10 Ways To Biblically Deal With Difficult People

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  • 10 Ways To Biblically Deal With Difficult People
    In this Thursday's live stream I will be going through 10 practical and biblical ways to deal with difficult people in your life.
    TAKEAWAY NOTES:
    10 Ways to Deal with Difficult People
    ⁃ Pray (take time to pray and ask God to examine your heart)
    ⁃ Stay Silent (truly listen to understand, not to reply)
    ⁃ Embrace Suffering (don’t run from all pain, God can use it)
    ⁃ Be Vulnerable (Jesus processed His pain by calling out to God)
    ⁃ Forgive First (don’t wait for an apology. Disinfect your wound ASAP)
    ⁃ Respond, Don’t React (think about how God wants you to respond; don’t just react.)
    ⁃ Keep Serving (Jesus kept ministering, despite His pain.)
    ⁃ Receive From Others (in difficult times allow others to minister to you.)
    ⁃ Distance Yourself (set up boundaries with people who don’t repent.)
    ⁃ Scars Heal (Jesus resurrected, so will you. God will bring you healing.)
    Chapters
    0:00 - How To Deal With Difficult People Biblically
    2:17 - Two Questions To Ask Yourself
    How Jesus Handled Difficult People:
    5:59 - 1. Jesus Prayed
    9:27 - 2. Jesus Was Silent
    15:48 - 3. Jesus took the beating
    24:34 - 4. Jesus poured out His heart to the Father
    27:57 - 5. Jesus forgave before they apologized
    34:44 - 6. Jesus responded to the Father; He did not react to the people
    41:47 - 7. Jesus ministered while suffering
    47:30 - 8. Jesus received ministry from others
    50:40 - 9. Jesus didn’t associate with the Pharisees after His resurrection
    1:00:16 - 10. Jesus rose again, and so will you
    1:01:47 - Prayer
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    1:08:27 - What’s The Best Dating App?
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    1:10:30 - When Do We Fight Sickness?
    1:11:50 - How Do You Seek Repentance?
    1:12:27 - How Do I Know If A Season Of Suffering Needs To End?
    1:13:38 - Where Do I Get Your Merch?
    1:14:03 - What Do I Do If I Married An Abusive Person?
    1:14:25 - What Is A Yoke?
    1:14:53 - Your Thoughts On Yoga?
    1:15:58 - How To Walk Among People Who Hurt You?
    1:18:29 - How To Deal With Sexual Harassment in Church?
    1:18:58 - Where Is HungryGen At?
    1:19:18 - How Do You Rebuild Trust With Someone You Hurt?
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  • @vladhungrygen
    @vladhungrygen  Год назад +55

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    • @sabineauguste7298
      @sabineauguste7298 Год назад +3

      That's really good! I love this message so much. God wanted me to hear it. Thank you Jesus.

    • @12346l
      @12346l Год назад +2

      I am rewatching the video 1

    • @ayebareimmaculate53
      @ayebareimmaculate53 Год назад +1

      1

    • @LaveniaLacuarin
      @LaveniaLacuarin Год назад +3

      Hello pastor!
      are you aware that someone use your pic and create another account,then ask me to pm..dont know the other..
      but said that pm him,then ask me to donate to "godtime motherless orphanage " in africa..and contact in watsapp..

    • @barbarasutherland1470
      @barbarasutherland1470 Год назад +3

      Hi pastor very powerful message that cause me to examine myself as well.

  • @lindads5398
    @lindads5398 Год назад +681

    It is important to set up boundaries with people who do not repent or are toxic. Forgiving a wicked person does not mean you have to be friends with them.

    • @chrcheryl
      @chrcheryl Год назад +106

      It’s hard when they are family…

    • @codyanderson6186
      @codyanderson6186 Год назад +25

      @Cherylhuggins
      A question I currently have regarding that, is what if the parents become toxic to a degree. How do you honor toxic parents. Ones that perhaps may not be openly abusive, but rather become controlling and even micro-manage your young adult (eary 20's) life, even though you don't live a sinful, rebellious life.
      Like, what if trust issues dictate their parenting. And if they choose not to see their faults and receive any corrections because of entitlement.
      A friend of mine is going through something like this, and there may have been a few details I missed.

