My ex called me "manchild" because I didn't have a job even though I was a full-time student. Granted, the real reason was that she cheated on me and needed an excuse to get out of the relationship. If I went to work full-time and didn't go to school, she would say I have no ambition and if I went to school and work full-time, she'd say I never had time for her. Ironically, she ended up dating an actual manchild who only dated her because he didn't want to to pay rent. He ghosted her. It was funny.
@@reeses_unicorn dont, she obviously caused this behavior. Albeit, it was probably in ignorance, and not knowing the damage she was doing, but obviously either doesnt notice its wrong now, or doesnt change it, since she was there and saw no problem with it
@@chieffanLJ27 if that had been my mom, she would have made me get in the kitchen and clean all that up if she found out I made that mess. She might have helped a bit, but the way she raised me she doesn't have the patience for this level of bullshit.
I like watching these so I can reflect upon my own actions to see how I stack up to these guys. It helps me identify my own character flaws so I can begin changing them.
It all boils down to being considerate and responsible. There's no magic trick, if you're upset about something insignificant, you deal with it, not complain about it endlessly.
same mate, the only way to overcome a problem is to first own up to it then make an effort to begin working on it. Something the antagonists in these videos NEVER do
*Sees title.* *"Let's see how bad I am."* *Watches video." Conclusion: there are areas I can improve on. But these manchildren are so much something else, I feel better about myself.
Same here. Do I hate mahsel? Yeah. Do I have a hard time taking care of myself? Absolutely. But I also try to get better and I hate the idea of becoming complacent.
Idk who needs to hear this but to anyone who feels like you’re being called out when looking at videos like this one, please don’t dwell on feeling guilty. Part of being a healthy adult is being able to self reflect and calling yourself out on your BS. Looking at any similar behaviors in others and cringing at yourself is a start to being responsible. :) You’re at least conscious (and should be willing) enough to do something about unhealthy behaviors while the ppl mentioned in these videos don’t see anything wrong with their horrendous behavior.
To me, there are two types of manchildren: The child-like ones and the child-ISH ones. Being childlike means having the enthusiasm and open imagination of a child while still balancing the responsibilities of adulthood. Being childish means having the stubbornness and mental capacity of a child, expecting everything to fall into your lap without putting in any work to make it happen.
@@turolretar What's that supposed to mean? I have responsibilities that I uphold on a regular basis. I have a car and phone that I pay monthly, I'd paid half my tuition for college (and in one case all) for three semesters, and I contribute to my fair share of groceries. And I just so happen to have more than enough money left over, which I occasionally use for collecting toys. What of it?
I dated one. Trust me, it's hell on earth. I almost married her and she left me because she wants to be a party girl, drink and be selfish... at 27. I used my engagement ring money to buy an xbox one.
that’s kinda my problem. i love my parents but all i ever did as a child was sit in my room and play video games, wasn’t even told to make my bed. it’s embarrassing to need to learn how to do basic adult shit just because you were never taught in the first place.
It's even worse when, after creating a person who never learned how to do stuff, they just want to kick him out of the house as soon as the kid is 18 and expect him to survive somehow
@@aaronwatkins98 I can relate, my mom did everything for me and then later on complained that I didn't do the things she told me to do, right after doing them herself, I never understood that. Now I'm too depressed and unmotivated to go on with my shitty life.
@@kira_15_R3D sometimes it's best to find a girlfriend/boyfriend who will help you grow. That's what happened in my case. It makes committing to doing your part in the relationship easier as you're likely to be more motivated to maintaining it.
As a woman, i'd like to add that if i'm in a relationship with you, you already won me over! I don't care if you're crazy about lego, or war hammers, or whatever some people see as ''immature''. I'd just like for you to help around the house, do stuff with me from time to time, share your interests, ect ect. Being mature doesn't mean giving up on things you love for the sake of adulthood. It means taking responsibilities and being a more grounded individual.
Dead on. I'm in a relationship right now, and I couldn't care less if she was immature as fuck as I love her. You can be as childish as you want, just be mature with your responsibilities.
A person who can (to an extent) manage and appropriately prioritize their responsibilities, relationships hobbies/interests and personal care/hygiene all while maintaining a good physical and mental state would make a responsible and successful individual to have as a partner despite any interests/hobbies they have that may be perceived as childish.
As I see it the insult never was about hobbies but rather actions. And mentalities and behaviours. Not about likes or dislikes. Manchild is an adult male who refuses to accept responsibility for their lives and take care of themselves or others and selfishly expects to be taken care of by everybody else, like a child would. A man with the carefree mentality of a child. Carefree in a bad way though because these peeps use and leech off of other people so they don’t have to take care of themselves.
@@cloakss because a lot of dudes who only play video games are manchildren. It stems from their parents letting them do whatever they want when they were a child. The mom cant bare to tell a child "no" so a child spend his entire day in front of a screen while she does his laundry and cleans his room and cooks. Thus...
Ok here goes. I'm a 35 years old nerd, that plays video games, I like giant robots, I have a nerd sleeve and I like all sorts of nerd things. BUT I do boxing, I'm fit and was doing EVERYTHING in the house (I built it, did all the chores outside and inside the house, was cooking, was doing the kids routine every evening, etc..). My ex says I'm a baby and she's the mature one, but she does nothing to live as an adult, she just looks like one
Fordon Greeman same holy fucking shit. I don’t feel ready for a relationship at all, not until I am capable of living like an actual human being with a real job.
Same. The focus for me is to get my own life together, as I can't provide for someone if I don't have my act together. Of course, I also don't feel self-pity or jealously towards other if I see others in a relationship and not me. Don't know why I went off this little tangent. Maybe the video has me thinking introspectively, I dunno.
I thinks it's best to set a life goal you want to achieve and work towards it, eventually you'll meet someone during that time and who knows it might vo well. Quality over quantity
AMAZING way to build independence & self sufficiency! (which is very attractive, helps ya not fall victim to codependency, & overall increases your chances of attaining a good road to your happiness). You go gurl, skip these dumbass mistakes the rest of us made!
And here I was thinking "oh boy... This is gonna be a tough self-hate minutes, but I might get some ideas on where I should work"... Now I found I'm like 15% manchild compared to those douches... There's stuff to work into tho.
The most entitled man child I ever knew actually died because he refused to listen to any doctor or nurse about his condition. He was under the impression he knew more than them and it led to his demise last summer 🤷
This is where my brother is headed. Pattern: mother's babying their sons and forcing their daughters to grow up as soon as they start elementary school
I think it depends on the kid too. My brother is like these guys while I, also a dude am living in a different country on my own now and while I'm not perfect, I manage to keep everything clean and can take care of myself. I think some people, men and women alike btw fail to mature, no matter what their parents do.
Before me, my girlfriend dated a manbaby for 6+ years. When we started dating, she would just automatically start cleaning my stuff for me and never expressing what *she* wanted to do. It took months to show her that I will clean up after myself and her opinion/feelings are just as valid as mine, and that I am often wrong, like anybody else. Today she called me on some of my bullshit (I haven't washed the outside of my car in 3 months) and to be honest I've never been happier.
How often do people even need to wash their cars though? Unless you’re driving through dirt a lot (or salt somehow) the rain takes care of it. I’d hope you’re just using a garden hose and some soap, otherwise you’re wasting money.
That man baby was cramping your gf and had her trained nicely. You go and take the second hand goods and ruin what good qualities she had. What a fucking idiot
Gets offended by simple questions Storms off or threatens to call things off Blames you for situations that he caused Constantly at odds with authorities Needlessly rude to women other than you Overly dependent on mother
"manchild" has practically meant just another word for calling someone a loser nowadays. It's too vague and broad and it creates only tirades on each other
I mean, most anime are intended exactly for manchildren and teenagers and you can't change that fact. It's just that that doesn't mean grown ups can't watch them.
Gotta call out this metion of part time work, again and again. You don't need a career, you don't need to work your life away... I proudly work part time. Have a house of my own which I built myself to save money and I have saving, too. My dream was never to have a career it was to work part time and spend that free time enjoying my life. 🤷♂️
as long as youre happy you do you. people find it weird when you arent always striving to be better. but the end goal in life is to be happy and enjoy it while it lasts.
@@sausagesausage thats cool too. for me personally, as long as bills are paid and i can play volleyball my life is set atm. ill change if i need/want too, but i dont plan to do too much. simplicity is one of the best catalysts for happiness.
Stop trying to give mental disorders to people who literally just didnt get an ass beating as a child and was spoiled by mommy instead. For fucks sake not every asshole needs help and not every asshole needs sympathy, and not every asshole deserves rehab or meds. 99% of these jerkwads are mommas boys who have zero experience with the real world, were treated like princes or princesses by their parents, and never had to worry about who they were turning into or what they were going to do with their life because they were always taken care of. Not narcissism, not socipathy, not psychopathy. Just a bunch of moronic self entitled losers who never grew up and were good at making people feel sorry for them.
@@feralmagick7177 I dont think you know what narcissistic personality disorder is. Thats a very angry paragraph by the way. Might want to think about why you reacted that way.
yep, my sister's ex was always making her buy him stuff and yelling at her when she said no, and one time she asked him to buy her taco bell and he laughed. i was there, i told him off and he threw a tantrum lol
As someone who has a hard time managing hygiene, and jobless at 19 , can't help but empathize a little. The world is not black and white, but if they can't manage themselves, probably best they shouldn't be in a relationship. I literally don't think I could shower everyday for someone at this point. Or take care of my room, let alone a partner
"He wants to marry into money" "He wants his wife to stay at home and take care of their 5-8 kids" How the hell is he supposed to "marry into money" if she has the time to raise even 3+ kids "by herself"?!?!
I once played something like 20-30 hours on pc during high school. Now work as real estate agent 50 h per week and sometimes enjoy a few hours during sunday. Never had a problem to switch, still I can play games. Those manchild behaviours I see are mostly caused by a few games. Usually the more addictive and raging ones: aka LoL, dota, war thunder... sometimes I feel like videogames are considered life but in reality are just something there. You don't progress, they don't pay you
@Rocky Ting well bruh, video games is just a hobby. It's easy to replace video games with any hobby out there as an excuse to not take responsibility or whatever. All you need to notice is the obsession with anything.
beverly ledbetter, yeah. I play games and watch anime in my free time. Still maintains a job and is an AB student. Not everyone who enjoys something is immature
It's interesting that a few of the man-children mentioned were actually the women's boyfriends or fiances. Even if you "get the girl" in the beginning with looks or charm or whatever, she'll eventually see you for who you really are. So, work on yourself and hold yourself to a high standard - not just for them but also for yourself.
I stan the woman who refused to do dishes and used paper and plastic dishes until he’d wash them. Even thought his mom did, I aspire to be you in how stubborn I am in that’s stuff. 🙏🏼❤️✨
Please dont aspire to replicate childish passive aggressive behavior. Adults make ultimatums, they dont inconvenience themselves in some kind of circular logic 5d chess move attempt at punishing another person.
