Marriage After Baby | Emilia Bechrakis Serhant

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  • Опубликовано: 17 фев 2020
  • Earlier this month, Ryan and I took our first trip away from Zena. In this vlog, I talk about how having a baby affected our relationship and what we do to reconnect with each other.

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  • @ginafidel4420
    @ginafidel4420 4 года назад +56

    As simple as you talking in front of the camera, I still find it interesting just listening to you. I am a fan of Ryan ever since he started Million Dollar Listing NY, and not a single season had I missed. That's where I also saw you entering his life. You're both admirable and your baby is adorable.

  • @milvache
    @milvache 4 года назад +6

    Emilia makes Ryan better everyday. She is the best love and life partner in his life.

  • @jlwisner3857
    @jlwisner3857 4 года назад +22

    I love your idea of doing something like one did when dating. There is a frankness in your vlog that is so real and honest.

  • @HybridProDotNet
    @HybridProDotNet 4 года назад +38

    I absolutely love the vlog. Seeing how you and Ryan manage everything with him working as much as he does is incredibly helpful to me personally. Keep making these amazing videos ! We love them

  • @thaisrodz
    @thaisrodz 4 года назад

    I'm so happy to have subscribed to your channel. I am a fan of Ryan's show and of course saw all the episodes that included you and the wedding. Your baby is beautiful, and worth every bit of your struggle. Congratulations, I wish you and Ryan every success.

  • @__snehal__
    @__snehal__ 4 года назад +2

    Absolutely amazing video! Thank you for sharing slice of your life!

  • @Be1smaht
    @Be1smaht 4 года назад +1

    I love how candid you are. Great video!

  • @mattvickery15
    @mattvickery15 4 года назад +2

    Emilia I love your vlogs. It’s so great to see other parents & what they’re doing. My wife & I need reminders like this to take time for each other because we focus so much on the little one. With my wife working & I’m in school we often forget to take any time for ourselves

  • @nhipham5987
    @nhipham5987 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, Emilia for being so raw and sharing your life with us

  • @Dahliawoman
    @Dahliawoman 4 года назад +1

    Love your honesty! Keep em coming!

  • @nayiritankarian1554
    @nayiritankarian1554 4 года назад +3

    It was such a relief hearing you describe how you make a relationship with a workaholic work! It’s the same situation I’m in with my husband. So thank you for giving me hope.

  • @kategolding4264
    @kategolding4264 2 года назад

    Hi Emelia, I started watching Mulluon Dollar Listing during lockdown last year & followed Ryan through his very first issue with the flooding in New York - he was so real & it was so sad seeing his loneliness during that time so when you came along this lovely , vibrant & clearly dedicated young man met his soul mate. You were incredible & compliment him so much & sharing your journey has been like watching a beautiful romantic movie. Thank you both for sharing it all - I can’t imagine how hard that must have been especially your IVF journey. You now have your dear little girl & you make the loveliest family - congratulations! You are a lovely, warm, kind young woman & by sharing have given so much hope to others. Wishing you, Ryan & little Xena all the very best !

  • @raquelcolon5785
    @raquelcolon5785 4 года назад +4

    Hey Emilia, I’m loving your vlog thus far. I know your a new mom but I wish your vlogs were longer. Support this channel 100%!!! As a mom of two the best gift I have given them and myself Is showing them how I take care of myself. What I know for sure is that, if mom is not happy, the family is not happy either. I didn’t stop being a women when I had kids. My kids appreciate when I’m not around too. They get to be spoiled by their family without a worrying mom around. Enjoy not only, being a mom, but everything else that you are too😘

  • @mediokritet
    @mediokritet 4 года назад +1

    Living on the other side of the world I only recently found out about you and your husband and you seem like such an honest, smart and beautiful woman. Thank you for being so open, as a woman about to embark the similar journey it means a lot. All the best to you, little cutie Zena and the rest of your family xx💞

  • @anastasiakokkorogianni2024
    @anastasiakokkorogianni2024 4 года назад +3

    Καλησπέρα Αιμιλία!!!!!!!Σου στέλνω χαιρετισμούς από την Αθήνα!Θα παρακολουθώ το vlog σου.Καλή αρχή και καλή συνέχεια!

  • @peggykt7541
    @peggykt7541 4 года назад

    Wonderful advice!! It’s so easy to lose yourself in new parenthood- but soooo important to nurture your relationship

  • @shecawgo
    @shecawgo 4 года назад

    I appreciate your honesty and openness!