    • @duaneegunn9916
      @duaneegunn9916 Год назад +4

      Amen

    • @victorylifechurch2009
      @victorylifechurch2009 Год назад +51

      @@codyanderson6186 when the Bible tells us to “bless” our enemies even, one of the core meanings of that phrase is to “not speak against”. Take David as an example. He honored a “toxic” king Saul. He didn’t seek a relationship with him, the opposite actually! He constantly had to hide from him. But he would never “dishonor” or speak against “the Lords anointed. There are times that yes we might have to separate or set up boundaries. In no way is that “dishonoring”. But it’s so easy to fall into the realm of gossip and using our words to dishonor them. Do not speak against but do pray for them. This is the best way to honor those parents in this situation. Now If it got really bad and this person had to take it to the point of having them arrested for abuse, etc. this is still not dishonoring. Quite the opposite I would say. Even being truthful and calling it out in love is not dishonor it’s honor.

    • @ministerannechols294
      @ministerannechols294 Год назад +14

      This is soo good my brother This has helped me Alot... I love your teachings and I honor you and your wife ..Be Encouraged

  • @sallyvasquez6897
    @sallyvasquez6897 Год назад +221

    "If you're not prayed up, difficult people could destroy you" 👏👏👏

  • @irenekogut6803
    @irenekogut6803 10 месяцев назад +98

    Silence is golden. Walk away with love in your heart. Put it in Jesus’ hands. It works. ❤❤❤❤

    • @juliamartin9047
      @juliamartin9047 6 месяцев назад +1

      Sometimes that is the best option

    • @mihaelavoievidca6860
      @mihaelavoievidca6860 6 месяцев назад +2

      This is not possible when i live with a toxic husband and i can’t live

    • @Packacone420
      @Packacone420 3 месяца назад

      What's missing in scripture, is pregnant with meaning.

  • @pinolerak72
    @pinolerak72 10 месяцев назад +38

    Respond to the father, do not react to people. Serve while you’re suffering. Thank you for this video, very insightful

    • @mihaelavoievidca6860
      @mihaelavoievidca6860 6 месяцев назад

      Probably you’re not married

    • @inekevenema6120
      @inekevenema6120 5 месяцев назад +1

      Especially when you're married. It's such an important relationship. Suffer to save it

  • @SabrenaODay
    @SabrenaODay Год назад +223

    “Betrayal is what people do to us. Bitterness, is what we do to ourselves.”

  • @sheilasmith7890
    @sheilasmith7890 Год назад +128

    It is hard when it’s your own parent that hurts you over and over again and doesn’t think twice about it. It’s only because of God that I am where I am today and how I treat my children and other people. Thank you Lord!

    • @terridillon3053
      @terridillon3053 Год назад +9

      My parents too

    • @lydiapalele3258
      @lydiapalele3258 Год назад +6

      True.

    • @jeanpolenglagora8293
      @jeanpolenglagora8293 11 месяцев назад +4

      It is hard when it’s your own parent that guests you over and over again and doesn’t think twice about it. It’s only because of God that I am where I am today and How treat my children and other people. Thank you Lord!

    • @nancyhereford8442
      @nancyhereford8442 10 месяцев назад +1

      Don't let your pain stop your purpose

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah, it was hard to deal with crazy parents. My mistake years ago was not having boundaries with them and enforcing them. In my youth. Sheila, while we can't hate people, we don't have to be around abusive parents and enable evil ! It's not a sin to block abuse. Narcissistic people can't be pleased or reasoned with. Your mother chooses to be dysfunctional. You don't have to stay and take abuse.

  • @lynn7348
    @lynn7348 3 месяца назад +9

    Pain does make you selfish. I have a lot of trauma and it's hard to let go of the selfishness. I trust the LORD will transform my thoughts and ways.

  • @birdlover5
    @birdlover5 10 месяцев назад +31

    "Forgiveness Does not restore trust..Set boundaries."
    Thank you pastor! I had a hard time trying to understand what forgiving an evil person who refuses to change!
    Someone pray for me. I have an evil co worker whom for three years have spread evil rumors, mess with things on my desk, provoke me to react and tries to set me up to fall before others. She will literally devise scenarios in which I will fall in front of others. She prepares wicked responses for if I answer yes or if I answer no on her calculated questions. I ignore her all the time and try to answer professionally during work and keep it short. I am tired of the harassment and being stalked by her. She is a wicked envious person. I'm trying hard to forgive and move on but it's like doing evil revives her vigor for doing it!

    • @SarahBearah2023
      @SarahBearah2023 7 месяцев назад +5

      Unclean spirits.
      U g h .
      I have been trapped with them before, too.
      Silent prayer + Scripture only. Just the Word of Jesus Himself. + My prayers.

