是那个家庭的习惯？我们家（还有我周围的朋友）都是老公帮我买，归还完盘也是他帮我弄。
至少他们没有用纸巾雨伞chope座位，没人看着😂
It's because the man has already decided what dish he wants, while the woman is still trying to make her mind. So, it's better for the woman to order for him while she is still exploring stalls trying to decide what to eat.
Maybe
大多数男的买，除非女的意见和要求特多。省事就叫她去买。
我的观察：比较大陆，香港，台湾和大马的华人，新加坡和大马的男人最不会大男人主义，其次是香港。原因应该是这3个地方比较西化，受到英国的绅士文化的影响比较重。香港比较靠近大陆，所以受到大陆的重男轻女观念的影响比较大一些。我们一般上会让女生先出入电梯，也会在公共场合为女生拉门，大陆男生很少会这么做。当我这么做的时候，我的大陆朋友还会批评我。
大陸還大男子主義？看地區吧！ 英國有紳士嗎？看一下新聞再看一下歷史，sb
那个男的不是在玩手机， 他是在霸位。为何女的自己去买东西？因为每次问，答案都是不知道。
每次我去买都会被complain, 所以老婆买就不会错，因为我什么都吃。
👍🏻
其实在新加坡男女平等，只是Eros不知道这里的规则：如果男比女帅，男的坐着、女的去买。如果男的样衰，女的坐着、男的去买。Eros只注意猛男，当然会下错定论！
Seating in hawker centre is first come first serve. I usually let my wife buy her favourites food while I stay to keep her seat. When she returns, she will stay to keep my seat while I look for my food. This is very normal. Your HK guest has completely misunderstood. Sometimes man buy for woman. Sometimes woman buy for man. Again this is very normal. Singapore Chinese language is unique. We throw in dialect, English and Malay. Again, this is normal. Since you married to Singapore man, aren’t you aware of our local uniqueness by now?
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多数男生吃东西比较随意。 辣椒或调料不是很足 男生是也比较不会一直碎碎念。 在选择食材时也比较不会犹豫。
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Eros, your view about man sitting down while his wife good to buy food, is not incorrect.
Some families are like what you said, but most are not.
一般是老公去买。不过如果看到他刚下班很累的样子，我就会去买。钱当然是他出啦，找回来的钱看心情，要自己收还是要还他都OK😂
新加坡以前多是男的去买，近年发现女的去买的好像多了起来。
你老公好幸运👍🏻
@@drjennyli 😊
那只是你老公而已啦。不要一竹竿打翻全部的人啦。
谁买饭都没有什么关系拉。都结婚了就是一条船，不分彼此。今天你买明天我买😁
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It depends on the couple, my husband is always the one buying food on behalf. 😊
hm I also think it’s probably the woman still wants to browse around and decide what to eat so she order for the guy.
i see myself and my girlfriends, if they already know what they want to eat, it’s always their boyfriends or husbands ordering.
but very often, it’s more sg culture to each go order and take their own food.
你们要男女平等，但看到男女平等又觉的奇怪。
think there is no fixed situation in who buy food. at least at my family,.
sometimes, each will get their own, if someone is getting food for the rest, it is usually me who get the food for my wife before i go get my food
以前老师教我讲英语不是讲英文 because English speaking is a language.Pls enlighten me.Thks.
HK taxi don’t like epayment (accept cash only), converse mostly in Cantonese (few willing to do in mandarin) and speed driving most of the time. Uber in HK on the other hand does not have all these issues, but is not legalised by HK govt. Why? It’s the colour of HK culture. Having lived in HK for 5 years, I accepted the cultural disparity, and leverage these traits to my benefit. Nothing to complain about, just adapt and move on. Guess this is Sporean’s strength.
男的问女的要吃什么，女的说随便，男的说鸡饭，女的说不要。男人很难你知道吗
I think its always based on the woman's decision in Singapore. if she wants to buy, its her decision. If the man goes and buy, its her decision too :)
I am usually the one playing games on the phone and my husband does the buying of food. Next time, I will observe if it’s the other way round for other couples. Interesting…
如果钱是丈夫出的，买食物后剩下的钱当然要还给丈夫。有什么不对？
如果知道想吃什么，一般上都是男的去买，不过食阁的选择很多，我老婆就喜欢去走一圈看看自己想吃的。
了解了！去食阁散步看看选择确实是个不错的方法，尤其是当有很多美食时。这样不仅可以享受选择的乐趣，还能发现一些平时未曾尝试的美食。希望你们每次都能找到美味的食物，享受用餐的过程！
Depending on the women.... My girlfriend usually is not picky. So in that case I will prefer to buy for both of us. But if she cannot decide and wants to walk around, I will let her go ahead while I wait and play with my phone....