I see a few similarities between both sexes when it comes to these types: No accountability Sense of entitlement Dirty room Feels a need to hate on things Tantrums Mother is probably a Karen (and possibly grew up fatherless) Feels the need to say “I’m a nice person” Depends on several people to “just get by”, and never appreciates it I’ll admit I’ve violated a few of these over the years.
@@aegiseurobeat4559 Clean your room! Clean your room for a month and everything else will start to fall into place. You just gotta start somewhere man, you know. _he says in his best Jordan Peterson impression_ But seriously. The dude does have a point. I'm even known to make my bed after getting out of it theses days :/
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I have a rule of thumb for identifying manchildren: Compare their lives to that of Christine Weston Chandler... and substract points for every similarity.
Having a messy apartment shouldn't be seen as a "red flag". I was depressed some years ago, and I had a hard time executing simple tasks such as cleaning. However, that mindset is a thing of the past for me, and now I'm helping a friend to get through a similar phase. He's a really likable guy, but he suffers from depression and cleaning his house is a difficult task for him. Now, instead of me telling him to man up and sort himself out, I have assisted him by doing the dishes and other household chores such as cleaning once in a while. As time have passed he slowly adjusted mentally by cleaning without my help and it makes me so happy for him.
The advice I got was "if you ask someone for help with something that's fine, but actually learn so you won't need to bother someone when it happens again" Other than that, yeah these are some low bars dude
The main advice you need in relationships is listening and communication. Like, actual listening, like the first thought in your head should be “what would happen in this situation if I’m wrong” even if you ‘know’ you’re right. You might be right, but now you’re hearing your partner as a true partner in working towards the same goal and not a debate opponent. Chores, sex, money, etc.-should all work more or less. Also include listening to/communication with yourself-pay attention to what feels right, and especially what feels wrong.
I feel anxious after this video because I feel I've *already* started becoming this type of guy. Definitely one of those things that makes you look around and think/say "oh my fucking god, am I one of those people?!"
Awareness means there’s hope my dude. Most of these guys sound like they either have no desire to change or aren’t aware of the fact that they’re being selfish and immature. I’m slowly climbing out of the hole myself, trust me
Glad I had my own brother as the embodiment of those red flags and not actually dated one. Having to raise yourself because your brother that's 15 years older than you needs the attention is great.
frfr, my brother is 10 years older than me but he can't even wake up by himself for his frickin job, and when we don't wake him up, he whines and blames us
Same deal with me. I like my brother, honestly I do, but he’s the embodiment of non-productivity and never taking risks. He just wants to live comfortably in his room playing video games for the rest of his life. He works a part time job, which is fine, but he has basically no hours and needed so much support from my family just to get to that point. I have to wake up HIM in the mornings.
My mom dated a manchild from the time I was 7 until I was 14. Here are some red flags I've learned from experience: -Wants a second mom, not a partner. It's your job to take care of him. -Treats children like competition and resents them for their mother's love. -Too scared to discuss issues he's having with the relationship; cheats instead. -"Justifies" his manchild-ness with self-pity; his brothers were mean and his dad was never there, so he can't possibly pull his own weight! -Has no real opinions of his own; all of his political/social/economic/philosophical views came from mommy.
I came in here expecting stuff like "plays videogames" but in acutally it's just basic adult responsibilities. smh are there really people like this out there.
@Karl-Heinz Erlenhain Eh, I'm not sure that I'd necessarily say that it's always a result of them being spoiled. In my case, my mom was just an abusive control freak who raised me to be an incompetent piece of shit so that I would be dependent on her.
@Karl-Heinz Erlenhain Guess who was taught for generations to be under "protection" of the other gender? Yep, women. Don't work, don't vote, sit home, don't study. Of course for a woman to be a -child is more acceptable. Is it good? Nah fam. But this shit didn't appear out of nowhere.
@@steelbear2063 probably because only men went to war back then (although, their are exceptions). Teaching women that they're weaker than men has always been wrong, I always imagine telling a little girl to her face that she'll never be strong enough, and it always no matter what.
My ex gf was like this. Whenever things didn't go her way she'd do everything in her power to make the day as miserable as possible for everyone involved. So annoying
My ex legit broke up with me because she did some fuck shit to our friend group and I told said friends what she did cause if friends found out, they would've kicked her ass.
your 8 year old cousin also has a mom/dad or both commanding them and forcing structure into their lives. lets see how they function when left to their own devices
My father is gonna be 70 next year and he's a manchild. I was one until almost about 28-29. It's a complete transformation you have to make, like letting the old you die and a new one be born.
@@rahul17023 Test tubes aren't going to be big enough, bruv. If i desperately need to pee, your pal better bring the biggest erlenmeyer he can get his hands on or it's gonna be a mess all over the workstation xD
Yeah, you're forbidden from liking the same things you liked as a child, even for nostalgic value... Keep in mind I'm being sarcastic, but they are not.
It's not about liking or playing video games. Almost every millennial (male and female) likes or plays video games. It's about working age adults who either dont work and play video games all day while leeching off family or partners, or those who have a crappy job who can do better but decide to spend all of their days off playing video games and never try to be something better. It's more of the mentality of choosing unproductive activities like video games over something like a better job and a better life. It's just the stagnant lifestyle all manbabies have and typically their choice of unproductive lifestyle involves playing videogames all day. I would point this out as a correlation and not a causation.
@@christiaanstephan4387 I don't want to do premarital Sex because I have a small Penis(Got a Girl Interested in me and willing to go to my house to "Netflix and Chill but I went Vague in Her to cancel it out because of my size problem) and I want to break that down at some point to my partner (dating phase) so She can decide If she can accept that part of Me or would fuck off, idk man.
@Brit Sehnsucht The failure to ever get yourself off the ground, basically being a total loser from the get go and never having anything worthwhile to maintain
I was eating at a Chinese restaurant with my family. My sister's ex-boyfriend is very picky with food... to the point where he can eat meat, but can't have bones in the meat. I'm fine with picky eaters but what shocked me was that my sister put some meat (with bones) to his plate and then pulled the bones out herself so he could eat the meat. He was 26 at that time and older than me. Wtf, it felt like watching a mom taking care of her kid.
Picky eaters are also mega man baby things. It’s fine to dislike certain food, I for example cannot stand sweet things. Sugary desserts, drinks etc, disgusting. I’d rather cheese and coffee for dessert. But it’s how you react to that stuff, like you said, getting your surrogate mommy to cut your food, man baby
It is really interesting, I've involuntary do it with some stuff before, in hindsight it has to do with a bigger problem with the person and the insecurities. But yeah, its funny how ppl from all over the world have similar behaviors
My last ex did that. He started to play League because of me. Quited League because "he got bored of it" miraculously 2 days after our breakup. Started League again because his new girl plays it too. Now he wants to quit again - and that's how I know there's a relationship issue there, confirmed by other signs.
I like to fake hate it while people are around and slowly "start" to like it because usually they end up happy that "I got around to liking it" I dunno if that's toxic or not, but in my experience my friends have appeared happier whenever I "come around" to liking something they do (usually with games or shows)
Ohhh here’s my list: 1. He plays video games late into the night, then doesn’t go to work/school/take care of responsibilities the next day because he needs to sleep in until 4 PM. Because he played video games until 6 AM 2. He lives with his parents still or his apartment is a MESS. And when I say a mess, I mean he has trash cans overflowing with trash that smells, he doesn’t have clean clothes and leaves dirty clothes all about the apartment, he doesn’t have furniture like a couch and bookshelves so he sits on the floor and leaves his tv on the ground. 3. He doesn’t listen to advice about how to better himself, and has an excuse for EVERYTHING if you call him out on BS 4. He treats his mother or sisters poorly. However a man treats his female family members is how he’ll treat you one day
Toxic traits can take some time to really get on someone's nerve. No one will show you their true colors on the first weeks of relationship, those things are a slow burn get it? At first it's "ok he's a bit messy but i still love him", than it's "he's super messy, but at least he's not X" and than "he's the worst." Sometimes the men in question isn't the worst when the relationship starts, but they end up becoming "too relaxed" as the relationship goes on. Sometimes love may blind someone from the obvious solutions, and make them stuck on a toxic relationship, but can we honestly blame the girls for having bad dates that tend to last from 1~3 months at best? ( in my experience, those relationships are really short lived ). Tldr: those stuff take time to show, the relationship tends to end when it becomes too much, hence why most girls call the partners "exs".
i think every adult who is labeled "childish" does similar things - they don't try to change bad habits, see another perspective, nor do they take responsibility for their mistakes. Man or woman, doesn't matter. Also, children are initially seen as children because of their playfulness and innocent nature. They turn into jerks (tantrums etc) when their parents do not teach them discipline, the consequences for being an idiot, and self care. So, it's more of a grown up asshole versus a man or woman child, if we are going to be accurate here.
The last couple years I wait for them to pile up and then do them all at once while listening to music. It’s kind of fun and takes less time and energy
@@sam.lipchutz yep i do this too, kind of a 'cleaning game' where u make steps or an order of things to do. 'where is waldo' but instead of waldo u need to pick out all the laundry, then the trash, then the dishes. i learned it from my brother who has adhd and he gets absolutely nothing done if not for these types of tricks
Tbh I'd be happy she even plays games. I live in a really old school family, and it's kind of seen as something for loosers. It's only in the past year I've come to realise it's as widely accepted as it is
@@basiert He said if his girlfriend suggested a game, he'd share it with her. *His girlfriend.* How can you simp for someone you're already in a relationship with?
I'm just gonna assume these guys are either extroverts or good looking because holy crap if they can get a girlfriend with that crappy a personality....
@@LemonRush7777 Yeah but he has a point. I've known girls IRL who have literally carried on dating guys who treat them like crap because he's tall / hot, or say things like "well he doesn't have a job and just sits around playing video games but he's really tall and he's cut, so" in regards to a guy they've started seeing.