    • @birdlover5
      @birdlover5 7 месяцев назад +2

      @SarahBearah2023 Thank you!! ❤️ Prayer and scripture helps. I will wait on the Lord.

    • @mihaelavoievidca6860
      @mihaelavoievidca6860 6 месяцев назад +2

      The devil he hates as and he’s using people to harm as let’s don’t give him this satisfaction to see as in pain we staying strong in the Lord Jesus Christ

    • @judepatrick7684
      @judepatrick7684 Месяц назад +3

      I've been, though, a lot of evil people in the workplace. Horrible manipulative bosses, mean co-workers. I know what you're going through. I used to cry going to work because I didn't want to go. But the bills have to be paid. So you go. Later in life, I learned to always talk to Jesus to help me through the day. All day long. I was so blessed to have him help me through. I also noticed that my boss and others were starting to respond in a nicer manner towards me. When you humble yourself, others can become your friend. Talk to Jesus, and turn the problems over to him. Life is so better. Let Jesus be your friend 🙏

    • @judepatrick7684
      @judepatrick7684 Месяц назад +1

      You are an awesome preacher!!!!thank you for this prayer. Your information is great, and I will be sharing.

  • @kristinalovelace7780
    @kristinalovelace7780 Год назад +113

    So powerful - keep you mouth closed and ears open, Jesus was silent ..he listened

  • @jimmyaniebiet9263
    @jimmyaniebiet9263 Год назад +64

    Don't let your current pain stop your purpose. Don't let your misery stop your ministry

    • @SCar86MALE
      @SCar86MALE 11 месяцев назад +1

      Wwow ❤❤❤🎉

    • @holotrout
      @holotrout 10 месяцев назад +1

      🙏

    • @cyneathiaajgray6092
      @cyneathiaajgray6092 10 месяцев назад +2

      What a Good, Strong word! I thank the Lord Jesus 💖 Christ for using you. Thank you 😊❤

  • @diragaming585
    @diragaming585 Месяц назад +2

    Re watching as I am going through it with a difficult person. I was hurt by words spoken over me, and they didn't understand the pain it caused me. I reacted with anger and caused her pain, but now I realize that I need to forgive her even though she is difficult. I got re baptized and repented for all my mistakes, my anger, my pain and suffering, my addictions. I'm putting God first before anyone amd anything, and it has been such a blessing. Thank you, Lord, for pruning me for long suffering! In Jesus name!

  • @user-ow4fb5qv9o
    @user-ow4fb5qv9o 10 месяцев назад +30

    I am still listening and I will probably listen again another 10 times to grasp all that the Holy Spirit is teaching me in this video. Thank you thank you thank you for emptying yourself for His use!!!

  • @darehlis1480
    @darehlis1480 Год назад +41

    Serve while your suffering 🙌🏼

  • @itohowoasinyang8329
    @itohowoasinyang8329 Год назад +29

    Don’t let your current pain stop your purpose. Don’t let your misery block your ministry

    • @EvaCortez
      @EvaCortez 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah that one hit me too

    • @roadchamp4082
      @roadchamp4082 10 месяцев назад

      Well said!!!

  • @juliejackson6734
    @juliejackson6734 8 месяцев назад +7

    Respond to the Father, do not react to the people. Thank you so much for this wonderful sermon!

  • @NotUrAvrg
    @NotUrAvrg Год назад +60

    I'm finding much conviction in this video from being hurt by someone I'm with. My past and flesh rises to retaliate instead of taking the lower place. Lord God help me in all things, doing all things for you and your glory.

    • @annmariebundick9011
      @annmariebundick9011 Год назад

      I receive your prayer and purpose my heart to love and forgive.

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 8 месяцев назад +2

      Why be with someone who is hurting you ? You can have boundaries.

    • @NotUrAvrg
      @NotUrAvrg 8 месяцев назад

      @@JulieSevelson-nb9nj I'm not with them anymore. The Lord has given me the strength to leave

  • @maryberry4295
    @maryberry4295 Год назад +82

    Don't let your current pain stops you from your purpose!!! Amen!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @daniellelevine9638
    @daniellelevine9638 10 месяцев назад +12

    13:22 this hit home so hard. My stepdad is one of the most difficult human beings I’ve ever met in my entire life. I have to pray before and after leaving his presence. I must say this was so helpful to remember that Jesus was silent in front of Pontius. There is nothing that I can say that will make my stepdad change his mind that he knows everything and I know nothing. Thank you for this message on dealing with difficult people. It is such a great reminder. I also have to remember that I am a pain in the butt when it comes to Jesus too.

