Hey, Strawberry Park. This is Darius again. Shout out to you guys for reacting to this Jubilee. This was a fun experience for me as I got to meet with other people who are also Autistic, as well as Non-Autistic people. I felt like I was part of a community. Glad to be shouted out. That's actually put a smile on my face. Crazy how now I am referred to as Big D*** Darius. You can just simply call me Big D. As for being Autistic, I always wanted to be perceived as "normal." I knew there was something odd about me since I was a kid, but I didn't know until I asked my folks. I now learn that it's OK to be different and to be you, no matter if you're on the Spectrum or not.
as someone who is actually diagnosed with autism, did multiple tests in middle school/primary school (UK). It is a rigorous process and autism comes in all forms. I used to struggle BADLY with socialising and I used to struggle a lot with learning in school as the way my teacher taught wasn’t helpful and for me personally I need information to be specific or then I’m not sure what i’m doing (hence i was given a TA) obviously i’ve learnt to socialise ‘normally’ like everyone else but I am aware that I am very honest and perceptive than most but also naive/clueless with some situations. So sometimes when people claim they have ‘autism’ just cus u get anxious every once in a while it just makes my whole experience look like a joke 💀
Hi I’m an autistic girl and i really enjoy your videos but everyone with autism is different and part of my autism is that I can read people very easily and I’m very socially capable and it’s not like that for everyone who’s autistic because autism presents differently in everyone so I hope you learn something from that I love you guys. oh and if you’ve met one autistic person you’ve met one autistic person and for ppl who are confused my point was autism isn’t just something you can Google and understand because there’s not enough research about it.
proud autistic here and i’ll tell you what it’s like.. it’s like normal for us because we never have not been autistic so being autistic is like being normal. it’s like asking a non autistic what’s its like being “normal” well they don’t know because it’s the normal for them. hopes this helps
@@eastsideLBCyeah anxiety and depression is what I’ve been dealing with. Anxiety mostly. Thank goodness I’ve been able to get therapy for my depression
One thing I find beautiful and admire about autism, is the way so many people can focus in on specific passions. Making them beyond the level of their peers as far as understanding of said passions. It’s so intriguing and impressive to me. It’s a level of intelligence those without autism struggle to reach without doing a lot of extra work that is.
i’ve been diagnosed with autism since i was 4, and the best way i would describe it (at least for me) is that situations that “normal” people would find awkward are normal for me
I’m autistic and this is how I explain it to people, imagine you were born not knowing the color yellow exists, never seeing it, and now imagine people around expecting me to recognize when I see the color yellow, I just can’t recognize it because I have never seeing it so my brain can’t spot it. It’s just not possible I have learned a lot thank god but it takes time and patience from others
@@LosSantosCity Im all for praying to heal.. but Im not certain Autism is "curable". Obviously all things are possible through God but just be careful not to give people false hope.
13:30 people with autism can 100000% understand social cues and pretend not to have autism, no one ever even believed me when i told them i had autism because i hid it so well, i studied how normal people acted and stuff like that and made my own personality for the public that i knew everyone would like and i was always prettyyyy popular nvr had a problem socially, but then i get overwhelmed and have breakdowns alone after a while 🙃 basically putting on an act 24/7 to be socially accepted
Some autistic people can do that. The difference is that it is not natural for us. We need to learn and make the conscious choice to look/ understand Social ques. For instant I needed to look up how to react appropriately to social ques and situations. 😅
Are you diagnosed because no amount of masking is going to make people think you are neurotypical. Also if you have no social deficits and can make friends easily you probably aren’t autistic.
I think one thing that's largely glossed over about autism is the masking aspect. As diverse the experiences are one universal aspect is the intensity : if a lot of people feel sensitive about large crowds or lights for an autistic person, it will simultaneously be significantly more triggering and actually handicapping than for a non autistic person to the point where your brain will actually shut down and you'll get in anxiety crisis but ALSO for so many of us we've learned to hide the struggle. Yes you can only fake being normal to an extent BUT most normal people definitely overestimate their ability to tell. This is why for the 'high functioning' ones that 'look normal' you end up stuck in this weird place where you're the weirdo and people mention it all the time one way or another but as soon as autism is detected people are are like 'no but you're okay though'.
Now that Rhino said that the could be autistic I can't unsee it!😭 I have ADHD myself and there is a lot of similarities with it and Autism, so I can understand some of the things people on the spectrum go through.
