Moon and Saturn in 4th house Capricorn. I raised myself. I’m such a stoic in situations where I shouldn’t be. It’s not normal to be this cold, and stern at 27. I continue to be hard on myself. Just entered my Saturn return :|
That's such a tough placement truly. Especially because you also have your moon there. It's as if there was nowhere to go for warmth 🥺. With Cancer on your MC, though, I guess it's work where you get to be nurtured and nurture, despite the moon being in opposition. It's something to consciously be worked out.
I have Saturn in the fourth equal house or 2house placidus as fourth my mother was anything but she had me in London and took me back to Wales as a 1 year old and kept me from my father for 40 years she left me with my grandmother and carried on with her life at 11 she arranged me to be be sent away to school after four years I couldn't take it anymore and upon leaving she had me taken into care she was a horrible mother and shouldn't have had me I hated her
Raised by my much older siblings and they really didn't enjoy looking after me. Mom worked a lot and was quite absent. Lots of bullying from pretty much everyone. No self esteem until a few years ago but with the Saturn return now I got panic disorder. Need to sort the issues from the past.
Moon, Venus and Saturn in Aquarius 4H- Self esteem/respect, the relationship with my mother and stability has always been an issue. I have learned to defend myself, get my boundaries and built my confidence up. It’s sad I’ve had to clapback to my family (sometimes ugly) because I never knew my worth. I can laugh at myself and not believe the thoughts in my head, because I understand my value. Saturn helped, my moon healed me and now my beauty(Venus) shows the grace and dignity that can come through hardship
Wow very relatable. I have moon in conjunction with Saturn in 4th house and I’ve had issue with my mom all my life which caused very low self esteem. Thankfully after my spiritual awakening, I’ve been able to move on, forgive her and love me. Thank you for this! ❤️
It’s taken 25 years to start to heal and learn how to love myself. On one hand, I want to be like “fuck Saturn” because it’s certainly been a painful road, but in the other, I’m kinda grateful. I feel like in taking so long to learn this lesson, it’s supported by a much more solid foundation than it may have been otherwise. And even that I probably appreciate my relationship with myself a lot more because of it.
Thank you for this. It took me a very long time to find that strength to move out of my parents house and towards healing and I'm on that journey now. What I really liked about your video is that you offered positivity in the quotes you found. That made ALL the difference to me. Hearing having a bad placement is not easy, even when your past proves it but when I heard you say some inspirational quotes, I immediately felt lighter, because SOLUTION or at least something to work towards POSITIVE change. I made an affirmation list that I will read before going to bed and after waking up
I can relate to alot you said in this video. I have Saturn, the Sun and Mercury in the 4th house. I find my whole family very important. I place alot of importance in my family but my family is problametic. Many issues and the most recent one the divorce of my parents after 28 years of marriage. Always had a difficuly relationship with my mother and it feels a bit like she is leaving my father but also myself. Im in my first Saturn Return which may explain the many changes in my family lately and coming. My mother is leaving but my longtime partner who has been living on long distance from me for 3 years is coming to live with me and I am about to form my own household hopefully with more succes and breaking out of the bad cycle from previous generations.
Live Loved - above all else Regardless of this hard placement of the mother/nurture & lack or absence of the father. We must know we were loved long before we took on this human experience. This is a very karmic experience the key is stay true to yourself to your values & respond respectfully when people show up to be less than what god created you to be. We are only responsible for our response not how others respond to us. Let the world know you were loved long before you came here & let your light shine.
Yeah I relate to this. Saturn in 4th and my moon is the apex of a yod, in the 8th house and basically unsupported and conjunct south node -__-. I've found my issues with my mom to be literally the key and cause for everything 😂 been working hard to mend that. But it's also taught me to appreciate forth house matters a lot more because it doesn't come naturally to me. Also, home has NEVER been stable for me. I find myself on the couch a lot or not even renting a place and just freestyling it 😂. Great vid per always hun
I have Chiron in the 4th, pretty much the same. Even worse actually (doesn't help that it squares my Sun and Moon). Very good emotional interpretation of the 4th that is often missing, except that I would probably add that Saturn there would be a rather stern, restrictive, conditional love based home environment.
Definitely forgot to mention that as a HIGH possibility. I'm just now really getting comfortable with Chiron (mine's in Cancer), and really beginning to understand how huge it can be, especially in those angular houses. But yeah, squaring the sun and moon, that sounds like a tender spot 😢.