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 8 месяцев назад +4

      If your stepfather dislikes you, you aren't helping him, or yourself by forcing yourself to go around him all the time. Please just have boundaries that you can live with. A little of him goes a very long way,lol !

    • @willadeanclowe8032
      @willadeanclowe8032 7 месяцев назад +1

      Unfortunately I feel boundaries should be talked about. Some people are actually out to destroy you. Honestly, God doesn't want us destroyed. He loves us and has a purpose for us. We must set boundaries. Of course, We pray always. Avoid the destroyers.

    • @mihaelavoievidca6860
      @mihaelavoievidca6860 6 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @nellieventer5884
    @nellieventer5884 7 месяцев назад +2

    Today this was what I needed to hear. From a emotional abusive marriage of 35 years- 5 years down the road to healing, my daughter turned into her father's footsteps and have nothing good to say to me, people reading thus know please pray for me to get that distance without hurting my grandchildren

  • @lindads5398
    @lindads5398 Год назад +72

    In your difficult times God will use people to minister to you....don't give up on people.

    • @alejandragalvan9901
      @alejandragalvan9901 Год назад +10

      Man, I needed this comment! I have had it with a person and I just needed to hear this

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell Год назад +5

      ​@@alejandragalvan9901 amen, same here!

    • @theskender
      @theskender Год назад +6

      Finding this very true

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@alejandragalvan9901Boundaries. We have to forgive,true. But you're allowed to have boundaries with people who are terrible to you.

  • @lisabrickner6004
    @lisabrickner6004 Год назад +46

    I needed this desperately. These wounds have been infected for years.. This really helped.. I have been swinging like a blind woman backed into a corner this last year trying to get relief.. I believe the wounds brought even sickness in my body.. Thank you Jesus and thankyou pastor Vlad.

  • @tinafillmer6220
    @tinafillmer6220 2 месяца назад +1

    I have listened to this multiple times, have taken notes on it, have reviewed it and rereviewed it. I cannot thank you enough. Vlad, you are annointed and I thank God for you and your ministry.

  • @raquelmartinez4929
    @raquelmartinez4929 15 дней назад

    May the Lord give us the strength 💪 to endure hardships Amen. Because God uses difficulties in our life to grow us .

  • @keirstinnn
    @keirstinnn 10 месяцев назад +33

    AMEN! I am a born again Christian and I have lost all of my best friends due to my beliefs. I admit, I used to not handle conflict in a very godly way, and I believe I am being tested in some ways lately. I've been trying very hard to not react and to give it to God. This video has also helped me for this journey. Thank you ♥

  • @aladyindeed2604
    @aladyindeed2604 Год назад +14

    This is one of the best messages I’ve ever heard in my ENTIRE LIFE. I declare if I was in your state I would find a way to come and stay as long as I could. All I can say like I did on the last message on difficult people is THANK JESUS FOR YOU ! May He bless and protect you and your people forever ❗️amen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @deborahhidalgo-knapp1953
      @deborahhidalgo-knapp1953 10 месяцев назад

      YES. Amén AMEN amén. Thank you very very much for being a blessing to me.

  • @dovewhite7472
    @dovewhite7472 8 месяцев назад +1

    I needed to hear this message. I feel self-pity. Just learned I have cancer. I trust God to use this situation through this situation. I feel so hurt by some church friends and family

  • @user-jy4yk1su8p
    @user-jy4yk1su8p 7 месяцев назад +2

    I am watching this for the first time. It's a blessing to me. Your message helps me overcome from the bottom of my heart. Thanks! You are les by the Spirit for our healing !!! May God bless you!

  • @akudela7763
    @akudela7763 Год назад +43

    Yesterday was a bad day at work, as a black lady in leadership, I face a lot of backlash from people who think they know better. I am always overwhelmed and think of quitting. This message has given me a lot of hope to deal with difficult people. God bless you Pastor.

    • @Shofargirl1
      @Shofargirl1 10 месяцев назад +5

      Think of yourself as a leader, as you are, not a black leader.😊 (I hope you understand what I am saying)

    • @deborahhidalgo-knapp1953
      @deborahhidalgo-knapp1953 10 месяцев назад

      I understand completely. As a Mexican woman in leadership, I sometimes want to quit too😢

    • @ecb8995
      @ecb8995 10 месяцев назад +2

      The harder the greater the testimony ;) And even tough you might suffer from racism remember people will ALWAYS find something to mock about.. if it’s not your skin color it is the way you dress or your accent or something else.. but when you have your identity based on Christ people will look right trough that and just see an amazing woman.. and they will praise and bless you because they will witness an example of love..