Hey! I was diagnosed by a doctor a few years ago and everyone's experience is completely different to eachothers. For example, most of the things Google defined as being autistic I dont relate to (e.g., I dont get effected by loud noises/bright lights, I can pick up social cues etc.) Also I find it quite easy to identify another autistic person because for some reason autistic people just know (if that makes sense). Keep up the great work!
On the topic of autistic people not understanding social ques, I have a diagnosed autistic friend that understood she wasn't good at social skills and started studying that, and ended up being really good at reading people in social settings
I’ve been watching you guys since middle school. As a austitic girl, I struggled so badly with social skills and even if I was dignosed at an early age, I never got the treatment for it which as therapy. I was only in speech therapies and school and stuff. I never got any child therapist and because of this I was in survival mode basically all throughout my life. In middle school I was the worst at socializing and I just started getting therapy when I was almost 13 but still it was tough because I didn’t get it at a young age and I felt like the socializing part of the brain was super delayed. I remember watching you guys in middle school. People perceived me as people who watch corny shit so i developed ocd ( according to my psychiatrist cause he did a test) and it was due to prolonged childhood trauma. Now as a 17 year old, and seeing all of these people trying to self diagnose themselves cause they are trying to find excuses on why they aren’t winning in life while for me i tried so hard to find myself and try hard as much as possible but the years of mental health issues i developed from trauma from bullying and isolation made me anxious and depressed. I got on treatment this year while when i hit high school, i just masked myself and i was so good at it i was able to make friends and hang out but i felt so mentally exhausted and drained. Now i see a psychiatrist and a therapist and I get angry about the fact I didn’t get it when i was little. Cause I look “ normal” and I have socially acceptable interests, people think I would be trying to seek attention when clearly I’m actually mentally exhausted and suicidal. This is why many people( especially women) with autism are perceived as attention seekers because of pick me insecure ugly mfs who want to find an excuse for why they are losers. AS SOMEONE WITH DIGNOSED AUTISM, i wouldn’t go to someone and be like hey im autistic, I would mask myself. Most women/girls with autism mask themselves. I don’t even talk quirky. Most austitic people I have met don’t even match these stereotypical traits of autism.
Is he really retired though? Couldn’t he just say that “I don’t want to attend those kinds of videos.”? The moment he gets a true committed relationship, then I’ll believe he’s done
My son is 8 and is high functioning autistic it was interesting to see adults because I always worry about his future. I also wanna thank y’all for being super respectful it’s super touchy subject for me but I enjoyed y’all’s reaction. 😊
Hi I am a behavior analyst (BCBA) I work with individuals with autism, specifically 3-18 years old I have a masters degree in behavior and use ABA to help individuals with autism build life skills. Please dive into this ! I think it’s so important for people to understand and advocate for the autism community. Not all autism looks like this, these individuals are very lucky to be able to speak and have interactions like this video portrays !
personally as someone who’s been diagnosed since like 2015. most everyone gets along with me unless they don’t have good intentions but many people always say they feel comfortable and like it’s easy opening up to me and often people come to me for my opinion on like their music and such because i’m always honest. but it’s really not easy tbh especially when people purposely misunderstand you or like to manipulate or make you feel like you don’t know what’s going on. i feel like i continuously mask around ppl especially bc a lot of people are ableist. i personally think most neurotypical should think the way neurodivergent people do. and social cues were learned over time me and through experiences. i feel very alienated and like i feel that ppl think things that an average person does is weird when i do them but when they do it it’s okay.
idk i feel like you either get it or you don’t but id never change myself or stop being myself for others to like me or accept me. i’ve never fit in and i don’t care about fitting in anymore because i wasn’t made to. the way “normal” ppl think is just wild to me
I was diagnosed from a young age, only because my mom is a psychologist and was able to pick up on how particular I was with things as a child. Now, as an adult, people can't tell for the most part because my symptoms and the way my autism is displayed is different from how its portrayed on the internet and in other people. I resonate with that girl with the 60s shirt
I’m autistic and I enjoy your content. I agree that some people who had self-diagnose themselves are doing that for the reason they believe it's a quirky trait or they think it's a fad. But I want to express how much I liked the fact you are wanting to understand autism and showing a little empathy to us. Having autism is real difficult when the world is made for ordinary people. Even though it is difficult. It can be beneficial for society. If that person is like an Einstein or an Elon Musk. With a great mind and with a great influence.