We live in a society 😞 jk it's actually common in movies etc for women to date man children and douchey guys and somehow be able to change him and be happy if you become a second mom, I had a lot of stuff to conciously unlearn because I used to be like "BuT I cAN FiX hiM" ... Yea that wasn't fun 😅🤣
@@anoni6108 thank you! That's just what I'm struggling with. I've tried to cut any contact with him but now he starts literally begging for attention. But he let me down like 3 or 4 times and I'm sure he's just a waste of energy. I can't be too strict yet though, since we'll have to work together for several group projects in August and November. It's become really difficult and draining.. Any advice? Thanks
The menstrual cycle one is confusing to me. Me and my partner had been dating a few weeks and one day she asks me to get her feminine products after work. I got a couple weird looks going into the aisle but that was really all that happened I don't feel uncomfortable, I don't feel disgusted I'm just doing what I need to do for the woman I love because that's what you do. I also bought her some ice cream :)
Trust me, you are a legend! Still don't know why people look at guys wierdly this day and age when grabbing feminine products? Its clear its for a menstrating woman that you care for 🤣
I work a part time job, mostly because i like to relax and have time for myself, working a full time job for months that kept forcing mandatory overtime made me really hate myself, and my life, constantly wondering if all i'm ever gonna do, is work only, to maintain a life that i could not even live, because once i get home, it's sleep, to wake up, get ready for work, repeat. All for what? a possible week of vacation to blow all that extra money on because i wouldnt otherwise be able to enjoy it? It drove me to having nearly vivid dreams of offing myself, making me think more and more about it as the days went by. The switch to part time was a breath of fresh air by comparison, i may not have that much money, but every dime i spend is a dime i actually use and enjoy after paying my bills. The option to work extra hours on MY decision and not being forced into it feels like i have more control over my life, and since i dont have huge responsibilities in my life yet, i can live fine like this. Of course, if i would have commited a mistake in my life like having a girl pregnant and having to deal with a child, of course i would obviously be more responsible, and sacrifice some of my comfort and need for me time in order to keep another life alive and well, but i do not have that, and honestly, i do not think i could do well with that, at least not on my own. Think of it as being a manchild or not, but i just want to enjoy what little i can from this dumb life, and i rather not drown myself back with dark thoughts over something like that ever again.
A lot of things they listed could be completely mature rational choices in different contexts imo, and what you're doing specifically seems completely reasonable
Yeah I was bothered by seeing "works a minimum wage part time job" in this video a couple of times. It's perfectly fine to value time with family and hobbies more than making as much money as possible imo.
honestly, there is nothing bad with having a part time job. what the redditors in this video don't know, is that in some cases, it's a deliberate, mature choice didn't like all too much how having a part time job to them automatically meant something bad, but then again i don't care too much
This dude preach 🙌🙌👏👏 but in all honesty yeah I'm in the same situation I pay my own bills take care of my mother since she can't afford everything and still find time for myself nothing wrong with doing you but if it effects the ones you have relationships with you need to change or leave them simple af
I thought I was a manchild. Lived with my mom until recently (25), and some of my hobbies include watching anime/tokusatsu, casually playing video games, building models of cool anime robots, and collecting action figures. And I'm still figuring out a lot of things about adult/independent living. But when I'm paying for those video games, toys, etc. with my own salaried job, actually know how to cook, and do fucking chores without waiting for mommy to do them for me, listening to these made me feel a lot better about myself. I always thought these were just things you were supposed to learn in your teens.
A lot of dudes still wont cook or clean because mommy never taught them to so they assume to women in their life will just... keep them alive forever. A lot of comments seem to be from dudes who think just like nerdy shit makes you a man baby and it's so weird to me. I spend so much time surrounded by other nerd girls I assure yall we exist. And we definitely dont wanna date dudes who want us to turn off our video game so they can watch sports.
Oh trust me, I know. I have friends who are nerd girls who will go in deep about the lore of their favorite video games and comics and shit. But I think the reason a lot of guys have this mindset about nerd shit being "manbaby" stuff is probably just baggage from having been bullied about it in school back in the day. (Shit like "you're 12 and you still watch cartoons/read comics? That's GAY.") I'll admit I'm guilty of having baggage myself at times, but I'm trying to be better about that. I don't judge people for what they like, only how they go about it. I think it's shitty to judge someone *just* for liking comics/anime/cartoons/video games into adulthood. But if they're an adult and that's the *only* thing they can have a remotely deep conversation about, then yeah there's something wrong there.
I honestly don't know what's so hard about cooking? You put shit in a pan with some oil and seasoning and you keep tossing it till it's ready. Don't turn the fire up to much, don't use to little... It's not going to get you a Michelin star, but at least you wont starve...
I try to clean up after I make food and have ate it but occasionally it becomes difficult to climb over the mountain of dishes and pans my brother left there... I usually eat after everyone else... for confidence reasons... most of the time my dinner time just becomes me losing my appetite and not eating due to stressing about the pile of dishes he's left there and I wash them all and still not eat...
Almost married one too. He also hated everything i thought was cool. Just always bashed everything and made me feel like crap. He was always depressed but he wouldnt do anything about it even though i tried my best to help him. I had to always go over to his house because he refused to come over to my house. Id even bring over breakfast/lunch for him. Cant believe i almost married him 😅 He knocked up his now gf and theyre getting married.
Reddit talking about being a manchild with no self awareness is peak Internet but, if you feel called out by any of this just know there's always time to change and become a better person. If you can cringe at something you did years ago, it shows change and growth from that mindset. Stay strong Kings and have a great day.
Sometimes we need help being more self aware through how someone else sees it and it’s not a bad thing. Part of being a healthy adult is being able to self reflect and changing unhealthy behaviors at least! :) You can do that while the ppl mentioned in this video...can’t seem to do that. Yikes
If his mom says she's shocked that you're still able to keep sane after a few months dating him, run. She has a reason. Unless you know she's crazy, trust what she's dealt with when it comes to him.
if you've already been with him for a few months and need somebody else to tell you what your opinion of him should be after that long, you aren't worth any man's time, because you are clearly gullible and incapable of forming your own opinions
Sounds like my POS father as well, thankfully I severed all ties with him years ago. He had the nice guy facade, until something happened that didn't go his way, had a hair-trigger temper, would frequently spend money on himself, while being stingy as hell with me, my siblings and even his wife. I mean, he goes and buys what was considered a high-end PC for himself at the time, then upgrades it further, but when it came to his own kids, we just got a second-hand PS1 and a ton of pirated games. He would frequently spend a lot money on himself, meaning necessities like food and such were the bare minimum to last the week, sometimes they weren't even enough to last, so my mother would need to pawn her jewelry quite a few times. He never did any housework, always left it to my mother, never cooked, and bathed maybe once every two weeks, so he stank quite often. He wasn't above hitting his kids either, which is what caused my mother to divorce him, if a person doesn't dump/divorce someone after seeing them punch their own daughter in the face for accidentally dropping a cheap dinner plate, there's something wrong. Of course, when the divorce happened, the first person he complained to was his mother, who believed every lie that came out of his mouth. He was an absolute manchild through and through, I pity his current wife, if they're even still married.
Yep same =/ He'd pretend to be father of the year in public, but in private used to slap my sister and I around. I remember being 12 or 13 and finally reaching a breaking point, so I mustered all my courage and wrote him a letter. I pointed out that I thought what he was doing was wrong and tried to explain how it made me feel, but that I understood. I apologized for anything I'd done to upset him and promised that I would try to help out more and not be a burden. I slipped it under his bedroom door and ran back to my room. He burst into my room a little later, threw the letter in my face and basically said 'what is this shit?'
What is entitlement these days it’s so sad. Parents who don’t know how to raise children keep their offspring as children not adults. I’m sure all of you can self preserve until the time comes for official independence but for now I wish you all the best. And when y’all grow up I’m sure y’all will become great parents who will have learned what not to do as a parent from experience.
Honestly, if you can cook, clean, and discuss your feelings without screaming and throwing things you're fine. it's totally on you if you can't do those things. Some people have trouble finding employment and/or moving out due to reasons outside of their control. The recession isn't making you sit in garbage while eating hot dogs.
Yeah, our culture has a stigma about people loving at their folks home into adulthood. It’s never been an issue for me, I moved out early, but I’ve had to tell off older folks at work for dogging on the young guys who live with their folks. It’s a different time and that full time job may not pay the rent unless you have a bunch of room mates.
@@danielrobinson7872 You're right. Just think about the 25 year old guy who made his mom drive 4 hours to do his dishes while he just sat there... Now that is an extreme lack of self-awareness.
Some of these are actually manchildren traits, but some others reek of "I'm a 40 yo single cat lady complaining about men because I'm angry nobody likes me"
"Waaaah I asked him if we were on a date and he said no, waaaaah he is a manchildren!" No, that's not what a manchildren is. And if you think so, then you are a 40yo single cat woman yourself
I think I just realized how much of a man-child I really am. I think I'm improving though. 08:01 was pretty much my entire early 20's and I wish I didn't waste it away like that. Everything takes time and nothing is easy. That's just life. Took me more time to realise that than I needed. I'd been in constant depression for years until I saw things clearly. I think most manchildren were adolescents who didn't grow out of their adolescence because they were too afraid to take risks or do something completely out of their comfort zone. They create an igloo of a false sense of self-entitlement because they're too desperate to face their fears and take responsibility for their mistakes. RESPONSIBILITY! They've never really taken any. And when they're compelled to take take one(which they fuck up, due to lack of experience) they become traumatized and get stuck in a rut because they just realised that life is so much more stranger than what they thought it would have been. Part of this also depends on type of upbringing. Either a strict upper middle class or upper class household where you're not the eldest son/daughter would do this to you. And I also need a reality check from time to time to make me realise that I'm not living inside my head but out in the real world.
Kill the people who deserve to die its destiny it will feel good trust me bringing justice in the streets it feels good dude really come with us join us tell us ur area we can help u with stuff that u may love and u would love to use it trust me u have to kill those people if someone is stealing u have to kill him thats justice start from lower level then assassinate bigger people people who are in power....u must do it.Kill And become one of us and fight for whats right many will fall many will rise and world will change.in the upcoming years its gonna change alot
“Eats like a 12 year old” That’s not a sign of a man child that’s just a sign of a person who is feeling depressed and wants a taste of home or just doesn’t know how to cook or doesn’t feel like it
You described a depressed person. Also, not cleaning properly can be another trait of a depressed person. The thing is, it's not that hard to distinguish a manchild from someone depressed.
ok i'm totally guilty of being manchild, but after this video i see a shining light of hope from the far end of my crackhouse row home. I might be a blame-shifting, responsibility-shirking narcissist, but at least i clean the house and do my laundry and pay my bills. and i cook my ass off, them pancakes in my user pic didn't make themselves god dammit. that's my own recipe, i certainly did NOT steal it from alton brown.
So how has the shining light been the past 3 months? Still a manchild? You didn't tell us in what way you are a manchild, only in what way you are not. Care to share?
Yeah I have an inability to hold a conversation unless it's on very few specific topics. I rarely ever talk to anyone, let alone make vocal sounds. I hate small talk. When I'm being spoken to, I want to reply with something equivalent to break it out of Small talk, but I just awkwardly smile and nod Idk what I'm supposed to say or how I'm supposed to say it. I see no reason to answer most things, mostly bcuz I don't like talking to people, but also bcuz I have nothing to say and/or talk about
>watches video
>immediately starts doing laundry/picking up room
after watching incel/manchild/soyboy videos i od this
Glad I did the dishes and cleaned my room recently lmao.