  • @melanieweldon9154
    @melanieweldon9154 Год назад +30

    Thank you pastor Vlad .
    In schools and at home we aren't taught how to deal with difficult people .
    When it hits you in life you just go through it .
    praise God we have Jesus's example.
    thank God Father knows how to use our tears and pain into a testimony.
    He gets the glory .

  • @lovejoyg10
    @lovejoyg10 8 месяцев назад +4

    Betrayal vs bitterness. Thank you for the biblical insight 🙏🏽

  • @shandrashoshanna263
    @shandrashoshanna263 10 месяцев назад +7

    Vlad, your teaching is genuine, sincere and awesome. Godly man you are.

  • @macyrosario971
    @macyrosario971 11 месяцев назад +7

    1.... I have an extremely hard time forgiving... I needed this message. ❤

  • @womenveteranspeakersexecut3475
    @womenveteranspeakersexecut3475 7 месяцев назад +1

    What an awesome teaching. Than you for sharing. I went through abuse for 14 years-almost beaten to death, but God intervened. I wish I would have heard this then. I forgave him, but don’t have anything to do with him now.

  • @olyrollie
    @olyrollie Год назад +40

    Thank you for this message... I always felt guilty walking away from toxic people, I always thought God placement me in these relationships to help these people to know Jesus, our because they relied on my help therefore I couldn't put up a boundary. I've overlooked their offenses for years and years while deep inside I mourned and cried every single time and I felt like I had to stick around because that's what you do with family...

    • @tammyward1765
      @tammyward1765 11 месяцев назад +1

      I felt sorry for my husband whom has made my life a night made for 14 years. I let him back home because he was out in the sweltering heat with no where to go

    • @rhiza7595
      @rhiza7595 11 месяцев назад +5

      same here,i felt convicted if i left my husband betrayed me twice while Im stuggling in cancer disease. but im emotionally drain, million tears and sleepless night which is not good for my health.

    • @holotrout
      @holotrout 10 месяцев назад +2

      Don’t stop loving yourself

    • @Shofargirl1
      @Shofargirl1 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@rhiza7595You have to let him go....because it is not only your Physical health but your Spiritual health that is in danger. I was also very sick and the man I married refused to help me. I could have died and he did not care...FOCUS ONLY ON GOD. Submit all to HIM.. ( that is what I did ) and the LORD is leading me. I am still healing. GOD BLESS You. (Look up narcissism)😊

    • @JulieSevelson-nb9nj
      @JulieSevelson-nb9nj 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@tammyward1765I hope that you can get your husband a caseworker to help him apply for affordable housing. It's better for him, and for you. It sounds like the husband has had an abusive childhood and it made him mean. He needs trauma therapy for that, and one day he needs to turn his life over to Jesus too.

  • @thenana1845
    @thenana1845 2 месяца назад

    I RECIEVE THIS PRAYER!!! Teaching & instruction on this particular topic is so very important. My daughter is dealing with this at work currently. She is now looking for different employment as things have become oppressive & toxic, even though her performance has increased (God Bless her and her sweet spirit!). Because of the instructions I rcv'd today thru this teaching I can support her much better and pray MORE effectively for her situation. God Bless you, in Jesus name!!

  • @marithescaspe7976
    @marithescaspe7976 6 месяцев назад +1

    Don't let current pain, stop our real purpose . Thank you very much for this teaching.🥰

  • @Giantslayingfaith
    @Giantslayingfaith Год назад +28

    I received this prayer. My heart was physically hurting during that prayer. God is healing me. Hallelujah!

  • @BooklandU
    @BooklandU Год назад +14

    This helped me a lot. I prayed to God about helping me figure out how to handle some different difficult circumstances in my life with other people that I care about, but they care less about me. God lead me here and I made notes in my journal. Praise be to God and the Holy Spirit for always answering my prayers when I come to him. Thank you for this.

    • @holotrout
      @holotrout 10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you

  • @sabithapillay2150
    @sabithapillay2150 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the message. I used to be very bitter over situations in my marriage and life in general, but the Holy Spirit is healing me. I turn to Jesus for help all the time.

