Welp, the triggering video + the apology are now gone (not sure if it’s privated or deleted) Also their 2 days ago upload as I’m typing this was meant to be a PART 2 of the triggering video Soooo yeah 😶
OMG ‼️‼️ I remember i did an apology too and i used this exact method. SUPRISE SUPRISE EVERYONE FORGAVE ME FOR MY MISTAKE NOW IM FRIENDS WITH THEM😱😱 #ITWORKS #DIY #DOITYOURSELF
How to make a good apology: -Explain what you did -Why you thought it would be okay to do it -Dont have an oc or anything just text -Actually apologize -Take down or replace the triggering material -Start using trigger warnings -DO NOTHING THAT BUGGA DID! DONT SAY YOUR GONNA TAKE A BREAK BC “everyone is attacking you” NOTHING OF THAT SORT -Do not try and guilt trip people -Dont bend the story Heres the part where difficulty is set to Nehema mode: *DONT DO IT AGAIN*
@@Andrea77707 They used an unproperly censored song that contains the N word, sent his fans to bully a CHILD OFF THE PLATFORM. And cant take ANY criticism
Bro don't even this is how I apologize someone : oh you did this wrong this hurt my child or whatever- Me: sorry dude I forgot to add a warning I will add one now. someone: girl-
I just can't believe that people "Forget" or don't add triggers when it has sensitive topics! Most of the trends have sexual abuse and add NO triggers!
This is why I’m scared of screwing up. I’m worried because since there are some many fake apologizers out there, I’m worried people won’t believe even when I’m telling the truth.
Actually, as long as your apology is nit an obvious guilt-trip, people will believe and forgive you (unless you did something absolutely horrible, like- “lentotally’d a child” )
Apology tips for you: Add no music just talking Don’t make tears or rain Don’t guilt trip Don’t over dramatic it Apologise If you didn’t apologise for a bit (e.g: 2 weeks) explain why Don’t get mad at someone for not forgiving you Stop the thing your doing that caused this drama (e.g: Tracing and calling it original) That’s all please follow my tips for a good apology video Edit: thx for 20 likes!
Good apology tips! •dont add bg sounds •dont be dramatic and be genuine •explain what you did and why you did it also apologize to the person you did it to
for apologies: BE GENUINE BE SERIOUS TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEMS YOU DID DONT DO WHAT THE CREATOR DID IN THE VIDEO! and if your voicing over your character make your voice as genuine as possible
I think that the fact she didn't say anything for two weeks is that she was scared of people not accepting her apology, I also do that because I am scared of their response.
Ye same cause I don't know how to apologize Properly, if I was a gachatuber and did something bad that I didn't know and apologized, I might end up like this, rant videos, that's why being a gachatuber is the worst, cause you have to be PERFECT, Like- apologizing PERFECTLY. I know most people don't know how to apologize, same too
Random (possible but not sure) idea on why they were silent for so long: They could have been making the video throughout that time, I’m not saying they couldn’t have apologized through the comments, or that what they did was right, but it’s just a possibility that they might have been making the video or busy with family or something of that sort This was amazing, I’m glad you said something about this situation
Gonna be blunt here, the apology is horrible. I'm no content creator of any variety but even if the editing took that long, thats still a neglect of sincerity. If you're going to delay a very necessary apology because you need to edit it to look good, that's a red flag. If they wanted to get the video out in time, blank screen and text. Didn't need the effects and relection and crying character in the background.
Good tips: Make sure your apology doesn’t sound like a guilt trip Don’t JUST say sorry, explain what you did and that you will prevent it in the future DONT be over dramatic Post right after you are being accused Be serious and genuine
They really took a bunch of bad apology video cliches and put them in their apology video. I don't get how this person thought it was a good idea to make their apology the way it is, apology videos are some of the most hated videos on youtube for a reason. I tend to be lenient with apology videos since they are usually a heat of the moment situation, but the fact that it took them 2 weeks to upload the video in this quality is inexcusable. Great video flo!
I like that flo puts memes at proper times and it doesn't get annoying when flo does it because she perfectly puts the memes and I think she is my favorite gacha ranter!
By watching the apology video, it made me cringe so hard that I don't think they were able to think at all. I feel disappointed that I never expected that this apology would be like this
Hello I finally responded to the apology. And I don’t forgive her. Me and others had to CONVINCE her to do something! And I had many issues with the apology. I appreciate you bringing light as that’s what me and others wanted to do. Thank you flo, I love you for that. Your not afraid to speak up about something and I love that about you.
This is also a video of somebody pretending to get a mental illness and saying "im suicidal" using raindrop effects and sad music according to my POV 💀 (Not hating on your comment)
That was somehow worst than I thought. Idk how so many people forget to add proper warnings and censors to videos with such heavy topics. Like it’s genuinely so easy to do 😀
This is like...genuinely concerning. People like this are part of the reason why we get called 'Gacha Kids' smh... Thanks for taking the time out of your day to suffer having to deal with this bs so the rest of us don't-.. you have my utmost respect 😄
man those apologies are so ungenuine sometimes that I really wanna cause drama to then just make an apology video where I just say "I did it for absolute no good reason and just for clout" and with the "sorry not sorry" as bgm using the "fnaf freddy fazbear twerk meme" I'm pretty sure it would've been a better and more genuine apology vid than the most ones
Tips to make a good apology. 1. Please write the apology first in a notepad. or something so you know what to type 2. Recall about what you've done. and apologize to the victim or victims. 3. Actually apologize about what you've done. 4. Don't do them again after the apology. or take down the apology unless its outdated.
