Wah kya baat kahi aapne.jim maa baap ne janam diya paala posa unka apne bete pr koi haq nhi or paanch mahine ki biwi ko saare haq.hats off you aapko itni ghatiya soch pr.agar maa baap paison ke liye mar rhe h to biwi kya kr rhi h.wo to kabhi ya kabhi apni nai duniya bsa hi legi lekin budhe maa baap kya krenge.unka to sab kuchh hi chla gya.@@bhawanarathore9124
Agar vah dusri Jagah shaadi Karti Hai To usko hai na pension Nahin Di Jayegi Kyunki vah Apne Pati ke sath khush hai aur Agar vah shaadi nahin karti vidhva Jindagi jiti Hai tab usko pension Di Jaati Hai yah Sarkar se
Good anshu jee ...aaj aapne bhu ko nomini bnaya...nhi to unka jeevan Sankat hota h........itti umr mieen jeevan kitna struggle wala h.. vhi janti h ..mann se dil se hr pal...
@@narendrasingh7419 kar bhi le to kya problem hai jab ladke ki wife ki death hoti vo konsa sara dahej vapas kar deta hai ladki k maa baap ko vo bhi to dusari shadi karta hai…. Kya galat kiya agar usne apni wife independent bana k gaya… ab us ladki ko na apne maa baap or nahi sasural valo k samane hanth failane padege… India me kon sa sasural vale bade ache hote hai bahu ko ek ek rupay k liye tarsa dete hai… he is gentleman tabi usne wife ko lachar nahi banaya uske jane k baad bhi uski wife sir utha k jiyegi or vi ladki abhi bahut chhoti hai… Uski zindagi khatam nahi huyi hai… puri life padi hai, jab ek adami 50-80 saal ki umar me shadi kar sakta hai… magar ladki 26 ki umar me bhi dusari shadi na kare…
Even my brother is in army and still i feel if my brother is married, it's his wife rights for pension. No question asked or raised. what would say for cases where parents would throw the daughter in law out, who comes to support that person. She was married for 5 months but was in relation for 8 years, so her pain is also not forgettable and anshuman's parents have done more than enough to hurt her more. he is changing his statement in every statement, first interview claimed he got nothing, next he claimed smriti dad mentioned her age, any dad will worry if daughter gets widow at such young age, for that who is to tell he will get hus younger son married to her. then he claimed kirti chakra was not even allowed to touch. Anshuman's parents even if they might be right here about having equal rights have shown clear intentions of hating their daughter in law, so smriti did right to go back to her parents. Smriti is a widow who lost her first and forever love. parents ofcourse lost their son, but kabhi samne wale dard ko dekhoge to yeh sab baat karne se daroge. aap khud ek ex army person hoke aisa widow ke saath kar rahe hai. galat hai uncleji. please stop all this allegations on Smriti, your bahu. agar aapne bahu ko really beti mana hota na to yeh sab kehte he nahi smriti ke baare mein
Aur mujhe sabse jyada surprising toh ye baat lagi ki " Wo agar chote bete se shadi karna na chahe tabhi bhi usi ghar main rahe aur jab chota beta ka bachcha hoga future wife ke sath toh uske first child ko Smriti ke god mein daal denge aur uss bachche ke parents Smriti aur Anshuman honge...kisi Maa ko puchche bina uska bachcha jo 9 months uske kokh main rakhke hazar mood swings, hormonal changes aur emotions aur delivery pain ke sath peda karegi uske bachche ko chin ke Smruti ke god mein dal denge ye log.
@@rakshyapokharel516 He wants to show his greatness of sacrifice but ended up showing his true color. Lies don't hold for long. They basically want the pension money of anshuman but changing statement in every interview even after getting himself pension, they want son's pension too. The way he is speaking is full of male dominated societal pride. Thank god Smriti left this place. God only knows what she must have gone through.
@dreepk8118 seriously...agar meri bahu ka case hota toh main khush hoti ki bichari ki puri life bachi hai aur thoda se secure hogaya uska life...itni choti si umar main widow ka tag lag gaya...main toh usko encourage karti ki career pe focus karo...aur Maa Baap ko 65 lakhs toh mila hi hai aur upar se pension bhi aata hai Baap ka...chota beti aur beti dono doctor hai well settled hai
@@easy_busy_mama6653 respect social media main tamasha karne se milega?...kisiko jabardasti khudko respect karne lagaya ja sakta hai?...Nepal mein hi hua hai ek Sushmita naamki widow ka case jaha insurance ke lalach mein bahu ko mardiya woh bhi sexually harass karne ke baad...Saas Saasur aur Nanad milke brutally mardiya...Kalyug hai kisika bharosa nai hai
This pair of parents is getting their pension. They were not dependent on their son. Whatever this parent created was very disgusting. That too when father itself is ex Army
@@sunitagupta3078 If you look at this whole thing then the total benefit is 1.5 crorers + Pension. If Bahu lives with him then he will get it all and then because pension goes away after marriage, he will keep his bahu unmarried and convince her to have sex with him and get a baby. This is what his plan is.
He is his son, why he won't get that money, in this world only money matters, even his daughter in law left them when her husband died, you girls are really disgusting
Kitne joothe case hotd h rape ke dahej ke maarpeeth ke in pr bol na And jb equality ki baat krte ho to phir dono ke liy bol Agar wife dusri shadi kr legi to uske medal ki ky izzat reh jaygi
@@rameshkutubpur9518 उसकी मां भी एक औरत ही है ।जिसने अपना 26 ,27साल का बेटा खो दिया जिसे पल पल बड़ा होते देखा इतना काबिल बनाया की वो देश और अपने समाज का नाम रोशन कर सके।वो भी एक औरत ही है।उन्होंने आपका क्या बिगाड़ा है? उनके प्रति आपके विचार इतने नकारात्मक क्यों है।
Isliye toh itna tamasha kar rahe hai jitna as a parents inka haq tha utna army aur govt ne de diya hai par nhi inhe toh apni daughter in law ka bhi hisa chahiye jaise woh kuch lagti hi nhi thi inke bete ki aur na hi inke bete ka koi responsibility thi apni wife ko lekar prblm toh inhe in sab cheez se hai.
@vivekakumari-zb6oz bharat mein Maa Baap ko toh bhagwan bana diya gaya hai aur bahu ko kaam wali bayi bass. Inki beti ke sath aisa hota tab dekhte yeh log media pe aise hi interview dete.
@@vaasumaaharekrishna3909 sahi kaha apne bilkul khud ki beti hoti toh inhe paise chakra beti ke pass hone se koi prblm nhi hoti tab kahte in laws ke pass ho ya hamri beti ke pass ek hi baat hai.
Sad to see previous videos where father was talking about money and medal. After getting money, now he is talking about medal. He doesnt seem to be sad at his son's death. He gets pension, but still made a scene in the media. Really feel sad for martyr anshuman whose parents habe put him down
M agree with u ..... Parents are not dependent and they had lived their life but what abt the young lady she lost everything before starting anything......and this word widow....o my god ..... I understand how difficulty is life for a widow........ God bless the soul of hero if he is watching from somewhere then he will be so sad to see that how his parents r creating a scene......n HW lonely is his wife.....
We don't know what is the truth, pr unke mata pita ne sari media ke samne jasi bazzati kri unki ptni ki wo bhi shi ni hai , or wo koi ghr bathi ldki bhi to ni h jo usi pase ke bhrose bathi ho , she's also an engineer, But log ab kisi saheed ki vidhva tk ko gali dena suru ho gya hain This is not the right way to represent your son nd his wife
@@shreyashukla6172 पहली बात वो ये बात शुरू से कह रहे है की वो सिर्फ अपने लिए आवाज नहीं उठा रहे बल्कि अपने जैसे बहुत से माता पिता के लिए भी आवाज उठा रहे है कभी कभी किसी को तो आवाज उठानी ही पड़ती है इसके बाद से बहुत से माता पिता अब आगे आ रहे है जो घर की इज्जत की बात सोच कर नही बोल पा रहे थे। और स्मृति को अगर पैसे का लालच न होता तो वो अंतिम संस्कार के लिए सरकार से मिलने वाले 10000 रूपए के लिए पूछताछ न करती।अपने ससुर पर ही छोड़ देती । लोगो के लिए जितनी संवेदना शहिद की पत्नी के लिए होनी चाहिए उतनी ही शहीद की मां के लिए भी होनी चाहिए वो भी एक औरत है जिसने अपने 26 27 साल के जवान और काबिल बेटे को खोया है
@@AKSHITAKKI-f4s she's not even his real mother she's step mother aadhi jankari hanikarak hai Or wo chahte hain ki wo unke sath hi rhe bete ke shaheed hone se phle se hi wo Austrelia jane wali thi wo unhe pta h ab pr ab wo indirectly uske charector pe aa rhe , kya hr bhr jane wali ya hr bahar rhne wali ldki k charector point out hota h? Nd the second most important thing she's graduated from NIT koi jobless ldki ni h wo , or bina pati ke bhi uski khud ki identity hai, or dusri bat us ldki ka to ab tk kisi ne pakshha hi n suna pr apni apni khani bkayde bna kr bathe hain Inki ma chahti hain ki wo wo unke dusre bete se shadi kr le ya unke sath rhe ? To wo kyun rhe wo n chahe to puri life kisi se shadi n kre ,agr ase charector uchhal skte hain to ye kya use izzat denge ase ghr rhne se achha to road pe rhna hai ,itne hi achhe or mahan hote ye to uski dhajjiyan n uda rhe report's ko bula bula kr , Nd the most important thing bete ne nominee apni biwi ko bnaya hai or kisi ko ni, to agr itni hi sikayat thi to apne bete se honi chahiye Nd don't come here with your old mentality ki vidhwa ho gyi to ghr bate ho bole wase wo kre, us ldki ko bhi mentally in sb se bhr niklne ke liye time chahiye pr wo kmjor ni h bilkul, aas pados ke sas sasur or bahu ki ldai jasi ni h ye ,or n hi wo ldki anpdh hai Or ap k mudda h n ki pase ni chahiye ja kr bakyede suruati interviews dekhna dhng se ki unhe kya chahiye, alg alg interviews me alg alg khaniyan bol rhe hain kbhi bol rhe hain hmare pas kya bcha n ldka n pension n kirti chakra , kbhi unko chahiye ki unki bahu jindgi bhr unke sath rhe yhin, kbhi unko chahiye ki unke bete se shadi kr le ya wo chahe to kisi or se kr le To jb tumko uski ichha ki itni hi chinta h to wo jb bahr ja kr apna career bnana chahti h or achha to fir kyun sr me drd h inke or ak ke bad ak interview nikale ja rhe hain itna hi mhan pyar h bahu se ya itni hi pyari h bahu to
These parents are shamefully spoiling the reputation of their own son's wife..who has not yet overcome with what has happened to her.. It was not a matter of 5 months marriage in fact it was love of 8 years.. Wherever she wants to go she has right to as who would stay with such toxic in laws who are not even respecting their son's wishes and decisions. Why they are even discussing second marriage of daughter in law right now.this is so painful to hear that they don't even trust their son's love..
Tu lagao nash.ye unka family matter tha duniya kr samne lana wasn't nice ..they are spoiling the image of a girl .who stood with there son for more than 8 years ..if she isn't speaking anything related to this it doesn't means she is wrong ..infact she is more mature and sensible @@ashishbarnwal2763
@@Yantrakaragir private job me to pension bhi nahi milti ..hamare pati ki death ke baad kaise palan poshan kar rahe hai ye hum jante hai but I salute army unhone insurance ke paise patni nd mata pita me barabar barabar bante ..nd smrti ko pension bhi milegi I m happy for smriti..kisi ko to mila
माता पिताजी को ज़ब पैसा नहीं चाहिए था फिर क्यों लेने लगे?? ज़ब वही पिताजी पेंशनर हैं फिर उनके जीवन यापन की कोई प्रॉब्लम तो है नहीं.. अंधेरा है देश में... जिसको मिलना चाहिए उसे मिलता नहीं.... जो भूखे है उनको खाना नहीं. और जो परहेज़ में है उनको खील बतासे....
जयादा तर दुसरी शादी कर लेती है कारगिल युध्द मे जो शहीद हुए थे उनकी पत्नी ने बच्चो तक को छोड़कर दुसरी शादी कर ली थी अगर शादी करती बाद मे उस घर के अलावा तो पेंशन माँ को मिलने का परावधान होना चाहिए
Achha ,kisi vidhwa ko agar koi Jeevan sathi mil jata hai to is ka Matlab ye to nahi ki us k husband ko khone ka dukkh Kam ho jayega..her life would never be same..she should get pension and parents should also get if they are dependent
Or jinki wife ki death ho jati h to wo admi to shadi karte hi nhi na? Wo pura jivan akele kaat dete h wife ki yad me, ek ladke ki dusri shadi hona bahut asan hota hai jbki aaj bhi samaj me ladki ki dusri shadi mushkil se ho pati h
Bhai😮 jab usne khud apni wife ko nominee banaya pension ke liye toh baat hi khatam kyu ye log us ladki ko badnam kar rhe taki uski aage ki life aur kharab ho mtlab itna tamasha kiya haaddd hai apne bete ko khoya uski toh respect rakh lete kaise parents hai pension chahiye inko jab usne khud likha apne wife ko toh kya mtlab hai
@@kharolnu6404 bhai agar mata pita ko pension milegi to biwi baccho ka kya hoga..capt sir ke papa ko bhi to pension mil rahi hai unke baad unki patni ko milegi ( bhagwan kare mata ji dirghayu rahe)
Us bachhi ka kiya kasoor hai. Anshuman ki bahan Hoti uski jagha tab ye ma baap kiya krte uske pichhe pad gye hain. Kabhi kahte hain humne chmmach bhi nahi li shadi m. Arey Chammach se kisi dusre maa baap ki beti taul rhe ho. Inka dahej ka drama tha tabhi beta shadi hote hi Noida shift ho gyaa ye shadi usne apni marzi se ki thi.