So what are your recommendations for good HK food in SG? Preferably cheap and good.😋
03:43 没有其他兰的！😄😄😄
Its very common here in Singapore that the woman is in charge of the food. Outside and at home. Men the money. My wife would order and pay for the food, as to show she is "leading or boss" in this topic. And she likes it, unless in Western context, then is man that orders, but she still pays....
Money wise, the change my wife will give me back so that I have loose notes. Coins she keep because I don't carry coin pouch. But the money is not really matter, because I will withdraw from ATM to make sure she got the enough cash on her, hew hundred bucks. So when pay, I give her, so that I can get change for when she not around. This shows also when with her, I eat expensive ones - got give change. Mine alone, cheaper food. Just give small notes.
可能老公去買，每次都會被老婆嘮叨；久了，就老婆去買，不用埋怨了。
The woman goes buy food n return the change to the guy...mmm.. could it be the helper?
Eros look at things & situation are very assuming. U absolutely have no idea about the couple. U are jus based on wat u see. It’s more than meets the eyes most of the time. In Sg, there’s no need to be so calculative over who buys. It’s very outdated mindset that it’s a problem if girl buy for guy. If girl want to be the one buying. There are many ways to skin a cat. Don’t live in the past & sweat over the small stuff.
让女人去买东西的不太会是新加坡男人。我反而发现让女人去买东西的非新加坡人比较多。我自己并不是新加坡人，所以我这样说并没有因为自己的国籍而偏袒新加坡男人昂。
新加坡女孩比较西化，也很独立。
哈哈😊民主自由，男女平等。
如果我已经想好吃什么我就让老公去买，不然他会给钱我去看看自己选好就买。
剩余的钱我会给回老公，他负责付钱我才不要他的tips, 拿 tips 太 low 了😅
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哇！怎麼還活在男尊女卑，女尊男卑的時代，不是早就男女平等了！ 各買各的很常見，偶爾幫買也應該是你情我願！不像香港人無安全感，與戀人共開銀行戶口也是絕無僅有！ 男女都很獨立，還算隨緣，也樂於單身，不愁婚嫁！
你想太多了！去买的多数是还没想好要吃什么，坐着的不是已经选择好了，就是隨便都可以不挑。
新加坡人口当中闽南泉漳民系约43％、潮州民系约21％、广府民系约14％、客家民系约3％，马来裔占15.0%，印度裔（以淡米尔人居多）占7.4%，而欧亚混血人口和其他族群（包括峇峇娘惹）则占1.4%
新加坡和香港的民族结构是十分相似的。
新加坡是香港人容易融入的国家，香港和新加坡当年都是英国殖民地，两地人民都接受了英国教育思维，做事情方式，接近的法制。
香港人主要由广府民系、闽海民系和客家民系组成。
福建和广东也是邻居。可谓友谊源远流长。
我应该请我的妻子看这个剪辑。 当她坐在那里看手机时，我怎么要去买饭？ 嗯........
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我也要叫我老婆看😊
I think is only you and your surrounding.... I have never seen any guys sitting and female partner go buy food.
男女平等。不要有着數就改变原則
普遍性選擇困難👌🤣所以才有渣男生存空間😝
周瑜打黄盖
😂😂😂 like my husband & me
😅
老婆我去买吃的是因为我手握经济大权🤣
Um..... her observation is not representation still Blar Blar Blar..... Oh still Dr. to post?
It’s not usual…it’s only that man is weird 😂 we all go get the food for the girlfriends and wives unless she has no idea what she wants
是不是女生买的话，会给多一点肉啊，或是菜和汤之类😅
会吗？ 😅
@@drjennyli 可能吧哈哈，开个玩笑🫰🏻
我的老公脚没力，手关节痛，只有劳烦我
你老公好幸运有你.❤️
男女平等, 誰去買又有什麼問題?女人不是常說大男人主義, 夫權社會嗎?
母雞对烏鴉
非常反感你们的女权言论
因为钱都上缴了😂
女人买餐大概是马来西亚移民！