So ive been in this same situation as vicky.... I actually was very respectful to that child like kevin said its not the childs fault.. I stayed with the guy and we had a child he never messed with that girl again but i helped him with the lil girl... We did break up 4 years later he ended up marrying and having another child.. When my daughter was 5 he passed my daughter is 19 now.... I am a big part of his kids lives and his grandbabies live i love them all like my own...
Yea horrible advice. Just because one relationship is not strong enough to work beyond mistakes and misunderstandings, doesn’t mean That the next relationship isn’t able to. The advice here is to judge on your own merits whether or not the core of the relationship is made of real love and real connection. Anything other than that is fake and not worth the energy.
If he got someone else pregnant he shouldn’t be your bf. Women staying with men like this is destroying the black community and resulting in unwed mothers and fatherless homes. We gotta do better
Yeah that's not a man, that's a little boy trying to bust nuts in whatever amount of woman will let him. That dude doesn't respect her, that's what it comes down too.
There's nothing to say other than goodbye. your worthy of better. Your son is worthy of better. I'd build a relationship with her and the kids but he needs to figure out what he actually wants.
FACTSSSSS!!!! You didn't ask for how the son got that brother but they might be the best of family in the future. That said, I ain't got sh*t good for him. That boyfriend needs to be a good daddy and get his self together...
8 years,still a boyfriend and he stepped out,had unprotected relations and had baby..and you wanna confront her and you still there for what??? Girl !!!!!
Some people feel like it was destiny that thw other lady was always supposed to be there but the man was too scared to tell his first partner. So now that she knows who she is, it's all happy days... ORRRRRR Take your kid, drop everything and leave the country. And if you can't leave with your child, do what you know will make you feel best and not your kid otherwise it's asking for hell.
This was interesting but disturbing at the same time bc I was trying to picture myself with a man I made a child with cheating on me. Destroying our bound together and having another child on me. Why be in a relationship when you want to have many women to your exposal for sex. I find it selfish and self centered to think that was fair to your partner. To say its unfair to the cheater that can't be able to cheat. Take accountability. Let your partners go. Having another child and relationship on your partner is just heartbreaking to think. Breaking up with me would hurt but at least i would recover better and sooner than someone that claims they love me, cheating on my. Lying straight to my face EVERY single day. Making me believe we are a team. As he said if you want a certain life style with someone just ask. You will be surprised who will say yes but to manipulate and lying to get what you want can have you 6 feet under or going through a nasty divorce.
I wanted to share some words as a guy for you. I also don't agree with the advice. Actions speak the loudest and your telling me I've got your kids.... That child should've man up a loooooooong time ago this shouldn't be an issue if you even respect someone or love em. Guy deserves neither of them but has to be the father the kids deserve since he couldn't be the man those woman needed.
@@sumtxflygrl1 oh hush up. You obviously don't watch enough or actually listen to enough of his music kuz he actually talks the truth. I doubt you listen to him or watch ANY of his interviews
Why would You confront a woman that your boyfriend impregnated? 8 years together with a child He lied, cheated, broke your trust, didn't bother to put protection on and hid all of this, till It was unavoidable. LEAVE ! Co-parent your child with him yes, but get out of that relationship. It's up to the father to deal with both his kids, raise and nurture them so they have a sibling relationship. He prolly has other baby mamas around ! Poly relationship need discipline, honesty, self accountability, commitment and communication. It's not some porn fantasy. And It's different from Open relationship.
@@augiegonzalez1082 if not wanting to be in a situation wherein You're lied to, your mental and physical health are put at risk, is being negative. Well, call me Negative Nancy 😎😘
Not him telling homegirl how to stick around after a male had a WHOLE OTHER BABY.!!!! She sounds shaky even saying it and he couldn’t even find the right words to convince her to continue to be stupid by him. “He finally told me after 2 years of cheating and a baby” “That means He really love you” I’m done 😂😂😂😂
She called the wrong people for advice. smh They co-signing his immaturity. These two are always sympathetic to these immature, selfish ass men. Her bf is a coward. He probably got a third jawn now, now that baby mama #2 is involved in raising this second child and can no longer make the bf the center of her world. He introduced these women to each other so when he's with the third jawn--who is currently childless--they'll be distracted with each other.
Kevin a liar because if Dreka got pregnant for another man all HELL would break loose. Why are men so selfish, basically in 2022 most people want you to be faithful while they do them. There is no hope for committed relationship's.
