Ap k liy bht respect ❤ 9 month ki takleef Operation ki takleeef Or phir ik baby dy dyna bht himmmt ha ❤❤respect ❤❤❤ Allah apko double khusyan dygaaa inshaaAllah ❤
But what about that lil baby who has been separated from her own parents at this age...I think she would never forget this and will not forgive you for this act.....Plz think about her feelings as well....Us ki life kesi guzray gi...No one can be a substitute of real parents
Im literally crying after watching this vlog May Allah gives you more and many more than your thoughts. You’re having a very special place to our hearts
Allah pak Kainat ko is ka ajar day Or usy naik or tabiyadar olad day or zindagi me kabi koi dukh na dekhaye Zindagi ka sab se mushkil faisla ha us ka Allah is ko is ke soch se bi ziada nawazy ga In Sh Allah Ameen ❤️
My sister also gave me her baby because I couldn’t have one. I don’t know how to say thanks to her. She did it for me May Allah always keep her happy Ameen ❤
It's a good gesture, but I don't know why we can't adopt a homeless child? The one who doesn't have parents? The one who needs a home? It might seem easy but its not this easy. Please normalize adopting a homeless child. Make it a trend. Not a kid who has parents.
U r right but apko ni pta aisy bchun KO adopt krna bhht mushkil h by hd lmby procedures or lakhun rupy Chahiyen.we tried but asaan ni kindly search jren
@@abeedarehman3924 lmba process zrur hota h lkn aik bachy ko ghr r maa baap ko aulad mil jati hai. Hm pta nhi q nhi sochty. Lmba process hi h na impossible to nhi h zyada se zyada ktna time lg jayga..
@@abeedarehman3924 lkn jo video me case h us se link kry to wo achy hasy settled hn. Lkn abhi de b do to its not easy. Agy ja k bht sari bato pr compromise krna prhta g
Ksi wise person ne kha tha "Aulad roti ka tukra nhe hoti jse ap Allah k naam pr ksi ki zrurat Pura krne k lye de den." Meri bhn. Asal haqeeqat yhe ha k aulad ki parwarish Allah ne usk maan baap pr frz ki ha aur jb ksi bhi wja se maan baap apne hathun se apni aulad ksi ko de dete hen to woh apna frz Pura krne se inkari ho jate hen. Ap ki beti ki parwarish aur trbiat ap ka frz ha Jo ap Pura nhe kr paen gi. Bs Allah ap logon aur apki betiyun k lye asani kre bht. Aur Mera message dekh kr km se km baqi bhnen is bat ko smgh jaen aur kbhi esa qadam na uthaen.😢😢😢
Tears in my eyes. I am only 18 and wondering how a mother can seperate her child from herself. You have a very big heart, may Allah SWT give you sabar🥺
What about the child when she will came to know this that is a adopted child . I m aslo adopted by my phopho and being a adopted this worst feeling ever .I came to know when I was 8 years old from that day I never became the same I was before knowing this😔
@@amnakhan6622 Sad to hear that you feel like this but am sure that your guardian and parents both treat you like a queen, you don't have to feel bad about being adopted because you have 2 parents, many people never had a feeling how parents are, many people are being treated worst by their parents, if you are in a good relationship with both of your guardian and parents then, believe me, you are the luckiest. As you have 2 parents you have a responsibility of making both parents happy, girl you are a champion you don't have to feel bad this may regret your parents their decision. Just be strong May ALLAH SWT helps you and may you get success in every field of life.
I'm literally crying... itna bara dil kiya h kainat apny ..Allah pyare zoya ko khush rkhy bht pyara naseeb kry ..aur zoya ki mama ko b aulad ata kry ..ameen
Everyone is praising her,but it is not allowed in Islam and the consequences of this is v horrible. IF ALLAH HAS TO GIVE SOMEONE THEN NO ONE CAN STOP IT. I have seen such cases personally, it is not good for child and both parents. Remember: ONLY ORPHAN CHILDREN CAN BE ADOPTED IN ISLAM,NOT THE ONCE WHO ALREADY HAVE THEIR FAMILY
U r such a brave and matured girl.. At such a young age got married +utube+household+babies.. Now giving one of them to cxn .. Is just unbelievable. . yr may allah bless u ❤
20 SE Tou plus hi thi na jab uss ki Shaadi hui thi Tou isse choti umer mein Shaadi Hina Tou Nahin kehtay aur Shaadi young age mein hi Hoti hai Sahi age mein hi Shaadi hui hai inn ki koi jaldi Nahin hui
Grand salute to you sister.....itna bada Dil sab k pass nahi hota hai...Allah ap ko sabar de aur un k pass bachi salamat rahe aur un ko b Allah salamat aur khush rakhe
Mera 1 beta to meri nand ne le liya bcoz unke bachhe nahi the 12 years ho gye shadi ko .. na chahte hue bhi mujhe dena pada tha 😢😢 diya kya tha un logo ne zabardasti liya tha 5 years ho gye … Allah ne sabr de diya but kbhi kbhi josh umad jata h 😢😢😢Abhi apki video dekh k literally meri eyes me aansu 😭 bhar aaye apna time yaad aa gya ..aapne apni khushi se diya h fir bhi apki aawaz me dard mahsoos ho raha…mujhse to le liya gya tha meri aulad 😭😭 but Allah ne uske bad mujhe 1 aur beta de diya ..Allah sabke kiye ka azar de
Idk what to say i myself a mother of 2 weeks baby can't even imagine this it's really a tough decision literally your vlog brought me into tears massive respect to you may Allah swt give you sabar and bless you always ameen..