The fact the apology has been getting a lot of commenters on the og video a lot of hate and harassment is the worst thing about it, my comment was peaceful and stuff while people were literally screaming at me to change my mind when the apology video was terrible
Finally! Someone who gets it! I have seen so many gacha vids doing something really bad and then they suddenly turn there oc black to make them look like the victims,
I've heard about and been witness to so many apology videos; and the worst part of it all is that most of them are just god awful. Edit: Just wanted to add that Flo makes some very good points as well.
People might've said this, but Im not a fan of those type of apologies that have a bunch of sad music and 2-tier edits to look sad. Rather than the person apologizing actually looking apologetic, it just looks like they're trying to get the watcher to pity and hopefully just forget. :( Sometimes really bad stuff needs time and effort (in the words and sincerity, not the edited crying) a simple "sorry for not being more logical, 😓........ I will not do it again" :( Great video flo! :-)
I found out what grape means and as a person who experienced SA a couple of times as a child she should’ve made the video more apologetic and appropriate. It’s unacceptable for her to apologize then make a part 2. Making a part 2 will traumatize and trigger many people again because you will need to watch pt.1 to understand. It’s unacceptable that she didn’t do the apology video correctly and made a part 2 on top of it. I have to thank you for bringing peoples attention about this serious matter.
I watched the full premiere and.. *Damn, that wasn't even an apology. Especially with THAT sound effect and the guilt tripping..* (Also was the tell me why part added by you? Btw your commentary on this was awesome!)
I think the fact that they premiered their apology instead of just posting it straight up shows they're making a show out of it, like it's a soap drama episode or something 😢😢
Still my favorite video of all time (which I'll find again someday hopefully) Talk about how the Bo Burnham song song titled problematic was a better apology then most youtuber apology videos
I've made genuine apology videos before, and have changed my actions. Yet they always seem to be the most disliked on my channel, so I have to remove them for the algorithm... I always acknowledge what I did wrong- despite me being in a panic attack at the time and not understanding what I was doing wrong at the time. But I keep getting shoved away by the person I'm trying to get through to. (If you want to know what I did, I was using his OC's with his perms, until he said to stop suddenly. At that time I was super attached, so I tried to PM him on DA to try to achieve a compromise. It was so sudden, I panicked cried and got sick and stuff, it was the lowest low I'd ever experienced in my life-)
@@dnvdnf3snwbjwm sorry, i was writing quick since i had to leave. but yea, they only think about themselves or their close friends. i once had to start crying for someone to stop talking about suicide
Here’s how to make a good apology video: Just have a solid white background for the text and admit what you’ve done wrong. If your not sorry, don’t make the apology video in the first place.
Okay am i the only one that's genuinely concerned that this person doesn't see 🍇 as a big deal? I honestly hope someone explains to them why that's bad just so they understand, and so this issue doesn't happen again. And at the end of the day as for the apologize, even if it was bad, only time will tell if it's sincere or not.
I know this was many many months ago and it’s old news but I am watching a bunch of your videos now and I love your commentary these kinds of situations because it helps me understand what is really going on and I respect you for taking the time out of your day just to watch this mindnumbing stuff and go through these awful situations that you have had most recently. you are very beautiful and I love your art and you are amazing, never stop what you’re doing(and now is the part where I put why I made this comment under this video, the music is giving Colleen Ballinger’s toxic gossip train)
you should do a video on kawaiigirlanna fans in 2023 a few notable points: 1. kawaiigirlanna lied to one of her most devoted fans (Dominic Zi) about how the situation went down (reply for what actually happened) 2. she has successfully fooled Dominic into spreading the lie and now all of the Kawaii sisters think she didn’t do the bad things she actually did 3. anna also said a nonbinary person was a girl when the enby person confronted her 4. she has yet to apologize
Honestly, in general, it is hard for everyone as a human being to apologize. But, you should still try your best to apologize and make your wrongdoings right. It’s best to own up to your mistakes and give a genuine apology, rather than do what Kuroku did. Make it sincere, don’t make it into a guilt trip video for views. People will end up respecting you more for acknowledging that what you did was wrong than just completely ignoring it and moving on with life like it’s nothing, because it will catch up to you. My tips: 1) Make it Sincere (not what Kuroku did, that is a good example of a not sincere video). 2) Think of what you are going to say/write before posting the video. (Think: is this really what I want to tell everyone? Is it enough to make up for the things I did? Etc.) 3) Don’t go off topic, stick to the apology itself and explain what you could have done better. (Something they 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝙣𝙤𝙩 do at all anywhere in the video). 4) don’t just go and say “sorry” then just end the video there expecting people to apologize for what you did. In my opinion, it’s very immature for someone (especially someone that’s probably a teen. I’m not sure tho) to go ahead and just do that. 5) Honestly, the way I like to think of it in a real-life scenario is: imagine you’re an adult and you did something that upset many people, they wouldn’t expect you to just flat out say “sorry” that won’t work, be real, and make an actual sincere apology to about the thousands of people that enjoy your content. Summary: Don’t do what Kuromi/other people that make apology videos like this did/do. :] (ik this is from about a week ago, just now is when I saw this-)
Actual apology tips : - Be honest with your actions - Explain why you did said actions - Don’t have an OC or background music - Take it seriously - Be sincere with your words - ACTUALLY APOLOGIZE - Don’t guilt trip or victimize yourself - *DO* * NOT* CALL YOUR ACTIONS A TREND OR MEME!!!!! DO NOT VICTIMIZE YOURSELF AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST - DON’T DO WHAT YOUR APOLOGIZING FOR IN THE FIRST PLACE AND BE AN ACTUALLY GENUINELY GOOD PERSON It’s not THAT hard..