  • @adinalopez2050
    @adinalopez2050 4 года назад +5

    So nice! Spending time alone in a relationship is very healthy and you too a so adorable

  • @conniegrayson2919
    @conniegrayson2919 4 года назад +3

    Love your RUclips channel. The most down to earth person without all the fluff. Great Job! Keep it up and don't change a thing!

    • @emiliabechrakisserhant1894
      @emiliabechrakisserhant1894  4 года назад +4

      Initially, I was very nervous to show more of my personal life but I'm glad to hear your support, thank you!

  • @millie_willcox__
    @millie_willcox__ 4 года назад +2

    Another great vlog. Loved it. Watching from Australia!

  • @meloudee5932
    @meloudee5932 4 года назад +1

    I love how real u are in this video .. Thanks for choosing to share ❤️❤️❤️

  • @chrislynfernandes
    @chrislynfernandes Год назад +1

    More videos please Emilia! Your page has quality life content 👌🏼❤

  • @agarildtoft7993
    @agarildtoft7993 4 года назад +1

    Hello from Denmark.
    Very interesting listening to your story. Being married, with an 8 month old baby, finding balance is tricky sometimes.
    Thank you for your honesty!
    Best of luck to you both, your daughter is beautiful.

  • @marinak2941
    @marinak2941 8 месяцев назад

    The realness & rawness of this shows the humility you two have - very inspiring.... Greek mama of an 8mo girl & 25mo girl ... thank you for sharing the season you & your husband are in with each other ... this is real
    Life with children no matter what walk of life people are in

  • @jenniferstead9773
    @jenniferstead9773 4 года назад +14

    You are definitely coming into your own as a vlogger! I was truly moved by what you shared, it was genuine and heartfelt and I look forward to the next one.

    • @soonsims
      @soonsims 4 года назад

      I don't think so, it's more like an interview, it's heavily produced and who knows how many people worked on this video. Definitely not a vlogger at this current stage. And I don't think ever. Why would she, they are so rich and have a ton of people helping them with everything. There's no need for her to be a vlogger and so on.

  • @karennevins2898
    @karennevins2898 4 года назад +1

    I really really enjoyed your video!! You seem honest inside and outside. I love the way you and Ryan stayed together even though you had it tough because of his success. But he’d be nothing without you and your daughter. Please keep your videos coming. I love how genuine you are you make us comfortable thank you so much. So I guess my question is we should make some alone time with our husbands ! Thanks for your tips on successful marriage. I’m married 35 years and believe me I still have to work on it. Thank you. Sincerely KAREN Long Beach NY

  • @jerriudelson3390
    @jerriudelson3390 4 года назад

    You are such a calming force. Lucky for Ryan.

  • @QueenNanaEva
    @QueenNanaEva 4 года назад +1

    Seeing you and Ryan is such a great thing. You are such a great match.

  • @ssaandyyss
    @ssaandyyss 4 года назад +4

    Finally!! 🥰 Missed your videos! Kouklara Emilia! You really are a role model!❣️
    Yitses agapoula mou!! Zena is adorable! 💖

  • @dr.emilyacevedo812
    @dr.emilyacevedo812 4 года назад +2

    It’s been 4 years! Wow how time does fly 💕

  • @bonjouranne1722
    @bonjouranne1722 4 года назад +16

    Love how real you get😊 Do a video about how to deal with arguments/Disagreements. Your perspective and Ryan’s 🙏🏻

  • @AndreaGraye
    @AndreaGraye 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty and genuineness always. ❤️

  • @aprilbrockman1
    @aprilbrockman1 4 года назад

    Aww I love the way you talk about how you felt about your hubby
    earlier on .. you're so real

  • @sidneywhitmore9573
    @sidneywhitmore9573 3 года назад +1

    Love you guys! Wish you all the best things!❤❤❤❤

  • @scottishroad_pinoy9084
    @scottishroad_pinoy9084 4 года назад +8

    Been with my husband for 23 years, have 2 children. He gave me a Valentine’s card and in the card he said. “I wish we could get back to what we used to be to one another, I miss us,” you’re absolutely right when spending time, but I have 2 kids, I am the accountant, cook, bus driver, dog sitter, hskp, his reminder or assistant etc. it’s hard you know. I do wish we had some time to spend but we are always working. Sad