Thank you I am struggling a little with my Saturn rx I am dealing with an autoimmune disorder and its been difficult on my self esteem but this really helped. Thank you. You are beautiful btw. Did you make the video with the books? I recently been into reading again
I have Saturn in the 4th house in Aquarius. I am also about to have my first Saturn return and my mother is going through her second Saturn return in 6th house Aquarius. Interesting to me
Great interpretation I especially liked talking to yourself as if you are a child analogy. My eating disorder started around 13 and hasn’t stopped since. When my mom caught me she made me feel disgusting and yanked me to a doctor for therapy. She didn’t talk to me or hold me or anything just made me feel like a freak that needed to be fixed. My IC is in Capricorn but I have Saturn in Aquarius in there at the tail end. Also have Uranus and Neptune in my fourth so home as always been a weird uncomfortable place to me. Lots of rules and I locked myself in my room most of the time. Home as always felt very business like and like my siblings are coworkers and my mom is the boss. My dad doesn’t speak English so I don’t have a relationship with him even though he’s the parent to all 7 of us I was the only one who didn’t learn Spanish so I’m definitely somewhat of a black sheep. Idk what to really do. Part of me just is tired of trying to relate to my mom. It’s awkward with her even though she spoiled and loved me in her distant way I was always somewhat of a disappointment to her even though I did everything she wanted she called me a waste of talent because I didn’t wanna pursue a singing career! Like um no thanks? She’s a Leo btw lol. Lots of pain and frustration when it comes to her and I just leave it alone. Idk how else to heal.
I think when we have Saturny moms, we have to come to a point where we stop wanting them to be the mom they "could've should've" been. Having a cold mom is probably one of the most painful things I can think of. (My mom's a Moon-Saturn, so I understand some level of this. Oddly, her mom was also a Moon-Saturn! That's some generational ass coldness lol.) This is probably a weird suggestion, but I realized that I had friends who were sort of my "mom" who gave me the warmth that I could not get from my mom. It's like. . . our moms can't help it. They are who they are, and they cannot give us what we need. So we have to find it SOMEWHERE. Lean on your Cancer moon/rising moon friends. It's very healing.
Puro Astrology my moms mom was also cold to her as well! My mom would always talk about how she was made to do chores while her sisters did normal teenager stuff and would be favored. My best friend actually is a cancer and she has been more motherly and caring to me than any other friend I’ve ever had. She pays attention to me in a way that I used to find creepy (I’m a Sagittarius lol) but when we’d stop talking I’d actually MISS her and miss talking to her in a way that was beyond just a friend. I always tell her she’s like one of my sisters but I think now you’ve said that about cancers, that she’s actually means more to me than I realized and I need to show her more appreciation instead of thinking she’s like that with just anyone. As for my mom, you’re right it’s something I just have to let go of and stop being angry and annoyed at her for being so awkward with me because I’m probably just as awkward towards her too lol. Thank you for your kind words and advice definitely look forward to watching more of your videos!
I have moon_saturn in 4th house in Pisces . It's very painful. I feel like I have to carry everyone's pain . I can't even share my feelings with anyone. Lots of suffering 🙄
@@deepeshgupta1521 it requires a concerted effort because think about the nature of Saturn. Saturn is like an old wise man. He wants you to work on these things and develop this side of yourself. It’s the only way 🙏🏼.
In the last year of my Saturn return ( I’m 30) and I’ve learned to be more fragile than I’ve ever been more compassionate to ppl and things around me .. it’s a journey tho I tell u 😂👌🏽‼️🙏🏽
Please tell me what is the remedy to find such a beautiful and pretty spouse like you.I can do everything possible for this.even mission impossible.please suggest me.big thanks.
Moon and Saturn in 4th house Capricorn. I raised myself. I’m such a stoic in situations where I shouldn’t be. It’s not normal to be this cold, and stern at 27. I continue to be hard on myself. Just entered my Saturn return :|
That's such a tough placement truly. Especially because you also have your moon there. It's as if there was nowhere to go for warmth 🥺. With Cancer on your MC, though, I guess it's work where you get to be nurtured and nurture, despite the moon being in opposition. It's something to consciously be worked out.
i also have moon and saturn in 4th house but in cancer
I have Saturn in the fourth equal house or 2house placidus as fourth my mother was anything but she had me in London and took me back to Wales as a 1 year old and kept me from my father for 40 years she left me with my grandmother and carried on with her life at 11 she arranged me to be be sent away to school after four years I couldn't take it anymore and upon leaving she had me taken into care she was a horrible mother and shouldn't have had me I hated her
So how did your return go?
@@Iksvomid I’m still in it
Raised by my much older siblings and they really didn't enjoy looking after me. Mom worked a lot and was quite absent. Lots of bullying from pretty much everyone. No self esteem until a few years ago but with the Saturn return now I got panic disorder. Need to sort the issues from the past.