I took a test that didn't confirm (an iphone app) but the signs and characteristics are things that match my personality. I always felt like I could read people through bullshit acting or like fake friends give off an aura. Or the adverse, they shine like "ok i'm supposed to be cool with this person". I always had trouble being casually sociable I tend to gravitate towards potential life long friends or else I'm not really interested in getting to know them. I think the strangely gifted people in the arts tend to be autistic.
I know this one guy who literally always says he has a new disability or mental issue every single day and he's been doing this since 2020. He's been to the doctor before and they proved that he actually has no disabilities and no mental health issues so that just proves how privileged he is to the point where he fakes issues so he can have something to complain about
6:27 nahh rob's intrusive thoughts gotta be wild cause how'd you just blurt out "he got the big dick tho" like that 😂😂😂 With a big smile on yo face too😭😭😭
I'm diabetic and I had one close friend who I'd tell everything and I found out from other people that she would claim to be diabetic and tell people the stuff I told her claiming that's what she went through .😢
I just found out I’m high functioning autistic a few days ago and I’m 16 me being high functioning means I can operate like a normal person I just struggle socially you’d have to really know me to realise my autistic traits
Also high functioning autistic people often areant diagnosed because we mask our autistic traits so we function like normal people but fit our close enough to us you see you problems
that’s so real at the beginning! a lot of people claim their adhd but don’t know a thing about it. i was a teenager getting diagnosed between bipolar and adhd and going through all those medications (apparently it’s easy to mix up bipolar and adhd) and 5 years later im finally on the right medication that helps me focus (methylphenidate) im now only diagnosed with adhd, and i dont get why people want to label themselves when those were some of the most stressful years ive had. its not cool to be adhd, its a learning disability bro
i was diagnosed when i was like 4, used to be fully mute until like second grade, have a hard time with everyday life but i'm a very talented hairdresser and have always been a baddie so 🥵 used to sell weed like crazy LOL
0:11 ong, i promise; Gen Z took calling those with mental disorders "special" seriously and not patronizingly, so they genuinely want to get the attention and be seen as quirky and really different and unlike "normies" as possible--Gen Z kids a couple years ago were so obsessed with saying they were depressed, anxious, with ADHD, or autistic because of what they saw on TikTok and everything. And it's the type of kids that be saying they're a xe/xir, or the one parent household and it's a mom types; like people who normalize and glorify things that are reasonably not normal and not glorified like depression. It's calmed down a bit, but am I the only one that noticed this suddenly occur with like middle and high schoolers in like 2018 and 2019 most notably?!
Also, it's not hard to confuse most children with autism what their gender is or what gender means, or make them think they're different in others ways if they have ASD, so it's no surprised a large quantity are rationalizing calling themselves xe/xirs or they/they or even transitioning to appear or live as the opposite sex
Imo self-diagnosing isn't really a big issue, it doesn't hurt anyone and people do it because they heavily relate and it feels nice to put a label on something that causes issues in their life. I self-diagnosed but would never say I was autistic until I was officially diagnosed at 21
as an 2x late diagnosed autistic person people absolutely think it’s “quirky”. i’ve been in and out of hospitals and rehabs since i was 17. a late diagnosis is hell especially because of the gender biases and stereotypes/stigma around females with autism. we get diagnosed with personality disorders because we present differently than males, and then don’t get the help we need and are drowned in medication that is NOT for us. it is NOT a quirk.
I have asperger syndrome. I tell people i have it but most people never even heard of it. It’s generally higher functioning. I think the thing I struggle the most is trying to explain something to someone. I know its sounds right in my head but when i say it, its like wtf did he say. I also have bipolar and seasonal affect disorder, but explaining disabilities in a hard subject. Normal people wouldn’t know because they don't have it.
About them wondering why autistic people don’t study socialization. I’d like to say that many actually do, and you’re around them in your everyday life without noticing because they’re masking. I’m one of those people, and it makes me not want to socialize with anyone I feel like I have to mask to be around. It’s not about not being able to learn how to socialize, but appreciating how you interact with the world as an autistic person. Not conforming to social norms is part of acceptance of one’s self.
