Yes! Exactly. It makes you hold strangers approval over your loved ones. For me it's because the people that love you should love your accomplishments but if its a stranger then to me it feels more powerful. Worth more because it's not expected
The second part of your video really speaks to me. I have mental health challenges (bipolar, anxiety and ADD) and my own life challenges, so I need to work on me in a way that's catered to my needs, not to someone else's. :) thank you! Love
Yes! I literally can't sit still and do nothing ... Even when I'm watching TV , I need to do something else with my hands. I feel SO much better when I stay busy and get a ton of stuff done...... You aren't alone in that struggle.
I know this is an older video but I often love to go back and watch all of your videos over again. I'm from Shelby NC and currently traveling to Charlotte to the Levine Cancer center because I have stage 4 cervical cancer that meets with my bladder. I just needed to say this and even if you don't see this need you to know that you inspire me so very much. I look at you and see the most amazing, smart, human being. Your videos distract me from my current situation and how real you are is so relatable. You are playing a part in my journey through this even if you had no idea. I look up to you and the sound of your voice and the real things you share are so comforting to me. You are an inspiration. You are a huge light in this world and I just needed you to know that. I can put on your videos and forget the hell I'm living in even just for a few minutes. Your channel is an escape for me and I'm so thankful for what you do and are doing. Xoxoxo
You are very brave to discuss your challenges with such forthrightness. It is very easy and tempting to hide things like this. I have also struggled with the poles of perfectionism and self-loathing / depression since I was a child. ❤️
So I've basically been binge watching a bunch of your videos lately because I just feel like I vibe with you in major ways, and you have a lot of really interesting things to say. I just really loved this video. I'm on antidepressants, too. I appreciate your raw, realness. I think we're about the same age, and it seems we're into the same music (you mentioned Our Lady Peace and TOOL in another video I just watched, which, OLP is an old favorite, and TOOL is a forever favorite. You mentioned in this video musicians dying in their 20's, and of course, I instantly think of Kurt Cobain and Bradley Nowell, Nirvana and Sublime being two of my all time favorite bands. Anyway, thanks for all of your videos; you give so much to our community, and I know I appreciate it.
But seriously, thanks for opening up on this. I think a lot of “work ethic” questions are really people looking for a short cut. Like, “where did you get your Time Turner from so you can magically fit it all in?” It’s like, sorry, no. You can’t watch 12 hours of Netflix a day and get your dream project done. It just doesn’t work that way! K? K. Anyway, sending love always, coz your awesome and I’m always waiting for your updates. 💖💖
You go girl! Loved the honesty with the wine. I've been dealing with productivity and releasing myself from cannabis 'addiction'. I'm constantly asking what my True Will is. I feel like I have a good clue. I also write about Witches in my college papers too, every class.
I gave up coffee for over a year after an illness. I just couldn't get coffee. Still have my evening tea though. You will enjoy the "idleness" when you get my age!
That was great. Thank you for your honesty. I’m going to have my 16 yr old STEM student daughter watch. She’s a sufferer of social anxiety, very smart, pretty, awkward and self-pressured. Some of what you’ve said reminded me of her. I want her to know how this feeling of awkwardness can be recognized, dealt with and managed to a degree. She’s aware of how much of an influence you are to this gen of witches, etc. Thank you, WickerMandy
I feel not productive when I’m just being still. I’m finding it hard to meditate and it sucks! I beat myself up for it and it makes me depressed so thank you for posting this
When I was younger I had so much ambition. No fear of being a “go getter” found myself in an abusive relationship, devastating thoughts of worthless. That I still feel. I am a single mom of two beautiful daughters. Of course they are my number one purpose. I’ve lost interest in all the things all love. Being a witch, doing ritual work. I just need some much help.
A big message I’ve gotten recently concerning this issue is that voice, the inner critic that’s always pushing the will towards the ideal self, doesn’t always know how to objectively get us to our goals. A lot of the time it can be like the blind leading the blind. I think it’s great that you found your True Will, because holding onto that truth is the only way to keep that voice in check sometimes.
I love being an active person. It sucks because I've been suffering from cabin fever for years since health and other bs got in the way. Alcohol is amazing for cabin fever in my case lol, but its not great either. It's been hard to focus when it comes to things I can do, like reading and writing, because I'm just burned out on it lol.
Thorn. I really needed to hear this! I really appreciate this message now. The Goddess definitely wove this into my tapestry for today as an answer to something my mom and I were discussing last night. It's amazing how time and space dont matter to carry wisdom through. May I please send you an email? I would like to share something that you have helped me with through this video... And it's a biggie. Bright blessings, from Cape Town, South Africa
btw i really loved this video, i relate to many things you said and it's always nice to know that you're not alone, that even if each of us is a unique individual, some dynamics or problems are common to more people.
great video, thanks for sharing your challenges in life. It truly helps us to know we are not alone with the struggles of life. I relate to several of the things you talked about here.