Guys, can we just take a moment and appreciate Flo for not just spreading awareness of these disgusting Gachatubers, but also saving the Gacha Community! 😊
Some tips to apologize (when in a situation like this)- 1. Take down the controversial video. 2. Make a genuine apology video. No sad music or anything like that tho just a genuine apology specially targeted to the people you triggered 3. Actually change your ways and learn from that situation 3
I can't believe that she not only has the audacity to dramatize the video and attempt to guilt trip us, she also tried to say that she was "uneducated" and "didn't know 🍇 without the g was to be taken seriously". This is honestly a horrible apology and she needs to try again, this time sincerely and actually making an apology.
Honestly speaking,i don't trust apology videos for a reason that i have trust issues. Things like these are hard to believe especially in the internet so...
That video shouldnt be count as an "ApOlOgY" she shouldve had taken the video down and then apologize, yet she didnt. Not only that but this "ApOlOgY" feels like an animation meme, i feel like she kept the video up so that she could make an apology and gain extra views. Also, it doesnt feel like she regrets what she did, it feels like.. nothing actually. My point is: She purposefully kept the video up, knowing shed have to make an apology, and that the apology would gain a LOT of views, so she decided to keep the video up. !!!THESE ARE MY OPINIONS!!! Lets not forget the good old ending now.. Shade shall fade.
Well, I've gone over to Kuroku's channel, and it seems she had the "apology" video private [Someone sended a link in the comments, and it says that it was private, like Flo said in the pinned comment]. And heck, she even made a part 2 of the video she made. The second I saw that thumbnail for myself I was outraged. I have no idea how someone could think these topics were fine to make in a video, and make it a trend? A "trend"? Are you serious? This is one of the many reasons why the Gacha Community has a bad name to it, because of this. She should have just deleted the video and make a GENUINE apology goddammit, but no. I'm honestly upset about all this, all the drama going around because of other people's stupidity. I won't go on to attack Kuroku, no, because that would make everything worse than it already is, so I'll stay silent on her channel. I'm glad that you're talking about this topic again, Flo, since it's bothering me on an extreme level, and I'm sure that many people would be triggered if they have come across her video as well. And 2 weeks. 2 weeks? How could someone take THAT long? She just gave us the silent treatment and made a dramatic a** apology video after that. Wow. Slow clap for her, amiright guys? 👏. All that said and done, I'm going to watch some videos about puppies and kittens to calm myself down. Ryo over and out. [Sorry for the edits, there were things I didn't cover on this comment/spelling mistakes/things I wanted to clear up more. ]
The genuine video(the apolagy video) this is very disrespectful too the viewers that actually got triggered, and yes kukoru does need too explain why she was gone for 2 weeks (I think) and putting the rain and that “sad” “dramatic” music in the background is already the start of a bad apolagy video, and the fact that she edited her character sad or whatever, in my honest opinion she was trying too make this abt herself and not the victims that got triggered, i watched that video before kuroku put the “TW” etc, I wasn’t triggered but I hate it when gacha tubers make something a meme even though it’s a real thing that needs too be stopped, I completely agree with you in this one 100%, but I just checked up on her channel and she deleted the meme(which is good) but also deleted the apology video, deleting the meme was probably the best thing kukoru could of done but deleting the apology video? Now that will most likely start an even bigger fight, yes the meme is gone and your probably like “But how could they get mad at kukoru than?” Well, the viewers that see this and saw the video when is was not taken down and haven’t seen the apology video will most likely get mad at kukoru for not putting an apology video, right? I personally think hat kukoru should make an actual serious apology video too the victims, this is extremely disrespectful it’s like kukoru was mocking apology videos, like I said I completely agree with you and most younger gacha tubers than kukoru are more mature than her, do apology videos without disrespectful anybody or mocking the community or just mocking apology videos in total, knowing this it is very unfortunate too know that some old gacha tubers are not mature and don’t set a good example for younger audiences etc, but yes I agree with you.