As a psychologist, I don't recommend this to any parents. Psychologically it is very challenging for your child when she grows older. We deal with many adopted kids who are unable to cope with this situation when they grow older specifically in family adoption. All the time they have one question in their mind why us ..not our other siblings although their adopted parents gave them love and care. As human nature is manipulative if shortly any tension grows between the families the only person who suffers the most is the adopted one. Already deal with the same type of case where the child is adopted by his uncle and when he grows older a dispute arises between his biological parents and the parents who adopted him in this case both families are not accepting him as their son which resulted in him in depression. If people want to go for adoption should adopt from orphanages and in their teens they should appropriately tell the truth that they are adopted to avoid any mishap in the future. Before taking these types of decisions we should consider the child's psychological health. You should not think from your emotional point of view but also consider your child emotional point of view when she grows older. Ps: I am not the subscriber nor I watched your any vlog. This video just pop in my recommendations. The title triggers me to write this long paragraph.
Exactly, i can feel this as I'm also adopted by my phupho and I've gone through many hard times due to this even though i love my adoptive parents more
Yes As a psychologist I can totally understand how person goes through the identity crisis phase and it is difficult for both child and adoptive parents. I hope in near future in Pakistan people start considering mental health before taking these kind of steps. Hope Now you and your Parents are happy and healthy. Have a blessed life Ameen.
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Bht himmat chahye bht. uss aurat k dil sy dua nikli hogi ap k haq main jisko apny maa bnna naseeb fermaya Allah ki raza k liye. Allah pak apko iska bht ajar dyga MashaAllah ❤️
More power to you. Just make sure zoya gets extra care from you guys also and make sure she knows her real parents from the very start. Just don't make the distance between twins
No....not at all. Not ok. Plenty of children out there who need a home and a family. But Allah knows best. You are stronger than most. This will be hard... because you are a mother. I hope you can be a part of her life as much as possible.
There are alot of orphan child don't gave her. They're definitely going to give her the best life but she will be disturbed in future it wil be confusing for her my opinion!
Literally I'm crying while watching your video.its such a hardest thing to give your baby to someone.I have my first daughter of 1 month.I can feel your pain... salute to you Kainat..Allah must be give you reward for your decision In shaa Allah
My parents did this and I got to know about it yearsssss later when I was already going through a lot and it broke me more and ruined my relationship with all of them. I don’t know as someone who has the same story not sure about how good this is… There’s nooo reason why they couldn’t adopt an orphan
Its not an easy thing to do and to be honest i could never do something like this. It feels cruel to separate the babies like that and when your daughter is older she will definitely question why you gave her up and not her sibling. Our children are Allahs amanat, they are not our property to do with as we please but trusted to us to care for them and bring them up in a good way. I pray that both your daughters are looked after well and cherished, and that the bond that they have since before their birth is protected.
Ap please ese na kren Kuch n ho apni olad ko khud SE Juda na kren Koi kitnna b azeez h apko ya koi jitna b pyar krne Wala h Allah talah apki beti k naseeb men b khushiyan or sakoon bhri zndgi likh de aameen
Just a random suggestion that why don't we adopt orphan kids from different orphanages rather than, taking away the kids of our siblings from them..I know in alot of situations it's done with both parties consent but it is something that makes a child vulnerable when He/She grows old. They feel like that they mattered less to their parents as compared to their other siblings n that's why their parents gave them away to this or that relative. Although, they're grateful that they were loved and were well taken cared by their second family but that grown up kid always holds a grudge n complex somewhere deep done in their hearts against their original parents. This is also the advice from none other than OUR BELOVED PROPHET MUHAMMAD (SAW) that if u can then u should give shelter to an orphan,it holds soo much sawab n in this way you're going to give shelter to a kid that actually needs a home n a family,a kid who's deprived of a parent's love , such kind of kids will value this adoption the most. A kid who already has a family who can take good care of him/her, there's no need to unnecessarily take away that kid from their original parents in that scenario.
Kinat AJ Allah pak ne on se olad Le li he pr Kal inshallah phir se de den ge pr bchay pr bohat Bora asar prta he is sub ka pori zindgi her jgha ye sonana prta he k ye Le k Pali he phir bad m apny sagy behn Bhai k Sath b vo rishta nhi bn pata m ne ye sub face keya he maa bap jinhon ne Pala he vo bohat achy hen pr phir b m hmesha Dil m apny asli Walden se nraz rhi JB Allah ne mujhy unko dia tha tu onhon ne kyun mujhy Kisi ko dia
Sorry to say lakin olad koi bantany ki cheez nahi h wo insan h .. ap apne jism ka hisa kise dusre ko kese de skte ho ... kal jab wo bari ho gi uss ko un se jitna bhi pyar mile uss k dil me ye khayal aa skta h k mjhe ku diaa tha...olad ka naa hona beshak Allah ki taraf se bohat bari azmaish h ..lakin apni olad kisi ko dena apni olad k sath zeadati h uss ka ap pe hak h...wo koi aisa baby adopt kr lete jis k maa bap nahi thy ..