    • @misskatzlife5892
      @misskatzlife5892 4 года назад +4

      Scottishroad35 Pinoy hello, I've been married for 20 years. We have two boys Who are 19 and 20. We were given some advice we have use the our whole marriage. Make each other a priority. The minister told us. Your children will one day grow up and move on and start their own lives. And it was just be the two of you. So make sure why you're nurturing your family to nurture your relationship. And so that's what we've always done. We have always tried to make time play ,to argue ,to make love ,to share ideas to have new experiences. We love enjoying our children together even though parenting can be hard sometimes. It feels better when you're doing it with a partner. Everyone in the family has A role to play. However I feel as we become parents we put being parents as the leading role. And everything else comes after. Think about it your relationship is the foundation of your family. If you don't have a strong foundation your whole family will fall apart. My advice would be to start out small. Text throughout the day, be sure to greet each other coming and going. If folding laundry fold your laundry in the same room as your partner when they're home. Touch often in some kind of way. Spent time talking about anything other than the children. And yes find time to slowly nurture your partner and have him nurture you. Because we as moms we need attention and time spent on us too. You'll be a better mom he'll be a better husband the family unit is just better when your relationship works. So in my final thoughts I'll leave you with this advice I was given. Marriage is what you make of it and with whom you make it. So Have fun God Bless🙏🏾

    • @scottishroad_pinoy9084
      @scottishroad_pinoy9084 4 года назад

      Miss Katz Life thank you this is nice

  • @carolinecoates8778
    @carolinecoates8778 4 года назад +3

    Great video. Lovely family.

  • @bindiya_ganatra
    @bindiya_ganatra 4 года назад +1

    Ryan and Emilia - I know that it is personal, showing your personal vulnerability to the public eye. I have been reading a lot of Brene Brown to improve my life. Ryan, you are living the life that she teaches - showing your vulnerability. You do not have a perfect family. You are human just like the rest of us. The only difference is you worked hard to get to where you are today. And that has made you a role model for the rest of us. Thank you for sharing your story. I honestly wouldn't have the balls to share intimate details of my partner out on RUclips. Thanks for being an example to the rest of us.

  • @MsAimTube
    @MsAimTube 4 года назад +2

    This is great, thank you! We all just need a live-in mom, then, to raise our children. I shoulda thought of that way back. ;-). Congrats to you being happy.

  • @kerriem1348
    @kerriem1348 4 года назад +2

    Love ur videos ❤i can really relate as a wife and mother myself who also struggled with infertility. Lots of love from kerrie in Ireland 🇮🇪 xx

  • @josefineoijer
    @josefineoijer 4 года назад +3

    I love that your sharing this with us ❤️

  • @kittieb111
    @kittieb111 4 года назад +2

    Loved the video, coming from a Greek family, that support system is key! I’m very blessed to have my mom watch my 21 month old baby boy during the day while I’m working til he turns 3 and going to preschool.
    She allows us to go once a week on date nights and spending alone time without feeling worried or guilt.
    Yiayias are such blessing!!! 🙏🙏🙏
    I told my husband once my kids have their own kids, I’m going to quit my job and pay it forward

  • @aprilbrockman1
    @aprilbrockman1 4 года назад +1

    My husband and I have a baby boy, he turns 1 next week and we have yet to take a night away from him. It's tough but great advice. Your family is so sweet - Thanks for sharing!

  • @gzwerpjgbf
    @gzwerpjgbf 4 года назад +8

    Love this channel!
    How do you and Ryan deal with arguments? Do you ever "fight"?

  • @brittneyschool9602
    @brittneyschool9602 3 года назад

    Please do a makeup tutorial...your makeup is so classy and flawless!!

  • @jacquelineoshea4397
    @jacquelineoshea4397 4 года назад

    loved how real it was!

  • @karmenrusso2833
    @karmenrusso2833 4 года назад +2

    Yes!! Spending time together as husband and wife, and not just mom and dad, is soooo important. Showing your daughter that your marriage is important is a great gift to her. ❤️

    • @emiliabechrakisserhant1894
      @emiliabechrakisserhant1894  4 года назад +2

      This trip helped us so much and made us stronger for Zena!

    • @karmenrusso2833
      @karmenrusso2833 4 года назад

      Emilia Bechrakis Serhant So happy I stumbled upon your channel, you seem so real. Looks like you’re doing a wonderful job as a new mother.

  • @HeidiRobinson-uz8mz
    @HeidiRobinson-uz8mz 10 месяцев назад

    Ryan Serhant is originally from Houston Tx like I am. He's younger than I am though. Ya'll seem like a great couple and lovely Christian family together. 🎉

  • @laraishtayeh
    @laraishtayeh 4 года назад

    Can’t wait to watch! Notification Squad🔥

  • @KandeShack
    @KandeShack 3 года назад

    Love your honesty...it’s rare now days🌸 Is your Mom in NYC?

  • @ashpiredliving
    @ashpiredliving 4 года назад

    I love your honesty.. thank u

  • @glendarodriguez1700
    @glendarodriguez1700 4 года назад

    Dear Emilia, it’s great to see you back to your natural beauty. No more lip inyections or lip fillers, please.