Honestly it's really manipulative what rhey did. Clearly they (most likely) aren't sorry and it shows. People need to learn how to own up to their misdemeanors and i hope they do one day.
there is something even worse in their channel which made me honestly rethink joining the gacha community. On their description IT HAS A TW FOR SA, SEGGSUAL VIOLENCE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND LITERAL ABUSE. AND THEY'RE A FRICKING GACHA CHANNEL. At that point just delete your channel or DELETE YOUR VIDEOS AND MAKE GOOD. ONES. The gacha community just sometimes makes me so angry and sometimes even grossed out by it making abuse a trend, making sa a trend, those are actually bad and should not be made into trends. But FoR sOmE rEaSoN the people who make/do those trends cant get that though their thick skulls.
It depends on what the person did a simple apology doesn’t make it better? And it’s the media apologizing over the internet makes it feel much more not genuine and then again in person I guess it could be easier to forgive someone.
Probs not related to the story almost all my friends who are in the gacha community call everything offensive, racist and always says "TRIGGER WARNING" when telling a story and now i know why😭 When i watched this video it was all explained by just looking at the title😥
I also don't know TW so I just do friendly things until I know what it is but as her old fan I can confirm that views and subscribers are more important to her actually she wasn't really apologizing
I do agree that she should try to make an apology as fast as possible, but maybe she took two weeks for specific reasons I could be wrong idk but that's what I think.
She basically guilt tripped and over-dramatized the entire thing. Took 2 weeks to apologize and went offline RANDOMLY, didn’t take the video down and honestly wasn’t clear enough with her words! Not to mention that she did not even dare to address what she did and why she did it, again as I said: GUILT TRIPPING! Honestly this apology is bullshit. 💀
Welp, the triggering video + the apology are now gone (not sure if it’s privated or deleted)
Also their 2 days ago upload as I’m typing this was meant to be a PART 2 of the triggering video
Soooo yeah 😶
Hi Flo! Love your videos!
It got privated
Bruh💀💀💀
Flotalendy, not to stress you, but can you do an opinion on the beowulf and wide doggy situation?
@@auriliasunil8285 she said in her commity post
Good apology tips:
- Explain what you did
- Explain why you did it
And now, for the hard part,
Actually apologize with actual words 😱😱😱
OMG ‼️‼️ I remember i did an apology too and i used this exact method. SUPRISE SUPRISE EVERYONE FORGAVE ME FOR MY MISTAKE NOW IM FRIENDS WITH THEM😱😱
#ITWORKS #DIY #DOITYOURSELF
I actually use this method-
And also just do it with no background or smt. Dont put like rain or ur oc crying
and maybe explain why it is wrong, so you can also prove you knew why and educate people on it!
isnt the hard part following throuhgh with ur apology
How to make a good apology:
-Explain what you did
-Why you thought it would be okay to do it
-Dont have an oc or anything just text
-Actually apologize
-Take down or replace the triggering material
-Start using trigger warnings
-DO NOTHING THAT BUGGA DID! DONT SAY YOUR GONNA TAKE A BREAK BC “everyone is attacking you” NOTHING OF THAT SORT
-Do not try and guilt trip people
-Dont bend the story
Heres the part where difficulty is set to Nehema mode:
*DONT DO IT AGAIN*
Thanks😊
Okayy, what did bugga actually did ?? Its been a long time I have seen (their pronouns) videos or channel
@@Andrea77707 They used an unproperly censored song that contains the N word, sent his fans to bully a CHILD OFF THE PLATFORM. And cant take ANY criticism
Changing difficulty to *NEHEMA MODE*
Awesome comment YOU SHOULD GET PINNED!! You made me more Educated
The “Tell me why” part got me laughing like a witch💀💀 I love your content Flo
Lol
This is, ugh. Definitely not a genuine apology. Thank you again Flo, for taking your time to research these things so we don’t. ❤
Bro don't even this is how I apologize
someone : oh you did this wrong this hurt my child or whatever-
Me: sorry dude I forgot to add a warning I will add one now.
someone: girl-
@@sweetly.1ndy she doesn't need a rain or music like this
I just can't believe that people "Forget" or don't add triggers when it has sensitive topics! Most of the trends have sexual abuse and add NO triggers!
Everyone makes mistakes .. but if they literally know they have to and they don’t NOWWW THATS BADDD
@Jay Blue chad
Well that's honestly disgraceful. She honestly should have just changed the thumbnail instead of making a dramatic apology video to get attention.
Honestly she should have taken it down but I agree with you. Like why wait for so long?
I feel like a lot of famous gachatubers do that
tbh, she shouldve just taken it down and said “sorry i did that, i wont do it again” thats it. thats all.
Hi i am your new sub
@@Lily_Sama830 Tysm for subbing
This is why I’m scared of screwing up. I’m worried because since there are some many fake apologizers out there, I’m worried people won’t believe even when I’m telling the truth.
Actually, as long as your apology is nit an obvious guilt-trip, people will believe and forgive you (unless you did something absolutely horrible, like- “lentotally’d a child” )
@@ShadowsightSolos I would never do that to a child, especially since I’m a teen and I already have a boyfriend.
@@meadowchanyukikosangacha2643
I know
But that’s the only reason I think of that nobody would forgive you no matter what you said/did
@@ShadowsightSolos Another reason is you made someone commit sayori if you know what I mean, but hopefully that won’t happen.