I have it and im so glad I don't have it as bad as some people i've seen I just have trouble socializing but other than that l. i understand social q's when to shut up because im so quiet. so personally I'm on the lower in and Thankfully I'm not Mild or the term above it. (i understand them at times* not always
Another misconception that PISSES ME OFF. You dont SEE autism lmfao. Of it affects the brain, it shows in different ways. That girl has a similar case as me its more mental and speed and comprehension are BETTER than a neurotypical perspn 😂😂
As somebody… yes… I’m also one of them, 1. I’m obsessed with storms and tornadoes and I know y’all from La Plata, what was y’all experience with the April 28 2002 F4 tornado, please tell me the story. 2. I’m also a music producer I know you into that Noah hit me up, rather it’s now or whenever I make hits
You guys need to watch Jake Webber if you think you can tell if someone’s autistic I found out he was autistic a few months ago and I’ve been watching him for years
I’ll say as someone who isn’t autistic (idrk tbh) I’ve always been in the “special” classes w autistic kids but you need like a whole doctor check up and note and stuff like that to be put in classes where “the work is easier”
As a autism guy I am able to pretend to be normal and most people don't notice but yeah most autistic people I know are really weird but thank god I got high functioning and im not worse because yeah in school people use to think I was lying about my autism just because I was in normal classes.
Rhino may be neurodivergent but not necessarily autisitc. I am saying that because I have thought I had autism growing up, but I didn't show all the symptoms and was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid. There can be a lot of crossover between Autism, ADHD and Cluster B- Personality disorders.
Very high functioning autistic here, for me it's just sensitivity to senses (if that makes sense) or the fact that I choose to ignore social norms and cues.
Autism is a spectrum disorder. No two autistic people are the same, but there are certain signs and qualities that we all share. And those with it can almost always tell when someone else is on the spectrum
Not all people with autism are smart btw. A lot of them are quite clueless about a lot of things but usually they will be super knowledgeable and cable at a certain task/hobby
Hey, Strawberry Park. This is Darius again. Shout out to you guys for reacting to this Jubilee. This was a fun experience for me as I got to meet with other people who are also Autistic, as well as Non-Autistic people. I felt like I was part of a community.
Glad to be shouted out. That's actually put a smile on my face. Crazy how now I am referred to as Big D*** Darius. You can just simply call me Big D.
As for being Autistic, I always wanted to be perceived as "normal." I knew there was something odd about me since I was a kid, but I didn't know until I asked my folks. I now learn that it's OK to be different and to be you, no matter if you're on the Spectrum or not.
Big D here with the inspiring words. Hope to see you in a video.
🐐
slay i love you King Darius, preciate the wise words
My boi💪
Big D let’s goo!!! Glad to see you in this video
as someone who is actually diagnosed with autism, did multiple tests in middle school/primary school (UK). It is a rigorous process and autism comes in all forms. I used to struggle BADLY with socialising and I used to struggle a lot with learning in school as the way my teacher taught wasn’t helpful and for me personally I need information to be specific or then I’m not sure what i’m doing (hence i was given a TA) obviously i’ve learnt to socialise ‘normally’ like everyone else but I am aware that I am very honest and perceptive than most but also naive/clueless with some situations. So sometimes when people claim they have ‘autism’ just cus u get anxious every once in a while it just makes my whole experience look like a joke 💀
Who claims autism
@@ganbaru-kunthe same type of ppl who diagnose them self with adhd, bipolar and anxiety disorders
Not reading allat
That is a fantastic way to explain it
@@JOEYYFAN13 weirdo behaviour. it wasnt even long.
Hi I’m an autistic girl and i really enjoy your videos but everyone with autism is different and part of my autism is that I can read people very easily and I’m very socially capable and it’s not like that for everyone who’s autistic because autism presents differently in everyone so I hope you learn something from that I love you guys. oh and if you’ve met one autistic person you’ve met one autistic person and for ppl who are confused my point was autism isn’t just something you can Google and understand because there’s not enough research about it.
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Hi 👋🏻 appreciate your kind words. Might I be able to talk with you sometime? You have any social media?
Interesting perspective
Do you have any socials?
Then you’re not autistic then by definition 1:15
proud autistic here and i’ll tell you what it’s like.. it’s like normal for us because we never have not been autistic so being autistic is like being normal. it’s like asking a non autistic what’s its like being “normal” well they don’t know because it’s the normal for them. hopes this helps
Proud autist*
idk I definitely don’t feel normal but I also deal w severe anxiety and moderate depression so that could be my issue
i feel this. around 19 is when i finally understood the truth though it was like a brick to the face that all the stuff i do isnt normal.
@@eastsideLBCyeah anxiety and depression is what I’ve been dealing with. Anxiety mostly. Thank goodness I’ve been able to get therapy for my depression
hell yeah 💪
One thing I find beautiful and admire about autism, is the way so many people can focus in on specific passions. Making them beyond the level of their peers as far as understanding of said passions. It’s so intriguing and impressive to me. It’s a level of intelligence those without autism struggle to reach without doing a lot of extra work that is.
its so admirable
i’ve been diagnosed with autism since i was 4, and the best way i would describe it (at least for me) is that situations that “normal” people would find awkward are normal for me
wow it’s the opposite for me
What would a awkward situation be thats normal for you?