Everyone is congratulating you, being a mother myself i can imagine its not an easy thing to do but trust me you shoulr have not done this. It impacts child psychology alot, my husband has been through this he is 32 MA SHAA ALLAH now but still he can't get out of this . In my opinion you should have not done this. May ALLAH G make things easier for you. Amen
I'm literally crying 😭😭 u are so brave kainat api... I'm not married still I even can't imagine to give my child to another person 🥺🥺 u are so kind and brave MashaAllah may Allah Pak bless you with all the happiness of life and may Allah bless both Zoya and Zara with everything ameeen🥺🤲🏻❤️
I'm very happy to see ky apka kitna bara dil hai, Allah tala azmaish usi bandy ky liye rkhta hai jismein woh bardasht krny ki himmat ho, and i truly love your vlogs, Allah pak asani kry ga apkyliye, bobat bara dil hai apka❤❤❤❤❤❤
same mera parents na b mera chotay bhai ko phopho ko dia ha ya it's hard but waqt k sath sath normal ho jata sab Allah pak ajar day iska apko and un sab ko jo apni aulad kisi ko be aulad ko detay and Allah sabko nare aulad ata fermaye ameen 🌼❤
I am new mom also and i can't imagine what you have done.. May ALLAH give you power strength and happiness.. and i will pray that Zoya never miss you as a mom and love her new mom.. may she be happy always❤
It is a very difficult decision to give your child to someone. I myself am a mother of a 7 months baby and thinking about myself in your place, I realize that if I were in your place, hardly would do it.May Allah reward you in this world and in the hereafter.Ameeen
Bhoat bara dil hai aap ka .. loug tou kai dafa dosro k dilo se khail jatay hain .. Allah waqi kisi insan ko b dosray insan k aagay majbor na kray JazakAllah aap k is faislay k lye ❤ kisi ka weran ghr aabad krna ye muqam b naseeb walo ko milta hai
Ma sha Allah api ap bht zyada achi hai dil ki ap hamesha chote RUclips's ko bhi support krti hai or ab apni beti kisi ko de rhi hai bht zyada neki ka kam kr rhi hai Allah pak apko is ka ajar zror denge Allah apko bht bht sabr dy or apke dono betiyon k naseeb bht ache kare Ameen ❤❤
Mashallah I never comment on your video I am your silent blog viewer but ap kiii es video ne mjhe comment krne PR majboor krdiya Allah Paak always bless you and your daughters.❤❤❤❤
Its not easy to give your child away just watching your vlog and my tears won't stop.. 😭May Allah SWT give you ajar what u done 💕 you are such a brave women honestly.. I never use to get these feeling but since i become mother my self i can t imagine to give my baby to anyone bit i salute you sis 💕❤️ May Allah g8ve alot of happiness to Zoya and healthy life Ameen ❤️
M na parha tha k jab Allah pak kisi ki owlad ki dolat sa mehrom rakhta hai tw insan ki kia owkat hai k wo apni owlad otha k dy dyta Quran pak mai hai k m jisy chahy bety du jisy chahy betiyan du jisy chahy dono ata kru bety b betiyan b ur jis ko chahye mehroom rakhu tw isi tarjumy sa hamay andaza lagana chahye baki Allah pak behtar kary ameen
Kall ko bachi Barri ho kar ye vlog daikhy gi to Kiya feel karey gi. Delete karo iss vlog ko. Bachi ki mentality effect ho sakti hai... Kall ka Kiya pta.
Ni acha kia ap ny Ap ek bachy se us k sagy rishty cheen ly lety hain Ap sub log esy bura karty ahar unki olad hona hota tu Allah ko nahi maloom de deta unki apni olad Allah ny apko di na tu ao palyn 1st tu ap us se mother feed ho cheen kiya ek bachy k liye mother feed cheen li Allah nu is loye 2.3 bachy deta k ap bant do
I don’t think anyone is talking about the child. How is this child going to feel when she grows up and finds out that her mom gave her away to someone else and kept her other sister. This is unfair for the child.
Dear Kainat I am a regular viewer of your vlogs.I know this is a very personal matter but this really brought tears in my eyes I don't have words to say
Mashallah Allah na ap is qabal samcha ap na auld sister ko tha kar wasla banya Allah naseeb achay ho Ameen Allah hamasha kash or salamath reay Ameen Allah ap ko sabar tha Ameen ❤❤😂😂🎉🎉😊😊❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Don't do this.. please I was an adopted child.. and it's very challenging for the kid for the whole life.. plz don't do this Jisy Allah khuch na dena chahy usy kasy koe insan kasy dy skta h khuch b.. em married now and mother of two as well but this Trauma is really effected my life end still doing this.. there is a gap inside me no one can fill up and heal up this gap...🥺🥺
Tears In my eyezz😭😭😭Ameen suma ameen bht bara dil h apkaaa ❤❤❤.. hats offf to u kainaat apka yi decision dhk k mjhy khud ko kch b feel ni kr rhi :(:(:( kainattt ap r bhai bht acchy bht bare dil wale H ALLAH sb ko ap jesa sabar r dil DY ameen suma ameen ..ur such a gem kainat u & waseem bhaii such a gem ALLAH apko bht khush rhky ameen suma ameen
Your video make me emotional tear in my eyes the biggest step u have taken in ur life its too hard for paresnts but u gave happiness to other family thy bhai was so happy while he was holding zoya he was so overwhelmed ma sha Allah ... Allah will give you ajar Ameen 😍❤️😢🤲 stay strong sis ... Allah pak zoya ka zara ka naseeb acha kren Ameen ... 2no gharo ko kushyo sy bhar dein... hats off to you and ur husband ❤️
I have given my child to my sis in law ... But I wud never prefer to give away daughters ... I am against giving child ... Boys are acceptable but u shud never give girls ... May Allah swt grant ur all the kids highest of fate InshAllah
I am pregnant and i just want to say apka Dil bht bada hai ...Mera soch kar halat khrab ho rha emotional ho rhi apne to dekr aya hai apna aulad ....Allah apko bht khush rkhe ....love from India
Ap kaya zoya ko day kar khus ho batao wasim vaiya apki family members khus hay 😢 koi bii khus nahi hay 😢😢 apka ghar pura khali khali hay zoya kay bina or vlog bii
Apko pata hay adoption kisko kartay hay Jo baccha anat hay or Jo baccha poor a osko adopt kartay hay hAmaRi Zoya to adat nahi hay plz plz plz plz plz plz plz ap Zoya ko Ghar lay aita😅😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔🥺apko pata hay may apko or apki family ko bohat Pyar Karti hu may apni family Kay Liya jasay duya a Karti hu apki family ky bii same katrii hu ap plz asa mat kijay hAmaRi zoyazara ko ham aksatha dhakna chatay ha may apko 3 year say follow kar Rahi hu plz plz plz issh 3year pay apkii sari paslay sahi that bas yea apki bacchi ka fasla sahi nahi hay may isliya bolo Rahi huu plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz Kainat or wasim Vai ap hAmaRi Zoya ko lay aiya hum zoyazara ko aksatha dhakna Cha tay ha🥺🥺💔💔💔💔 love you hAmaRi zoyazara miss you so much Zoya🥺💔Allah pak dono ko khus rakhay 🙂
Mere b oulad ne he mene rat ko vlog dekha jb ap ne apni jethani ki story sunai Meri ankhon me ansu the abhi b dil pht raha he Mera Allah apne Habiba k sadqe Meri b khali jholi oulad ki nehmet se bhr de Ameen 😢😢😢
اپنا بچہ کھبی کسی کو نہ دیں چاہے کوئی کتنا قریبی ہو، مجبور ہو۔ ماں باپ سے بڑھ کہ کوئی بھی اپنے بچے کو پیار نہیں دے سکتا۔ اولاد اللہ کی امانت ہے۔ اللہ تعالٰی نے آپ کو اولاد دی ہے آپ خود پرورش کریں۔
ap kese k ghar ko abad kar rahe hay Allah ap ko es ka ajar day....