@@meadowchanyukikosangacha2643 cough cough.. OTAMA cough cough..
Apology tips for you:
Add no music just talking
Don’t make tears or rain
Don’t guilt trip
Don’t over dramatic it
Apologise
If you didn’t apologise for a bit (e.g: 2 weeks) explain why
Don’t get mad at someone for not forgiving you
Stop the thing your doing that caused this drama (e.g: Tracing and calling it original)
That’s all please follow my tips for a good apology video
Edit: thx for 20 likes!
Good apology tips!
•dont add bg sounds
•dont be dramatic and be genuine
•explain what you did and why you did it also apologize to the person you did it to
for apologies: BE GENUINE BE SERIOUS TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEMS YOU DID DONT DO WHAT THE CREATOR DID IN THE VIDEO! and if your voicing over your character make your voice as genuine as possible
'I'm deeply sorry'
Also her procceding to make a part 2:
I didn’t even realize that, that’s so fucking goofy and insincere dude 💀💀💀
goofy ahh apology + "trend"
@@dnvdnf3snwbjwm true- it's so fucking insincere like-
What she did wasn't even that bad it did not require an apology video with rain. Just pin a comment saying sorry change the thumbnail done
I think that the fact she didn't say anything for two weeks is that she was scared of people not accepting her apology, I also do that because I am scared of their response.
Ye same cause I don't know how to apologize Properly, if I was a gachatuber and did something bad that I didn't know and apologized, I might end up like this, rant videos, that's why being a gachatuber is the worst, cause you have to be PERFECT, Like- apologizing PERFECTLY. I know most people don't know how to apologize, same too
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I laughed at this and even with the "TELL ME WHY!" Awesome video though, but I agree it is a bad apology vid
THE EFFECT MADE ME LAUGH THE SHIT OUT OF ME OMFG😭
FR😭😭
Random (possible but not sure) idea on why they were silent for so long:
They could have been making the video throughout that time, I’m not saying they couldn’t have apologized through the comments, or that what they did was right, but it’s just a possibility that they might have been making the video or busy with family or something of that sort
This was amazing, I’m glad you said something about this situation
Gonna be blunt here, the apology is horrible. I'm no content creator of any variety but even if the editing took that long, thats still a neglect of sincerity. If you're going to delay a very necessary apology because you need to edit it to look good, that's a red flag. If they wanted to get the video out in time, blank screen and text. Didn't need the effects and relection and crying character in the background.
Or she was scared That people would not forgive her., people make mistakes and this one is a big one.
Good tips:
Make sure your apology doesn’t sound like a guilt trip
Don’t JUST say sorry, explain what you did and that you will prevent it in the future
DONT be over dramatic
Post right after you are being accused
Be serious and genuine
"Look what youve done" fits way too well with this.
They really took a bunch of bad apology video cliches and put them in their apology video. I don't get how this person thought it was a good idea to make their apology the way it is, apology videos are some of the most hated videos on youtube for a reason. I tend to be lenient with apology videos since they are usually a heat of the moment situation, but the fact that it took them 2 weeks to upload the video in this quality is inexcusable. Great video flo!
I like that flo puts memes at proper times and it doesn't get annoying when flo does it because she perfectly puts the memes and I think she is my favorite gacha ranter!
By watching the apology video, it made me cringe so hard that I don't think they were able to think at all.
I feel disappointed that I never expected that this apology would be like this
Apology video without tears and faking being sad is so rare
Okay this is just...
Okay they got me at the guilt tripping.
Also can we appreciate Flo for solving many dramas for us? ♥️
Hello I finally responded to the apology. And I don’t forgive her. Me and others had to CONVINCE her to do something! And I had many issues with the apology. I appreciate you bringing light as that’s what me and others wanted to do. Thank you flo, I love you for that. Your not afraid to speak up about something and I love that about you.
That apology looks way worse than a dumpster fire and I can tell you that it’s a code word for terrible
that's honestly one of the shittiest apologies I have ever heard
btw your voice is so pretty like omg ❤
This isn't an apology video...
This is an excuses video 💀
This is also a video of somebody pretending to get a mental illness and saying "im suicidal" using raindrop effects and sad music according to my POV 💀
(Not hating on your comment)
That was somehow worst than I thought.
Idk how so many people forget to add proper warnings and censors to videos with such heavy topics. Like it’s genuinely so easy to do 😀
The fact she made a part two,the audacity
Don’t remember making this, the grammar errors are killing me inside…😭😭🙏
MIZUKI PFP?!#?#?
This is like...genuinely concerning. People like this are part of the reason why we get called 'Gacha Kids' smh...
Thanks for taking the time out of your day to suffer having to deal with this bs so the rest of us don't-.. you have my utmost respect 😄
The way you say "thumbnail" is really adorable 💓😭
man those apologies are so ungenuine sometimes that I really wanna cause drama to then just make an apology video where I just say "I did it for absolute no good reason and just for clout" and with the "sorry not sorry" as bgm using the "fnaf freddy fazbear twerk meme" I'm pretty sure it would've been a better and more genuine apology vid than the most ones
Tips to make a good apology.