5:23 rhino tryna get cancelled😂😂
idk why people always think people with autism means someone is dumb i never liked that
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Or someone really smart no in between
I really don’t get it either, I have above average intelligence as a result and my cousin with more severe ASD taught himself Chinese
I’m autistic and this is how I explain it to people, imagine you were born not knowing the color yellow exists, never seeing it, and now imagine people around expecting me to recognize when I see the color yellow, I just can’t recognize it because I have never seeing it so my brain can’t spot it.
It’s just not possible
I have learned a lot thank god but it takes time and patience from others
Praying you can cure it 🙏
its really not that deep lil bro 1 out of 5 people get autism ur not special and its not that deep
@@LosSantosCity 😭
@@LosSantosCity Im all for praying to heal.. but Im not certain Autism is "curable". Obviously all things are possible through God but just be careful not to give people false hope.
@@sayerr17 lol
Hot-tistic 😂💀
That’s me jkjk 😂
@@JakInnaBoothnah bro, strut your stuff, you could be Hot-istic
0:00 video starts here
No shit 😭
you're a hero
Thanks g
@@JaydenGoncalves-Maluleka-s7s are you sure?
No it starts at 30:52 and ends at -0:01
18:25 he jus a chill guy fr
13:30 people with autism can 100000% understand social cues and pretend not to have autism, no one ever even believed me when i told them i had autism because i hid it so well, i studied how normal people acted and stuff like that and made my own personality for the public that i knew everyone would like and i was always prettyyyy popular nvr had a problem socially, but then i get overwhelmed and have breakdowns alone after a while 🙃 basically putting on an act 24/7 to be socially accepted
Some autistic people can do that. The difference is that it is not natural for us. We need to learn and make the conscious choice to look/ understand Social ques.
For instant
I needed to look up how to react appropriately to social ques and situations. 😅
ur a woman. Women are naturally wired in the brain to be better at social
Are you diagnosed because no amount of masking is going to make people think you are neurotypical. Also if you have no social deficits and can make friends easily you probably aren’t autistic.
I’m autsistic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be proud and happy,i can’t tell if you’re joking or not in your videos a lot but I like to believe it’s just for fun
You should be. People that criticize it know nothing about autism. They’re still extremely capable people
I think one thing that's largely glossed over about autism is the masking aspect. As diverse the experiences are one universal aspect is the intensity : if a lot of people feel sensitive about large crowds or lights for an autistic person, it will simultaneously be significantly more triggering and actually handicapping than for a non autistic person to the point where your brain will actually shut down and you'll get in anxiety crisis but ALSO for so many of us we've learned to hide the struggle. Yes you can only fake being normal to an extent BUT most normal people definitely overestimate their ability to tell.
This is why for the 'high functioning' ones that 'look normal' you end up stuck in this weird place where you're the weirdo and people mention it all the time one way or another but as soon as autism is detected people are are like 'no but you're okay though'.
been watches these guys since elementary school, in my junior year of highschool now
Same exactly for me
literallyyy
You need to be professionally diagnosed, and the behaviours can be different from person to person and the severity of it differs as well
Yeah 👍. Definitely 💯. I’m more of the high functioning autistic myself.
Now that Rhino said that the could be autistic I can't unsee it!😭 I have ADHD myself and there is a lot of similarities with it and Autism, so I can understand some of the things people on the spectrum go through.
Hey! I was diagnosed by a doctor a few years ago and everyone's experience is completely different to eachothers. For example, most of the things Google defined as being autistic I dont relate to (e.g., I dont get effected by loud noises/bright lights, I can pick up social cues etc.) Also I find it quite easy to identify another autistic person because for some reason autistic people just know (if that makes sense). Keep up the great work!
