@@meauxjojo The problem is Bubba made his choice and the rest of his family refuse to accept that He chose who he chose. It is what it is. He wasn't invested then and he is not invested now. He decided to build with someone else and he did. Who are they to force him to do what he clearly doesn't want to do
@@ALISHASYLVESTER-fq9uf they won't heal until they address the people who keep inflicting the wounds; Bubba & Joy. Those 2 need to be confronted and they need to make amends with everyone before healing can take place. Making amends, is something families forget is needed.
@@anitaneal1779 all olders are not "elders" 😉. Wisdom is needed for eldership. Older people are not above critique, and not too old to make things right.
Right!! Every family member had a right to build a relationship with LaKesha. The main reason he didn't go get her was because her mom walked away when she found out he was with her and Joy at the same time. He stayed with Joy because she didn't leave him. He probably cheated repeatedly over the years. He's ridiculous!!
Siblings should never be kept apart. The relationship between the parents is not the siblings concern. The mother along w the father is wrong for trying to keep the girl from her family
YASSSS! RIP to your AUNTY!! I had an uncle that I miss dearly!! My BEST FRIEND!! I am an aunty and I love my nieces and nephews like they are my own! Aunties and uncles don't play about they nieces and nephews ( well most dont)
Light skinned, prob bragged bout Mamma Oscarene & Daddy's businesses...was a catch for Joy & Lakeisha's Mom at the time, sweet talker, prob a looker back in the day...who the heck knows wht rocked their boat. What young folks havin fun ensues...😔😳
I knew Nicole would do and move in the right direction. She stands for her mom but she also stands for her sister. There is more than enough love to go around in a family and she demonstrated that in this clip.
40 years later and Joy and Bubba still have salty energy toward Keisha; they belong together. Perhaps Keisha's mom didn't choose Bubba and Joy was the afterthought. Because if age brings wisdom, Bubba must've been a mess when he was young.
As SOON as Aunt Jackie got down to the REAL TRUTH (“Joy told me outta her mouth”), now Joy’s children standing up talking about were not going to be disrespectful ?! 😂 good byeee. Let Aunt Jackie keep talking please, we were finally getting somewhere.
She also didn't want to accept her. Its not all on Bubba. She could have stood as a woman and said I won't be with a man that won't be a father to his child. She did not do that. Bubba is a fool but he has many supporting characters that support his foolishness including his wife.
@@anitaneal1779then that goes for both of them, because he wasn’t married to either of them. He married her after the fact. The way you keep defending his ignorant behavior is weird. If he didn’t want her, he should’ve made sure he didn’t impregnate her mother. She didn’t get pregnant by herself.
@@angiebratcher8755 I didn’t hear him apologizing to her. You want him to feel bad but he doesn’t. He said he is 74 years old and nobody can tell him ish and told the sister she never should have picked her up. That man’s mind was made up about her years ago and karma didn’t spin his block. He’s made his peace. She needs to make hers.
She could’ve and should’ve been the bridge to healing and acceptance between this man and his child but because she feels inadequate and incomplete because he stepped out she can’t. She knows deep down that she wasn’t the first choice and got him by default. Even all these years later there nothing gracious about her interactions with Keisha. Shameful. Her only saving grace is that her daughter finally saw the light.
Bubba - If a woman marries you, she needs to accept your children as well. I understand Nicole Mom was hurt, but turning around and not accepting Keisha wasn’t right either.
In theory that is right, but practically it might not happen. If you are with a man- married or not, if he not just cheats but impregnates another woman, accepting the physical evidence and constant reminder of the indiscretion can be hard. It's not her child. Big up to the women who can, but it's not mandatory. These are nasty consequences of infidelity and EVERYONE suffers, especially the innocent child.
@@tadd8210 Then why stay? She could've left and then there wouldn't have been any obligation to his outside child. That would've been on him. I'm sorry but any good woman would have encouraged him to be in his child's life. Joy chose to stay so she should've accepted everything that came with him. I think if Joy accepted her, Bubba would have too.
Also the emotional damage they caused Lakeisha as a child was unnecessary. Keisha was innocent and doesn't deserve to be seen as the problem because Joy and Bubba couldn't face their own BS.