After watching this video: I am ultimate Man
Broblab same
@exodus K didnt have a reason. Video just made me look around and go "ew"
My ex called me "manchild" because I didn't have a job even though I was a full-time student. Granted, the real reason was that she cheated on me and needed an excuse to get out of the relationship. If I went to work full-time and didn't go to school, she would say I have no ambition and if I went to school and work full-time, she'd say I never had time for her.
Ironically, she ended up dating an actual manchild who only dated her because he didn't want to to pay rent. He ghosted her. It was funny.
In other words, she was a man child herself. Irony.
KillerSkullX but everyone is not you everyone doesn’t have the same tolerance as you... he is a FULL TIME STUDENT leave the person alone
KillerSkullX leave him alone he doesn’t need a job he has other things going on dingus
That's basically getting mad at you for prioritizing your education (like you should). She sounds like a selfish bitch.
@@stoic7974 Hey, WOMANCHILD. Don't misgender her lol
"Eating like a 12-year-old."
**sad lunchable noises**
Man lunchables were awesome when I was in school.
Lunchables are still the superior snack choice.
Those lunchables turn into hungry man dinners lmao
Fuck em if she dont like mac and cheese then we cant be a thing
This comment got me dying!!!! 😂 p.s. i will eat lunchables until im old and gray.
Also just wanted to point this out, manchild doesn't mean nerdy/geeky. It means narcissist and lazy.
actually most real men i know are nerds / geeks
Nothing wrong with being nerdy or geeky.
My husband is a bit of a manchild most likely because he has Asperger’s and some of his executive functioning is non-existent.
@@anotherplanet5828 get him a script for dexedrine
One thing to be child like and have lots of toys
Another thing to be irresponsible and lazy.
I was scared about being a manchild until I realized I was a child
Me too
Boychild
childchild
If youre a child and youre a MANchild. Does that make you more mature?
Yeah i just realized that
Reddit talking about "manchildren" is peak irony
yes
Lol
Dem 14 years old reddit users be acting like they're 35
@@Team_Slacker From my experience, it's usually the other way around on reddit.
@@johnsmith361 redditors be redditors, I see mostly manchilds bullying eachother there, that's my experience.
The one who had his mom drive 4 hours to do 30+ days worth of dishes physically ended my life.
Kathleen Tatman rip in pieces.
I feel bad for his mother. ._. I really do.
Don't forget the additional $75 dollars for the "lease". Ugh.
@@reeses_unicorn dont, she obviously caused this behavior. Albeit, it was probably in ignorance, and not knowing the damage she was doing, but obviously either doesnt notice its wrong now, or doesnt change it, since she was there and saw no problem with it
@@chieffanLJ27 if that had been my mom, she would have made me get in the kitchen and clean all that up if she found out I made that mess. She might have helped a bit, but the way she raised me she doesn't have the patience for this level of bullshit.
I like watching these so I can reflect upon my own actions to see how I stack up to these guys. It helps me identify my own character flaws so I can begin changing them.
Same
It all boils down to being considerate and responsible. There's no magic trick, if you're upset about something insignificant, you deal with it, not complain about it endlessly.
same mate, the only way to overcome a problem is to first own up to it then make an effort to begin working on it. Something the antagonists in these videos NEVER do
Thats how its done bud, im changing some stuff with myself after this video too. Mostly on how to do more handywork 😅
Cheers king
*Sees title.*
*"Let's see how bad I am."*
*Watches video."
Conclusion: there are areas I can improve on. But these manchildren are so much something else, I feel better about myself.
Same
YES
Same, but I've got time to improve. Actually, I'll need the time.
You can't be perfect. Still great to see ppl trying to improve
Same here. Do I hate mahsel? Yeah. Do I have a hard time taking care of myself? Absolutely. But I also try to get better and I hate the idea of becoming complacent.
Bruh
If you're doing that you already have a good head start in life. Keep it up 👍
You shouldn't be getting advice coming from reddit to be honest.
@@omnislash1221 my thoughts. he should not take them seriously.
@@omnislash1221 listen to omni slash these videos are for entertainment not advice
Never listen to a woman tell you how to be a man.they are not equipped with the knowledge to do so.
Idk who needs to hear this but to anyone who feels like you’re being called out when looking at videos like this one, please don’t dwell on feeling guilty. Part of being a healthy adult is being able to self reflect and calling yourself out on your BS. Looking at any similar behaviors in others and cringing at yourself is a start to being responsible. :) You’re at least conscious (and should be willing) enough to do something about unhealthy behaviors while the ppl mentioned in these videos don’t see anything wrong with their horrendous behavior.
thx bro
what a nice comment
Good point bro
if you're atleast 25 and act this way, you should be ashamed tbh
@@CaptainKie1 if you are X then you should feel Y
Fuck off and read the original comment
To me, there are two types of manchildren: The child-like ones and the child-ISH ones. Being childlike means having the enthusiasm and open imagination of a child while still balancing the responsibilities of adulthood. Being childish means having the stubbornness and mental capacity of a child, expecting everything to fall into your lap without putting in any work to make it happen.
i'm %110 childlike, but i pitch in, i have a job, i do my part, these people are just gross
I think child-like men aren't manchildren to begin with! Their interests are more innocent, that's all
That makes me feel better lol.
Dude thats your cope, it’s like saying: “yes, I don’t deny I’m a manchild, but at least I’m the good type”, please xD
@@turolretar What's that supposed to mean? I have responsibilities that I uphold on a regular basis. I have a car and phone that I pay monthly, I'd paid half my tuition for college (and in one case all) for three semesters, and I contribute to my fair share of groceries. And I just so happen to have more than enough money left over, which I occasionally use for collecting toys. What of it?
Now do one for the *womenchildren* too.
Trust me, they exist.
I think they're actually a lot more common than most people think. Seriously, they're everywhere. I dated one..
@@yuri7885 yeah, they are not at all uncommon.
I dated one. Trust me, it's hell on earth. I almost married her and she left me because she wants to be a party girl, drink and be selfish... at 27. I used my engagement ring money to buy an xbox one.
@@arkthompson9869 Good choice
Yeah I known a few myself
after watching this i've come to the conclusion that often times helicopter parenting is the cause of manchildren being a thing.
that’s kinda my problem. i love my parents but all i ever did as a child was sit in my room and play video games, wasn’t even told to make my bed. it’s embarrassing to need to learn how to do basic adult shit just because you were never taught in the first place.
@@aaronwatkins98 Same here, and the worst part is that some helicopter parents (at least in my case) are narcissistic bullies
It's even worse when, after creating a person who never learned how to do stuff, they just want to kick him out of the house as soon as the kid is 18 and expect him to survive somehow
@@aaronwatkins98
I can relate, my mom did everything for me and then later on complained that I didn't do the things she told me to do, right after doing them herself, I never understood that.
Now I'm too depressed and unmotivated to go on with my shitty life.
@@kira_15_R3D sometimes it's best to find a girlfriend/boyfriend who will help you grow. That's what happened in my case. It makes committing to doing your part in the relationship easier as you're likely to be more motivated to maintaining it.
When he has an anime girl as profile picture.
_wait_
I'm not a man so gg
@narek his smug smuggness that is looking down on me smugly. I just feel it. His distain! Damn you, Kirby, you smug bastard!
@@SwanTeeth BRUH
Phew. Good thing I have a lizard cropped from a R34 image.
_hol up_
As a woman, i'd like to add that if i'm in a relationship with you, you already won me over! I don't care if you're crazy about lego, or war hammers, or whatever some people see as ''immature''. I'd just like for you to help around the house, do stuff with me from time to time, share your interests, ect ect. Being mature doesn't mean giving up on things you love for the sake of adulthood. It means taking responsibilities and being a more grounded individual.
Dead on. I'm in a relationship right now, and I couldn't care less if she was immature as fuck as I love her. You can be as childish as you want, just be mature with your responsibilities.
See thats the part I was trying to understand how did they get in these relationships anyway 😂
@@deana6072 As another man said. The power of looks.
A person who can (to an extent) manage and appropriately prioritize their responsibilities, relationships hobbies/interests and personal care/hygiene all while maintaining a good physical and mental state would make a responsible and successful individual to have as a partner despite any interests/hobbies they have that may be perceived as childish.
@@AmbientsonarVA I guess that's true, but personally i can't even do all that tbh, so it'll be kinda unfair to expect that from someone else 🤷♀
To all manchildren, thank you for keeping the bar low for the rest of us, keep fighting the good fight
Tru tru
Thank you all!
Omg 😂
At first I thought this was an insult lol
@Gungi Gangigaga Did a 2 year old pick your username?
i like how the text to speech says “man-bebbie”
Toaster Baff Beh beh
Babby
Toaster Baff this is how the Zefrank _do_
For a moment I thought you typed “man-bibble” 😂💀
MANBUBBI
Glad this isn't just bashing mens choice of hobbies.
TurkeySlapper only a portion of it
As I see it the insult never was about hobbies but rather actions. And mentalities and behaviours. Not about likes or dislikes. Manchild is an adult male who refuses to accept responsibility for their lives and take care of themselves or others and selfishly expects to be taken care of by everybody else, like a child would. A man with the carefree mentality of a child. Carefree in a bad way though because these peeps use and leech off of other people so they don’t have to take care of themselves.
Why would it be...
chaotic_gabby people use the term “man child” when people talk about guys who like anime or video games.
@@cloakss because a lot of dudes who only play video games are manchildren. It stems from their parents letting them do whatever they want when they were a child. The mom cant bare to tell a child "no" so a child spend his entire day in front of a screen while she does his laundry and cleans his room and cooks. Thus...
Ok here goes. I'm a 35 years old nerd, that plays video games, I like giant robots, I have a nerd sleeve and I like all sorts of nerd things. BUT I do boxing, I'm fit and was doing EVERYTHING in the house (I built it, did all the chores outside and inside the house, was cooking, was doing the kids routine every evening, etc..). My ex says I'm a baby and she's the mature one, but she does nothing to live as an adult, she just looks like one
lmao good for you man, guess your ex is just blind
Before Video: I'm probably a man-child so let's see some advice and improve
After Video: Wait. Am I... Mature?
TheBigAyland me too! I was totally ready to take notes and hate myself, then I was like “ohh, this is a sign I’m doing something right.”
Rejoice!! We're all better humans
@@Berries20 Huzzah!!!
Sheiiiiittt
@@Berries20 When you're garbage, but you're recyclable
This is why I'm avoiding dating until I can pick myself up and live independently without the need of companionship.
Just avoid it all together, if you ever want kids just adopt some... save yourself a great amount of hassle.
Fordon Greeman same holy fucking shit. I don’t feel ready for a relationship at all, not until I am capable of living like an actual human being with a real job.
Same. The focus for me is to get my own life together, as I can't provide for someone if I don't have my act together. Of course, I also don't feel self-pity or jealously towards other if I see others in a relationship and not me. Don't know why I went off this little tangent. Maybe the video has me thinking introspectively, I dunno.
