If he isn't the man you need right now, he likely won't be the man you need in 10 years. People can change, but most people cannot do adequate self-reflection to make those changes. It's a long, hard road to make those changes. But if he thought you were worth it, he would make the attempts obvious! It took me many years to realize this myself! I wish the best for everyone who can relate to this song. Julia, keep dreaming your dream because you are helping so many of us on your journey!
I was married thinking we'd make it through anything together, and throwing my wedding band in the trash after 8 years of abuse was the best and worst feeling. Thank you for the song!
I’m sorry to hear this. I was raised, well My Ma raised 4 boys and I’m the youngest. I’ve witnessed it 😢 Mom raised us to be traditional Gentlemen and treat every Woman as we treat her. With Respect & Love. Number 1 Rule is Never lay our hands on a Woman nor cheat on her as well. Being a Traditional Gentleman isn’t idk appealing to Women Now days but I won’t change. Respect, Love & my Heart is what I give… I hate hearing this about people like. Him bc he’s Not a Man. ~ Just remember there still are Good MEN in the world. Few but We still exist. I agree with you. Julia’s Song was emotionally Beautiful 🌸🌷. Take Care 🤗
Beautiful song! I am so sorry that it's your truth. I know it hurts, but staying in a relationship where your needs are not being met is just not good for your mental health. I'm so proud of you because you don't have to settle, you deserve better!!!
You are so beautiful & talented but I think still so much potential on you that’s needs to come out , Believe in yourself and become a new brand everyday ❤
He wouldn’t have changed! You did the right thing JC 🌹 I’ve watched this 6x now… Raw and Emotionally Beautiful 🙏🤠💖 💯🏆. Stay Strong & Cowgirl up like you’re doing. Your fan are with you and you’re definitely touching all of our hearts. You’re helping others heal & Move forward as well. Dang this was Beautiful hug 🤗
I was married for about 4 years with her for 10 years and the day i left her is one of the scariest, happiest, hurtful, and celebrated day in my life. I met my new wife a few years after that break up and now im happier than ever. Stay strong and we're here for you. Love the song
❤.. sometimes the best thing is to walk away. . I to thought the fighting and slamming doors would stop.. but my feelings don't matter, and when I try to talk.. he says I'm arguing 🤣 😢...but as my mother always says. 1 day at a time hun..1 day!!! Keep up the amazing music. ❤
Needs are usually hidden to the nth degree. Define your needs. This takes a great deal of thinking. I will give you the basics. Women need a reassurance hug daily. The money, home, and cars are wants. If you focus on your needs, then you will be happy. Focus on the wants and you will never be happy. That was a great sounding piece! The sound man did a great job mixing the voice to be heard and understood. Be careful how much you let those mentors direct you into famous! They don't have to deal with the fan insanity. The negative causes famous to become a prison. There is a way out of that prison, but it requires you to be seen in public. Garth did this to reduce the local impact on his freedom. Those mentors will separate you from everything you need to remain free, so be aware of the problems and build strong boundaries in your life!
Julia you speak a lots can't bring our self's to say thank you for the song it is very sad hurtful and full of great fullness when you finally get the guts to do it thank you love you very proud of you please keep them common
So many can relate! As my wedding got closer I felt myself not caring and went through with it and went on to have children then got divorced! Looking back I wouldn’t change the outcome because you learn as you grow older and I have my children that I’m more than grateful for!
I just want to say that you are so amazing and I love your music. Remember you are brave and strong and you are enough. I am happy that you know your worth and didn’t settle for less than you deserve. ❤️❤️❤️
I imagine it is a difficult place to be in a place of conflict after betrayal. It’s important to pick a partner with good character and one who treats you right.