@@j.latrease8471 you're right...I was going to say tht as well. a good partner/wife could have encouraged-fostered a good acceptable environment for the siblings-cousins, parents-step, aunties-uncles, grandparents to form their relationships
Why is Monay talking about that's what happens when you feel guilty.? Feel guilty of what for some reason.She's not understanding that her mom and Bubba was not married.Why do she keep on saying that.
@4SuccessOnlee What does marriage have to do with it? It doesn't hurt less! Bubba didn't handle his business as a man. She had a hard time dealing, she could of left but she didn't. It wasn't Keishas' fault; however, not everyone can handle, deal, or do what's right when their feelings running their mind! Some let emotions take over and logic goes out the window🤷🏿♀️
This scene was triggering. Joy and Bubba are one of kind. I am glad the aunts stepped because it wasn't coming from Joy and Bubba. I hope this show will remain on the up and up not have any more of these scenes.
The sins of the father breaking down the family unit. Now the siblings can’t even build their own relationship. And the 2 sisters whose mom was standoffish need to exercise empathy and understanding with their sister.
All of this because of a man didnt want his own child around or didnt have the courage to go get her. Chaos. Shameful. And you know no one ever checked him because he smiles when he disrespects everyone.
@@anitaneal1779he never said anything about not wanting the child he said he wasn't married so he feels like he wasn't wrong for having a baby with another woman.
@@anitaneal1779Why do you seem so determined to look over the moral fact that when you create a child, you are obligated to care for that child? She in fact was NOT put up for adoption, right? Why are you constantly bringing that up? I mean seriously, do you know these people bc you act like you can’t see anything wrong with what he did. Please tell me. Sometimes what we HAVE to do in life overrides what we WANT (or DON’T WANT) to do. Face it: he’s an old coward. Why are YOU in denial about that fact? Have you no moral compass???? 🤔 What exactly makes him exempt from his responsibilities?
Feel bad for LaKeisha. She’d probably be better off if they had just left her where she was. Shame on Bubba AND Joy. I would never be with a man who chooses to be an absent father.
That’s what I did. Never spoke to my father again. But I wasn’t the outside child. He has a child with my stepmother not married. He met my mother and married her, had me and my mother left him because he got his baby mama pregnant. I have a brother 30 days younger than me. He got back with step mama and married her 40 years later 😂 but that lady did not want me around and he agreed. Simply because she wasn’t fist pick to begin with.
These family discussions and communication is what is needed. Regardless of the direction it’s taken it needs to be done. Keisha is still hurting. Not being wanted by family and seeing them carrying on and supporting other children, her siblings is tough. Keisha didn’t do anything but be conceived and born.
Like Love and marriage franchises’ this show started on premise of legacy, building community, family and now the core is a child ostracized because of the immaturity and lack of accountability by the father! What doesn’t get healed gets handed down!!!
@@anitaneal1779that’s not true because she has much more family to bond with than just her parents. She has grandparents, aunts and cousins. Nobody should be denied their family especially if some member of the family did accept her . Family goes beyond mother and father
Nicole trying to deflect saying “oh we not gon disrespect each other.” Girl please you only saying that because she doesn’t want anyone to see Ms joy true colors. 🙄
I'm sure Oscarene told her daughters to do so. The Aunt said she was the only one married & had kids for Keisha to play with when she would come over. Imagine, if Keisha's Mom was still living. What perspective we would have there! Well hell, she would have had big sis Nicole right there @ her Daddy & step momma's house.
Oscarene was adopted by a loving family. When she told Nicole her mom gave her away as a baby, I could tell it still hurt her. Therefore, I think she would have rather not forced Lakeisha to feel that same rejection and thought it best to let the Aunties help out. No matter the reason, it wasn't her responsibility, it was Bubba's.
The trifliness of some of those adults is appalling. Just take your L's and do better. Now that the kids are grown they need to stop defending garbage just because its their mama that's spewing it 😤😤😤.
Your dad wasn’t respectful to his “marriage”. Bubba and his “wife” are dead WRONG. The aunt told her right, you accepted him back, you should’ve accepted the child too. Shout out to the aunties for stepping up and doing the RIGHT thing.
