The problem is that this isnt uncommon. The husband expects wife to just appease the MIL no matter how bad and then tries to claim he as the husband is a victim. MIL is completely in the wrong and the husband needs to man up and enforce the boundary.
Good for her! LEAVE NOW! That husband and MIL are toxic. This gave me a stomach ache watching this scene! She needs to protect her daughter and herself.
I'm about half way through this drama the husband is not a bad guy he just has no back bone. He needs to tell that mom to but out of his marriage. All the drama so far in their marriage has been caused by the mom she is way to invested in them and controlling
@@tyd1671his actions of always placating that evil witch of a mother and expecting his wife and daughter to do likewise - despite the cost to their mental wellbeing - make him a bad guy.
He's a pathetic excuse for a man. His wife is not asking him to stop loving or helping his mother but to set boundaries with her and stick to them. His wife and child are basically being tortured by his mother, and his response is for his wife to just to put up with it. The wife needs to stay in this unit and change the locks. That way they can only visit when she says it's alright. To save herself and her daughter, she MUST set boundaries for her husband and his family.
Did I understand this correctly? The wife and child moved out, the husband/father comes for dinner, but he's not in the new house 20 minutes, has time to just wash his hands and take his first bite of dinner and his mother is texting him that she needs him? Also that he feels he's stuck in the middle of both women and that he's going back to the mother's house to spend the night placating her and leaving his wife and child alone? Who is he married to; the wife or his mother?? He can thank his mother for raising a weak, spineless, mama's boy who can't stand up to her in defending his wife, child and their family unit and demand that she respect that and them: if she can't, or won't, she doesn't get to spend time with them or her grandchild. But either way, she certainly doesn't get to spout toxic nonsense about whether or not they have more children just to please her sick desire for more grandchildren, specifically, grandsons and not granddaughters. That woman practically caused the wife a mental collapse: even though she's moved out, her tentacles are still reaching the son in his brief visits with his own family. She needs to be cut off, but the son isn't man enough to put his foot down and establish boundaries (don't call me or text me unless it is an emergency: I have my own family now), and if she crosses the line, she needs to suffer the consequences. If he wasn't such a weak, gutless, insecure man, he'd had established those boundaries long before the first household became such a war zone with the mother interfering and dictating what their married life should be. If mama can't cut the apron strings from her son, he should do it, especially now that his wife has made her move by leaving that sick household.
The enormous pressure put on these wee children. When do they get to play, rest and enjoy being a kid? Doesn’t seem like much of a childhood. And that husband is such a Mama’s boy it defies belief.
I don't think the MIL changed after her son got married, the son was always a mommy's boy and she was always controlling. All the people saying the wife should leave him are wrong, she should have never married him in the first place.
Even the good word says sons leave their parents to form a new family with his wife. It's ok to help parents but the parents also need to know their boundaries. Like my mom used to say, there can only be one queen under one roof.
When he says that he's stuck in the middle, what can he say to his mother. I would say shut up old woman you gave birth to me, but she is the one i sleep with. And im going to grow old with 👍
It's not just Chinese MIL who can be vile evil bitches. What all future MIL should do is remember you know him as a son you do NOT know him as a husband boyfriend or father. If you have raised your son right this kind of scenario should not happen. The poor woman is close to a nervous breakdown. My own MIL was like this initially until on day I had, had enough. My daughter was two weeks old and because my husband was helping cook dinner for our sons and us, his mother arrived and went into an absolute melt down at one stage I had to shut myself and my baby in the bathroom. Husband told her to get out. Our daughter was born with a few problems and had colic. I had 4 other children to take care of as well as be there for my husband and my mother who had just lost my dad. I was absolutely exhausted. It took m and MIL two years to make up.
I'm so sorry you had to endure that. I was blessed with a MIL who was the sweetest, most thoughtful, respectful, kind, loving, endearing woman on the planet. My marriage ended within 3 years because of his chronic infidelity and I just ran out of forgiveness for that so I ended it, but my friendship, relationship and two-sided adoration concerning my MIL remains to this day: we met in 1973 and today, she is 87 and I am 71 and we still love each other deeply and stay in touch as often as we can as best friends now. I wish you had had a MIL like her: I'm sorry your experience wasn't one you could treasure as I treasure mine.
Чем больше таких дорам смотрю, тем больше убеждаюсь, что в Китае большенство мужчин инфантильные тряпки. Любовь к родителям не должна рушить другие жизни. У тебя же есть глаза, ты же видишь, что мать не адекватная, так реши проблему, поставь мать на место. Только потому что она тебя родила и вырастила, не значит, что она должна творить что ей вздумается.