I thinks it's best to set a life goal you want to achieve and work towards it, eventually you'll meet someone during that time and who knows it might vo well. Quality over quantity
AMAZING way to build independence & self sufficiency! (which is very attractive, helps ya not fall victim to codependency, & overall increases your chances of attaining a good road to your happiness).
You go gurl, skip these dumbass mistakes the rest of us made!
And here I was thinking "oh boy... This is gonna be a tough self-hate minutes, but I might get some ideas on where I should work"... Now I found I'm like 15% manchild compared to those douches... There's stuff to work into tho.
That's pretty much the exact same conclusion I came to. Some room for improvement, but compared to these examples, already a step above.
That's why I clicked the video, good on you for bettering yourself become the man you want to be
Cole Westin wq
I'm a piece of shit and I'm still better than these guys
Self-awareness is always good
The most entitled man child I ever knew actually died because he refused to listen to any doctor or nurse about his condition. He was under the impression he knew more than them and it led to his demise last summer 🤷
Did he have cancer or something?
@@nope6908 nope he had epilepsy and refused to stop drinking, wouldn't take his meds, etc. Truly sad. What a waste
@@theshannan4967 at least he died doing what he loved🤷♂️
@@nope6908 lmao
@@theshannan4967 Sounds like he was an alcoholic if anything
This is where my brother is headed. Pattern: mother's babying their sons and forcing their daughters to grow up as soon as they start elementary school
And THIS is why good fathers and father figures are essential to healthy families and societies.
Is a way you can prevent him from being a manbaby in the future? Or is it too late ?
I think it depends on the kid too. My brother is like these guys while I, also a dude am living in a different country on my own now and while I'm not perfect, I manage to keep everything clean and can take care of myself. I think some people, men and women alike btw fail to mature, no matter what their parents do.
Ale Titan
My mother made me practically be a caretaker for my older brother and I still resent them both to this day
This guy gets it
Before me, my girlfriend dated a manbaby for 6+ years. When we started dating, she would just automatically start cleaning my stuff for me and never expressing what *she* wanted to do. It took months to show her that I will clean up after myself and her opinion/feelings are just as valid as mine, and that I am often wrong, like anybody else.
Today she called me on some of my bullshit (I haven't washed the outside of my car in 3 months) and to be honest I've never been happier.
How often do people even need to wash their cars though? Unless you’re driving through dirt a lot (or salt somehow) the rain takes care of it. I’d hope you’re just using a garden hose and some soap, otherwise you’re wasting money.
mrshmuga9
Just depends on how filthy your car gets.
My boyfriend has not vacuumed his car in the 9 months we've been dating.
That man baby was cramping your gf and had her trained nicely. You go and take the second hand goods and ruin what good qualities she had. What a fucking idiot
@@kaos092 you must have no respect for humanity left to say something like that. I wish to never meet someone like you.
rather be a man child then a simp like u
“I had a roommate named Fergus...”
Oh shit, this is gonna be good!
*eats your ass*
Gets offended by simple questions
Storms off or threatens to call things off
Blames you for situations that he caused
Constantly at odds with authorities
Needlessly rude to women other than you
Overly dependent on mother
Sounds like most middle aged dads
so in other words, with the exception of #5, the average twitter user?
Looks like a portrait of a street thug
“Eats like a 12 y/o”
Me, a 22-y/o grown-ass woman: *slowly and awkwardly dips chicken tendie in Kraft Mac and cheese and takes another bite*
nothing wrong with that, just eat some goddamn salad every now and then and learn to cook properly
@Angel Navarro wow I thought she was a guy, I'm about to get cancelled
gimme gimme chicken tendies
@@sebastianrendon1458 Be they crispy or from Wendy's
@@BlackFlagHeathen Spend my hard earned good boy points
“Everything annoys him”
Oh no I’m annoyed by everything!
“How dare you listen to music while you cook or clean”
Ok I’m not as annoyed as I thought
Edgy Car well she should focus on cooking and cleaning
Justin Y. music helps people focus
Justin Y. Or she can do what she wants you stupid bitch
See? That! That's what I'm talking about.
"Everything annoys him"
*proceeds to list off all the seriously annoying shit she does*
this video raised my self esteem but lowered my overall faith in humanity...
So it balanced out then?
Watching this was like: "Wow, I'm not as bad as I thought I was."
Followed by: "Jesus christ, people are actually like this?"
faith in humanity 10
Self esteem 100
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@@HighBarReviews as all things should be?
"manchild" has practically meant just another word for calling someone a loser nowadays. It's too vague and broad and it creates only tirades on each other
They legally change their last name to Griffin, and change their first name to Peter.
Little Potato stop
that's chadly wtf
shut up
only pussy slayers would do it
Hehehehehe, ey Loius... Ey Loius, guess what I did?
Ehehehe, I changed my name... Look
Ehehehehe.
7:36 "objectively very unattractive"
Damn, that's the worst kind of ugly.
@TestSubjectDayjob "out of your league but likes you" is in your league.
..I mean, why that would make them a manChild I have no idea.
@TestSubjectDayjob It probably means he will have whatever excuse to dump you or to insult you.
@TestSubjectDayjob probably dirty obese that havent took bath since 2004
Talk about keeping it real
Wow, I thought being a manchild was liking anime and collecting action figures. Turns out I'm just a virgin!
A lot of anime is intended for adults. I'm not just talking about Hentai either.
I thought it was playing games past age 18, and if it was the case, I'd just wear the badge till age 100+ ... because I like playing games.
I do the stuff you mention. I'm married with a child incoming in Feb 2020. You'll get there eventually man. 😉
@Yuusha-MOBA-GAMING Most westerners seem to think that actually, not just Americans.
I mean, most anime are intended exactly for manchildren and teenagers and you can't change that fact. It's just that that doesn't mean grown ups can't watch them.
Gotta call out this metion of part time work, again and again. You don't need a career, you don't need to work your life away...
I proudly work part time. Have a house of my own which I built myself to save money and I have saving, too.
My dream was never to have a career it was to work part time and spend that free time enjoying my life. 🤷♂️
as long as youre happy you do you. people find it weird when you arent always striving to be better. but the end goal in life is to be happy and enjoy it while it lasts.
@@saltshaker6002 I agree! I do strive to better myself, mind you. But in things I enjoy rather than furthering a career. For me it's art and exercise.
@@sausagesausage thats cool too. for me personally, as long as bills are paid and i can play volleyball my life is set atm. ill change if i need/want too, but i dont plan to do too much. simplicity is one of the best catalysts for happiness.
@@saltshaker6002 Agreed
Ppl that strive strive strive.....mindless behavior.......
When their username is just 2 metal bands put together with 69 on the end of it and their profile pic is of a video game.
🤣😃😆
🤔
That was clever XD
@@zeaxevalentino7765 those are rare
Don't forget the people with random letters put together as their username and have a meme shitpost as their profile picture.
A lot of the behaviours mentioned here are signs of narcissistic personality disorder.
yes,that's exactly what I thought.
problem is women are often drawn to that
flojoho As a wamen, no, clearly not lmao. That’s what this entire video was about.
Stop trying to give mental disorders to people who literally just didnt get an ass beating as a child and was spoiled by mommy instead. For fucks sake not every asshole needs help and not every asshole needs sympathy, and not every asshole deserves rehab or meds. 99% of these jerkwads are mommas boys who have zero experience with the real world, were treated like princes or princesses by their parents, and never had to worry about who they were turning into or what they were going to do with their life because they were always taken care of. Not narcissism, not socipathy, not psychopathy. Just a bunch of moronic self entitled losers who never grew up and were good at making people feel sorry for them.
@@feralmagick7177 I dont think you know what narcissistic personality disorder is. Thats a very angry paragraph by the way. Might want to think about why you reacted that way.
Everything is about him and his needs always, if you have a need your “selfish”
Men have exactly the same complaint about women
yep, my sister's ex was always making her buy him stuff and yelling at her when she said no, and one time she asked him to buy her taco bell and he laughed. i was there, i told him off and he threw a tantrum lol
Everybody's has a need
i cant bring myself to ask anyone to do anything for me i dont want to inconvenience anyone so i do everything on my own.
@Anthony Small i have taken salvia didn't help.
As someone who has a hard time managing hygiene, and jobless at 19 , can't help but empathize a little. The world is not black and white, but if they can't manage themselves, probably best they shouldn't be in a relationship. I literally don't think I could shower everyday for someone at this point. Or take care of my room, let alone a partner
"He wants to marry into money"
"He wants his wife to stay at home and take care of their 5-8 kids"
How the hell is he supposed to "marry into money" if she has the time to raise even 3+ kids "by herself"?!?!
As in a wealthy family.
@@yahyachothia bingo.
I don't get how any other position besides misdipmsry being gross is even a thought
@@joeandrew8752 yeah my brain almost broke at that statement
Well in their defense i would love to marry into money if its an option!
Guys, just because you like games and “nerdy stuff” doesn’t make you a man child. Most people do.
@Rocky Ting not everyone who likes nerdy stuff is unemployed. You make no sense
Yeah there's nothing wrong with liking video games. I've seen plenty of older men happily married who play them
I once played something like 20-30 hours on pc during high school. Now work as real estate agent 50 h per week and sometimes enjoy a few hours during sunday.
Never had a problem to switch, still I can play games.
Those manchild behaviours I see are mostly caused by a few games. Usually the more addictive and raging ones: aka LoL, dota, war thunder... sometimes I feel like videogames are considered life but in reality are just something there. You don't progress, they don't pay you
@Rocky Ting well bruh, video games is just a hobby. It's easy to replace video games with any hobby out there as an excuse to not take responsibility or whatever. All you need to notice is the obsession with anything.
beverly ledbetter, yeah. I play games and watch anime in my free time. Still maintains a job and is an AB student. Not everyone who enjoys something is immature
It's interesting that a few of the man-children mentioned were actually the women's boyfriends or fiances.
Even if you "get the girl" in the beginning with looks or charm or whatever, she'll eventually see you for who you really are.
So, work on yourself and hold yourself to a high standard - not just for them but also for yourself.
Yeah, it baffles me how much some people forget that a relationship is supposed to be a team effort
On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless.
Well said
That's good advice actually which is weird because this is a youtube comment
I agree with being the best you can be when in a relationship, but if you’re alone it doesn’t matter
I stan the woman who refused to do dishes and used paper and plastic dishes until he’d wash them. Even thought his mom did, I aspire to be you in how stubborn I am in that’s stuff. 🙏🏼❤️✨
Please dont aspire to replicate childish passive aggressive behavior. Adults make ultimatums, they dont inconvenience themselves in some kind of circular logic 5d chess move attempt at punishing another person.
Don’t listen to that guy^. Be petty. Go lower. Anything that gets a man to be a man, please do it lmao we need it
@@aceambling7685 don't be so childish to were you can't do your own dishes and get your mommy to do it for you.