Moon, Venus and Saturn in Aquarius 4H-
Self esteem/respect, the relationship with my mother and stability has always been an issue. I have learned to defend myself, get my boundaries and built my confidence up. It’s sad I’ve had to clapback to my family (sometimes ugly) because I never knew my worth. I can laugh at myself and not believe the thoughts in my head, because I understand my value. Saturn helped, my moon healed me and now my beauty(Venus) shows the grace and dignity that can come through hardship
Wow very relatable. I have moon in conjunction with Saturn in 4th house and I’ve had issue with my mom all my life which caused very low self esteem. Thankfully after my spiritual awakening, I’ve been able to move on, forgive her and love me. Thank you for this! ❤️
It’s taken 25 years to start to heal and learn how to love myself. On one hand, I want to be like “fuck Saturn” because it’s certainly been a painful road, but in the other, I’m kinda grateful. I feel like in taking so long to learn this lesson, it’s supported by a much more solid foundation than it may have been otherwise. And even that I probably appreciate my relationship with myself a lot more because of it.
Thank you for this. It took me a very long time to find that strength to move out of my parents house and towards healing and I'm on that journey now. What I really liked about your video is that you offered positivity in the quotes you found. That made ALL the difference to me. Hearing having a bad placement is not easy, even when your past proves it but when I heard you say some inspirational quotes, I immediately felt lighter, because SOLUTION or at least something to work towards POSITIVE change. I made an affirmation list that I will read before going to bed and after waking up
“treat yourself as if you’d treat a child”
me who hates babies: 👁👄👁
also i have my saturn in cancer in the fourth house with a cancer sun too lol
Girl, you better baby your own self! It's required homework for you, Cancer!
Wow. You’re reading me. Heading into this Saturn return in Aquarius in the 4th
Same
I can relate to alot you said in this video. I have Saturn, the Sun and Mercury in the 4th house. I find my whole family very important. I place alot of importance in my family but my family is problametic. Many issues and the most recent one the divorce of my parents after 28 years of marriage. Always had a difficuly relationship with my mother and it feels a bit like she is leaving my father but also myself. Im in my first Saturn Return which may explain the many changes in my family lately and coming. My mother is leaving but my longtime partner who has been living on long distance from me for 3 years is coming to live with me and I am about to form my own household hopefully with more succes and breaking out of the bad cycle from previous generations.
Live Loved - above all else
Regardless of this hard placement of the mother/nurture & lack or absence of the father. We must know we were loved long before we took on this human experience. This is a very karmic experience the key is stay true to yourself to your values & respond respectfully when people show up to be less than what god created you to be. We are only responsible for our response not how others respond to us.
Let the world know you were loved long before you came here & let your light shine.
Oh boy! I have said that “I probably deserve it” when someone treats me poorly. I'm getting better on cutting them out though. Thanks for the insights
Yeah I relate to this. Saturn in 4th and my moon is the apex of a yod, in the 8th house and basically unsupported and conjunct south node -__-. I've found my issues with my mom to be literally the key and cause for everything 😂 been working hard to mend that. But it's also taught me to appreciate forth house matters a lot more because it doesn't come naturally to me. Also, home has NEVER been stable for me. I find myself on the couch a lot or not even renting a place and just freestyling it 😂. Great vid per always hun
Wtf that's genius! Keep doing these 👏👏👏💖💖💖
Beautiful interpretation. The video is powerful. I like positive affirmations. I try to wake up every morning with inward positive energy.
You are such an angel 😊❤
Almost cried - video is spot on
I have Saturn in Pisces 4th House and IC Saturn aspects my 8th House Cancer Moon.
I have Chiron in the 4th, pretty much the same. Even worse actually (doesn't help that it squares my Sun and Moon). Very good emotional interpretation of the 4th that is often missing, except that I would probably add that Saturn there would be a rather stern, restrictive, conditional love based home environment.
Definitely forgot to mention that as a HIGH possibility. I'm just now really getting comfortable with Chiron (mine's in Cancer), and really beginning to understand how huge it can be, especially in those angular houses. But yeah, squaring the sun and moon, that sounds like a tender spot 😢.
Thank you for this i have this going on right now!
Hope it can help you
Super helpful thank you so much!!!
Thank you I am struggling a little with my Saturn rx I am dealing with an autoimmune disorder and its been difficult on my self esteem but this really helped. Thank you. You are beautiful btw. Did you make the video with the books? I recently been into reading again
Please suggest those books 📚 for self esteem I loved this video thank you 🙏
I'm going to write this down RIGHT NOW in my planner so I can put this list together asap
@@PuroAstrology hi there, new sub, can you direct me to the video where I might find the book list?