Monay needs to shut up and listen to her auntie Jackie and her sisters they Know the Truth her mammy was a Girlfriend Not a Wife. Check the marriage license. While y’all investigating s--t Nicole and Monay need DNA testing.🤷🏽♀️
The problem is the daddy. I thought this show was about a family in real estate? I know how LaKeysha feels. It never feels good knowing you’re the outside child. How disheartening to have this entire scenario on public display.
Im glad the aunts spoke up. They know their brother and knew the child needed a village regardless of how their brother acted. I appreciate that cause sometimes family will hide.
Joy had a choice to not marry Bubba if the child was a problem for her.She should have accepted Keisha if she chose to stay with Bubba. Bubba 74 years old with that mindset. Smh
@@LilReg5840 💯 And she speaks of PawPaw way more than her dad. His parents stepped in because he was always a problem. I remember Nicole said that her Grandma had her hands full with her dad.
Why. This is an example of the exact thing that many black families go through with men out there saying that women are keeping the dad away when in actuality, A LOT of them are Bubbas who abandon or disown kids they had outside of their main relationship. And then they go around saying they don't have multiple baby mamas when they do. Let it play.
@@filmadcamp1512 You are absolutely right. I guess I just think about what happens when the cameras go off and it’s replayed on tv and the public gives their opinion? This is deep hurt and some ppl don’t come back from stuff like this😩
Everyone should mind their business, that’s why things are jacked up. The family spoiled the only son even the sisters. That’s the problem they doing stuff that he should’ve been doing now they mad … smh! Keisha go make a family with your fiancé. This is dragging on for to long
They blaming everybody the but the real person …….. It was Bubba responsibility period . Not the wife ! Bubba still act like he don’t care !!! That’s an old 🥷🏾 for you !!!
Exactly, she wasn’t even his wife she married him AFTER the baby was born probably because she didn’t want to end up a single mother but now you reaping what you sowed . And yes If she was going to forgive Bubba then she should have accepted that child . And shame on her for being with a man who won’t accept his own child .
Whichever man in the background that said, "child support ain't got nothing to do with spending time" I salute you bc you're absolutely right 👏🏾
One of the nephews
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Lord, now Bubba saying he wasn’t married & Joy didn’t have to accept Lakeisha. Yeah, he’s the problem.
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But they been said he wasn't married he was sleeping around but one choose to stay n continue the relationship knowing someone would get left out
Bubba and Joy sound and look disgusting.
@@meauxjojo The problem is Bubba made his choice and the rest of his family refuse to accept that He chose who he chose. It is what it is. He wasn't invested then and he is not invested now. He decided to build with someone else and he did. Who are they to force him to do what he clearly doesn't want to do
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The father is toxic and still after all these years not taking accountability
I am glad Bubba sisters stepped in and did not condone his foolishness.. and checked him on it.
Straight Facts
Him and his wife ain't s***
He's still toxic laughing not taking any accountability and telling his own wife to be quiet shut up
typical of most black men.this type of crap has been going on for several generations of men.
Man, I started crying when Nicole backed her sister up.
Me too, throughout the whole prayer 😢
Baby! Balling 😭😢
Facts
Same here. 🥺❤️🙏🏾
Me too.
Someone give LaKeshia a hug. All that hurt she has carried all those years. That whole family needs healing.
@@ALISHASYLVESTER-fq9uf they won't heal until they address the people who keep inflicting the wounds; Bubba & Joy. Those 2 need to be confronted and they need to make amends with everyone before healing can take place. Making amends, is something families forget is needed.
@@Glamoorus What if they don’t want to make amends. Then what? Bubba is 74 years old and yall can’t tell him nothing. LOL
@@anitaneal1779 are you triggered?
@@Glamoorus Obviously I’m triggering you all by saying back off those elders.
@@anitaneal1779 all olders are not "elders" 😉. Wisdom is needed for eldership. Older people are not above critique, and not too old to make things right.
I’m glad Nicole had her back. Everyone is saying they shouldn’t have came and gotten her…well who would’ve….?
Right!! Every family member had a right to build a relationship with LaKesha. The main reason he didn't go get her was because her mom walked away when she found out he was with her and Joy at the same time. He stayed with Joy because she didn't leave him. He probably cheated repeatedly over the years. He's ridiculous!!