1. Please write the apology first in a notepad. or something so you know what to type
2. Recall about what you've done. and apologize to the victim or victims.
3. Actually apologize about what you've done.
4. Don't do them again after the apology. or take down the apology unless its outdated.
Dude, i usually try to give anyone the benefit of the doubt but i can confidently say that this apology is *B A D*
The fact the apology has been getting a lot of commenters on the og video a lot of hate and harassment is the worst thing about it, my comment was peaceful and stuff while people were literally screaming at me to change my mind when the apology video was terrible
Finally! Someone who gets it! I have seen so many gacha vids doing something really bad and then they suddenly turn there oc black to make them look like the victims,
Ngl
If I didn’t see this video, I think I would've add Jiburi song in an apology video ( T꒳¯ )🤚
It's so calming and beautiful
Flo’s voice is so calming like this could be asmr and I will just do it for hours❤
I've heard about and been witness to so many apology videos; and the worst part of it all is that most of them are just god awful.
Edit: Just wanted to add that Flo makes some very good points as well.
People might've said this, but Im not a fan of those type of apologies that have a bunch of sad music and 2-tier edits to look sad. Rather than the person apologizing actually looking apologetic, it just looks like they're trying to get the watcher to pity and hopefully just forget. :(
Sometimes really bad stuff needs time and effort (in the words and sincerity, not the edited crying) a simple "sorry for not being more logical, 😓........ I will not do it again"
:(
Great video flo! :-)
I found out what grape means and as a person who experienced SA a couple of times as a child she should’ve made the video more apologetic and appropriate. It’s unacceptable for her to apologize then make a part 2. Making a part 2 will traumatize and trigger many people again because you will need to watch pt.1 to understand. It’s unacceptable that she didn’t do the apology video correctly and made a part 2 on top of it. I have to thank you for bringing peoples attention about this serious matter.
THE WAY SHE PUT RAIN AND SAD MUSIC IM WHEEZING LOL
Some people’s minds are such hardheaded. They can’t even make a proper apology. At this point there is no way in stopping them.
I was literally this emoji while watching the video “💀”
I watched the full premiere and..
*Damn, that wasn't even an apology. Especially with THAT sound effect and the guilt tripping..*
(Also was the tell me why part added by you? Btw your commentary on this was awesome!)
Yeah, backstreet boys, a classic 😌
I think the fact that they premiered their apology instead of just posting it straight up shows they're making a show out of it, like it's a soap drama episode or something 😢😢
@@preezyystar truee
@@Flotalendy Ah okay!
what’s the channel?
Ngl I wasn't paying attention to the video, but I was checking out those elegant custom poses! ^^
This is an example of a whack ass apology 💀. Also thanks again Flo! I hope you're doing well!
Still my favorite video of all time (which I'll find again someday hopefully) Talk about how the Bo Burnham song song titled problematic was a better apology then most youtuber apology videos
Tell me why
Ain't nothing but a heartache
Tell me why
Ain't nothing but a mistake
Tell me why
I never wanna hear you say
I want it that way😁😁😁
I've made genuine apology videos before, and have changed my actions. Yet they always seem to be the most disliked on my channel, so I have to remove them for the algorithm... I always acknowledge what I did wrong- despite me being in a panic attack at the time and not understanding what I was doing wrong at the time. But I keep getting shoved away by the person I'm trying to get through to. (If you want to know what I did, I was using his OC's with his perms, until he said to stop suddenly. At that time I was super attached, so I tried to PM him on DA to try to achieve a compromise. It was so sudden, I panicked cried and got sick and stuff, it was the lowest low I'd ever experienced in my life-)
bad apologies are common. wish people did have feelings...
Well, they do have feelings. But only for theirself. I wish people had feelings for others.
@@dnvdnf3snwbjwm sorry, i was writing quick since i had to leave. but yea, they only think about themselves or their close friends. i once had to start crying for someone to stop talking about suicide
@@Averyspacesmileyface Jesus, I hate those kinds of people. My ex-best friend was like that. Hope you’re doing okay.
@@dnvdnf3snwbjwm I hate the topic. I am fine tho. Hope you are too!
@@Averyspacesmileyface Me too, and ty!
Here’s how to make a good apology video: Just have a solid white background for the text and admit what you’ve done wrong.
If your not sorry, don’t make the apology video in the first place.
Okay am i the only one that's genuinely concerned that this person doesn't see 🍇 as a big deal? I honestly hope someone explains to them why that's bad just so they understand, and so this issue doesn't happen again.
And at the end of the day as for the apologize, even if it was bad, only time will tell if it's sincere or not.