“I’m mad autistic” 26:07 😭😭😭
On the topic of autistic people not understanding social ques, I have a diagnosed autistic friend that understood she wasn't good at social skills and started studying that, and ended up being really good at reading people in social settings
I’ve been watching you guys since middle school. As a austitic girl, I struggled so badly with social skills and even if I was dignosed at an early age, I never got the treatment for it which as therapy. I was only in speech therapies and school and stuff. I never got any child therapist and because of this I was in survival mode basically all throughout my life. In middle school I was the worst at socializing and I just started getting therapy when I was almost 13 but still it was tough because I didn’t get it at a young age and I felt like the socializing part of the brain was super delayed. I remember watching you guys in middle school. People perceived me as people who watch corny shit so i developed ocd ( according to my psychiatrist cause he did a test) and it was due to prolonged childhood trauma. Now as a 17 year old, and seeing all of these people trying to self diagnose themselves cause they are trying to find excuses on why they aren’t winning in life while for me i tried so hard to find myself and try hard as much as possible but the years of mental health issues i developed from trauma from bullying and isolation made me anxious and depressed. I got on treatment this year while when i hit high school, i just masked myself and i was so good at it i was able to make friends and hang out but i felt so mentally exhausted and drained. Now i see a psychiatrist and a therapist and I get angry about the fact I didn’t get it when i was little. Cause I look “ normal” and I have socially acceptable interests, people think I would be trying to seek attention when clearly I’m actually mentally exhausted and suicidal. This is why many people( especially women) with autism are perceived as attention seekers because of pick me insecure ugly mfs who want to find an excuse for why they are losers. AS SOMEONE WITH DIGNOSED AUTISM, i wouldn’t go to someone and be like hey im autistic, I would mask myself. Most women/girls with autism mask themselves. I don’t even talk quirky. Most austitic people I have met don’t even match these stereotypical traits of autism.
My ex told me she was autistic I couldn't believe it
I know ryen is retired from doing dating shows, but i really want to see him in a twenty v one
ME TOOOO!!! RHINOOOOO PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE
Is he really retired though? Couldn’t he just say that “I don’t want to attend those kinds of videos.”? The moment he gets a true committed relationship, then I’ll believe he’s done
My son is 8 and is high functioning autistic it was interesting to see adults because I always worry about his future. I also wanna thank y’all for being super respectful it’s super touchy subject for me but I enjoyed y’all’s reaction. 😊
Hi
I am a behavior analyst (BCBA)
I work with individuals with autism, specifically 3-18 years old
I have a masters degree in behavior and use ABA to help individuals with autism build life skills.
Please dive into this ! I think it’s so important for people to understand and advocate for the autism community. Not all autism looks like this, these individuals are very lucky to be able to speak and have interactions like this video portrays !
I’m autistic and I can tell some of these, I believe it comes in different forms for everyone who has it. This was a good video by the way
2:20 nahhh ryan is wicked 😂😂😂
I was looking for this comment!
Rhino these r some crazy takes😭
Hellaaaa lls and strawberrypark vids we upp
i normally watch u guys whilst i eat cos u guys help me
i got food but my appetite isnt there today lolll
sameee😭😭😭
I actually do the tucking thing with my hands too bro. Think my body just finds it comfortable. However I'm good with social interactions.
13:44 that was unneccessarily funny😂😂😂
personally as someone who’s been diagnosed since like 2015. most everyone gets along with me unless they don’t have good intentions but many people always say they feel comfortable and like it’s easy opening up to me and often people come to me for my opinion on like their music and such because i’m always honest. but it’s really not easy tbh especially when people purposely misunderstand you or like to manipulate or make you feel like you don’t know what’s going on. i feel like i continuously mask around ppl especially bc a lot of people are ableist. i personally think most neurotypical should think the way neurodivergent people do. and social cues were learned over time me and through experiences. i feel very alienated and like i feel that ppl think things that an average person does is weird when i do them but when they do it it’s okay.
idk i feel like you either get it or you don’t but id never change myself or stop being myself for others to like me or accept me. i’ve never fit in and i don’t care about fitting in anymore because i wasn’t made to. the way “normal” ppl think is just wild to me
I was diagnosed from a young age, only because my mom is a psychologist and was able to pick up on how particular I was with things as a child. Now, as an adult, people can't tell for the most part because my symptoms and the way my autism is displayed is different from how its portrayed on the internet and in other people. I resonate with that girl with the 60s shirt
Bruhh I’m going to Hell 😂😂😂 12:51
25:28 nahhh yall not slick ik rhino said something wild when the girl walked up😂😂
fr is she the only one they skipped? 🤣
6:05 bruh I literally yelled out mac n cheese before she even said and then died laughing when she actually said it
Hopefully Ryan doesn’t cancel himself again by the end of this 😭🙏🏾
Again?!