Right i guess they wanted her to just stay away until whenever
Nobody and he would have continued to be a deadbeat parent.
If the aunt didn't get Keisha, they would be introducing her to the family for the first time on this show! 😄
Siblings should never be kept apart. The relationship between the parents is not the siblings concern. The mother along w the father is wrong for trying to keep the girl from her family
There's nothing like a loving auntie.
I miss my auntie. She had my whole entire life, not just my back.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yesssss, say it again. My beautiful auntie raised my siblings and I after our mom passed. Raised us and her children with no complaints.
YES!!!!
YASSSS! RIP to your AUNTY!! I had an uncle that I miss dearly!! My BEST FRIEND!! I am an aunty and I love my nieces and nephews like they are my own! Aunties and uncles don't play about they nieces and nephews ( well most dont)
Yesssssss you can say that again
@@tayeshahudson4794true 💯 great aunties and uncles are simply the best thing to ever happen to a child
At the end of the day all this fighting over that raggedy man
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Light skinned, prob bragged bout Mamma Oscarene & Daddy's businesses...was a catch for Joy & Lakeisha's Mom at the time, sweet talker, prob a looker back in the day...who the heck knows wht rocked their boat. What young folks havin fun ensues...😔😳
Raggedy or not, to a child that's daddy...
Just RAGGEDY
That part
Family is Family. Daddy never grew up. Auntie filled in where he didn't.
and the wife is an enabler, i bet he continued to cheat on her too
Maybe he never bonded with her.
@@anitaneal1779 Yeah he clearly didnt want her at all
@@anitaneal1779 You can't bond with someone you have no interest in.
Auntie really stepped up!
I'm glad the Aunt outed the mom bc it needed to be said.
Baby that Uncle Bubba ain’t nothing
😂😂😂😂
At all!!!
Uncle Bubba is keeping it to real. He paid his child support what else you want? 😂😂😂
@@anitaneal1779😂Just a hot damn mess. I’d be ashamed to call him my husband or be seen with him.
@@AdriannaCalabrese You don’t have a husband and if you did you’d be an ***** to let him bring his affair child in your house.
I knew Nicole would do and move in the right direction. She stands for her mom but she also stands for her sister. There is more than enough love to go around in a family and she demonstrated that in this clip.
❤❤❤
She really does. I don't know why people don't see it.
They hating 😅she been rocking for the truth while protecting her sis@@url0veang3l
Yes, ur right, that is so true!! Nicole did a good job trying to mediate the foolishness!!
Nicole is the big sister that she needed.
Yeeeesss!!
YEAP👭🏾
There’s something wrong with Bubba. Like off.
I agree - he isn’t all the way there.
He is a drunk
@@MJ-kj8fsThrowed off for real.
He’s 74 years old that’s not cool he’s just old school and stuck in his ways
He either a drunk or a crackhead🤷🏾♀️
This felt too real! Literally balled when she said "I can't room to my mom😢...."
Aww man!!! I know that hurt😢
Me too.. my heart hurt so much for her
Me tooo 😭😭😭
😢😢😢
That's the point I started crying too cause I also don't have my mother anymore to share my hurt, pain and worries with
40 years later and Joy and Bubba still have salty energy toward Keisha; they belong together. Perhaps Keisha's mom didn't choose Bubba and Joy was the afterthought. Because if age brings wisdom, Bubba must've been a mess when he was young.
@@Glamoorus my sentiments exactly!!
I doubt it!
@@Glamoorus THIS!!!!!!! Keisha's mom Definitely didn't choose him
@@Glamoorus this! Joy is still delusional and Bubba is still a piece of work. That’s a shame.
@@meauxjojo I think these women in the comments are delusional and stay looking for love and validation in all the wrong places.
As SOON as Aunt Jackie got down to the REAL TRUTH (“Joy told me outta her mouth”), now Joy’s children standing up talking about were not going to be disrespectful ?! 😂 good byeee. Let Aunt Jackie keep talking please, we were finally getting somewhere.
Right. I hate when people back foolishness. Your momma was wrong. You pacifying her doesn't make her right.
Nicole's mother couldn't accept keisha because Bubba didn't accept her.