Но к сожалению культ почитания старших,а особенно родителей,очень сильно развит.пойдешь против воли родителей,окажешься не сыновним,а то и вообще отрекутся😢
По мне тут страшнее уже не это, а то что у девочки начинаются психологические расстройства. С которыми если не работать, могут стать очень даже серьезными. И такая бабушка, из-за отношения к ребенку такое происходит недостойна общаться с внучкой. Ведь от этого общения только вред...
Из девочки хотят сделать мальчика,только недавно в Китае разрешили троих детей иметь,а раньше только одного и все хотели мальчика.Было много селективных абортов,а потом запретили врачам говорить пол ребенка
Que metida duegra infierno entre dos nadie mas ok himbre ya es edposo padre tiene reponsabilidsdes punto digue diendo hiji du madre no du espisa ok ella tanbien hizo su vid es du karma ok cafs pareja lo suyo intimo duyo perdonal syegra de msrche edte du csss .vale ok
Minimum 9.5 months and mine was almost 10.5 months. No miscalculation but early problems delayed delivery. Second child 12 days late and I still get teased about being late for everything 😄
The problem is that this isnt uncommon. The husband expects wife to just appease the MIL no matter how bad and then tries to claim he as the husband is a victim. MIL is completely in the wrong and the husband needs to man up and enforce the boundary.
Good for her! LEAVE NOW! That husband and MIL are toxic. This gave me a stomach ache watching this scene! She needs to protect her daughter and herself.
I'm about half way through this drama the husband is not a bad guy he just has no back bone. He needs to tell that mom to but out of his marriage. All the drama so far in their marriage has been caused by the mom she is way to invested in them and controlling
@@tyd1671I'd seen the whole drama, great characters through out.
@@tyd1671his actions of always placating that evil witch of a mother and expecting his wife and daughter to do likewise - despite the cost to their mental wellbeing - make him a bad guy.
@@tyd1671if you dont mind me asking what's the name of this drama
@@thatdellgirl14 I think it's mom wow
He's a pathetic excuse for a man. His wife is not asking him to stop loving or helping his mother but to set boundaries with her and stick to them. His wife and child are basically being tortured by his mother, and his response is for his wife to just to put up with it.
The wife needs to stay in this unit and change the locks. That way they can only visit when she says it's alright. To save herself and her daughter, she MUST set boundaries for her husband and his family.
Did I understand this correctly? The wife and child moved out, the husband/father comes for dinner, but he's not in the new house 20 minutes, has time to just wash his hands and take his first bite of dinner and his mother is texting him that she needs him? Also that he feels he's stuck in the middle of both women and that he's going back to the mother's house to spend the night placating her and leaving his wife and child alone? Who is he married to; the wife or his mother?? He can thank his mother for raising a weak, spineless, mama's boy who can't stand up to her in defending his wife, child and their family unit and demand that she respect that and them: if she can't, or won't, she doesn't get to spend time with them or her grandchild. But either way, she certainly doesn't get to spout toxic nonsense about whether or not they have more children just to please her sick desire for more grandchildren, specifically, grandsons and not granddaughters. That woman practically caused the wife a mental collapse: even though she's moved out, her tentacles are still reaching the son in his brief visits with his own family. She needs to be cut off, but the son isn't man enough to put his foot down and establish boundaries (don't call me or text me unless it is an emergency: I have my own family now), and if she crosses the line, she needs to suffer the consequences. If he wasn't such a weak, gutless, insecure man, he'd had established those boundaries long before the first household became such a war zone with the mother interfering and dictating what their married life should be. If mama can't cut the apron strings from her son, he should do it, especially now that his wife has made her move by leaving that sick household.
The enormous pressure put on these wee children. When do they get to play, rest and enjoy being a kid? Doesn’t seem like much of a childhood. And that husband is such a Mama’s boy it defies belief.
Grandma needs to sleep with her son if she can't let him be a man a take care of is own family the wife comes first!!
Sometimes it makes me wonder if the sicko mothers want to sleep with son. 😂😂
I don't think the MIL changed after her son got married, the son was always a mommy's boy and she was always controlling. All the people saying the wife should leave him are wrong, she should have never married him in the first place.
Надо любить и уважать того человека кого выбрал твой сын и понимать что после женитьбы его семья главное в его жизни
Even the good word says sons leave their parents to form a new family with his wife. It's ok to help parents but the parents also need to know their boundaries. Like my mom used to say, there can only be one queen under one roof.
When he says that he's stuck in the middle, what can he say to his mother. I would say shut up old woman you gave birth to me, but she is the one i sleep with. And im going to grow old with 👍
Tan entrometidas son las familias. Nooo.. Eso no es, en mi cultura.. 😊😊😊Gracias por donde naci
Is the actress who plays the wife the same one who played the First Empress in Ruyi's Royal Love ?
Yes.