जब पति ने खुशी से पत्नी को ही नॉमिनी बनाया है तो बाकी लोगों को बोलने का कोई तुक नहीं बनता है, हां ये बात जरूर है की बहु को अपने ससुराल से किसी भी तरीके से जुड़ा रहना चाहिए, उन्होंने भी बेटा खोया है, साथ में नहीं रह सकते तो कोई नहीं लेकिन डिजिटल दुनिया में संपर्क में रहना आसान है, लड़की और मां -बाप दोनों ने खोया है, दोनों का दुःख बराबर है, किसी को कम या ज्यादा नहीं बोल सकते हैं, अभी से उस बिचारी लड़की को बिना उसे जाने बुरा कहना गलत है। उस शहीद जवान की आत्मा को दुःखी मत करिए। उनका परिवार सब संभाल लेगा।
ब्रिगेडियर साहब अंशुमान के केस में अंशुमान के माता पिता के साथ अन्याय हुआ है अंशुमान की पत्नी जिसकी शादी को सिर्फ5 महीने ही हुए थे उन्हें कीर्ति चक्र दे दिया गया जब की जिन माता पिता ने अपने बेटे को उस पद तक पहुंचाया जिसकी वजह से उन्हें वो सम्मान मिला उन माता पिता को वोकीर्ति चक्र छुने भी नही दिया गया ये कैसे सही हो सकता है? और यदि वो शहीद की पत्नी दूसरी शादी चाहे वो किसी भी कारण से हो कर लेती है तो कीर्ति चक्र पत्नी को देने का क्या मतलब है क्या दूसरा पति उस कीर्ति चक्र को वो सम्मान दे पाएंगा जो उसके माता पितादे सकते है????? जो लोग पेंशन की, किसी भी रूप में मिलने वाले पैसे की ,या स्मृति के ससुराल में रहने की बात कर रहे है वो पहले अंशुमान के पैरेंट्स की पूरी बात को ध्यान से सुने वो पैसे या बहु को जो ज्वेलरी वो दे चुके है उसकी बात नही कर रहे वो सिर्फ कीर्ति चक्र की बात कर रहे है । क्या मांता पिता इसीलिए फौज में अपने बेटे को भेजते है की कोई लड़की उनके बेटे के जीवन में आए 2, 4 महीने में ही शहीद को मिलनेवाला पुरस्कार मायके ले जाकर रख दे या अपने दूसरे पतिके घर ले जाए । और जो लोगदूसरा बेटा गोद ले लेने की सलाह दे रहे हैं क्या उनके घर में ऐसा ही होता है
Nhi mom dad he samj skte h yh pain unhone apne bete ko khoya hai ..ho sakta h wife achi ho buy wife agar again shadhi kr rhi h to mom dad ko he Milni chaiye help/salary / respect ...unhone bhi to apna beta ko kho diya ...maa or papa he smj skte h ..
Dekhiye fact ye hai ki atleast wo adopt kiya hua beta Anshuman ko apne bada bhai maankar samman jarur de sakta hai lekin apne wife ka pehle ka husband ko wo dushra husband kabhi bhi respect nahi karega...agar kiya bhi toh kya sochke Karega ki ye samman mera biwi ka pehle pati ko diya gaya hai no never...
@@akhandbharat0481yaa u r right love marriage thi isliyee ese kr rhee h or sbse bdi baat toh ye h ki pese or chakra ke liye mar rhee h inhe bete ke shaheed hone ka koii dukh nhi h
@@vaasumaaharekrishna3909tu saale abhi gira nhi hai na ,tbhibzaubaan khol rha...dekh unn piriton ko jinki patniyan paison ke liye jhoothe case daalke badnaam krti hain shareef parivaaron ko
Sahi me kisi ki life me kyn ghusna.. Ek to wo phle dukhi h upar se log glt bol rhe h wo bhi tb jb ki andar ki bat pta nai h kisi ko.. Ek tarfa sun k kaise bol skta h koi... Aur army rules k according adha adha paisa milta h.. Jo ki ek fauji khud decide krta h ki uske bad kitna kitna kisko milna chaiey
Bhyii wife toh aage badh gyi hai , jis maa baap ne use Etna bda kya military me bheja unka pehla hak hona chahiye uski hr chiz pr , aur ansu ke mata pita koi bura nhi kehre the apni wife ko , lekin jo unki Bahu ne kiya unke sath vo glt hai
Yahi is baat ka sabut hai ki pension ki uttradhikari kewal patni hoti hai .. Niyamo ko kuchh soch samajh aur dekh ker hi banaya gaya hoga na .. Durbhgyapurna jo itne layak bachche ki family ki ye durdasha ho rahi hai ..
@@Oliveolive-xo8duaapke hisab se tho jis maa ne bete ko 9 months apni kokh mai rakha aur itna bada kiya aur army mai bheja uss maa ka bete k paiso mai koi haaq nahi?? Meri saas bahut buri hai mere saath bahut hi bhed bhav kiya hai na jane kitna bura bartaw kiya fir bhi maine unke बुढ़ापे k liye sahara banugi soch rakha hai kyun ki jo bhi hoo vo thi tho mere husband hai aaj aur mai unn se mil payi.. don't know inn logo mai kya issue raha honga.. mana ki anshuman k mata pita 100% galat hai but pura ka pura kirti chakra, paisa aur pension apne pass rakho aur saath hi saath saas sasur se relationship tod do yeh sahi hai?????? Mana vo galat honge but kitne bhi bure hoo maa baap hone ka haaq unko milna chahiye
Inn maa baap Ko Apne Bete ke faisle ki izzat karni chahiye. Inki iss harkat se inke bete ki aatma ko kitni takleef pahunch Rahi hogi, iski inko koi chinta nahi hai. Inko sirf Bahu ko badnaam Karna hai.
Bahu ne inko neglect karke kitni badi galti ki inke bete ke nam se itna money n award mila.lekar Australia chali gayi.apni life banaye lekin inka sab kucch wapas kar dena chahiye
@@wowpatel5732 sab se pahli baat maa baap ko bhi 75 lakh mile hai ,maa ne bhi bahu ke saath kirti chakr receive kiya hai ,pita ji ki khud ki pension aati hai aur eak javan beta aur hai inke ……pure india mai eak aise maa baap dhoond dijiye jo apni 26 saal ki widow beti ko forever ke liye in-laws ke paas chor de aur wo bhi jab jab ghar mai eak Javaan dever ho …..
गरीब लोग सेना मे मरे या घर पर भुका मरे ईनके बारे मे सोचने वाला या चींता करने वाला कोई नही अंशुमान के पीताजी से ऐक ही विनंती है ऐ लढाई अपने या अपने बेटे तक सीमीत मत रखो उन गरीब परीवार के सीपाई के लीऐ ये लढाई आपको लढनीही होंगी अमीर लोग तो अपना गुजारा कर लेते है मगर गरीब बे मौत मारा जाता है
हमारे गाव में ऐसा हुवा है शहीद की पत्नी ने remarage की ऑर उसके सांस ससुर एकदम बुढे थे पर उंको कूच भी नहीं मिला ओ ती सब लुटले चली gai.. badme टेन्शन tention में आके पहले ओ unty chali gai badme unke husbund चले गये बहुत दुःख होता होय फिर फिर ऐसे केसेस सामने अते है तो
Bhai anshuman ke maa baap ko bhi 75 lakh mile hai unki khud ki pension aati hai aur eak aur Javaan beta hai ghar mai ….aur maa ne bahu ke saath medal bhi received kiya …..tho inhe kya pareshani hai mujhe tho samjh nahi aa raha
Lalchi ma bap beta gya uska dukh nhi Paisa or kritichakara ke liye desh ke sahid Jawan ke atma ko kitni taqlif ho rhi hogi Ma ki chalaki ko dekhte huye hi beta apne Bibi ko pensan m nomani banaya hoga jaan rha hoga mera na rahne ke bad ma kya karegi mere.bibi ke sath.
Laalchi wo aurate hoti hai jo pehle to ladke ke saath jeene marne ki kasame khaati hai…aur uske maa baap se ummeed karti hai ki wo usko beti maane… fir pati ke jaate hi uske maa baap ko akela chhodkar paisa lekar saari jimmedari se door bhaag jaati hai…..maa baap jivan bhar tapasya karke aulaad ko fauz me bhejte hai bahadur banaate hai…..chaar din ki aashiki se usko kirti chakra nhi mila…..ab jab beti bankar jeene ka, sacrifice karne ka time aaya to nikal li…..
Ishliye ushne ek shabd bhi nahi boli , 8 years se jyada relationship me thi ladki anshuman k sath . Anshuman ne apni wife ko banaya will me to ushke maa baap ko kyu milega paise
@@rahulrahulrazBhai anpadh ho kya... Uske Maa baap ne paise kab mange.. onhone to kirti chakra ki baat kahi h ki kuch samay ke liye de deti smriti unhe.. pr osne na to onhe kirti chakra diya.. aur na hi onse koi baat kri itne samay tak..😏 Thoda sa dimag ka use kro...
@@arpitnegi4147I listened to one of his interviews where he said - "Maine unse Kaha ki bahadur ek insaan ko unko mata pita aur aas paas ke log banate hain. Is liye ye samaan unki maa ko lene de. Par unhone kaha ki sarkar hame Jo de Rahi hai vo hum nahi chodenge". Abb koi mujhe ye batao ki samaan Milne se pahle hi vo Bahu ko bol rahe hai ki maa ko hi Milne do ..to leke bhagna hi padega....
@@arpitnegi4147 buddhe buddhi k shakal par koi sadness bhi nahi...bas paise ka rona dhona ...ye natak kar kyu raha tha fir jab paise nahi maange ...anshuman ne will me apni wife ka naam kuch sochkar hi diya hoga na . Buddha already army se retired hai , raul Vinci se mila indono chaparganju wife husband ko agneevir se problem ho gayi , apni bahu se problem ho gayi. .wo kya inki dashi bankar rehne Lage . Apni padhayi Puri karne wo videsh ja rahi . Ish buddhe ne news channel par love bola tha k mere chote bete se shadi kara dunga .bkl ..8 sal se relationship me rehne walo ladki shadi kar legi kisi aur se .wo ladki ab life time aise hi rahegi .bas in dono buddhe buddhi ko paise chahiye the .khud k hi fajihat kara baitha .lalchi Buddha aur buddhi..aur jab inhe laga k lalach ka dhong sabko malum chal raha to emotional game khelne lage ye dono Buddha buddhi .
India me bete k marte hi sasuraal me bahu ka torture krna shuru kr dia jta h, uske pti k bina vha uski koi izzat nahi hoti, isiliye vo chhod dri h or mayeke aa jti h shanti k liye.... .pr patriarchy community ko to bs koi moka chahiye hota h orato ko nicha dikhane kaa
parents ne hadd ker di hai. khud seperate reh rhe hai inke mata pita chahcha chachi honge na anshuman k.. papa ko pension mil rhi hogi apni biwi ko dekh rhe h anshuman k dada dadi chcha chachi koi kaha hai... or apne bete ka biwi ko mila toh dukhi ho gyi h maa , or saas sasur ka pta nahi kia hoga ya nahi.
@@ShubhranLove hanji bilkul wo bhi to apne pati ke sath rahi unki salary pension sab pe adhikar rakha Puri life ab bhi rule ke according jitna milna chahiye utna pesa Mila bhi hai ek beta or beti doctor hai to kyu itna Tamasha krna . Abhi to ladki ne bola hi nahi ki wo dusri shadi kregi ya kuchh bhi kirti chakkr abhi 5 July ko to Mila hi tha pariwar rishtedar mil ke prblm solve kar lete media me bahu ko badnaam krna jaruri tha kya
Inke according bahu ko bina kuch liye….inke ladke se shadi kr leni chahie….ya fir sab kuch parents ko deke durr chle jana chahie…and she should live like ki uske Sath koi tragedy hui hi ni…cz she can marry someone else
Apna gyan har jagah mat bata kro..... Phele puri information le liya kro...... Anshuman ji ke pita ka interview dekh lo ek br ABP Ganga pe........ Kuch bi abada kabada bolne se phele socha kro..... Khi bhi bt paiso ki h hi nhi.... Samjh aaya... Parents ko bs unke bete ka samman chahiye... Paisa to wo usse double dene ko ready h..
@@anjaliguglani7155 आधी अधूरी जानकारी के आधार पर किसी शहीद के माता पिता को बदनाम नही करना चाहिए उनका दर्द तिल मात्र भी उस पत्नी से कम नहीं है।बल्कि अधिक ही है क्योकि पत्नी तो दूसरी शादी करके उसकी कमी को पूरा कर सकती है पर उन पैरेंट्स को दूसरा अंशुमान नही मिलेगा चाहे उनके और कितने भी बच्चे हो। और रही बात रुपया लेने की तो उन्हे इतना ही लालच होता तो वो बिना दहेज लिए अपने बेटे की शादी न करते।और सारा जेवर 5 महीने की शादी में बहु के हवाले न कर देते। किसी बात की पूरी जानकारी के बिना ज्ञानी नही बनना चाहिए
@@utamadubey8736 there is difference between guessing and opinion. Nobody here said she shouldn't remarry all I am saying is if she wanted to remarry she would not have taken her husbands memories along with her..
Shadi ke liye launda bhi mil gaya hai devi ji koo tum logo kya pata bahut dekh rakha hu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 guarantee hai ye tooo aam baat hai fark bass etna hai ki woo hamara veer jawan tha esliye dukh Raha 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@AtulKumarYadav-ly3lf bete agr Teri jesi soch unki hoti na to 8 saal long distance relationship me rehene ke baje vo koi aur dhund leti. Aur thoda to ijjat Karo yaar she is a martyrs widow... Har sikke ke do pehlu hote he theek vese hi humne sirf ek side ki story Sunni he. Do u even know unhone apna address change kyu Kiya she was been mentally harrassed by her mother-in-law and all to marry her brother in law and much more.
Wahi toh me v soch rahi hu sare pese k liye pagal ho rahe hai ...are Jo v ho larna kiun hai aap ko toh mil raha hai na kuch toh Mila hoga na aapko v...