She also didn't want to accept her. Its not all on Bubba. She could have stood as a woman and said I won't be with a man that won't be a father to his child. She did not do that. Bubba is a fool but he has many supporting characters that support his foolishness including his wife.
@@Magique88888Her mom should have made the stand not to be with that man. Woman up!
@@anitaneal1779then that goes for both of them, because he wasn’t married to either of them. He married her after the fact. The way you keep defending his ignorant behavior is weird. If he didn’t want her, he should’ve made sure he didn’t impregnate her mother. She didn’t get pregnant by herself.
@@angiebratcher8755 I didn’t hear him apologizing to her. You want him to feel bad but he doesn’t. He said he is 74 years old and nobody can tell him ish and told the sister she never should have picked her up. That man’s mind was made up about her years ago and karma didn’t spin his block. He’s made his peace. She needs to make hers.
She could’ve and should’ve been the bridge to healing and acceptance between this man and his child but because she feels inadequate and incomplete because he stepped out she can’t. She knows deep down that she wasn’t the first choice and got him by default. Even all these years later there nothing gracious about her interactions with Keisha. Shameful. Her only saving grace is that her daughter finally saw the light.
Bubba - If a woman marries you, she needs to accept your children as well. I understand Nicole Mom was hurt, but turning around and not accepting Keisha wasn’t right either.
How can a wife accept a child her husband himself had not accepted...
In theory that is right, but practically it might not happen. If you are with a man- married or not, if he not just cheats but impregnates another woman, accepting the physical evidence and constant reminder of the indiscretion can be hard. It's not her child. Big up to the women who can, but it's not mandatory. These are nasty consequences of infidelity and EVERYONE suffers, especially the innocent child.
@@tadd8210 Then why stay? She could've left and then there wouldn't have been any obligation to his outside child. That would've been on him. I'm sorry but any good woman would have encouraged him to be in his child's life. Joy chose to stay so she should've accepted everything that came with him. I think if Joy accepted her, Bubba would have too.
Also the emotional damage they caused Lakeisha as a child was unnecessary. Keisha was innocent and doesn't deserve to be seen as the problem because Joy and Bubba couldn't face their own BS.
@@j.latrease8471 you're right...I was going to say tht as well. a good partner/wife could have encouraged-fostered a good acceptable environment for the siblings-cousins, parents-step, aunties-uncles, grandparents to form their relationships
Why is Monay talking about that's what happens when you feel guilty.? Feel guilty of what for some reason.She's not understanding that her mom and Bubba was not married.Why do she keep on saying that.
She riding the denial river lol
@4SuccessOnlee
What does marriage have to do with it? It doesn't hurt less! Bubba didn't handle his business as a man. She had a hard time dealing, she could of left but she didn't. It wasn't Keishas' fault; however, not everyone can handle, deal, or do what's right when their feelings running their mind! Some let emotions take over and logic goes out the window🤷🏿♀️
I'm so glad Nicole looked her sister straight in the face to let her know this is NOT your fault. Whew my heart aches for them
Exactly
CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT ALL THAT IT TAKES TO SUPPORT A CHILD
So Bubba is the issue. Not even surprised. And old man reasoning like a boy
The fact that he couldn’t just apologize to his daughter, but trying to defend himself says it all. Disgusting
Talk about crying.....I felt like I was in the building. I love how Nicole stepped in for Keisha. ❤
Many black family’s can relate to this
Yes, too many!🥺
I'm sure all races as well, unfortunately. Men will creep & try to get away with sh#$
A lot of them. 😢
Sadly.
Yes ,, they mad at each other but that anger should be towards the so called dad ONLY!!!
Justin said right! " Child support aint got nothing to do with spending time".
Justin kept it 💯
Child support is for unwed mothers with no custody agreement.
@@anitaneal1779lie its for the children ignorant opinion
@@shereeross4049 Why minimize it then
A room full of adults with 0 communication skills 🥴
This scene was triggering. Joy and Bubba are one of kind. I am glad the aunts stepped because it wasn't coming from Joy and Bubba. I hope this show will remain on the up and up not have any more of these scenes.
The aunts should take her to their house and not bring her into places she’s not wanted.
The sins of the father breaking down the family unit. Now the siblings can’t even build their own relationship. And the 2 sisters whose mom was standoffish need to exercise empathy and understanding with their sister.