Cannot wait to hear the full song because it will be on repeat. I love your music. Keep your head up and you're doing an amazing job with your songs ❤❤
I just love your voice but most of all the passion you sing your songs to us! Thank you for sharing such a difficult part of your life with all of us ❤
I agree. Whether Julia is singing a happy good feeling song or a raw and intensely Beautiful song like this, we feel her. It’s smiling.& grabbing a beer 🍻 or a tissue 😢. Julia makes us feel her. Amazing Artist & the rasp/crackle at times 👍🏼 💖
Wow JC, this was Beautiful, powerful and I know that I could feel it. To make it you have to make us Believe what you’re singing about and Wow, you definitely did. Wiping the tear @ the end I could feel your pain 🙏 I’m also thinking he’s a DA; his loss. WOW, soon you’ll be Huge & winning awards 🏆 🌹. Keep it up, stay strong & keep putting out these great songs Jules💖 I’m sad I’ll miss your 2 dates performing 😢 My bday is 1/19, same as Dolly so yesterday I just said I’m going to the Ryman “Dolly’s night with a bunch of Artists singing her songs 💕, finally being spontaneous getting the heck out of snow/blizzard and Nashville here I come. I’ve had a few losses & low times so even though I’ll spend my bday alone….. Nashville & Country Music is what I need. ~ sorry I went personal but this song and video was deep; Pure 🤗 Love your voice JC. Country Music is in need of it & yes, you have the voice we use to hear. God Bless ya. Big things in 2024 for you 🌹
Your so good !! This made cry just thinking about it I’m so sorry but I showed my mom this song and she playing it right now cause she’s upset and went through the same thing at 16 with a toxic guy
After 4 years he left me at 12 weeks pregnant got with the same woman he told me not to worry about then married her not even 6 months after he left me at my lowest and he wants nothing to do with our baby
Why would you want a ring like that when they keep wearing it out why would I want that kind of love when you already know he isn’t the one for you so really try to save your ring and your legs
My recent ex that I broke up with on new years I was with him in high school and everything was fine the 2 months we were together but we broke up because he was moving away on new years we almost 3 weeks Into the realtionship and I broke up with him because at first he was all nice and sweet like he was in high school but then he started being a real jerk and I told him how he was making me feel and he said he's try to be a better boyfriend well the next day it was no better it was just exuse after excuse soooo me breaking up with him was the best choice I made
If he isn't the man you need right now, he likely won't be the man you need in 10 years. People can change, but most people cannot do adequate self-reflection to make those changes. It's a long, hard road to make those changes. But if he thought you were worth it, he would make the attempts obvious! It took me many years to realize this myself! I wish the best for everyone who can relate to this song.
Julia, keep dreaming your dream because you are helping so many of us on your journey!
Honestly thank you for commenting this!
Lord Jesus please heal this young woman's broken heart and feel her with your LOVE. Amen😢❤❤❤
This song needs to be on the radio!! It's so well written and beautifully sang. I feel like so many people can relate
05:💍1AM Stays 00:00 12 0.05 I am your 6 🚔
IT GOT SHES THINK U💨🔱🔱🔱
I was married thinking we'd make it through anything together, and throwing my wedding band in the trash after 8 years of abuse was the best and worst feeling. Thank you for the song!
Same
I’m sorry to hear this. I was raised, well My Ma raised 4 boys and I’m the youngest. I’ve witnessed it 😢
Mom raised us to be traditional Gentlemen and treat every Woman as we treat her. With Respect & Love. Number 1 Rule is Never lay our hands on a Woman nor cheat on her as well.
Being a Traditional Gentleman isn’t idk appealing to Women Now days but I won’t change. Respect, Love & my Heart is what I give…
I hate hearing this about people like. Him bc he’s Not a Man.
~ Just remember there still are Good MEN in the world. Few but We still exist.
I agree with you. Julia’s Song was emotionally Beautiful 🌸🌷.
Take Care 🤗
Throwing your ring in the trash was the best thing hun. It was the First step of being Free! No more abuse; Just a Beautiful life moving forward 🙏 🌹
Beautiful song! I am so sorry that it's your truth. I know it hurts, but staying in a relationship where your needs are not being met is just not good for your mental health. I'm so proud of you because you don't have to settle, you deserve better!!!