Ki hai paiso ki baat interview dekh na jaake Agar Anshuman sir ne khud apni biwi ko diya hai pension ka haq to mata pita ko kya dikkat hai? Uncle bol nahi rahe the kya reform hona chahiye nok me Paise ki to baat kar rahe the Tumhe nok kya hai pata bhi hai kya😂
Ha jab uske husband ne pension apni wife ko likha hai toh baat hi khatam unko pension chahiye tha bas or kuch bhi nahi or agar uski wife dusri shadi karti hai toh usko pension khud sarkar band kar degi isme tension koi na le shadi ki toh uski pension band ho jayegi... Itni chhoti soch hai uske parents ki kam se kam apne bete ki izzat rakh lete
@@prishashandilya7925 Uncle Anti apni jagah sahi hain. Jab pati ki atma shanti ke liye Pooja mai akar bethi nahi. To Kaahe ki patni. Aur pati kaiyee aurato ke time se Pehle chale jate hain ye dukh in laws pariwar ke sath baant sakti thi . Pati ke Jaane ke Baad usse sare rishte contact khatam kar diya to mere samjh mai ek paisa bhi nahi diya jana chahiye
Just a simple question I want to know Anshuman Singh ji k papa Jo khud bhi ek army officer hai - kya unke papa apni nominee meh apne bahu(Smriti) ka naam denge apne wife ka naam hata k? Biwi se phle apne beti jaise bahu ka dhyaan rakhenge? apne sahid huye bete k gujar jane ka dard hai unko yeh sabko pata hai, but media k samne aa k apne bahu ka beizzati krna , bete k liye bahu ka pyaar ek souda tha , medal ley k baag gyi ( jo ki unko government se samman sawrup Mila hai - unko ley kr bhaag ne ki kya jarurat hai) , contact nhi kr rhi hai ( contact meh reh k kya kregi ,apne dewar se shadi taki ghr k paisa kahi bhr na jaye), mili toh namaste tak nhi kiya ( waise samman mange se nhi milta kamana padta hai)etc etc bolne kya mtlb hai? Uss ldki koi dhuk nhi hai kya? 5 month ka shadi hai sirf yeh bol k shadi k phle k 8 saal ka relationship ap ganga meh duba doge? Parents have eachother, in this case infact parents have other child also . But think of that wife for once, koi bacha bhi nhi hai unka ...woh kis k bharose puri zindagi bitaige ab. She should take her own decision now as she is an adult and move on in life. Dear parents we understand that no body ever replace a mother but also remember once your son is married u have u agree that ur son also belongs to his wife. Do treat them as a single team.
विधवा के साथ सदियों से उनके घर में ही हर दिन मजबूरी का फायदा उठाया जाता है.... क्योंकि वह आर्थिक रूप से संपन्न नहीं होती है... आप पुरुष ऐसा नहीं कर पा रहे हैं तो पेट में दर्द हो रहा है जैसे अंशुमन के पिता जी को हो रहा है.... वह अपनी बहू को अपने घर में रखना चाहते हैं पता नहीं क्यों
Tum interview jaa ke dekho bhai unhone clearly kha hai ki " Unki bahu unko respect nhi di aysa kya krdiya unhone Jo rashtrapati bhawan me baat tak nhi kiya unse , aur most important unko kirti chakra aache se chune tak nhi mila kya parents itna bhi deserve nhi krte kya .
Bahu nay kuch bola nhi abhi tak to kuch andaja mtt lgaa bhai....maa baap khud lalchi lag rhey hain ladka mrr gya uska gum nhi bahu lay krr chli gyi iska dhong rach diya samaj k samny...uncel aunty ko dekh k lag bhi tha hai kuch khas kiya nhi apni zindagi mai bacho k kandho prr bandook rakh k chlatay hai aaj kl k maa baap tum kuch kro to tum bhot achay unki tarif hogi na krr paay to tum bhot bekaar ho...ladka army mai alg gya bo ab rha nhi jinda to uska gum nhi hai usky peso ka jada hota inko😢😢😢 Wife tabhi lay kr chlii gyi hogi janti hogee manshaa in logo ko love marrige bhi thi...😢😢 Bol rhey chotay betay say krr dyta hun shadi... Soch dekho in logo ki vhan pati mrr gys uska nhi chotay say krr lay pesa bhi ghr mai rheyga😢😢... Meri family bhi esy he soch wali hai or bhot logo ko dekha hai meny esay 😢😢😢😢...lakin kya pta kon shi hai
Bhai unko sirf kirti chakra dekhna hai isme tamasha kya hai vo bhi us bete ka jo unka khud ka khoon tha Aur vo apni bahu se isiliye naraz hai kyuki unhone smriti ji ko bahot respect Diya tha pr in return, Smriti ji rashtrapati bhawan me unse baat tak nhi ki .
@@shilpan.8396 behen bete ne to osko isliye nominee bnaya ki Taki Smriti iss trh se oske Maa baap ko akele chor kar na chale jaye.. aur Smriti ko koi problem bhi face na krna pade... Pade Smriti to selfish nikli chali gyi...
Agr patni ko kuchh nahi milna chahiye to kya Anshuman sir ki mata ji ne apne pati ki salary or pension apne sasural walo ko hi di thi kya unhone apne pati pe adhikar nahi rakha tha. or inke beta or beti doctor hai aesi itni koi pareshani nahi ki iss tarah bahu ko badnam krte. Soch ke dekhte ki inka beta jo shaheed hua hai wo 8 sal se iss ladki se pyar krta tha iss se shadi ke liye kitna wait Kiya hoga or ab uske Jane ke baad itni badnami ki log kitne bhadde comments kar rahe hai uspe. Kirti chakkr chahiye tha to rishtedar pariwar mil ke iss mamle ko suljha sakte the 5 July ko to abhi Mila hi tha aram se bat kar lete media me tamasha bnane ki kya jarurat thi.
@@ANUPDESH-p2p bhai thodi si akl lgao ki Anshuman ko kesa lag rha hoga yeh dekh kr ki jis ldki se osne 8 saal pyar kiya wo ldki onke mata pita ko chor kr apne mayka chali gyi bina kuch btaye... Aur rahi baat kirti chakra ki to Anshuman ke parents ne baat kari thi Smriti ke family se par Smriti ke selfish family wale koi bhi response nahi kr rahe h... Aise m Anshuman ke parents ne bilkul sahi kiya h..
5july ko samman mila aaj 17 July hai itne din me itna tamasa ban gya wah re maa baap matlb 12din me saare ke saare badnami ladki pe hi giri matlb usko itna bhi haq nahi hai kuchh din tak usko apne maa baap ke paas rahne ka
@@arpitnegi4147 ho skta hai unki aapas me nahi banti ho ya dewar ke sath shadi ka bol rahe ho isliye alg rhne gyi ho. Or dekho 5 July ko to samman Mila hi tha 8 ko sayd wo chli gyi thi or iss news ko kitne din ho gye hai. Agr relatives mil ke unke ghar ja kar bat kar lete thoda tym jarur lagta lekin solution Mila jata. Main ye bilkul nahi manti ki mata pita ka dukh km hota hai lekin patni ka dukh bhi km nahi hota jo log bol rhe h 5 mhine hue the shadi ko to shadi ko sirf 5 mahine hue the lekin sapne to Puri zindagi ke the na. Abhi abhi zindagi suru Hui thi uski ye bat galat hai. Social media pe uske khilaf itna negative bola ja rha hai wo hmare desh ke ek saheed ki dharam patni hai hi sakta hai sasural walo ke sath nahi bni ho bhut logo ki nahi banti hai. Abhi tak usne to nahi bola ki wo dusri shadi krne wali hai lekin social media pe uske khilaaf kitna Ganda bola ja rha hai. Aaj kal social media pe wese hi patni ke against inta hate failaya ja rh hai or ab ye sab ke baad to kya hi bolna.
जय हिन्द,,मेरा मानना है कि ए गलत फैसला किया गया है,, क्यूंकि पहला हक मां-बाप का होता है,जीसने बचपन से पाल पोसकर नोकरी लगवाया,, पत्नी तो कल दूसरी शादी कर लेगी
Apni beti pe bolna . Jaroori nhi hai ki doosri shadi kr le . Maa baap ke paas aur bacche hai . Yeh will bete ke according hi tha toh kya tandav chal rha hai. Itni problem thi award pe toh jakr ladki aur uske pariwar se baat kr suljhate . Mazak bana diya hai bete ke shahadat ko. Aur maa baap achhe hote jaroori nhi ki saas sasur ho . First interview mein sari lalach dikhti hai
Tumhare sath hoga tab pata chalega lalchi kya isme unke bete ka pesa he to mangege hi patni ki dusri shadi ho jayegi aisa to tha nhi ki uske bache ho aur ladki ke Ghar Wale sath na de rahe ho to batao
@@Lyps. Bahu nay kuch bola nhi abhi tak to kuch andaja mtt lgaa bhai....maa baap khud lalchi lag rhey hain ladka mrr gya uska gum nhi bahu lay krr chli gyi iska dhong rach diya samaj k samny...uncel aunty ko dekh k lag bhi tha hai kuch khas kiya nhi apni zindagi mai bacho k kandho prr bandook rakh k chlatay hai aaj kl k maa baap tum kuch kro to tum bhot achay unki tarif hogi na krr paay to tum bhot bekaar ho...ladka army mai alg gya bo ab rha nhi jinda to uska gum nhi hai usky peso ka jada hota inko😢😢😢 Wife tabhi lay kr chlii gyi hogi janti hogee manshaa in logo ko love marrige bhi thi...😢😢 Bol rhey chotay betay say krr dyta hun shadi... Soch dekho in logo ki vhan pati mrr gys uska nhi chotay say krr lay pesa bhi ghr mai rheyga😢😢... Meri family bhi esy he soch wali hai or bhot logo ko dekha hai meny esay 😢😢😢😢...lakin kya pta kon shi hai
सरकार से नम्र निवेदन है कि 75 % मुआवजा राशि और मेडल शहीद के माता-पिता को दिया जाना चाहिए। शहीद की पत्नी इंजीनियर हैं इसलिए उन्हें 25 % मुआवजा राशि और अच्छी जगह नौकरी दें। 🤔
Parents ko total 65 lakh mile hai 50 lakh Army fund se or 15 lakh Up govt k trf se or unka khud ka pension v aata hai or 1 beta doctor v hai or Kitna chahiye unko itne mei nii hoga??
@@imissyoudearhubby6977 तो फ़िर बहु किर्ति चक्र दे दे विवाद खत्म। वैसे भी वो दूसरी शादी करेंगी ही तो पहले पति की यादगार मेडल रखकर क्या करेंगी। महिलाओं को सिर्फ धन से मतलब होता है धन तो उन्हें मिल ही गया है। 🤔
फौजी शादी के 1 साल बाद ही पत्नी को नॉमिनी बनाएं। ताकि तुम्हारे शहीद होने पर वह सामान लेकर ना भाग जाए …🙏 पत्नी तो दूसरा पति ले आएगी पर तुम्हें दूसरा बेटा नहीं मिलेगा।🎉
@@richataunk4095 इतना मुश्किल भी नहीं होता स्मृति के पिता अंशुमान की तेहरवीं से पहले ही अंशुमान के पिता से बोल चुके है की उसकी कम एज है दूसरी शादी करेगी।
Koi dignity hi nahi rakhi en parents ne apne bete ke shahid hone ke baad se hi apne bahu ka nam bigar ne mein tule hue hain.Etna dukh hain ki roz interview de rahe hain kisi v media ke liye.Pehle to inko sirf paise ki pari thi abhi medels ki pari hain.🙂
As an army person I always oppesed these nonsense rules. A girl which is in relation only five months get all the benefits and marriage with anoyher guy and enjoy his full pension while The parents of Jawan get only too less benefits ?
Tum kamchor hoge. Khud apni bb n parents ka part 2 nhi karwae hoge. N arny k pension rule bharat k har sarkari job k rule se same h... Ab armt bol k aur beijjati krwa lo
maa bap ko dekho beta sahid ho gya bhu ka choti umr m suhag ujd gya pr bhu ko kuch na mile kitni bejti kra di us bechari ki jis pr pehle se dukh ka phad tuta h
मेरा एक लड़काहै मैं उसकी गरीबी से पढ़ा लिखा रहा हूं ऐसी घटनाओं को देखते हुए मैं अपनी लड़के से अभी से एग्रीमेंट कराकर रखूंगा किसी भी प्रकार का जॉब करे मुझे और मेरी पत्नी को कम से कम 20%परसेंट रुपए देगा ज्यादा सोच कर देखो जो मां बाप कर्ज करके लड़कों को काबिल बनते हैं और उनकी बहुएं सब कुछ सब कुछ लेकर भाग जाती है
His parents aren't asking for money, What's wrong with media? Always demeans the ryt person, they even misinterpreted his father statement. Feeling really sad for the parents
See his previous interviews he is clearly saying “bahu sab leker chali gayi ,hamare pass kuch nahi hai bas bete ki photo ke siwa “ sab bahu ko mila,hamne padhaya ,hamne laayak banay aur inki shaadi ko tho sirf 5 months hue thai ….tho koi kya matlab neekaale
@@wowpatel5732 bahi mata pita ko bhi 75 lakh mile hai ,kirti chakr maa ne bhi bahu ke saath president house mai receive kiya ,pita ji bhi waha thai ……khud ki pension aati hai pita ji ko ,eak aur Javaan beta hai ……tho sab kuch tho Mila innhe…….ab kis baat ki ladai rah gayi …..ab apni pension ke saath mare bete ki bhi pension chaaiye …….sarkaar uss young widow ko na dekhe ji sirf 26 saal ki umar mai widow ho gayi …….sab innhe chaaiye
@@wowpatel5732Kuch sahi nii kaha hai pehle keh rahe theey interview mei kuch nii mila hai but abb army ne confirm Kiya hai ki parents ko 50 lakh mile hai jaise wife ko or 15 lakh v mile hai Up govt se toh kaise bahu sb leke chali gyi hai woh apna paisa leke gyi hai nhh apka toh nii??