Yeeeeesss!!
Nick Cannon and Cam Newton next generation of this. ☹️
Thank God for her auntie and her sister standing up for Keshia.
All of this because of a man didnt want his own child around or didnt have the courage to go get her. Chaos. Shameful. And you know no one ever checked him because he smiles when he disrespects everyone.
Have you ever heard of adoption or unwanted pregnancy. Why y’all keep this immature one sided voluntary denial act up?
Bubba is scrub with his raggedy mouth
@@anitaneal1779he never said anything about not wanting the child he said he wasn't married so he feels like he wasn't wrong for having a baby with another woman.
@@anitaneal1779Why do you seem so determined to look over the moral fact that when you create a child, you are obligated to care for that child? She in fact was NOT put up for adoption, right? Why are you constantly bringing that up? I mean seriously, do you know these people bc you act like you can’t see anything wrong with what he did. Please tell me. Sometimes what we HAVE to do in life overrides what we WANT (or DON’T WANT) to do. Face it: he’s an old coward. Why are YOU in denial about that fact? Have you no moral compass???? 🤔
What exactly makes him exempt from his responsibilities?
That's my dad I saw a reflection 😔 😢
And the estranged daughter is her dad’s twin… Bubba is a hot mess🤮🤮
The father will definitely pay for how he treated his own daughter . She didn’t ask to be here at all !! This is sad I would remove myself honestly
Feel bad for LaKeisha. She’d probably be better off if they had just left her where she was. Shame on Bubba AND Joy. I would never be with a man who chooses to be an absent father.
Honestly but at the same time her aunts are so sweet and she deserves her own relationship with them.
They are defending their dead beat dad. And their momma was in on it. Pain is a killer.
Lakeshia just need to take it as it is and leave it at that. Take up for her aunties.
right and never speak to her father or his wife again
That’s what I did. Never spoke to my father again. But I wasn’t the outside child. He has a child with my stepmother not married. He met my mother and married her, had me and my mother left him because he got his baby mama pregnant. I have a brother 30 days younger than me. He got back with step mama and married her 40 years later 😂 but that lady did not want me around and he agreed. Simply because she wasn’t fist pick to begin with.
Lord where is Iyanla when you need her?!
Why? She would just coddled Bubba you know because ‘he’s a BM struggling in America’ 🙄
@@vibrantnubian27😂😂😂 Iyanla the oldest man enabler!
Nicole please!! Only because Auntie Jackie outed your Mom.. Bubba wrong as hell and he's not even trying to diffuse the situation..
Ok you caught that too 😆 Nicole got up hecka dramatic once the aunt started telling it.
@@Glamoorus righttt😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you. I caught that too.
😂 yeah we peeped, however she still did the right thing and she wasn't going to play her mama. I think it was the best position. 🤣🤣🤣
@@j.latrease8471 yeah you're right, I understand that too.
Damn!!!!!! This was deep and very relatable.Kudos to the aunties for including her and bringing her around
Monay is nasty and messy. Seems like she has some built up animosity towards Lakeisha stemming from how her mom Joy feels smh
Clocked it!!
Oh yes! I wouldn’t mess with her if I was Keisha!
I'm so glad your auntie was there and her sister stood up for her!!!!
He in the house while they outside arguing over his decisions....an no he DIDNT say she didn't have to accept her, damn!!!
Somebody singing in the back while everybody arguing 😂😂
Quita 😂 I was singing some ole negro spirituals because we needed some Jesus in that moment!
Monay is who y’all think Nicole is cause girl what are you talking about ???
@@LilReg5840 Whew you hit the nail on the head. That's a great way to describe her behavior.
Please don't allow television to mess up your family!!
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This family was clearly in shambles before a camera started filming
@@Afftene22right
These family discussions and communication is what is needed. Regardless of the direction it’s taken it needs to be done. Keisha is still hurting. Not being wanted by family and seeing them carrying on and supporting other children, her siblings is tough. Keisha didn’t do anything but be conceived and born.
Like Love and marriage franchises’ this show started on premise of legacy, building community, family and now the core is a child ostracized because of the immaturity and lack of accountability by the father! What doesn’t get healed gets handed down!!!