18:27 hes just a chill guy
Ryan’s the type to watch a movie and become the main character for the day
1:08 rob sounded real defensive there like it meant something to him 😂
I’m autistic and I enjoy your content. I agree that some people who had self-diagnose themselves are doing that for the reason they believe it's a quirky trait or they think it's a fad. But I want to express how much I liked the fact you are wanting to understand autism and showing a little empathy to us. Having autism is real difficult when the world is made for ordinary people. Even though it is difficult. It can be beneficial for society. If that person is like an Einstein or an Elon Musk. With a great mind and with a great influence.
I took a test that didn't confirm (an iphone app) but the signs and characteristics are things that match my personality. I always felt like I could read people through bullshit acting or like fake friends give off an aura. Or the adverse, they shine like "ok i'm supposed to be cool with this person". I always had trouble being casually sociable I tend to gravitate towards potential life long friends or else I'm not really interested in getting to know them. I think the strangely gifted people in the arts tend to be autistic.
25:19 Noah saying wtf like that 😂
The way I didn't notice the media company shirts till like 3:50😭😭
I know this one guy who literally always says he has a new disability or mental issue every single day and he's been doing this since 2020. He's been to the doctor before and they proved that he actually has no disabilities and no mental health issues so that just proves how privileged he is to the point where he fakes issues so he can have something to complain about
Hypochondriac…
6:27 nahh rob's intrusive thoughts gotta be wild cause how'd you just blurt out "he got the big dick tho" like that 😂😂😂
With a big smile on yo face too😭😭😭
Nah the guy in question was on a Jubilee penis video
I'm diabetic and I had one close friend who I'd tell everything and I found out from other people that she would claim to be diabetic and tell people the stuff I told her claiming that's what she went through .😢
I just found out I’m high functioning autistic a few days ago and I’m 16 me being high functioning means I can operate like a normal person I just struggle socially you’d have to really know me to realise my autistic traits
Also high functioning autistic people often areant diagnosed because we mask our autistic traits so we function like normal people but fit our close enough to us you see you problems
@@ariealdarby4729interesting
Exactly. well explained. I try to mask my autism and most of the time it works but sometimes it really shows 😅
South Africa first🇿🇦🔥
Rob loves him so LOTS😭 honarable mentions every video 😭
10:36 didn't gypsy rose/her mum fake cancer and not autism?
I have Autism and don't understand why people want autism... it sucks.. 💀
You all are funny! "tarot card reader your dumb but not autistic" had me dead
that’s so real at the beginning! a lot of people claim their adhd but don’t know a thing about it. i was a teenager getting diagnosed between bipolar and adhd and going through all those medications (apparently it’s easy to mix up bipolar and adhd) and 5 years later im finally on the right medication that helps me focus (methylphenidate) im now only diagnosed with adhd, and i dont get why people want to label themselves when those were some of the most stressful years ive had. its not cool to be adhd, its a learning disability bro
Why is Rob so handsome????
2:27 "He's been in the game" crazy 🤣🤣🤣
Field day for Rhino😂
5:06 is willllllld 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
rhino new mixtape is too collddddd
Rhino got a mixtape?!
@JakInnaBooth yuh 4 my ego
i was diagnosed when i was like 4, used to be fully mute until like second grade, have a hard time with everyday life but i'm a very talented hairdresser and have always been a baddie so 🥵 used to sell weed like crazy LOL
0:11 ong, i promise; Gen Z took calling those with mental disorders "special" seriously and not patronizingly, so they genuinely want to get the attention and be seen as quirky and really different and unlike "normies" as possible--Gen Z kids a couple years ago were so obsessed with saying they were depressed, anxious, with ADHD, or autistic because of what they saw on TikTok and everything. And it's the type of kids that be saying they're a xe/xir, or the one parent household and it's a mom types; like people who normalize and glorify things that are reasonably not normal and not glorified like depression.
It's calmed down a bit, but am I the only one that noticed this suddenly occur with like middle and high schoolers in like 2018 and 2019 most notably?!
Also, it's not hard to confuse most children with autism what their gender is or what gender means, or make them think they're different in others ways if they have ASD, so it's no surprised a large quantity are rationalizing calling themselves xe/xirs or they/they or even transitioning to appear or live as the opposite sex
Ryan gotta keep on doing dating shows🙏🙏🙏. Like if you agree
Imo self-diagnosing isn't really a big issue, it doesn't hurt anyone and people do it because they heavily relate and it feels nice to put a label on something that causes issues in their life. I self-diagnosed but would never say I was autistic until I was officially diagnosed at 21
as an 2x late diagnosed autistic person people absolutely think it’s “quirky”. i’ve been in and out of hospitals and rehabs since i was 17. a late diagnosis is hell especially because of the gender biases and stereotypes/stigma around females with autism. we get diagnosed with personality disorders because we present differently than males, and then don’t get the help we need and are drowned in medication that is NOT for us. it is NOT a quirk.