  • @user-uz8qu1nt9c
    @user-uz8qu1nt9c 7 месяцев назад

    I am rewatching this,and i was wounded,and broken, got betrayed to the people I've loved and being part of my life,i don't deserve to be treated like this,but time got punished, and i don't know why God allows it to happen to me,and now i surrendered and submit to God,my hurt and failures,and i know God will reward everything satan has taken away from me, nothing is impossible with our Lord,God turn out on my favor,for having a better life,In Jesus Christ Mighty Name Amen

  • @marybrooks8147
    @marybrooks8147 11 месяцев назад +7

    I can't tell you how many times I've said "Time heals all wounds". You are so right that they need to be cleansed in order to heal properly. We must forgive those that hurt us! I have seen so many people still hurting and mad after years of not forgiving. God has the answers for living on this earth if we will listen. Thank you for this teaching. God bless you and your family.

  • @daisyarwine1245
    @daisyarwine1245 11 месяцев назад +12

    The most healthy and important thing that I learned and embraced in my life as a Christian is setting up boundaries with people who always took me for granted. This video affirmed my questions about forgiveness and boundaries. Ptr. Vlad, you are a blessing to my heart. God bless you, your family, amd your ministry in Christ Jesus.

  • @ashleyrobbins1913
    @ashleyrobbins1913 8 месяцев назад +1

    I receive this prayer. Lord, help me to be bold and to set up boundaries. Lord, forgive me and help me. I want the life that I live to bring glory to Your Name Alone Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @naldovaz9157
    @naldovaz9157 2 месяца назад

    Yes silence is best with difficult people and may our lives reflect the love of God

  • @Evie-be5et
    @Evie-be5et Год назад +27

    I am listening to this message for the first time ... I have been so mentally traumatized by repetitive circumstances happening over years that I've failed to read the bible for a long time for myself as I feel constantly overwhelmed ... by God's amazing grace He has fed me scriptures from the past or a song to lift me up, as a sword... I just haven't known how to break this cycle re relationships with people ... THANK YOU Pasor Vlad for caring and sharing these pearls of instruction

  • @sarahthomas2922
    @sarahthomas2922 Год назад +14

    I cried a few times watching this video...I think God was healing me or something...God bless you Pastor Vlad.

  • @jajajeje9311
    @jajajeje9311 6 месяцев назад

    I was touched with your preaching, i believe God used you to teach me how to love .as i prayed this morning i ask God to teach me how to do His will.. I'm glad that I am answered prayer with your preaching... praise God, praise JESUS CHRIST and praise the Holy Spirit..Glory to His holy name

  • @aliettekayitesi5874
    @aliettekayitesi5874 8 месяцев назад

    Oooh Halelluuuuuuuuuuuujah Man of GOD, Praise The Name Of The Lord!!!!!!!

  • @yvetterivera3039
    @yvetterivera3039 Год назад +30

    I receive this prayer. I have been set free. Glory to God!! Thank you Pastor Vlad for your ministry. ❤

  • @traceycox812
    @traceycox812 Год назад +18

    I haven't heard the Gospel preached like this in a long time. Thank you!

  • @Look_to_Jesus12
    @Look_to_Jesus12 5 месяцев назад

    So grateful this came my way today.!! I repent, and I'm toxic as well...but I understand where my "toxicity" comes from...blow after blow...I never wanted the recognition...I tend to react rather than respond but I do ask forgiveness. I've learnt to ask for guidance before taking any matter on. Setting my boundaries has caused fingers to point back to me...everytime. last night I didn't want to pray...just said sorry Father. Once again God answers! Now to stop isolating out of fear and break down my walls and find my new circle of WWJD friends...and to serve and get out these toxic circumstances, i thought i was places here....but time to move on..i did run to people 1st, no more..where and how GOD WILL SUPPLY...in Jesus Mghty name.Amen

  • @maryhope4196
    @maryhope4196 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yes Lord. Help me to always remember to lean on your comfort. If acceptable to you, find me another church and give me loving people that I can always thank you for.

  • @carmenlucas9526
    @carmenlucas9526 11 месяцев назад +13

    I am rewatching this, taking notes and sharing it with others.
    I need some people in my life to understand this and forgive. Much like you said, forgiving doesn’t mean they are off the hook, but it’s allowing you to heal and for our Lord to forgive much more in us. Thank you brother for your beautiful sermon

  • @candacewilliams1986
    @candacewilliams1986 Год назад +22

    I’m rewatching this and YES 1 it’s helping….I work with the public everyday ITS NOT EASY! I can’t go 1 SECOND without God! I desperately NEED God at work, at home, everywhere for everything! Thank you for you teachings Vlad! 😊 So helpful as always!

  • @saltnlight3408
    @saltnlight3408 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm rewatching this timely word. I am learning how to lead correctly. I won't destroy the bike, rather cleanse my wound with Forgiveness.