Really interesting thoughts. I would love to hear more on the subject of True Will & Great Work. How do you know whether something is your "True Will" rather than just something you want?
I have a really hard time, getting going, starting my day. My thoughts run wild. And that keeps me stuck. Then I feel guilty because I didn’t get everything done. Vicious cycle. I don’t know how to get my emotions, and thoughts under control Major anxiety, and depression.
I had a similar experience in a Welsh Trad coven (unfortunately it did not survive a bad breakup) I’d say treat your covenmate relationships with great care, because they can shatter
In Christian communities there’s the idea of Vocation as opposed to Divine Will. In my experience, very few people talk about it outside of holy orders or ministry. The concept of a divine calling seems kind of alien to a lot of people.
Most people don't get clinical depression. You know, get it, understand it, at all. Yeah, it is chemical but try to explain that to people that don't have it. . . . impossible. It makes me gag when someone tries to make me "feel better" or tell me to cheer up. Just stand back and wait. I'll be back when it's time. So any way. Have a good day. Thanks for the video.
How funny. I came to this late, but I also quit drinking recently. Since a major life change last summer, I chose to remove it for my emotional health.
I kinda blog as well but not all the time. I am trying to find one that I like but it is hard. I was wondering is facebook alright to blog things out that witchy or not.?
I’m so curious to know. What is your specific area of study? Is it English Lit? Undergrad in Religious Studies? I’ve seen enough videos to appreciate your articulate and intimate communication style. I love to write about witchcraft and have considered a grad degree. Not sure which program contains the appropriate themes to write about non-Christian theology and specifically, Paganism.
In regards to purpose, I agree we don’t do a good job of supporting the development of that but for me that was nursed but I lost it in my 30s. Specifically because nothing actually matters. We are humans who are on this particular planet for a short amt of time, and we’re all gonna die. Maybe reincarnated, who knows. But for me, it’s very difficult to pursue... anything... almost without feeling supremely indulgent and selfish. The only reason coven work is ok is because it seems we are all invested/dedicated to each other. And that’s pretty cool. But ultimately I think having kids is how we give meaning to life and indulge in the fallacy of legacy. It’s hard to exist in a world you know doesn’t really matter let alone “pursue a purpose”. Just seems like fake living. 🤷🏽♀️
Hello Thorn, have you ever done yoga before? I REALLY think it could help you to keep yourself in balance, we all struggle with depression or emotional issues etc its just part of modern life, please give it a chance you won't regret it.
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I appreciate that this comment is coming from a loving place, but I really feel the need to point out how potentially dismissive the language of "we all struggle with depression or emotional issues" is of people who have chemical imbalances or other mental health issues that need medication and/or therapy to deal with. Yes, we all struggle with emotions and stress and so on, and yoga is often highly beneficial - but to say that "depression" is "just" a part of modern life is dismissive of the very real nature of mental health problems and the need for medical intervention/help in those cases.
I agree with Aine... “we all struggle with depression” is just false, and saying “just do yoga” is dismissive. It’s pretty rude to assume someone doesn’t already do or hasn’t already tried yoga anyway.
@ I only can speak through my experience (Certified yoga teacher, Healer and Specialist in TCM) Is not my responsability to tell you what to do with your process. But there are a plenty options before taking medication, yes sometimes is needed but not always. Im certanly saying this from love. I think Thorn is brilliant she deserves better that pitty comments, wine or pills.
"i would rather be kind of mediocre but just really really hard-working" i like this!
Yes! Exactly. It makes you hold strangers approval over your loved ones. For me it's because the people that love you should love your accomplishments but if its a stranger then to me it feels more powerful. Worth more because it's not expected
The second part of your video really speaks to me. I have mental health challenges (bipolar, anxiety and ADD) and my own life challenges, so I need to work on me in a way that's catered to my needs, not to someone else's. :) thank you! Love
I’m glad you found you tribe, your family. Thank you for your honesty.
Yes!
I literally can't sit still and do nothing ... Even when I'm watching TV , I need to do something else with my hands. I feel SO much better when I stay busy and get a ton of stuff done...... You aren't alone in that struggle.
I just stumbled upon this video. It is truly wonderful. Thank you.