It’s not the same thing. Men can have sex with women without having an emotional attachment but women can’t. I don’t think cheating is right but if a man sleeping with other women he should be transparent with his partner
Kevin Gates "oh what you cryin right now" lol!! And loved when he said tears are for healing!! Its nice to hear men being so honest!! We may not like it but its their truth.
Exactly & it sounds like a meeting of the minds on how to move fwd & be apart of the babies life. Ppl say they will leave but until we’re in that situation we can’t say. If you’re not ready to leave you duck, bob & weave the punches until you’re strong enough to go.
@@vickygonzalez8482 And you made the choice when you were ready. Us as women can & do endure much more than we think we’re capable of but once our hearts/mind have left it’s easy to go. Don’t allow this to break you, your peace makes you the winner.
Can’t be upset with how he is so honest I love that. I think more men should be more honest with what they want n women also if u can’t come to an agreement then move on n if u do don’t try to change it 10 or 20 years later n if u feel differently about the agreement then it’s time to walk away
Yea I never did it, but it does sound like it could be a challenge. But as men we try to fantasize that and not understanding the reality of those situations.
That's an amazing woman, trying to put everything back together even though he most definitely doesn't deserve it and she absolutely should've walked but she's a special person truthfully
I’m the woman in the video and apparently the one they named the video after , facts on what two are saying I agree and I finally walked away , he’s not going to change ! I tried and did everything to make it work but that wasn’t real love and honestly I feel more at peace now with it just being my son and I .
Watching since the beginning. Glad to see Vice putting some money into this. The production is definitely stepped up. This should be one a multiple times a week.
Quite a common situation though. Millions of attached men are very keen on enjoying plenty of sex, with many other women, and don't bother with contraception.
I respect this show; and these two men for keeping it 1000% the only way to true joy for any soul is to be bluntly honest with yourself and the people you love. If you truly do love them then live in your truth!
Y'all need to go back to the motherland and watch how true love and devotion is instead of tolerating bullshit from bullshit ass people. People stay with boyfriends and girlfriends like those out of loneliness and desperation. Be wealthy in every aspect of your lives..
That second call brought tears and the background music didn't make it better! Lmao!! But then that last comment Kevin made after the music stops! My laugh for the day!
BRO ...I LITERALLY CALLED... please Mr Gates evovle into the next level I'm grateful for your platform...you dropping alotta jewels brother man.. we are GUNNA meet salute...
I feel like we need a "Ask Dreka" I need that woman's heart and strength to channel into me. ❤️
Yesssss lawd
You don’t confront. You *run from that man*
Please don't stay with the man that cheated on you. Have some self respect and leave them. Not only for yourself but for your own child.
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If all it takes is a lil cheating for u to leave then I don’t want it
So ive been in this same situation as vicky.... I actually was very respectful to that child like kevin said its not the childs fault.. I stayed with the guy and we had a child he never messed with that girl again but i helped him with the lil girl... We did break up 4 years later he ended up marrying and having another child.. When my daughter was 5 he passed my daughter is 19 now.... I am a big part of his kids lives and his grandbabies live i love them all like my own...
Terrible advice telling her not to stay
Yea horrible advice. Just because one relationship is not strong enough to work beyond mistakes and misunderstandings, doesn’t mean
That the next relationship isn’t able to. The advice here is to judge on your own merits whether or not the core of the relationship is made of real love and real connection. Anything other than that is fake and not worth the energy.
If he got someone else pregnant he shouldn’t be your bf.
Women staying with men like this is destroying the black community and resulting in unwed mothers and fatherless homes. We gotta do better
A welfare system that rewards having more out of wedlock babies destroys any community.
Yeah that's not a man, that's a little boy trying to bust nuts in whatever amount of woman will let him. That dude doesn't respect her, that's what it comes down too.
the level of dereliction is just crazy to me and I actually hate that Vice is promoting stuff like this...
He’s her bf, but she’s not his gf. Most likely he’s seeing multiple someones.
AMEN!
I wish this was a weekly, half hour show. Great advice, wisdom, and humor keep me watching and wishing for more.
Wishing turn it into want the people want...a great listener
I agree!!!
Where was the advice and wisdom part? I must’ve missed it.
@@midwestnet2704 haha
@@sumtxflygrl1 haha
There's nothing to say other than goodbye. your worthy of better. Your son is worthy of better. I'd build a relationship with her and the kids but he needs to figure out what he actually wants.