Didi sena me nominee only wife ko hi banaya jata hai isme jawan ki advice nhi li jati hai.... Jabardasti rule hai isme bina pichhe patni ko hi nominee banaya jata hai
Are yaar aap log maa baap h to aap ye sochiye na ki bahu v to dusman nhi n h agr usko jyada rakm di h sarkar to uska hkk h bhae milni chahiye usko 😢😢aap log beta khoye to o v to apna pati apna pyar khoya h ye aap log kyu nhi soch rhe 😢aap log rajniti krne baith gye h maa baap h aap log ki kya h 😢 bada dukh ho rha aap dono maa baap ka rajniti dekh kr ke beta balidaan ho gya eska dukh nhi h aap logo ko bahu ko paise jyada mill gye eska dukh h aap logo ko 😢ohhh
To kya bahu Sara Paisa leke bhaag jayegi, maa baap bete ka award v nhi rakh skte? Is duniya me ladkiya sach me parivar barbaad kar de rhi hain, Sara Paisa to leke Jaa rhi hai, uper se kisi aur se v shadi karke enjoy karegi, tab to tumlog nhi bologi ki apne saas sasur ko bure samay pe chhod gyi, tum log bologi ki it's her choice, bhagwaan tum logo ke maa baap ke sath v Aisa hi kare
Vah to Kisi Jagah shaadi Karenge dusri Jagah shaadi Karenge vah To Apne Pati ke sath khush ho Jaenge Anshuman ke Mata Pita ki Chakkar mila tha uska Samman Unki Mata Pita Ka Hona chahie ki shaadi se shaadi nahin karti to ki thi Jab unke Sath Hona chahie Agar vah shaadi Karti Hai To Unka Kirti Chakra unke Mata Pita Ke Sath Hona chahie
कुछ भी बकवास कर रहे हो। उस लडकी के सास ससुर से संबंध न रखने का मुद्दा है। जब संबंध न रखे तो उस लड़की का क्या मतलब? बहू रूप में वह है नहीं। तो बाहर वाली क्यों रकम ले जाए। मुद्दा यह है। समझ कर बोलो बच्चे।
Chup kr vese uske pti ne use nomini bnya us ldki ka koi drd nhi H kya uspe kya bit rhi hogi tmhe pta h jbrdsti av sadi v na kia or tmlog use judge kr rhe ho@@nehamarkand9930
ऑफिसर के लिए ये सब और शिपाही दिन रात एनकाउंटर में अपनी जान देते रहते हैं उनके लिए कुछ नहीं , वाह re भारत , waah re teri व्यवस्था , officer ka beta hi officer banega majdoor ka shipahi
भाई मेहनत ओहदे ओर प्रतिष्ठा के लिए करते हैं ना कि बॉर्डर में जान देने के लिए , नब्बे प्रतिशत सेना के ऑफिसर के बेटे हि ऑफिसर बनते हैं , शिपाही ओर ऑफिसर की शहीद होने का अनुपात 1000 अनुपात एक है , हजार शिपाही एक ऑफिसर , ये बात उनके माता पिता को भी पता है , प्रेस्टीज है जॉब में , अंग्रजों की नीतियां लागू हैं पूरी सेना में , बाकी देश सेवा जान मांगती है बॉर्डर पे पढ़ाई की मेहनत और वेल मैनर नहीं ,
His father is already a retired from officer post, unko kya lalach hoga....bus coment krna aata 1 saal tak vo itne preshaan rahe ab Jaa kr bola h unhone jb pani sar k upr se chla gya...online baith k coment krna bohat asan hai reality bohat alag hai sir..
It is usually the wife who gets the insurance fund if the wife had children or is pregnant . She can always remarry and start a new family but what about the parents?
Anshuman ji ki patni koi earning thori karti hai unka paise katkar sirf unke parents ko de dia jaega to wo apni padhaei aur ajivika kaise chalaengi anshuman ke mata pita lachi hai
In this comment, girls are really defending that girl who left her saas and sasur, unke bure samay me, maa baap apne bete ka Paisa v nhi le skte, aur wo ldki to shadi v kar skti hai, maa baap ka khyaal kaun rakhega, pati ko gye 1 mahina v nhi hua aur wo ldki sara paisa leke, award leke bhaag gyi, jab ye shadi karegi aur sare paiso ko enjoy karegi tab ye ldkiya bolegi its Her choice.
Agar vo chod kar gaye uske peche b koi reason hoga ..koi Bina reason vke Aisa bhi karta ...I wish vo media ke samne aye aur inke pol khol de ..beta mar gya unko uska dukh nhi ..bus tamasha banaya apne bahu ka bete ka ..it's was a family matter ..jo unhone to ro ke puri duniya ko btaya
@@prekshisharma2914 wo bahu maa baap ko chhodke saara Paisa leke bhaag gyi uske pichhe koi reason hoga, aur maa baap sirf apne bete ke hak ka kuchh saman chahte hain wo tumhe bura lag rha, pata nhi tum apne saas sasur ka kya haal karogi shaadi baad. tum khud ko wife ki jagah rakh ke soch rhi ho isiliye tumhe achha lag rha, ek baar soch ke dekho us saas sasur ke jagah tumhaare maa baap hain, phir tumhe pata chalega wo beta khone ke baad unke dil pe kya gujar rhi hogi
जब पत्नी दूसरी शादी न करे अंशुमान के घर मे अपने सासू ससुर के साथ बिताए तब तो वहधन राशि और पेन्शन की भागी दार है नही तो अगर पत्नी सब लेकर चली जाएगी तो उस मा और पिता पर क्या गुजरेगा
Wo paisa maang hi nhi rhe the ye pta nhi kya bakwaas chla rhe h news me..wo kirti chakr maang rhe hain..wo ye keh rhe h ki anshuman ka kirti chkr uske ghr pe hona chaiye na ki unki biwi k maike me. Mai bhi ek army wife hu or is baat se poori tarah agree krti hu..
Lekin jb shahid ki patni kisi aur se shadi kr lengi to usko pension ki kya jarurat....pension ka hak mata pita ko milna chahiye agar shahid ki patni uske mata pita ki seva n kare tb
Well educated bahu h ,uske saath mil kar bete k naam se kuch social work karte ,phir woh mana karti toh samajh aata,bahu bhi kissi ki beti h, uske bhi sapne toote h, parents ko y samjh nahi aa raha kya.Agar woh kissi jimmedari se pichche hat ti toh bolna chahiye tha na.....this is something very disgusting
Mata pita ko pf ka 50 lakhs aur state fund ka 15 lakhs karke total 65 lakhs mile hai...Baap ka khudka pension aata hai...dusra beta aur beti doctor hai well settled hai.
नासमझ लोग क्यों पत्नी से इतना प्रेम कर रहे समझ नही आ रहा जो माता पिता जीवनभर अकेले रहेंगे उनके बारे में नहीं सोचते पत्नी तो एक दिन आयेगी फिर चली जायेगी कही भी शादी करके जिसका लाल गया वो सहेगा जीवन भर
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अगर पत्नी दूसरी शादी करती है तो पेंशन पर माता पिता का हक़ होना चाहिए
U are right I am from nepal 💯🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
or nhi kare to kese mar rahe h maa baap paise ke liye 40% to mil raha h na or kitna chahiye
ak bar us ladki ke liye bhi socho us ne 1 word tk nhi bola kisi ke liye
@@bhawanarathore9124 kya bolegi 5 mahine 65 lakh rupaye mil gaye 80 hajar rulaye pension milegi ...khud bhaag gayi mayke paise lekar dusri shaadi karegi maza karegi aur kya
Wah kya baat kahi aapne.jim maa baap ne janam diya paala posa unka apne bete pr koi haq nhi or paanch mahine ki biwi ko saare haq.hats off you aapko itni ghatiya soch pr.agar maa baap paison ke liye mar rhe h to biwi kya kr rhi h.wo to kabhi ya kabhi apni nai duniya bsa hi legi lekin budhe maa baap kya krenge.unka to sab kuchh hi chla gya.@@bhawanarathore9124
बिल्कुल सही अगर पत्नी दूसरी शादी करें तो उनकी पेंशन मां पिताजी को मिलनी चाहिए बहुत ही जरूरी है क्योंकि वह बेटा ही उनका जीने का सहारा था जो शहीद हो गया
@@thakurrajeev693 लेकिन कुछ olivoil है दिमाग से पैदल
Ek insaan 2 pension nahe lesakta agar apko pata na hoo to batadu uska pita retired army hain unka khud k pension ati hain
@@hangmakurumbang3791 मोदी की 5 पेन्शन मिलती हैं
Agar vah dusri Jagah shaadi Karti Hai To usko hai na pension Nahin Di Jayegi Kyunki vah Apne Pati ke sath khush hai aur Agar vah shaadi nahin karti vidhva Jindagi jiti Hai tab usko pension Di Jaati Hai yah Sarkar se
Sahare ke jane ke baad 65 lakh mile bank me dalo aaram se jio.pention biwi ko nahi milegi agar dusari shadi ki to.
Good anshu jee ...aaj aapne bhu ko nomini bnaya...nhi to unka jeevan Sankat hota h........itti umr mieen jeevan kitna struggle wala h.. vhi janti h ..mann se dil se hr pal...
No sadi kregi dusri
@@narendrasingh7419 kar bhi le to kya problem hai jab ladke ki wife ki death hoti vo konsa sara dahej vapas kar deta hai ladki k maa baap ko vo bhi to dusari shadi karta hai…. Kya galat kiya agar usne apni wife independent bana k gaya… ab us ladki ko na apne maa baap or nahi sasural valo k samane hanth failane padege…
India me kon sa sasural vale bade ache hote hai bahu ko ek ek rupay k liye tarsa dete hai… he is gentleman tabi usne wife ko lachar nahi banaya uske jane k baad bhi uski wife sir utha k jiyegi or vi ladki abhi bahut chhoti hai…
Uski zindagi khatam nahi huyi hai… puri life padi hai, jab ek adami 50-80 saal ki umar me shadi kar sakta hai… magar ladki 26 ki umar me bhi dusari shadi na kare…
Je wife di death hundi ki male marriage na krda
Even my brother is in army and still i feel if my brother is married, it's his wife rights for pension. No question asked or raised. what would say for cases where parents would throw the daughter in law out, who comes to support that person. She was married for 5 months but was in relation for 8 years, so her pain is also not forgettable and anshuman's parents have done more than enough to hurt her more. he is changing his statement in every statement, first interview claimed he got nothing, next he claimed smriti dad mentioned her age, any dad will worry if daughter gets widow at such young age, for that who is to tell he will get hus younger son married to her. then he claimed kirti chakra was not even allowed to touch. Anshuman's parents even if they might be right here about having equal rights have shown clear intentions of hating their daughter in law, so smriti did right to go back to her parents. Smriti is a widow who lost her first and forever love. parents ofcourse lost their son, but kabhi samne wale dard ko dekhoge to yeh sab baat karne se daroge. aap khud ek ex army person hoke aisa widow ke saath kar rahe hai. galat hai uncleji. please stop all this allegations on Smriti, your bahu. agar aapne bahu ko really beti mana hota na to yeh sab kehte he nahi smriti ke baare mein
Agreed
Aur mujhe sabse jyada surprising toh ye baat lagi ki " Wo agar chote bete se shadi karna na chahe tabhi bhi usi ghar main rahe aur jab chota beta ka bachcha hoga future wife ke sath toh uske first child ko Smriti ke god mein daal denge aur uss bachche ke parents Smriti aur Anshuman honge...kisi Maa ko puchche bina uska bachcha jo 9 months uske kokh main rakhke hazar mood swings, hormonal changes aur emotions aur delivery pain ke sath peda karegi uske bachche ko chin ke Smruti ke god mein dal denge ye log.
@@rakshyapokharel516 He wants to show his greatness of sacrifice but ended up showing his true color. Lies don't hold for long. They basically want the pension money of anshuman but changing statement in every interview even after getting himself pension, they want son's pension too. The way he is speaking is full of male dominated societal pride. Thank god Smriti left this place. God only knows what she must have gone through.
@dreepk8118 seriously...agar meri bahu ka case hota toh main khush hoti ki bichari ki puri life bachi hai aur thoda se secure hogaya uska life...itni choti si umar main widow ka tag lag gaya...main toh usko encourage karti ki career pe focus karo...aur Maa Baap ko 65 lakhs toh mila hi hai aur upar se pension bhi aata hai Baap ka...chota beti aur beti dono doctor hai well settled hai
@@easy_busy_mama6653 respect social media main tamasha karne se milega?...kisiko jabardasti khudko respect karne lagaya ja sakta hai?...Nepal mein hi hua hai ek Sushmita naamki widow ka case jaha insurance ke lalach mein bahu ko mardiya woh bhi sexually harass karne ke baad...Saas Saasur aur Nanad milke brutally mardiya...Kalyug hai kisika bharosa nai hai
This pair of parents is getting their pension.
They were not dependent on their son.
Whatever this parent created was very disgusting.
That too when father itself is ex Army
Yes, and he already got 65 lakhs and wants son's pension too.
@@ppen8359 imagine, how human can behave?
Mother's love, father's love ... Shocking 😯
Girl is very decent & she maintained her dignity & poise
@@sunitagupta3078 If you look at this whole thing then the total benefit is 1.5 crorers + Pension. If Bahu lives with him then he will get it all and then because pension goes away after marriage, he will keep his bahu unmarried and convince her to have sex with him and get a baby. This is what his plan is.
This is for those men to understand who trust their mother but forget about wife 🙏
He is his son, why he won't get that money, in this world only money matters, even his daughter in law left them when her husband died, you girls are really disgusting
यह एक सामाजिक समस्या है हमारा समाज महिलाओं के प्रति नकारात्मक पूर्वाग्रहों से ग्रस्त है
Kitne joothe case hotd h rape ke dahej ke maarpeeth ke in pr bol na
And jb equality ki baat krte ho to phir dono ke liy bol
Agar wife dusri shadi kr legi to uske medal ki ky izzat reh jaygi
@@vikasjain2471 jyadatar sachche hote hai
@@vikasjain2471aur kal ko maa baap mar jaaye ge tab ???tab medal ki kya izzat ho gi?
@@rameshkutubpur9518 उसकी मां भी एक औरत ही है ।जिसने अपना 26 ,27साल का बेटा खो दिया जिसे पल पल बड़ा होते देखा इतना काबिल बनाया की वो देश और अपने समाज का नाम रोशन कर सके।वो भी एक औरत ही है।उन्होंने आपका क्या बिगाड़ा है? उनके प्रति आपके विचार इतने नकारात्मक क्यों है।
अभी फसा नहीं है तू किसी औरत के चंगुल मै, जिस दिन फ़स जायगा तो पता लग जायगे तेरी कह के ले लेगी
Hadd hai Matlab patni ko kuch mil na jaye bass yehi chahte hain saas sasur toh 😢
Isliye toh itna tamasha kar rahe hai jitna as a parents inka haq tha utna army aur govt ne de diya hai par nhi inhe toh apni daughter in law ka bhi hisa chahiye jaise woh kuch lagti hi nhi thi inke bete ki aur na hi inke bete ka koi responsibility thi apni wife ko lekar prblm toh inhe in sab cheez se hai.
@vivekakumari-zb6oz bharat mein Maa Baap ko toh bhagwan bana diya gaya hai aur bahu ko kaam wali bayi bass. Inki beti ke sath aisa hota tab dekhte yeh log media pe aise hi interview dete.
@@vaasumaaharekrishna3909 sahi kaha apne bilkul khud ki beti hoti toh inhe paise chakra beti ke pass hone se koi prblm nhi hoti tab kahte in laws ke pass ho ya hamri beti ke pass ek hi baat hai.
@@vivekakumari-zb6oz Tab Sara dard apni beti ka dikhta bass.