I know this is an older video but I often love to go back and watch all of your videos over again. I'm from Shelby NC and currently traveling to Charlotte to the Levine Cancer center because I have stage 4 cervical cancer that meets with my bladder. I just needed to say this and even if you don't see this need you to know that you inspire me so very much. I look at you and see the most amazing, smart, human being. Your videos distract me from my current situation and how real you are is so relatable. You are playing a part in my journey through this even if you had no idea. I look up to you and the sound of your voice and the real things you share are so comforting to me. You are an inspiration. You are a huge light in this world and I just needed you to know that. I can put on your videos and forget the hell I'm living in even just for a few minutes. Your channel is an escape for me and I'm so thankful for what you do and are doing. Xoxoxo
*literally crying* Thank you so much! If it’s okay, may I light a candle for you? In the meantime, I’ll keep posting. 💙
@@drawingKenaz that would mean the world to me. Thank you! Your the best. Truly you inspire me and I'm sending you not so long distance hugs ! Xoxox
I know this is late, but I hope you're doing, if not better, ok. Sending love and hugs to you and your family.
You are very brave to discuss your challenges with such forthrightness. It is very easy and tempting to hide things like this. I have also struggled with the poles of perfectionism and self-loathing / depression since I was a child. ❤️
I keep going back to this video, it's so helpful honestly
So I've basically been binge watching a bunch of your videos lately because I just feel like I vibe with you in major ways, and you have a lot of really interesting things to say. I just really loved this video. I'm on antidepressants, too. I appreciate your raw, realness. I think we're about the same age, and it seems we're into the same music (you mentioned Our Lady Peace and TOOL in another video I just watched, which, OLP is an old favorite, and TOOL is a forever favorite. You mentioned in this video musicians dying in their 20's, and of course, I instantly think of Kurt Cobain and Bradley Nowell, Nirvana and Sublime being two of my all time favorite bands. Anyway, thanks for all of your videos; you give so much to our community, and I know I appreciate it.
But seriously, thanks for opening up on this. I think a lot of “work ethic” questions are really people looking for a short cut. Like, “where did you get your Time Turner from so you can magically fit it all in?” It’s like, sorry, no. You can’t watch 12 hours of Netflix a day and get your dream project done. It just doesn’t work that way! K? K. Anyway, sending love always, coz your awesome and I’m always waiting for your updates. 💖💖
Thank you so much Thorn. Thank you for talking about your depression and how it manifests. This helps many of us out here.
You go girl! Loved the honesty with the wine. I've been dealing with productivity and releasing myself from cannabis 'addiction'.
I'm constantly asking what my True Will is. I feel like I have a good clue.
I also write about Witches in my college papers too, every class.
Thank you for the open heart chat. Lots of food for thought.
I'm so happy to have found your channel. This video, especially the end really resonates. Thank you. 💖
I gave up coffee for over a year after an illness. I just couldn't get coffee. Still have my evening tea though. You will enjoy the "idleness" when you get my age!
my true will is to be a great witch lol. and I'm into the violin.
That was great. Thank you for your honesty. I’m going to have my 16 yr old STEM student daughter watch. She’s a sufferer of social anxiety, very smart, pretty, awkward and self-pressured. Some of what you’ve said reminded me of her. I want her to know how this feeling of awkwardness can be recognized, dealt with and managed to a degree. She’s aware of how much of an influence you are to this gen of witches, etc. Thank you,
WickerMandy
I feel not productive when I’m just being still. I’m finding it hard to meditate and it sucks! I beat myself up for it and it makes me depressed so thank you for posting this
There is no right moment!!! I needed to hear that... it’s so true!
I really needed to hear this, thank you. Thanks for your honesty too. Your an inspiration xx
When I was younger I had so much ambition. No fear of being a “go getter” found myself in an abusive relationship, devastating thoughts of worthless. That I still feel. I am a single mom of two beautiful daughters. Of course they are my number one purpose. I’ve lost interest in all the things all love. Being a witch, doing ritual work. I just need some much help.
Thank you
A big message I’ve gotten recently concerning this issue is that voice, the inner critic that’s always pushing the will towards the ideal self, doesn’t always know how to objectively get us to our goals. A lot of the time it can be like the blind leading the blind. I think it’s great that you found your True Will, because holding onto that truth is the only way to keep that voice in check sometimes.
I love being an active person. It sucks because I've been suffering from cabin fever for years since health and other bs got in the way. Alcohol is amazing for cabin fever in my case lol, but its not great either. It's been hard to focus when it comes to things I can do, like reading and writing, because I'm just burned out on it lol.