FACTSSSSS!!!! You didn't ask for how the son got that brother but they might be the best of family in the future. That said, I ain't got sh*t good for him. That boyfriend needs to be a good daddy and get his self together...
8 years,still a boyfriend and he stepped out,had unprotected relations and had baby..and you wanna confront her and you still there for what??? Girl !!!!!
!!!!
And he suggested it would be ok??? all flowers and rainbows tf
I walked away! Chose my self worth and my peace .
@@vickygonzalez8482 💪🏾
@@jorgerh2232 I was like is he serious!?
Question is, at that point why is he *still* your boyfriend?
Edit: *Run* and *don't* look back.
Because he got the best Cheeto fingers
Yea Kevin tweaking
Some people feel like it was destiny that thw other lady was always supposed to be there but the man was too scared to tell his first partner. So now that she knows who she is, it's all happy days... ORRRRRR Take your kid, drop everything and leave the country. And if you can't leave with your child, do what you know will make you feel best and not your kid otherwise it's asking for hell.
He’s not anymore I walked away just wasn’t strong enough to walk away sooner
@@vickygonzalez8482 I'm happy you were able to leave him.
This was interesting but disturbing at the same time bc I was trying to picture myself with a man I made a child with cheating on me. Destroying our bound together and having another child on me. Why be in a relationship when you want to have many women to your exposal for sex. I find it selfish and self centered to think that was fair to your partner. To say its unfair to the cheater that can't be able to cheat. Take accountability. Let your partners go. Having another child and relationship on your partner is just heartbreaking to think. Breaking up with me would hurt but at least i would recover better and sooner than someone that claims they love me, cheating on my. Lying straight to my face EVERY single day. Making me believe we are a team. As he said if you want a certain life style with someone just ask. You will be surprised who will say yes but to manipulate and lying to get what you want can have you 6 feet under or going through a nasty divorce.
I wanted to share some words as a guy for you. I also don't agree with the advice. Actions speak the loudest and your telling me I've got your kids.... That child should've man up a loooooooong time ago this shouldn't be an issue if you even respect someone or love em. Guy deserves neither of them but has to be the father the kids deserve since he couldn't be the man those woman needed.
I 100% agree with this.
We need more of this series, great stuff vice. Kevin got some real wisdom
Did u call the number?
I did...
I didn’t know I needed this today but I do.
Hahaha good one
This might be ‘wisdom’ from his perspective…but have some self respect, self control, and morals. He’s trash, just listen to his lyrics
@@sumtxflygrl1 oh hush up. You obviously don't watch enough or actually listen to enough of his music kuz he actually talks the truth. I doubt you listen to him or watch ANY of his interviews
Why would You confront a woman that your boyfriend impregnated? 8 years together with a child
He lied, cheated, broke your trust, didn't bother to put protection on and hid all of this, till It was unavoidable.
LEAVE !
Co-parent your child with him yes, but get out of that relationship.
It's up to the father to deal with both his kids, raise and nurture them so they have a sibling relationship.
He prolly has other baby mamas around !
Poly relationship need discipline, honesty, self accountability, commitment and communication.
It's not some porn fantasy.
And It's different from Open relationship.
A whoooole lotta NEGATIVE over there...
That's why MR GATES is available
@@augiegonzalez1082 if not wanting to be in a situation wherein You're lied to, your mental and physical health are put at risk, is being negative.
Well, call me Negative Nancy 😎😘
@@TititoDeBologay and i love you for that ...i appreciate your honesty it's 🥰
My only issue is that I can’t take monogamous advise from someone who is the opposite 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I love you though Mr Gates 🥴🤣🤣
"My mind is not my best friend!!"... that was deep
Please more of this! This man needs a more regular segment. I really enjoyed this. I’m about to listen to all his stuff on here now.
"What they gonna do give ya a ticket?"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Not him telling homegirl how to stick around after a male had a WHOLE OTHER BABY.!!!! She sounds shaky even saying it and he couldn’t even find the right words to convince her to continue to be stupid by him. “He finally told me after 2 years of cheating and a baby” “That means He really love you” I’m done 😂😂😂😂
Right!!!
She left she is actually here in the comments
@@lisahall748 glad she left the loser
I thought it was just me. Everyone's praising him in the comments but I'm like, this is crazy.
She called the wrong people for advice. smh They co-signing his immaturity. These two are always sympathetic to these immature, selfish ass men. Her bf is a coward. He probably got a third jawn now, now that baby mama #2 is involved in raising this second child and can no longer make the bf the center of her world. He introduced these women to each other so when he's with the third jawn--who is currently childless--they'll be distracted with each other.