I love this show! Bubba & Joy should’ve handled this situation better. S/O to the Aunties for stepping up❤️
They did what was best for them not what pleased others.
@@anitaneal1779they did what was best for their niece. She’s their family too.
@@angiebratcher8755 Bringing her around their mom and dad only hurt her more because they are sorry not sorry.
@@anitaneal1779that’s not true because she has much more family to bond with than just her parents. She has grandparents, aunts and cousins. Nobody should be denied their family especially if some member of the family did accept her . Family goes beyond mother and father
@@evelove1505 Who stopped her from doing that? She’s crying over her dad. Try to keep up.
Where is this father?! He’s the person that caused all this confusion. Meanwhile, while they’re arguing, he’s in the house chilling.
Larry got outta there QUICK 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yep. He did right. Run Larry, RUNNNN! 😂😂😂
Lmao with the quickness
Nicole trying to deflect saying “oh we not gon disrespect each other.” Girl please you only saying that because she doesn’t want anyone to see Ms joy true colors. 🙄
Bingo. I like Nicole but I notice she does a lot of damage control and it doesn't always come off as genuine.
@@thejessicadiaries ‼️‼️‼️‼️ girl I’m glad you peeped that too. Jackie was about to let everyone know who the true Sister Joy really is .
Babe, she shuts it down every time, flipping the script. Sadly, most people are falling for it.
I agree
I genuinely thought I was the only one who peeped that! She shut shyt down real quick when the truth was about to start flying!
Joy need to get a grip she decided to stay with bubba when he cheated on her and had another kid...he is the problem smh
What did the Matriarch have to say? Why did the Aunts have to go get Keisha? This was her granddaughter why didn’t SHE go get her if HER son didn’t?
Because the apple don’t fall from the tree. The aunt was an exception.
I'm sure Oscarene told her daughters to do so. The Aunt said she was the only one married & had kids for Keisha to play with when she would come over. Imagine, if Keisha's Mom was still living. What perspective we would have there! Well hell, she would have had big sis Nicole right there @ her Daddy & step momma's house.
Oscarene was adopted by a loving family. When she told Nicole her mom gave her away as a baby, I could tell it still hurt her. Therefore, I think she would have rather not forced Lakeisha to feel that same rejection and thought it best to let the Aunties help out. No matter the reason, it wasn't her responsibility, it was Bubba's.
I have asked myself the very same question a thousand times???
I was honestly wondering the same!
The daddy is slow like he ain't that swift like at all
@@cupcakescouture32 he has as much sense as he has teeth in his mouth.
@@LP-uf2skomg😭😭
Right 🐌
Yall can’t take the truth so something is wrong with you.
@@LP-uf2sk I can't 😂😂😂
The trifliness of some of those adults is appalling. Just take your L's and do better. Now that the kids are grown they need to stop defending garbage just because its their mama that's spewing it 😤😤😤.
I'm glad Nichole had her back. This is sad. 72 and all...he definitely is the problem.
I feel so.sorry for Keisha because her mom is not physically with her 😢😢😢😢
This is what happens when you create multiple families at the same time...a mess!
BOY NO YOU DID’NT JUST SAY WHAT YOU JUST SAID!! 🤣🤣
Just like my family and pretty much I realized staying calm no matter it's what's most important
Your dad wasn’t respectful to his “marriage”. Bubba and his “wife” are dead WRONG. The aunt told her right, you accepted him back, you should’ve accepted the child too.
Shout out to the aunties for stepping up and doing the RIGHT thing.
Monay pissed me off.
She definitely did like girl STFU
Monay think she better and she not
Monay needs to shut up and listen to her auntie Jackie and her sisters they Know the Truth her mammy was a Girlfriend Not a Wife. Check the marriage license. While y’all investigating s--t Nicole and Monay need DNA testing.🤷🏽♀️
Damn I’m over here crying. This brought up past family issues that many just let time pass and try to forget.
Monay like her daddy…cause what do aunt Jackie gotta feel guilty about…Thank God for her…and thank God she stepped up for Lakeisha !
The dad is the problem. If he would have been responsible for his child then it would have been a better situation for everyone in involved.
She would have been better keeping her kids' sister around one another than to take him back. He's the one who cheated.
Why keep him.