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen ❤❤
Ameen
Ameen
Ap k liy bht respect ❤
9 month ki takleef
Operation ki takleeef
Or phir ik baby dy dyna bht himmmt ha ❤❤respect ❤❤❤
Allah apko double khusyan dygaaa inshaaAllah ❤
Inshallah
But what about that lil baby who has been separated from her own parents at this age...I think she would never forget this and will not forgive you for this act.....Plz think about her feelings as well....Us ki life kesi guzray gi...No one can be a substitute of real parents
Im literally crying after watching this vlog
May Allah gives you more and many more than your thoughts.
You’re having a very special place to our hearts
Allah pak Kainat ko is ka ajar day
Or usy naik or tabiyadar olad day or zindagi me kabi koi dukh na dekhaye
Zindagi ka sab se mushkil faisla ha us ka Allah is ko is ke soch se bi ziada nawazy ga
In Sh Allah
Ameen ❤️
mee too
M also crying
Vlog dekhne k baad meri ankhon mein anso aa gaye buht himat ki bat hei ye
Me to😢
My sister also gave me her baby because I couldn’t have one. I don’t know how to say thanks to her. She did it for me May Allah always keep her happy Ameen ❤
It's a good gesture, but I don't know why we can't adopt a homeless child? The one who doesn't have parents? The one who needs a home? It might seem easy but its not this easy. Please normalize adopting a homeless child. Make it a trend. Not a kid who has parents.
U r right but apko ni pta aisy bchun KO adopt krna bhht mushkil h by hd lmby procedures or lakhun rupy Chahiyen.we tried but asaan ni kindly search jren
@@abeedarehman3924 lmba process zrur hota h lkn aik bachy ko ghr r maa baap ko aulad mil jati hai. Hm pta nhi q nhi sochty. Lmba process hi h na impossible to nhi h zyada se zyada ktna time lg jayga..
@@Opticalillusion2510 11 Saal s km married couple KO ni milta .aik shik h ye bs btaen ab HR bnda phly 11 sàal wait jry?
@@abeedarehman3924 3 years h 11 nhi wo b conditions pr agr ap settled ho or expenses pury kr skty ho to yeh koi brhi bt nhi.
@@abeedarehman3924 lkn jo video me case h us se link kry to wo achy hasy settled hn. Lkn abhi de b do to its not easy. Agy ja k bht sari bato pr compromise krna prhta g
Ksi wise person ne kha tha "Aulad roti ka tukra nhe hoti jse ap Allah k naam pr ksi ki zrurat Pura krne k lye de den."
Meri bhn. Asal haqeeqat yhe ha k aulad ki parwarish Allah ne usk maan baap pr frz ki ha aur jb ksi bhi wja se maan baap apne hathun se apni aulad ksi ko de dete hen to woh apna frz Pura krne se inkari ho jate hen. Ap ki beti ki parwarish aur trbiat ap ka frz ha Jo ap Pura nhe kr paen gi.
Bs Allah ap logon aur apki betiyun k lye asani kre bht. Aur Mera message dekh kr km se km baqi bhnen is bat ko smgh jaen aur kbhi esa qadam na uthaen.😢😢😢
Tears in my eyes. I am only 18 and wondering how a mother can seperate her child from herself. You have a very big heart, may Allah SWT give you sabar🥺
What about the child when she will came to know this that is a adopted child . I m aslo adopted by my phopho and being a adopted this worst feeling ever .I came to know when I was 8 years old from that day I never became the same I was before knowing this😔
@@amnakhan6622 yes everybody have different experiences Allah kare everything goes Better with you
@@Learnbetter07 thank you but nothing is gonna change
@@amnakhan6622 Sad to hear that you feel like this but am sure that your guardian and parents both treat you like a queen, you don't have to feel bad about being adopted because you have 2 parents, many people never had a feeling how parents are, many people are being treated worst by their parents, if you are in a good relationship with both of your guardian and parents then, believe me, you are the luckiest. As you have 2 parents you have a responsibility of making both parents happy, girl you are a champion you don't have to feel bad this may regret your parents their decision. Just be strong May ALLAH SWT helps you and may you get success in every field of life.