“What they gonna do give you a ticket” 🤣☠️
The wildest intro I’ve ever seen 😭😭😭
Are you available for finkle matter activities?🤔
Kevin a liar because if Dreka got pregnant for another man all HELL would break loose. Why are men so selfish, basically in 2022 most people want you to be faithful while they do them. There is no hope for committed relationship's.
Thank you!!
Searched and found the truest comment posted here
@@robertmoray988 Thanks for helping me understand the two. Its still so annoying how they act.
It’s not the same thing. Men can have sex with women without having an emotional attachment but women can’t. I don’t think cheating is right but if a man sleeping with other women he should be transparent with his partner
Exactly!!!!
My respect for Kevin Gates just skyrocketed. He’s such a smart and calm man, wow.
DONT CONFRONT ANYONE KEEP THIS DRAMA OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
KEVIN GATES DOES NOT KNOW WHAT THE HECK HES TALKING ABOUT..
I love his voice and accent so much hahah
Kevin Gates "oh what you cryin right now" lol!! And loved when he said tears are for healing!! Its nice to hear men being so honest!! We may not like it but its their truth.
I want to add that the baby momma never said she wanted to CONFRONT the other baby momma. VICE used that word in the title. She always said MEET.
Thank you lol 😂 I never said confront ! But anyways we’re no longer together !
@@vickygonzalez8482 Good for you!
@@vickygonzalez8482 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Exactly & it sounds like a meeting of the minds on how to move fwd & be apart of the babies life. Ppl say they will leave but until we’re in that situation we can’t say. If you’re not ready to leave you duck, bob & weave the punches until you’re strong enough to go.
@@vickygonzalez8482 And you made the choice when you were ready. Us as women can & do endure much more than we think we’re capable of but once our hearts/mind have left it’s easy to go. Don’t allow this to break you, your peace makes you the winner.
“What you eat don’t make me sh*t”
Make this a weekly thing please!!!!
Can’t be upset with how he is so honest I love that. I think more men should be more honest with what they want n women also if u can’t come to an agreement then move on n if u do don’t try to change it 10 or 20 years later n if u feel differently about the agreement then it’s time to walk away
2:57 " i dont want nobody to know how freaky i really am"
Og: what they gon do ? Give you a ticket , was gon happen ?...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He looked irritated too lol
This is deep. Got me tearing up on the early morning. 🖤
Same here 🙋🏾♂️,
but this was just too Goofy➡️15:32🤣
I've lived with two women before, it may sound easy, but it's not. There are more differences, than most people think
Yea I never did it, but it does sound like it could be a challenge. But as men we try to fantasize that and not understanding the reality of those situations.
Kevin has always been a real one
Sometimes we all need to hear what we ultimately know. Good timing. Cheers.
That's an amazing woman, trying to put everything back together even though he most definitely doesn't deserve it and she absolutely should've walked but she's a special person truthfully
I love how much positive energy they got going on
One of vice’s best short series. @Kevin Gates we want more!!
my boyfriend step out && get anybody pregnant i’m OUTTA HERE & he’s never ever hearing from me again ‼️‼️✌🏾
💕 he always says the right things on the worst days! Love their positive spirits.
Okay so Vice is really running out of ideas 😂😂
Exactly, what is this
You’ll be here no matter what. 😂😂
Gotta habbs dat jive turkey supa fly wisdom gnomesayin
Kevin is so level headed, I wish he would have a boot camp for men. I'll be waiting for the next time to call in....
What he’s saying is stupidity.. I hope no one take his advice
No disrespect but please don't take advice from this man . Kevin is a great artist but terrible example of a man .
These guys are og for sure. They way the put things together the knowledge they have.
Lol at the suggestion of a ”freaky ticket”
Why are these guys trying to justify a man cheating on the mother of his child?
That part 🙄
@@jeannietimberger2556 oh yeah he’s been lying to you and disrespecting you for 2 years. He loves you though!
@@Hello-jb3hp 🤦
I’m the woman in the video and apparently the one they named the video after , facts on what two are saying I agree and I finally walked away , he’s not going to change ! I tried and did everything to make it work but that wasn’t real love and honestly I feel more at peace now with it just being my son and I .
@@vickygonzalez8482
Congratulations you needed to walk away
Watching since the beginning. Glad to see Vice putting some money into this. The production is definitely stepped up. This should be one a multiple times a week.