Thorn. I really needed to hear this! I really appreciate this message now. The Goddess definitely wove this into my tapestry for today as an answer to something my mom and I were discussing last night. It's amazing how time and space dont matter to carry wisdom through. May I please send you an email? I would like to share something that you have helped me with through this video... And it's a biggie. Bright blessings, from Cape Town, South Africa
btw i really loved this video, i relate to many things you said and it's always nice to know that you're not alone, that even if each of us is a unique individual, some dynamics or problems are common to more people.
great video, thanks for sharing your challenges in life. It truly helps us to know we are not alone with the struggles of life. I relate to several of the things you talked about here.
Wonderful video. I love your honesty and I relate to so much of what you talked about.
My bachelor's dissertation was Pagan tropes in Jane Eyre. My professors didn't appreciate it.
Thank you for sharing with us!
First thing I thought was, I have that exact Neuschwanstein puzzle.
I needed to hear this, thank you.
Really interesting thoughts.
I would love to hear more on the subject of True Will & Great Work.
How do you know whether something is your "True Will" rather than just something you want?
Extremely deep drive that comes almost from an inner fire
I have a really hard time, getting going, starting my day. My thoughts run wild. And that keeps me stuck. Then I feel guilty because I didn’t get everything done. Vicious cycle. I don’t know how to get my emotions, and thoughts under control Major anxiety, and depression.
Beautiful video. Thank you!
I love your videos.
Okay, but I still desperately want to read your thesis from the prior degree. :|
this is super inspiring and helpfull, thank you :)
You glow when you talk about your coven.
I had a similar experience in a Welsh Trad coven (unfortunately it did not survive a bad breakup) I’d say treat your covenmate relationships with great care, because they can shatter
In Christian communities there’s the idea of Vocation as opposed to Divine Will. In my experience, very few people talk about it outside of holy orders or ministry. The concept of a divine calling seems kind of alien to a lot of people.
Most people don't get clinical depression. You know, get it, understand it, at all. Yeah, it is chemical but try to explain that to people that don't have it. . . . impossible. It makes me gag when someone tries to make me "feel better" or tell me to cheer up. Just stand back and wait. I'll be back when it's time. So any way. Have a good day. Thanks for the video.
How funny. I came to this late, but I also quit drinking recently. Since a major life change last summer, I chose to remove it for my emotional health.
I kinda blog as well but not all the time. I am trying to find one that I like but it is hard. I was wondering is facebook alright to blog things out that witchy or not.?
I’m so curious to know. What is your specific area of study? Is it English Lit? Undergrad in Religious Studies? I’ve seen enough videos to appreciate your articulate and intimate communication style.
I love to write about witchcraft and have considered a grad degree. Not sure which program contains the appropriate themes to write about non-Christian theology and specifically, Paganism.
Not sold on tea either.
Just screaming at your intimate knowledge of House M.D.
Amy Leonard it’s so good omg
What about that time he electrocuted himself out of curiosity. 😍
In regards to purpose, I agree we don’t do a good job of supporting the development of that but for me that was nursed but I lost it in my 30s. Specifically because nothing actually matters. We are humans who are on this particular planet for a short amt of time, and we’re all gonna die. Maybe reincarnated, who knows. But for me, it’s very difficult to pursue... anything... almost without feeling supremely indulgent and selfish. The only reason coven work is ok is because it seems we are all invested/dedicated to each other. And that’s pretty cool. But ultimately I think having kids is how we give meaning to life and indulge in the fallacy of legacy. It’s hard to exist in a world you know doesn’t really matter let alone “pursue a purpose”. Just seems like fake living. 🤷🏽♀️
Hello Thorn, have you ever done yoga before? I REALLY think it could help you to keep yourself in balance, we all struggle with depression or emotional issues etc its just part of modern life, please give it a chance you won't regret it.
I appreciate that this comment is coming from a loving place, but I really feel the need to point out how potentially dismissive the language of "we all struggle with depression or emotional issues" is of people who have chemical imbalances or other mental health issues that need medication and/or therapy to deal with. Yes, we all struggle with emotions and stress and so on, and yoga is often highly beneficial - but to say that "depression" is "just" a part of modern life is dismissive of the very real nature of mental health problems and the need for medical intervention/help in those cases.
I agree with Aine... “we all struggle with depression” is just false, and saying “just do yoga” is dismissive. It’s pretty rude to assume someone doesn’t already do or hasn’t already tried yoga anyway.
@ I only can speak through my experience (Certified yoga teacher, Healer and Specialist in TCM) Is not my responsability to tell you what to do with your process. But there are a plenty options before taking medication, yes sometimes is needed but not always. Im certanly saying this from love. I think Thorn is brilliant she deserves better that pitty comments, wine or pills.
Why did u change ur RUclips name
I want to marry you!
Boring.