@@amnakhan6622 nooo please Don’t loose hope Allah Swt is Amazing InshaAllah InshaAllah it will be good
I'm literally crying... itna bara dil kiya h kainat apny ..Allah pyare zoya ko khush rkhy bht pyara naseeb kry ..aur zoya ki mama ko b aulad ata kry ..ameen
Ameen
I'm just wondering about.. When your baby girl ll see this vlog after years.. How will she feel? 😭
Everyone is praising her,but it is not allowed in Islam and the consequences of this is v horrible. IF ALLAH HAS TO GIVE SOMEONE THEN NO ONE CAN STOP IT. I have seen such cases personally, it is not good for child and both parents. Remember: ONLY ORPHAN CHILDREN CAN BE ADOPTED IN ISLAM,NOT THE ONCE WHO ALREADY HAVE THEIR FAMILY
U r such a brave and matured girl.. At such a young age got married +utube+household+babies.. Now giving one of them to cxn .. Is just unbelievable. . yr may allah bless u ❤
Bht aala
Waqai you are an inspiration
Allah pak aap ko is ka ajer dey bohat bars dil ha aap ka Allah pak dojo bachion k naseeb achay karat air aap ko in ki khushian dikhaey Aameen
Kindly write ALLAH in capital
20 SE Tou plus hi thi na jab uss ki Shaadi hui thi Tou isse choti umer mein Shaadi Hina Tou Nahin kehtay aur Shaadi young age mein hi Hoti hai Sahi age mein hi Shaadi hui hai inn ki koi jaldi Nahin hui
Grand salute to you sister.....itna bada Dil sab k pass nahi hota hai...Allah ap ko sabar de aur un k pass bachi salamat rahe aur un ko b Allah salamat aur khush rakhe
Oh one suggestion Never give your daughter to Anyone for adoption because daughter is precious, no one can replace mother's caring.
Wrong
Apny Dil ka tukra dy dena kisi ko asan nahi hota. ALLAH ajar dy dono betiyo ka naseeb acha ho AMEEN 😭🤲❤
you r such a big heart apni aulad kisi ko dena bht bht bare zurf ki baat hti hy Allah chose u to fullfill others hapiness mashAllah.. hatss of to u
But kainat appi ke bhai hi to hai
Mera 1 beta to meri nand ne le liya bcoz unke bachhe nahi the 12 years ho gye shadi ko .. na chahte hue bhi mujhe dena pada tha 😢😢 diya kya tha un logo ne zabardasti liya tha 5 years ho gye … Allah ne sabr de diya but kbhi kbhi josh umad jata h 😢😢😢Abhi apki video dekh k literally meri eyes me aansu 😭 bhar aaye apna time yaad aa gya ..aapne apni khushi se diya h fir bhi apki aawaz me dard mahsoos ho raha…mujhse to le liya gya tha meri aulad 😭😭 but Allah ne uske bad mujhe 1 aur beta de diya ..Allah sabke kiye ka azar de
Such a brave decision just got goosebumps watching this vlog. Allah pak dono gharo ko shaad o abaad rakhy ameeen stay blessed
Ap kahan gaib ho gein....😊
Idk what to say i myself a mother of 2 weeks baby can't even imagine this it's really a tough decision literally your vlog brought me into tears massive respect to you may Allah swt give you sabar and bless you always ameen..
my baby is 20 days ... how r you?
As a psychologist, I don't recommend this to any parents. Psychologically it is very challenging for your child when she grows older. We deal with many adopted kids who are unable to cope with this situation when they grow older specifically in family adoption. All the time they have one question in their mind why us ..not our other siblings although their adopted parents gave them love and care. As human nature is manipulative if shortly any tension grows between the families the only person who suffers the most is the adopted one. Already deal with the same type of case where the child is adopted by his uncle and when he grows older a dispute arises between his biological parents and the parents who adopted him in this case both families are not accepting him as their son which resulted in him in depression. If people want to go for adoption should adopt from orphanages and in their teens they should appropriately tell the truth that they are adopted to avoid any mishap in the future. Before taking these types of decisions we should consider the child's psychological health. You should not think from your emotional point of view but also consider your child emotional point of view when she grows older.
Ps: I am not the subscriber nor I watched your any vlog. This video just pop in my recommendations. The title triggers me to write this long paragraph.
Exactly, i can feel this as I'm also adopted by my phupho and I've gone through many hard times due to this even though i love my adoptive parents more
Yes As a psychologist I can totally understand how person goes through the identity crisis phase and it is difficult for both child and adoptive parents. I hope in near future in Pakistan people start considering mental health before taking these kind of steps. Hope Now you and your Parents are happy and healthy. Have a blessed life Ameen.
Sach main kuch Likha nai ja raha. ..No words...Allah dono gharo ma buhat buhat khushiya naseeb karay ..Aameen
MashaAllah❤
I'm literally crying Allah pak pyare zoya ko khush rkhy bht pyara naseeb kry ..aur zoya ki mama ko b aulad ata kry ..ameen
That baby deserve love and care of her real mom
And Whyy always daughter is given to someone would you Give up a son as well??
Exactly
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Beshak SubhanAllah 💚 MashaAllah 💚 ALLHUMDUILLA 💚
har jgah ye type krne se kya milega 😂
My respect for you has grown million times. You have done an incredible job and Allah will give you the ajar. You are a strong mother.
Bht himmat chahye bht. uss aurat k dil sy dua nikli hogi ap k haq main jisko apny maa bnna naseeb fermaya Allah ki raza k liye. Allah pak apko iska bht ajar dyga MashaAllah ❤️
More power to you. Just make sure zoya gets extra care from you guys also and make sure she knows her real parents from the very start. Just don't make the distance between twins
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All Muslims
میں الحمدللّٰہ
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If someone want to adopt, then adopt from orphanage or edhi, it's oppression to separate biological mother and daughter
Ufff i ve twin daughters aur mein speechless hu gai hun.. Tears down my eyes. Allah apko dhairun khushyan dae ameen
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Durood short me likhna mana he
Beshak
No....not at all. Not ok. Plenty of children out there who need a home and a family. But Allah knows best. You are stronger than most. This will be hard... because you are a mother. I hope you can be a part of her life as much as possible.