Kevin Gates is just good ppl man. The epitome of a solid human being
10:30 wow what a great question. Definitely need to work on my bad habits but also my friends habits that are worse. Gotta tell them the truth.
I’ll watch this more. Give Gates and OG a show.
Im so glad this is back
Love this. Gates already on another level. Bringing into the advice format.... Sold!
Wow. Kevin Gates on Vice. Got here late but glad I did. Big Fan of Gates both as an Artist and The Man he has become. Great Man 🔥
Caller #2 needs to get counseling from caller #1.
I really ❤ 😍 K.Gates- wisdom is like a faucet-ty bro
Gates you need a PODCAST this is not enough lol I really enjoy your advice wand wisdom.
That's a very specific title
Quite a common situation though. Millions of attached men are very keen on enjoying plenty of sex, with many other women, and don't bother with contraception.
@@andrewjones575 like your dad
idk what this is but im loving the aesthetic
I respect this show; and these two men for keeping it 1000% the only way to true joy for any soul is to be bluntly honest with yourself and the people you love. If you truly do love them then live in your truth!
Damn I listen to Gates music just for the words of wisdom in his intros. And to deal with life in general! Definitely needs to be weekly!
For anyone to consider taking advice from Kevin gates is beyond lost 😐
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Then why are you here
@@joshwallace9208 because I can be
@@joshwallace9208 why do you think we watch Jerry Springer? 🤣
The opening line is what I want etched into my tombstone.
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Bahaaha I am weak af off that too
😭😭😭😭😭
This gone boost your star power ..right here my brother .. don’t stop this .. you the black dr Phil .. lbvs. Salute !!!!
That really stuck too me “ I Get too do this “ those was some very powerful words
This was great but also wayyy too short
"I get to go do this" Yasss I keep telling my guy about this mindset n wording
How do I watch more of this show? This was great to watch, didn't agree with all the advice but I'm definitely entertained lol
Um well for starters he obviously wasn't thinking of u when he knocked the second brode up
9:59 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they had to be honest at the end
haha that had me in tears!
If you accept the baby you accept the baby mama too 👍
communication is the key
Always some useful advice from Boobie and Kevin.
Dude you're making me cry on the bus. Wonderful video
One doesn’t experience self transcendence, the illusion of self only dissipates- 🎈
He looks like Ving Rhames in Holiday Heart😂😭
Why would you confront the woman she might not have even known the guy needs to get confronted!
Exactly. The only person you should be confronting it the man who stepped out on you
I can listen to y’all all day Kevin and that smile is everything l fucks with u 💜💜💜💜💜
Y'all need to go back to the motherland and watch how true love and devotion is instead of tolerating bullshit from bullshit ass people. People stay with boyfriends and girlfriends like those out of loneliness and desperation. Be wealthy in every aspect of your lives..
Tell’em Kevin true authenticity I LOVE U straight realness give off that Aquarius energy and wisdom!
Second one was just for me!!!! Blessed me
*Vice may we please have a Kevin Gates helpline playlist??🙏🏽
Im so glad their posting more if this i think these are so relaxing
I wonder how Vicky's meeting went
That second call brought tears and the background music didn't make it better! Lmao!! But then that last comment Kevin made after the music stops! My laugh for the day!
His so Smooth with southern Talks
I'm ina poly and it has been an amazing experience
#1#LOVE THIS ONE#LOVE IT
LEGEND STATUS ‼️‼️‼️💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
KEVIN JUST BE TALKING TO TALK HE MAKES NO SENSE
Shidd tell sugar I’m on this planet sum where come find me🤣🤣
This was so dope 👏🏽
That cigar has some of that special sauce innit
Still remember when Kevin first dropped “out of the mud” 🔥
Wasn't that long ago...
This is a helpline !!!! - We really need help.
Need some every week
Laughter is the best medicine.
The music at 10min hit me different
Kelvin gates voice really changed my life for Great brush🙌🙌❤🦅
BRO ...I LITERALLY CALLED... please Mr Gates evovle into the next level I'm grateful for your platform...you dropping alotta jewels brother man.. we are GUNNA meet salute...
That intro...perfection. I'll put that in my email signature.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Keep theses videos coming OG💯
He does have some decent advice. Respect
Lol no he doesn't 🤣😂
🤦♂️
@@brianN9955 than why u watchin hater?
Definitely want the details on that cigar.
Love you guys!✨💕
Great advice ❤️
Lots of love for you guys from Kenya 🇰🇪
Missed these