@@vivekakumari-zb6ozcorrect
Sad to see previous videos where father was talking about money and medal. After getting money, now he is talking about medal. He doesnt seem to be sad at his son's death. He gets pension, but still made a scene in the media. Really feel sad for martyr anshuman whose parents habe put him down
Pl don't judge. You really don't know what the family is going through , both parents and wife. Pray for their well being.
M agree with u ..... Parents are not dependent and they had lived their life but what abt the young lady she lost everything before starting anything......and this word widow....o my god ..... I understand how difficulty is life for a widow........ God bless the soul of hero if he is watching from somewhere then he will be so sad to see that how his parents r creating a scene......n HW lonely is his wife.....
We don't know what is the truth, pr unke mata pita ne sari media ke samne jasi bazzati kri unki ptni ki wo bhi shi ni hai , or wo koi ghr bathi ldki bhi to ni h jo usi pase ke bhrose bathi ho , she's also an engineer,
But log ab kisi saheed ki vidhva tk ko gali dena suru ho gya hain
This is not the right way to represent your son nd his wife
So true …finally some one said this
Paran
@@shreyashukla6172 पहली बात वो ये बात शुरू से कह रहे है की वो सिर्फ अपने लिए आवाज नहीं उठा रहे बल्कि अपने जैसे बहुत से माता पिता के लिए भी आवाज उठा रहे है
कभी कभी किसी को तो आवाज उठानी ही पड़ती है इसके बाद से बहुत से माता पिता अब आगे आ रहे है जो घर की इज्जत की बात सोच कर नही बोल पा रहे थे।
और स्मृति को अगर पैसे का लालच न होता तो वो अंतिम संस्कार के लिए सरकार से मिलने वाले 10000 रूपए के लिए पूछताछ न करती।अपने ससुर पर ही छोड़ देती ।
लोगो के लिए जितनी संवेदना शहिद की पत्नी के लिए होनी चाहिए उतनी ही शहीद की मां के लिए भी होनी चाहिए वो भी एक औरत है जिसने अपने 26 27 साल के जवान और काबिल बेटे को खोया है
@@AKSHITAKKI-f4s she's not even his real mother she's step mother aadhi jankari hanikarak hai
Or wo chahte hain ki wo unke sath hi rhe bete ke shaheed hone se phle se hi wo Austrelia jane wali thi wo unhe pta h ab pr ab wo indirectly uske charector pe aa rhe , kya hr bhr jane wali ya hr bahar rhne wali ldki k charector point out hota h?
Nd the second most important thing she's graduated from NIT koi jobless ldki ni h wo , or bina pati ke bhi uski khud ki identity hai, or dusri bat us ldki ka to ab tk kisi ne pakshha hi n suna pr apni apni khani bkayde bna kr bathe hain
Inki ma chahti hain ki wo wo unke dusre bete se shadi kr le ya unke sath rhe ? To wo kyun rhe wo n chahe to puri life kisi se shadi n kre ,agr ase charector uchhal skte hain to ye kya use izzat denge ase ghr rhne se achha to road pe rhna hai ,itne hi achhe or mahan hote ye to uski dhajjiyan n uda rhe report's ko bula bula kr ,
Nd the most important thing bete ne nominee apni biwi ko bnaya hai or kisi ko ni, to agr itni hi sikayat thi to apne bete se honi chahiye
Nd don't come here with your old mentality ki vidhwa ho gyi to ghr bate ho bole wase wo kre, us ldki ko bhi mentally in sb se bhr niklne ke liye time chahiye pr wo kmjor ni h bilkul, aas pados ke sas sasur or bahu ki ldai jasi ni h ye ,or n hi wo ldki anpdh hai
Or ap k mudda h n ki pase ni chahiye ja kr bakyede suruati interviews dekhna dhng se ki unhe kya chahiye, alg alg interviews me alg alg khaniyan bol rhe hain kbhi bol rhe hain hmare pas kya bcha n ldka n pension n kirti chakra , kbhi unko chahiye ki unki bahu jindgi bhr unke sath rhe yhin, kbhi unko chahiye ki unke bete se shadi kr le ya wo chahe to kisi or se kr le
To jb tumko uski ichha ki itni hi chinta h to wo jb bahr ja kr apna career bnana chahti h or achha to fir kyun sr me drd h inke or ak ke bad ak interview nikale ja rhe hain itna hi mhan pyar h bahu se ya itni hi pyari h bahu to
@@AKSHITAKKI-f4sCORRECT! She's (wife) after money that's all.
These parents are shamefully spoiling the reputation of their own son's wife..who has not yet overcome with what has happened to her..
It was not a matter of 5 months marriage in fact it was love of 8 years..
Wherever she wants to go she has right to as who would stay with such toxic in laws who are not even respecting their son's wishes and decisions.
Why they are even discussing second marriage of daughter in law right now.this is so painful to hear that they don't even trust their son's love..
U are right it was 8 yrs of deep emotional bonding. Smriti is in heartbreaking grief.
Tum ladki ho isliye tumhe bura lag rha, ek din tumhare sath aisa hoga phir dekhta hoon apni bahu ko aise bolti ho ya nhi
Tu lagao nash.ye unka family matter tha duniya kr samne lana wasn't nice ..they are spoiling the image of a girl .who stood with there son for more than 8 years ..if she isn't speaking anything related to this it doesn't means she is wrong ..infact she is more mature and sensible @@ashishbarnwal2763
I was going to comment the same ..
@@ashishbarnwal2763apki bahan bhi ladki h yaad rakkhna
ये तो आॅफीसर का बेटा था कीसी गरीब पीता का बेटा होता तो मीडीया उसे दीखाती ही नही
Gareeb ghar ka beta pension nominee me mata ya pita ko nominee bna skta hai, wife ko hi nominee bnana zaruri nahi. Isme puri bete ki choice hai.
@@Yantrakaragir private job me to pension bhi nahi milti ..hamare pati ki death ke baad kaise palan poshan kar rahe hai ye hum jante hai but I salute army unhone insurance ke paise patni nd mata pita me barabar barabar bante ..nd smrti ko pension bhi milegi I m happy for smriti..kisi ko to mila
Garib ghr ka hota to maa bap aise drama nhi krte paise k liye. Garib paiso se garib hota h ijjat bahut pyari hoti h unhe.
माता पिताजी को ज़ब पैसा नहीं चाहिए था फिर क्यों लेने लगे??
ज़ब वही पिताजी पेंशनर हैं फिर उनके जीवन यापन की कोई प्रॉब्लम तो है नहीं..
अंधेरा है देश में... जिसको मिलना चाहिए उसे मिलता नहीं.... जो भूखे है उनको खाना नहीं. और जो परहेज़ में है उनको खील बतासे....
जयादा तर दुसरी शादी कर लेती है कारगिल युध्द मे जो शहीद हुए थे उनकी पत्नी ने बच्चो तक को छोड़कर दुसरी शादी कर ली थी अगर शादी करती बाद मे उस घर के अलावा तो पेंशन माँ को मिलने का परावधान होना चाहिए
Achha ,kisi vidhwa ko agar koi Jeevan sathi mil jata hai to is ka Matlab ye to nahi ki us k husband ko khone ka dukkh Kam ho jayega..her life would never be same..she should get pension and parents should also get if they are dependent
Or jinki wife ki death ho jati h to wo admi to shadi karte hi nhi na? Wo pura jivan akele kaat dete h wife ki yad me, ek ladke ki dusri shadi hona bahut asan hota hai jbki aaj bhi samaj me ladki ki dusri shadi mushkil se ho pati h
Parents will get if wife will get married.
Bhai😮 jab usne khud apni wife ko nominee banaya pension ke liye toh baat hi khatam kyu ye log us ladki ko badnam kar rhe taki uski aage ki life aur kharab ho mtlab itna tamasha kiya haaddd hai apne bete ko khoya uski toh respect rakh lete kaise parents hai pension chahiye inko jab usne khud likha apne wife ko toh kya mtlab hai
Bhai foz me rule hai nominee sirf patni hi hogi mata pita nhi isme jawan apni marji se mata pita ko nominee nhi bna sakte durbhagya hai bechare ka
@@kharolnu6404 bhai agar mata pita ko pension milegi to biwi baccho ka kya hoga..capt sir ke papa ko bhi to pension mil rahi hai unke baad unki patni ko milegi ( bhagwan kare mata ji dirghayu rahe)
aap jaise logo ko koi bhi ni smjha sakta
vo ladki to kisi or se shadi kr legi kya mata pita ko unka beta vapis milega jinhone apna beta khoya unko kuch ni
Us bachhi ka kiya kasoor hai. Anshuman ki bahan Hoti uski jagha tab ye ma baap kiya krte uske pichhe pad gye hain. Kabhi kahte hain humne chmmach bhi nahi li shadi m. Arey Chammach se kisi dusre maa baap ki beti taul rhe ho. Inka dahej ka drama tha tabhi beta shadi hote hi Noida shift ho gyaa ye shadi usne apni marzi se ki thi.
जब पति ने खुशी से पत्नी को ही नॉमिनी बनाया है तो बाकी लोगों को बोलने का कोई तुक नहीं बनता है, हां ये बात जरूर है की बहु को अपने ससुराल से किसी भी तरीके से जुड़ा रहना चाहिए, उन्होंने भी बेटा खोया है, साथ में नहीं रह सकते तो कोई नहीं लेकिन डिजिटल दुनिया में संपर्क में रहना आसान है, लड़की और मां -बाप दोनों ने खोया है, दोनों का दुःख बराबर है, किसी को कम या ज्यादा नहीं बोल सकते हैं, अभी से उस बिचारी लड़की को बिना उसे जाने बुरा कहना गलत है। उस शहीद जवान की आत्मा को दुःखी मत करिए। उनका परिवार सब संभाल लेगा।
कीर्ति चक्र तो उनके घर में रहना चाहिएना उनके माता पिता के घर में होनाचाहिए सरकार को न्याय करना चाहिए यह गलत कर रही है सरकार
Tumhare papa marenge to unkaedal tum rakhogi ki dada dadi ko de aoge. Khud pe le k dekho.
Bchche h to vo bhi bde h to ptni ko milne chaye@@Oliveolive-xo8du
पत्नी जब घर छोड़ कर चली गई तो पत्नी कैसी, सांस ससुर के साथ रहती। पत्नियां पति के नाम पर पैसा लेकर चली जाती हैं परिवार छोड़कर दूसरी शादी कर लेती हैं ❤
Parent's ko bhi mare huye bete ka paisa nhi lena chahiye...
ब्रिगेडियर साहब अंशुमान के केस में अंशुमान के माता पिता के साथ अन्याय हुआ है अंशुमान की पत्नी जिसकी शादी को सिर्फ5 महीने ही हुए थे उन्हें कीर्ति चक्र दे दिया गया जब की जिन माता पिता ने अपने बेटे को उस पद तक पहुंचाया जिसकी वजह से उन्हें वो सम्मान मिला उन माता पिता को वोकीर्ति चक्र छुने भी नही दिया गया ये कैसे सही हो सकता है?
और यदि वो शहीद की पत्नी दूसरी शादी चाहे वो किसी भी कारण से हो कर लेती है तो कीर्ति चक्र पत्नी को देने का क्या मतलब है क्या दूसरा पति उस कीर्ति चक्र को
वो सम्मान दे पाएंगा जो उसके माता पितादे सकते है?????
जो लोग पेंशन की, किसी भी रूप में मिलने वाले पैसे की ,या स्मृति के ससुराल में रहने की बात कर रहे है वो पहले अंशुमान के पैरेंट्स की पूरी बात को ध्यान से सुने वो पैसे या बहु को जो ज्वेलरी वो दे चुके है उसकी बात नही कर रहे वो सिर्फ कीर्ति चक्र की बात कर रहे है ।
क्या मांता पिता इसीलिए फौज में अपने बेटे को भेजते है की कोई लड़की उनके बेटे के जीवन में आए 2, 4 महीने में ही शहीद को मिलनेवाला पुरस्कार मायके ले जाकर रख दे
या अपने दूसरे पतिके घर ले जाए ।
और जो लोगदूसरा बेटा गोद ले लेने की सलाह दे रहे हैं क्या उनके घर में ऐसा ही होता है
Kirti chakra ki copy karwa kar rakh lo apne pas......yah log bhi ek beta adopt kar lange to wo kya kirti chakra ko samman de payega...............
Sab paise ko samman dete h fir chahe koi bhi ho
Nhi mom dad he samj skte h yh pain unhone apne bete ko khoya hai ..ho sakta h wife achi ho buy wife agar again shadhi kr rhi h to mom dad ko he Milni chaiye help/salary / respect ...unhone bhi to apna beta ko kho diya ...maa or papa he smj skte h ..
Dekhiye fact ye hai ki atleast wo adopt kiya hua beta Anshuman ko apne bada bhai maankar samman jarur de sakta hai lekin apne wife ka pehle ka husband ko wo dushra husband kabhi bhi respect nahi karega...agar kiya bhi toh kya sochke Karega ki ye samman mera biwi ka pehle pati ko diya gaya hai no never...
@@true5839adoption ki jarurat nahi hogi unka ek beta aur bhi hei
माता पिता गलत कर रहे है , पाप करने की सजा इनको ईश्वर देगा।
हा पाल पोस कर बड़ा किया,यही तो वो पाप किये ?
@@pradeepchouhan5290 घरेलू अत्याचार करते है बहु पर , प्रेम विवाह जो था
@@akhandbharat0481 kaha likha h kisne bola ???! Bina soche smjhe kuch bhi boldo, beti jse pyar krte the usko
Trea beta mrega fir tere sath esa ho tub tujhe PTA chlega maa baap ka dard kya h
@@akhandbharat0481yaa u r right love marriage thi isliyee ese kr rhee h or sbse bdi baat toh ye h ki pese or chakra ke liye mar rhee h inhe bete ke shaheed hone ka koii dukh nhi h
दुष्ट पत्नी के दहेज प्रताड़ना के झूठे मुकदमे में पीडि़त पति चारों तरफ से घिर कर आत्म hatya कर रहा है।
Dusht tih koi bhi ho raha hai ajkal😂 saas sasur bhi, Pati aut patni bhi.
Gwar aurat😂
Sahi bola sir
आपको सबके बारे में ऐसा नहीं कहना चाहिए, बस कुछ लोग सही नहीं होते हैं
@@vaasumaaharekrishna3909tu saale abhi gira nhi hai na ,tbhibzaubaan khol rha...dekh unn piriton ko jinki patniyan paison ke liye jhoothe case daalke badnaam krti hain shareef parivaaron ko
अगर बीवी दूसरी शादी कर ले तो पेंशन बंद होती है।
Aap bta rhe ho ya puch rhe ho??