You are so beautiful & talented but
I think still so much potential on you that’s needs to come out ,
Believe in yourself and become a new brand everyday ❤
*goosebumps* Thank you for being brave enough to sing the words so many of us cant bring ourselves to say
Yes, Definitely goosebumps. Intense yet beautifully sand ❤️
He wouldn’t have changed! You did the right thing JC 🌹
I’ve watched this 6x now… Raw and Emotionally Beautiful 🙏🤠💖
💯🏆.
Stay Strong & Cowgirl up like you’re doing. Your fan are with you and you’re definitely touching all of our hearts. You’re helping others heal & Move forward as well.
Dang this was Beautiful hug 🤗
I was married for about 4 years with her for 10 years and the day i left her is one of the scariest, happiest, hurtful, and celebrated day in my life. I met my new wife a few years after that break up and now im happier than ever. Stay strong and we're here for you. Love the song
Just listened to the sample on insta...im so pumped for this song ❤
❤.. sometimes the best thing is to walk away. . I to thought the fighting and slamming doors would stop.. but my feelings don't matter, and when I try to talk.. he says I'm arguing 🤣 😢...but as my mother always says. 1 day at a time hun..1 day!!!
Keep up the amazing music. ❤
Needs are usually hidden to the nth degree. Define your needs. This takes a great deal of thinking. I will give you the basics. Women need a reassurance hug daily. The money, home, and cars are wants. If you focus on your needs, then you will be happy. Focus on the wants and you will never be happy.
That was a great sounding piece! The sound man did a great job mixing the voice to be heard and understood. Be careful how much you let those mentors direct you into famous! They don't have to deal with the fan insanity. The negative causes famous to become a prison. There is a way out of that prison, but it requires you to be seen in public. Garth did this to reduce the local impact on his freedom. Those mentors will separate you from everything you need to remain free, so be aware of the problems and build strong boundaries in your life!
Julia you speak a lots can't bring our self's to say thank you for the song it is very sad hurtful and full of great fullness when you finally get the guts to do it thank you love you very proud of you please keep them common
So many can relate! As my wedding got closer I felt myself not caring and went through with it and went on to have children then got divorced! Looking back I wouldn’t change the outcome because you learn as you grow older and I have my children that I’m more than grateful for!
Howry
I completely relate, understand and agree 100% ❤
I just want to say that you are so amazing and I love your music. Remember you are brave and strong and you are enough. I am happy that you know your worth and didn’t settle for less than you deserve. ❤️❤️❤️
Amen!
A Beautiful & raw side of her. You’re 💯 correct. She Deserved More 💖
I imagine it is a difficult place to be in a place of conflict after betrayal. It’s important to pick a partner with good character and one who treats you right.
Beautiful and poignant song. Thank you for sharing
Cannot wait to hear the full song because it will be on repeat. I love your music. Keep your head up and you're doing an amazing job with your songs ❤❤
She has the Beautiful voice & wears her songs on her sleeve. The world is crazy if Julia isn’t extremely busy in 2024+ and soon winning awards 🏆 🤠 💖
Thanks!
I just love your voice but most of all the passion you sing your songs to us! Thank you for sharing such a difficult part of your life with all of us ❤
I agree.
Whether Julia is singing a happy good feeling song or a raw and intensely Beautiful song like this, we feel her. It’s smiling.& grabbing a beer 🍻 or a tissue 😢.
Julia makes us feel her.
Amazing Artist & the rasp/crackle at times 👍🏼 💖
Added this bad boy to my playlist, just got out of a relationship JUST like this
Did you cheat like Julia did? She failed to sing about that.
Such a powerful song but sad story Only to to survive and come out stronger🙏🤗❤️
I saw this in IG. I just cried 😢
Beautiful music.