This has to be the most stressful video so far definitely shattered someones ego 😂
I pray y'all don't get cancelled
What would get them cancelled?
30:00 nah i sleep just like Rob does😭
This video taught me that one of my coworkers is on the spectrum.
Now it all makes sense.
My signs perceived were speech patterns and slight delay.
I have asperger syndrome. I tell people i have it but most people never even heard of it. It’s generally higher functioning. I think the thing I struggle the most is trying to explain something to someone. I know its sounds right in my head but when i say it, its like wtf did he say. I also have bipolar and seasonal affect disorder, but explaining disabilities in a hard subject. Normal people wouldn’t know because they don't have it.
Thanks for sharing 🙂 just keep being yourself
5:22 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
About them wondering why autistic people don’t study socialization. I’d like to say that many actually do, and you’re around them in your everyday life without noticing because they’re masking. I’m one of those people, and it makes me not want to socialize with anyone I feel like I have to mask to be around. It’s not about not being able to learn how to socialize, but appreciating how you interact with the world as an autistic person. Not conforming to social norms is part of acceptance of one’s self.
5:22 ryan been waiting for this
Noahs face while the black dude starts talking is losing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
0:08 I have no desire but I fw all 2 of my autistic homies
I'm studying body language right now because it's my new area of interest.
The part they was talking abt pretending to be like that in school I did that 😭for the rest of my high school year😅
I have it and im so glad I don't have it as bad as some people i've seen I just have trouble socializing but other than that l. i understand social q's when to shut up because im so quiet. so personally I'm on the lower in and Thankfully I'm not Mild or the term above it. (i understand them at times* not always
Ryan you’re def not autistic stop
Did he say that ?
it was satire 🤦♂️
He is
@@wbnweballnation5362he was being sarcastic but he definitely said he was 😭
it’s a joke
7:18 I might be autistic, we don't know. 😂😂😂
Another misconception that PISSES ME OFF. You dont SEE autism lmfao. Of it affects the brain, it shows in different ways. That girl has a similar case as me its more mental and speed and comprehension are BETTER than a neurotypical perspn 😂😂
“Why you in my DM’s if I’m so jaded”🔥
23:53 damn near perfectly worded
Robs DogTistic 8:08 😭
As somebody… yes… I’m also one of them, 1. I’m obsessed with storms and tornadoes and I know y’all from La Plata, what was y’all experience with the April 28 2002 F4 tornado, please tell me the story. 2. I’m also a music producer I know you into that Noah hit me up, rather it’s now or whenever I make hits
0:42 bars bro fr
that dude in the beginning is projecting really hard 😭😭😭
I Love you too Rob
You guys need to watch Jake Webber if you think you can tell if someone’s autistic I found out he was autistic a few months ago and I’ve been watching him for years
I’ll say as someone who isn’t autistic (idrk tbh) I’ve always been in the “special” classes w autistic kids but you need like a whole doctor check up and note and stuff like that to be put in classes where “the work is easier”
Does member show on RUclips or is it not a Patreon link??
27:04 she so chill
Will def slide on that
chill bruh
As a autism guy I am able to pretend to be normal and most people don't notice but yeah most autistic people I know are really weird but thank god I got high functioning and im not worse because yeah in school people use to think I was lying about my autism just because I was in normal classes.
you guys should react to the Jubilee ivy league vs community college 💪💪
The Star Wars joke was crazy Ryan 😂
Rhino may be neurodivergent but not necessarily autisitc. I am saying that because I have thought I had autism growing up, but I didn't show all the symptoms and was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid. There can be a lot of crossover between Autism, ADHD and Cluster B- Personality disorders.
Very high functioning autistic here, for me it's just sensitivity to senses (if that makes sense) or the fact that I choose to ignore social norms and cues.
Autism is a spectrum disorder. No two autistic people are the same, but there are certain signs and qualities that we all share. And those with it can almost always tell when someone else is on the spectrum
New video lets goooooo🔥🔥
Not all people with autism are smart btw. A lot of them are quite clueless about a lot of things but usually they will be super knowledgeable and cable at a certain task/hobby