I know this was many many months ago and it’s old news but I am watching a bunch of your videos now and I love your commentary these kinds of situations because it helps me understand what is really going on and I respect you for taking the time out of your day just to watch this mindnumbing stuff and go through these awful situations that you have had most recently. you are very beautiful and I love your art and you are amazing, never stop what you’re doing(and now is the part where I put why I made this comment under this video, the music is giving Colleen Ballinger’s toxic gossip train)
Her video literally is a tutorial on: *' How to make an apology video ( MAKES EVERYONE FORGIVE YOU!1!1 REAL )'*
I kinda went "AINT NOTHING BUT A HEARTACHE" I feel so bad
I was trying so hard 2 not laugh when the first few seconds of the apology video w/ the rain and emo depressing music played💀
you should do a video on kawaiigirlanna fans in 2023
a few notable points:
1. kawaiigirlanna lied to one of her most devoted fans (Dominic Zi) about how the situation went down (reply for what actually happened)
2. she has successfully fooled Dominic into spreading the lie and now all of the Kawaii sisters think she didn’t do the bad things she actually did
3. anna also said a nonbinary person was a girl when the enby person confronted her
4. she has yet to apologize
Don’t bring my name into this
@@SillyRyemoment bro you are not the only cookie
THE RAIN AND THE SOUND EFFECT IM CRYING 😭
Fist of all(not even 20 seconds into the vid) love your oc, second love that your addressing this in a mature way
I- really love your VOICE AAAH-
Idk what to sayyy T~T
Honestly, in general, it is hard for everyone as a human being to apologize. But, you should still try your best to apologize and make your wrongdoings right. It’s best to own up to your mistakes and give a genuine apology, rather than do what Kuroku did. Make it sincere, don’t make it into a guilt trip video for views. People will end up respecting you more for acknowledging that what you did was wrong than just completely ignoring it and moving on with life like it’s nothing, because it will catch up to you.
My tips:
1) Make it Sincere (not what Kuroku did, that is a good example of a not sincere video).
2) Think of what you are going to say/write before posting the video. (Think: is this really what I want to tell everyone? Is it enough to make up for the things I did? Etc.)
3) Don’t go off topic, stick to the apology itself and explain what you could have done better. (Something they 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝙣𝙤𝙩 do at all anywhere in the video).
4) don’t just go and say “sorry” then just end the video there expecting people to apologize for what you did. In my opinion, it’s very immature for someone (especially someone that’s probably a teen. I’m not sure tho) to go ahead and just do that.
5) Honestly, the way I like to think of it in a real-life scenario is: imagine you’re an adult and you did something that upset many people, they wouldn’t expect you to just flat out say “sorry” that won’t work, be real, and make an actual sincere apology to about the thousands of people that enjoy your content.
Summary: Don’t do what Kuromi/other people that make apology videos like this did/do. :] (ik this is from about a week ago, just now is when I saw this-)
Actual apology tips :
- Be honest with your actions
- Explain why you did said actions
- Don’t have an OC or background music
- Take it seriously
- Be sincere with your words
- ACTUALLY APOLOGIZE
- Don’t guilt trip or victimize yourself
- *DO* * NOT* CALL YOUR ACTIONS A TREND OR MEME!!!!! DO NOT VICTIMIZE YOURSELF AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST
- DON’T DO WHAT YOUR APOLOGIZING FOR IN THE FIRST PLACE AND BE AN ACTUALLY GENUINELY GOOD PERSON
It’s not THAT hard..
It's very hard to explain your reasoning for doing that without victimising yourself or excuses but other than that yeaj
Guys, can we just take a moment and appreciate Flo for not just spreading awareness of these disgusting Gachatubers, but also saving the Gacha Community! 😊
IM SHOCKED- THAT DRUG SHOULD BE HITTING HARD AT THIS POINT-
Some tips to apologize (when in a situation like this)-
1. Take down the controversial video.
2. Make a genuine apology video. No sad music or anything like that tho just a genuine apology specially targeted to the people you triggered
3. Actually change your ways and learn from that situation
3
Flo is always so helpful
the guilt trip was so funny for some reason
I can't believe that she not only has the audacity to dramatize the video and attempt to guilt trip us, she also tried to say that she was "uneducated" and "didn't know 🍇 without the g was to be taken seriously". This is honestly a horrible apology and she needs to try again, this time sincerely and actually making an apology.
Honestly speaking,i don't trust apology videos for a reason that i have trust issues. Things like these are hard to believe especially in the internet so...
I can already tell the video is meant to be manipulative.
The audio is very telling of what the creator want the audience to feel.
I know I shoudl probably be complaining Abt her but ur voice is so damn pretty flo ❤❤
That video shouldnt be count as an "ApOlOgY" she shouldve had taken the video down and then apologize, yet she didnt. Not only that but this "ApOlOgY" feels like an animation meme, i feel like she kept the video up so that she could make an apology and gain extra views. Also, it doesnt feel like she regrets what she did, it feels like.. nothing actually.
My point is: She purposefully kept the video up, knowing shed have to make an apology, and that the apology would gain a LOT of views, so she decided to keep the video up.
!!!THESE ARE MY OPINIONS!!!
Lets not forget the good old ending now..
Shade shall fade.
I really feel bad for the one who made the apology, at least he apologizes, some people don"t apologize at all.
Can we take a moment to appreciate how satisfying flo's voice is? (*˘︶˘*).。*♡
her apology makes travis scott apology actually look genuine.
"guys........i..........am.............so...............sorry............."
Apologies about that sorry … but if a sorry is bad in any sense … that’s a bit of a worry. ❤
Well, I've gone over to Kuroku's channel, and it seems she had the "apology" video private [Someone sended a link in the comments, and it says that it was private, like Flo said in the pinned comment]. And heck, she even made a part 2 of the video she made.