I bet he probably messing around on Joy now. He is not a respectable man. It's probably more kids out there!
Aww I’m sad. That’s alottt to take!!
I am so happy Nicole stood up for her sister!!! I’m in tears!! Thank you Nicole!!
Lets keep it 100. Bubba should have stepped up for his child. Despite Joy being there or not he should of been a father.
Alright Auntie Jackie 🥰
Thank You Nicole For Stepping Up For Your Sister !! Thank You Aunties For Getting Your Niece !!
The problem is the daddy.
I thought this show was about a family in real estate? I know how LaKeysha feels. It never feels good knowing you’re the outside child. How disheartening to have this entire scenario on public display.
That blind loyalty to a parent when they are wrong is not okay
I pray for the families healing.
The moment that gets me is when she said I realized I couldn’t run from my momma no child should have to fill that pain . She did not ask to be born !
This breaks my heart. All I can do is pray for them.
Joy and Bubba are the problem. So disheartening! 🤦🏽♀️
Im glad the aunts spoke up. They know their brother and knew the child needed a village regardless of how their brother acted. I appreciate that cause sometimes family will hide.
I feel so bad for Keisha she doesn’t deserve this and hope they watch this back to see exactly what she is talking about.
This was needed
Who needs family like this
In this scene Nicole has my ultimate respect. She put her feelings to the side and did what was right. She honestly wants love and peace
Joy had a choice to not marry Bubba if the child was a problem for her.She should have accepted Keisha if she chose to stay with Bubba. Bubba 74 years old with that mindset. Smh
Agreed, why did she marry him after knowing he got another woman pregnant. She is a piece of crap herself. They deserve each other.
Whatever they said he did to get 7 years, he did it. Horrible!
@@LilReg5840 💯 And she speaks of PawPaw way more than her dad. His parents stepped in because he was always a problem. I remember Nicole said that her Grandma had her hands full with her dad.
He wasn’t locked up. She meant he had 7 years before her mom started getting her niece to step up, but he didn’t.
Im glad Nicole defended her cause that was ridiculous
This brong tears my eyes. Everyone in that room experienced hurt. So much forgiveness was needed. And apologies stated.
Bubba and wife are made for each other, they both are pitiful.
And their shorter daughter all nasty souls
DAMN.. this had me in tears 😢🖤
What in the Color Purple is going on here? Just a mess.
😂😂😂😂
The problem is the men do the dirt...but don't want the dirt to stain them .They want to sweep the dirt under the rug and remain clean.
This should not be on tv smh.
Carlos King got them looking like Dam Fools on TV. Get it together Family.❤
It’s reality tv so many people can relate sorry you grew up with a silver spoon
@@jjulian8897I hope your day gets better ❤
Why. This is an example of the exact thing that many black families go through with men out there saying that women are keeping the dad away when in actuality, A LOT of them are Bubbas who abandon or disown kids they had outside of their main relationship. And then they go around saying they don't have multiple baby mamas when they do. Let it play.
@@filmadcamp1512 You are absolutely right. I guess I just think about what happens when the cameras go off and it’s replayed on tv and the public gives their opinion? This is deep hurt and some ppl don’t come back from stuff like this😩
My heart breaks for LaKeisha
So, happy her sister had her back. But this made me cry.....damn!
Everyone should mind their business, that’s why things are jacked up. The family spoiled the only son even the sisters. That’s the problem they doing stuff that he should’ve been doing now they mad … smh! Keisha go make a family with your fiancé. This is dragging on for to long
Aunt Jackie is EVERYTHING! A TRUE ONE!
That daddy ain’t ishhhh.
They blaming everybody the but the real person …….. It was Bubba responsibility period . Not the wife ! Bubba still act like he don’t care !!! That’s an old 🥷🏾 for you !!!
She wasn’t A Wife 😏
Exactly, she wasn’t even his wife she married him AFTER the baby was born probably because she didn’t want to end up a single mother but now you reaping what you sowed . And yes If she was going to forgive Bubba then she should have accepted that child . And shame on her for being with a man who won’t accept his own child .
I appreciate the aunties ready to throw hands for their niece😍
My question is exactly what was the real relationship with bubba and Lakeisha's mother...
God bless you Nicole. ❤
Im so glad her sister stood up for her!