@@BILLCIPHER8 I'm doing dishes right now you child.
@@Sayre777 you are a pathetic individual and you will never have the respect of a woman.
I see a few similarities between both sexes when it comes to these types:
No accountability
Sense of entitlement
Dirty room
Feels a need to hate on things
Tantrums
Mother is probably a Karen (and possibly grew up fatherless)
Feels the need to say “I’m a nice person”
Depends on several people to “just get by”, and never appreciates it
I’ll admit I’ve violated a few of these over the years.
iloveyour sacredcow
Who hasn’t?
a Karen is the "I need to speak to the manager" over something trivial archetype.
I'm guilty of "having a dirty room" but it was *much* worse when I was a kid. I'm talking living in your own personal landfill.
@@aegiseurobeat4559 Clean your room! Clean your room for a month and everything else will start to fall into place. You just gotta start somewhere man, you know.
_he says in his best Jordan Peterson impression_
But seriously. The dude does have a point. I'm even known to make my bed after getting out of it theses days :/
I was gonna say "Momma's boy", but you describing the mom as a "Karen" is a much better way to put it lmao
noT a WOmaN bUT...
Dang, you beat me to it.
This one did not have answers like that :P
it's either gay or from the POV of a man dating a womanchild.
anD I DON'T KNOW WHICH
I mean... you dont have to be a woman to have dated a manchild though.
I want to like your comment but the like number is at 619 and that's one of my favorite wrestling moves lol, so you get a comment instead. Soooo....dope comment 😂
I have a rule of thumb for identifying manchildren:
Compare their lives to that of Christine Weston Chandler... and substract points for every similarity.
he's workin' on it!
ChrisChan 4L
I will never call him Christine fuck that
Christine? I thought it was just "Chris"-chan"
@@ItsStat1c Your lack of faith in the dimensional merge is disturbing.
"Doesn't want to have kids yet* because then he'll have to share his toys..."
What?
I didn't know infertile men and women were such manchildren.
@Harvey Smith exactly 💯
@Harvey Smith yes yes, because of course the little support pay off the work of raise a child
Having a messy apartment shouldn't be seen as a "red flag". I was depressed some years ago, and I had a hard time executing simple tasks such as cleaning. However, that mindset is a thing of the past for me, and now I'm helping a friend to get through a similar phase. He's a really likable guy, but he suffers from depression and cleaning his house is a difficult task for him. Now, instead of me telling him to man up and sort himself out, I have assisted him by doing the dishes and other household chores such as cleaning once in a while. As time have passed he slowly adjusted mentally by cleaning without my help and it makes me so happy for him.
depression fuckin sucks and being criticized for being depressed definitely doesnt help
In a sense it is a red flag. Not that it means he's a terrible person, but that he's not in the right state for a relationship
I wish everyone could see this and had a friend like you.
but being depressed is a bit of a red flag for a potential partner
Being gross amd depressive is a major red flag. Catch it and correct it
Me: Guess I’ll watch this to get some advice
These guys: *cant do basic chores*
Me: nvm
The advice I got was "if you ask someone for help with something that's fine, but actually learn so you won't need to bother someone when it happens again"
Other than that, yeah these are some low bars dude
The main advice you need in relationships is listening and communication. Like, actual listening, like the first thought in your head should be “what would happen in this situation if I’m wrong” even if you ‘know’ you’re right. You might be right, but now you’re hearing your partner as a true partner in working towards the same goal and not a debate opponent. Chores, sex, money, etc.-should all work more or less. Also include listening to/communication with yourself-pay attention to what feels right, and especially what feels wrong.
I feel anxious after this video because I feel i might become this kind of man one day. Very motivational vid
The worst enemy of our life is ourself.
Nothing like a series of inherently negative traits that feels like a callout if you have any of them to force yourself to improve.
I feel anxious after this video because I feel I've *already* started becoming this type of guy. Definitely one of those things that makes you look around and think/say "oh my fucking god, am I one of those people?!"
@@trashlambo But I think it's never too late to improve yourself. Hope you can improve!
Awareness means there’s hope my dude. Most of these guys sound like they either have no desire to change or aren’t aware of the fact that they’re being selfish and immature. I’m slowly climbing out of the hole myself, trust me
Glad I had my own brother as the embodiment of those red flags and not actually dated one. Having to raise yourself because your brother that's 15 years older than you needs the attention is great.
frfr, my brother is 10 years older than me but he can't even wake up by himself for his frickin job, and when we don't wake him up, he whines and blames us
Yep, I can relate to this. I keep getting prodded by my younger siblings for not having as much initiative and maturity as them.
when you don't have a strong male figure to learn from, you can always learn what NOT to do from a weak one lol
Same deal with me. I like my brother, honestly I do, but he’s the embodiment of non-productivity and never taking risks. He just wants to live comfortably in his room playing video games for the rest of his life. He works a part time job, which is fine, but he has basically no hours and needed so much support from my family just to get to that point. I have to wake up HIM in the mornings.
My mom dated a manchild from the time I was 7 until I was 14. Here are some red flags I've learned from experience:
-Wants a second mom, not a partner. It's your job to take care of him.
-Treats children like competition and resents them for their mother's love.
-Too scared to discuss issues he's having with the relationship; cheats instead.
-"Justifies" his manchild-ness with self-pity; his brothers were mean and his dad was never there, so he can't possibly pull his own weight!
-Has no real opinions of his own; all of his political/social/economic/philosophical views came from mommy.
@teh one the last one is detrimental if he can't acknowledge another POV aside from Mum's. If he is young (
@Dawid XCX seems like he hit a nerve on you
Fuck I just realised my dad is a manchild....
And my poor mom has been with him for 21 years, good thing they broke up two years ago
@@kusuossecretgf5401 same, too bad my father and mother are still together
@@tlaoltjenbruns9580 oh, good luck then, It will be ok one day, don't worry :)
I came in here expecting stuff like "plays videogames"
but in acutally it's just basic adult responsibilities. smh are there really people like this out there.
@Karl-Heinz Erlenhain Eh, I'm not sure that I'd necessarily say that it's always a result of them being spoiled. In my case, my mom was just an abusive control freak who raised me to be an incompetent piece of shit so that I would be dependent on her.
Some of those are not even "adult" responsibilities!! People expect you to be clean at all ages!!
@Karl-Heinz Erlenhain
Guess who was taught for generations to be under "protection" of the other gender? Yep, women. Don't work, don't vote, sit home, don't study. Of course for a woman to be a -child is more acceptable. Is it good? Nah fam. But this shit didn't appear out of nowhere.
@@DonVigaDeFierro Exactly. I knew how to cook and clean at 12. Now that I'm in Uni I've met people who can barely make spaghetti.
@@steelbear2063 probably because only men went to war back then (although, their are exceptions).
Teaching women that they're weaker than men has always been wrong, I always imagine telling a little girl to her face that she'll never be strong enough, and it always no matter what.
My ex gf was like this. Whenever things didn't go her way she'd do everything in her power to make the day as miserable as possible for everyone involved. So annoying
That was my ex gf also, she was crazy as well.
My ex legit broke up with me because she did some fuck shit to our friend group and I told said friends what she did cause if friends found out, they would've kicked her ass.
Hey me too
@@thesaltgodfgc212 my ex broke up with me because I was going through a depression and I'm not supposed to be sad.
Unrelated, but I love your pfp
Ah yes, when I want advice on how to be mature, Reddit is the first place I ask
I'm (unfortunately) a r*dditor, and I can confirm.
Still beats twitter or 4chan
When you realize your 8 year old cousin is more mature than these man children
yeah, i agree
Linus tech being psychologist
fr
Yep
your 8 year old cousin also has a mom/dad or both commanding them and forcing structure into their lives. lets see how they function when left to their own devices
My father is gonna be 70 next year and he's a manchild. I was one until almost about 28-29. It's a complete transformation you have to make, like letting the old you die and a new one be born.
man child man can get man child woman lol damn i cant believe what would happen then
congratulations for that change in your life!
I'm in a similar situation tbh
@@christianmunso7482 ok Diavalo
@@gilgameshthetreasurehunter2750 KINGU KRIMSON
Red flag: They have a collection of plastic bottles filled with pee because they're too lazy to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night.
EWWWW!! GROSS! 🤢
So, you never peed in test tube in chemistry lab and handed out to your pal while him going out to save time???
Yet you decided to continue dating them knowing they do this.
@@rahul17023 Test tubes aren't going to be big enough, bruv.
If i desperately need to pee, your pal better bring the biggest erlenmeyer he can get his hands on or it's gonna be a mess all over the workstation xD
@@Crazywaffle5150 I never dated anyone like that. I was talking about someone's cousin I know.
Watching this makes me feel so much better about myself. Still have stuff to work on, but I think I'm on my way.
I’m ready for the clowns in the comments who think that a man being interested in any sort of comic or video game is automatically a man child
Theres only one and his name is ryan.
Yeah, you're forbidden from liking the same things you liked as a child, even for nostalgic value...
Keep in mind I'm being sarcastic, but they are not.
*Steel Beam* Dude I honestly thought u were Ryan for a bit 🤣
It's not about liking or playing video games. Almost every millennial (male and female) likes or plays video games. It's about working age adults who either dont work and play video games all day while leeching off family or partners, or those who have a crappy job who can do better but decide to spend all of their days off playing video games and never try to be something better. It's more of the mentality of choosing unproductive activities like video games over something like a better job and a better life. It's just the stagnant lifestyle all manbabies have and typically their choice of unproductive lifestyle involves playing videogames all day. I would point this out as a correlation and not a causation.
Nah dawg I'm here wondering like am I a man child because I'm between work and I'm not handy?
Watching this made me realise that while I'm not a man child, I could certainly do more. Playtimes over.
Did you do more?
*stops on the swing set* aw cripes...
Im just wondering if i got any flags.None so far
Same. I've come a long way over the past year and a half. Got a job and my own place, which is certainly a start.
bruh, all i can think of when i hear these stories are just incels that got a chace with girls and they just threw it away
Well, what if you're an incel just because you don't wanna be disappointing in bed?
Mercent Perrault what?
@@mercentperrault Then you are celibate voluntarily and not an incel.
@@corwinorr
RISE UP CELIBATE UNTIL MARRIAGE GANG!
@@christiaanstephan4387 I don't want to do premarital Sex because I have a small Penis(Got a Girl Interested in me and willing to go to my house to "Netflix and Chill but I went Vague in Her to cancel it out because of my size problem) and I want to break that down at some point to my partner (dating phase) so She can decide If she can accept that part of Me or would fuck off, idk man.
I’m not convinced that most folks who’ve failed to launch aren’t just suffering from depression.
Wut
@Brit Sehnsucht The failure to ever get yourself off the ground, basically being a total loser from the get go and never having anything worthwhile to maintain
Just read "No more mr nice guy" from dr Glover.