The second I saw that thumbnail for myself I was outraged. I have no idea how someone could think these topics were fine to make in a video, and make it a trend? A "trend"? Are you serious?
This is one of the many reasons why the Gacha Community has a bad name to it, because of this. She should have just deleted the video and make a GENUINE apology goddammit, but no. I'm honestly upset about all this, all the drama going around because of other people's stupidity.
I won't go on to attack Kuroku, no, because that would make everything worse than it already is, so I'll stay silent on her channel. I'm glad that you're talking about this topic again, Flo, since it's bothering me on an extreme level, and I'm sure that many people would be triggered if they have come across her video as well.
And 2 weeks. 2 weeks? How could someone take THAT long? She just gave us the silent treatment and made a dramatic a** apology video after that. Wow. Slow clap for her, amiright guys? 👏.
All that said and done, I'm going to watch some videos about puppies and kittens to calm myself down. Ryo over and out.
[Sorry for the edits, there were things I didn't cover on this comment/spelling mistakes/things I wanted to clear up more. ]
The fact you put “I Want It That Way” was so funny lmao
I love the way you say thumbnail
" *tumbnail* "
She made a part 2 after “apologising”, smh💀
The genuine video(the apolagy video) this is very disrespectful too the viewers that actually got triggered, and yes kukoru does need too explain why she was gone for 2 weeks (I think) and putting the rain and that “sad” “dramatic” music in the background is already the start of a bad apolagy video, and the fact that she edited her character sad or whatever, in my honest opinion she was trying too make this abt herself and not the victims that got triggered, i watched that video before kuroku put the “TW” etc, I wasn’t triggered but I hate it when gacha tubers make something a meme even though it’s a real thing that needs too be stopped, I completely agree with you in this one 100%, but I just checked up on her channel and she deleted the meme(which is good) but also deleted the apology video, deleting the meme was probably the best thing kukoru could of done but deleting the apology video? Now that will most likely start an even bigger fight, yes the meme is gone and your probably like “But how could they get mad at kukoru than?” Well, the viewers that see this and saw the video when is was not taken down and haven’t seen the apology video will most likely get mad at kukoru for not putting an apology video, right? I personally think hat kukoru should make an actual serious apology video too the victims, this is extremely disrespectful it’s like kukoru was mocking apology videos, like I said I completely agree with you and most younger gacha tubers than kukoru are more mature than her, do apology videos without disrespectful anybody or mocking the community or just mocking apology videos in total, knowing this it is very unfortunate too know that some old gacha tubers are not mature and don’t set a good example for younger audiences etc, but yes I agree with you.
Honestly it's really manipulative what rhey did. Clearly they (most likely) aren't sorry and it shows. People need to learn how to own up to their misdemeanors and i hope they do one day.
there is something even worse in their channel which made me honestly rethink joining the gacha community.
On their description IT HAS A TW FOR SA, SEGGSUAL VIOLENCE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND LITERAL ABUSE. AND THEY'RE A FRICKING GACHA CHANNEL.
At that point just delete your channel or DELETE YOUR VIDEOS AND MAKE GOOD. ONES.
The gacha community just sometimes makes me so angry and sometimes even grossed out by it making abuse a trend, making sa a trend, those are actually bad and should not be made into trends. But FoR sOmE rEaSoN the people who make/do those trends cant get that though their thick skulls.
Apologizing because you are forced to is not going be a good one.
Anyways wow that is sad to see...
People before
Someone: I'm sorry!
Someone 2: It's okay!
People Nowadays
Someone: I'm sorry!
Someone 2: DISGRACEFUL!!! GO QUIT!!! HAHA!!!
It depends on what the person did a simple apology doesn’t make it better? And it’s the media apologizing over the internet makes it feel much more not genuine and then again in person I guess it could be easier to forgive someone.
Probs not related to the story
almost all my friends who are in the gacha community call everything offensive, racist and always says "TRIGGER WARNING" when telling a story and now i know why😭 When i watched this video it was all explained by just looking at the title😥
I also don't know TW so I just do friendly things until I know what it is but as her old fan I can confirm that views and subscribers are more important to her actually she wasn't really apologizing
Bro literally pulled out the ukulele 💀💀💀💀
HELP THE TELL ME WHY PARTS (u should've add the why tf u lying meme lol)
OMG UR OC IS SO FREAKING CUTE 🤩❤️
I do agree that she should try to make an apology as fast as possible, but maybe she took two weeks for specific reasons I could be wrong idk but that's what I think.
She basically guilt tripped and over-dramatized the entire thing. Took 2 weeks to apologize and went offline RANDOMLY, didn’t take the video down and honestly wasn’t clear enough with her words! Not to mention that she did not even dare to address what she did and why she did it, again as I said: GUILT TRIPPING! Honestly this apology is bullshit. 💀
She's such a manipulator... I feel sorry for people who fell in her trap...
Your character is so cute!
Honestly, off topic I LOVE YOUR ACCENT
The entire apology video is just one big guilt trip
"im to late to adjust this"
girl we have all the time you need🤨
WITH THAT APOLOGY WE MAKING IT WITH A UKULELE AND TEARS🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️