  • @wendyfisher6318
    @wendyfisher6318 9 месяцев назад +3

    I recieved this prayer and this video absolutely has been a blessing. Thank you Lord Jesus!

  • @lindads5398
    @lindads5398 Год назад +7

    I receive this prayer in Jesus name. Please pray for me and my family. I have suffered much hurt in church. But I thank God for Jesus.

  • @vae319
    @vae319 Год назад +10

    Vlad, this was excellent. I watched it twice! Betrayal is a hard thing to forgive especially when you realize that your loved one chose to do this.
    Then, anger at myself for staying with someone who has always chose to lie and manipulate. I can say that the forgiveness feels so good.
    I have a testimony!! I thank Jesus for this tough season. Much good has come from it.

  • @user-gg9wk6vp3o
    @user-gg9wk6vp3o 6 месяцев назад

    “Serve while suffering” ; Thank you Pastor Vlad for this message. It helps with my situation. Please help me to pray for my stubborn and difficult husband that God would touch his heart and change into his likeness. Pray also for restoration. Thank you very much. God Bless!…🙏

  • @msmcfeeful
    @msmcfeeful 7 месяцев назад +1

    Receive this prayer, in Jesus Name!

  • @evelynwilson3577
    @evelynwilson3577 Год назад +9

    Dont let current pain stop your purpose and dont let misery stop your ministry👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ofw-life2278
    @ofw-life2278 Год назад +14

    Don't let your current pain stop you in serving god. 🙏

  • @sherryking7890
    @sherryking7890 6 месяцев назад +2

    1:06:16 I received this prayer in Jesus name! Amen!!!

  • @michelleapplegate4322
    @michelleapplegate4322 Месяц назад

    #1 This is the BEST sermon ever ! I’ve written down almost every word. Thank you for your ministry . You are a friend on my journey ! God bless

  • @dustinwilson6561
    @dustinwilson6561 Год назад +5

    Pray for the ppl who are hard to deal with while letting them know there loved by God and you

  • @daughterofzion4157
    @daughterofzion4157 Год назад +12

    I recieve this prayer wholeheartedly. This message blessed me and i will continue to ask Jesus christ to use me to blessed others.

  • @sandrarutledge6236
    @sandrarutledge6236 8 месяцев назад +5

    Don’t let your pain, block your purpose!❤

  • @ajithako3383
    @ajithako3383 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amen...I am facing this problem.... difficult to handle people....help me Lord and Holy spirit

  • @yhygiam8648
    @yhygiam8648 Год назад +20

    I’m glad this video is still available, and I’m grateful because God is using you as a vessel to teach us with His knowledge. I had a different concept about treating difficult people, but God called me out with this lesson. God bless you, Pastor Vlad.

  • @nothembazizipho6829
    @nothembazizipho6829 Год назад +12

    Wow just when I thought I would watch this video months later,it was a word I needed from God especially I am facing difficult people at church some I had to personally apologize and asked if I did something wrong but they didnt give any of their grievances to me yet they still act bitter towards me in which God had to show me in dreams ❤🙏🙏🙏may I recieve Jeus's grace of facing difficult people from all walks of life🙏all love from🇿🇦

  • @nicholemace3506
    @nicholemace3506 10 месяцев назад

    I recieve this prayer I just wt to thank you I watch u daily & have helped me tremendously thank you & please pray for me & my house it has demons ghosts etc on top of numerous people I have welcomed in to my home no problem with no money cooked cleaned etc for them & all I get in return is stolen from mind games played like moving my stuff around or repalcing my things with their things etc its to the point I have had to double up on my anxiety meds cuz anything they know bothers me they do 10xs more so I really need some help Divine intervention please pray for me thank you have a Blessed life

  • @maryhope4196
    @maryhope4196 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yes Lord, help me understand to forgive people.

  • @alemayehuwoldemichael585
    @alemayehuwoldemichael585 11 месяцев назад +5

    You are blessed, dear pastor!
    You set me free by this lesson from my past , present and future!!! Wow!
    By the grace of God my narcissistic enemies didn't finish me!
    But they totally ruined me in every angle of my life.
    Praise the Lord: He restored me!

  • @tamarakuklinski4240
    @tamarakuklinski4240 Год назад +5

    Pause and ponder!!! Yes LORD thank you.

  • @lindaortega610
    @lindaortega610 6 месяцев назад

    12/23/2023 4:57 am Corrales, NM I’m listening. I truly appreciate your teaching. Thank you.