Army ke alawa yadi koi employees service book main kisi ko nominate kerta ho toh paisa kise milna chahiye koi govt role ho toh kripya natsye
Kripya bataye
Haa band ho jati hai.....
@@Kartik-ry7ntband ho jti h......
अरे भाई क्यू येक शहीद की वाइफ की जीवन को नही देख रहे हो, कितनी बड़ी दुख सहन कर रही है जीने दो भाई क्यू अपना एजेंडा चला रहे हो
Sahi me kisi ki life me kyn ghusna.. Ek to wo phle dukhi h upar se log glt bol rhe h wo bhi tb jb ki andar ki bat pta nai h kisi ko.. Ek tarfa sun k kaise bol skta h koi... Aur army rules k according adha adha paisa milta h.. Jo ki ek fauji khud decide krta h ki uske bad kitna kitna kisko milna chaiey
Bhyii wife toh aage badh gyi hai , jis maa baap ne use Etna bda kya military me bheja unka pehla hak hona chahiye uski hr chiz pr , aur ansu ke mata pita koi bura nhi kehre the apni wife ko , lekin jo unki Bahu ne kiya unke sath vo glt hai
Wife to dusri Sadi kr legi lekin maa bap ko unka beta chodi mil jayega
शहिद कि वाईप थी अब नही है क्यू कि वो घर छोड़ के चली गयी है घर मे रहती तो 50 -50 वाला बात होता नही
पत्नी दुसरी शादी करे तो पेंशन बंद कर दिया जायेगा
Haa. yahi hota hain.. ❤❤❤
Patni agar dusri shaadi karegi toh pension automatically bandh ho jaiga, kiu pension ka haqdaar widow/bidhvaa hota hain,
Agar shaadi kiya toh woh larki bidhva nahi rahi aur pension bhi nahi rahega ❤❤
Yahi is baat ka sabut hai ki pension ki uttradhikari kewal patni hoti hai ..
Niyamo ko kuchh soch samajh aur dekh ker hi banaya gaya hoga na ..
Durbhgyapurna jo itne layak bachche ki family ki ye durdasha ho rahi hai ..
No
@@pawanchandkaushik1756 yes band ho jygi
Parents already got 65 lakh.are they want pension now.
Father of ashuman is already a ex army getting pension.
Now case should close.
Shahid Anshuman ka Tamasha banaa Rakha hai paison ke liye kya jamana a gaya hai sharm ki baat hai
Ma bap s ye umid nhi thi
@@jaswanthchaudhary9796 - बिल्कुल गलत बात। यहाँ विवाद पैसों या pension का नहीं, बेटे को मिले सम्मान, " "कीर्ति-चक्र" का है !!
@@Oliveolive-xo8duaapke hisab se tho jis maa ne bete ko 9 months apni kokh mai rakha aur itna bada kiya aur army mai bheja uss maa ka bete k paiso mai koi haaq nahi?? Meri saas bahut buri hai mere saath bahut hi bhed bhav kiya hai na jane kitna bura bartaw kiya fir bhi maine unke बुढ़ापे k liye sahara banugi soch rakha hai kyun ki jo bhi hoo vo thi tho mere husband hai aaj aur mai unn se mil payi.. don't know inn logo mai kya issue raha honga.. mana ki anshuman k mata pita 100% galat hai but pura ka pura kirti chakra, paisa aur pension apne pass rakho aur saath hi saath saas sasur se relationship tod do yeh sahi hai?????? Mana vo galat honge but kitne bhi bure hoo maa baap hone ka haaq unko milna chahiye
Inn maa baap Ko Apne Bete ke faisle ki izzat karni chahiye. Inki iss harkat se inke bete ki aatma ko kitni takleef pahunch Rahi hogi, iski inko koi chinta nahi hai. Inko sirf Bahu ko badnaam Karna hai.
Ajkal mabap k liye bhi paisa bada ho gaya h
Bahu ne inko neglect karke kitni badi galti ki inke bete ke nam se itna money n award mila.lekar Australia chali gayi.apni life banaye lekin inka sab kucch wapas kar dena chahiye
@@yogitasingh2812inka kuch nahi liya bhai …..ho Mila goverment ki side se Mila wo bji aadha maa baap ko aur aadha ladki ko
@@venuverma5337 jb ldki family ko chhod k chli jaye to usko kuch nhi milna chiye
@@wowpatel5732 sab se pahli baat maa baap ko bhi 75 lakh mile hai ,maa ne bhi bahu ke saath kirti chakr receive kiya hai ,pita ji ki khud ki pension aati hai aur eak javan beta aur hai inke ……pure india mai eak aise maa baap dhoond dijiye jo apni 26 saal ki widow beti ko forever ke liye in-laws ke paas chor de aur wo bhi jab jab ghar mai eak Javaan dever ho …..
गरीब लोग सेना मे मरे या घर पर भुका मरे ईनके बारे मे सोचने वाला या चींता करने वाला कोई नही अंशुमान के पीताजी से ऐक ही विनंती है ऐ लढाई अपने या अपने बेटे तक सीमीत मत रखो उन गरीब परीवार के सीपाई के लीऐ ये लढाई आपको लढनीही होंगी अमीर लोग तो अपना गुजारा कर लेते है मगर गरीब बे मौत मारा जाता है
हमारे गाव में ऐसा हुवा है शहीद की पत्नी ने remarage की ऑर उसके सांस ससुर एकदम बुढे थे पर उंको कूच भी नहीं मिला ओ ती सब लुटले चली gai.. badme टेन्शन tention में आके पहले ओ unty chali gai badme unke husbund चले गये बहुत दुःख होता होय फिर फिर ऐसे केसेस सामने अते है तो
Bhai anshuman ke maa baap ko bhi 75 lakh mile hai unki khud ki pension aati hai aur eak aur Javaan beta hai ghar mai ….aur maa ne bahu ke saath medal bhi received kiya …..tho inhe kya pareshani hai mujhe tho samjh nahi aa raha
a5337 baat paisoki nahi hai....samman aur usuloki hai 😢😢😢😢
@@DDnews_007 oh
😢😢@@DDnews_007
Lalchi ma bap beta gya uska dukh nhi Paisa or kritichakara ke liye desh ke sahid Jawan ke atma ko kitni taqlif ho rhi hogi
Ma ki chalaki ko dekhte huye hi beta apne Bibi ko pensan m nomani banaya hoga jaan rha hoga mera na rahne ke bad ma kya karegi mere.bibi ke sath.
Maa sauteli hai isliye nomani bnaya hoga
@@sonashukla7852 माता पिता के बारे में ऐसा नहीं बोलना चाहिए, माता पिता हर एक स्थिति में आदरणीय होते हैं
Laalchi wo aurate hoti hai jo pehle to ladke ke saath jeene marne ki kasame khaati hai…aur uske maa baap se ummeed karti hai ki wo usko beti maane… fir pati ke jaate hi uske maa baap ko akela chhodkar paisa lekar saari jimmedari se door bhaag jaati hai…..maa baap jivan bhar tapasya karke aulaad ko fauz me bhejte hai bahadur banaate hai…..chaar din ki aashiki se usko kirti chakra nhi mila…..ab jab beti bankar jeene ka, sacrifice karne ka time aaya to nikal li…..
@@poojakiduniya9792 tum bhi aisa ki ho kya bhut experience h
बहु तो पराए घर की होती हे जेसे चाहे बदनाम कर लो । वो तुम लोगो को जानती होगी इसलिए छोड़ कर चली गई । अपने ही घर का तमाशा बना दिया।
Ishliye ushne ek shabd bhi nahi boli , 8 years se jyada relationship me thi ladki anshuman k sath . Anshuman ne apni wife ko banaya will me to ushke maa baap ko kyu milega paise
@@rahulrahulrazBhai anpadh ho kya... Uske Maa baap ne paise kab mange.. onhone to kirti chakra ki baat kahi h ki kuch samay ke liye de deti smriti unhe.. pr osne na to onhe kirti chakra diya.. aur na hi onse koi baat kri itne samay tak..😏
Thoda sa dimag ka use kro...
@@arpitnegi4147 anpadh te tulaage hai..ganwar ..tu bihari hai k ..bawri gend?
@@arpitnegi4147I listened to one of his interviews where he said - "Maine unse Kaha ki bahadur ek insaan ko unko mata pita aur aas paas ke log banate hain. Is liye ye samaan unki maa ko lene de. Par unhone kaha ki sarkar hame Jo de Rahi hai vo hum nahi chodenge".
Abb koi mujhe ye batao ki samaan Milne se pahle hi vo Bahu ko bol rahe hai ki maa ko hi Milne do ..to leke bhagna hi padega....
@@arpitnegi4147 buddhe buddhi k shakal par koi sadness bhi nahi...bas paise ka rona dhona ...ye natak kar kyu raha tha fir jab paise nahi maange ...anshuman ne will me apni wife ka naam kuch sochkar hi diya hoga na . Buddha already army se retired hai , raul Vinci se mila indono chaparganju wife husband ko agneevir se problem ho gayi , apni bahu se problem ho gayi. .wo kya inki dashi bankar rehne Lage . Apni padhayi Puri karne wo videsh ja rahi . Ish buddhe ne news channel par love bola tha k mere chote bete se shadi kara dunga .bkl ..8 sal se relationship me rehne walo ladki shadi kar legi kisi aur se .wo ladki ab life time aise hi rahegi .bas in dono buddhe buddhi ko paise chahiye the .khud k hi fajihat kara baitha .lalchi Buddha aur buddhi..aur jab inhe laga k lalach ka dhong sabko malum chal raha to emotional game khelne lage ye dono Buddha buddhi .
India me bete k marte hi sasuraal me bahu ka torture krna shuru kr dia jta h, uske pti k bina vha uski koi izzat nahi hoti, isiliye vo chhod dri h or mayeke aa jti h shanti k liye....
.pr patriarchy community ko to bs koi moka chahiye hota h orato ko nicha dikhane kaa
सही जानकारी के लिए धन्यवाद
उनको भी तो पेन्शन मिलती होगी फिर उनको क्या जरूरत है पैसे की ओर दूसरा बेटा भी तो है फिर भी
Tamasha, who instigated & kis ke kehne par they lost their daughter in law forever
Right faltu k tamasha bana diya hai parents ne...pehle bol rahe the kuch bhi nahi mila sb leke bhag gyi jbki Aisa kuch hua hi nahi
parents ne hadd ker di hai. khud seperate reh rhe hai inke mata pita chahcha chachi honge na anshuman k.. papa ko pension mil rhi hogi apni biwi ko dekh rhe h anshuman k dada dadi chcha chachi koi kaha hai... or apne bete ka biwi ko mila toh dukhi ho gyi h maa , or saas sasur ka pta nahi kia hoga ya nahi.
@@ShubhranLove society still backward.
They wanted money & maid like bahu , what nonsense 😠
@@ShubhranLove hanji bilkul wo bhi to apne pati ke sath rahi unki salary pension sab pe adhikar rakha Puri life ab bhi rule ke according jitna milna chahiye utna pesa Mila bhi hai ek beta or beti doctor hai to kyu itna Tamasha krna . Abhi to ladki ne bola hi nahi ki wo dusri shadi kregi ya kuchh bhi kirti chakkr abhi 5 July ko to Mila hi tha pariwar rishtedar mil ke prblm solve kar lete media me bahu ko badnaam krna jaruri tha kya
Inke according bahu ko bina kuch liye….inke ladke se shadi kr leni chahie….ya fir sab kuch parents ko deke durr chle jana chahie…and she should live like ki uske Sath koi tragedy hui hi ni…cz she can marry someone else
Apna gyan har jagah mat bata kro..... Phele puri information le liya kro...... Anshuman ji ke pita ka interview dekh lo ek br ABP Ganga pe........ Kuch bi abada kabada bolne se phele socha kro..... Khi bhi bt paiso ki h hi nhi.... Samjh aaya... Parents ko bs unke bete ka samman chahiye... Paisa to wo usse double dene ko ready h..
@@anjaliguglani7155 आधी अधूरी जानकारी के आधार पर किसी शहीद के माता पिता को बदनाम नही करना चाहिए उनका दर्द तिल मात्र भी उस पत्नी से कम नहीं है।बल्कि अधिक ही है क्योकि पत्नी तो दूसरी शादी करके उसकी कमी को पूरा कर सकती है पर उन पैरेंट्स को दूसरा अंशुमान नही मिलेगा चाहे उनके और कितने भी बच्चे हो।
और रही बात रुपया लेने की तो उन्हे इतना ही लालच होता तो वो बिना दहेज लिए अपने बेटे की शादी न करते।और सारा जेवर 5 महीने की शादी में बहु के हवाले न कर देते।
किसी बात की पूरी जानकारी के बिना ज्ञानी नही बनना चाहिए
If she has taken all the memories of her husband that means she is not looking forward to remarry.
Wohi toh jb shoes tak le gai .... formality bi ho gai hogi army m puri tbi to pnsn de rhe h.. otherwise thodi dete..
Why she can’t remarry she has right to live life like she want to live
@@utamadubey8736 there is difference between guessing and opinion. Nobody here said she shouldn't remarry all I am saying is if she wanted to remarry she would not have taken her husbands memories along with her..
Shadi ke liye launda bhi mil gaya hai devi ji koo tum logo kya pata bahut dekh rakha hu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 guarantee hai ye tooo aam baat hai fark bass etna hai ki woo hamara veer jawan tha esliye dukh Raha 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@AtulKumarYadav-ly3lf bete agr Teri jesi soch unki hoti na to 8 saal long distance relationship me rehene ke baje vo koi aur dhund leti. Aur thoda to ijjat Karo yaar she is a martyrs widow... Har sikke ke do pehlu hote he theek vese hi humne sirf ek side ki story Sunni he. Do u even know unhone apna address change kyu Kiya she was been mentally harrassed by her mother-in-law and all to marry her brother in law and much more.
Anshuman’s Father never asked about money...He was talking about the inhumanity shown by Smriti and her family
Kitne ghatiya ma bap h beta chla gya uska moh nhi h paise ke liye lar rhe h
Wahi toh me v soch rahi hu sare pese k liye pagal ho rahe hai ...are Jo v ho larna kiun hai aap ko toh mil raha hai na kuch toh Mila hoga na aapko v...