@@PuroAstrology Hi love, I'm a new sub too and would appreciate the link to that video as well 🤍
Would love book suggestions:) thank you for this!
I have Saturn in the 4th house in Aquarius. I am also about to have my first Saturn return and my mother is going through her second Saturn return in 6th house Aquarius. Interesting to me
Very interesting! And it's nice to have someone to go through it with you. And even cooler that it's your mom.
Same 4th house Aquarius ♒️ Scorpio ♏️ rising
@@plutostarr8605 we need to be friends lol the fun begins any day now
@@rebeccastone8929 I agree ‼️‼️🥰🥰 my Instagram is @8thhousevenus if your interested 🥰😍
Great interpretation I especially liked talking to yourself as if you are a child analogy. My eating disorder started around 13 and hasn’t stopped since. When my mom caught me she made me feel disgusting and yanked me to a doctor for therapy. She didn’t talk to me or hold me or anything just made me feel like a freak that needed to be fixed.
My IC is in Capricorn but I have Saturn in Aquarius in there at the tail end. Also have Uranus and Neptune in my fourth so home as always been a weird uncomfortable place to me. Lots of rules and I locked myself in my room most of the time.
Home as always felt very business like and like my siblings are coworkers and my mom is the boss. My dad doesn’t speak English so I don’t have a relationship with him even though he’s the parent to all 7 of us I was the only one who didn’t learn Spanish so I’m definitely somewhat of a black sheep.
Idk what to really do. Part of me just is tired of trying to relate to my mom. It’s awkward with her even though she spoiled and loved me in her distant way I was always somewhat of a disappointment to her even though I did everything she wanted she called me a waste of talent because I didn’t wanna pursue a singing career! Like um no thanks? She’s a Leo btw lol.
Lots of pain and frustration when it comes to her and I just leave it alone. Idk how else to heal.
I think when we have Saturny moms, we have to come to a point where we stop wanting them to be the mom they "could've should've" been. Having a cold mom is probably one of the most painful things I can think of. (My mom's a Moon-Saturn, so I understand some level of this. Oddly, her mom was also a Moon-Saturn! That's some generational ass coldness lol.) This is probably a weird suggestion, but I realized that I had friends who were sort of my "mom" who gave me the warmth that I could not get from my mom. It's like. . . our moms can't help it. They are who they are, and they cannot give us what we need. So we have to find it SOMEWHERE. Lean on your Cancer moon/rising moon friends. It's very healing.
Puro Astrology my moms mom was also cold to her as well! My mom would always talk about how she was made to do chores while her sisters did normal teenager stuff and would be favored.
My best friend actually is a cancer and she has been more motherly and caring to me than any other friend I’ve ever had. She pays attention to me in a way that I used to find creepy (I’m a Sagittarius lol) but when we’d stop talking I’d actually MISS her and miss talking to her in a way that was beyond just a friend. I always tell her she’s like one of my sisters but I think now you’ve said that about cancers, that she’s actually means more to me than I realized and I need to show her more appreciation instead of thinking she’s like that with just anyone.
As for my mom, you’re right it’s something I just have to let go of and stop being angry and annoyed at her for being so awkward with me because I’m probably just as awkward towards her too lol.
Thank you for your kind words and advice definitely look forward to watching more of your videos!
thank you
May You please post the quotes in the details for this video?
Omg Stacy how didn't I think of that! Yes! I'll post them later. Thank you for that suggestion.
I have moon_saturn in 4th house in Pisces . It's very painful. I feel like I have to carry everyone's pain . I can't even share my feelings with anyone. Lots of suffering 🙄
:C And in Pisces, it's like you don't get to have feelings of your own. Definitely sounds like what you describe.
@@PuroAstrology Is there way to come over these problems . These feelings make my daily routine very difficult. Will it improve over the time?
@@deepeshgupta1521 it requires a concerted effort because think about the nature of Saturn. Saturn is like an old wise man. He wants you to work on these things and develop this side of yourself. It’s the only way 🙏🏼.
@@PuroAstrology Thankyou 🙏
It's soo accurate
Love this 💕
Please suggest those books 📚 pretty please 🥺 😭
Saturn in Aries in 4th house what can be worse ...
Same!!!
In the last year of my Saturn return ( I’m 30) and I’ve learned to be more fragile than I’ve ever been more compassionate to ppl and things around me .. it’s a journey tho I tell u 😂👌🏽‼️🙏🏽
Please tell me what is the remedy to find such a beautiful and pretty spouse like you.I can do everything possible for this.even mission impossible.please suggest me.big thanks.