Twin sister ko alag nahi krna chaye tha feeling sad😢
Alag kray gi tabhi tu video bna saky gi wrna RUclips channel koun chalata
I can't believe ye kaisay iss nai beti Dai di
Beti jo thi akhir susral k mamla hy agy aur b bachy hongy ab betiyan kesi sambhalwngi
Choti soch Ky log...kisi ko acha nh keh skti tou bura bh nh kahen...
bilkul sahi yaar
There are alot of orphan child don't gave her. They're definitely going to give her the best life but she will be disturbed in future it wil be confusing for her my opinion!
I can't even watch ur vlog...can't imagine giving away my child yo anyone...u must be an angel
Aap jo b ho mai ni janti but itna jarur jaanti hu jo aapne Kiya h wo waqai bht bdi chiz h.hats off to u both
Literally I'm crying while watching your video.its such a hardest thing to give your baby to someone.I have my first daughter of 1 month.I can feel your pain... salute to you Kainat..Allah must be give you reward for your decision In shaa Allah
My parents did this and I got to know about it yearsssss later when I was already going through a lot and it broke me more and ruined my relationship with all of them. I don’t know as someone who has the same story not sure about how good this is…
There’s nooo reason why they couldn’t adopt an orphan
You are pure soul kainaat. Koi apni aulad nahi deta. Allah tmy bht sabar dy or khushiyan dy ameen
Its not an easy thing to do and to be honest i could never do something like this. It feels cruel to separate the babies like that and when your daughter is older she will definitely question why you gave her up and not her sibling. Our children are Allahs amanat, they are not our property to do with as we please but trusted to us to care for them and bring them up in a good way. I pray that both your daughters are looked after well and cherished, and that the bond that they have since before their birth is protected.
true
Agree
I am adopted child, or ma 25 years ki hn I am so so lucky Myry mama baba ki Jan basti hai myry ma ,, or myry Chachu ny adopt kiya tha ..
I m crying.. you r a such a strong woman MashAllah MashAllah
Allah ap ka ap ki cousin ka or duniya ki her larki ka ka Ghar hamesha khushyion or naimatoon sy bhara or abaad rakhay ameen❤❤❤
Ap please ese na kren
Kuch n ho apni olad ko khud SE Juda na kren
Koi kitnna b azeez h apko ya koi jitna b pyar krne Wala h
Allah talah apki beti k naseeb men b khushiyan or sakoon bhri zndgi likh de aameen
Just a random suggestion that why don't we adopt orphan kids from different orphanages rather than, taking away the kids of our siblings from them..I know in alot of situations it's done with both parties consent but it is something that makes a child vulnerable when He/She grows old. They feel like that they mattered less to their parents as compared to their other siblings n that's why their parents gave them away to this or that relative. Although, they're grateful that they were loved and were well taken cared by their second family but that grown up kid always holds a grudge n complex somewhere deep done in their hearts against their original parents. This is also the advice from none other than OUR BELOVED PROPHET MUHAMMAD (SAW) that if u can then u should give shelter to an orphan,it holds soo much sawab n in this way you're going to give shelter to a kid that actually needs a home n a family,a kid who's deprived of a parent's love , such kind of kids will value this adoption the most. A kid who already has a family who can take good care of him/her, there's no need to unnecessarily take away that kid from their original parents in that scenario.
Just bcz we dnt have a halal relationship with them so its safe to adopt babies frm our family
Kinat AJ Allah pak ne on se olad Le li he pr Kal inshallah phir se de den ge pr bchay pr bohat Bora asar prta he is sub ka pori zindgi her jgha ye sonana prta he k ye Le k Pali he phir bad m apny sagy behn Bhai k Sath b vo rishta nhi bn pata m ne ye sub face keya he maa bap jinhon ne Pala he vo bohat achy hen pr phir b m hmesha Dil m apny asli Walden se nraz rhi JB Allah ne mujhy unko dia tha tu onhon ne kyun mujhy Kisi ko dia
Sorry to say lakin olad koi bantany ki cheez nahi h wo insan h .. ap apne jism ka hisa kise dusre ko kese de skte ho ... kal jab wo bari ho gi uss ko un se jitna bhi pyar mile uss k dil me ye khayal aa skta h k mjhe ku diaa tha...olad ka naa hona beshak Allah ki taraf se bohat bari azmaish h ..lakin apni olad kisi ko dena apni olad k sath zeadati h uss ka ap pe hak h...wo koi aisa baby adopt kr lete jis k maa bap nahi thy ..
So true! It's so unfair with the baby.
Bilkul adopt Krna hi h tow bht orphans h dunia m unko kre taki unki zindgi sawar jaye
Sae bat hai yrr mjyy khd bhtt hairangi hue Kaisa da re kainat api
Sae bat hai yrr mjyy khd bhtt hairangi hue Kaisa da re kainat api
Exactly
Everyone is congratulating you, being a mother myself i can imagine its not an easy thing to do but trust me you shoulr have not done this. It impacts child psychology alot, my husband has been through this he is 32 MA SHAA ALLAH now but still he can't get out of this . In my opinion you should have not done this. May ALLAH G make things easier for you. Amen
Very well said.. Adoption like this is haram in Islam for a reason..
Ma sha Allah Allah app ko is ka ajar dein gay boht sara mere b baby nae hain mere bhai or bhabi nay mje beta diya hai or meri goud bhar di❤
I'm literally crying 😭😭 u are so brave kainat api... I'm not married still I even can't imagine to give my child to another person 🥺🥺 u are so kind and brave MashaAllah may Allah Pak bless you with all the happiness of life and may Allah bless both Zoya and Zara with everything ameeen🥺🤲🏻❤️
I'm very happy to see ky apka kitna bara dil hai, Allah tala azmaish usi bandy ky liye rkhta hai jismein woh bardasht krny ki himmat ho, and i truly love your vlogs, Allah pak asani kry ga apkyliye, bobat bara dil hai apka❤❤❤❤❤❤
same mera parents na b mera chotay bhai ko phopho ko dia ha ya it's hard but waqt k sath sath normal ho jata sab Allah pak ajar day iska apko and un sab ko jo apni aulad kisi ko be aulad ko detay and Allah sabko nare aulad ata fermaye ameen 🌼❤
I am literally crying... Allah Pak Zoya ko hmesha Khush rakhay Ameen
I am new mom also and i can't imagine what you have done.. May ALLAH give you power strength and happiness.. and i will pray that Zoya never miss you as a mom and love her new mom.. may she be happy always❤
Same....