पति के शहीद होने पर पत्नी को नौकरी व पेन्शन मिलती है अगर वह दूसरी जगह शादी कर ले तो क्या पेन्शन
व अनुकम्पा से मिली नौकरी रहेगी
Anshuman ke Parent ne paise ki bat kabhi ki hi nhi,
Bhram mt failao
Ki hai paiso ki baat interview dekh na jaake
Agar Anshuman sir ne khud apni biwi ko diya hai pension ka haq to mata pita ko kya dikkat hai?
Uncle bol nahi rahe the kya reform hona chahiye nok me
Paise ki to baat kar rahe the
Tumhe nok kya hai pata bhi hai kya😂
Gareeb maa baap blah blah , har 2 sentence k baad paise ka hi rona tha uncle ka .
@sachin..... गंवार पिता बहू का पैसा घर मे रहे इसलिये बहू की शादी छोटे बेटे से करवाने चला था.........
Ha jab uske husband ne pension apni wife ko likha hai toh baat hi khatam unko pension chahiye tha bas or kuch bhi nahi or agar uski wife dusri shadi karti hai toh usko pension khud sarkar band kar degi isme tension koi na le shadi ki toh uski pension band ho jayegi... Itni chhoti soch hai uske parents ki kam se kam apne bete ki izzat rakh lete
@@prishashandilya7925 Uncle Anti apni jagah sahi hain. Jab pati ki atma shanti ke liye Pooja mai akar bethi nahi. To Kaahe ki patni. Aur pati kaiyee aurato ke time se Pehle chale jate hain ye dukh in laws pariwar ke sath baant sakti thi . Pati ke Jaane ke Baad usse sare rishte contact khatam kar diya to mere samjh mai ek paisa bhi nahi diya jana chahiye
Just a simple question I want to know Anshuman Singh ji k papa Jo khud bhi ek army officer hai - kya unke papa apni nominee meh apne bahu(Smriti) ka naam denge apne wife ka naam hata k? Biwi se phle apne beti jaise bahu ka dhyaan rakhenge? apne sahid huye bete k gujar jane ka dard hai unko yeh sabko pata hai, but media k samne aa k apne bahu ka beizzati krna , bete k liye bahu ka pyaar ek souda tha , medal ley k baag gyi ( jo ki unko government se samman sawrup Mila hai - unko ley kr bhaag ne ki kya jarurat hai) , contact nhi kr rhi hai ( contact meh reh k kya kregi ,apne dewar se shadi taki ghr k paisa kahi bhr na jaye), mili toh namaste tak nhi kiya ( waise samman mange se nhi milta kamana padta hai)etc etc bolne kya mtlb hai? Uss ldki koi dhuk nhi hai kya? 5 month ka shadi hai sirf yeh bol k shadi k phle k 8 saal ka relationship ap ganga meh duba doge? Parents have eachother, in this case infact parents have other child also . But think of that wife for once, koi bacha bhi nhi hai unka ...woh kis k bharose puri zindagi bitaige ab. She should take her own decision now as she is an adult and move on in life.
Dear parents we understand that no body ever replace a mother but also remember once your son is married u have u agree that ur son also belongs to his wife. Do treat them as a single team.
Mujhe lagta hai kisiko ek veer saput khone ka koi gum nhin hai 😢 sabko bas woh kya chod gaya humare liye bas yehi chahiye 😭
विधवा के साथ सदियों से उनके घर में ही हर दिन मजबूरी का फायदा उठाया जाता है.... क्योंकि वह आर्थिक रूप से संपन्न नहीं होती है... आप पुरुष ऐसा नहीं कर पा रहे हैं तो पेट में दर्द हो रहा है जैसे अंशुमन के पिता जी को हो रहा है.... वह अपनी बहू को अपने घर में रखना चाहते हैं पता नहीं क्यों
Peso ki bat to unhone ki hi nhi thi bat to kirti chakra ki thi
Shayad aapne dekha ni h interview thik se ,usko Kitna kya mil rha hmko kuch btaya ni Jake dekhiye achche se interview,
Main baat toh paisa e hai...patni ho ya parivaar
Peso ki bat karta to pakda jata lachi admi
Tum interview jaa ke dekho bhai unhone clearly kha hai ki " Unki bahu unko respect nhi di aysa kya krdiya unhone Jo rashtrapati bhawan me baat tak nhi kiya unse , aur most important unko kirti chakra aache se chune tak nhi mila kya parents itna bhi deserve nhi krte kya .
Fir unhone ye bhi kha ki unko paise nhi chaiye kyuki vo khud hi ex army man hai .
Bahu nay kuch bola nhi abhi tak to kuch andaja mtt lgaa bhai....maa baap khud lalchi lag rhey hain ladka mrr gya uska gum nhi bahu lay krr chli gyi iska dhong rach diya samaj k samny...uncel aunty ko dekh k lag bhi tha hai kuch khas kiya nhi apni zindagi mai bacho k kandho prr bandook rakh k chlatay hai aaj kl k maa baap tum kuch kro to tum bhot achay unki tarif hogi na krr paay to tum bhot bekaar ho...ladka army mai alg gya bo ab rha nhi jinda to uska gum nhi hai usky peso ka jada hota inko😢😢😢
Wife tabhi lay kr chlii gyi hogi janti hogee manshaa in logo ko love marrige bhi thi...😢😢
Bol rhey chotay betay say krr dyta hun shadi...
Soch dekho in logo ki vhan pati mrr gys uska nhi chotay say krr lay pesa bhi ghr mai rheyga😢😢...
Meri family bhi esy he soch wali hai or bhot logo ko dekha hai meny esay 😢😢😢😢...lakin kya pta kon shi hai
True. Parent disrespecting sons sacrifice for money. Lalchi log hai
Ma baap ne khud tamasha banaya hai..
Gurudasspur se ho?
Tum kya sbse gurdaspur k ho puchh rahe ho
Main hoon gurdaspur ki bolo
Bhai unko sirf kirti chakra dekhna hai isme tamasha kya hai vo bhi us bete ka jo unka khud ka khoon tha
Aur vo apni bahu se isiliye naraz hai kyuki unhone smriti ji ko bahot respect Diya tha pr in return, Smriti ji rashtrapati bhawan me unse baat tak nhi ki .
ABEE Chitiye maa bapp ne paida kiya pdhaya likhya tab wo pahucha college ladki ka kya h dusra pati mil jayega lekin un Mata pita ka kya
Sab log bol rahe hai Bahu ko nahi milna chahiye.to bete ko bolna tha unhe nominee kare.Bahu pe iljam lagane se kya hoga
@@shilpan.8396 behen bete ne to osko isliye nominee bnaya ki Taki Smriti iss trh se oske Maa baap ko akele chor kar na chale jaye.. aur Smriti ko koi problem bhi face na krna pade... Pade Smriti to selfish nikli chali gyi...
Agr patni ko kuchh nahi milna chahiye to kya Anshuman sir ki mata ji ne apne pati ki salary or pension apne sasural walo ko hi di thi kya unhone apne pati pe adhikar nahi rakha tha. or inke beta or beti doctor hai aesi itni koi pareshani nahi ki iss tarah bahu ko badnam krte. Soch ke dekhte ki inka beta jo shaheed hua hai wo 8 sal se iss ladki se pyar krta tha iss se shadi ke liye kitna wait Kiya hoga or ab uske Jane ke baad itni badnami ki log kitne bhadde comments kar rahe hai uspe. Kirti chakkr chahiye tha to rishtedar pariwar mil ke iss mamle ko suljha sakte the 5 July ko to abhi Mila hi tha aram se bat kar lete media me tamasha bnane ki kya jarurat thi.
@@ANUPDESH-p2p bhai thodi si akl lgao ki Anshuman ko kesa lag rha hoga yeh dekh kr ki jis ldki se osne 8 saal pyar kiya wo ldki onke mata pita ko chor kr apne mayka chali gyi bina kuch btaye... Aur rahi baat kirti chakra ki to Anshuman ke parents ne baat kari thi Smriti ke family se par Smriti ke selfish family wale koi bhi response nahi kr rahe h... Aise m Anshuman ke parents ne bilkul sahi kiya h..
5july ko samman mila aaj 17 July hai itne din me itna tamasa ban gya wah re maa baap matlb 12din me saare ke saare badnami ladki pe hi giri matlb usko itna bhi haq nahi hai kuchh din tak usko apne maa baap ke paas rahne ka
@@arpitnegi4147 ho skta hai unki aapas me nahi banti ho ya dewar ke sath shadi ka bol rahe ho isliye alg rhne gyi ho. Or dekho 5 July ko to samman Mila hi tha 8 ko sayd wo chli gyi thi or iss news ko kitne din ho gye hai. Agr relatives mil ke unke ghar ja kar bat kar lete thoda tym jarur lagta lekin solution Mila jata. Main ye bilkul nahi manti ki mata pita ka dukh km hota hai lekin patni ka dukh bhi km nahi hota jo log bol rhe h 5 mhine hue the shadi ko to shadi ko sirf 5 mahine hue the lekin sapne to Puri zindagi ke the na. Abhi abhi zindagi suru Hui thi uski ye bat galat hai. Social media pe uske khilaf itna negative bola ja rha hai wo hmare desh ke ek saheed ki dharam patni hai hi sakta hai sasural walo ke sath nahi bni ho bhut logo ki nahi banti hai. Abhi tak usne to nahi bola ki wo dusri shadi krne wali hai lekin social media pe uske khilaaf kitna Ganda bola ja rha hai. Aaj kal social media pe wese hi patni ke against inta hate failaya ja rh hai or ab ye sab ke baad to kya hi bolna.
जय हिन्द,,मेरा मानना है कि ए गलत फैसला किया गया है,, क्यूंकि पहला हक मां-बाप का होता है,जीसने बचपन से पाल पोसकर नोकरी लगवाया,, पत्नी तो कल दूसरी शादी कर लेगी
Apni beti pe bolna . Jaroori nhi hai ki doosri shadi kr le . Maa baap ke paas aur bacche hai . Yeh will bete ke according hi tha toh kya tandav chal rha hai. Itni problem thi award pe toh jakr ladki aur uske pariwar se baat kr suljhate . Mazak bana diya hai bete ke shahadat ko. Aur maa baap achhe hote jaroori nhi ki saas sasur ho . First interview mein sari lalach dikhti hai
Kindly infom in which Regiment Anshuman's father served in Indian Army.
Mata pita latchi hain jaha beta marne ki sudh tak nhi hoti waha babal Macha rakha hai disgusting
Tumhare sath hoga tab pata chalega lalchi kya isme unke bete ka pesa he to mangege hi patni ki dusri shadi ho jayegi aisa to tha nhi ki uske bache ho aur ladki ke Ghar Wale sath na de rahe ho to batao
@@Lyps.
Bahu nay kuch bola nhi abhi tak to kuch andaja mtt lgaa bhai....maa baap khud lalchi lag rhey hain ladka mrr gya uska gum nhi bahu lay krr chli gyi iska dhong rach diya samaj k samny...uncel aunty ko dekh k lag bhi tha hai kuch khas kiya nhi apni zindagi mai bacho k kandho prr bandook rakh k chlatay hai aaj kl k maa baap tum kuch kro to tum bhot achay unki tarif hogi na krr paay to tum bhot bekaar ho...ladka army mai alg gya bo ab rha nhi jinda to uska gum nhi hai usky peso ka jada hota inko😢😢😢
Wife tabhi lay kr chlii gyi hogi janti hogee manshaa in logo ko love marrige bhi thi...😢😢
Bol rhey chotay betay say krr dyta hun shadi...
Soch dekho in logo ki vhan pati mrr gys uska nhi chotay say krr lay pesa bhi ghr mai rheyga😢😢...
Meri family bhi esy he soch wali hai or bhot logo ko dekha hai meny esay 😢😢😢😢...lakin kya pta kon shi hai
Lalchi wali bat nhi h jab bhu na unke sath rhti h na bat karti h to Kam s km chakr to ma bap ko de dena chahiye bhu n
Kuchh bhi bakwas ..
Dimag ghutno me he aapka
Very nice dicision Ansuman👌
सरकार से नम्र निवेदन है कि 75 % मुआवजा राशि और मेडल शहीद के माता-पिता को दिया जाना चाहिए। शहीद की पत्नी इंजीनियर हैं इसलिए उन्हें 25 % मुआवजा राशि और अच्छी जगह नौकरी दें। 🤔
Parents ko total 65 lakh mile hai 50 lakh Army fund se or 15 lakh Up govt k trf se or unka khud ka pension v aata hai or 1 beta doctor v hai or Kitna chahiye unko itne mei nii hoga??
@@AdityaRaj-rj1hr शहीद के माता-पिता सिर्फ जो सम्मान स्वरूप किर्ति चक्र मिला है वो मांग रहे हैं। 🤔
@@shashikantpandey2181 unhone phle interview me kaha tha bahu sabkuch leker chali gyi..baad ke interview me keval kirti chakr ki baat karne lge 😥
@@imissyoudearhubby6977 तो फ़िर बहु किर्ति चक्र दे दे विवाद खत्म। वैसे भी वो दूसरी शादी करेंगी ही तो पहले पति की यादगार मेडल रखकर क्या करेंगी। महिलाओं को सिर्फ धन से मतलब होता है धन तो उन्हें मिल ही गया है। 🤔
@@imissyoudearhubby6977 मेडल शहीद के माता-पिता को देकर विवाद खत्म क्यों नहीं कर रही है स्मृति सिंह धन तो उसे मिल ही गया है जो वो चाहती है। 🤔
Very nice 👍👍👍👍
फौजी शादी के 1 साल बाद ही पत्नी को नॉमिनी बनाएं। ताकि तुम्हारे शहीद होने पर वह सामान लेकर ना भाग जाए …🙏 पत्नी तो दूसरा पति ले आएगी पर तुम्हें दूसरा बेटा नहीं मिलेगा।🎉
Itna Asaan nahi hota dusri shadi ker lena
@@richataunk4095 इतना मुश्किल भी नहीं होता
स्मृति के पिता अंशुमान की तेहरवीं से पहले ही अंशुमान के पिता से बोल चुके है की उसकी कम एज है दूसरी शादी करेगी।
@@AKSHITAKKI-f4sbut karhki ka kya decision hai is pe depend karta hai parents to bolte hi hai
@@AKSHITAKKI-f4s Tumari beti hoti ya behen hoti uske jagah to tum kya alag bolte? Mard khud shadi kr leta hai agle he din.
@@AKSHITAKKI-f4ssahi bol rahe ho bhai.