There will be A LOT of them in the future.
Don't you *dare* disrespect Nintendo like that.
Honestly man, that's fucken rude
I like Nintendo but comments like this are why the stereotype exists
@@yep9462 wooosh
Hey do u know where my dad is? :(
soguelite They’re Small to fit the design of the console. In Nintendo’s advertisement of the switch we see them marketing it towards young adults
I was eating at a Chinese restaurant with my family. My sister's ex-boyfriend is very picky with food... to the point where he can eat meat, but can't have bones in the meat. I'm fine with picky eaters but what shocked me was that my sister put some meat (with bones) to his plate and then pulled the bones out herself so he could eat the meat. He was 26 at that time and older than me. Wtf, it felt like watching a mom taking care of her kid.
Picky eaters are also mega man baby things. It’s fine to dislike certain food, I for example cannot stand sweet things. Sugary desserts, drinks etc, disgusting. I’d rather cheese and coffee for dessert.
But it’s how you react to that stuff, like you said, getting your surrogate mommy to cut your food, man baby
Lmao that's so embarrassing 😭😭
The "forces himself to dislike something just because you like it." part at 2:11 is really interesting, I've known quite a few guys who are like that!
It is really interesting, I've involuntary do it with some stuff before, in hindsight it has to do with a bigger problem with the person and the insecurities. But yeah, its funny how ppl from all over the world have similar behaviors
How does someone force to dislike something... .-. I mean I can understand if a food smells awful but idk
My last ex did that. He started to play League because of me. Quited League because "he got bored of it" miraculously 2 days after our breakup. Started League again because his new girl plays it too. Now he wants to quit again - and that's how I know there's a relationship issue there, confirmed by other signs.
Sefat Silverlake because your like as well bitch
I like to fake hate it while people are around and slowly "start" to like it because usually they end up happy that "I got around to liking it"
I dunno if that's toxic or not, but in my experience my friends have appeared happier whenever I "come around" to liking something they do (usually with games or shows)
Ohhh here’s my list:
1. He plays video games late into the night, then doesn’t go to work/school/take care of responsibilities the next day because he needs to sleep in until 4 PM. Because he played video games until 6 AM
2. He lives with his parents still or his apartment is a MESS. And when I say a mess, I mean he has trash cans overflowing with trash that smells, he doesn’t have clean clothes and leaves dirty clothes all about the apartment, he doesn’t have furniture like a couch and bookshelves so he sits on the floor and leaves his tv on the ground.
3. He doesn’t listen to advice about how to better himself, and has an excuse for EVERYTHING if you call him out on BS
4. He treats his mother or sisters poorly. However a man treats his female family members is how he’ll treat you one day
How do girls stay with men like this for longer than a week blows my mind...
What blows my mind is that the human race hasn't nuked itself into extinction yet.
he's hot
They do only once and usually it one of the first guys shes with
@@xentiment6581 nah it´s attractiveness
Toxic traits can take some time to really get on someone's nerve.
No one will show you their true colors on the first weeks of relationship, those things are a slow burn get it? At first it's "ok he's a bit messy but i still love him", than it's "he's super messy, but at least he's not X" and than "he's the worst."
Sometimes the men in question isn't the worst when the relationship starts, but they end up becoming "too relaxed" as the relationship goes on.
Sometimes love may blind someone from the obvious solutions, and make them stuck on a toxic relationship, but can we honestly blame the girls for having bad dates that tend to last from 1~3 months at best? ( in my experience, those relationships are really short lived ).
Tldr: those stuff take time to show, the relationship tends to end when it becomes too much, hence why most girls call the partners "exs".
i think every adult who is labeled "childish" does similar things - they don't try to change bad habits, see another perspective, nor do they take responsibility for their mistakes. Man or woman, doesn't matter. Also, children are initially seen as children because of their playfulness and innocent nature. They turn into jerks (tantrums etc) when their parents do not teach them discipline, the consequences for being an idiot, and self care. So, it's more of a grown up asshole versus a man or woman child, if we are going to be accurate here.
Shut the fuck up
Bitch
@@danielhaynes2362 did someone shit their diaper?
most of the time they seem to have helicopter parents, and could do what they want in their childhood. (immature people)
helicopter parenting is so damn bad.
nobody:
me: *does all the chores i’ve been procrastinating on after watching this video*
No you didn't, you're lying.
Cope
The last couple years I wait for them to pile up and then do them all at once while listening to music. It’s kind of fun and takes less time and energy
@@sam.lipchutz yep i do this too, kind of a 'cleaning game' where u make steps or an order of things to do. 'where is waldo' but instead of waldo u need to pick out all the laundry, then the trash, then the dishes. i learned it from my brother who has adhd and he gets absolutely nothing done if not for these types of tricks
@@eronoah8738 should I change cause I have adhd and am still 15 so should I change or will it disappear cause I don’t wanna be uselless
As always, I blame the parents.
To me, it’s only the ones where the mum gets involved
"Doesn't want to have kids yet because then he'll have to share his toys"
wat if his toys were sharp objects and sexdolls
Point still stands
Don’t have kids if you aren’t ready to let them have a turn with the fleshlight.
I mean, if you're genuinely concerned then theres a bigger issue at hand
Then it's a good thing he's not procreating...
I don't want kids because it's a huge responsibility that you have to deal with, and plus I'm not even qualified to have kids either way
1:01 Darn. If a girl I liked recommended a game to me, I’d play it! No questions asked. I’d look forward to having that to share with her.
Tbh I'd be happy she even plays games. I live in a really old school family, and it's kind of seen as something for loosers. It's only in the past year I've come to realise it's as widely accepted as it is
simp
I'd try it once, and if I like it, I like it. If not, oh fucking well.
@@basiert He said if his girlfriend suggested a game, he'd share it with her.
*His girlfriend.*
How can you simp for someone you're already in a relationship with?
@@basiert You are probably a kid trying to be funny, lemme tell you something, your not funny😐
I'm just gonna assume these guys are either extroverts or good looking because holy crap if they can get a girlfriend with that crappy a personality....
Never forget you are getting just one part of the story.
@@LemonRush7777 Yeah but he has a point. I've known girls IRL who have literally carried on dating guys who treat them like crap because he's tall / hot, or say things like "well he doesn't have a job and just sits around playing video games but he's really tall and he's cut, so" in regards to a guy they've started seeing.
Seriously though...they must be Brad Pitt looking.
We live in a society 😞 jk it's actually common in movies etc for women to date man children and douchey guys and somehow be able to change him and be happy if you become a second mom, I had a lot of stuff to conciously unlearn because I used to be like "BuT I cAN FiX hiM" ... Yea that wasn't fun 😅🤣
@@anoni6108 thank you! That's just what I'm struggling with. I've tried to cut any contact with him but now he starts literally begging for attention. But he let me down like 3 or 4 times and I'm sure he's just a waste of energy. I can't be too strict yet though, since we'll have to work together for several group projects in August and November. It's become really difficult and draining..
Any advice? Thanks
Men and women on Reddit talking about manchildren, incels, Karens, niceguys, neckbeards, etc… is honestly probably hypocritical knowing Reddit.
I mean, it's members of one group you listed dunking on the other group.
0:39
"Only acts nice because they want something in return."
I wanted friendship...
I feel you mate..
👌
Same.
I need at least friends....
That's why I act nice to people I want friendship with and nothing else.
It's a lonely life your force into
The menstrual cycle one is confusing to me. Me and my partner had been dating a few weeks and one day she asks me to get her feminine products after work. I got a couple weird looks going into the aisle but that was really all that happened I don't feel uncomfortable, I don't feel disgusted I'm just doing what I need to do for the woman I love because that's what you do. I also bought her some ice cream :)
Trust me, you are a legend! Still don't know why people look at guys wierdly this day and age when grabbing feminine products? Its clear its for a menstrating woman that you care for 🤣
Protect this man
W for buying that ice cream, what a kind thing to do
@@qwertyasdf4081 This is just depressing to me because, do you live somewhere where this ISNT the norm?
@@chestnut4860 yep, it’s called the US. I don’t know if it’s better or worse in other places, but this guy isn’t even half the people I would say.
I work a part time job, mostly because i like to relax and have time for myself, working a full time job for months that kept forcing mandatory overtime made me really hate myself, and my life, constantly wondering if all i'm ever gonna do, is work only, to maintain a life that i could not even live, because once i get home, it's sleep, to wake up, get ready for work, repeat. All for what? a possible week of vacation to blow all that extra money on because i wouldnt otherwise be able to enjoy it? It drove me to having nearly vivid dreams of offing myself, making me think more and more about it as the days went by.
The switch to part time was a breath of fresh air by comparison, i may not have that much money, but every dime i spend is a dime i actually use and enjoy after paying my bills. The option to work extra hours on MY decision and not being forced into it feels like i have more control over my life, and since i dont have huge responsibilities in my life yet, i can live fine like this. Of course, if i would have commited a mistake in my life like having a girl pregnant and having to deal with a child, of course i would obviously be more responsible, and sacrifice some of my comfort and need for me time in order to keep another life alive and well, but i do not have that, and honestly, i do not think i could do well with that, at least not on my own.
Think of it as being a manchild or not, but i just want to enjoy what little i can from this dumb life, and i rather not drown myself back with dark thoughts over something like that ever again.
A lot of things they listed could be completely mature rational choices in different contexts imo, and what you're doing specifically seems completely reasonable
Yeah I was bothered by seeing "works a minimum wage part time job" in this video a couple of times. It's perfectly fine to value time with family and hobbies more than making as much money as possible imo.
honestly, there is nothing bad with having a part time job. what the redditors in this video don't know, is that in some cases, it's a deliberate, mature choice
didn't like all too much how having a part time job to them automatically meant something bad, but then again i don't care too much
@@Lotselance precisely. hell, as bold as opinion an this may be, money isn't everything in life
This dude preach 🙌🙌👏👏 but in all honesty yeah I'm in the same situation I pay my own bills take care of my mother since she can't afford everything and still find time for myself nothing wrong with doing you but if it effects the ones you have relationships with you need to change or leave them simple af
These red flags are all highly specific. Almost like this is just a generic thread full of women complaining about their ex-boyfriends.
I thought I was a manchild.
Lived with my mom until recently (25), and some of my hobbies include watching anime/tokusatsu, casually playing video games, building models of cool anime robots, and collecting action figures. And I'm still figuring out a lot of things about adult/independent living.
But when I'm paying for those video games, toys, etc. with my own salaried job, actually know how to cook, and do fucking chores without waiting for mommy to do them for me, listening to these made me feel a lot better about myself. I always thought these were just things you were supposed to learn in your teens.
A lot of dudes still wont cook or clean because mommy never taught them to so they assume to women in their life will just... keep them alive forever.