Lekin maan ko Yaad nah bhi Karay lekin maan Kay liyay Jo Allah ne muhabbat aulaad Kay Dil mein naturally daali Hoti hai Woh Tou nahin kum ho Sakti na
Lekn apki beti apky bhai k liye gair mehrum hmesha rhegi
Allah pak AP sabko hamesha kush rakhy or har beti ko achy naseeb kary ( Ameen)
It is a very difficult decision to give your child to someone. I myself am a mother of a 7 months baby and thinking about myself in your place, I realize that if I were in your place, hardly would do it.May Allah reward you in this world and in the hereafter.Ameeen
Bhoat bara dil hai aap ka .. loug tou kai dafa dosro k dilo se khail jatay hain .. Allah waqi kisi insan ko b dosray insan k aagay majbor na kray JazakAllah aap k is faislay k lye ❤ kisi ka weran ghr aabad krna ye muqam b naseeb walo ko milta hai
Dear Kainat...aapko salute hain itni himat or hosla py....Allah aapko aapki family ko or betion ko khush or abad rakhy....Ameen
MashaAllah..... Allah ne aapko yeh naiki krne ki tofeeq di. Isi liye Allah ne apko twins di. Allah apko bohat khush rakhen . Aameen❤
Ma sha Allah api ap bht zyada achi hai dil ki ap hamesha chote RUclips's ko bhi support krti hai or ab apni beti kisi ko de rhi hai bht zyada neki ka kam kr rhi hai Allah pak apko is ka ajar zror denge Allah apko bht bht sabr dy or apke dono betiyon k naseeb bht ache kare Ameen ❤❤
Mashallah I never comment on your video I am your silent blog viewer but ap kiii es video ne mjhe comment krne PR majboor krdiya Allah Paak always bless you and your daughters.❤❤❤❤
You must have a strong heart to do this ... May Allah accept your deed and bless you more❤
Very emotional vlog I got tears in my eyes... Allah apki dono betiyon k naseeb achy kry plzzzzz zror share kyega k apne Zara ko kyun Diya aapi ko
Apki beti bdi hogi to yahi bolegi ki mujhe q Diya Zara ko de deti
Its not easy to give your child away just watching your vlog and my tears won't stop.. 😭May Allah SWT give you ajar what u done 💕 you are such a brave women honestly.. I never use to get these feeling but since i become mother my self i can t imagine to give my baby to anyone bit i salute you sis 💕❤️ May Allah g8ve alot of happiness to Zoya and healthy life Ameen ❤️
Durood ya kooch islamic short me n likhe
I couldn't understand ur l
Couldn't understand ur language.plz translat in English... Why do she gav her baby .. wat happened
@@ziyadiqbal8210 she gave her baby girl to her brother in law
M na parha tha k jab Allah pak kisi ki owlad ki dolat sa mehrom rakhta hai tw insan ki kia owkat hai k wo apni owlad otha k dy dyta Quran pak mai hai k m jisy chahy bety du jisy chahy betiyan du jisy chahy dono ata kru bety b betiyan b ur jis ko chahye mehroom rakhu tw isi tarjumy sa hamay andaza lagana chahye baki Allah pak behtar kary ameen
Kall ko bachi Barri ho kar ye vlog daikhy gi to Kiya feel karey gi. Delete karo iss vlog ko. Bachi ki mentality effect ho sakti hai... Kall ka Kiya pta.
No don't separate the twins... They can adopt an orphan child and give him/her a nice home
Exactly
Yes
Exactly
Paray bachy ko wo pyar dyna muskil hota hy jo apny ghar k bachy k lye hota hy.
Czn k bachy tu esy he piyary lgty hain.
I agree too , plz don’t seperate them
سبحان اللہ وبحمدہ سبحان اللہ العظیم
I have no words. Stay blessed.
Ni acha kia ap ny
Ap ek bachy se us k sagy rishty cheen ly lety hain
Ap sub log esy bura karty ahar unki olad hona hota tu Allah ko nahi maloom de deta unki apni olad
Allah ny apko di na tu ao palyn
1st tu ap us se mother feed ho cheen kiya ek bachy k liye mother feed cheen li
Allah nu is loye 2.3 bachy deta k ap bant do
Can't believe I can understand how much it's difficult for mother 😢
I don’t think anyone is talking about the child. How is this child going to feel when she grows up and finds out that her mom gave her away to someone else and kept her other sister. This is unfair for the child.
I am crying after watching this vedio 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same😢 muhjay bii bohat Rona aya😅
Same here 😢
Same here mere liye bhi dua kare k Allah tala mujhe bhi oulad ki Khushi se nawaze ameen summa ameen meri shaadi ko 7 saal ho gay hai
@@gulnarkarke5094 Ameen
Meri shadi ko 10 years but
Dear Kainat I am a regular viewer of your vlogs.I know this is a very personal matter but this really brought tears in my eyes I don't have words to say
Allah taala meri sari bhno ko or saath me mujhe bhi nek swaleha oulad se nawaazw🥺ameen summa ameen..