Your worth a love that won't make you second guess it or debate on taking a ring off!❤️🕊️
Ahhh I can't wait I've had enough Teasers lol!
Can't wait love all your songs
Wow fantastic song I am sure there are millions of people feel like this
Wow this is such a beautiful song Julia and so relatable. ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness. This is amazing!!!
Excellent song.
I love the video and the the song it all done perfectly. ❤ we are all in this together always thank you for being so brave ❤
OMG JULIA!! LOVE LOVE LOVE! MADE ME CRY😢
I cant save this song? this song is amazing i know this pain all to well.
Wow JC, this was Beautiful, powerful and I know that I could feel it. To make it you have to make us Believe what you’re singing about and Wow, you definitely did. Wiping the tear @ the end I could feel your pain 🙏 I’m also thinking he’s a DA; his loss.
WOW, soon you’ll be Huge & winning awards 🏆 🌹. Keep it up, stay strong & keep putting out these great songs Jules💖
I’m sad I’ll miss your 2 dates performing 😢 My bday is 1/19, same as Dolly so yesterday I just said I’m going to the Ryman “Dolly’s night with a bunch of Artists singing her songs 💕, finally being spontaneous getting the heck out of snow/blizzard and Nashville here I come.
I’ve had a few losses & low times so even though I’ll spend my bday alone….. Nashville & Country Music is what I need.
~ sorry I went personal but this song and video was deep; Pure 🤗
Love your voice JC. Country Music is in need of it & yes, you have the voice we use to hear. God Bless ya.
Big things in 2024 for you 🌹
Your so good !! This made cry just thinking about it I’m so sorry but I showed my mom this song and she playing it right now cause she’s upset and went through the same thing at 16 with a toxic guy
Beautiful as always😊
As Always Thanks For Sharing Julia❣️ Hate to see you hurting💔
Love it ❣️💞❣️💞❣️
Im glad you made the right decision because having a life thats just full of fights is not a good life.
this song is amazing Julia ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
God I thank you for this song..
This '?' Is always always always why they stay and hope....
this is beautiful and heart wrenching at the same time 😩 I love it , and you ❤️
I am so so so proud of you
Beautiful song! I love the story you tell in it! Your voice is so pretty! Keep up the great work!❤❤❤
Thanks you
Great song!❤❤❤❤
Literally asking myself this question everyday 😢❤️🩹
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Loved it.
Love it Love you 😊😊💋💋💘💘
awesome!
AMAZING!
Loooove ❤❤❤❤best song
❤❤❤ I was waiting for hours to hear this
I love you baby you are so beautiful Julia🎉🎉🎉
From Indiana Bloomington
Omg! I love it ❤❤❤❤
Love it
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😘💜💯
❤❤
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Your amazing
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Deep
I think you made the right decision when you took off the ring, Julia.
👏👏👏👏👏🤠
I would give it my all that's all anybody can do.yes
Stay with me
Me and baby daddy was engaged, and he chose to leave, and I'm better off without him. He never became the man I needed
Listen to it on 775kHz also known as AM after dark with Frank
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After 4 years he left me at 12 weeks pregnant got with the same woman he told me not to worry about then married her not even 6 months after he left me at my lowest and he wants nothing to do with our baby
Why would you want a ring like that when they keep wearing it out why would I want that kind of love when you already know he isn’t the one for you so really try to save your ring and your legs
🔱🔱🔱💨WELL WELLL WELLLL
My recent ex that I broke up with on new years I was with him in high school and everything was fine the 2 months we were together but we broke up because he was moving away on new years we almost 3 weeks Into the realtionship and I broke up with him because at first he was all nice and sweet like he was in high school but then he started being a real jerk and I told him how he was making me feel and he said he's try to be a better boyfriend well the next day it was no better it was just exuse after excuse soooo me breaking up with him was the best choice I made
Stop being fake and you’ll find a GREAT man!
Yeah well that only works for so long. You try and be a real girl and you get a fake man.
Thanks!
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