I don't know wht is the real truth but the way his parents humiliated kirti on social media is absolutely wrong
Koi dignity hi nahi rakhi en parents ne apne bete ke shahid hone ke baad se hi apne bahu ka nam bigar ne mein tule hue hain.Etna dukh hain ki roz interview de rahe hain kisi v media ke liye.Pehle to inko sirf paise ki pari thi abhi medels ki pari hain.🙂
Mata pita ne apne hi bete ki mrityu ka tamasha banane ke pehle kuch nahi socha
As an army person I always oppesed these nonsense rules.
A girl which is in relation only five months get all the benefits and marriage with anoyher guy and enjoy his full pension while The parents of Jawan get only too less benefits ?
50% -50% division hua hai apko nok rule nhi maloom. Official report nikli hai army se dekh lo
Tum kamchor hoge. Khud apni bb n parents ka part 2 nhi karwae hoge. N arny k pension rule bharat k har sarkari job k rule se same h...
Ab armt bol k aur beijjati krwa lo
विवाद सम्मान के लिए है न कि पैसे के लिए भ्रामक समाचार न फैलाओ
maa bap ko dekho beta sahid ho gya bhu ka choti umr m suhag ujd gya pr bhu ko kuch na mile kitni bejti kra di us bechari ki jis pr pehle se dukh ka phad tuta h
Aise Maa Baap kabhi kissi Sahid betey ko na mile... 😢😢 It's obvious ki after Marriage Wife hi first priority h.. usme dikkat kya h...
Bete se badkar paise tha?
Haa tho beta tho chala gaya ab paisa bhi jane dee wah wah
Bas yahi to chahiye tha , paise mil gaye 😂😂..sab paise ka khel hai Babu bhaiya.
Maa bap iss liye dukhi hai ke bahu ko adha paisa diya gaya !
Jai hind Bhai
jo respect krta h wo chup h ....jisko lalch h wo media me trp de rha h daily....
मेरा एक लड़काहै मैं उसकी गरीबी से पढ़ा लिखा रहा हूं
ऐसी घटनाओं को देखते हुए मैं अपनी लड़के से अभी से एग्रीमेंट कराकर रखूंगा किसी भी प्रकार का जॉब करे मुझे और मेरी पत्नी को कम से कम 20%परसेंट रुपए देगा
ज्यादा सोच कर देखो जो मां बाप कर्ज करके लड़कों को काबिल बनते हैं और उनकी बहुएं सब कुछ सब कुछ लेकर भाग जाती है
Painshsn adhi maa bap or adhi wife ko milni chaiyye saru mehnat maa bap krte hai
Oh unpdh maa baap ko milti hai uske..dono ret. Hain
Nice..very nice. But pls keep confidentiality in such matters, in the interest of prestige/reputation of our army and their family.
Jai hind 🙏
His parents aren't asking for money, What's wrong with media? Always demeans the ryt person, they even misinterpreted his father statement. Feeling really sad for the parents
See his previous interviews he is clearly saying “bahu sab leker chali gayi ,hamare pass kuch nahi hai bas bete ki photo ke siwa “ sab bahu ko mila,hamne padhaya ,hamne laayak banay aur inki shaadi ko tho sirf 5 months hue thai ….tho koi kya matlab neekaale
@@venuverma5337 mata pita ne bilkul shi kaha h
@@wowpatel5732 bahi mata pita ko bhi 75 lakh mile hai ,kirti chakr maa ne bhi bahu ke saath president house mai receive kiya ,pita ji bhi waha thai ……khud ki pension aati hai pita ji ko ,eak aur Javaan beta hai ……tho sab kuch tho Mila innhe…….ab kis baat ki ladai rah gayi …..ab apni pension ke saath mare bete ki bhi pension chaaiye …….sarkaar uss young widow ko na dekhe ji sirf 26 saal ki umar mai widow ho gayi …….sab innhe chaaiye
@@wowpatel5732Kuch sahi nii kaha hai pehle keh rahe theey interview mei kuch nii mila hai but abb army ne confirm Kiya hai ki parents ko 50 lakh mile hai jaise wife ko or 15 lakh v mile hai Up govt se toh kaise bahu sb leke chali gyi hai woh apna paisa leke gyi hai nhh apka toh nii??
Didi sena me nominee only wife ko hi banaya jata hai isme jawan ki advice nhi li jati hai.... Jabardasti rule hai isme bina pichhe patni ko hi nominee banaya jata hai
Are yaar aap log maa baap h to aap ye sochiye na ki bahu v to dusman nhi n h agr usko jyada rakm di h sarkar to uska hkk h bhae milni chahiye usko 😢😢aap log beta khoye to o v to apna pati apna pyar khoya h ye aap log kyu nhi soch rhe 😢aap log rajniti krne baith gye h maa baap h aap log ki kya h 😢 bada dukh ho rha aap dono maa baap ka rajniti dekh kr ke beta balidaan ho gya eska dukh nhi h aap logo ko bahu ko paise jyada mill gye eska dukh h aap logo ko 😢ohhh
To kya bahu Sara Paisa leke bhaag jayegi, maa baap bete ka award v nhi rakh skte? Is duniya me ladkiya sach me parivar barbaad kar de rhi hain, Sara Paisa to leke Jaa rhi hai, uper se kisi aur se v shadi karke enjoy karegi, tab to tumlog nhi bologi ki apne saas sasur ko bure samay pe chhod gyi, tum log bologi ki it's her choice, bhagwaan tum logo ke maa baap ke sath v Aisa hi kare
Chlo ab saheed ki aatma ko shanti milegi...ohm Shanti ❤
पैसे के लिए सब कर रहे थे अगर पैसे नही चाहिए थे तो फिर क्यो लिए
Vah to Kisi Jagah shaadi Karenge dusri Jagah shaadi Karenge vah To Apne Pati ke sath khush ho Jaenge Anshuman ke Mata Pita ki Chakkar mila tha uska Samman Unki Mata Pita Ka Hona chahie ki shaadi se shaadi nahin karti to ki thi Jab unke Sath Hona chahie Agar vah shaadi Karti Hai To Unka Kirti Chakra unke Mata Pita Ke Sath Hona chahie
कुछ भी बकवास कर रहे हो। उस लडकी के सास ससुर से संबंध न रखने का मुद्दा है। जब संबंध न रखे तो उस लड़की का क्या मतलब? बहू रूप में वह है नहीं। तो बाहर वाली क्यों रकम ले जाए। मुद्दा यह है। समझ कर बोलो बच्चे।
Chup kr vese uske pti ne use nomini bnya us ldki ka koi drd nhi H kya uspe kya bit rhi hogi tmhe pta h jbrdsti av sadi v na kia or tmlog use judge kr rhe ho@@nehamarkand9930
Pansion k liy bhi mata and wife dono hi eligible hone chahie.. aor compulsory hona chahiye 😊
ऑफिसर के लिए ये सब और शिपाही दिन रात एनकाउंटर में अपनी जान देते रहते हैं उनके लिए कुछ नहीं , वाह re भारत , waah re teri व्यवस्था , officer ka beta hi officer banega majdoor ka shipahi
Police Wale riswat lekar doshi ko chhod dete hai aur nirdosh ko saja dete hai, isiliye wo deserve nhi krte
Army me sabhi ke liye hai Bhai kuch bhi pta nhi
😂😂😂😂aise hi sab bn jaa rhe hai bina mehnat ke na
भाई मेहनत ओहदे ओर प्रतिष्ठा के लिए करते हैं ना कि बॉर्डर में जान देने के लिए , नब्बे प्रतिशत सेना के ऑफिसर के बेटे हि ऑफिसर बनते हैं , शिपाही ओर ऑफिसर की शहीद होने का अनुपात 1000 अनुपात एक है , हजार शिपाही एक ऑफिसर , ये बात उनके माता पिता को भी पता है , प्रेस्टीज है जॉब में , अंग्रजों की नीतियां लागू हैं पूरी सेना में , बाकी देश सेवा जान मांगती है बॉर्डर पे पढ़ाई की मेहनत और वेल मैनर नहीं ,
Officer ke bete nhi the... enke pita ji jawan se hi bharti huye the aur jco the ( Officer nhi)
Nice
Anshuman ke mata pita paise ke lalchi hai unki patni unse lakh Guna achi hai 😢
Gurdasspur se ho?
Haan
@@Shivani988sharmabht cute ho aap
His father is already a retired from officer post, unko kya lalach hoga....bus coment krna aata 1 saal tak vo itne preshaan rahe ab Jaa kr bola h unhone jb pani sar k upr se chla gya...online baith k coment krna bohat asan hai reality bohat alag hai sir..
@@ashutoshkumar5019😂😂sahi pakade hain bkl lg rha😢😢😂
It is usually the wife who gets the insurance fund if the wife had children or is pregnant . She can always remarry and start a new family but what about the parents?
Anshuman ji ki patni koi earning thori karti hai unka paise katkar sirf unke parents ko de dia jaega to wo apni padhaei aur ajivika kaise chalaengi anshuman ke mata pita lachi hai
Wo koi garib ki ldki nh h wo job krti h
Nhi krti h
She is already employed in an MNC company
@@shikshaprad.channal no she is studying want to pursue Ms in engineering job opportunity
She's an engineer, and very well educated 🤦♀️
Bechari mt bnao she's confident
Pr jis trike se ghr walon ne bahu ke bezzati ki wo bhi bhut glt tha
Sorry mam u r wrong it is mandatory to give 65 % fund to wife
शादी करने के बाद सब रूपया पैसा पेंन्सन बिडरौल कर लेना चाहिए।
In this comment, girls are really defending that girl who left her saas and sasur, unke bure samay me, maa baap apne bete ka Paisa v nhi le skte, aur wo ldki to shadi v kar skti hai, maa baap ka khyaal kaun rakhega, pati ko gye 1 mahina v nhi hua aur wo ldki sara paisa leke, award leke bhaag gyi, jab ye shadi karegi aur sare paiso ko enjoy karegi tab ye ldkiya bolegi its Her choice.
Agar vo chod kar gaye uske peche b koi reason hoga ..koi Bina reason vke Aisa bhi karta ...I wish vo media ke samne aye aur inke pol khol de ..beta mar gya unko uska dukh nhi ..bus tamasha banaya apne bahu ka bete ka ..it's was a family matter ..jo unhone to ro ke puri duniya ko btaya
@@prekshisharma2914 wo bahu maa baap ko chhodke saara Paisa leke bhaag gyi uske pichhe koi reason hoga, aur maa baap sirf apne bete ke hak ka kuchh saman chahte hain wo tumhe bura lag rha, pata nhi tum apne saas sasur ka kya haal karogi shaadi baad. tum khud ko wife ki jagah rakh ke soch rhi ho isiliye tumhe achha lag rha, ek baar soch ke dekho us saas sasur ke jagah tumhaare maa baap hain, phir tumhe pata chalega wo beta khone ke baad unke dil pe kya gujar rhi hogi
Isme parents puri tarah se selfish ho rahe hai
Lalchi hai bht
Pension has nothing to do with wife's second marriage.
जब पत्नी दूसरी शादी न करे
अंशुमान के घर मे अपने सासू ससुर के साथ बिताए तब तो वहधन राशि और पेन्शन की भागी दार है नही तो अगर पत्नी सब लेकर चली जाएगी तो उस मा और पिता पर क्या गुजरेगा
Wo paisa maang hi nhi rhe the ye pta nhi kya bakwaas chla rhe h news me..wo kirti chakr maang rhe hain..wo ye keh rhe h ki anshuman ka kirti chkr uske ghr pe hona chaiye na ki unki biwi k maike me. Mai bhi ek army wife hu or is baat se poori tarah agree krti hu..
Sas Sasur ko paisa chahiye tha bahu se
Lekin jb shahid ki patni kisi aur se shadi kr lengi to usko pension ki kya jarurat....pension ka hak mata pita ko milna chahiye agar shahid ki patni uske mata pita ki seva n kare tb
पैसा ही सब कुछ नहीं हैं
लेकिन बहुत कुछ तो है
Pesa hi sab kuch he .....army ke 1 form par 2000 form fill hote he......
Well educated bahu h ,uske saath mil kar bete k naam se kuch social work karte ,phir woh mana karti toh samajh aata,bahu bhi kissi ki beti h, uske bhi sapne toote h, parents ko y samjh nahi aa raha kya.Agar woh kissi jimmedari se pichche hat ti toh bolna chahiye tha na.....this is something very disgusting
Marriage is Marriage weather 5 months or 5 days
Anshuman ne kabhi sapne bhi me socha nahi hoga Mai Shahid hone k baad mere bare me itani bate hogi😢😢😢
5 mahiney ki shadi... Sara fund pention patni ki..patni maykey furr..Mata Pita ..ki sari duniya ujad gayi..
Abe 50% fund Mata pita ko Mila hai upar se state. Fund bhi baap pensioner hai beta doctor ab kya chahiye bata do
Mata pita ko pf ka 50 lakhs aur state fund ka 15 lakhs karke total 65 lakhs mile hai...Baap ka khudka pension aata hai...dusra beta aur beti doctor hai well settled hai.
Vivad samman ka tha…. Paise ka nhi……wo bahadur maa ki vajah se tha ya patni ki bas ye bta do
Bhagwan sabko khush rakhe
Anshuman ke parents khudgarz lage hamein
नासमझ लोग क्यों पत्नी से इतना प्रेम कर रहे समझ नही आ रहा
जो माता पिता जीवनभर अकेले रहेंगे उनके बारे में नहीं सोचते
पत्नी तो एक दिन आयेगी फिर चली जायेगी कही भी शादी करके
जिसका लाल गया वो सहेगा जीवन भर
Itna gyaan dere ho to ap shaadi mat krio bhai.
शादी भी होगी और नालायको की अकल भी ठीक की जाएगी फिर रोए आंसू भी नही आयेंगे भूल जायेंगे hm bhi kuch h
Oye maa sauteli hai uska khudka beta hai woh bhi doctor pati ka pension hai aur 50% fund Anshuman ka Mila hai
Aur bhi bache hai inke akele kaise..?
Akele nhi inke do bete or hai
जानबूझकर लड़की फौजी से शादी करती 😢😢 सम्पत्ति के चक्कर में
So everything was about money 😅😂 .
In sbko paisa hi chahiye tha in logo ko bilkul bhi dukh nhi h apne bete ka
Media khulkar ek tarafa capt anshuman ke maa baap ko dhoomil karne ka prayas kar raha
Keechad bahubpar uchala he ........kapde kharab honge apke bhi
Kabhi kabhi sas sasur bhi galt hote h to patni kya kre ye btaiye.....