It's not just Chinese MIL who can be vile evil bitches. What all future MIL should do is remember you know him as a son you do NOT know him as a husband boyfriend or father. If you have raised your son right this kind of scenario should not happen. The poor woman is close to a nervous breakdown. My own MIL was like this initially until on day I had, had enough. My daughter was two weeks old and because my husband was helping cook dinner for our sons and us, his mother arrived and went into an absolute melt down at one stage I had to shut myself and my baby in the bathroom. Husband told her to get out. Our daughter was born with a few problems and had colic. I had 4 other children to take care of as well as be there for my husband and my mother who had just lost my dad. I was absolutely exhausted. It took m and MIL two years to make up.
I'm so sorry you had to endure that. I was blessed with a MIL who was the sweetest, most thoughtful, respectful, kind, loving, endearing woman on the planet. My marriage ended within 3 years because of his chronic infidelity and I just ran out of forgiveness for that so I ended it, but my friendship, relationship and two-sided adoration concerning my MIL remains to this day: we met in 1973 and today, she is 87 and I am 71 and we still love each other deeply and stay in touch as often as we can as best friends now. I wish you had had a MIL like her: I'm sorry your experience wasn't one you could treasure as I treasure mine.
Well it had to be done ,your probably relieved having enough stress already
Just move out and leave that old battle axe!
Interesting story line addressing difficult family issues.
The son needs to grow a pair!!
Чем больше таких дорам смотрю, тем больше убеждаюсь, что в Китае большенство мужчин инфантильные тряпки. Любовь к родителям не должна рушить другие жизни. У тебя же есть глаза, ты же видишь, что мать не адекватная, так реши проблему, поставь мать на место. Только потому что она тебя родила и вырастила, не значит, что она должна творить что ей вздумается.
Но к сожалению культ почитания старших,а особенно родителей,очень сильно развит.пойдешь против воли родителей,окажешься не сыновним,а то и вообще отрекутся😢
Самое страшное, когда мать разрушает семью и постоянно науськивает сына! А сыночек тупой, не бережет свою семью и не думает о своей старости!
По мне тут страшнее уже не это, а то что у девочки начинаются психологические расстройства. С которыми если не работать, могут стать очень даже серьезными. И такая бабушка, из-за отношения к ребенку такое происходит недостойна общаться с внучкой. Ведь от этого общения только вред...
Qual o nome para assistir?
Is this Empress from Ruyi?
Yes
That what happens when one take things for granted 😂😂
Name of program?
Name drama
He is a coward when his mom speaks
皇后❤
They are trained to follow the parents in all things, I couldn’t take it
English subtitles please and thank you
Надеюсь она ушла от него ,и встретила достойного мужчину. А за девочку или мальчика, отвечает мужские хромосомы, уже доказано.
El casado casa quiere.. por los hijos deciden los padres no los abuelos
Qué sociedad tan terrorífica! Prefiero la muerte a vivir así de sometidas y torturada por todos. 😢
What episode is this
Ele tem que aprender que cada um na sua casa,ele c a Família e sua jararaca mãe sózibha.
Из девочки хотят сделать мальчика,только недавно в Китае разрешили троих детей иметь,а раньше только одного и все хотели мальчика.Было много селективных абортов,а потом запретили врачам говорить пол ребенка
Does anyone know the name of this
MOM WOW,is C-drama name.
His mother is a horrible person
This is so sad
Wooow empresses Tian in Ruyi love in the palace.
Hijo grande mama esa lo que hace es destruirle su vida con hijos esoosa ok
Never EVer Marry A Mama's boy.
Essa história macabra de morar com os sogros é ridícula.
Mamaboy 😱🙄
It's disgustingly pathetic
Почему такой плохой перевод русских субтитров?
No puede ser que la suegra los maneje así!
El hombre tendria que dormir con la madre...ella es la que manda en su vida e intimidad. Que folle con ella!
Bad wife.... Not mature!
Que metida duegra infierno entre dos nadie mas ok himbre ya es edposo padre tiene reponsabilidsdes punto digue diendo hiji du madre no du espisa ok ella tanbien hizo su vid es du karma ok cafs pareja lo suyo intimo duyo perdonal syegra de msrche edte du csss .vale ok
Suegra es locasa ok nino edts perdidi lo tienen congundidi titalmente bsile. Cfeoortes edts frito chico ese ok
episode number pls
Sexo y tener hijos menos i mas no se hace ella querra nietos hacen pareja ok
Pregnancy does not last 10 months in humans
Minimum 9.5 months and mine was almost 10.5 months. No miscalculation but early problems delayed delivery. Second child 12 days late and I still get teased about being late for everything 😄
Gestation is usually around 40 weeks. 4 weeks a month. 10 months.