A lot of comments seem to be from dudes who think just like nerdy shit makes you a man baby and it's so weird to me. I spend so much time surrounded by other nerd girls I assure yall we exist. And we definitely dont wanna date dudes who want us to turn off our video game so they can watch sports.
Oh trust me, I know. I have friends who are nerd girls who will go in deep about the lore of their favorite video games and comics and shit. But I think the reason a lot of guys have this mindset about nerd shit being "manbaby" stuff is probably just baggage from having been bullied about it in school back in the day. (Shit like "you're 12 and you still watch cartoons/read comics? That's GAY.")
I'll admit I'm guilty of having baggage myself at times, but I'm trying to be better about that.
I don't judge people for what they like, only how they go about it. I think it's shitty to judge someone *just* for liking comics/anime/cartoons/video games into adulthood. But if they're an adult and that's the *only* thing they can have a remotely deep conversation about, then yeah there's something wrong there.
I honestly don't know what's so hard about cooking? You put shit in a pan with some oil and seasoning and you keep tossing it till it's ready. Don't turn the fire up to much, don't use to little... It's not going to get you a Michelin star, but at least you wont starve...
Some people are just too lazy to even whip up something like scrambled eggs.
Living with parents doesn't make you a man child. You pull your own weight and simply live under the same roof.
Never thought I'd feel proud that I cook dinner and wash up after, but damn.
I try to clean up after I make food and have ate it but occasionally it becomes difficult to climb over the mountain of dishes and pans my brother left there... I usually eat after everyone else... for confidence reasons... most of the time my dinner time just becomes me losing my appetite and not eating due to stressing about the pile of dishes he's left there and I wash them all and still not eat...
Almost married one too.
He also hated everything i thought was cool. Just always bashed everything and made me feel like crap.
He was always depressed but he wouldnt do anything about it even though i tried my best to help him. I had to always go over to his house because he refused to come over to my house. Id even bring over breakfast/lunch for him.
Cant believe i almost married him 😅
He knocked up his now gf and theyre getting married.
@@whateverman9893 i truly hope hes happy too. And thank you! I am! Im now married to a man that cares a lot about me :)
@@whateverman9893 i totally agree. Thank you so much for the kind words. I hope you are doing well too :)
Reddit talking about being a manchild with no self awareness is peak Internet but, if you feel called out by any of this just know there's always time to change and become a better person. If you can cringe at something you did years ago, it shows change and growth from that mindset. Stay strong Kings and have a great day.
Damn, I feel more attacked than Poland in 39
@@CarsGettingHurt no
@@CarsGettingHurt no
I can't stand dirty dishes.it's not hard and easier when you clean them the same hour you use them.
Even easier to use disposable cutlery
Agree!
I can’t stand things being dirty or uneven or unclean
Eh, you can leave them for morning, as long as you actually go clean them in the morning
I'm terrible at remembering to do the dishes.
So I do them right after I cook.
Anyone else self reflect after watching this? lol
Yes, sadly
Sometimes we need help being more self aware through how someone else sees it and it’s not a bad thing. Part of being a healthy adult is being able to self reflect and changing unhealthy behaviors at least! :) You can do that while the ppl mentioned in this video...can’t seem to do that. Yikes
Yes ):
Yeah..
I'm the first one without the complaining part. Just trying to stay alive :) :(
If his mom says she's shocked that you're still able to keep sane after a few months dating him, run. She has a reason. Unless you know she's crazy, trust what she's dealt with when it comes to him.
if you've already been with him for a few months and need somebody else to tell you what your opinion of him should be after that long, you aren't worth any man's time, because you are clearly gullible and incapable of forming your own opinions
When they act nice, but when they don’t get there way they throw a tantrum.
This is literally my dad but oh well
Sounds like my POS father as well, thankfully I severed all ties with him years ago. He had the nice guy facade, until something happened that didn't go his way, had a hair-trigger temper, would frequently spend money on himself, while being stingy as hell with me, my siblings and even his wife. I mean, he goes and buys what was considered a high-end PC for himself at the time, then upgrades it further, but when it came to his own kids, we just got a second-hand PS1 and a ton of pirated games.
He would frequently spend a lot money on himself, meaning necessities like food and such were the bare minimum to last the week, sometimes they weren't even enough to last, so my mother would need to pawn her jewelry quite a few times. He never did any housework, always left it to my mother, never cooked, and bathed maybe once every two weeks, so he stank quite often. He wasn't above hitting his kids either, which is what caused my mother to divorce him, if a person doesn't dump/divorce someone after seeing them punch their own daughter in the face for accidentally dropping a cheap dinner plate, there's something wrong.
Of course, when the divorce happened, the first person he complained to was his mother, who believed every lie that came out of his mouth. He was an absolute manchild through and through, I pity his current wife, if they're even still married.
Yep same =/
He'd pretend to be father of the year in public, but in private used to slap my sister and I around. I remember being 12 or 13 and finally reaching a breaking point, so I mustered all my courage and wrote him a letter. I pointed out that I thought what he was doing was wrong and tried to explain how it made me feel, but that I understood. I apologized for anything I'd done to upset him and promised that I would try to help out more and not be a burden. I slipped it under his bedroom door and ran back to my room.
He burst into my room a little later, threw the letter in my face and basically said 'what is this shit?'
What is entitlement these days it’s so sad. Parents who don’t know how to raise children keep their offspring as children not adults. I’m sure all of you can self preserve until the time comes for official independence but for now I wish you all the best. And when y’all grow up I’m sure y’all will become great parents who will have learned what not to do as a parent from experience.
That sounds a lot like me, and I'm 24...
TheMusesOrg this made me really sad man, I’m so sorry U had to deal w such a level of low intelligence...
Honestly, if you can cook, clean, and discuss your feelings without screaming and throwing things you're fine. it's totally on you if you can't do those things. Some people have trouble finding employment and/or moving out due to reasons outside of their control. The recession isn't making you sit in garbage while eating hot dogs.
Yeah, our culture has a stigma about people loving at their folks home into adulthood. It’s never been an issue for me, I moved out early, but I’ve had to tell off older folks at work for dogging on the young guys who live with their folks. It’s a different time and that full time job may not pay the rent unless you have a bunch of room mates.
I love cleaning & baking & being upfront about my mental health, but I despise cooking
im a terrible cook tho, i still do it but i cant say im happy with the results
Living in my own bungalow. Behind my brother and sister in law. My parents died but I never needed another family home
*describes a manchilds room*
*Looks at my room*
Guess I'm cleaning today
Lol, not a guy, but same.
A manchild wouldn’t self-reflect like that. They would just ignore the mess when it was brought to their attention.
You’re good dude.
@@danielrobinson7872 You're right. Just think about the 25 year old guy who made his mom drive 4 hours to do his dishes while he just sat there... Now that is an extreme lack of self-awareness.
Some of these are actually manchildren traits, but some others reek of "I'm a 40 yo single cat lady complaining about men because I'm angry nobody likes me"
This right here reeks of manbaby behaviour though.. hit a lil too close to home?
Hit a little close to home buddy?
"Waaaah I asked him if we were on a date and he said no, waaaaah he is a manchildren!"
No, that's not what a manchildren is. And if you think so, then you are a 40yo single cat woman yourself
@@Nxst-i5l timestamp?
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Ok who else is itching to give Fergus a good smack
I'm itching to give ALL of these men a good smack.
More a bitchslap as I am not sure he is worthy of a good punch to the jaw.
More like a kick in the nuts.
@@KingOhmni damn bro...chill
You aren't going to whack Shrek's kid aren't you??
I think I just realized how much of a man-child I really am. I think I'm improving though. 08:01 was pretty much my entire early 20's and I wish I didn't waste it away like that. Everything takes time and nothing is easy. That's just life. Took me more time to realise that than I needed. I'd been in constant depression for years until I saw things clearly.
I think most manchildren were adolescents who didn't grow out of their adolescence because they were too afraid to take risks or do something completely out of their comfort zone. They create an igloo of a false sense of self-entitlement because they're too desperate to face their fears and take responsibility for their mistakes. RESPONSIBILITY! They've never really taken any. And when they're compelled to take take one(which they fuck up, due to lack of experience) they become traumatized and get stuck in a rut because they just realised that life is so much more stranger than what they thought it would have been.
Part of this also depends on type of upbringing. Either a strict upper middle class or upper class household where you're not the eldest son/daughter would do this to you. And I also need a reality check from time to time to make me realise that I'm not living inside my head but out in the real world.
Kill the people who deserve to die its destiny it will feel good trust me bringing justice in the streets it feels good dude really come with us join us tell us ur area we can help u with stuff that u may love and u would love to use it trust me u have to kill those people if someone is stealing u have to kill him thats justice start from lower level then assassinate bigger people people who are in power....u must do it.Kill And become one of us and fight for whats right many will fall many will rise and world will change.in the upcoming years its gonna change alot
@@gamersforlife3440 I am so confused with what you're saying right now?
@@pepelefrog3697 ??
@@pepelefrog3697 Its the truth.Believe in it.its about time.
@@gamersforlife3440 I am questioning who "them" is at the moment
“Eats like a 12 year old”
That’s not a sign of a man child that’s just a sign of a person who is feeling depressed and wants a taste of home or just doesn’t know how to cook or doesn’t feel like it
That's a depressed man, not a manchild
You described a depressed person. Also, not cleaning properly can be another trait of a depressed person.
The thing is, it's not that hard to distinguish a manchild from someone depressed.
A manchild is spoiled and a childish, immature asshole in every sense. A depressed man is just broken inside.
ok i'm totally guilty of being manchild, but after this video i see a shining light of hope from the far end of my crackhouse row home. I might be a blame-shifting, responsibility-shirking narcissist, but at least i clean the house and do my laundry and pay my bills. and i cook my ass off, them pancakes in my user pic didn't make themselves god dammit. that's my own recipe, i certainly did NOT steal it from alton brown.
So how has the shining light been the past 3 months? Still a manchild? You didn't tell us in what way you are a manchild, only in what way you are not. Care to share?
@@uninstaller2860 lol
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Damn those pancakes are round & perfectly shaped! ⭕️ 🥞
This is slowly making me realize my dad is a manchild lmao
So is mine lmao
mine aint, i feel bad for you guys tho.
I can relate
Yo Reuniclus! Cool Pokémon - Unova region is epic
Mins isn't fully, but he certainly hits some of these notes...
"says that he's going to do something but never does"
me: *nervously looks at google classroom*
Yeah I have an inability to hold a conversation unless it's on very few specific topics. I rarely ever talk to anyone, let alone make vocal sounds. I hate small talk. When I'm being spoken to, I want to reply with something equivalent to break it out of Small talk, but I just awkwardly smile and nod
Idk what I'm supposed to say or how I'm supposed to say it. I see no reason to answer most things, mostly bcuz I don't like talking to people, but also bcuz I have nothing to say and/or talk about