  • @karenv949
    @karenv949 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for your raw honesty. I had 3 children I completely understand the challenges and sacrifices of being a new Mom. Are you interested in having another child?

  • @89Hir
    @89Hir 4 года назад

    Great vlog 👍👍loved it😍😍♥️♥️

  • @zestrus11
    @zestrus11 4 года назад

    I love this! Thanks for being so vulnerable and open

  • @MISSRED1981
    @MISSRED1981 4 года назад

    I love your vlogs! :)

  • @lrob4444
    @lrob4444 4 года назад

    What an amazing therapist you must have. 😉

  • @the2ndmercedes346
    @the2ndmercedes346 4 года назад

    Great video!!!!!!

  • @nataliyacenteno8521
    @nataliyacenteno8521 4 года назад

    Your voice is so soothing.

  • @zeezeetvfuneducationalvide7809
    @zeezeetvfuneducationalvide7809 4 года назад +9

    I’m a 7 months pregnant medical student
    Your vlogs give me life 💜

  • @maximilianyip4403
    @maximilianyip4403 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing! How do you balance your career ambition taking into account your life stage(i.e. young family)

  • @latintravelchica5012
    @latintravelchica5012 4 года назад +1

    Video ideas...Did you worry about baby’s milestones??? Day in the life of you and baby..balancing motherhood and career...fitness as a new mom..How will you tackle IVF for second baby??

  • @FionaEm
    @FionaEm 4 года назад

    I'm a big fan of Million Dollar Listing NY but it's nice to see you away from the show & talking about your life as it really is.

  • @angelanix9339
    @angelanix9339 4 года назад

    You are so genuine ❤️

  • @annemarieleopaldi3975
    @annemarieleopaldi3975 4 года назад

    I love you Emilia your so good and kind

  • @giannis9370
    @giannis9370 3 года назад +3

    2:16 saying "bless you" in Greek! Filia apo Ellada!!

  • @michelewetmore8257
    @michelewetmore8257 4 года назад

    Your baby is beautiful.

  • @AmyGreen1982
    @AmyGreen1982 4 года назад +1

    I'm not a Mother but I love watching you. You're so relatable and down to earth. I feel as if I could hang out with you in real life (sorry, massively creepy!) Love the vlogs, keep them up! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @naseem373
    @naseem373 4 года назад

    Please show us some of the charity works you do. Am sure that also helps you a lot in doing something for the community

  • @nanaa2017
    @nanaa2017 4 года назад

    Me and my partner love you and your family so much & this vlog was beyond awesome 🤩 Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness ♥️

  • @sedalemccall
    @sedalemccall 4 года назад

    Did you commit to anything beforehand to prepare for married life with a kid? Or did this come after?

  • @Be1smaht
    @Be1smaht 3 года назад

    I like her soooooooooo much

  • @deeptikashid3990
    @deeptikashid3990 4 года назад

    Any plans for Z's 1st b'day????

  • @jelenapopic2298
    @jelenapopic2298 4 года назад

    ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @qsusaandromeda7168
    @qsusaandromeda7168 3 года назад

    I ❤ them

  • @aprilbrockman1
    @aprilbrockman1 4 года назад

    OMG I just died.. My hubby says Kaliméra in the exact same terrible way lol

  • @prestontucker1687
    @prestontucker1687 4 года назад

    Good morning, Calamari?

  • @donnadesanctis9620
    @donnadesanctis9620 4 года назад +1

    Does your mon live with you full time ? What about your Dad?

  • @aminazed759
    @aminazed759 4 года назад

    Emilai fantastik biybi

  • @preljubazna
    @preljubazna 4 года назад +1

    Kalimera 😂😂😂 KALAMARI

  • @IReapZz95
    @IReapZz95 4 года назад

    so you don't work?

  • @vincentmatlock9115
    @vincentmatlock9115 4 года назад

    $$$$$$$$$$ then baby

  • @espinaca27
    @espinaca27 2 года назад

    I know this was two years ago, but who the f*** was that at 7:29? 😂

  • @nevinkilic1235
    @nevinkilic1235 2 года назад

    🧿👸🤴👶🏡🌈💖💙 I LOVED TO BE YOUR NANNY, IS IT POSSIBLE🌍🌎🌏🧿🧿🧿🧿.

  • @christinakis7265
    @christinakis7265 4 года назад

    2:18 γιτσες

  • @earlaweese
    @earlaweese Год назад

    *Such amazing CGI!!! You know the theatrical act is AMAZING when it manages to piss you off because if it was literally real, it would be fucking illegal.*