This is not allowed in Islam to gave ur child to someone
Hats off to you kainat..aap nai waqai bohat bada kadam uthaya hai..ALLAH apko iska ajar aur sabar dono ata farmayin Aameen ❤❤❤
Mai khud ek adopted child hun meri ami ny b meri tai ami ko mujye diya tha.....ap sab dua krain Allah mujy b ulad ki nemat sy nwaz dy
Allah bless more happiness to you ,your husband and your daughters...Ameen ❤️😘
Mashallah Allah na ap is qabal samcha ap na auld sister ko tha kar wasla banya Allah naseeb achay ho Ameen Allah hamasha kash or salamath reay Ameen Allah ap ko sabar tha Ameen ❤❤😂😂🎉🎉😊😊❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Don't do this.. please I was an adopted child.. and it's very challenging for the kid for the whole life.. plz don't do this Jisy Allah khuch na dena chahy usy kasy koe insan kasy dy skta h khuch b.. em married now and mother of two as well but this Trauma is really effected my life end still doing this.. there is a gap inside me no one can fill up and heal up this gap...🥺🥺
It's a very very very difficult decision to gave her baby to some one. Allah tallah ap ko Khush rakhay or sabar de.
Being a mom I literally crying..it's not easy for a mom to give your child away..may Allah bless you with love, health and wealth..Ameen
Why is she giving the child away ?
Aameen
Bht himmat de Allah Pak ne apko wrna apne jigar ka tukra dna asan nhi hta bht bara dil hai apka
Tears In my eyezz😭😭😭Ameen suma ameen bht bara dil h apkaaa ❤❤❤.. hats offf to u kainaat apka yi decision dhk k mjhy khud ko kch b feel ni kr rhi :(:(:( kainattt ap r bhai bht acchy bht bare dil wale H ALLAH sb ko ap jesa sabar r dil DY ameen suma ameen ..ur such a gem kainat u & waseem bhaii such a gem ALLAH apko bht khush rhky ameen suma ameen
Allah Apko Sabr dea or Aska ajre dea Ameeeen.....or babys ko Allah lambi sahet wali zandgyi dea Ameeen❤
Ap ko dekh kr shidat se ehsas hua k zndgi mn social media nhi blk social media mn zndgi h.......
You are such a brave lady kainat..Allah pak apko dono jahan mai kamyab kru.ameen
I can't explain my feeling I have tears in my eye when I watch this vlog Allah apko sabr ata karey
Masha Allah
آپ نے کسی کی گود آباد کی اللہ تعالیٰ آپکو اسکا اجر عظیم عطا فرمائے آمین
Sorry but as someone who knows people who have been adopted like this, it’s extremely unfair on the child and can often leave them feeling rejected.
u ri8 wo sari life yehi sochegi k mujhe hi q nai dosri ko q nai dia
It's not like that .... if her cousin is facing some problems then its totally okay to give her child...and child is in safe hands
@@shubhangisharda or aanath h unhe adopted kar sakte hai but choti soch ki bjese nhi karte😒
Your video make me emotional tear in my eyes the biggest step u have taken in ur life its too hard for paresnts but u gave happiness to other family thy bhai was so happy while he was holding zoya he was so overwhelmed ma sha Allah ... Allah will give you ajar Ameen 😍❤️😢🤲 stay strong sis ... Allah pak zoya ka zara ka naseeb acha kren Ameen ... 2no gharo ko kushyo sy bhar dein... hats off to you and ur husband ❤️
I have given my child to my sis in law ... But I wud never prefer to give away daughters ... I am against giving child ... Boys are acceptable but u shud never give girls ... May Allah swt grant ur all the kids highest of fate InshAllah
I am pregnant and i just want to say apka Dil bht bada hai ...Mera soch kar halat khrab ho rha emotional ho rhi apne to dekr aya hai apna aulad ....Allah apko bht khush rkhe ....love from India
Ap kaya zoya ko day kar khus ho batao wasim vaiya apki family members khus hay 😢 koi bii khus nahi hay 😢😢 apka ghar pura khali khali hay zoya kay bina or vlog bii
Apko pata hay adoption kisko kartay hay Jo baccha anat hay or Jo baccha poor a osko adopt kartay hay hAmaRi Zoya to adat nahi hay plz plz plz plz plz plz plz ap Zoya ko Ghar lay aita😅😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔🥺apko pata hay may apko or apki family ko bohat Pyar Karti hu may apni family Kay Liya jasay duya a Karti hu apki family ky bii same katrii hu ap plz asa mat kijay hAmaRi zoyazara ko ham aksatha dhakna chatay ha may apko 3 year say follow kar Rahi hu plz plz plz issh 3year pay apkii sari paslay sahi that bas yea apki bacchi ka fasla sahi nahi hay may isliya bolo Rahi huu plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz Kainat or wasim Vai ap hAmaRi Zoya ko lay aiya hum zoyazara ko aksatha dhakna Cha tay ha🥺🥺💔💔💔💔 love you hAmaRi zoyazara miss you so much Zoya🥺💔Allah pak dono ko khus rakhay 🙂
Mere b oulad ne he mene rat ko vlog dekha jb ap ne apni jethani ki story sunai Meri ankhon me ansu the abhi b dil pht raha he Mera Allah apne Habiba k sadqe Meri b khali jholi oulad ki nehmet se bhr de Ameen 😢😢😢
اپنا بچہ کھبی کسی کو نہ دیں چاہے کوئی کتنا قریبی ہو، مجبور ہو۔ ماں باپ سے بڑھ کہ کوئی بھی اپنے بچے کو پیار نہیں دے سکتا۔ اولاد اللہ کی امانت ہے۔ اللہ تعالٰی نے آپ کو اولاد دی ہے آپ خود پرورش کریں۔
I cant control my tears seriously you're a amazing and kind hearted woman 😊
Me nay be apni naad sy beta liya tha aj wo mery pas hai or mera beta mera sab kuch hy 2 sal ka hony wala hai mashAllah
From bottom of my heart huge respect to you.
Love from india
I have no words dear 😢 and literary big respect to you Allah apki dono betiyoon Kay naseeb Achy Kary Ameen❤❤