  • @lillyvillegas6348
    @lillyvillegas6348 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing the gospel,
    Please pray for me for I’m dealing with difficult supervisors.

  • @beliazepeda7763
    @beliazepeda7763 Год назад +6

    Thank you for this message; my daughter that is going through the Valley at this time shared this with me. She is seeking God’s Guidance at this time.

  • @Aliciahj_
    @Aliciahj_ Год назад +8

    This is the message I needed to hear. Thank God for speaking to me through you💕 God won't remove my scarves, but He will heal my wounds.

  • @ppazautomation
    @ppazautomation 5 месяцев назад

    Jesus! This was so powerful. I need to listen to this many times. all the examples in the Bible that he gave just humbled me.

  • @aynasayoutube
    @aynasayoutube 6 месяцев назад +1

    1 Very helpful. Thank you Pastor Vlad for sharing this. I was asking God to teach me to forgive people who have hurt me especially my loved ones and the Holy Spirit led me here 🙏❤

  • @ALPHAK911
    @ALPHAK911 Год назад +17

    Thank you for your guiding ministry. God bless you!

  • @sandychuck8388
    @sandychuck8388 Год назад +6

    I am a living testimony to this teaching, God blesses you and your family Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @shariskahklaaste6437
    @shariskahklaaste6437 Месяц назад

    Thank you Lord Jesus for healing me from the hurt

  • @dianadavis6512
    @dianadavis6512 9 месяцев назад +5

    I receive this prayer. Such a blessing Pastor Vlad. ❤

  • @sparrow7845
    @sparrow7845 Год назад +5

    Holy Spirit help us to do what Right in Your Eyes….Thankyou Pastor Vlad for your prayer and bringing the Truth to the church!😊❤

  • @chonamanuel902
    @chonamanuel902 Год назад +6

    Thank you LORD JESUS CHRIST For this awesome message .
    I am rewatching it , to be ponder by the truth and be revive in my personal walk with my LOVING SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😇😇😇

  • @ShanaJane82
    @ShanaJane82 10 месяцев назад +1

    I can admit it. At times, 😅behave the worst attitude and reaction to negative things. I needed to hear this. It’s not a coincidence me stumbling across this podcast. So thankful for the Lord using this man to speak to His children.

  • @aneciadennis8965
    @aneciadennis8965 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you pastor I’m going through this right now but I received this prayer and it was indeed a blessing to me. GOD bless you and your family

  • @ashleyrobbins1913
    @ashleyrobbins1913 Год назад +5

    Thank You for your Love & commitment to our Lord, Savior & King, Jesus Christ. God Bless y’all! Peace & Blessings

  • @SariShalom
    @SariShalom Год назад +6

    Im rewatcing and blessed encouraged by the words of God and your testimony 🙏🏽 amen! Immanuel. Thankyou brother!

  • @lynnriggs3069
    @lynnriggs3069 7 месяцев назад +1

    I believe and receive this prayer in Jesus mighty name!

  • @talilagidelailoa804
    @talilagidelailoa804 7 месяцев назад +1

    I receive this prayer🔥🙌🙏 in Jesus name

  • @TheHelenhunter
    @TheHelenhunter Год назад +5

    I just realized I was praying for an answer to this issue .. wow unbelievable. Maybe two days ago I started praying for God to show me the reason and solution behind this entire issue.

  • @goodsamaritan6203
    @goodsamaritan6203 Год назад +8

    Wow the part about healing and forgiveness spoke straight to me!😭

  • @juliejackson6734
    @juliejackson6734 8 месяцев назад +1

    I loved your examples of the church being a hospital not a museum and a place for fishing for souls not an aquarium of exotic fish. Such imagery that furthers understanding. Thank you Heavenly Father for this wonderful sermon through pastor Vlad!

  • @williamkooy5426
    @williamkooy5426 7 месяцев назад

    Keep telling these truths. May the Lord our savior bless this man and his ministry. This is truth.

  • @marysmith2858
    @marysmith2858 11 месяцев назад +6

    Yes helping, thank you Pastor Vlad
    “Respond to the Father, don’t react.”
    Holy Spirit help me to remember when the heat is on…🙏
    Amen

  • @kiracasaday9667
    @kiracasaday9667 Год назад +8

    I received this prayer. This stream word for word was a blessing for me. Thank you Jesus and holy spirit.🙌 Thank you pastor Vlad🙏

  • @ShellyAnderson0624
    @ShellyAnderson0624 10 месяцев назад

    This is the first practical, Godly advice I've heard on this topic. I have been at a loss until now.